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A half decent body may get a woman sex from many men, but it won't get a relationship or commitment without some personality or humanity to bring to the table.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 03:29 AM
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Or putting a pin hole in the condom. Probably a crime if he does it but ignored the other way around.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:50 PM
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Once or twice - mostly other men don't know how to react it seems to me. Shamed by women for being emotional? Ex wife and mother in law did that all the time.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 06:50 PM
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Had OP spoken against or written an essay in disagreement with the narrative he'd likely (making assumption OP is male) have failed the class and also been marked out for other classes as well. University as a place for robust debate is a fiction IMHO.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 06:07 PM
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Have read the book - wonder if the film will portray what an utter mess of civilization this power caused and in whose hands that ruin was wrought or if somehow it'll still be men's fault... suspect the latter.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 03:42 PM
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I think most of us feel this constant slight from the media and society and I think it certainly does degrade our sense of self worth. It also can quite easily lead to feelings of frustration and anger for the simple reason that this message is frequent and points blame at a man for something he was simply born as. Guilt by gender regardless of what one does or says. It's very tiring. Look - I'm like old and shit but one thing that's helped weather this through marriage divorce a suicide attempt…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 08:29 PM
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Well it serves to reduce a human with his plethora of emotions to a caricature that can be mocked and degraded more readily. Which we see done fairly frequently in both media and everyday social interaction(s). In that regard the stereotype is useful to those pushing a feminist narrative I suppose at least in that it serves their world view of the moment.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 07:35 PM
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Gym - weights Meditation Talking long wide ranging rambling conversations with the wife.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 07:18 PM
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Ok - so as people with an agenda fueled by 'otherness' and 'hate' they think they know what they do. They do not care about the outcome as they view it as a beneficial one to their group. In their world they know and want to do as they do. I suppose in terms of actual likely outcome - you are dead right, they 'know not what they do' - what their philosophy/ideology leads to is not likely to be a net benefit to even themselves. I'm not really arguing your point other to say they don't consider th…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:26 PM
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They DO know what they do today and previously. They DONT know what that leads to. Perhaps an suitable quote to illustrate would be "be careful what you wish for"......
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:42 PM
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Except I think they DO know what they do. What they don't know (does anyone) is what their ideal world would look or function like should they get their wish. I'd hazard they would like it less (should it ever occur) - than what they have had to this point. But as someone with a Y chromosome I'd be dead or in a camp anyway so it's not like I'd be worrying about them at all at that juncture (or indeed that I spend much time worrying about their happiness today). Hateful persons they are and no go…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:18 AM
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So in the same breath as 'trans women are women' 'trans men are men' it really transpires to a reality where : Have ovaries and 2 x chromosomes = NO draft. Do NOT have ovaries and own a Y chromosome = Draft. So not really a woman then regardless of surgery hormone makeup or anything else one may do to transition. At least as far as draft registration is concerned. Cannot logically stand on both viewpoints at the same time surely ?
/r/MensRights11/10/22 12:28 AM
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I suspect the Left wants that also - compliant workers are a boon to both sides politically and serve established interests at the expense of innovation happiness and any prospect of advancing the species.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 10:27 PM
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Had mine at 38, already had two sons. Actual OP was somewhat painful mainly because the numbing injection was poorly done (initially), second injection fixed that. Did get an infection post OP (despite being fastidious with cleaning). 5 Days of ABS sorted that... since then no dramas. No effect on sex or orgasm at all. So - follow the clinic/doctors instructions carefully. Don't over stress about it and don't play around down there for a fair few days post op... (you probably won't feel up to su…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:46 PM
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Adulation when females engage in it, demonised when men do the same.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:48 PM
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And yet when it came down to it, all the men I know who've been through the divorce mill (incl myself) were the ones with no house no/little access to kids and next to no money , principally because the settlement to the wife and child support amounted to having to suddenly take on a mortgage sized monthly payment (on top of whatever living costs they suddenly acquired as a result of having no home anymore). If the article was accurate men would be keen to marry (if they'd come out better off at…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 09:12 PM
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OMAHA was subject to heavy preparatory bombing and shelling (naval) most of the bombs dropped too far inland and the shelling was largely in-effective against well dug in troops.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 09:49 PM
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The male was probably worried about being accused of mansplaining. /s And thus in the interests of not presuming to know better than the female in question - remained silent.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 07:52 PM
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Blind spots in our societies seem to fill with predators, be it in Churches prisons womanhood or anywhere, some of these blind spots fill with more of one gender than the other, but in them are truly monsters.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:13 PM
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I'm kind of regretting I went and read that. Beyond disturbing. And I am so tired of people getting a get out jail card simply because they are female.. this woman are wonderful crap has got to end, for everyone's sake. Women are people just as men with all the good bad amazing and evil that comes with that.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:10 PM
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Feminism and the people on the original post would posit that all men are responsible because we as some (non existent) collective do not police individual members of the gender to their adequate benefit. This isn't that far off the 'all Germans are Nazi's' thought form. And equally flawed. Quite where they believe their right to dictate that men should risk their well being and possibly lives to redress the more pathologically inclined males comes from, they do not and have never said. Perhaps …
/r/MensRights27/09/21 10:51 PM
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Anecdotal certainly but a perhaps relevant observation from having two long term partners. Get things 'right' and work out how your female partners body likes to be stimulated and her level and frequency of pleasure will far eclipse the males. I have seen my partner shudder and speak in tongues for minutes on end. She could continue having orgasms or as sometimes described - 'it was really just one great rising and falling constant orgasm'. Hmm. For like 30+ minutes. Then I finally get my 15sec …
/r/MensRights23/09/21 08:40 PM
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Ah. Memory ain't so stuffed as I sometimes think then.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 03:10 AM
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Seeing better at night and having better depth perception negates more colors IMHO. If memory serves from my AV MED class (long time ago) females have more cones in their retinas males, more rods. Upshot is women generally have better peripheral vision and better color sensing ability, men can judge speed and distance better, along with better night or low light vision. Evolution is a thing I guess - if you want to know if a hyena is about to eat your baby while out foraging for berries peripher…
/r/MensRights14/09/21 02:44 AM
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Good point.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 10:41 PM
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And if it were it would be ignored or at least marginalised.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 10:08 PM
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Grew up in an era when the slogan was 'girls can do anything' which even then made me feel like by inference boys couldnt.. media these days is just an extension of that with the bonus that portrayed males are usually incapable or evil idiots... I dont think sidelining 1/2 the species in media to glorify the other is healthy for either gender. It pisses my wife off more than I. Perhaps I am just numb to it...
/r/MensRights12/08/21 08:03 PM
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Have also been subbed to MGTOW. Also never ever saw anyone advocating such activity.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 11:55 PM
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So we starve faster die earlier take more risks and get stuck with singular orgasms - what's being done to combat this 'oppression'? All while engaging in more physically dangerous work to serve the society that views us as expendable and dangerous drones? Sheesh. Incidentally he's wrong about the multiple orgasm thing - from personal experiences at least.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 08:53 PM
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Being allowed to have and to express emotion.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 09:01 PM
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Goodness - why is the birth and marriage rate declining? I cannot begin to guess, it's probably men's fault for not putting their financial necks on the block with their eyes closed... / s
/r/MensRights26/07/21 04:28 AM
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Was thinking 'Would you try and talk sense into Amon Goethe' or would you just avoid such people entirely? As you say it didn't work in 1940 and when met with a similar mindset today it's equally unlikely to work.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:40 PM
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Won't be turning into a woman anytime soon for the simple reason that I am not born one and attempts to surgically and hormonally change that are at best a token gesture at womanhood. Being born male does not equal a defective female. Womanhood does not get to define what being male is, anymore than we should define what womanhood should be. I do hope they enjoy their collapsing society, which I am sure will be entirely men's fault... men who at that point will be far too busy trying to survive …
/r/MensRights29/03/21 08:12 PM
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Having a preference for a woman who respects you enough to be somewhat groomed down there is not in anyway exemplary of pedophilia. No one HAS to shave to a bare skin, but keeping the forest trimmed back a little is a common courtesy if you expect your partner to go down on you (either gender). After all - does anyone like picking pubes out of their teeth ?
/r/MensRights29/03/21 07:11 PM
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Pretty sure many a man has from time to time looked at womanhood and thought 'wonder if I'd like that more than this'.. Simple fact is though nature decided we be male and it's up to us to make the most of it that we can. If society won't see us as more than expendable utilities we have the option of withdrawing and withholding our labour and support from that society (or women). Which is why so many young men are not marrying or dating and are spending their resources on improving their lot in …
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:37 PM
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I think your mother proved your point quite admirably.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 09:09 PM
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At which point it is too late to discover your lawyer was inadequate.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 11:24 PM
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I sometimes wonder if this usually early and extreme trauma is the start of conditioning the male child. If mother and father would condone this then those that the child expects to love him unconditionally have already bluntly proven that the child is not protected from pain and perhaps that their love is after all - conditional... just a thought.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 09:40 PM
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PRENUPS get thrown out by family courts all the time. You can have one but don't bank on it saving you.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 08:01 PM
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Because those from which labor and servitude is taken from should not express opinions. We are tolerated when we provide utility to society and silenced if we do not. Sorry that's a dark sentiment for me to express but it's been my experience.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 07:21 PM
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Same. Several times with ex wife. No matter how tired stressed or sick I was, failure to get it up and perform on demand resulted in what can best be described as a tantrum. Replete with emotional blackmail and ultimatums. There is no VJ worth putting up with that.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:39 PM
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Because current Western society enables it.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 10:40 PM
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Maybe women could try changing to be less regulatory less judging and more understanding? I know right? Madness. Amazing that people prefer to spend time with those that support and laugh with them.. who'd have thought?
/r/MensRights23/12/20 05:35 PM
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Ah .. Girls need inspirational Women to look up to ... and boys.. well given they are failed girls they also need.... /S . Would be interesting to see what would happen if the boys school had renamed a house from F --> M... outcry wise.
/r/MensRights10/12/20 03:02 AM
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And then they will have their dream all female world where artificial sperm make all female babies... and someone still has to keep the show running... it'd be a shit show of epic proportions. I'm sure they'll find someone to blame other than themselves. I sometimes wonder if this climate pushes more M-->F Transgender cases... ho hum
/r/MensRights04/12/20 08:21 PM
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He is being made an example of. So perish all enemies of the dogma etc...
/r/MensRights30/11/20 03:10 AM
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Ah the peril of using logic and a reasoned argument to go after sacred cows.... the video strikes me as well thought out and rational. Even quite mild compared to discourse previous. Not terribly surprised at the result, but in complete disagreement with it (not that random persons on the internet have any influence).
/r/MensRights30/11/20 03:08 AM
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Men getting ruined in traditional marriages on multiple fronts - Women most affected /s
/r/MGTOW12/11/20 03:29 AM
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Waiting for two x to suggest this as a good reason to disenfranchise the tax paying male gender as a whole... not that they'd stop a minute to work through the consequences of such...
/r/MGTOW06/11/20 03:46 AM
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Feminism enabled by the state built legal standards to benefit women at the expense of men on the basis that a desire to procreate and have progeny would keep men compliant. Now that men are increasingly walking away/avoiding marriage and parenthood in ever larger numbers both feminism the state and womanhood are caught in a vice of their own avaricious behavior... for some reason after being divorce raped just like my father - I seem to find no sympathy for woman struggling to find anyone to se…
/r/MensRights04/11/20 11:05 PM
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NZ Media pretends to care - so long as the male in question doesn't actually mention the causes. Which are often related to relations abusive lacking or otherwise with women.... can't mention a female may be less than a bright shining light of angelic disposition.. my experience anyways...
