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Papa_Rymski/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:26 AM
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Happy to discuss further. That's some fucking busy you've been having there
/r/MensRights24/09/16 06:37 AM
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Happy to discuss further. Anyone else notice that u/helenbrowncow is a brand new account with only a single post on it - this one - and that she hasn’t made a single response in over 8 hours? Does that sound slightly phishy to anyone else, or am I just being a touch paranoid there?
/r/MensRights08/08/16 02:18 PM
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I disagree. Feminism doesn’t need TRP and TRP doesn’t need feminism. Feminists can find misogyny in literally everything and anything - if even men who try to be feminists and say they are feminists and white knight on behalf of women and feminists can get smacked down for being covert misogynists because they are always looking for a reward - sex from some rainbow haired slut walker - then they certainly don’t need TRP to find misogyny. TRP doesn’t need feminism because it was the man-made phar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 08:57 AM
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Guys, if you truly believe that women are biologically destined to regard men as nothing but walking ATMs and tingle machines, why would you ever bother to associate with them outside of sex? I think that’s the point you’re missing. They’re looking for “tingles” - emptying their sacks into a hot woman - and “attention” and “validation” - getting recognised as an Alpha male instead of a Beta orbiter because the fastest way to get more tingles is to be seen as an Alpha. This is not about marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 08:44 AM
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Fuck me, you do know what “objective” means, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:04 PM
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No. I mean I accept it as an interpretation and a viewpoint, but if you’re trying to convince [me that] there is an objective quality to it, then no - not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 12:19 PM
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"A right is a promise to do violence on behalf of those who refuse to do it for themselves." I’m with u/midnightvulpine on this one - a right is "a moral or legal entitlement to have or do something” Your definition of a right parallels Kevin D. Williamson’s description of taxation as a kind of government-enforced robbery - a point he says can be proved by seeing what would happen to you if you refused to pay your taxes (i.e. you would be incarcerated at the point of a gun).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 11:38 AM
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Does this change your opinion on her at all, or is she still eligible? Yes, absolutely it would change my opinion - racism is irrational and while all humans are irrational from time to time, only some, like racists, throw their whole passion behind it. And if she’s willing to be absurdly passionate about something that irrational she’ll likely be a fucking nightmare psycho in other departments as well. Fuck that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:31 PM
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What would society look like if rape was legalized tomorrow? Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:26 PM
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Yeah, maybe … but I still think there’s a touch of rose tinted glasses there. At the very least since the 80s people have been living together not marrying, or marrying then divorcing and re-marrying and etc., etc. Not sure if it’s as different as you seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:24 PM
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What do you mean “today’s college students”? The phrase hook-up is new and Tinder is new, but liberal attitudes to sex and relationships on the one hand, and "forever alone and demisexuals” on the other are hardly new and have been around since, what, the late 1960s early 1970s? Especially if we’re talking about college campuses. John Updike was writing about this kind of thing from at least the 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:54 PM
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Yeah, I’m sorry I really didn’t mean to pry or touch on any potential sore points there, but thanks for your answer. As you are possibly (probably even) aware, there is a perception that women don’t tend to ask for dates from men and this leads to a lot of frustration on the part of men, especially younger men, as they have a Devil of a time trying to work out whether someone is into them or whether they are just being nice/polite to them. They’d be unlikely to admit, I imagine anyway, but a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 09:29 PM
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But if you are opposing counsel? Don't fuck with me. :) He he he : - ) I’ll try to bear that in mind! And incidentally, I was thinking mainly in the professional sense there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 12:33 AM
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I go to like 4 networking conventions a year (including two in Vegas) Conventions / Conferences are funny, aren’t they? Regardless of the industry you’re in or what the (professional) conference is about, if you’re in another town it can feel like a cross between a wedding after party at best or the last days of Rome at worst. There is an inordinate amount of shenanigans at those things - in fact, I’m surprised TRP haven’t come up with some kind of ‘How to’ manual for them. I do not think at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 12:12 AM
