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| 1 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?I’m not debating you homie lol. I’m saying this is all bullshit. Because it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?I think you’re overthinking this, a lot. My reasoning is still “that theory doesn’t hold up in real life, so it’s probably bullshit” and you know, it doesn’t hold up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?I mean even then I don’t think so. My wife is jothing like my first girlfriend, and my wife honestly fits my preferences more. I feel like preferences are going to be a lot more nuanced and reach back further than “your first”, unless your first represents somehow some trauma or investment beyond the norm. Freud probably was more on point than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?I don’t think you’re getting what I’m saying. I’m saying this “first love” theory is bullshit. Men are just as capable of moving on and forming meaningful relationships beyond their firsts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?Your bullshit alarms should be going off very loudly. If this is true, a good portion of men should still be with their first girlfriend from when they were 15 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 06:16 PM |
| 15 | Men should just refuse to get marriedToo late. Am married. And happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever felt that by not having children you are non fulfilling your biological duty?There is no such thing as duty in biology. Do as thou willst, in terms of anything concerned with mother nature. Life is a chemical reaction that seeks to preserve itself, there is literally nothing required of you really beyond breathing and eating and occasionally shitting. Everything else is bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Women not being attracted to their partners - Is it really true?My wife has told me she would never have dated me if she didn’t find me hot. So there’s that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?My wife would not have married me if she weren’t, so I think it’s up to their personal taste | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?I just know that if my spouse wasn’t sexually attracted to me, she would never have married me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?Mostly underlining the don’t be cocky, only certain kinds of women dig the overlyconfident asshole type. And saying something is better than saying nothing. Idk, use your imagination. If you are trying to establish a relationship maybe bring up a topic you think you may have in common or something. Share a funny story. Get her to laugh. Or get her to think. Make her feel something other than “oh he’s awkward” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?I wouldn’t say that. I’m pretty introverted but I’ve always managed to find somebody I think is attractive. I married a very attractive woman. This post pretty well describes at least how I think of myself. All it takes is to be outgoing for a little bit, fake it until you make it. Don’t get cocky, just have something interesting to say. If you’re talking about just casual sex and getting laid, it is a pure numbers game and I was never good at finding hook ups. I really only went for partnership… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?You’ll do just fine, you’ll only be unsuccessful if your personality is trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenI swear with some people having a child is the easiest way to live rent free in their heads. Like if you truly don’t care, stop talking about it. Nobody in western countries really cares. If they care, they’re fucking weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Would you wait for a guy until he achieved his peak?Dick surgery is irreversible and often only achieves permanent damage. Don’t do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menImagine if that were true lol. You got the queen woman like gravemind in Halo and she’d say something like “6’4 or bust” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 17 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menThese kinds of discussions are almost slways pointless. There is no “cheat code”. There is no one size fits all. Both women AND men give vastly different answers depending on WHO you ask. Almost like we all have individual preferences and are seperate people, not automatons. From experience. One woman may tell you she doesn’t like hairy men at all, and that a smooth chest like a greek statue is a huge turn on for her. You’ll go around thinking that you’re god’s gift to women now, right up until … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menThat’s why I find these types of threads utterly pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Where would society be if men didn’t have high sex drives?You’re not asking as profound a question as you think you are homie, and seeing you go off in the comments on people who disagree with you is…something. I am responding to your attitude in the comments now moreso than the original question. You’ve made a lot of baseless assumptions clearly based off deep redpilled rhetoric. It shows a lack of experience, to me. Who says women don’t have high sex drives. Another commentor said reactive…the fuck does that mean? You don’t think women rape? Or sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a “one that got away”?Nah. My wife would have been the one that got away, but I locked that shit down aggressively the moment I was able to. Last chopper out of vietnam these days, looking at the dating scene now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?Your hottie is my plain jane My hottie is your plain jane Is a pointless conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Men in western society should reject marriageOP, you are being a bit overly dramatic. There are tons of marriages that don’t work. But there are plenty that do. Some of it is luck, some of it is effort. Some of it is the partners people pick. If you’re too scared to take the risk, then don’t. Nobody cares, it’s your life. But you don’t get to dictate whether it’s worth it or not when you’ve never tried or perhaps even found a partner