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The best part is - it's basically free as well!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 08:58 PM
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Omg that’s such a typical pyramid scheme pitch.... Firstly- you have problems!! Secondly- I’m better than you because of wait for it .... this magical solution that could make YOU better!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 09:37 PM
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23 & Caribbean here. Believe me - at 15 you're right in the middle of the awkward stage, and it may not feel like it, but you're still super young. If you're not already, put energy into working on the social anxiety/depression - those things will hold you back for years if you don't get a handle on them. Makeup isn't about changing your face, and at 15 it can come off as trying too hard. u/gelbbear is right about keeping it minimal. As a Black girl - we have incredibly versatile hair. You said …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 03:36 PM
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Looking for recommendations for recipe blogs/websites with reliable recipes! Found a lot of Pinterest ones that end up in r/ExpectationVsReality situations. Also, recipe storage ideas! Preferably compact and on paper (rather than electronic)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:31 PM
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Firstly, get back into shape. For me, 'shape' isn't a specific weight, it's a certain fitness level. I've done weightlifting for 5 years, and love being strong as well as the aesthetics. For any ladies who are scared of looking "bulky" from weights, check out some of the progress pics on r/StrongCurves. There's a ton of info there but feel free to PM me with questions. Secondly, get inspired by recipes again. I got one of those subscription food boxes, and it's really motivated me to start tryin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:27 PM
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Clear boundaries. That's all that is needed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 08:23 AM
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Possibly unpopular opinion, but I'm a little of a Valentine's Day skeptic. It feels overly commercialized (if that makes sense) - like a forced day of over-the-top and expensive gestures of love. SO and I discussed, and we both decided that we don't need a day to show that we love/care about each other. We both put the work in on a daily basis to make each other feel special. His love language is acts of service, so I make sure that I do something a little extra for him a few times each week, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 11:11 AM
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The term 'Ikea house' really sums up what I've been trying to avoid - staged clutter. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 09:39 AM
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Thank you! I've started the colour theme idea, going with teal & purple.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 09:38 AM
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Any shops you'd recommend? I'm worried about buying stuff from there and it being a r/ExpectationVsReality situation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:53 AM
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I've just bought & started to furnish my own place (small 1bd apartment). I have the basics (bed, sofa, coffee table), but how do I get to that next level of personalization etc?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:50 AM
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I read your comment and immediately glanced at a very dusty baseboard. BRB.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:49 AM
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Microfiber ones! Also, coffee filters (the paper kind) are great for cleaning glass as they're dust-free.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:48 AM
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Seriously? I've never heard of that!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 09:32 AM
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I find my leafy veg expires way too fast - any tips? I think the takeaway is to have a 'base' of non-perishables (spices, pasta, beans etc), meat/dairy to supplement, and buy fresh (fruit/veg) to add to that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 02:36 AM
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Not sure why you got downvoted. I've had the same experience with freezing meat. Also the 'thawing liquid' from a lot of veg is good to use in broth!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 02:32 AM
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I'll check it out, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 05:17 AM
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Ooh that sounds like fun.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 11:31 PM
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I do the exact same thing with my SO of ~5 months. Every little irrational thought turns into hours of 'what if' type worries. So.... I make an effort to be the absolute best girlfriend ever - in the end, all I can control is my own life, and my own behaviour. Additionally, instead of trying to ignore the thoughts (which I feel works for some people but not me), I delve into them, but put a time limit on it. I'll pinpoint exactly what I'm afraid of (being cheated on? him secretly thinking I'm no…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:36 AM
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I'd seen this acronym and didn't make the connection.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:33 AM
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Shit will be hung :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 04:23 PM
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I just ran into this with a sofa I was about to buy online - it would have made the place look like a dollhouse!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 04:23 PM
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Question: 22, and have just bought my first apartment. Tiny little place, but it's all mine! Boyfriend will be visiting frequently as he lives 10min away, and both our workplaces are in the area. What sort of things can I do to make it a feminine space that's also welcoming to him?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 07:25 PM
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So what's going to stop him from leaving you for the next girl when you two have a 'rough period'? I'm a firm believe in the 'once a cheater, always a cheater' thing, and even on a personality/character basis, I wouldn't be with a guy who is that fickle. If you have a problem in a LTR, you fix it, not jump ship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 08:07 AM