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In all cases, I did most of the work (asking for a date etc.). I'm not shy in that way. Just out of curiosity then, have you ever found yourself turned down by someone that you’ve approached? How did it that go?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 12:01 AM
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Oh, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 11:04 PM
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That’s really interesting. I’m a little surprised that you had no inkling that he had a crush on you as men in that situation tend not to be all that subtle. Do you really not find the same thing happening now, though? I’m surprised that it was only at college that you’ve had that experience. Or are women now more subtle about their jealousies maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 11:01 PM
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OK, so before you got together with your guy, when you were not together with each other, are you saying it was flattering that lots of other women were pursuing the same man at the same time? I mean that seems unlikely that you would be flattered that lots of other women were trying to get with a guy that you wanted to be with before you were with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:40 PM
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You mean this one? It has it's pros and cons. It's flattering but makes me want to kill the bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:36 PM
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Yeah, it does. had a crush on, been in love with, been attracted to, or pursued a man … It’s not who you’re with now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:29 PM
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Not my question, OP’s question at the top of the thread. You answered the question for your guy that you’re with now. His question is for someone you’re not with / were never with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:21 PM
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How’s that possible that it was flattering and an ego-boost that other women were attracted to this man who at that point was not yet your boyfriend (also meaning in this case that you could not have had sex with him the night before, not even as a hook-up as opposed to being his boyfriend)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:12 PM
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Are you aware of how other women perceive you and/or change their behaviour around you because of your status as a ‘man magnet’? Like do you ever get the impression that other women crowd in corners and bitch about you out of spite and jealousy? Or do you ever find yourself ‘pussy-blocked’ or someone attempting to do that? (If yes, how do they do it and what do you do?) Do any women try to hang out with your more often in the hope they might pick up on some of your ‘man-magnetising magic’?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:04 PM
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Never? Pull the other one darling, it plays jingle bells.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 10:00 PM
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My guy ... Although OP’s question says "been in love with” it also says "had a crush on ... been attracted to, or pursued" So the point of this is not about your guy as you are now but about either your guy before you actually got together or else someone you never managed to get with even if you did pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 09:58 PM
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My boyfriend … Although OP’s question says "been in love with” it also says "had a crush on ... been attracted to, or pursued" So the point of this is not about your boyfriend as you are now but about either your boyfriend before you actually got together or else someone you never managed to get with even if you did pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 09:58 PM
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Wait, what? So … are you saying that you are only attracted to men that no other women are interested in? Like you deliberately cruise for low quality men so you don’t have to feel "VERY insecure”? Or are you saying that you never make the effort of any kind and wait to be hit on by men from which you then choose the hottest/nicest/most likeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 09:53 PM
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Why should a father hate the idea of his daughter having a boyfriend? Asking the wrong guy - I already just said: what dad wants his daughter alone and unloved for the rest of her life? I guess it’s just parental jealousy - some mothers do the same to their sons, but the dynamic there’s a bit different. Some women will be proud of their son’s virility as it’s a reflection on them as a mother as well as one in the eye to other women with sons - see here For dads … I guess it’s just jealousy mixed…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:16 PM
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That’s a far more sensible question than the one you’ve asked up top. But no, not always - especially when it’s a daughter and not a sister, what dad wants his daughter alone and unloved for the rest of her life? It’s a double-bind - he wants her to be happy and find someone who won’t fuck her life up, but on the other hand he knows he’s going to really hate the idea of her having a boyfriend. Brothers and sisters are a bit different - if the brother’s a massive prick then it’s an issue. But in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:01 PM