/r/MensRights27/10/20 06:11 AM
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More group inclusion stupidity.. if women in one's work or social scene are expecting you to wear a skirt (because they have a day for it themselves) then heck - they can wear a tie all day with a buttoned up to the throat collar. In summer. . Oddly enough I doubt most men own a skirt, would not fit a skirt borrowed from their partner and have little interest in wearing one just to bolster someone else's sense of group inclusivity. . Then again it's 2020 so maybe I'm just a dinosaur.
/r/MensRights22/10/20 03:58 AM
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I think she blurred out a Tattoo in the pic... or yeah, could be skin damage/scarring.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 08:42 PM
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Never ask a man his income.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 07:17 PM
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The last thing the establishment and feminism wants is honesty on this subject. As things stand legally and societally in the western world families and relationships are a minefield for the average man and in the face of government sanctioned misandry avoiding these is becoming more of an option for many men.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 11:47 PM
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Same - depressing as heck. Reducing people to base sexual needs on both sides of the fence. Does nothing for me. Then again I've never used a dating app... maybe I'm just old or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 05:21 PM
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So between Chad all other men and all other women - that's a lot of hating to be doing. Perhaps it's the emotional labor they bang on about... they probably hate themselves as well. Phew. Exhausting.
/r/MGTOW12/08/20 08:37 PM
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Of course. Only one gender has accountability welded to them and it isnt females.
/r/MensRights11/08/20 06:19 AM
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Disturbingly a number of humans subscribe to the idea that the world you posit would in fact be a better one. How many actually deeply believe the crap they utter is another matter....
/r/MensRights09/08/20 06:40 AM
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Possibly also 4: Women won't read anything that attributes blame for poor decision making on themselves. . Not sure about this because am not woman, but it often appears that way to me. Which is perhaps why such articles are written the way they are.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 01:02 AM
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Holy crap.. 8 months is wort that? She contributed zip to the asset base or couples worth. Sod .. that..
/r/MGTOW22/06/20 05:23 AM
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Perhaps. I think neither gender has any monopoly on oppression when it comes to being the victim of it.
/r/MensRights31/05/20 08:49 AM
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Well if one doesn't see men as humans at all I guess rapes 'nicer' than outright gendercide. How does anyone become so bitter I wonder.. their hatred will hurt them so badly and injure so many innocents. But compassion and empathy are missing from such creatures..
/r/MensRights30/05/20 07:16 PM
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I think the majority of men through history have also been oppressed by the ruling class with pretty horrific outcomes for many.. most of those men led exponentially more brutal lives so their womenfolk COULD raise a family in relative safety. To see posts like this in social media stand is galling at the least and it concerns me that enough women sort of side with the sentiment to not rip such posters to verbal shreds is more concerning than the lunacy of those posting such hatred.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 07:14 PM
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How does one (of any of the 73 genders) 'invent' sex? It's like saying men invented trees.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 08:24 PM
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And yet those uttering such phrases decry men that would walk away from marriage wage slavery and service to women. If the future was indeed theirs they would welcome men stepping back, which I feel just shows another layer to their rank hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights08/05/20 07:55 PM
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REALLY WELL WRITTEN. And moving. Thank you.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 12:38 AM
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Well we're conditioned to be and seen as expendable by society to a large extent so violence F-->M is treated as deserved (as you stated). Which certainly doesn't excuse it ethically or morally, but it does seem to be 'a thing'... the downside to this attitude is of course men backing away from a justifiable threat and refusing to engage with a society that cares not for them.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 09:37 PM
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I would suggest similar to exist in predominantly female professions... and men are as a 'bumbling fool' somewhat of a media and societal trope of recent decades.... I think however tolerance for that attitude is fading (a good thing).
/r/MensRights26/02/20 09:26 PM
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Perhaps it is better to know what one has done or achieved than focus on how others laud or fail to laud the achievement? However you are correct (at least historically) that men have no matriarchal discrimination bias to blame a failure to achieve laurels on.. (perhaps sometimes racial biases)... I worry more about the societal 'women are wonderful just because' mentality more (personally at least).
/r/MensRights26/02/20 09:02 PM
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Off u go..
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:28 PM
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SCP-001 (Kalinin's proposal) - Off to have a read am I. As for an oppressive matriarchy ? Much the same as an oppressive patriarchy I suspect. Perhaps part of the reason the female protagonists look so terribly bad is that we are not used to such blatant aggression/violence from women - we have little cultural conditioning to understand it.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:10 PM
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Have read it. Haven't read anything similar. I think the premise is interesting in that given power the author paints women as just being just as nasty as men... I think it's a little far fetched, but it IS an interesting thought exercise.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 07:50 PM
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They are acting accordingly. Which may go a small way to explaining the increase in male shaming and general hatred expressed these days to persons with a Y in their genome.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 03:49 AM
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And those earning less than 6 figs p.a.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 08:02 PM
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Same. OMG. Ah well they can think as they will.. do as they will but if they are subsequently surprised when no male on the planet will commit to them... they are also idiots.
/r/MensRights17/01/20 11:53 PM
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To this end, should feminism succeed in feminising most men, would the same women accord the privileges to these neutered males as they extend/expect for themselves? I very much doubt it. This result would just increase the complaints 'where are the good men' 'men aren't men anymore' 'man up' exponentially.
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 07:38 PM
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Yeah a prostitute is more upfront about the transaction and a lot cheaper.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 07:50 PM
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Jessica Valenti has spent her whole 'journalistic' life operating at full retard. It must be exhausting.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 05:52 PM
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Appropriate.
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 06:40 PM
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Wifes a nurse. In her early 60s.. shes nursed in her younger days plenty of old men who still wake up screaming and in a cold sweat at 2am.. props tp her.. she has always made sure that other staff on her wimg dont give them crap over it.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 08:35 AM
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Pardon my cynical bitterness (its tuesday here) but I care far less than zero for Vices op ed click bait festering wound of an article. Extinction? Pfft... there are billions of humans for gods sake.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 06:53 AM
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It always will br.
/r/MGTOW08/09/19 07:03 AM
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Haven't seen my sons since they were 10. So yeah - it still hurts.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 10:01 PM
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Ah so all the 20ish uberfemsch sitting in the disabled seats I saw were really disabled time travellers. Its all good and you're right about 50s attitudes.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 07:10 AM
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Sorry you feel that way. A little civility to those less able than oneself doesn't go amiss from time to time. I'm not in the business of giving a seat on gender grounds... but the elderly frail injured or burdened? Why not? It costs me nothing.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 06:22 AM
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And yet young females will sit and ignore the disabled the elderly the heavily pregnant for they are the uberfemsche... Funny seeing this cartoon having just given my seat to a 70+ yr old man while all around 15-25 females completely ignore him. Is it possible to have less than zero respect for these?
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 04:17 AM
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Because it is difficult to extort resources and labour from someone who just doesn't engage at all with you.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 08:19 PM
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Very well written and on point without any hysterics. I am resolved on the current climate that should my wife and I seperate I will not be looking for another partner or even a date. I am at too much risk already without repeating the error.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 07:38 AM
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No foreskin no opinion.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:00 PM
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Is rather tragic. I also not know if sad or mad... maybe both...
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 12:50 AM
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It's sadder yet that she can find buyers.
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 08:38 PM
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No. We just will not serve. The system is broken for most men. Woman show no inclination to change the bias so men simply remove the risk factor. Which happens to be women.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 07:07 AM
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I think it more likely they'd want to co-op the narrative .. it's what they usually try and do. IE Fathers day is about single mums... remembrance day can be about Women who serve and unfortunate widows... just seems to be their usual playbook.
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 09:31 PM
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Its not just muscle.. men have stronger tendons ligaments and heavier skeletal structures enabling the bearing of more mechania stress.. which is why MTF trans people wipe the floor in womens sports.. they may have lost an awful lot of bulk but even years of estrogen and post op leaves them typically faster and stronger especially in fast muscle strength. Failing that just observe at a gym for a month or two.. even the women on T who are ripped as hell dont lift or push the amount of weight the …
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 07:45 AM
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All good mate.. have a good weekend!
/r/MensRights14/06/19 07:23 AM
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Oh dear.. My comment is my attitude to women expecting things of me... I can see how it could be taken though.... most definately NOT having a go at the lad.. i agree with him.. just a bit brutally and using less words....
/r/MensRights14/06/19 07:18 AM
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Or - fuck off and leave me be.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:00 AM
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And women wonder why men dont want to sign up much anymore for this shit show... so sorry it came to this for your friend. Sadder yet is that he's not the last to be driven to it... nor the first. :-(
/r/MensRights10/06/19 07:46 AM
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Really? Never heard that from any women... god that's fkd up.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 08:38 PM
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Funny how they laughed at Mike Pence originally... not many men that I see mocking the Mike Pence rule these days. I'll mentor a woman so long as it's not one on one and is done in an open environment... not because I want to but because my employers may require it of me.. by the same token I won't share a taxi with a female co-worker or a closed door meeting and I don't do lunch or meal breaks with them either. Just too risky. And Sandberg has the gall to ask men to expose themselves further in…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 07:08 PM
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Good analogy. Can confirm have owned both Civic and 2 911s.. guess which was after my ex left lol..
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 01:32 AM
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It is disturbing that women or buzzfeed find a human beings physical intense pain... funny. Do they also torture small animals?
/r/MensRights07/05/19 07:58 PM
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I don't honestly beleive this idea women are having fewer orgasms than men rubbish. And if they are I don't think that's mens 'fault' either. Female capacity on that front way exceeds the average males.... thanks Cosmo for more utter tripe.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 04:59 PM
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Well it's not like the welfare of the child is actually paramount I suppose to women espousing such views. They're just worried about damage to their own business model.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 01:37 AM
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He is probably happier.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 05:45 AM
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Females being jealous of cargo shorts pockets... Wear them both for utility and anti thot duties.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 06:01 PM
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This - Once a week shampoo only post leg day at gym. Solved my oily hair issues nicely.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 07:54 PM
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I doubt they'd be coherent enough as a bloc to 'elect' anyone. It'd just be one big mewling ongoing cat-fight...
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 02:16 AM
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thotocracy?
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 02:08 AM
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My wife also detests modern feminism.. probably far more than I do. So you are not at all alone OP. I still dont get where the vocal feminists think they have obtained a mandate to speak for womanhood. Seems stupidly arrogant to me.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 11:59 PM
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Want more domestic violence ? Be in a lesbian relationship. P&G will doubtless as alluded to above, incorporate this in their next sanitary product advertisement /s
/r/MensRights16/01/19 03:40 AM
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I also have a CPL. I challenge you to a game of chicken in opposing Cessna's, you can choose between RWY 09 or 27 I'm not fussy.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 12:37 AM
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Beautifully put. Saved for later reference.
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 07:24 PM
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Ran into exactly this with my ex in counseling. Her feels matter. Your's are childish. Man up. Be an example. Pay up. Shut up.... it's bizarre to enter a room as a supposed couple and be treated as a 'thing'... by someone paid to be a mediator. It would seem this isn't uncommon.
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 07:58 PM
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It's been 11 years since I saw my sons. Mostly these days having rebuilt a life I can deal with this.. but yeah sometimes at stupid times, the pain just crashes in.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 04:55 AM
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This is a guilt by association (of which the accused has no control over) akin to the argument that all Germans were guilty of the Holocaust.
/r/MensRights14/10/18 04:37 AM
3

