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It's been going on for a while. Sometimes they don't even bother to cut out the original "EDIT: wow thanks for the awards!" when no awards have been given on the re-post lol.
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:22 AM
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But for women, at worst, they want to roll back abortion rights, which in and of itself is an extension of the traditionalist desire to enforce the consequences of premarital sex on people regardless of gender. That is a huge deal, though...? Forcing babies on people who don't want them is an extreme, life-changing shift. I don't know if I'm misreading your comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 01:44 AM
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honestly though, how good looking are you?
/r/seduction17/01/25 05:31 AM
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I genuinely don't believe this type of zero-sum-game thinking is needed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/25 12:50 AM
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I feel like the implicit rule in the original question was "would you rather be stuck with a RANDOM man or bear" which makes the responses understandable. If the question allowed women to pick a man of their choice, then of course they would pick man over bear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 05:05 PM
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Exhibit traditionally masculine traits: confidence, decisiveness, assertiveness, boldness in expressing your interest, self-possession. As progressive as society has become regarding gender roles and equality, I think the truth is that traditionally masculine traits are still attractive to the majority of women. Whether that's a result of sociological conditioning or biology can be debated, but regardless that is the reality.
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:26 PM
2

I think dressing up as Santa communicates more of a fun-loving vibe and a sense of humor. Peacocking was literally just about wearing an attention-grabbing outfit.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:56 PM
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Models had a more profound effect on me than literally any other book. The breakdown of neediness was especially eye opening for me, as a guy who was painfully needy well into his 20s. Even now, years after first reading the book, being non-needy is something that I'm still working on. An interesting by-product of that is that I've developed a really sharp radar for neediness in other people too. It's a really unattractive trait to me now, and I was totally blind to it when I was younger.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:34 AM
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everybody needs to know exactly what "train" means in this case Definitely. For all you know, when she says "train" she might be picturing a human centipede type of situation.
/r/seduction24/12/21 12:33 AM
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10 years ago I was super quiet and had very little personality except around my closest friends. Dreadful at conversations. Decided I couldn't stand it anymore and started developing my conversation skills. It was a long road, but today I have WAY better social skills than I used to, have been explicitly complimented on my conversation skills multiple times, and actually feel like I have something to offer women. It's maybe the best thing I've ever done. There's an element of truth to the "just …
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:47 PM
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Yeah some people just get shy and self-conscious when they're attracted to someone. Several years ago I found out a friend of a friend thought I was cute/had a crush on me, and she had literally never even made eye contact with me despite us hanging out with the same group multiple times..
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:07 PM
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Where do you meet women?
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:58 PM
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This is basically my philosophy too, your physical appearance is flexible by about 3 "points." Personality doesn't have a huge impact on your pure physical attraction, but it helps immensely with the women you can get.
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:10 AM
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Personally it's only something I would do if I was getting signals from the woman
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:50 PM
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I legit thought the point of your original post was that you're happier now lmao
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:07 PM
1

Yeah no way in hell do women have higher standards than men on average, at least when it comes to looks.
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:46 AM
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Yeah this is exactly how I think about it. Big muscles are like big boobs. They're not the only thing that matters, and you're unlikely to get rejected simply because you lack them. But they do make you more attractive to most women, and some women are particularly turned on by them.
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:43 AM
1

Yeah the part about intentionally inconveniencing a woman is weird. Otherwise the OP's advice is fine.
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:15 PM
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Yeah people are missing the point when they say nothing is off limits just because a woman might be cool with it. I could follow a woman down a dark alley way at night and it might end with us hitting it off and exchanging numbers, but that doesn't make it an okay thing to do.
/r/seduction08/06/21 10:56 PM
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I can't even have sex with a woman if I'm not enjoying her company beforehand. I date to have fun, not just to get laid.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:46 PM
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Yeah personally I would take up an offer like that, but there is no obligation to be friends of course.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:46 AM
1

Exactly this. Not only is it a compliment with a qualification attached, but it also implies that the women are old.
/r/seduction30/04/21 06:40 AM
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Yeah it was a jumbled mixture of good and bad advice. The "princess" stuff especially was off putting, and I can't say I've ever dated a woman who wanted to be treated that way.
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:33 AM
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If someone points out a fault that they think you may be self-conscious about (being short, bald, poor, etc.), but you can joke about it and laugh it off, it shows a high level of self-confidence. I honestly think one of the biggest power moves is to not only laugh at yourself when someone pokes fun at you, but to also one-up their joke with a better joke. It shows confidence and wit at the same time.
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:00 PM
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My best approaches were with girls that were actually working and in the gym. Did any of these approaches lead to a date?
/r/seduction24/01/21 07:34 AM
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Some of the most attractive women I've met lived quiet lives that were objectively pretty dull. It was their minds that made them attractive, not the things they did. A lot of those living-life-to-the-fullest people are kinda boring to me.
/r/seduction14/12/20 10:39 AM
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this is true about a lot of people in general, regardless of attractiveness.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:21 AM
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It's not scary to me but it seems low-key needy when guys joke that a woman they just met is their future girlfriend or wife. Then again I'm not a woman. Maybe they think it's endearing.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:04 AM
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I'm curious if women generally prefer this approach. As a guy I would much rather give out my number than ask for theirs, but I've seen some women say that feels too much like the guy is putting the burden on them to initiate the text conversation.
/r/seduction12/08/20 03:49 AM
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Gotta agree there. This situation sounds like a good opportunity to get laid if that's the goal, but I wouldn't date someone like this girl. She seems insecure if she responds that strongly to another woman being in the picture.
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:11 PM
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True but it's much easier to do that when you have other things going on in your life.
/r/seduction21/07/20 04:43 AM
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Fair, but I mean that I don't know how to actually get a conversation started out of the blue. Once it gets rolling I can chat pretty easily.
/r/seduction21/06/20 07:21 PM
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I'm not intimidated by cold approaches except that I still feel like I don't know what to say
/r/seduction21/06/20 07:00 PM
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if you’re not completely, 100% satisfied being alone for life you’ll never actually end up in a good relationship. Is this serious? A person who is 100% satisfied being alone wouldn't even care to pursue a relationship.
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:52 PM
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Yeah it's a silly concept. I seriously doubt most attractive people are assessing whether others fit in their "league." They're just into someone or they're not.
/r/seduction10/05/20 02:19 AM
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Follow this up by asking her how her morning shit was. This really shifts the power dynamic in your favor.
/r/seduction13/03/20 01:29 AM
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Be playful. Tease. Joke around. "Act" with fake or exaggerated emotions (like pretending to be offended by something she says) . Argue with her playfully. Also pay attention to whenever she says something playful or funny and roll with it.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:53 AM
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First date: we can stay up late, swapping manly stories. And in the morning... I'm making waffles.
/r/seduction26/11/19 07:22 PM
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That's been my experience too with dating apps in general. I get a date about once every week or two. It doesn't take that much time to use the apps
/r/seduction20/11/19 03:13 PM
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I'm in my 30s and I still haven't figured out what my ideal woman is. There are so many factors that play into attraction and they can be hard to foresee.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:22 AM
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