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You don’t think they’re kind of joking? I mean being protective / jealous of daughters and sisters is a real emotion, but unless you’re living in some ultra-Macho shithole like Waziristan it’s pretty much a wistful joke. I don’t think they actually literally mean they want her locked in her nunnery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:54 PM
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What the fuck do you need to know this for? Really, I’m all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:42 PM
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Bollocks, love. Sorry, that is just ridiculous - what men have ever said that? You’re making this shit up. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 11:14 PM
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I don’t believe you. Actually, that’s not quite true - I believe you believe that, but it’s basically a fantasy you’re describing. How many times has a man said (a) that he doesn’t care if a woman’s in danger and won’t help protect her even if she is then (b) gets upset when he finds out she can protect herself? I doubt it was even once, but this is from one conversation with one guy or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 11:10 PM
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If you say you don't care and won't protect women in danger, you shouldn't get upset when she can protect herself. Who even says this? There are some guys who refuse to white-knight under any circumstances, but they are the last people on Earth to give a flying fuck about women who can protect themselves, much less get upset by it. This just sounds like a strawman you’ve invented to brag about "getting what I want like my goals mean more to me than attracting most men."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 11:04 PM
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Chris Rock on “platonic friends”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 08:42 AM
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I think you need to reframe the question because I don’t know why you’re asking it, what you mean by ‘struggles’ or what this 20% of men and women are at the bottom of. Do you mean economically? Do you mean in terms of personal attractiveness / SMV, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:39 AM
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Wait? Are you Mike Brown? Oh, no hang on that doesn’t sound right ...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:21 AM
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What about the hypocrisy of the RP … ? What about it? I’m not defending Ripper’s I’m just saying to OP that between them and Bloopers, it’s the former who are far more like followers of Rand than the latter. Rand was deranged. And a hypocrite. I think it goes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:04 AM
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No idea what kind You kill a dude and you don’t even know what kind of gun you used? Puh ha ha ha. How many times did you have to fire before you actually hit him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:01 AM
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Bloopers I’m going to use that from now on. So basically then, yes, BP are progressives by another name and so about as far from Rand as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:22 AM
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So … Gun? Knife? Screwdriver? Billiard ball in a sock?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:19 AM
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Why your friends were quiet about this is because they prolly didn’t want anyone to think they might be racist. But feminists wrote and spoke about it loads and loads - only the thing is, they used it as a platform to bash all men, not just the street gangs of Cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:48 AM
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Why ‘technically’? Glock or a Sig-Sauer? AR-15 or AK-47? Tae Kwon Do or Krav Magar? Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:44 AM
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Blue Pillers have a Randian view of the dating market. Just let the free sexual market flourish, and everything will be fine. Surely you’ve got this completely the wrong way round? Rand’s key point is that every individual should take care of their own personal needs, goals and desires - in something like a corruption of Adam Smith, society is best-served when everyone looks out for himself, but is disastrously ill-served when its focus is on looking after (for which controlling) the lives of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:41 AM
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So … OP’s saying that they say they don’t want sex and is surprised people don’t believe them? Who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:36 AM
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Errr …what? Not one of the sentence in that first paragraph of yours seems to have anything to do with any of the others … sorry …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:00 AM
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if you want something different than what your gender typically wants or from what people typically want What do most men / women typically want? Can we get an example as I seem to have missed the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 07:48 AM
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Also, general discussion of evidence of disjunction between professed belief and real belief. I really enjoyed the links to those stand-up comedians, but I don’t know they’re proving exactly what you think they are. For instance, I could take those exact two same clips and say this is evidence that women are as afraid of commitment to a relationship as men are, maybe even more so. I could also use those clips to say that women’s most deep-seated fear in a relationship is loss of control. They’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 07:46 AM