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Ha, mine is 2 days away from Christmas. There are ups and downs! Baking is a great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 11:17 PM
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That's very valid. How did you come to this arrangement, or was it just unspokenly decided on?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 11:10 PM
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Focus on fit, and overall shape. I don't believe in changing your entire colour scheme/personality to fit something else, but it sounds like you're willing to accept 'edits', which is awesome. I know FFA isn't always the best source for 'feminine' dress, but here are two inspo albums that mix the 'mostly black' but with less pants etc. Album 1 Album 2
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 03:58 AM
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I'm on your side here: i was TOTALLY expecting an argument for black/white schools. Even phrasing it as 'gender segregated' would have been better. I mean, google search 'segregation': the first 3 results are to do with race...
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:16 PM
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YES. Thank you. Liberalism is idealistic - not to say that it's entirely wrong, there are valid points supported by statistics - but it's pointless when overrun with SJWs and their Oppression Olympics. The world is still mostly conservative.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 05:29 PM
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OP echoes a lot of what I think - and your response is really what we both need to do (CHILL OUT). These things are guidelines. Having broad shoulders doesn't magically disqualify you from attractiveness. If we all were 5'6, blonde, 120lb, 30DD, etc etc etc, this world would be pretty damn boring. Figure out your strengths and use them! Another factor... I can't find the link, but 'controllable attractiveness' is often mentioned on this sub. For example... if I had a big nose that took 1 imagina…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 05:15 AM
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Wow, I'm an idiot. I read your comment and thought "She's dating a 7 year old?!?!?!" Please excuse me while I go and find caffeine...
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 07:43 PM
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The thread will start off with a girl looking for a foundation match. She will make some comment about being 'pale' and immediately receive 50 downvotes because she's 'ignoring her privilege'. Yeah, it is a lot harder to find foundation as a non-white person, but does EVERY SINGLE thread need to come back to it?? I just want to talk about eyeshadow technique, not social justice...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 11:17 PM
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I keep finding 'female' subreddits, subscribing, then realizing they've been pervaded by Feminism, so I either don't participate to avoid downvotes, or just forget them.. /r/xxfitness, /r/AskWomen, and tons of others. all tried, all failed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:13 PM
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1-4/3-12 per day?!?! That would be sort of funny. "Please do not bring me to orgasm."
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:22 AM
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This sort of sounds like bluepill advice - but don't worry. I have the same career-related stress, and I know that it will work itself out in time. You never know what'll be posted on a job board next month/year/week, there are jobs out there you've never even heard of! I've alleviated some of my stress by 'mapping' it out. Currently, my goal is to finish my two degrees (12mths away). Next, is a job search. How can I set myself up for that? Take a resume writing course, make a list of every sing…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:50 PM
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"I've decided not to peak until I'm about 85." Love it!!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:08 PM
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Imagine how good he felt! He left for a minute and his wife came running after him just for a kiss! Willow, your relationship, lifestyle, and chubby farm animals sound like life goals.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 08:30 PM
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Girl same.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 09:11 AM
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Yes, there are a ton of possible topics for posts! I just don't have the time to write them all. Interracial dating, beauty as a black woman, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:53 AM
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Yeah, race is a funny thing in this sub. I doubt it's a 'racist' sub, but I think the vast majority of women here are white, so the discussion tends to not be about race. However... there have been two VERY offensive posts about black women (since I've been here, anyway), but the mods have been excellent with removing them.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 06:17 AM
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Yes, but there are SO many other variables that are a lot more controllable than age. A 31yr old woman who is in shape, well-spoken, well dressed etc. is going to score higher with men than a 21yr old who is obese, unkempt, vulgar etc. So yes, on average, a 21yr old will do better than 31yr old, but you don't have control over your numerical age, so the point /u/MsSadieDunham is making is that it's a cumulative effect.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:34 PM
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Come to Canada! :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:36 PM
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For me, the 'wall' concerns are less of impending doom, but more awareness about the things that decline and what to do about them. I don't think there's a terribly huge difference between being 28/29, but there is a difference between being fit, healthy and taken care of.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:31 PM
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Michelle Obama.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 08:52 PM
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He refuses to take cod liver oil though! I would too! I hate the fish burps.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 05:58 PM
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Search 'Strong Curves', it's a great program for lower-body focus that's designed for women. I wouldn't say lipstick+boots = overdressed, but I totally understand the public transport thing - I'm on the train in the evening a lot. I try to wear something 'over' my outfit, like a cardigan/sweater/athletic jacket if I'm taking transit home, or just choose something practical but still cute.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 12:48 AM
