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Exactly. Stop focusing on people you don't even know. Temper yourself to accept only reciprocation of their interest to get you excited. It's just a tennis match, if they hit the ball back, then you hit the ball back.
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:35 AM
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He doesn't teach texting "once a week" at all. Like he says, you need to read the book 10-15 times to let it sink in! LOL! He teaches that the fallback for a man in the courtship process (the most you should be willing to "chase") is by setting a date once a week. And that is done until a woman communicates she wants more than that. What he says about texting is that you have to keep it to a bare minimum, especially in the early phase, because true attraction cannot grow that way. He also doesn'…
/r/seduction20/11/19 09:56 PM
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He shows excellent examples in a few scenes of how to maintain a cool demeanor even in the face of rejection and pressure. It's just examples. But by all means, go and hate on my comment, because I am crazy to suggest we can actually point to behavior of characters in movies as examples.
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:35 AM
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Models is probably the best book on the subject I have ever read.
/r/seduction19/11/19 10:53 PM
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Could be the generalized "sick of women" vibe you are unconsciously giving off. Nothing dries up a pussy faster.
/r/seduction19/11/19 10:48 PM
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Also James Bond in Casino Royale for frame control. Best of the movies in my opinion.
/r/seduction19/11/19 10:46 PM
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Artificial artificial artificial. Set dates and stop with this texting game stuff. Would James Bond be doing this kind of thing?
/r/seduction19/11/19 10:43 PM
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My percentage is about 98% of women are like how OP suggests. Let them move on to the next week if you aren't desperate chasing after them....you are the prize!
/r/seduction16/10/19 12:21 AM
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OP, you win the internet today. This is all truth. Most men feel like they need to "do something" or "take action" when this happens...when really the only thing to do is pull back. Let the cat come back to you...if you chase, good luck.
/r/seduction16/10/19 12:18 AM
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I've done many street approaches but not as much recently because my activities and social circle has provided. Direct just has to be in that magic moment...I think we know when the time for that has come.
/r/seduction04/10/19 12:17 AM
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I mean, I know it's classic PUA practice. And I think the practice can be helpful for men who have no approach skills whatsoever. But I've watched a ton of those videos and even when the coaches do it, I mostly have seen the women be weirded out and uncomfortable. NOT that you should be afraid to do it...but I think the odds are better when guys just get their asses out there in real social situations (events, classes, clubs, malls, bbqs, sports games) and make connections there rather than "I s…
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:34 PM
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Yeah I think you have to be really good at it to know when to effectively go direct. When it works, it's marvelous. Last time I did it was in a crowded lounge and I caught a woman smiling at me from across the room. I eventually eased my way over, holding eye contact as I came up and said "You have absolutely delightful...shoes." At least, it was direct enough. It's kinda like how women will give away their numbers to a lot of guys who ask mainly because they don't want to have to deal with reje…
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:01 PM
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Very good question. I would say many times indirect is a great way to go to open up a simple conversation and see if she engages you, smiles, asks you questions, etc. Also, many women, even if they might be attracted, feel put on the spot if you go direct. It risks giving them the oppression you are one of those guys that just approaches lots of women. If you can go indirect and do the situational openers thing then go for it but REMEMBER don't let chit chat carry on and on before you grab her n…
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:16 PM
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Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't...always nice to get an IOI before approaching like eye contact or smile. But remember that we are all conditioned to stay in our own little bubble (like when you ride with strangers in an elevator) so they only way you can really see if they might be into you is to just make the approach.
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:43 PM
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Just generally that women who like you will make things easy for you...they will put themselves in your orbit. They will be easy to schedule dates with, etc.
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:37 PM
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Are you a female? Because yes that's the experience but the smart men know what they have to do.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:39 AM
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Eh...OP's advice sounds better.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:38 AM
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I say it over and over but no one listens or joins me.....yoga. Specifically "yoga sculpt" classes where there is more HIIT integrated in and the use of weights. I'm usually one or two dudes in this type of hot yoga class with the rest being women. And before anyone asks how I approach these students during/after class...I don't often. But it's those hot yoga teachers that get to know you over time when you keep showing up. You develop a rapport with them. The eye candy in these classes is pheno…
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:29 AM
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thing is people will do whatever they can to avoid the truth of this advice....and fail with women over and over.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:24 AM
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Agreed. Negative thought patterns lead to negative results.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:22 AM
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"Women open doors...men just have to walk through them."
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:18 AM
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yup...I say don't be "nice" but always be "kind"
/r/seduction07/09/19 12:16 AM
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No. That is approval seeking. "Are we still on for tonight? Or did you find something better to do?" Don't be pathetic, OP.
/r/seduction05/09/19 11:27 PM
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"See you on Friday...let's meet at 8pm. Looking forward to it." - Done. None of this "We still on???? Or did a better option come up for you???" Steve Urkel is right.
/r/seduction05/09/19 11:21 PM
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Being a wishy washy dithering non-leader as a man will get you those responses. Men who have lives and shit have to schedule specific times. Always set a specific day/time/location. Always.
