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Lack of dating options i would see and invalidating friendships. Along with antiguated gender roles being adhered too. POOR MENTAL HEALTH
/r/ExRedPill03/11/25 04:46 PM
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No shit 😭 easier said then done
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 03:47 AM
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Shitty spelling point being there’s lots of reasons
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 07:53 PM
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Because even women can internalize patriarchy so deeply they don’t even recognize it. Because some women are shitty people who are capping to their partners Because some women just cheat They are so many different reasons why humans do weird shit. They into real way to figure out why someone does something is for them to tell you. And a lot of time they don’t do hypotheticals like this seem kind of in ill-will
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:52 PM
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Can’t forget that
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:09 AM
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Along with shorty religious beliefs too
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:09 AM
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I mean sure that is on me but their is a thin line between what trp teaches and hating women . I happened to use the former to justify the latter, and I wouldn’t be surprised it other men have too
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 01:08 PM
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Porn and a healthy view of masturbation works for me.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:23 PM
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Well I can think of women that dated me at that point in my life that are traumatized. And I feel like shit because I did that. As any human would
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah I have my closure, won’t be a dick but I have my closure
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:51 PM
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Thx a lot for the commentary genuinely
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:48 PM
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Especially seeing as my sister is 12 years old
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:44 PM
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I did move on I just stated that she reached out to my sister saying she had reasons so I asked her for closure and she popped off, so it kinda made me feel like shit again.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:41 PM
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And I got closure just not from her
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:37 PM
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Saying she had reasons so I thought it fair to ask for Closure
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:37 PM
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I did not try to get back in touch she reached out to my sister
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:37 PM
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But regardless if anything literally no choices except move on because, blocked on everything
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:36 PM
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Your not wrong I am stay in therapy and heal, i don’t think I would even grasp the idea of dating her again unless she changed her mind about going to therapy. I am do some causal dating on the side to heal I just hope eventually she comes around because she dates around a lot and ain’t nothing wrong with that. I just don’t desire her to hurt anymore guys or find guys like the ones in her past that hurt her. Cause to a certain extent I feel empathy for her pain.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:36 PM
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I think i see your point, unfortunately you seem to be agreeing with some of the points my friends made who went to school with both of us. Tho they are a bit biased against her because of my being my friend. It just sucks I worked really heard to reassure I was always gonna be there for her, I worked really heard to reassure I would never try to control her. Because that’s what she told me she needed. And whilst the relationship wasn’t great it wasn’t super bad either, until it didn’t and it be…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:39 PM
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I then told my sister if she does tell her reasons I would like to know, but I am not asking anyone to do this, and I don’t think I am at the point where I feel I deserve this. I just think it’s fair after all the amount of stress she put me through whilst we dated because of our mutual issues.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:37 PM
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From breaking up with no reasons why. To their I got a lot of radio silence till she admitted she still had feelings and we started “talking” From their to the point of where last night happened and she rejected me then blocked me complete radio silence about if I did anything wrong at all. I told my sister if she is willing till everyone but me including my family what went wrong but not me, I think that’s a little fucked
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:35 PM
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Apparently my sister texted her last night asking the ex why she blocked me. And the exes response “ I have a whole bunch of reasons honestly” That’s interesting because she never told me anything but she’s is borderline willing to till my own family but not me
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:29 PM
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Agreed there is nothing I can do I meant that in a way if she tried coming back which from what I know, (isn’t how she does business) I would reject contact unless I could prove that’s she has worked on herself. In the meantime she blocked me I am finna just let it be
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 09:31 PM
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I am not reading no self help book. I am content with my ability to date….