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College (university) here. I'm doing a double major and working part time - so taking it as a monk-mode opportunity. That's not to say I'm pretending men are invisible, but I think i'm too busy to seriously pursue a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 10:44 PM
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A comment on another thread expressed frustration with the RP focus on youth as a woman's most desirable characteristic. Whether or not the 'peak' ages lead to sexual/romantic success, I think it's a very formative time and sets you up for either going through the next 40+ years as a graceful, pleasant, feminine person, or otherwise. A woman who took care of herself, learned to dress/carry herself well and stayed fit between the ages of 20-30 is much more desirable than one who didn't.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:32 PM
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There's been a troll account posting rants about how we're all bitter/pathetic/useless etc etc etc over the last few days, posts usually taken down within 5-10min thanks to the mods though!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:26 PM
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Congrats on the journey! guys probably aren't going to want me anyway unless they have some type of fat fetish. You've already recognized the problem and are working on it. No need to put yourself down. You know what guys find attractive? Girls who are confident in themselves. Does it seem worth it to you to attempt to dress and do your makeup more femininely? I'm assuming you (like me) are in monk-mode - i.e. not actively looking for a parter and focusing on self improvement. I try to keep it a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 02:55 AM
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Congrats at finding success with the new job! There are many possible interpretations of this, I see it as John being impressed/pleased by you taking initiative or showing that you want to learn. That's generally a better person to work with than someone who would rather make mistake after mistake instead of asking for help. Also, you made yourself 'vulnerable' in a safe situation, which is pretty good. John couldn't have said "sorry, no help here", but in asking for help you were deferring to h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 03:37 AM
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I would suggest that 'self improvement' takes second place to taking care of your wellbeing and that of your children. It sounds like you are in an abusive relationship and that kind of person does not deserve any sort of 'captain' treatment. Leave him, take your kids, and move on from there. You're 28, not 48 - you're young enough to endure some hardship, move on and have a better life. It's not starting from scratch, you've gained experience and your next stages in life will benefit from that.…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 08:52 PM
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This is really cute. I think before/after photos are required.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 09:31 PM
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Ok, here's my thoughts. Not intentionally rude. Tinder isn't the place to look for LTRs, sure, there are 'success stories' of people who get married, but it's a hookup site where 100% is based on whether or not someone is photogenic. Denying sex after giving it initially isn't a very good strategy. Get better at filtering - once a guy has shown himself to be the type to be spinning plates, leave. I'd consider taking some time off dating. I'm doing it for the rest of my 18 months at university, j…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 02:04 AM
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I like the hippy hearts!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 05:30 AM
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I love mint teas. However... I wonder if the benefits are more from the increased water intake rather than the actual mint?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 08:05 AM
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From the comment section on that first link: Male womanlyness and female manliness are detestable because they are never useful - they are each poor copies of femininity and masculinity, directed at the gender looking for something else. SO well said.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 10:42 PM
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Same. My RP beliefs don't really extend past me, if that makes sense. If someone wants to have a bluepill, gay, trans, poly relationship, that's okay. Not my cup of tea, but it's not my business, and everyone has the right to marry/be with who they love.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:46 AM
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Sociology is one of my majors. University has definitely made me less 'socially liberal' - it is truly ridiculous. Political correctness is taken to extremes, and I'm not talking about racial issues, more like "Don't use the word 'he' to talk about someone in an essay, always use 'she' to balance it out" What? I really think the goal is a total overturning/erasing of gender roles, and from what I've seen, the outcomes are either massively idealistic, or just outright impossible. Biology comes se…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 04:13 PM
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If someone walks up to your door and offers you a million dollars, you don’t get excited. 😒
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 05:16 PM
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I saw this via Facebook! Most of the comments were positive, or at least advocating for equality within marriage. Some (further down) couldn't believe that a woman would allow a man to manage the finances (insert horrified gasp)... I wonder if RP+ will ever become more mainstream, or if it's been tainted in the public view by the 'pickup artist' stories and the like. I would really like the RPW position to become more widely known - not to brag to my friends that "look, I'm right", but because I…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:32 AM
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I think this makes sense. Sex for men = commitment for women. When a guy proposes, the woman is validated and feels like she's worthy of being committed to. Comparable to the sex thing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:38 AM
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No idea where these are from Happiness is not something you can pursue - but instead the byproduct of doing the right thing. No matter how far from the truth we are led by histrionics and lies, the truly, objectively beautiful remains untainted.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 12:31 AM
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Deference: sort of like surrendering, showing submission/respect.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 07:57 PM