Are you sure WW1 didn't have prosthetic armed female snipers ? I know they were everywhere in WW2 /s And yep +1 to Carlin's podcast.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 09:49 PM
2

They can't eat their wealth in a post crash disaster zone. Even in NZ. And the locals here I doubt will be remotely interested in helping those who benefited most from the circumstances in pre-crash society... as for China, they'd have too many problems themselves to entertain invading 2 small islands 9200KM away from them.. the logistics would be a bitch.
/r/MGTOW24/09/18 12:27 AM
2

Yep - I put some coin in after reading. Time to put money where mouth is.
/r/MGTOW21/09/18 09:32 AM
12

As a nuclear attack submarine I find this statement triggering.
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 09:10 PM
1

Yup. Another broken condom sized hole in her idea.
/r/MensRights15/09/18 06:35 AM
2

On the flip side as devils advocate - if this were a funded voluntary program that a male could sign up for and had funded IVF (because reversals often do not work) there would be no more men on this program raising anothers child... or "Honey I'm pregnant" or unwittingly becoming a father. But it'd probably wind up being mandatory or compelled and as a system would be rife for fk ups and abuse.... and her reasoning has more holes than can be counted.... and imagine the screams if only the male …
/r/MensRights15/09/18 05:56 AM
2

Will be pasing through Fussen in March (yeah cold) - great photo, and I'll be hoping for a cold clear day.. looks stunning.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 06:23 PM
1

Get your own rock. lol.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 01:03 AM
1

The expectation that men should actually care about a co-workers hormonal levels (or lack of eggs) amuses me. Why am I responsible for bolstering a used up woman's emotional state? Could not care less.. because it's none of my business.
/r/MGTOW22/08/18 08:38 PM
2

How long before vasectomies are illegal? Moderately sure that single men will also be taxed into oblivion for not chaining themselves to a purple haired land-whale as well.
/r/MGTOW15/08/18 10:30 PM
1

Where does one woman get off on trying to define what being a man is for the whole planet? Seriously deluded and beyond 9000 levels of self entitlement. I'll lift drink run play video games and party with my mates as and when I please... the idea that I or any male exists for womens benefit is repugnant to me.
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 04:55 AM
2

Be right back.. off for conversion therapy.. the other way /s
/r/MGTOW10/07/18 08:52 PM
3

I wouldn't be surprised if that statement holds for women of other nations also.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 10:37 PM
1

It's hardly a crisis if these women knowingly signed a loan contract as an empowered and adult member of society... it would be a crisis if they were in fact irrational children who.....
/r/MGTOW08/07/18 10:34 PM
1

We are to most women.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 10:54 PM
7

I think that has begun.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 03:23 AM
6

While enforcing a raft of additional standards for men.
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 04:45 AM
3

Ah Shanks pony. Very reliable.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 06:03 AM
1

<tips hat> Thank you Sir.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 06:01 AM
1

You have a very good point. I am sadly addicted to my 911. But perhaps sound logic will take over at some juncture. Being somewhat advanced middle age thots with ticking clocks or looking for a baby daddy generally leave me alone... I just have to deal with the dried up older set. Which is pretty easy to do.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 09:09 PM
2

2.7 Skinny body. S model?
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 10:02 AM
2

Cayman 718? Not sure about model but it's a Porsche Cayman.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 07:49 AM
5

Utter bullshit of the highest order. Men need people who have no clue (or indeed care for them) to stop telling them what and how to be.
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 08:41 AM
3

Interesting symbolism in the snake as clitoris idea.. hmm.
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 08:35 PM
2

I wait to find out that the consequences of this are in fact the fault of men. As they assuredly will be /s
/r/MGTOW11/06/18 07:35 PM
3

Who will land the fatal blow /s
/r/MGTOW11/06/18 02:54 AM
10

It benefits women to push the sex obsessed male as a trope for multiple reasons - Hypes the service women offer, Denigrates the potential purchaser, Ups the market value of the service, and makes men who don't want to pay the price (or cant) feel like they are missing out and inadequate..... always ask quo bono?
/r/MGTOW10/06/18 09:23 PM
24

The list is long but mostly female.
/r/MGTOW10/06/18 08:43 PM
3

Sorry am bicycle unable to help.
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 11:14 PM
3

Because they think they are the ones to demand change in others. The idea that others might change of their own accord simply never crosses their minds.
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 11:03 PM
4

Logic honesty and clear statements gain no friends amongst the robber queens.
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 03:49 AM
7

I think gravy conquered them and they don't handle the ensuing gravity very well.
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 12:59 AM
4

"no"
/r/MensRights25/05/18 02:54 AM
13

"Sorry my resources have better things to do.. bye"
/r/MGTOW14/05/18 08:42 PM
1

It's bloody annoying because in the time it takes them to work through one set on a machine others have done 4 sets and the queue for the machine they're parked on while chatting browsing tinder and taking instagram shots grows ever longer..... Some days I find it laughable other days it just pisses me off.
/r/MGTOW05/05/18 09:10 PM
6

The bridge didn't have a female lead engineering company.
/r/MGTOW02/05/18 03:23 AM
1

Thing is it takes a $15 clipper cut to sort out the mess. Ok you'd be stuck with very short hair but so what....
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 08:43 PM
4

And we are full in NZ.
/r/MGTOW13/04/18 12:28 AM
10

Yes. Are we allowed not even one space to ourselves?
/r/MensRights05/04/18 11:02 PM
4

It never occurs to them that men just might not G.A.F
/r/MGTOW19/03/18 01:04 AM
1

Ah ok.
/r/MGTOW15/03/18 10:36 PM
1

Seriously? They introduced drug testing for one gender only?
/r/MGTOW15/03/18 08:07 PM
16

The weapon would have been removed from him in that circumstance.
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 07:16 PM
4

I wish i could upvote the last paragraph more than once. Well said.
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:45 AM
1

I think the idea that we just dont care and just want nothing to do with them is something of an anathema to these creatures.
/r/MGTOW02/03/18 07:11 AM
5

I have no interest in watching a pair of fatty glands pretend to be a credible gamer. If one is a good gamer and entertaining the audience should not need to see 65% of ones tits.
/r/MGTOW27/02/18 07:02 AM
4

I doubt they would give the answers any credence anyway.
/r/MensRights25/02/18 11:40 PM
2

Or that men will colonize other planets just to be rid of the noise.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 03:18 AM
1

I think anyone who has ever watched the difference in weight load and repetition in a gym between male & female would not be surprised by this outcome. I find the outcome rather amusing.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 03:15 AM
8

A fair few actually would want to be father to a child that they were not going to lose in a lopsided custody battle. It would provide the option to men at least... which is more than we have at present.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 08:15 PM
1

So much this. 2nd hand saves a fortune.
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 07:51 PM
1

Read this on the train to work this morning (in the NZ herald) and then went to see if there was a 'where are all the good men gone' article on the page as well....
/r/MGTOW14/02/18 02:34 AM
1

Many males here in this forum do remember. . Most women have no idea who you're talking about.
/r/MensRights31/01/18 01:09 AM
2

To insinuate this man is unintelligent just shows what uneducated twits they are - one doesn't get into the SAS without a fairly high level of both IQ and EQ. That man has more character and redeeming qualities in his toenails than Yumi has in total. Stupid vacuous cow.
/r/MensRights26/01/18 07:00 AM
1

Perhaps as a male with a lived experience as such, I find most female social media to be uninteresting. I don't consider that to be remotely sexist passive or otherwise. Jessica needs to try doing a job that has some meaning other than this vapid victim manufacturing role she currently inhabits.
/r/MGTOW23/01/18 08:07 PM
3

Sshhh don't speak such logic! It is heresy /s
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 08:18 PM
17

So living longer wasn't enough... guess their human ATMS are dying to soon so the state has to step in. Utter BS.
/r/MensRights01/01/18 06:10 AM
1

The acid test is what happens if one dares to point out this rather obvious effect of people not being at work doing ... um work..
/r/MGTOW16/12/17 06:31 PM
1

Not so many people find 'unhealthy' 'sick' 'eating disorders' to be attractive so yeah ... something about basic mating instinct and trying to pass on good genes not utter crap ones.
/r/MGTOW05/12/17 07:24 PM
1

Norway isn't large enough.
/r/MGTOW05/12/17 07:23 PM
3

Dont forget having lots of money.
/r/MGTOW05/12/17 05:27 AM
1

gods dammit it! them pesky gym owners are onto me!!
/r/MensRights02/12/17 12:21 AM
3

Even in death a man cannot get a break from these creatures.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 03:30 AM
18

Internalised misandry...
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 07:36 PM
2

Why kill off slaves when one could just emasculate them physically?
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 12:03 AM
1

They will never ask our reasons. Same as 'where have all the good men gone articles'... they don't ask any men.. article will always focus on woman and how situation X affects her... it is as though society thinks men do not think or matter in any way except utility value.
/r/MGTOW14/10/17 07:39 PM
38

Did MRA people become Nazi's by dint of just being someone these harridans disagree with? Was it that simple? Don't agree with me = Nazi? Wow so many logic /s
/r/MensRights12/09/17 03:37 AM
7

The entitled and overly pious horse they ride across twitter is a one way hack to the desert of nine cats.... pay these silly cows no attention but gentle mockery.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 03:35 AM
0

IF it is as portrayed then the mother is beyond reprehensible.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:25 AM
-3

