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Thanks man we should talk! Question even though she withhold the child was she able to still get you for child support? Not to be a bad man but I hate the very thought of paying CS for a kid I never see. I almost rather her take the kid and leave than that so I can just start over wiser with a better woman and not make half of these mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 02:18 PM
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Any recommendations on what to do? Just leave eat the child support and hope I get to be in the kid’s life? Honestly I’m 35 if I have to leave I rather just end up doing it now while I can still date women that are able and wanting to have kids. Edit: If she miscarriages I am 100% out.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 02:13 PM
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We are social creatures by nature! I don’t think hobbies are enough to cover the it.. you just got to make peace with the loneliness.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 01:35 AM
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Damn what fool did she find for the 3rd time 😬… I wouldn’t touch any woman that’s been divorced twice with a 10 foot pole.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 01:34 AM
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How fucked am I? Would marriage not make it better cause at least I’m assumed to automatically have 50\50 rights to the kid? I’m guessing CS I’m fucked either way.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 12:25 AM
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During that time. Could she file for CS even though I’m not able to see the child?
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 12:23 AM
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Damn!! I literally took screenshots of her text messages with her labeling me a gaslighter and manipulator to a friend..And my friend was like she is gaslighting and manipulating you while accusing you of being one.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 02:23 PM
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Naw he initiated this divorce and he was the one that cheated.. Whatever happens was so bad that he cheated, left the girl he cheated with and still decided he rather have a divorce… not sure how bad things had to be for that.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 12:39 AM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:05 PM
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Thanks I appreciate this. It puts it into perspective. I don’t know why they can’t just say it was good till it wasnt
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:02 PM
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Depends
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 09:28 PM
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Yeah the friends part helps a lot. I got a feeling a lot of people turned to the internet for this exact reason.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 12:11 PM
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Bro have you seen some of these trans girls.. No homo but Id glady take the hottest trans over the oldest woman in the world.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/23 12:52 PM
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Why not? Why is war only reserved for Kings, politicians, and the wealthy?
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:19 PM
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Yup. I intend to filter I dont want a group of armchair generals.
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:18 PM
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Yeah online meetings. I'm going to draft some more details. But I'm thinking. We meet one hour a week.. I'm going to set up a google forum and send out a link. It's free, no charge I just want a group of people who actually want to get better.. this isn't a money grab. However I was thinking about having a penalty for missing meetings maybe $100 or $50 and that money will be used to buy books or X for the other members.
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:17 PM
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Can it be both?
/r/seduction03/11/19 07:12 PM
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Nice bro. It only gets better with time. I will setup an email collection and send a link.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:27 PM
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Tinder is hit or miss depending on age and location. Your university should be your best source. What size town are you in?
/r/seduction03/11/19 02:33 PM
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Intruly appreciate the honesty
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:55 PM
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Damn much respect! Might have to make traveling on my agenda. Didnt mean to sound like a dick if I did was just curiouse. Ive been on and off this journey for years, with little progress. Thanks for the in depth information, sometimes in the PUA worls its hard to tell whats true and whats just marketing bull. I think you confirmed what I suspect in the end this is all self taught, or a solo journey.
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:07 PM
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Okay brah give back. How did you go from zero to hero so fast?
/r/seduction13/04/19 08:04 PM
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Get the hell out of here with that cat call bullshit.
/r/seduction13/04/19 08:01 PM
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Have you even asked her out yet? You yad her nunber for tweeks?
