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I can't understand why people are down voting your post so I just want to let you know I appreciate the post very much.
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:20 AM
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1 don't get hungover. 2 If you're spending the time showing up then you might as well give her your full attention. Even if you don't feel a connection can't you just enjoy the game for the sake of game? Maybe you need to find the right person. Maybe you just don't enjoy talking that much. You need to be talkative to do well on first dates but maybe you can be quiet on later dates.
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:59 AM
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I can't judge if your voice is actually a problem or it's just your insecurity. For seduction I would think that it is a good thing if you lose the high end of the frequency curve. If your problem is real then fixing it should be a priority. Get speech therapy. Fixing speech problems costs a lot of time and money but worth it.
/r/seduction14/04/25 10:06 PM
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If she had sex with you then obviously she's attracted. You have nothing to worry about. I'm a guy and I hate texting so I would be like her. If she's like me then you can't change her mind. I would be very annoyed by you texting me but go along with it if I'm interested enough. Just don't text other than for logistics. It's better this way. Whatever you wanna say over text is better said in person. Do you really enjoy texting or are you looking for frequent validation. If you are looking for fr…
/r/seduction14/04/25 09:57 PM
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I have messed this up because I feel pressure not to ruin the opportunity and then I hesitate. I would think the method of approach would be the same as any other daygame approach
/r/seduction14/04/25 09:51 PM
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What's the problem? Just go on another date with her. If she doesn't want to see you again then she probably wouldn't have wanted sex. Maybe, you had a gut instinct that she didn't want to have sex.
/r/seduction14/04/25 09:47 PM
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Thank you for your feedback. I have edited it to make sure people don't read the point about escalating without seeing that you have to be gradual. And I have clarfied that I'm not saying be unremarkable. Be remarkable by having a good career, social life, money, muscles. Not by being quirky. There's no chance that she'll think I'm afraid of disagreeing. My natural predisposition is to disagree and tease a lot. I said to not lie. Just highlight things in common. I would be interested to hear mor…
/r/seduction14/04/25 08:41 PM
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I don't know what you are referring to when you say some say to take it slow. That doesn't sound like anything someone on this subreddit would say. I've heard of qualifications but I don't know any good examples that don't sounds like straight up insults. I think escalating quickly will make you look confident. I actually just had a date recently where we were touching each other but I missed the chance for the kiss and I just feels so stupid that after the buildup I missed the kiss. To do kino …
/r/seduction14/04/25 10:43 AM
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Don't study anything. You have to practice. But that would be cheating. Try working on expanding your social circle.
/r/seduction14/04/25 12:00 AM
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No don't wait at all. The goal is to arrive at the same time as the girl. Text her an hour before the date to let her know you will come soon. Then just wait in your car until she texts you that she has arrived.
/r/seduction13/04/25 09:29 PM
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why not both. Get to work!
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:22 AM
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If you're in college then focus on having fun in college or maybe studying if you plan to go to grad school. You've only got 2 more years. Actually, getting a postgraduate degree is one of the most reliable ways to get more likes on dating apps. If you're not in college and have some spare time there's still a lot you should be doing. If you're skinny lift weights. If you're short wear nike air max shoes. Get good with people in general and that will help you in all aspects of life.
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:48 PM
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what do you guys say about why you are there?
/r/seduction21/06/24 12:23 AM
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Only one of them was my type but I really like boobs and none of them had ideal boobs. Also the fact that they're not smiling hurts a lot. But irl, I'll take what I can get at this point 😂.
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:19 AM
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I had a similar problem of getting plenty of dates and not getting past the first but I had one success recently. I'm curious what happens if you make a physical move or try to get them alone?
/r/seduction15/06/24 02:14 AM
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I think these sound awkward
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:39 PM
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ok i'll try that
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:43 PM
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never thought i would have success so shortly after posting but something like this actually worked. Also, want to thank u/norwegiandoggo Turns out logistics are really important.
/r/seduction10/06/24 06:52 AM
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Yes I need to do this. But kissing isn't a confidence issue. The problem is getting her to an area that's not too crowded I just ask for the second at the end and text shortly after. In my opinion, what's actually very unattractive is being inauthentic and this is very obviously a disingenuous trick
/r/seduction09/06/24 07:14 AM
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If they were amazing conversationalists (not just ok) and also didn't have the other problems you mentioned they would be taken or they would be pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:29 PM
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I only used the term "good" for the title. My post just says there are plenty of men who don't have any of those listed things wrong with them. Above average men are by definition not common so I can't argue with you. As far as not being able to carry a conversation, you need to understand that the awkwardness of an awkward silence is in your head. It is normal to occasionally take 30 seconds to relax and think of a next conversation topic. There are some men that really have nothing to say but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:21 PM
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I didn't kiss because I'm afraid of kissing in public
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:05 PM
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I think there are guys without issues that also make a romantic spark but they are already taken
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:19 PM
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