/r/seduction05/09/19 11:18 PM
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Or you can just take your high value self to someone else and not try to chase the cat that already ran away from you.
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:27 PM
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Alcatraz if you know women you should know that whether they admit it or not, seeing that same guy be appreciated by other men raises his value in their eyes significantly.
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:51 PM
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How would James Bond handle a rejection? Would he get all butthurt? Or would he play it off like nothing because he knows there are always other women out there who will want him? That's what you have to ask. There are very few James Bond's in this world....but there are many needy, whiny, man-children who take rejection so personally. - Accept it with understanding and with a look in your eye that says your positive mood has not changed 1%
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:47 PM
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Thanks...this is one of the biggest misunderstandings that many men live their lives by these days. Even in just the case of women, most treat their crush like a perfect princess but treat other women with little respect. That is immature and gross. As a guy, I have tried to make an active effort to send positivity to every woman I come in contact with. Even the woman bagging my groceries, old ladies, people I find unattractive...I try as much as I can to be sweet to all of them and try to make …
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:42 PM
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Thank you for finally bringing some sense to this thread. All these guys debating their texting styles and tricks and methods blah blah blah blah blah. Set a fucking date and get off the phone you 10 year olds!
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:31 PM
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This is a classic reversal attempt that rarely works out. Feminine women don't want to be the initiators in the beginning...it takes them out of their female essence and moves them to masculine. And they don't like that shit.
/r/seduction20/08/19 06:45 PM
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Correct...setting dates needs to be the name of the game here for OP, not just getting numbers.
/r/seduction20/08/19 06:43 PM
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I concur. Men MUST get into the habit of making their intentions clear...too many are afraid and try to reason with them, make them laugh, chat them up, etc.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:58 PM
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Abandon intimate ambitions, accept her new platonic station This is what is key here. Never ever ever accept the friend zone with someone you really like or have feelings for. If not, female friends are indeed awesome ways to meet other women to date.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:54 PM
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Yes. Don't worry about talking on the phone. Only in person, live, human interaction will help create something between you too. Not chit chatting about your mission, or your favorite movie or your grandma, etc, etc. You are a badass just coming back from a mission who will surely have stories to tell. Keep the messages to an absolute minimum if at all, and then when you are about two weeks out from returning home, send her a message and ask her out for a specific day and time. Now if she is rea…
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:51 PM
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Only hope would be if she watches your social media and you start living your life like a bad ass can she one day possibly want to reach out again. But when a woman tells you, you have been to pushy, it means she is not comfortable with you anymore. And if she is not comfortable, there is nothing you need to do but walk away.
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:42 PM
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Yes, I would like to get more info about the "Texts and calls" that were going on throughout the course of this. He seems to agree, at least partially, with what she said. There should be more to it... OP, how much were you really calling and texting her during the times when you were talking?
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:38 PM
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To clarify, I agree with the guy who says that would be an insecure move.
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:33 PM
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I agree with him...it's insecure if you believe you are handing out a "Punishment." I don't think telling her you don't like it in a "for the record" kind of way is necessarily bad....but if you must "punish" her and act like it is really getting to you, then it shows you are weak. He's only letting her "walk all over" him if it keeps happening. This is what a shit test is, this is the hand we are dealt with men, and you have to remain cool about it. And not every woman that does this is a "bitc…
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:33 PM
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m weak and insecure, but I am kinda lost Agreed.
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:24 PM
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Are you setting dates with people? Set dates and get off the phone...that's the meaningful "less fuck you give." As long as you are setting dates within a reasonable time and she is attracted to you, she won't forget about you. And if she does, you don't want to fuck with that. If you are not setting dates while in your not caring enough mode...it's no surprise a woman will be moving on.
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:08 PM
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You should've minimized the texting while you were on vacay. And also you should have suggested another date instead of "whatsup"
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:04 PM
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Hopefully you are not accepting the friend zone when it’s offered, right? Hopefully not. Never do that. What exactly do you think you are doing to put yourself in the friend zone? Did you not escalate, etc? You might be treating her like she is too special. You doing some high school shit? Let us in on the cringe! LOL
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:05 AM
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Slow down on the texting...you’re gonna push her away if you are discussing all the time your common interests, etc. Maybe try this...when she gets back, set an interesting specific date with her. And then in between the date, fall back unless she texts you first. As long as she is looking forward to a unique night out with you, she won’t need you to text her all the time.
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:55 AM
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Trust me it works... women will NOT forget about a date they have with a man if they are interested in you. Let her wonder what you are up to. They HATE the needy over texter guys.
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:13 AM
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Just text her the next day, set a specific date and then DO NOT text her anymore. Unless she texts you.
/r/seduction17/07/19 12:53 AM
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Finally we have a winner! Such confusion out there on what alpha actually means.
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:38 AM
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Actually this is everything right here and men would benefit a lot to take this seriously. Even better...it’s not really “game” it’s living your best and most authentic life.
/r/seduction09/05/19 02:13 AM
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You still haven't read the book 10-15 times, OP.
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:53 PM
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