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and then in Part II, the woman realizes that all men are terrible and goes on a feminist journey of body positivity, self love and self expression.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 04:34 PM
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Very true.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 09:20 PM
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Just do your research first - a botched PS job always looks worse than a natural flaw in my opinion. I don't know really. I guess it's down to individual preference. I find 'extreme' ones (massive breast implants, weird lip jobs) to be totally unattractive, but I can definitely see the benefits of minor ones. I would go with anything that was 'natural'. I feel like there's a 'continuum' of body modification - on the low end there's fake nails, eyelashes etc, then dental work, nose jobs, etc, the…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 06:50 PM
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Okay you made me think of a really important point about femininity/feminism, I wonder if it's worth its own post. In short... Carrying yourself in a feminine way doesn't require having wildly swinging emotions or getting manicures every week. Is it possible that there's an idea of femininity that's been overblown by bluepill media? That feminine = the irrational, giggly, pink-wearing, manicure obsessed, shallow girly girl? It's much easier to reject femininity as a goal when it's portrayed like…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:18 AM
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One-night-stands aren't very RPW ;) Hmm. Taller than me is a 'threshold', yes, but a guy isn't going to get extra points for being 6'2 rather than 5'10.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:14 AM
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Caribbean female, 5'5 120lb. Basic preference: Not Asian, Indian or African. Taller than me, physically in-shape and well groomed. I tend to go for 'masculine' looking men. Looks are a 'gateway' sort of thing to me. I'll be shallow and say that if a guy is below a 5-6ish on my scale, he's not really going to be a dating prospect. I know I'm at/above a 5-6, so I'm not going to compromise. However... looks aren't everything. My last SO was about a 7 objectively, but after we'd been together for 1.…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 11:40 PM
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I would be. Maybe create a poll?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:38 PM
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mistake an ass clown wrapped in tinfoil for a knight in shining armor That's a really great mental image.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 06:50 PM
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How old are you? I was the same with my first boyfriend when I was ~17. He was the football star and I was much quieter and bookish. You'll learn. If you want to be sociable and talk to people, it'll come. We're social by nature. Advice... Don't think about it as a 'disaster' if you don't talk. A lot of the time, being slightly quiet is better than being slightly loud. Don't overthink it. If someone says something that you think is funny, laugh at it. Don't get stressed out by not knowing what t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 04:55 PM
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I would not be going anywhere with him. You're 18. You can't even drink in the US. I'm not saying that to be condescending, I'm saying that because you're going to change a whole lot in the next 3-5 years. I'm not the person I was when I was 18 and I'm pretty glad of that haha. Your red flag should be neon red with flashing lights and sirens. He is still with his 'ex' girlfriend. You are second place - what the fuck does he mean "he didn't cheat on her"?. A language barrier is no excuse, and the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 06:00 AM
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I bake for my university friends occasionally (study groups or small wrapped things to pass around before an exam) and it's always very well received! I think it's a great idea. I'd recommend making squares with a base, as they travel the best.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 07:26 PM
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I really hope OP doesn't read what you said the wrong way, because it's just true. It's no different than "I go out on every date wearing neon orange hats, why don't I get asked out on more dates?" Weight is one of the controllable aspects of attractiveness, and as she's already started, I'm sure OP knows there are more benefits than just the number on the scale going down. I like your recommendation of monk mode. Even just for 6-8 months. /u/mannfan9292 starts to sound bitter - and hey! We're i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 11:16 PM
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Right - that was closer to what i meant. it's not a punishment, it's the relationship between choice -> result.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 10:46 PM
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Haha, thanks! I'm happy to answer questions.. I'd like to make a post on dressing flattering/feminine but I'm not sure how I'd do it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 08:40 PM
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Ok, I've posted here before about this, but I've recently discovered a love for skirts, and they're PERFECT for autumn when it's neither warm or cold. If you're pear-shaped, you'll want to draw more attention to a 'slim' waist shape. Midi skirts are nearly universally flattering and can create the illusion of a smaller waist when paired with the right top. For legs.. the length of the skirt is important. You don't want one that hits mid-thigh because it'll give you a tree trunk appearance and if…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 06:39 PM
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I think they want some type of response like "Stay with him!!! it's a woman's job and you're subservient so deal with it!!!" just so they can go and post it to anti-RP places as a bad example.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 03:23 PM
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Deal breakers: Smoking Drug use Lack of life-aspirations Submissive men Requirements vary really. I've met guys who fit all of them who I just don't 'click' with, and some that miss a few but I really like.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 12:26 AM
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Great sex isn't just blowjobs though. These are 'mutually enjoyable' activities and I don't even think sex is the main point - it's showing that you still think about him, are still interested in being pleasing.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 12:13 AM
