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do you use alcohol? overweight? sleep deprived?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 06:14 PM
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none of the dad contract stuff really matters, except his ability to forgive a loan whereas a real lender would never. Do you both work? What kind of custody do you expect?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 05:50 AM
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I find it odd she is willing to date down, no offense. Consider what "demanding career" meets "wants to get married and have a kid" might result in. Might she quit? Might she fall out on you if and when she does? Hard questions.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 05:46 AM
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I would wait until father get's 70/30...
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 05:34 AM
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I upvoted you for the merits of the second half of what you wrote. However I think your first half was mighty presumptuous an overly certain about the villified part. You have no idea what's going on with him and his wife. From what you said, I guess You think he's tired of her angry bullshit and that makes me assume that's what you went through. Anyhow really good advice on the latter half regardless
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 03:48 AM
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get out. but also, work out bro
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 04:14 AM
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I thought I replied but I can't find my reply. I wanted to add to it anyway. Please take everything I say with a grain of salt. I'm making some assumptions and I don't know a lot about what I'm talking about lol. The debt that was consolidated when you took out the heloc, where did that that come from? Was it hers from before the marriage? If it was you really fucked up cuz that got washed and is now both of yours debt. I also find it interesting that she's looking to divorce now that you're une…
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 08:50 AM
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Where did the debt that was consolidated originate from? Was it her that that she had before the marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 08:22 AM
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read your other thread. still curious, who decided to get divorced? what does she claim you did that destroyed the family? through substance abuse?
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:51 AM
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coming from a sexless marriage and divorce in which I asked for, I am indeed envious, and furthermore curious...who filed? who left or what? infidelity?
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:43 AM
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finally, you did something right ! lol
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:26 AM
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if you provide a list of assets, incomes, kids, years, history, etc, that would be helpful
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:24 AM
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"couldn’t keep it from my wife"? Like you told her or you got caught lol? is she fat? kids?
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:21 AM
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yeah I would definitely avoid lawyers. download MSA template. the paperwork also not that hard. there are youtube clips on how to do it. do you have joint checking? how much cash on hand? any other assets or debts? some people will tell you it was a mistake to continue to pay on things. Please give the current value of the house and the remaining debt total. That gives you the equity. If the equity is say $300k maybe ask her to let you have the house for no sposal and minimal child support or so…
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 12:23 AM
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seriously though, regarding your dark thoughts/feelings...yeah I can't say I know exactly how you feel but I do know how I felt and still feel occasionally about my post divorce existence...the phrase I pick is "mildly shattered". I am fine and life goes on, but I dont like how it all looks, how I had this life that was better on paper and now I live a town house, granted charming. Sounds like money not a big issue for you so that's good, and I can relate. I will say that some fresh intimacy wil…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 05:06 PM
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I should pitch them a slogan "Cialis...your friend when you want to be more than friends."
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 04:54 PM
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She was right...you did want "to have your parts touched", and you still do, and you will, and by someone who actually wants to. Get fit if you aren't already. Suggest taking a small amount of Bluchew for first couple times, just to be sure...
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 04:36 PM
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My girlfriends lives 3 hrs away lol. And I am a simp for sure. Wortthhhh ittttt
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 04:13 PM
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add this to your original post and the situation with the house equity etc.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 03:46 PM
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Sorry dude, couple thoughts for you. Is she hostile? If not, it is possible (and I am an example) to avoid hiring lawyers if you can agree to an MSA (marital settlement agreement) terms. Saves some money and might make it easier on the kids. What's the custody like right now?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 03:45 PM
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MAYBE he has it wrong. Be open minded. At a minimum, if she is smart, she is weighing your annoyingness (we all have some) and your baggage vs the pros of a long term with you. If you look at it objectively, as she should, when good < bad it is time to walk.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 10:27 PM
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I had made first date plans with an online match and within the days before the date we chatted a bit more and I disclosed my divorce was not final, and she said thanks I appreciate that btw I have still been living with my separated husband for two years and during that had a 1 year boyfriend relationship that ended recently. She later cancelled our date and wanted to reschedule and I was like na, sorry. She later bashed me in a facebook are we dating same guy group (to be fair I was already ge…
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 07:08 AM
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"She helps me deal with my kids mother, has even spoke with her about "everyone getting along" " maybe next time ease up on this
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 06:20 AM
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