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:03 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:02 PM
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I think that proves the point being successful in life isnt not a requirement nor a guarantee of being good with women.. Its not even a prerequisite... but as long as you dtay approaching and learning from mistakes you will be fine.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:24 PM
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Bro I been where you are. I think its wrong for the other commenters to jump on you. Dude is just dealing with the emotions. Congratulations, you just got payback! Its sweet for about a minute and then life goes back to normal... you will find out. Let me give some direction. I think the growth point for you will be to grow to the point where the rejection doesnt matter. It may take time but trust me life for you will be more peaceful. Why? Because one there how you feel about yourself, your lif…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:47 PM
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Weird flow? I have no idea what you mean by that. Are you attempting to be condescending? Anyways the WHOLE concept of being a "better" person is the thing I hate and is misleading. I get it you have a product to sell. But the whole who you are right now is not good enough until X is bullshit and is fucking a lot of men up... The seduction industry is very predatory and needs customers with low self esteem to charge inflated prices.. Self acceptance is the missing piece for most men, not becomin…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:37 PM
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So then is a successful and confident man defined by having women by their side? I think your statement is essentially what came first the chicken or the egg? Again not to be an ass but I dont see it as productive (even if "true") for men who struggle with women and want to get better with women. I for one am a guy who is good and "successful" on paper, but struggled to meet women. It gets harder outside of college and especially once you turn 30. Instead of asking how many successful men one kn…
/r/seduction31/03/19 11:01 PM
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Cheap first dates than the question really doesnt matter.
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:42 PM
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I here this alot and in the grand scheme of thing this is true. But as someone who has struggled with women and took the "Im going to conquer the world first approach".... the statement is misleading and really vague. As in most things in life you get better by doing. Women are no exception. Being a better person will no more guarantee you success with women than being a better athlete will make you a better basketball player....
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:41 PM
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Wait! You two have been making out for weeks, live together and this is the FIRST time you had sex.. Are you passive or is there something missing?
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:34 PM
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Use the force luke!
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:31 PM
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Is this real?
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:06 AM
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Just curiously what could i order at the bar if I dont drink? I know it sounds like a stupid question but when Im in the bar and there is only three people and Im the third not drinking whatbdo you order?
/r/seduction30/03/19 09:44 AM
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Crap I figured such. The god damn internet makes it seem like you should be doing everything. Example In order to get better with women you should be going out 3 times a week AND workout AND have money AND have an organized home AND have a busy social life..
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:38 AM
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I wish, 10 years ago someone sat me in a dark room chained me to a chair and forced me to watch this.. The fact that "improvement doesnt feel like 'yay! Im winning.' But more like oh shit! Look at everything I got to do.' Lets me know Im on the right path.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:01 PM
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Style is so underrated.. A good style will GIVE you more opportunities but if you don't have the balls to open than it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:25 PM
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Great post! Question for you, so at what point should a guy set dating aside to focus on his life and at what point should he just do both? This has been confusing me lately. I'm not overly satisfied with where my life is. At first I thought dating is the missing piece, so I dived into the game.. I took a lot of rejections but after a recent success.. I began to question if dating is the missing piece.
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:23 PM
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Troll account
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:21 PM
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I think "how to make frienda qnd influence people" is garbage. Its a fluff book.
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:56 PM
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Why is this downvoted?
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:53 PM
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Dinner/ drinks same thing. Infact what I usually do is ask them to go to applebees for drinks..
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:01 AM
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You arent the only one. Chill.. second do you even go out brah? If so do you even get rejected? Its simole you want more than do more?
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:41 PM
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Balls up. Congrats man you took your shot. Aint nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:48 AM
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What if you are solo?
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:45 AM
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Good luck with that the PUA movement is dead. Long live RSD and Mark Manson. The community isnt what it use to be.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:42 AM
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It puts you in close contact with those woman AND most importantly get you out of the house.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:40 AM
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Hey man I'm interested?
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:37 PM
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Thanks man this is really here. How did you come up with the solution, also how do you use this to your advantage in dating or at least limit the disadvantages
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:03 AM
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Yes new experiences are definitely a plus, but even more valuable is reflecting on those experiences. I suggest keeping a journal. Build discipline and committment by forcing your self to journal daily. Record your thoughts and occasionally review the journal to learn about yourself. I really think finding who you are, who you want to be, and being that person is the most important step any man can take... without this knowledge everything else will confuse you and you will be a ship without dir…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:17 PM
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I think others help because the truth is... there is no competition. Scarcity is a myth to the high value man. AND, one helps others in one area of their life in the Hope's that person will return the favor with help in another.. for instance I might get help with woman and in return I help you with your finances etc..