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The curious thing is that most women seem to deny RP truths I love how it’s almost as if the immediate defensiveness of this from u/EmilyCharland: it can''t be that Rollo is wrong, we must be lying/hamstering and this from u/questioningwoman: What about truths inconvenient to you are almost proving the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 07:33 AM
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You should see my Glee album ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:36 PM
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That was after high school ; - )))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:12 PM
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Ha ha ha ha you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:44 PM
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Better than what? Is there a best way for 14 and 15 year olds to find themselves seduced by a manipulative shitbag adult? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 07:34 PM
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Did you see the size of the gauntlet OP threw down and the swagger with which he threw it? That’s his problem. Also this: Just being Devil’s advocate, you know. I actually have some sympathy for TRP because it gets some things basically right - I just think it goes wrong when there’s too many steroids in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 07:32 PM
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Oh, OK. Although … are they dumb or just incredibly young and emotionally vulnerable? Remember, that roughly half of all children have parents who have divorced and so usually live apart from their biological father, but with a mother, who may have boyfriends, or with a stepfather if the mother remarried. And that percentage is higher in some areas and lower in others - certainly, the girls I’m talking about mostly came from families where there’d been a divorce and they only saw their ‘real’ da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 05:23 PM
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But it also speaks volumes about the girls … It was a youth theatre group set up specifically for 13-18 year olds and he was one of the main organisers. There’s absolutely no question that he didn’t know how old they were - he knew very well what their real ages were.He had no excuse whatever. He was acting in the role of their teacher/guardian and he abused that role - that’s true even if some of the girls were flirting heavily with him - and they did - that doesn’t give him a Pedo Pass. Don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:44 PM
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Why didnt you ask yourself that? ‘cos I’m answering the question “What is the best piece of evidence AGAINST r/TheRedPill?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:02 AM
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If post wall sluts can say their sexual histories dont matter, i think this guy will be ok. Isn’t part of the dream of TRP to avoid "post wall” women like the plague? So if he ends up with a "post wall” woman, won’t he be a failure by TRP terms? Anyway banging Thai prosts doesnt sound too bad as a retirement plan. Old, alone, too weak to protect yourself getting beaten up and robbed by pimps and local hoods? Getting wristy’s out of your withered old bit of play-doh? Getting drunk from 8 in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:28 AM
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It isn't something that can be disagreed upon because it's a statement of fact, not an opinion. You want to talk facts? Was she Irish? Yes. No. She was American. She had an American passport. She was born just outside of Chicago to parents who were both American-born, to grandparents who were also American-born. She grew up in the US with an Irish surname and a bunch of stories handed down from great or even great-great grandparents from ‘old Sod’ as she put it. Those are the facts. Whichever wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:23 AM
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being 45 and bragging about your sexual exploits with a 25 year old blonde with 2 brain cells is pathetic. When I was at high school, I was in a regional amateur theatre group for young people aged 13 - 18. The guy who ran it was 35 or 36 and he was screwing at least half the 14 and 15 year old girls there. At the time, it just seemed ‘normal’ and nobody thought anything much of it. It’s only now I’m older that I realise with horror just what kind of filthy pervert loser that fucking guy must ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:12 AM
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Heh ; - )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:05 AM
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If a male wants to be sexually successful … This seems like good evidence, doesn’t it? Promoting self-centredness and selfishness? Also, if all this is so that you can get laid, that makes you sound like the worst kind of slave to the magic vagina I ever heard. I don’t think even radical lesbian feminists women think as much about vagina as this makes it sound like you do. That means be arrogant, dominant, high value, and put her feelings seventh instead of first or even second. What more eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:18 PM