I would because all parents have done silly things and made bad decisions. Until OP knows for certain (bear in mind how recently OP say's this has come to light) it'd be rash to leap to decisions made in anger... none of that is to imply mother in question is some sort of paragon of virtue.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:02 AM
1

It has to ignore the holders of real power, else women lose the victim card and the whole house of cards tips on it's ass like Andrea Dworkin ice skating..
/r/MensRights05/09/17 11:02 PM
-2

There's some good advice already (IMHO) but please don't rush into any decisions made out of anger... parents do silly things and make big mistakes like all of us. You could of course follow up with your Dad and just gently develop that relationship independently of and without any confrontation with your mother... this gives your mum the choice in how she reacts or broaches the subject with you and will probably tell you all you need to know.... good luck... and stay positive, you've a lot of c…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 10:47 PM
1

Enjoyed reading that if for nothing else than the elegance of the prose, of which I wish today's journalists could lean closer towards.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 02:35 AM
12

Just call 0900 Patriarchy and they'll sort things out for you! /s
/r/MensRights18/07/17 01:09 AM
11

There will be also a colossal amount of bitching about student debt and how inherently sexist it is....
/r/MensRights18/07/17 12:43 AM
1

A lot of young men don't need to earn as much because they're not supporting a woman or children and have no intention of doing so.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 02:43 AM
1

Yes. Hence the sarcasm tag on my post good sir.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 04:05 AM
2

Maybe too obese to lift themselves off quickly? /s
/r/MensRights15/06/17 03:11 AM
5

Men post divorce are seen as responsible only for financial services to their ex and being out of 'partnership/ownership' of a woman their emotional state and the reality of their post divorce life is, it would seem, of no consequence or relevance to either the courts or their ex or indeed society in the wider context. And you feel like nothing more than a walking ATM... just a machine. It's a sobering experience and downright scary.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 10:48 PM
1

Logic is either pretzel in nature or redundant to those willing to blindly ignore such inconsistency.
/r/MensRights12/06/17 03:41 AM
1

Which reminds of the anger directed at people who point out in stories about pregnant men, that the 'man' in question - isn't biologically male.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 11:58 PM
1

Drawing attention to observed experience and reality is a good way to commit career suicide for a male it seems.
/r/MensRights11/06/17 11:46 PM
1

They're not going to humanise their opponents anytime soon.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 09:25 PM
4

Bicycle reporting in. Fish say's I am an inadequate bicycle.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 06:13 AM
1

Brilliant article - thanks OP.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 05:56 PM
1

Then she would have no company... although the cat would be happier.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 03:20 AM
2

Better get a 'man' to do it /s
/r/MensRights18/05/17 03:54 AM
5

And they never ask the men 'why?' ever. Just shaming tactics hurled with bitterness at what they themselves have wrought.
/r/MensRights14/05/17 07:05 PM
2

It'll be a cold day in hell before I apologise for the thoughts in someone else's head - male or female. They can own their own shit.
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:12 PM
2

What is this gender based brain hard wiring she speaks of? Is not gender nothing more than a social construct? /s ffs....
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:01 PM
8

I'm 47 and in a stable <i think> relationship. If it were to end for whatever reason there is no way I'd entertain re-entering the meat market... at this age the potential damage would be too great to recover from before retirement. I'd just have to work till I died instead.
/r/MensRights02/05/17 04:20 AM
14

Because that is our place in the narrative as it is presently framed by society at large. Which is rather symptomatic of the issue causing men to just bail out of the traditional role.
/r/MensRights06/04/17 03:37 AM
29

They're an anachronism that needs to die.
/r/MensRights05/04/17 10:06 PM
1

Goodness Cosmo... enjoy your time with your battery operated appliances then. At least that way you'll not have to worry yourself that anyone other than you is enjoying the pleasure you're experiencing. I have to wonder how they can give space to such an inconsequential issue when there are so many 'real world' issues women (and men) face. Batshit crazy twits.... (with apologies to any offended bats).
/r/MensRights25/03/17 10:00 PM
3

Internalised misandry /s
/r/MensRights22/02/17 07:49 PM
4

Exactly - it's the sane level headed and legally sensible thing to withhold violence as far as one can when a female assaults a male. And IMHO exhibits a level of maturity and rational thought (not to mention control over emotions) far above said violent woman. Not that his restraint will gerner him any praise from either his peer group (generally) or women in general, because he was obviously 'asking for it'. One does get tired of being blamed for ALL that ails the world - which makes no sense …
/r/MensRights22/02/17 05:31 PM
3

That's the last thing they'd do becuse REAL Patriarchy and misogyny is downright terrifying and would mean risking their lives to speak out against. Anyway they probably feel that tackling that is something men should do on their behalf. Bit like He4She... the assumption that one gender is 'for' the aiding of the other... more naunced than that but the titular phrase rings sour to me.
/r/MensRights20/02/17 04:12 AM
1

Hysterectomy. Would be the equivalent.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 08:51 AM
4

The rest of the planet would be grateful if you got someone like Bernie or Liz Warren ... either would be an improvement over the last choice offered.
/r/MensRights08/02/17 07:44 PM
7

And this sort of crap goes to prove, I feel, that males are a woman's chattel to extort funding from irrespective of circumstance.
/r/MensRights07/02/17 01:00 AM
1

I wonder if it's still rape if the condom breaks and neither party notices until afterwards? /s
/r/MensRights18/01/17 11:53 PM
3

It's your fault for earning it and giving it to her to spend /s....
/r/MensRights18/01/17 03:20 AM
3

We'll build one ourselves to keep them out when their's doesn't work.
/r/MensRights18/01/17 03:19 AM
15

Damn that hurts. Sometimes I think that to many woman and our gynocentric systems we're not just disposable but inconsequential beyond serving female needs.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 03:37 AM
3

Ah well at least you're not lumbered with her.. gotta try and see a silver lining. But yeah this whole business of excusing women who cheat for a plethora of vague nebulous reasons is just utter bull.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 03:31 AM
10

It was a depressing question at the outset. Little wonder the replies are from those bitten hard.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 03:27 AM
79

When my ex mother in law told me to stop crying and 'be a man' as she and my ex-wife left with my children.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 06:36 PM
1

Has she ever given you or has anyone told you what 'reason' she has for this predilection for hitting you? You have every right to self defence and she has no 'right' to violence. It's a sorry fact that our society is gynocentric and you have been on the repeated receiving end of that several times. Stand tall. Show measured restraint. You have far more dignity and maturity than this violent female. Remember that. I think you have a chance to change your family and friends perception if you meet…
/r/MensRights14/01/17 07:41 PM
2

The sad thing about the mentality behind statements like that is that it puts women in a bracket with small children as being incapable of any credible decision making. Were I female I would find the feminists spouting such rubbish deeply offensive to assume I had no agency of my own.
/r/MensRights08/01/17 03:02 AM
3

Which region does your NGO Support - asking as someone in NZ who knows the 'black dog' well.
/r/MensRights23/12/16 08:36 PM
3

Pretty sure they will and hopefully they demolish her fiscal future.
/r/MensRights15/12/16 09:31 PM
9

Stupidly I followed this approach of submit and placate in my first marriage. Lesson learned. Bitterly. Haven't done anything like that in my current (14yr) relationship. Both of us appear to be much much happier. Just my experience. Appeasement seldom works in anything but short time frames.
/r/MensRights11/12/16 07:28 PM
1

Welcome lady to the world of so very many trapped men working their proverbial off in hated jobs to provide trappings for their women at the expense of their happiness health and sanity. I also have little pity for her situation.
/r/MensRights07/12/16 12:48 AM
1

Agreed, however Western feminists seem unconcerned by the plight of their sisters in the middle east and 3rd world. Probably because confronting a very real patriarchy is dammed scary (and should probably be done by men/s).
/r/MensRights03/12/16 11:47 PM
2

That question has become more irksome than surprising over the years. If publications started printing the actual answers to the question instead of regurgitating the same stupid question (they're not interested in knowing the answer to) some progress might be made.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 05:01 PM
7

Feminist's do not believe anything outside of their doctrine. Why do such self empowered can do anything go get em ladies want marriage anyway? /s
/r/MensRights01/12/16 07:23 PM
3

Follow the money to see where the vested interest lies in this society.
/r/MensRights16/11/16 07:07 PM
20

Femininity so fragile.
/r/MensRights14/11/16 07:15 PM
3

This. Very.
/r/MensRights10/11/16 10:07 PM
13

Wonky methodology rather undermines the credence of the whole thing, but from personal anecdote, my sister saved $400 for a horse.. mum & dad stumped the remaining $2800+saddlery. I got a decrepit Volkswagen Beetle that my father went guarantor on my loan for, which I worked my teenage ass off to repay. When I landed a good job and upgraded my wheels, he bought the VW off me spent 4K doing it up and GAVE it to my sister, who had it stolen because she left it unlocked outside a bar one night whil…
/r/MensRights10/11/16 10:06 PM
3

And then when we don't 'conform' I'm sure we will hear 'where have all the good men gone' and 'oh for gods sake be a man'. Women telling men to 'be a man' is my pet peeve - we don't do this to them, and they have absolutely no idea what being a man is or is like etc..
/r/MensRights20/10/16 07:24 PM
1

Good points. I doubt it would have taken much to bring this silly matter to a swift close. Thanks.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 07:16 PM
1

Definitely trains. You raise good points about the risk of injury. Hmm. What would you have done? In terms of physical response? Moderate single rabbit punch to the nose? Just curious since it's been 30years since I trained in Judo.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 07:04 AM
25

Aside from the bullshit white knighting and attempt to get a pussy pass for this silly female, I quite liked the technique employed to bring things to a quick finish. No lasting damage was done. He left as soon as she was on the deck, and took no further action. Personally I think he showed admirable and measured restraint for someone so young.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 02:53 AM
1

Thanks for the well thought out answer. Appreciated. Just saying 'stupid' slightly annoyed me without some flesh on the statement. I'm not MGTOW and disagree strongly with a lot of what people like Sandman preach. However given that MGTOW is many different things to each different man and situation, going MGTOW for awhile (even if to sort your own sh*t out) is a valid decision. There are some facets to it as espoused on reddit/youtube that I've taken note of and it's improved my relationship and…
/r/MensRights28/09/16 08:57 AM
1

You could offer an explanation of why it is a 'stupid' choice perhaps? Or explain it's similarity to Red Pill theory? Or would that be overly taxing? Personally I'd consider that it makes sense for some men at various point's in their lives.. and I'd not have the audacity or stupidity to outright say that their decision is 'stupid'. But whatever.
/r/MensRights27/09/16 11:01 PM
4

Seems like a valid reason to avoid having anything much to do with single mothers if you're male.
/r/MensRights19/09/16 07:47 PM
5

