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| 5 | I hope she got picked 🙄I spent the past year of my life as this woman. I was so embarrassed by how long it took me to orgasm and I was in my head about what my partner thought about my body and how things looked/smelled that I just stopped having any desire to attempt to cum because it wasn’t enjoyable anymore. I’d tell him it was fine when he finished and after that we could just cuddle/watch whatever shit TV show he wanted. I’m hoping that spending some time alone and working on myself will put me in a position wher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 23 | I feel…asexual?I also started loosing a lot of my sex drive since I found FDS. I was seeing a guy who I had moved in with less than a year into dating (I know, very bad choice on my part, and the relationship is over) and our sex life kept decreasing more and more. I feel like I had such a high “sex drive” because I wanted to impress a man into staying with me, but I couldn’t keep the act up forever and that’s why he was done with me. I’m concerned my sex drive won’t come back at all, but it’s better than bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Vetting Men by their job positionSo my dad works for a trash company. Still makes great money but a lot more chill. Folks who work for banks/the government are a little more high end/glamorous and come with a bigger ego usually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:28 AM |
| 9 | Vetting Men by their job positionMy dad is an accountant. Very loving and kind man, maybe a little socially awkward, but generally a good dude. It can be a stressful job though and sometimes he’s gotten a little short with us because of it. But he also works in a less glamorous field. I’d probably avoid high end accountants. A little too egotistical from what I’ve heard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Vetting Men by their job positionMilitary is a hard no. Ex-boyfriend was in the Air Force and he was always tired, gone overnights, and refused to do anything on the weekends so he could “enjoy his time off”. Not to mention the casual misogyny that his work place encouraged. All in all a bad time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 8 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!I've had multiple guys make the joke about "I promise I'm not a serial killer/rapist". Like, maybe that would be funnier if I didn't have to actually worry about you being either one of those things! Why do men think it's okay to joke about the safety of women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 8 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!I was on the dating app scene for a while before I met my current partner. So many guys would see that I enjoyed hiking on my bio and request our first date be a hike. How do guys not realize how much of a serial killer it makes them sound like? "Hey, I know that you don't know my last name, the car I drive, where I work, or anything about me but I think we should go into the woods, where no one else is around, to determine our 'connection'". Thanks, but no thanks, I'd rather not be on an episod… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 22 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏I’m 5’8 but on dating apps would put 5’9 because enough men kept making comments in person that I was “taller than they thought”. Dude I’ve been the same height since 6th grade. You just want to lie to yourself about how tall you really are. It’s easier to add the inch and lose some matches than constantly be treated like my height was a surprise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:23 AM |
| 23 | the image speaks for itselfMy boyfriend is a maintainer for the Air Force, and still takes good enough care of his hands for them to be soft. If a man who fixes planes can keep them decent, a man who spends most his time playing video games can too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.That, or they start to act like you’re going to leave them at any second for another woman (and that’s worse for some reason than leaving them for another man?) I’ve had previous experience with women, though I don’t identify as bisexual, and apparently that opens the door for every man to push their sexual fantasies and insecurities on me. Women can never win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:41 PM |
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