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It makes him less threatening to them to see him do that.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:31 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:56 PM
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Do you? Do you find it odd? This was my original response: A woman who has suffered domestic violence. Depends, but it’s a very strong indicator that you’re back in Craziestistan. Depends because if she got out of there and never looked back, she’s probably normal. If this thing went on for a while and there was drama she’s a fruitcake and you should leave well alone. Also true fact - a lot of women who’ve been knocked about become addicted to the adrenalin and the all the attention they get - f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:28 PM
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Don’t I? Thanks for the tip!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:22 PM
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So you’re saying I’m a liar or an abuser? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:47 PM
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I can’t agree with you on this. I mean I’m not trying to make you change your mind or anything, but I just think you’re wrong. Being Christian or Feminist also influences your ideas, your political party and voting patterns, circle of friends, career, and so on. Yeah, it does - but it only does that to the extent that it’s the centre of your life. If it’s just something you kind of think you should be or like the sound of then it’s not a big part of your life and so it’s just one influence among…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:32 PM
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Depends what you mean by ‘enjoyed’. I know women who take caught up in the adrenaline and the drama of it all, yes. ‘Enjoy’ is your word, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:24 PM
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Knock yourself out. as a radfem I’ve always said PIV [Penis in Vagina sexual intercourse] is rape and I remember being disappointed to discover that so few radical feminists stated it clearly. How can you possibly see it otherwise? Intercourse is the very means through which men oppress us, from which we are not allowed to escape, yet some instances of or PIV and intercourse may be chosen and free? That makes no sense at all. It’s not even Tumblr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:30 PM
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Sure, but the point is they can call themselves whatever they like but if they don’t go to church or actually doing anything then they aren’t really feminists/christians in any meaningful sense. Look at it this way - are you really trying to say that a ‘reasonable christian’ is one that never goes to church, can’t recite the Lord’s prayer but does have a cute silver necklace with a delicate cross on it? That barely qualifies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:11 PM
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Sounds reasonable, but just not very feminist. I mean if all they do is talk about it once in a while when they remember to, why even call them a feminist at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:43 PM
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don't really care enough to do anything about it besides bring it up at parties once in a while I don’t think ‘reasonable’ is the word you’re looking for there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:27 PM
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Norah Vincent Yeah, I think they pretty much hate here as well. At least she’s not generally regarded without a bunch of caveats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:23 PM
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Oh, OK, it looked like were you disagreeing not agreeing with the point I was making so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:26 PM
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That doesn’t my question, that just repeats the previous point. If you can’t name one, tell me what a ‘reasonable feminist’ is like so I can spot one when I find one … right between the unicorn and the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:26 PM
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Please note: Name me one ‘reasonable feminist’ that isn’t hated by 99.9% of all other feminists CH Sommers is so hated by other feminists that lots of them refuse to accept that she even is one - they publicly declare she isn’t a feminist and should be murdered for daring to call herself one. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:25 PM
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I thought the point I was making was that this was exactly a BP not an RP attitude? Ah, well ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:23 PM
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The problem is that some men use it as s distraction kind of like football. Everyone’s got to have a hobby, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:09 PM
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It allows men to externalize their problems onto women/feminists so they don't have to face them. Why the fuck do people always think you have to be driven by personal disaster into hating feminists? Surely they are hatable in their own right for the appalling bullshit they spout? other more reasonable feminists Like who? Name me one ‘reasonable feminist’ that isn’t hated by 99.9% of all other feminists, blue haired or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 01:43 PM