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These sound like fun! I'm sure your husband appreciates the variety. I love seeing your ideas/posts - creativity is important in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 11:30 PM
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Seconding this. I expected a 2/10 from the post... the photo was closer to a 5, and she has potential! OP isn't 'ugly' by any standard. Building off what you said.... Hair: Start deep-conditioning, look into black hair care for a lot of info about moisturizing and caring for curly hair. There are tons of websites that I've found very helpful. Skin: Makeup on mature ladies can look cakey/overdone, so I'd recommend very light makeup, if anything. It's pretty hard to go wrong with light mascara and…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 07:12 PM
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I'd honestly recommend online dating if you're seeking an LTR I''m just getting into this. What has your experience been like and with what sites?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 06:36 AM
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White Collar was outstanding! Neal was so loveable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 06:07 PM
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It's probably tough getting a new father at the age of 10. I'd guess she'll appreciate you when you show consistency and that she doesn't have to worry about getting emotionally attached - you're not going to vanish.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 02:44 AM
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Femininity comes in all different forms. The girl who lives for cooking and homemaking may absolutely despise heels and skirts. There is no checklist of features that you must have to consider yourself a RPW. It's more of a mindset and a system of values. I'm not sure what disrespect you got from RP/RPW or how you were used as a bad example? Don't bother with the male RP subreddit. Their goals are entirely different than ours, and I personally don't like the hostile environment that they seem to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 04:21 PM
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The market part makes sense - if you're in high demand you can be pretty picky. It also sort of depends on the definition of 'curvy'...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 07:00 PM
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Yeah, that's the downfall there: education =/= intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 06:35 PM
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But then what stops women from 'requiring' a 200k+ income? It just sounds like an entitlement complex to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 06:29 PM
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Yeah, that was the only thing that stood out for me. Income requirements don't make much sense - I can understand wanting someone who's achieved a certain level of education (e.g. minimum some post-secondary).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:47 PM
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I'm about 1.5yrs away from having my own place, and I'm SO excited about the idea of being able to host a dinner party haha. I'm considering making a post about it if that wouldn't be too far off-topic.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/16 04:23 PM
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Oh, that too. It's not like he's going to walk out of jail, put on a suit and go back to his ivy-league earned job. Does this post sound a bit fishy to you? New account, no post history, really weird + incomplete story...
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 05:42 PM
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I study criminology, so here's what you don't want to hear. Prison will change him - the man that goes in won't be the man who comes out after 3+ years. 10 years in jail is a life ruined for the majority. Do you remember 2006? That's 10 years ago, so imagine not seeing him properly until 2026. Your relationship will not survive this unless you put your entire life on hold. You will likely not touch him for 3+ years, all conversations will be monitored. As for you... you're 20. You've admitted yo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 04:18 PM
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Oh jeez Pinterest is lethal. I could plan every single life event on there .... or I could actually study. I am younger than you, but my advice would be to just wait. Think of how bad it would be if in two years he accidentally blurts out that he felt pressured to marry you in an argument or something. Your relationship isn't your friends relationships, I can totally understand the pressure, but really, waiting can't do any harm. 22 isn't old. You're not losing much between getting married at 22…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 08:29 PM
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I would love something like this as I don't have many RP friends... but this is the internet unfortunately - I value my anonymity and I feel like this sub is prone to intruders.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 03:39 PM
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I live in Canada. Often goes down to -30 so I think I've got this mostly figured out lol. From the bottom up... Warm boots. Preferably lined with something fuzzy, or stock up on 'boot socks'. If going with pants... Jeans really aren't the best for keeping heat in - if you have to wear them, put leggings under. If a skirt/dress... fleece lined leggings are the best thing ever! On the top - layers. Camisoles, especially the 'heattech' or underarmour ones can keep a lot of heat without being bulky.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 03:33 AM
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I'm disappointed that the first discussion of race (since I've been here) has essentially been '6 Reasons Black Women Are Undesirable'. This isn't a discussion even - there's no 'why', it's just saying that black women are terrible based on stereotypes. This is insulting and really very upsetting to me, sorry. Let me address each point. For background: I'm 'light skinned' Caribbean living in Canada. You're essentially saying "Black women are fat, and the ones that aren't are fake, or underweight…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 04:43 PM
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Yes! It's awesome. Or a tiny bit of maple syrup.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 05:57 PM
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I love sweet potatoes. So much. Peel, cut into thumb-sized squares. Cut a red onion into small strips and add. Toss everything with about 1tbsp olive oil, paprika, cayenne pepper, salt, brown sugar to taste. Bake until edges of potato cubes are brown, (about 20-30min). Eat entire thing before it reaches the table.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 04:59 PM
2