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:55 PM
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I see how that sounds with little context 😂
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:51 PM
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I meant that in the way like both parties know it’s no strings attached. Sometimes people have sex without consenting to no-strings
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:51 PM
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Shit I need to hang out with my buddies ngl. I think it would be fun to have a consensual no stings sexual encounter too.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:44 PM
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She does have mental health issues I am sure of it. She has told me directly she thinks it comes from the trauma she dealt with before meeting me. Yeah I don’t think I want her to come back without her talking to a therapist about all the fucked shit she has been put through
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:38 PM
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Fair enough
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 08:35 PM
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That gave a good giggle thx
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:50 PM
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You know what you may be right 😂 I was dating jeanne bond
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:49 PM
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This silence in my phone hits different even after we broke up on the 15th we still talked every day. It’s eeirie
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:23 PM
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I don’t think I take it personally any more, it did suck knowing that when she shit down I got most if not all of the cold shoulder. But this time it’s legit because she never blocked me when shut down. It just sucks it will get better but it sucks
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:46 PM
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Then I got blocked on everything without a single word from her about anything we talked about. Everything thing changed like a snap within an hour
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:38 PM
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But yeah I have to accept that now, there is literally no other choice unfortunately
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:36 PM
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I wouldn’t call her unstable that’s a harsh word
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:35 PM
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I did get to know her first before I fell. We had 2 months of a great friendship before I caught feelings and asked her out
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:35 PM
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Yeah I won’t be a stalker, I can’t even if I wanted too I am blocked on everything and she is gone anyway. It just when me and her were still “talking” last night we both knew we still had feelings so I wanted her to communicate how she felt about the idea of us getting back together. And I called her for her response, and then she had her friends called me saying she doesn’t want to be with your girlfriend stop texting her.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:34 PM
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I don’t think this is an issue with women as a whole , she has been through a lot that fucked her up. Unstable is a harsh word, I would just call her hurt at the most a bit disturbed.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:31 PM
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She made my life good, I won’t call her a problem because loving her was easy. I didn’t dodge a bullet because it’s genuinely not her fault because she went through a lot of shit and traumatizing experiences that made her this way. But that doesn’t change the fact that she moved on and no means no.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:14 PM
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Fell*
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:09 PM
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I go back to school Friday I got to go pick up some friends for the airport and we are all helping each other move our stuff into each of our dorms
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:08 PM
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I made sure to tell her after we broke up if she ever wanted me to go before this just tell me, cause I never wanted to make her feel unsafe
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:06 PM
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Yeah I know eventually it will pass with time she just as of right now it sucks.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:04 PM
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Yeah I get what your getting at, but I never wanted her to feel unsafe I just wanted her to communicate with me like she does with the rest of the people in her life
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:03 PM
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And this time she really means it, fuck.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:00 PM
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Yeah I don’t even think I want her back at this point, unless she starts going to therapy to deal with her trauma. It just sucks because me and her were snapping playing iMessage games and low key flirting, and then bam there goes goodbye
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:59 PM
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She was very special to me and she did a lot for and we made a lot of memories. She gave me unconditional love and I felt so content with her. It sucks now that all that’s gone, i was angry at first when it happened now it just sucks
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:55 PM
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Yeah I would never want her to feel unsafe in a million lifetimes
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:53 PM
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I genuinely believe this is the last goodbye shit just hurts. I understand her no means no I just feel hurt
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:51 PM
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I don’t know man, even if I did want to try to get her back I have no way to even try. I am blocked on every form of media. I can’t even talk to her in person anymore because her parents are making her transfer, she told me this a few days before this all went down
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:46 PM
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I thinks she does have bpd genuinely, she did this so much to me when we dated, and she told me she liked that I fought for her to stay. I know this time it’s genuine because she blocked me but I feel hurt. I genuinely feel in love with her.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:42 PM
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Don’t worry I am not going to fall back into roots, just figured y’all deserve an update. I don’t hate her what she did, I am hurt but I will be ok. It just sucks man, if things kept going the way they were going before I had plans to pop the question at school
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 03:55 PM
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Don’t call women hoes, just because I got hurt doesn’t give up permission to be an asshole
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 03:24 AM
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Fuckoff
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:42 AM
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Ask her or him or they
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 02:41 AM
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/r/ExRedPill17/10/22 05:27 AM
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I can…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 04:26 PM
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I am not gonna do that
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 04:25 PM
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:)
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah… no
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 01:36 PM
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Ahh that wasn’t meant literally worship her, that was more of I plan to treat her like she is more to me then a piece of meat. Something which I have been guilty of
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 01:32 PM
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I haven’t threatened her???
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 12:47 PM
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Some it’s societal stigmatization of polyamory. Some it’s probably just preference. Some woman wants lots man. Some want a few good man. Some only want one man. Some want no man. You ask a decent question but rephrase it and I think people would see you question in a better light
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:39 PM
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Genuinely asking
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 03:55 AM
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Am I missing something
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 03:54 AM
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Thank you seriously
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:35 AM
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Thx for the advice
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:17 AM
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Your not wrong last time ww saw each other she texted me that seeing me made her sick and cry
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:16 AM
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Was very bad….