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I have no idea why the other poster is mocking you for this. I’m starting to think it’s because I used the word savage, which he is assuming is a racial slur. It’s not. I think savage is pretty self-evident. If he thinks it has a racial connotation it says much more about him than it does me. I know enough women with crazy ex stalkers. Ditto. I’ve been assaulted twice by a crazy-with-jealousy Ex, and threatened in a chest-bumping it’s-about-to-kick-off way one more time (that came to nothing). F…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 01:13 PM
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That's socialization. That's also, you know, to keep from getting fucking killed when they turn a guy down even if it is for prom. So much I could say about this post, but am on short time - anyway, please be careful not to confuse the bias in attention-grabbing headlines with what actually often turns out to be the case. The second of the three stories linked to is a case in point - she was not shot for turning a guy down. They were at a funeral when he asked her out and she said no. It was not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 12:47 PM
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No it’s never OK. However, prejudice shouldn’t be confused with sensible caution learned from experience. Example: if I see a white guy with a head shaved like a billiard ball, neck like a bull’s, hands like shovels and wearing 18-hole laced up paratrooper boots, it would be prejudiced of me to assume that he’s a fight looking for an argument and it would be prejudiced of me to assume he’s a racist. But it would also be dumb of me to think that it was impossible that he might not be either of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:31 AM
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Have you ever met a woman who enjoyed the adrenaline rush of an abusive relationship? Do you even know what adrenaline or addiction are? It doesn’t mean beautiful people high-fiving each other in a fucking Skittles commercial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:52 AM
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Then you would not be leaving her because she was a domestic abuse victim, you would be leaving her because she is not mentally stable. Implying a difference lol really? Eh? Edit Eh? = You’re implying a man that batters a woman isn’t a savage? If a wife-beater isn’t a savage I don’t know who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 10:51 AM
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So I guess I'm saying that not all chicks who are in abusive relationships seek it out. Yeah, sure, they’re the normal ones. I actually said above that it depends with DV because if they got out of their sharpish (like your cousin did) then they’re normal but unlucky. Your mother is different because there were kids around. But this? a lot of women who’ve been knocked about become addicted to the adrenalin and the all the attention they get Sorry, that’s just true. It is in fact humiliating and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:30 AM
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No, that’s ridiculous - what’s growing up poor got to do with anything? I mean if he’s poor now, that’s something else, but she would have to know that already so … so what if his family’s poor? If his family are local gangsters or something, maybe, but only if she has to ever meet up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:03 AM
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If you break up with a girl because you found out she was a victim of domestic abuse, I would think you are a terrible person. Why? That’s a ridiculous thing to say. Your mate starts seeing a woman who seems really nice. Then he finds out that she’s from Craziestistan and then you find out she’s a few sticks short of a bundle too and then one day he says “I’m going to leave her” and you say “I would think you’re a terrible person if you did that.” What? Why? He’s not a therapist or a social work…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:00 AM
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Why in the world would anybody turn down a date with a gal because she went to a sorority? Or was a victim of domestic violence? It's just so weird. I’m with you on the sorority thing, but DV? Are you kidding me? True fact - a lot of women who’ve been knocked about become addicted to the adrenalin and the all the attention they get - friends, family, police, courts all spending hours and hours trying to ‘fix’ her. I don’t hit women so even if I did get together with her there’s a real strong cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:57 AM
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If it is acceptable, what kind of deal breakers would you deem reasonable? I wouldn’t even call it ‘acceptable’ it just is - everyone has a deal breaker. Mine is neediness / being high emotional maintenance - I’m not talking about a bit of give and take, or a bit of compromise here and there, but every damn moment being asked to do something this way not that way. Tried that once, not doing that again. A woman who has worked as a porn-star or prostitute. Yes, it’s a deal breaker. Even if there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:54 AM
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I dunno I think you’re barking up the wrong tree with this stuff. Sexual preferences are about selecting the right partners for your seed to thrive and your genes to continue on. How does this explain homosexuality? Also, how does it explain all the range of kinks and fetishes and quirky desires that get people hot under the collar? What women select for now is against present day evolutionary fitness. This is obviously true on one level, but the level it’s true on is a species-wide one which to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:27 AM