Seconded! I find first dates awkward and would like a step-by step 'how to'.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 02:17 AM
5

Well I was going to say knitting...
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 02:04 AM
3

Just a suggestion - you brought the subject up with you, but did you expressly say that it makes you feel useless? He could very well be thinking that you just don't like him playing them so much, not that you feel like you're being replaced. Maybe suggest other stress-relieving things out of the house so there's no way games can be a distraction. Once he sees how fun bowling/eating/going to a movie/taking a zumba class/whatever is with you, maybe the games will take a back seat.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 06:20 PM
2

Aw, thanks :) I know, good things come to those who wait & work.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 04:27 AM
2

Thanks for the post :) I'll admit, the reason I've been 'down' for a bit is that I just haven't been successful in meeting guys. It's been echoed in 3-4 posts in the last week or so. It feels like I'm doing everything right, being realistic, but not seeing any results. The general consensus is that a decently attractive 20yr old with should just 'go out' and meet guys, but it's just not happening.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:16 AM
3

This is a wonderful analysis. Thanks for posting! A few jumbled thoughts of mine. It's idealism mixed with self-entitlement that contradicts itself. It works on the premise that the individual is somehow innately deserving of attention/praise without putting in effort. The girls who do put in effort are wasting their time with hair/makeup, but they somehow, undeservedly end up with boyfriends. Solution? Disregard them as brainless. I think these type of books have a place for pre-teens though. I…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 06:15 PM
1

I wish I could sew. My grandmother is knitter-extrodinare and it's fantastic.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 06:22 PM
2

I feel like I need a guide for online dating. Maybe I'm wrongfully biased, but I feel like it's a 'quick' thing more suited for hookups.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 05:57 AM
2

That's actually a thing. I can't remember the name of it, but it's the same as not being able to differentiate people outside of your own race as well as within your race. E.g. a person who is 55 will be better at judging the ages of people who are 40-60 than s/he'll be with people who are 15-30
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 05:56 AM
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Save money. Having money will never not work in your favour. Focus on bettering yourself - you'll attract guys of your calibre. I wouldn't focus on dating as you'll meet people through your social circles and it's good to stay miles away from possibly looking desperate. I'm similar to you, but I'm in university. I really think this stage of life is about building a good foundation for the next 10+ years.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 05:54 AM
2

Anything where the goal is orgasm is definitely an N
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 05:12 AM
3

Ladies of RPW - where have you met past/current SOs?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 03:32 PM
1

Curtain separators/upright dividers might help section off the space and provide you with a bit more privacy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 08:08 PM
2

Yup! I'm a full time student and I have a 'mini' version of everything in my bag. Usually: powder (for when skin gets oily), concealer, lipstick/chapstick, tiny thing of makeup remover that's been a lifesaver when eyeliner decides to go crazy at 2pm. Oh, and I rotate through these, they're amazing. I do keep a mini foundation bottle but that's more for the days I don't have time to do it in the morning or I've been at the gym. That all fits into a bag about the size of two fists (lack of better …
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 12:30 AM
3

I live in Canada - it often goes down to -30c in winter. Investing in good fabrics is worth it. My favourite freezing-but-feminine outfit is a pair of fleece-lined leggings, circle skirt, long-sleeved-shirt, cardigan and scarf. Something like this, or this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 12:53 AM
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You've decided that unless they're 'special', all women are 'fake' and offended easily. It's good to watch what you say. If you don't, don't be surprised when people are suddenly offended. You say you're not rude, and I don't have a transcript of your conversations so I can't tell, but if you enter a group with the idea that they're fake, easily offended, and you don't fit in, your body language/attitude will give a pretty strong message that will influence how people treat you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 07:28 PM
1

Nope, I'm the shorty in sociology!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:22 AM
3

The child-shaming one bothers me so much. Also, as an extension, the 'dog shaming'. E.g. the ones with a dog wearing a sign saying "I did xyz and I didn't even feel bad about it". 90% of the time, all I think is what a bad job the owner did in training the dog.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:21 AM
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This sounds like the most cliche advice ever... but confidence. Self explanatory, and anyone who can be well-put together and just comfortable in their own skin are instantly more attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:19 AM
2

We have an unfortunate influx of weird clubs at my school. It's an epidemic of resume-building via making 700 'charity' clubs just so someone can say they were 'president' of something. I guess that has kind of put me off. Might be good to look into the more interest-based ones though, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 06:15 PM
1

I know, that's what worries me. I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I'm slightly opposed to Tinder/online dating stuff anyway - not a moral judgment, just not my speed. But yeah, I probably just need to get out more.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 06:14 PM
1

Yes. I tend to have resting bitch face. Working on it!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 03:33 PM
1

5'5, 115lb. In good shape. I'll have a BA in 1.5 years.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 03:30 PM
1