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:07 AM
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My point exactly…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:07 AM
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Will do my best <3
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 05:44 PM
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Fair point might give what you have said some thought…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 05:42 PM
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I don’t think it would be moral for me to send them a letter, spent a lot of years hovering. Was very toxic. Just proud of my progress.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 05:40 PM
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Nah it was recent just reflecting on the ones before her
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 05:36 PM
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It’s pretty bad
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:10 AM
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Waiting to see if that is going to happen
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:40 PM
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Bruv this will do nothing. He doesn’t post his clips
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:33 PM
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What happens when cte overpowers your decency.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 05:10 AM
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As long as its consensual and educated it’s a fine kink. I think it’s a little suspect because from what I have seen cuck culture usually is racial. Which I am uncomfortable with.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:31 AM
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I would hope my actions would say that I do
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:12 PM
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How is any of that relevant to anything I said. You went on multiple tangent points in that post
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 12:41 AM
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Women have been heavily constricted in society. Let’s not play the whataboutism game. I am fine with mras to a certain extent but let’s not spread lies that red pill isn’t a thing that we have created for ourselves. With women for a long history expected to fall in line.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 12:31 AM
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Yeah I agree educator is a good starting point
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 12:01 AM
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I don’t know yet
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 12:00 AM
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We need a healthy alternative for young men
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 10:46 PM
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Poor experiences with parental masculinity. Whether it be fathers literally Fucking off. Or most abuse us mentally or physically.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 02:55 AM
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Basically
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 04:03 AM
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“you don’t talk to a fish to catch a fish, you talk to the favorite” Like come on guy, hookups are fine since I’d bet anyone who says that; that is prolly what they want. But talking like that makes you seem like an asshole and from personal experience doesn’t bring 🐱 to the door
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 03:42 PM
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Women are a hive mind. And so we will take a look into pseudoscience usually masked under, “bruh it’s evolutionary” to understand the hive mind which is boobs and vagina creatures. The boobs and vagina creatures are all waiting to cheat on a a man. Lesbians and other types of women that aren’t cis and straight are just confused
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 08:47 PM
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What facts 😂
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:50 PM
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Different reasons humans aren’t monoliths. One persons reason is different and individual to them
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 02:08 AM
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I mean extremists love the good old sexism
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:19 AM
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Sexism isn’t logical so this is expected
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:54 AM
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People don’t usually fit neat into any box male female or non-binary
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 08:53 PM
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Fair enough
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah it’s expensive I agree, healthcare is shy in a lot of places. My personal opinion I think it’s a little fantastical but to each their own. Not gonna dictate what others do with their minds and bodies
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 08:29 PM
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Makes me think about cat calling
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 08:26 PM
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Why is there a self diagnosis.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 08:25 PM
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Man fuck those subs
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 04:04 AM
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Just a bunch of incels and sexists
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 04:04 AM
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Fuck incel dom and red pill
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 04:04 AM
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I am genuinely confused about what this post is on
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 12:39 AM
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Do you like jp I can’t tell what your outraged about
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 12:39 AM
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?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 11:32 PM
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I was an incel in all but name only when I had my 2 relationships. I would like to think I have grown but I am convinced I am not the best to say so.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah I can longer engage in good faith with you know after doubling down at those comments you made, good day
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 05:30 AM
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Such a woman as her is a one of a lifetime, and I was a fool to abuse her.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 02:07 AM
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Sorry about the wait, bad service. Firstly, I appreciate the character attacks ceasing. So congrats to that. The merits of your comment: Different forms of media are available to different generations. I would be a fool to dispute that. Whilst I am coming up in the digital age you didn’t. But the arguments are built off the same piles of pseudoscience and debunked misogynists that almost everyone with a sliver of an education and common sense since your time sir has said that this trp is a pile …
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 01:59 AM
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Shit argument, I will bite, did I say every woman wants to fuck me, no they don’t. Do I want to fuck every woman either, no I don’t. Under the guise of fairness, that insult was shit. On your point on social skills. Your right, I didn’t have the social skills. Shall we say why. The red pill stunts personal growth. It’s very nature breeds artificial charisma under the guise of understanding women. It’s very nature breeds predatory behavior, no honest social skills come out of the red pill. On tha…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:39 PM