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:30 PM
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Since when has 5'9 been considered short? Brah, you just need to work on inner game.. it's the first puzzle piece you will work on and the last one you will solve (if at all). Stoicism, new experiences, skills, etc..
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:48 PM
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It's kind of a catch 22. Even our highly educated people make less money. I think the real pain killer is that once people become more marketable they just leave (would be my plan as well, but I work in local goverment). A big city C student could rack up in a rural state with experience and then leave for a higher paying position on the east coast.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:52 PM
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I feel you brother... the path wasn't connecting and I started to lose hope. Talking to you all and the hope spread here has reassured me this is the path.. I'm just in the tunnel.. Also it has made me realize I dont think I really ever truly committed my self to trap. I've dived in here and there and cherry picked but I haven't went all in..
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:26 AM
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Thanks that is what I suspect as well.. funny thing about playing on hard it's not the lack of or the actual scarcity that hits you it's all the mental things.. I watch guys taller than me get away with shit that I would either be weak if I did it or too aggressive and compensating.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:23 AM
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170-165 keep in mind 13% bf.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:21 AM
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Yeah it's the south.. you would be close to the top 25% out here.. might want to buy rental property.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:21 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:48 PM
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I think this theory is correct but fr one caveat. I believe what one could do to who is not in 20% is move and change locations what is considered hot in one region may be a dud in another and vice veresa.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:14 AM
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I believe this to be completely true.. one thing that has been hard for me is it seems like everytime I raise my opinion of myself and ask for more the world tells me no either not for people like me or I dont deserve it. The. Again maybe I should just expect resistance from the world.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:09 AM
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Thanks bro.. yeah I turned to fighting to make me make me feel more of a man. I started learning boxing then mma, but then I realize getting into street fights at my age is low value behavior. Been lost ever since.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:06 AM
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No none of the above.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:03 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:02 AM
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Thanks man. It's like no matter what I do to improve people still see me as some weakling.. I'm not sure if it's how I come off or if it's just the nature of being small.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:02 AM
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State where I live it's pretty good. The median income is 28 or 25k
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:00 AM
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Thanks for the reading advice I have never been suggested this books before I will give it a try.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:58 AM
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THANKS! The biggest take away from this that scares me is that it oozes out. I thought I've done my best to lock it up. Yes, I care too much about what people think about me.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:57 AM
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I'm not a master PUA or even that good with women. Im just an old man who has taken a couple of Ls. Use this as fuel, but dont beat yourself up over it. Truth be told women cant be controlled, only influenced.. everything works some of the time and nothing works all the time.
/r/seduction15/06/18 11:17 AM
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No it's not the same... enforcing your boundaries is simply doing whatever you said you where going to do if a person crosses them... standing up for your self is whining and complaining to people, or even threatening them not to cross you... if you enforce your boundaries than standing up for yourself is not necessary.. Examples boss talks shit to you, enforcing your boundaries could be simple as walking away while standing up for yourself requires you to give the other person notice.
/r/seduction15/04/18 05:08 AM
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I learned this from a podcast recently and agree.. if you have firm boundaries and enforce those boundaries than standing up for yourself is completely unnecessary.
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:32 AM
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Just want to add. I too did boxing to build confidence and it DOES work.. In fact in the MMA sport world boxing is know as the confidence builder and BJJ is known as the humbler... There is some truth in that from my experience. I now walk through clubs like the man cause I know that if a dude started shit I could beat him like a child, or at the very least hold my own... Boxing is better than walking around with a gun because YOU are the gun.
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:19 PM
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The I appreciate the honest feed back. I read half of mark mason's models it's a good book but I still think sets and routines are still a good tool.
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:07 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:05 PM
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