Thanks for your response! I don't equate drug use/partying with failure really, I have friends who do both and we get along fine. It's more of a compatibility thing - if I dated a guy who went out 2-3x a week, it wouldn't be a shared activity. I'm very open to being surprised :). I like the 'identifying quality' thing. Makes it easy to draw a line between 'drinker' and 'drunk' haha.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 03:26 AM
2

That's a very good point. I'm in university so maybe my vision is a little narrowed. Thanks, I'll keep trying
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 03:20 AM
2

You have a point. I mean I'm open to guys who don't fit my 'criteria'- it's not like I'd totally ignore an awesome guy because he doesn't like the gym or isn't taller than me etc.. But I think the problem is that I just don't get approached by anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 09:04 PM
3

2 people asked the same thing, sorry for the copy/paste. Aside from the basic stuff like hygiene/not being a complete idiot... General criteria: Taller than me, not a heavy partier, no drug use, older than me, athletic, same/greater level of education as me, and a few racial preferences. It seems like a lot, but I'm really not sure.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 09:04 PM
1

Aside from the basic stuff like hygiene/not being a complete idiot... General criteria: Taller than me, not a heavy partier, no drug use, older than me, athletic, same/greater level of education as me, and a few racial preferences. It seems like a lot, but I'm really not sure.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 09:03 PM
7

Antibacterial soap ain't gonna do nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 01:18 AM
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I feel like I'm going to be in the minority here. If you are flat-out uncomfortable with a sex act, don't do it. I'm sure it's not a matter of life/death for him. I'd talk to him. Tell him that you really don't like it. Sex is supposed to be mutually enjoyable - if I told a guy I was uncomfortable with an act and really hated it, I'd think he'd have some reservations about doing it again. Maybe I have a bit of a 'line'. If it were blowjobs/regular sex I'd say just go along with it, but idk.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 11:18 PM
7

Seconding /u/Ultimate_Failure. People love talking about themselves. He mentions having a college/university degree? Ask him what the degree is in, why he chose it, maybe throw in a compliment (that Engineering degree must have been a lot of work!). Guys are interested in a lot more than cars/sports, and they'll appreciate intelligent conversation. Avoid the issues of possible contention (religion etc.), but don't be afraid to give an opinion as long as it's at least somewhat well-thought-out. T…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 02:10 AM
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Ok, so you have a boyfriend who constantly belittles your looks, makes unreasonable requests, and seems to have no idea how to behave decently to women. But you're going to stay with him because he's attractive (even though you don't like him), and there are 'benefits'. Obviously the benefits don't include your mental health. I don't think RPW is the right place for your question - men are treated like Captains when they act like Captains. Your man is acting like a person who would be better sui…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 06:47 PM
2

It's good that you want to please him, but I feel like you need to talk to your husband a little more about it before deciding whether surgery is a good idea. It's surgery, not a fashion change - you mentioned in your post that you know it can result in constant pain. If he said he liked looking at double-D boobs, would you consider a breast enhancement? If he said he liked straight noses, would you consider a nose job? Everyone has preferences, and it'd be a one-in-ten-million chance that you j…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 06:29 PM
17

Long (healthy) hair is indicative of good health/upkeep of appearance and therefore attractive. However, someone with greasy, split-ended and badly styled waist-length hair won't get the SMV boost as much as someone who had short, clean, well-groomed hair. I'm Caribbean and have been learning a lot about my hair recently. I used to be obsessed with having it as straight as possible, which meant flat-ironing twice a week and generally not taking care of it. Look at natural hair hashtags on instag…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:30 PM
2

I've spent my summer trying to improve myself, and it's been an exercise in self reflection and pretty fun. The first thing I did was get a summer job (popular coffee chain). I'm a full time student so the cash was welcome and I feel my social skills have really improved. The thing that made the most difference was re-evaluating my priorities. Do I want to have a bunch of guy 'friends', or do I want to work on being feminine and finding a LTR? Organization is easy once you put your mind to it. I…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 06:52 PM
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I like this. It's non-confrontational and doesn't leave any room for additional bad behaviour really. The idea of 'rewarding integrity' is good too. The worst thing OP could do is go and get angry with her husband (as a lot of women seem to do when their SO recieves attention).
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 05:42 AM
13

Feminism fails to realize that we actually need something from men and alienating them isn't in anyone's best interest..
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 03:32 AM
6

Yes, and by the logic of that quote, a woman who chooses to 'kill her own snakes' shouldn't expect help when she finds that the snake is too big.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 03:49 AM
3

Yes, and the 'feminists' who declare that chivalry is an insult to feminine strength should be happy providing for themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 07:56 PM
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I really like the paragraph under "Feminism creates a class of women not worth protecting". It should follow that the decision to give up your femininity also means you give up the rights/privileges you enjoy as a female. Trying to have the perceived 'best of both worlds' doesn't work for the individual or society.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 07:05 PM
1