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Really, I wasn’t thinking of you and your SO just that situation and the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:11 AM
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Oh, yeah I know - I was kind of more pointing up the absurdity of that law more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:10 AM
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Doesn’t seem reciprocal in that case, though … but really, that was a hypothetical - I wasn’t meaning you or SO irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 12:27 AM
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I say stuff like "women's preferences are moronic" pretty frequently Do you mean moronic or hypocritical or even just lacking in self-awareness? Because women in my experience will often say stuff like “Ugh, a hairy back”, “Ugh, short guys”, “Ugh, guys with beards” or whatever the fuck - then a shaven-headed ZZ-top bearded dude with more hair than Chewbacca starts temping in the office the very next day and - for whatever reason - by the end of the week he’s got them all melted into puddles. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 12:04 AM
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Well a sucker’s born every minute, but that dude’s really just saying if you haven’t got X you don’t need to kill yourself, you just need to compensate with something else. Pretty sure he’s not saying that looking like this will make you a pussy-hound (and yeah, I chose a photo of that guy for a reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:57 PM
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Well over time … I do actually know exactly what you mean and I wish you every happiness together for the future bu-u-u-ut … … let’s just suppose there’s a couple identical to you two in every way except that one day, the relationship hits the rocks and let’s say they both start having affairs until one day she finds out that he’s got another woman (but he’s never found out that she had another man when she was out of town at that Scranton paper sales conference that time). She now has his balls…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:48 PM
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It’s not even PUA - the first rule pretty much is that you have to clean up, dress up and pump up. They’re never gonna tell some fat dude all you need is confidence - that’s the kind of advice women give losers they wouldn’t touch with mine, let alone theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:04 PM
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Give me at least one example - because either you’re misreading/misremembering or they’re just doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:01 PM
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.. men are somehow shocked and offended that women prefer attractive men. This is BP. It’s the classic behaviour of the 30-40 pounds overweight guy who insists on wearing ‘comfortable’ clothes all the time - you know the really nice one, with the ‘right’ gender politics - who is shocked to discover that his rainbow-haired emo-chick friends are just as likely to drool over the Chads as the plastic-fantastics he love-hates … You have no one to blame but yourself and your own social ineptitude for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 10:55 PM
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OK my intention is not to ‘troll’ you, but I’m going to be quite frank and upfront here: I listen to other people … I highly doubt that. From everything you’ve said up until now, what you are doing is granting them an audience with you - that’s not ‘listening’ if by listening you meant to imply some kind of equal or collaborative interaction. ... but I often have to put it through a logic check ... There’s that ‘but’ that highlights the point I just made about you granting an audience to them as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 10:26 PM
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I don’t think I can at all, but I have lots of people compliment me on it when I do (and yes, genuinely and not ironically). So … er, don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:52 PM
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How Would You Deal with a Woman Like This? I wouldn’t go anywhere near if I could help it; if I had to be around because she was a colleague or my boss or similar, I would do my best to placate her if possible, if not I would seriously start looking for another job if I felt I couldn’t get a decent hearing from the organisation. She needs therapy of some kind, but she’ll be very unlikely to get it because she’s handing over control to someone else. The only person who would be likely to snap her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:50 PM
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Wait, what? Isn’t that the legal definition of rape these days? You say ‘No’, he says …, well he just grunts, but I assume that means ‘yes’ there, and then the pair of you get down to it like stoats tied in a sack? I mean … sure … but just checking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:41 PM
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Jesus ...
/r/askTRP21/01/16 06:42 PM
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That makes more sense - thanks!
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:41 PM
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Wow, you’re a real fucking twat for a site called Ask TRP aren’t you?
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:41 PM
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Sorry, I’m new - what wall?
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:18 PM
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Isn’t that from the TV programme How I met your mother? Thanks for the reference, but I’m slightly surprised!