Had an discussion with the Mrs last night when discussing a news article about a young wealthy man who punched the daylights out of a female police officer and was prosecuted with only 300hours of community service and a 5k fine. The news made the point that had the offender been poor and brown he'd have a custodial sentence like (shows example case) OR (another similar case) of at least 6 months.... my wife exclaims "what sort of mongrel hits a woman - he should get a year" to which I replied "…
/r/MensRights13/09/16 08:36 PM
3

And 'where was her husband - he should have supported her and guided her away from this act of madness' etc...
/r/MensRights01/09/16 02:47 AM
1

Oppressive patriarchy! /s
/r/MensRights31/08/16 08:26 PM
2

This is such utter bullshit and blatant gender discrimination being shoved in your face OP. The fact that most of the males you work with just swallow it is the most galling bit (to me). You could always turn up in female clothes and park there, claiming that you identify as such. It'd make for an interesting day at the least.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 01:29 AM
2

Doesn't matter in a 'no fault' divorce system though does it? But it'll probably be thrown out there anyways to enhance the victim card play.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 06:26 AM
10

13 out of 13 NZ crisis centres wouldn't do a thing because Y chromosome. Now I am a cross Kiwi. But not a surprised one.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 06:17 AM
5

They won't struggle to do so. Mainly because logic and impartiality are foreign concepts to them.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 10:47 PM
3

I expect the state confronted by MGTOW type trends to directly and indirectly tax males more as things progress. The odd's of making any effort to address the cause of the disparity are sadly slim.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 02:03 AM
1

So with such a starter marriage one guesses the ex wife will be filing for Alimony? So it's a starter for her and an ender for him. What a fabulous deal! /s - in before the next 'where have all the good men gone" article / bleat.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 09:40 PM
1

Nice short reductionist viewpoint - it neatly highlights the idiocy of the original article. I like.
/r/MensRights30/07/16 06:45 PM
2

We're also conditioned to deal with 'it' on our own. And as per the OP and many others - opening up is often a negative outcome. Personally I need only one or two people I can actually 'talk' to in my life - the rest are just 'fluff' and I'd not say a word of what was bothering me to them.
/r/MensRights29/07/16 08:03 AM
2

Bloody hell. Where are the loud calls for the judges resignation? Oh sorry I forgot the person getting ruined by this has a penis.
/r/MensRights27/07/16 07:28 PM
2

As a bored rarely laid white middle aged man who hates his mother between 14:30->16.21 each Monday, I can only imagine that I'm not the only one.... but the fear that haunts me OP is that I might be. /s
/r/MensRights21/07/16 10:31 PM
17

You apparently do not need to be married in a relationship or even have had sex with the mother to wind up paying for her children... so yes it's just state sanctioned robbery of a male to pay for a woman's decision(s).
/r/MensRights21/07/16 02:28 AM
1

Usually takes longer.. time is money lol
/r/MensRights18/07/16 08:47 AM
6

And mansturbation is just eww and creepy /s - not like empowering femsterbation...
/r/MensRights14/07/16 10:55 PM
1

Yes they do need that degree - to aid in marketing themselves to a high earning hard working slave, who will then support them as they try and make 'it' as a yoga devotee.
/r/MensRights14/07/16 08:43 PM
1

Whores have a morality above this creature.
/r/MensRights14/07/16 08:10 PM
23

Because female sexuality is beautiful and male is not. /S
/r/MensRights14/07/16 08:05 PM
1

You should be doing this for yourself.. not women.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 08:43 PM
1

Because the real problems are ones that don't tolerate criticism of any kind and tend to wind up with the plaintiff being maimed or dead.
/r/MensRights20/06/16 10:54 PM
1

OMG! FAT SHAMING! TRIGGER WARNING!! /s ..
/r/MensRights13/06/16 12:53 AM
3

Bachelor tax in 3....2....1....
/r/MensRights12/06/16 11:51 PM
1

Ah - so feminists will be pleased that men are going their own way and not marrying yes? /s
/r/MensRights10/06/16 08:01 PM
2

Regardless of gender - Lycra is not your friend. Source - have seen too many middle aged people in Lycra on bicycles. Am fearful.
/r/MensRights09/06/16 02:36 AM
29

Lets see - So woman cheats, cuckhold finds out and is faced with two horrid options.. leave and lose kids pay alimony (rest of his life) + child support OR stay and just grin and bear it and give the woman a free pass. And if he cheats then she will probably just take the divorce alimony route and he'll be stuffed. So cheating has minimal (fiscal)consequence to a woman and massive (fiscal) consequence to her husband. Any system that robs peter to pay/reward petra will always have the support of …
/r/MensRights28/05/16 09:39 PM
5

"Be a man. Work yourself to death." For women.
/r/MensRights10/05/16 03:41 AM
1

well men aren't really people as such.. they're utilities... /s
/r/MensRights22/04/16 12:41 AM
2

Have said 'no' several times. Mainly when sick or having work in the very early AM. 'Petulant child' barely describes the reaction.
/r/MensRights21/04/16 11:46 PM
1

Do this Captain Yid. For science. And to test the NYC Transit police's reaction times.
/r/MensRights21/04/16 11:44 PM
2

In this day and age I wonder how many of those women would be grieving the loss of a meal ticket VS any great sentimentality for the deceased.
/r/MensRights17/04/16 10:27 PM
3

Really rather shocked to read this as lived 2 years in Waiuku and confused and cross as to what mental and legal gymnastics are required to result in the non sentence given this creature.. have signed petition.
/r/MensRights08/04/16 02:39 AM
5

Not one male tear - Colleges and the progressive man hating bigots that brought about this mess deserve every damn lawsuit thrown at them.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 07:47 PM
1

At least the fish is alive.. so if men are bicycles, then we are but inanimate objects to those that subscribe to the sentiments of the quote... which is rather sick.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 09:03 AM
1

I think they're learning what gradual indifference is right now,.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 04:36 PM
3

It's the idea that a woman you never met or went out with or even spoke to other than perhaps fleetingly can totally fk up a young mans scholastic career with no onus of proof or penalty for perjury that really get's me. Even in several cases where it's been proved beyond doubt that the accuser is lying, she has seen no significant reprimand.... so what? Young men now learn forcibly that vagina=legal power? Wow. Kiss goodbye to recovering the birth rate.. which will also be men's fault I'm sure.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 01:00 AM
1

A few years back I'd have argued that point. But in today's climate in the western world - I think you're right.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 12:44 AM
27

"Where are all the good men?" - Staying the hell away from you and your indentured servitude honey.
/r/MensRights15/03/16 12:39 AM
1

Failed to fall pregnant. Because the danger of impaling oneself on a penis during female life is serious. Those who manage to avoid this fate should get a prize /s
/r/MensRights08/03/16 01:51 AM
2

Or the media. Or feminists.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 02:03 AM
2

You are quite correct. My rather second wave feminist mother was incensed to find my wife doing the ironing one Saturday morning while to her eye's I wasn't helping. My wife pointed out that she works 25 hours and I do 55+ and also that I'd not long finished mowing the lawns. So perhaps the takeaway from this AD and resulting discussion is that people should act like the adults they are and negotiate as a couple to agree a work share at home that is both sane fair and sensible? I also think the …
/r/MensRights03/03/16 08:00 PM
3

The ad makes the point that she works also. They both do. Therefore work at home should be split etc... it's still a crappy ad but the premise is not as one sided as you ascribe. IMHO.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 02:46 AM
2

Thought it was a simple practical reason - thanks :-)
/r/MensRights21/01/16 09:00 PM
2

Out of interest, what (other than the price) is the significant difference or advantage to Men's deodorant ? Just curious.
/r/MensRights21/01/16 01:48 AM
1

Then they win so that's more than pointless.
/r/MensRights14/01/16 08:38 PM
1

And yet those unfortunate women had to seek shelter and aid from German men.. to escape the clutches of Islamic men who have no respect for infidel's and even less for infidel women. How ironic and telling... where are the feminists to decry a real imported rape culture? Strangely silent it seems.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 10:07 PM
1

This is nothing new. Happened to me as an 18 year old at first job in the late 80's in an office of all 30+ year old women... and then it happened to the 20yr old replacing me when I got promoted. The whole gamut of sexist crap that men are lambasted for works just commonly in reverse from my experience.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 10:27 PM
4

Maybe men today are so used to everything being their fault this blame the men trope so often trotted out falls on dead ears now.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 09:11 PM
26

She'd probably have dumped him on a whim even she had married him and had kids... after all plenty of her sisters do that every day.. but that would have nothing to do with anything because woman do not make wrong choices and have no agency in their fate /s.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 09:10 PM
4

I found the last line about Still and Silent boys especially sad as I cannot help but think the intent of this is to make still and silent men who just do as they are told. It will most certainly be a poorer duller and altogether more drab world full of nothing but safe comfortable beige lives if that truly came to pass.
/r/MensRights04/01/16 09:07 PM
14

I wonder how long till most men hate the world right back?
/r/MensRights10/12/15 07:20 PM
5

There are so many 'players' in the Syrian conflict the odd's of disparate fleeing male refugees forming an effective additional force is essentially NIL. They will simply be subsumed into existing forces depending on which faction picks them up. It's not like they will be asked if they want to fight... they won't have any 'agency' in the matter.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 09:48 PM
6

You do understand that fighting for one's country in the Syrian context means being dragged into whichever militia grabs you first or hauled into the Regime forces? It's not a nation state conflict. It's not like fighting for Canadian liberty against the invading other nation. SO to say 'stay and fight for your country' is a bit unrealistic.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 07:22 PM
2

Oh I'm fairly sure an obliging white knight would build them one.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 06:36 PM
1

The author is bought and paid for by an agenda that hates him and see's him as nothing more than a useful idiot.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 07:10 AM
3

Especially when the campfire keeps burning the hut down.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 03:16 AM
6

Agree. SO very much. Current partner of 12 years actively encourages me to go hang out with mates or go fishing skiing running whatever.. chalk n cheese to the ex wife... I don't think women respect a guy who doesn't say NO from time to time. Just my experience - shit way to learn it but learn it I did.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:00 PM
7

Ex wife did the whole your friends hate me and if you love me... blah blah blah crap... being young n oh so dumb I fell for it. Silliest thing I ever did outside of getting married in the first place. And when the marriage fell to bits like so many of them do I was neatly isolated from friends and family. Game set and almost match to ex wife. SO- If your partner is playing the whole 'drop your friends or me' game for the love of all that's holy do NOT do it.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 08:50 PM
5

Lol thanks for making me feel old.. :-)
/r/MensRights10/10/15 08:13 PM
1

So much for respect needing to be earned.
/r/MensRights28/09/15 08:12 AM
1

It's kind of a sad reflection on education and the general populace. Wife and I both got 12/12.
/r/MensRights14/09/15 01:42 AM
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I'm just waiting for it to be the husbands fault in the media reporting... shouldn't take too long /s
/r/MensRights09/09/15 09:30 PM
6