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It wishes to adopt, but the actual application of stoicism within red pill communities is always the opposite of said philosophies tenets.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:23 PM
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stoicism within the red pilled community is the guise with the reality being emotional repression what they teach. Red pill doesn’t teach honest stoicism. Marcus Aurelius wouldn’t agree with its tenets.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:15 PM
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That is the trp I applied it correctly. I followed exactly was what was shown to me. Sadly you are wrong again.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:10 PM
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Listen every woman I have dated and been friends with would disagree especially the women I have dated. So your wrong
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:09 PM
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Thought that was painstakingly obvious
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:08 PM
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That was sarcasm
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 11:08 PM
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And closing, I am happy to help men not become the man trp would see them become. Abusive assholes aren’t cool anymore. This is not the 50’s. I will gladly help my fellow man to learn that these ideas sent out by the red pill are utter horseshit. From Jordan Peterson to fresh and fit. Utter pseudoscience and their influences on men shall and will be called out. From layman like myself to actual intellectuals and scholars; anyone can recognize the red pill idea of modern men. It’s shit, and it ma…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 10:47 PM
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Also take a guess why I have to vent there, take a guess please. Must I say it again that’s because red pilled thinking destroyed my relationships and friendships. Because I was toxically masculine. Which is the only outcome of red- pill.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:47 PM
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Agreed the red pill will never do a thing positive 😊 Adding on especially when applied correctly
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:43 PM
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First off that’s your version of mediocrity so there’s that. Second trp doesn’t help men in any case. Feminism is a ideology than the red pill, simply put. You can’t name one thing my group has done to harm men. I and others can name borderline thousands that the trp community is only responsible for.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 09:42 PM
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Mistype I meant I didn’t learn those ideas from feminism. I agree with the tenets of feminism and progressivism
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 07:38 PM
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Look at you destroying that comment with facts and logic. Your brain is fucking smooth if you think an ad-hominem is a good argument
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 07:06 PM
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How am I making excuses first off. If you think I am living a life of mediocrity compared to the abusive asshole I used to be. I will happily take that. Feminism has done more to help me grow that trp ever has. Just the facts, you can’t name one positive thing that the red pill has ever done for me. So I will never go back to the community. Whether I am doomed to your idea of mediocrity is of no concern to me. I am more interested in actually helping men and young boys then pushing them to trp w…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 07:02 PM
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Not passing blame but come where the fuck you think I got those ideas my guy. Common sense
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 06:16 PM
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Use your head dude, trp is inherently sexist and dangerous to young boys and men
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 06:15 PM
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I do hold myself accountable but where the fuck you think I learned that shit. I can tell you it sure as shit wasn’t feminism and progressive ideals
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 06:14 PM
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Still I find your arguments and their assumptions underneath, gastly unconvincing
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:55 PM
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Red pill is circular logic especially when it’s comes to self- help. Which self-help communities are they themselves filled with scams and hacks. Looking to profit off the suffering of socially inept men
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:54 PM
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Listen improve yourself, that’s good but improving yourself isn’t what red pilling leads too. I have improved myself so much more outside of red pill now that when I was out Btw yes, I am lonely you want to know why. Because being red-pilled caused me to mentally abuse the one person who loved me for who I was. Those toxic ideas that trp promotes caused me to abuse my ex. So yes after being red pilled for almost 3 years I gladly will tell you it is abusive. I lost friends because red pill is inh…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:50 PM
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Semantics, a lot of incel and Mgtow talking points are taken directly out of the “red pill” community. Red pill is about understanding women. Sure, but understanding them incorrectly, yes. The red pill is a community of Lowkey sexists that push ideas that aren’t true. Red pillers don’t understand women in some special way mate. Because women vary from person to person. We do have a understanding of red pill because guess what. To get to the point where I was, you have to take the red pill at som…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:05 AM
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Something like ya da ya da penis in vagina
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 02:48 AM
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Beard is not equal to gigachad. Beard is just beard. Leave beard be, he is just beard
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:33 PM
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Glad you got out younger than I did. Took me til this year (19m) which was late enough to fuck up 2 relationships that could have been really fun had I not been that way
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 09:55 AM
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Listen they don’t want a gf. Red pilled men want a broke mommy that they can slide their dick in and out of
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 09:50 AM
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My heart aches
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 04:36 AM
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Listen their is a way out. The first step is recognizing that thinking we all took part in is harmful. For us but also the people around us. A good first step is recognizing that progress is a line. But get some help if you can afford it. Your experience is valid but don’t go back to that place. It is harmful to us and more importantly you
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 03:03 AM
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He has explicitly endorsed Mgtow. He def red-pill
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 09:50 PM
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