Mine's a little different this week as I'm planning my first camping trip! It's going to be a comfort-food trip, so in addition to the s'mores/hotdog stuff, I plan to make this breakfast scramble and this mac & cheese as they're both make-ahead things. I really want to figure out how to make pancakes over a fire, but most recipes involve a cast-iron pan which I don't have.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 07:18 PM
1

I had thought about that - I am pretty careful to stick to 'safe' topics, not violate any basic rules of conversation, and avoid off-colour humour, so I don't think so...
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 02:49 AM
1

Definitely helpful. I think i fit into the 'giving friends-only vibe', so I'll work on that. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 09:44 PM
2

That's what I intend to do - thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 05:46 PM
1

I'm definitely working on the clothing part, so maybe that'll have a difference in the fall. Thanks for your input!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 04:19 PM
2

Keeping it short: I'm at a large university - large class sizes, busy schedules etc. I have little to no problem striking up casual conversation with guys, I'm good with witty humour so that seems to help in the 'hey, you're sitting next to me' type of small talk. My problem is with bringing anything further than that, so the guys become acquaintances and nothing more. How do I turn these guys into 'prospects' or make myself more interesting than a one/two/three time casual conversation? I feel …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 05:02 AM
3

*I just realized what I wrote sounds extremely judgemental so let me preface by saying I understand that I don't know you or your SO and I'm just going based on what you've written. I value a certain level of refinement/manners/respect in men. Racial slurs is taking it too far for me because it's impossible to tell how much of it is a 'joke' or the person showing their true colours. People who believe those words are inappropriate do not use them ever. Also, people tend to judge couples as a 'un…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 05:31 AM
4

The idea of self-restraint resonates with me. In my opinion, having bragging about/endorsing having casual sex is analogous to doing the same about spending large amounts of money frivolously. "Look what I can do just because I can and it's my right and nobody can stop me!"
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 01:43 AM
7

I think a lot of people have misconceptions about RPW because of the negative attention that RP gets. People would rather have their feelings preserved instead of following methods resulting in actual success. Before I started reading RPW, I thought it'd be full of ultra-submissive, desperate women who were willing to sacrifice their wants/needs/careers to find a man who would be free to use them and move on. Soooo not true. There are parts of RP that I don't agree with - but it's a theory - and…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 07:16 PM
2

She's like a real life princess.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 06:05 PM
2

Have you looked at Modcloth dresses? It sounds like it fits your description.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 03:34 AM
2

This will be my first time setting a RPW goal, so why not start. 30 minutes of exercise daily, and a minimum of one stretch session. /r/theXeffect has worked for me in the past so I think I'll try that again this month. Good luck to everyone and their goals!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/16 07:32 PM
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Don't worry about changing your major. If you're happy with it, stick with it. Clothing: Feminine doesn't have to mean dresses. I wasn't a big dress-wearer throughout high school as I live in a country that often touches -25C. Personally, I don't think leggings should be worn as pants. They come off as too casual for me. Find some well-fitted jeans, or chinos and you'll be good. Instead of flip-flops, try wearing flats. There are tons of cute ones. Makeup If you're fine without it, then no big d…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/16 05:48 AM
7

The concept of not-badmouthing doesn't just apply to SO's. From an objective standpoint, badmouthing your SO does not serve any purpose. It's in your best interest to portray your relationship as strong and stable with two content parties. It is always unattractive to talk badly about someone behind their back, whether it's a family member, a SO or a 'friend'. I think the act of spiteful gossip tells more about the gossiper than the subject of the gossip. There is no need to put someone down or …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 05:54 AM
2

I've implemented a rule that works for me - I need to be ready to go 'out' with 30min of warning. (out = date, seeing someone important, etc.) That means I'm always tidy, clean, important bits shaved, and don't slack on my hair/skin care. It's really not difficult to do, and as it becomes a habit, you tend to look presentable all the time. In terms of helpful subreddits... /r/femalefashionadvice, /r/MakeupAddiction, /r/FancyFollicles, /r/SkincareAddiction and /r/xxfitness all have tons of good s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/16 01:34 AM
1

These are great, thanks for posting. I'm going to write them out for my 'inspo wall'. The irritating part is that so many people/women would take this the wrong way and call #1 'victim shaming', or say that #3 is 'empowering women', or that #6/#11 are oppressive. Seems like good, practical advice and common sense to me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 05:15 AM
2

I've switched to sparkling water instead of soda. Same fizz, no sugar.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/16 07:51 PM
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