Aside from the obvious disgust and disbelief I had reading this - my thoughts are with the cab driver. No one gives a shit about his mental state it seems... I mean he was just sexually assaulted blackmailed thrown in jail and defamed. Wonder how much victim support and counseling / damages he's received. I would warrant absolutely NONE... damn the patriarchy it fails yet another male /s
/r/MensRights08/09/15 07:15 AM
1

Giving credence and a stage to both has been .. unfortunate.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 04:01 AM
36

Happy FKN fathers day. How did we get to this?
/r/MensRights05/09/15 09:15 PM
8

I wonder if there's merit in declaring yourself bankrupt and having the house seized in a foreclosure. The situation as described is unfair unjust and untenable. Failing that - is there a country you could move to? Just about anything has to be better than the situation you are in.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 10:30 PM
1

I've used that line a few times when I've heard women remarking on the uselessness of such male lifestyles. It's not a popular line but the reactions can be interesting.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 10:49 PM
2

And the women in that bar will still expect the men to buy them drinks.....
/r/MensRights03/07/15 12:24 AM
17

I hate that the people saying it have absolutely NO idea of what being a 'man' entails or is like. Mainly because they're often women.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 10:38 PM
3

And that is a question that is never asked in the public narrative. Which is rather sad - there's no credence given to the idea that women are not without faults of their own.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 05:32 AM
1

My story is similar to Drummonds. Except after a botched suicide attempt I got furious at myself for giving my ex the satisfaction that she'd 'got' to me... and decided to LIVE for me. For once. Not what others expected me to be. Despite child support I worked my ass off and doubled then trebled my income, bought an old 911 (because I wanted one), took up hiking and hit the gym. I will never be what others expect me to be again.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 12:07 AM
0

Was thinking exactly that.
/r/MensRights23/05/15 11:58 PM
4

He's fortunate that she'd have no interest. It means women that DO have interest in him probably have slightly better intentions.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 10:43 PM
3

Notice how even though it's supposedly women with the higher intelligence and income - it's (at the end of the article) up to men to 'fix' things? The irony (as a divorced Kiwi male) is to me - hysterical. In a very black humored way.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 10:40 PM
1

As a non American I understand some of the interventions (Afghanistan) and think others woefully ill conceived (Iraq). As for Hillary - I think she would be over eager to send predominantly young men to action based on her track record of support for military solutions (if there is such a thing). I doubt she would do anything either to improve the role of males in American society and would wager that plunging marriage rates would hit record new lows as men realise they have so little to gain in…
/r/MensRights21/04/15 08:08 AM
3

NEVER.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 06:29 AM
2

More to the point if women supposedly want equality-why would having a vagina exempt you from being blown to bits so Halliburton and co' can bag some good 'rebuilding' projects. Want to be equal? Fine. SO long as you want equal numbers in the trenches and coal mines and on the back of rubbish trucks and homeless and ... the list goes on.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 05:57 AM
4

I have but one upvote to give.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 02:35 AM
1

Ah. Well if it's not a woman as victim/sufferer it's outside the narrative.. actually it's not even considered let alone acknowledged.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 02:33 AM
1

I would have read the article carefully, but an email from patriarchy.com arrived asking me if I'd met my rape quota for the month - I tried to explain that I'm just not really into rape as part of my career development path, only to be told in quick time to 'grow a fkn pair and get some quality raping in'. I guess after I get done with that, I'll have to whip my penis out and destroy the environment. /s
/r/MensRights06/03/15 02:14 AM
1

Mob mentality.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 08:38 PM
2

Yes - sorry bit noob move on my part. link in comments.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 04:47 PM
1

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=11401043&ref=Life_FBpage
/r/MensRights13/02/15 05:39 AM
4

That was the legitimate answer.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 07:19 AM
3

So if I lightly hit my wife in a manner unlikely to cause significant pain that would be OK by you?
/r/MensRights09/02/15 01:45 AM
8

Because a crashing incidence of hetero sex encounters will not of course lead to a plummeting birth rate and collapsed tax base and dying society... so long as the vegan greenham common lesbo brigade can still get their organic cucumbers all will be well /s
/r/MensRights29/01/15 09:10 PM
1

Your sister's not a teacher per chance? Mine is. Decided to explain to me at length how radical feminism differs from traditional in that it seeks to replace male based systems and structures with female based ones. I listened patiently then rejoined calmly with "Thus seeking to replace an injust set of structures with another set purposefully and knowingly designed to be equally injust in the opposite direction". She decided to talk to other people for the rest of the evening. Which was quite f…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 09:43 PM
2

A great example of how given a chance people can make a bit of difference for goodness.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:48 PM
12

"I'm gonna go to a bar and punch a random dude in the face. If he DOES dodge it, it's due to his better spatial reaction skills the cis gendered pig"... /s
/r/MensRights12/01/15 12:56 AM
2

I sometimes feel people of both genders think too much of what should be done for 'them' without consideration of what they should do for their partner... patience and calmness seems often lacking. I quite liked the article and felt it gave some very simple good advice to wives. I wish my ex wife had read some of it and I'm glad my current de facto partner of 14years is bright enough and caring enough not to need to.
/r/MensRights12/12/14 05:32 PM
2

I wonder if she is regretting her SRS - and blaming pretty much everyone but herself.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 01:55 AM
1

Inquiring cats want to know.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 01:25 AM
1

IRL LOL - Thanks, the empire would be proud of the OP.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 06:41 PM
1

My SO is of the opinion that while for many years the 'system' favored men (often at the expense of women) it has now swung far to much in the other direction and that balance is called for. We have some interesting MRM related discussions.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 12:45 AM
13

I read that as too many young men having their own ideas about how to live their lives = nazis or something like that..
/r/MensRights07/10/14 04:53 AM
12

Because if you have a vagina it's OK (sort of cos reasons) in the court of popular opinion to have sex with adolescent boys because well oppression and feelings not being understood /s
/r/MensRights06/10/14 06:52 PM
4

She could have asked a male (shock!) why.. but she's blind and deaf to 49.8% of the worlds population so it would have been a pointless effort on Valenti's part.
/r/MensRights17/09/14 09:16 PM
1

Reading this article reminds me of how one would talk to a dog. It also immediately reminded me of "The princess and the plow horse".
/r/MensRights14/09/14 10:26 PM
1

I have but one up-vote to give :-(
/r/MensRights12/09/14 05:52 PM
2

Feminists are not (I think) remotely bothered by what men think of them. But they ARE terrified that women will hold them accountable for men walking away from traditional male roles/shackles.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 10:41 PM
11

Sorry - She instigated the break up, rubbed your nose in it by sending you the picture of the 20 year old, and then goes postal when you ignore her? You are well better off being out of any relationship with this creature. And as others (many) have said - report the incident. She will react in a similar way to others I suspect.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 03:36 AM
0

The whole posited situation is beyond insane. Perish that a woman might be responsible for her decisions. /s
/r/MensRights15/08/14 01:36 AM
2

Flush uncertainty principle? lol.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 10:24 PM
1

I did this in WOW for a time. Can vouch for the same effect you describe.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 03:06 AM
1

Teacher intends to be both A-Alive & B-Not embroiled in a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 02:20 AM
2

He may have tackled her and thus stopped the rapidly escalating physical confrontation (with no help form the teaching staff), but I watched the end of this clip four times and cannot see that he 'hit' her at all. I think (just IMHO) that the young man was remarkably balanced in his response... but yes - feminists would edit it just as you portray.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 02:19 AM
1

Marriage? /s
/r/MensRights06/08/14 10:59 PM
7

While no law as such is 'perfect' I think the model we use here in NZ is working quite well. Both parties are treated as adults capable of making an informed decision as to the sale and purchase of an arrangement. There are noises from feminist types here however to adopt the Nordic model also - but this is not supported by sex workers or their collective agency so is likely to fall flat on it's face. (thankfully).
/r/MensRights22/07/14 10:38 PM
2

Thanks for posting this - I started full time work at 17 in 1987 & at that time I was pretty toned and slim (still am but hey the wear of years blah blah).. I worked in a team of 8 out of which I was the only male. Used to get my ass slapped quite often by my boss and pretty much all her underlings. Most of these women were in their 30's plus (so could almost have been my mothers age). Admittedly it was the 80's and attitudes were far different then but I've always wondered how common crap like …
/r/MensRights21/07/14 02:29 AM
2

Yep - a plan with no moral legitimacy whatsoever and yet there are and would be segments of society that would not take issue with it. Sad beyond words almost.
/r/MensRights15/07/14 12:10 AM
1

Depends on how great your expectation of intercourse is. There are a gazilllion reasons other than sex to visit NZ.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:28 AM
1

Not sure - Don't think so. I would like to think logic/sanity would dictate no complaint lodged in the 12years we've been apart = not a leg to stand on with an accusation, but if a law like this got in I would have to defend the indefensible anyway. Sorry if that is a little garbled - I'm at the pub. Which has a non constructive effect.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:26 AM
1

Thank you for such a good concise review.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:52 AM
2

You are correct. In NZ rape is the penetration of a female by a male where consent has not been given by the female - Edit as others in this thread have stated.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 02:22 AM
1

lol... ah irony.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 02:09 AM
3

Fortunately for us Kiwi's the odds of Labour forming a government this election are looking slim. Then again if the incumbent National government thought it would earn them a swing in the polls I'd not be surprised to see them try something like this also. I wonder now should this law ever come to pass whether my ex wife would lodge a charge of rape (even though it was over 12 years ago) just out of spite. After all - what is to prevent her from doing so? There is no penalty for a false accusati…
/r/MensRights11/07/14 02:05 AM
1

A lot of someones are probably regretting that decision. Well those with a brain cell.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 07:50 AM
1

ROFLCAKES... sorry but that wouldn't survive one city block in most Western societies. It's an interesting if somewhat odd mental image though :-)
/r/MensRights24/06/14 03:52 AM
2

I'd hate to be on campus in this day and age without being almost paranoid about getting consent on tape... in the current climate it's rape if she decides her one night stand wasn't actually what she wanted after all. One is also apparently a rapist if the accused seeks due process and some level of evidence prior to having his future destroyed on what in any historically realistic terms is the whim of a sluttish floozy. Sorry - just pisses me off this whole abrogation of female responsibility.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 03:45 AM
6

Heaven forbid that people be responsible for the amount they drink and if they decide to have sex at any point along the scale of intoxication. All about abrogating one side of any responsibility for making dumb choices.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 03:41 AM
1

The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:55 AM
1

It was certainly beaten into me. By my father. With the tacit complicity of my mother.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:34 AM
1

Your parents need to educate your Sister that violence against other persons is NOT an appropriate form of self expression. If they are not prepared to do this and her conduct continues it will be both to your own detriment and hers... and I would ,as have others, strongly counsel that you consider talking to someone about it.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:33 AM
3