to try it with. That’s kinda silly of you. Women aren’t some predatory creature waiting for you to fuck up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:07 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Sex isn’t that life changing. Casual sex can be surprisingly meh because you don’t know each other that well. Being with somebody who knows you well and you know what each other likes is where it’s really at, but that takes time and investment Good sex takes time and investment and really communicating with or knowing your partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??It’s the approval of other people* not specifically women. I am happily married to a gorgeous woman who makes me feel like a sultan and wants my babies. And I still for some reason care what other people think despite pretty much “winning” the game as far as you can in any objective way. It’s not about women. It’s that men are social animals and need approval also. We measure each other constantly. If women were to disappear tomorrow, men would still be competing with each other over who was the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 06:12 AM |
| 0 | Stop making 1 to 1 comparisons between men and women. We are biologically different. Also stop looking at female attraction through a male lens.These kinds of dudes cannot conceive the fact that women aren’t attracted to the same traits in men that other men think they are Like plenty of women think the gigachad dude is ugly as shit. Looks DO matter, but if you are generally healthy, well kempt, and most important smell good to them, you’re already ahead. Also not acting like a red pilled creep helps a lot. What women individually find attractive is unpredictable and can be weird. You can be rejected because you have chest hair, or not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Men, do you genuinely like/liked your female partner?I don’t “like” my partner I LOVE my partner If I didn’t LOVE my partner I wouldn’t even swallow! Er…stay married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorOkay buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorAnd you’re an expert I’m assuming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorNo, it’s true. I see loads of horrendous looking dudes just slinging pussy like it’s nothing. Grow a personality lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?I have ADHD and while it’s been a hinderance in a lot of ways, never stopped me from having relationships, so that’s nice I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesMy current wife has only had one. It was me. Yes, hi, all of this is alien to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds good to me, I’ll bring the entire Office box set | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was a big deal. People did think it was the start of WW3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow, that’s quite the rock you’re under. May I join until the fallout goes away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ?I married the hottest person I ever met. I did not settle. If you settle or notice red flags and choose to ignore them, that is a conscious decision on your part. You can pull as attractive of a woman as you want through the magic of “interesting conversation and life” and “confidence”. Fuck not even true confidence. Pretend-confidence works. Confidence is not acting like a sexist douche Women do engage in casual sex but so do men. Women and men engage in casual sex for completely different reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.Have sex with people you are sexually attracted to. This goes for both genders. Kinda stating the obvious but good on you for acknowledging it. Nobody is owed sex because you like them or think they are cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about?Be self sufficient and reliant and you can be picky about whatever you want. Next question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?I mean there are approaching 8 billion people on this planet so odds are there will be enough that are into that to make a living off of. Just like posting feet pics. I mean I know plenty of guys who aren’t into a fat ass too, and I know you do as well. I think men are indeed more physical but we aren’t at all uniform either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?I think appearence matters less and more personality for most women. Also we cannot assume that women’s preferences in appearence are uniform. Som like big hairy ape men, some like hermes looking motherfuckers, and some like dopey looking dudes who have nice feet or something weird. But the number 1 rule with women as a straight man is don’t be a doormat and have something you’re passionate about that isn’t sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"This is the weirdest justification I ever heard, and also hypocritical bullshit. Everybody makes themselves hot, it takes maintenance. Also, if she’s against that wtf is she doing in a gym. Not to mention that that is also the dorkiest, most clown shoes thing I’ve ever heard in relation to not dating somebody. Your friend is very strange, potentially stuck up. Or she is into feet/something else and he don’t got nice feet but she doesn’t want to tell you, so that’s the bullshit reasoning she pull… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Joining the military is a recipe for a sexless life for average menYou have clearly never been in the military, or you didn’t look that hard while in. Orgies and ONS are very common. Soldiers shag each other all the time. Sex is everywhere and military towns are full of chicks looking to get dick for bennys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 8 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?How many women do you pass by and never give a second look. How many have tried to talk you up and you just don’t notice or you turn them down instinctively. This already happens. Get off tinder dude, it’s a waste of time and not a reflection of how society actually works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Neither. Life doesn’t work like this. Go outside bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 10:12 PM |
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