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:18 PM
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i didn't understand the last part … but the humor is more at my expense, not his Well, I’m really, really generalising here so this is definitely not AWALT, but in my experience a lot of women really hate to have other people think badly of them or about them. I mean, everyone wants to be liked, but most guys I know just seem to accept that some people will always think they’re an asshole, so why worry? But so many women I know seem to have a fear of other people thinking they’re a bitch - I mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:41 PM
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She will have loyalty in some cases if you point out to her that you were always there when she needed you and always loved her. Lolololololololol, Oh, my sides! There’s no fucking way that’s going to happen. bring on the guilt complex You bring on the guilt complex that’s either going to make her fucking hate you because every time you meet up you’re going to remind her of how shit her life used to be as a ham planet, for one thing, and for another she’ll be terrified that at any moment you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:34 PM
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i did like the puppy picture lol Naturally - It’s a David Hockney (a British painter). me thinking something is funny i don't think is a gesture of hostility. especially when that something is more at my expense than his. Oh, come on now! We were doing so well - “he got this look on his face that was really funny” Just own it. You were a bit mean to some random loser gadgey, you thought it was funny. It’s all good - a bit of a mischievous minx, but he’s not going to go home and hang himself, now…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:28 PM
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Get with a woman below your SMV level like very obese woman with lots of rolls but a face with potential (without makeup) that doesn't take care of herself. Wow … that … what an opening sentence. I’m all ears. Really What do you think of this theory? Did you just get through reading Mary Shelley or something? Being serious for a minute, let’s say it’s thought experiment rather than a theory, here’s what I think: The reason this woman will be obese in the first place is very unlikely to be becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:22 PM
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its not mean because it doesn't effect him negatively Woah! Hold up there mademoiselle tres charmante - not mean? This was what you said to some other guy ITT: i just got back from the gas station and this bald guy tried to talk to me, and i did it. and he got this look on his face that was really funny, like i couldn't wait until he left to start laughing. I’m not judging you for doing it, but you need to own what you did - especially if you’re going to tell me different from someone else in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:09 PM
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i don't understand the asshole part Before I said to that other guy: There’s only two reasons for her doing this - to get rid of you - it would work apparently - or to shit test you to see how you’d cope with it. If it’s not a shit-test and she’s really not interested, then it’s kind of a mean thing to do, no? Depends on how ludicrous the guy is though - if you’re 25 and he’s 50, sweaty, overweight and wearing a T-shirt with so many food stains on it that looks like a menu for people who can’t r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 10:53 PM
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if you approached someone, you engage them, not the other way around. Donc, you seem to be changing the terms of the question you set us: if you approached a woman on the street because you were interested and she casually picked her nose and ate it mid sentence, what would be your response? That mid sentence means mid my sentence, not something she’s saying right? So then I have approached and I have engaged her, n'est pas? would you address it? Oui See above. ignore it? Mais, non - pour quoi? …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 10:45 PM
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i don't see how it can be done in a confrontational way. You’re kidding me, right? It’s to do with proximity and what you’re doing with your eyes and stance. its just something you do, like taking out a stick of gum and chewing it. Oh, please! Come on, if a woman can find a way to do something as apparently simple as take a drink of water from a bottle suggestively, then she can do the same thing confrontationally / hostilely, no? i didn't engage him, he came up to me, and as he was saying his s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 10:32 PM
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This isn't a shit test, this is an attempt to humiliate I think it could go either way - in the story OP tells, then yeah, it’s very obviously Beta Billy she’s freaking out to get rid of, but - and weird as it is - there might be other ways in which she could be trying to freak him out just to see what goes down next whip out your phone, take a pic/pretend to take a pic, and say "Haha, Facebook is going to love this one!”. That could be pretty funny, if you carry it off with enough style and spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 10:25 PM
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isnt shit testing something you do to someone you're interested in? Well, yeah, but also by definition the shit-test has to be deliberately ambiguous - can the dude read the visual and non-verbal cues that the shit-tester is giving off. Picking your nose and eating is frankly so weird, that it could go either way - i.e. is this a shit-test or is she just an asshole? Obviously a lot goes into how you are doing it, as you can obviously do it in a really confrontational way. Of course, that’s poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 10:21 PM
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What's the point of this? It’s a shit-test! I thought all you guys and your ‘game’ and all that were supposed to be experts in this. I'd be disgusted and would walk away. Wouldn’t you even be a little bit curious? If you’ve already approached her because you want to pick her up, then she’s obviously not going to be a tramp, a skank or whatever (well, I say obviously…). There’s only two reasons for her doing this - to get rid of you - it would work apparently - or to shit test you to see how you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:54 PM
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