For some reason a John Lennon song played in my head when I read your comment... something about not being the only dreamer.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 04:16 AM
9

True. I guess it's alien to them and therefore something to be derided and feared. I would sort of understand that if said women identified as lesbian (but would question how or why they'd be bothering to pass any comment or judgement on male sexuality in that case) - it's a little more disturbing if women identifying as hetero have a full on dislike/disdain of it. Certainly a rather self defeating attitude if said female anticipates intimate relations with men.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 10:11 PM
8

And yet those women probably own a $1200 sybian... lol.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:58 PM
36

I reckon it's just female fear of sexual replacement by a sex aid showing itself as scorn. An unfounded fear in much the same way as men being cross at women using vibrators is unfounded. If you want to provide pleasure to yourself the means is not important (so long as it's safe) and as far as I can work out - it's nobodies business to chuck rocks at people of either gender for doing it.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:57 PM
2

Good for you - I mean that. In many way's. More men teaching can only be a good thing.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 07:13 AM
2

Far fewer males teaching these days. Wonder why.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 03:52 AM
1

Their conduct being typically simpler to zero in on and address.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 04:21 AM
2

Sadly it's been given weight many a time prior.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 04:12 AM
5

Too much pain. From the shooting victims. To the parents of the shooter. Sadly compassion seems lacking - so much grandstanding on a pile of corpses :-(
/r/MensRights28/05/14 01:25 AM
1

I think women are crueler. More vicious? Certainly emotionally, less so physically. Just my experience of DV.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:48 AM
11

No: Because short of defending oneself from attempted murder in front of public witnesses - hitting a woman will wind any guy in a sh&t tonne of crap with the cops... it's a no win option for a male. Basically if he hit's her she will 'win' if there is such a thing. OPS been remarkably rational and in control given the described situation. And your expounding answering a woman's violence with more violence in return is not a good idea on many levels. Especially when there are other options - as …
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:46 AM
1

This idea that respect is something women are entitled to by default really rankles me. Basic courtesy yes - we all deserve that (at least at the outset). Respect - No! One needs to earn or prove oneself worthy of it.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 01:34 AM
13

So glad you made the call to leave. Well done - abuse regardless of gender has no excuse.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 01:32 AM
2

The effects are likely the same on young men as they are on young women - to greater or perhaps lesser degrees. The only way any significant concern about it would ever be raised is if that effect negatively impacted women. (Or was perceived to negatively effect women).
/r/MensRights21/05/14 04:13 AM
2

THIS. In spades. It doesn't occur to the FAIL that men might do things relative to their own pleasure and irrespective of a woman even being involved in any way at all.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 10:46 PM
1

How did this go when/if you bought the matter up? You deserve privacy like anyone else. If you cannot obtain this under your mothers roof you will have to move out and should do so at the earliest opportunity. Your mothers conduct has been very disturbing. She may well have underlying fears or fixations driving it - but it's certainly inappropriate and you need to remove yourself forthwith from the impact point of it. She herself should perhaps consider help with the issues driving her actions, …
/r/MensRights02/05/14 12:19 AM
1

LOL unintentional google plus reference is .. unintentional
/r/MensRights29/04/14 08:23 PM
1

+1 BUT If true: Much cruelty ladled on this fellow, to what end? Comments like these show only an inability to feel compassion and mark their authors as shallow spiteful narrow minded persons who almost delight in the promotion of suffering. Sad humans.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 07:59 PM
2

I dunno dogs are more loyal it seems to me. So perhaps buying a dog is/was good advice. No offense taken good Sir.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 07:40 PM
7

That sounds positively rational compared to most systems.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 04:03 AM
5

I have found over my 14 years of paying child support and near total alienation that defining myself outside the tags of father and husband (or ex husband) helped. Well worked for me. Although it took a suicide attempt to make me realize that (thanks to my flatmate who came home and wondered why a car was running in a closed garage).
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:54 AM
2

If you refer to the 'black dog' it's well named. And very real.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:45 AM
19

This. In many cases everything of meaning is stripped from you. And the person initiating the divorce seems to lose nothing. In my case the hardest thing was knowing that I would likely never have a chance at even a semi normal relationship with my children. Still my 18years of financial slavery are nearly done and I can sort of see light now... I certainly had many a black suicidal morning on the way.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 10:27 PM
1

The horror. My wife snores more than I do. Which her own children will complain/attest to. It never bothers me since nothing short of a Pussy Riot protest by my window will wake me from my patriarchal slumbers.. /s
/r/MensRights08/04/14 04:07 AM
1

We are told we do not cry, we must be heroic and brave or stalwart. We are raised to open doors and fix flat tires for stranded women or change fuses in basements and kill spiders. We are shown that it is funny when a woman hits or slaps a man on TV. We are shown and told that child rearing and housework is beyond our grasp and our attempts to do this garner only laughter though we can split the atom go to the moon and put up a fence (however badly). We see that when a woman in a position of pow…
/r/MensRights24/03/14 12:04 AM
1

The adult holds a pussy pass. Sick that anyone can condone repeated sexual assault (which should be by definition rape) or make an excuse for it, when the victim is by any legal standard - a child.
/r/MensRights23/03/14 10:47 PM
0

Bread and circuses.
/r/MensRights04/03/14 08:49 PM
1

Soap only checking in from NZ - If you have a Y in your genome and want to make use of a 'beauty regime' that's entirely up to you. It is by no means a 'need' - but you are supporting the cosmetics industry, which is nice of you....
/r/MensRights04/03/14 02:58 AM
3

I suspect this happens because the two legged ATM is out of cash. Which was the bit that was of worth to them. Well - just going on what happened to me.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 01:46 AM
1

A lot of men aren't and won't even sit at the same table anymore. For good reasons.
/r/MensRights23/02/14 07:10 PM
3

Fighting back - MGTOW Herbivore Men etc? A silent resistance. It's started small but has now got to the point where MSM have picked up on it and the feminists themselves are complaining (which is what they do well). Men as a group can win simply by not giving women what they want. No violence or fighting is required. Just a silent refusal to partake of the deal as currently offered.
/r/MensRights23/02/14 07:06 PM
1

Embarrassing for me as a Kiwi to read this. Was confused as to how stabbing someone in the heart is not murder - then remembered a bus advertisement parading "Woman's republic of NZ" and had to remind myself that like many other Western nations NZ grants plenty of 'pussy' passes. Do not and cannot see how the victims family can possibly call this 'justice'... a sad day for jurisprudence in this country IMHO.
/r/MensRights16/02/14 08:29 PM
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Because women have no agency /S
/r/MensRights05/02/14 01:17 AM
1

Couldn't agree more. Deserve being the key word. Other than basic civility and manners respect is an earned/deserved 'thing'... or should be.. regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 10:01 PM
1

"The social problem is that men are raised to hate women" - Not sure if someone's pointed this out yet, but the majority of the 'raising' of boys to men is done by their..... mothers? <cough>
/r/MensRights28/01/14 11:54 PM
7

Prostitutes are more honest about the proffered arrangement(s).
/r/MensRights12/01/14 07:45 PM
1

Fred on Everything has been one of my go to blogs for years. His essays are scathing to the point and often very funny. Well worth a browse through his musings.
/r/MensRights30/12/13 01:28 AM
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A walking (staggering under load) ATM machine is how I felt both when married and more so divorced. It's an ugly thing to realise that the woman you loved loved your wallet far more than ever she did you yourself.
/r/MensRights28/12/13 08:19 PM
1

Feel a little sick after reading that article. Nice to feel expendable first thing in the morning /s
/r/MensRights17/12/13 09:21 PM
1

EEK! Runs away....
/r/MensRights11/12/13 03:00 AM
3

As my wife said when she saw and picked up a pink tool set (specifically the claw hammer) "Why the fk would I buy that? It's too light and small to get much oomph behind it and why the hell would pink make me any better at putting up trellis?" We have one large pile of tools in this house - if the first hammer on the rack is too large she just grabs a slightly lighter one. None of them are pink. Because none of them need to be. Then again my wife is 50+ and grew up on a farm so she's the most co…
/r/MensRights30/11/13 06:31 PM
1

Or "Why Women take so much" Fairly typical BBC stuff. Being told one is useless by the media just gives me an excuse to be less helpful to females./s
/r/MensRights26/11/13 01:46 AM
1

Which is why this EU idea is about boards of directors. They don't want to make up 30% of coal miners for example. Then again I may be mistaken...
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:28 AM
1

LOL - I am a bit like that.. sadly I will never make it in today's society of metro-sexuals... but I can live with that.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 12:47 AM
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I blame my shopping habits on the matriarchy as malls are oppressive symbols of a smothering matriarchal blanket that denies my masculine right to exist as an equal. /s Or I just hate shopping in general. I shop surgical strike styles. Identify purchase required. Quick recon. Pick slow time of day at shops - strike/buy just that and leave. :-)
/r/MensRights20/11/13 08:54 PM
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Go to any mall. Count how many shops cater to women VS Men specifically. Check stat's on % of $ spent by each gender. Don't blame the gender that consumes the most = feminist ecology. My clothes are all with few exceptions +3 years old. My car is 39 years old. I buy what I need not what's in fashion but since I have a Y in my genome it's probably my fault the environment is on the slide.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 06:49 PM
1

Perhaps you should play squash. Great analogy.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:50 PM
1

That would imply taking ownership of the situation and probably taking the lead to ensure a good outcome. Which won't happen. Did not enjoy? It's his fault. What rubbish. A+ for the succinct observation though Aaod :-)
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:49 PM
1

BRB - Bunch of stuff I now need to relocate to avoid EEEK reactions from my Mrs.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:19 PM
1

Oh FFS woman up! Quit bleating to the media your sob story. . For a court in the west to grant such custody to the father, there are likely to be compelling reasons for that decision. None of which are likely to see the light of day.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 02:16 AM
1

Excessive screen size is a weapon of oppression engineered by CIS Males to disable woymns in the modern world! Oh the horror!
/r/MensRights11/11/13 12:29 AM
2

My wife - she of the smaller hands, went out and obtained an S3 Mini. Why - because it's better for someone with rather small hands to use. She tried the S4 and S3, didn't want an IPHONE and then lo and behold a smaller S3 that fitted. So seriously Jezebel what a load of tripe. Could not the author of that tripe simply have tried out phones before buying like a rational human? Guess not.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 12:26 AM
2

When I saw Hillary saying that - I wanted to bodily pick her up and dump in a trench along with the mud shit flies hot lead and the dying as they call their trinity - Water God Mother.. Her words were a mockery of epic proportion. Everyone suffers in a war but it's not women doing the dying en masse.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 07:11 AM
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I always thought that women were better at cruelty full stop. Just a personal observation/opinion. If you want to really knife someones soul - a woman will do a better job of it and be less likely to be bothered by the repercussions. Often because there are none or minimal repercussions. Regardless bullying and attitudes like this are appalling from whichever gender they arise.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 07:08 AM
2

I thought feminism taught that women were the equal of (and these day's it seems the superior of) men? This case simply illustrates that this idea holds water even when concerning crimes against humanity/genocide. Recently I read of the women who served in the SS in the camps during the war. Many of them were every bit as brutal and evil as their male counterparts - it's not as though they were made to bash babies heads against walls, they just hopped on the band wagon as it were. It seems that …
/r/MensRights08/10/13 12:33 AM
1

Ditto. Wish I'd had mine done at 22 not 28. Long story. Not an uncommon one though.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 12:19 AM
2

After losing almost all of my access to my two son's in the family court along with the house and pretty much everything in it plus 12 years down (and 18 months to go) of child support that amounts to a mortgage sized pay deduction every month - I'm fine with it. My current partner had children (almost adults when we met) and did not want any more which sort of worked out well because after going through the above the first thing I did was get the snip. Cost? NZD $350 done at family planning, wh…
/r/MensRights08/10/13 12:18 AM
1

As many have said - had the genders been reversed the reaction would have been markedly different. Hopefully the guy in question has learned not to tolerate this sort of abuse and has just dumped her at light speed... she did after all humiliate him in public on top of the abuse.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 11:50 PM
1

Somewhat true I suppose - seems an abrogation of parental responsibility to me depending on circumstance I guess. Difficult to be responsible for a slightly younger sibling who has no interest in doing as you ask... my experience anyway.. my sister would do shit sometimes just because she knew I'd swing for it.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 05:53 AM
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Read all this and for a moment had no words. Read it again and the bit about you copping the damage for your sisters acts really rang a chord. Same story here, She would get yelled at for about 10min and then I get grounded or yelled at because I'm supposed to be her big brother and stop her doing stupid shit. Is there some cultural norm that dictates that male sibling is responsible for female siblings errant conduct? Seems more prevalent than I thought... perhaps it's more a case of parents ab…
/r/MensRights30/09/13 12:46 AM
2

"How about we (men) just ignore you (women) and let you run the world including the oil changes? Seems like a better deal than the one you offer. Nice example of blatant hate speech too. Purged? As in purged like Stalin styles? Nah. Enjoy the world you and your ilk create - I don't want any part of it," Well being somewhat irresponsible (perhaps) I felt moved to post on http://www.facebook.com/pages/Men-are-Evil/388676584573526 Not that a post makes any difference to anything but hell - a little…
/r/MensRights25/09/13 03:08 AM
4

Regardless of anyone's thoughts on if a man can be raped or not (and far as I'm concerned the answer is sure he can), the pain in those simple few words on placards is all too real. Who needs monsters when this sort of thing happens and often from those who are supposed to care for you. Major props to those courageous folks who spoke up, the damage done is huge and I don't think it matters a jot what gender the victim is - the pain and damage caused is terrible.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 12:31 AM
2

Exactly the same story. None of the woman in my previous job would lug boxes or stack them, so twas always my lot. In my current job I move my filing crates and those in other sections regardless of gender do their own. Didn't even have to argue about it - just ignored their stuff till they had nearly nowhere to sit or work and then went on leave. By the time I got back miraculous things had taken place - apparently senior MGMT went postal at their accumulated box empire. Oh dear how sad.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 03:53 AM
3

And a whore is -honest- about the transaction being provided. More than can be said about the woman described in this thread.
/r/MensRights20/08/13 09:10 PM
0

Fine - let women serve in the combat role if they so wish. In their own regiments/battalions etc. Mixing them in with male soldiers is a poor idea for a great raft of reasons. IMHO. This would also dramatically lower the incidence of sexual offending against female soldiers (maybe). I think women are capable of serving in a combat role effectively but by simple physical nature the methodology by which an all female combat unit would accomplish it's objectives and go about daily life in the field…
/r/MensRights12/08/13 11:01 PM
2

Yes there is a reason. One less money earner for them to utilise in the acquisition of children and lifestyle.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 01:52 AM
1

Nicely summed up.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 01:37 AM
1

Utter drivel and sensationalist tripe from that bastion of investigative journalism the Daily Mail. As someone else said in these comments about all men just taking a total break from the world for the month, I expect society as we know it would last until the first needed set of oil changes.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 01:35 AM
1

Well that rather changes the whole story. Thanks for the link, quite enlightening. Still do not think the guy should be charged with rape but sexual assault would perhaps be more appropriate. Again - thanks for posting the whole link.
/r/MensRights20/06/13 12:57 AM
2

Heaven forbid that perhaps the woman could take some responsibility for the 'joint' decision to engage in intercourse. So it wasn't quite how she imagined it to be going into the act - how about accepting reality and maybe using emergency contraception rather than bleating to the courts? Another saddening case of sanctioned lack of responsibility for ones own actions.
/r/MensRights19/06/13 09:32 PM
3

Ah such a common tale OP. Had similar in Primary School - four Girls in a little pack from a three years ahead of my class used to shove me around tease and slap me. The final straw for me was when the eldest and biggest thought it amusing to shove me back into a wall put her hands around my throat and lift me (remember I'm 6/7 at the time)... and like you I had drilled into me the whole NEVER hit a Girl thing. Struggling to breath dramatically cut through that bullshit and I smashed her nose an…
/r/MensRights26/05/13 09:42 PM
1

Run. Now. That is all.
/r/MensRights25/05/13 08:48 PM
7

Ah and there's the rub. Women say they want a man in touch with his feelings and prepared to talk about things etc ad nauseum then run a mile when he does get in touch with his feelings... mainly because they usually are about HIM not HER (The Horror!!) and she doesn't actually want to deal with his 'shit' as it were, after all he's there for HER surely. Robot's? Pfft - No different to a woman using a Sybian IMHO or a Rabbit or such like, but we men should not be at all bothered about that (appa…
/r/MensRights25/05/13 08:18 PM
3

Oh FFS - My wife is a bigger GOT fan than I am. As is my 25yr old daughter - T&A ? Yeah well there's male nudity in almost equal measure spiced with plenty of killer dialogue detailed characters gallons of political intrigue and a dozen plot twists for a garnish. Not really a mens rights issue as such though.
/r/MensRights25/05/13 08:11 PM
3

Fortunately if feminism fails to make you feel this way the media's there as a backstop. Phew.
/r/MensRights11/05/13 07:43 PM
2

Similar to NZ - Last time I read of this sort of thing here, the child support obligation ceased, but he never got a cent back of the decade or more of payments he'd made. Still better than the situation as currently enforced in the USA.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 01:12 AM
4

Worse than a prostitute - A whore is up front about the transaction. Neither party in the transaction is under any illusion about the limits or price tag.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 01:01 AM
2

I also wouldn't apologise in the slightest. If you dress with acres of skin exposed or in skin tight saran wrap - I will look, if you have a good figure - I will look. I am by nature a visually orientated entity, so visual cues are very core to the way I function. So I'll not apologise for something I cannot alter. That said - staring is rude regardless of gender so an appreciative glance and maybe a slight smile is pretty much all I do anyway.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 12:18 AM
2

When I start seeing more women working the back deck of a garbage truck on my way home from a 12hour shift , then I'll start believing feminism is making great inroads to equality in the workplace. Haven't seen one yet - maybe they exist (the moneys actually not too bad), maybe they don't but I see no queue of women wanting such menial stinky potentially dangerous jobs.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 02:40 AM
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You see (SARCASM ON) the student in question should have notified the correct authorities who then could have called in law enforcement who then could have negotiated what by then would have been a probable homicide and hostage situation. Oh and he didn't fill in the correct TPS report. (sarcasm off) It seems more and more these days that common sense (as displayed admirably by the expelled student hero) is both the rarest thing and when found is usually shot dead on sight so that spineless clip…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 02:04 AM
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Also read the whole thing. Dear God, sorry to say but she's a mad one is your ex. In hindsight (and I look at my ex in a similar fashion) walking away even changing towns if you have to and making a new start before the 'crazy' takes hold is probably the best option in situations like this. The law is not on your side, and given those fleeting chances to press charges I guess looking back on it, you should have. In the end she got exactly what she wanted from you: A child, power trip by wrecking…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 01:51 AM
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I fail to understand how one can demand child support off someone who at the time was a minor themselves. How can a state condone effectively statutory rape in this manner? And then I note (as in several other threads) that it's a young man who is about to have his financial prospects raped for the next 18 years and it all makes sense, because he must have 'wanted it' at the time. Roll the clock back a decade or three and there are similar arguments about female rape victims 'wanting it'. Will i…
/r/MensRights03/03/13 09:48 PM
1

Bring on the male pill - it cannot possibly arrive soon enough.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 08:55 PM
2

Amen. When I was 8 a much larger girl two classes above me bullied me quite a bit - it's the only time in my life I've ever struck a female, but I sort of decided that having her fingers around my throat was going way to far and decided to smack her in the eye. Got me suspended for the week too, despite classmates standing up for me. Then again she never hassled me again either.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:25 AM
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For gods sake would people stop drawing attention to this? As a single male I bask in the patriarchal privilege of NOT having someone else's annoying child parked next to me on a long haul flight. It's an example of obvious gender bias having a positive side affect. (For me anyway - I pity the women who wind up with said child by default) Edit - Perhaps sarcasm not obvious in original comment. OOPS.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 03:00 AM
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I could transplant all your story to New Zealand where I live and the outcome would be the same. As it would from what I read in the UK and Australia and Canada. And women are wondering why men just don't want to get married? Pretty simple really... the cost benefit/risk equation no longer stacks up.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 10:56 PM
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It's a testament to men that most of them do not go 'an hero'. Sympathies to the OP to the max.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 10:27 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights23/11/12 10:59 PM
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What gets me the most mad is not so much the false charge that got him imprisoned, nor his bat shit selfish offspring that sent him there - but the utter absence of any sympathy for the father whose life was quite bluntly stolen. Where's his justice? Where's the media outrage? Where indeed is any comment from the wronged man himself? After this in his shoes I would never so much as even speak to my daughter or ex wife again.
/r/MensRights23/11/12 07:29 AM
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LOL - I had my snip at 34 and got the same "Are you sure? This is usually for guys in their late 40's?". After two kids and one horrific divorce and custody battle = haven't seen my children (different cities) much for years, of course I was bloody sure.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 09:19 PM
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My sympathies are for her husband - who will probably lose most if not all access and visitation rights to his biological child (her first born) along with the lions share of any joint property... if he walks that is. Which is probably why he isn't running for the hills as yet. Reading this and considering my own de-facto relationship of some 15 years I am so glad I'm not actually married and have had a vasectomy.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 01:02 AM
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