Papi_Lazlo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too	Conversation	Papi_Lazlo	/r/seduction	29/05/21 07:35 PM

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1	Is confidence the key to attracting others? Don't mention your height or the other person's height in conversation. There are so many other things to talk about instead. If it gets brought up, you could compliment the person on the unique abilities that come with their height. If they talk about your height you can make a joke about it and show that you don't take yourself and others too seriously, thus exuding confidence. Height is a perspective thing. You get from it what you make of it.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 02:29 AM
6	life is cruel 2 ways this can go. TLDR: Ask her when she's free for the date or schedule a new idea. If she can't make the time for you then move on. She's genuinely busy. You can reschedule with her a specific time and place to meet along with short details about the fun thing you're doing together. e.g. Hey we should go to the (insert fun date idea) this Saturday. Let's meet at 6pm under the big clock at (place). How does this sound to you? She says she's busy or can't meet up no matter what other date idea…	/r/seduction	16/06/22 12:12 PM
1	WHEN TO STOP MESSAGING A WOMEN AND WHY THIS HELPS IN THE LONG RUN Shows that you have ambition and things you care about besides wanting her attention	/r/seduction	20/06/21 01:09 PM
2	So I did it, I worked on myself for years and the ladies came pouring in… now I find myself being wanted by 2 awesome women (gf material), and not sure what to do They're both after you right now because they know that they're in competition with each other. You're a scarce resource and highly attractive to them so they're going to cater to your desires to attract you over. You got to ask yourself who are you more attracted to and who you can see a having healthy sustaining relationship with in the future? From your description the younger girl has a lot more skills which you appreciate than the older girl who can communicate with you better. Like with an…	/r/seduction	01/06/21 12:50 AM
1	The cold hard truth about the numbers game I think that when she likes you, she just thought you were hot. Everything will tend to work Same goes with physical attraction. If you're working out, getting into shape, eating well, well groomed and dressed nicely then the odds of her liking you because you're "hot" increases. This is just initial attraction based on looks and whatever you say to a girl doesn't matter as long as you can hold a regular conversation. And when you get rejected hard (even though you done everything the same as th…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 03:01 PM
33	WHEN TO STOP MESSAGING A WOMEN AND WHY THIS HELPS IN THE LONG RUN There's no better way to come out on top of this scenario. Because you're living life to the fullest, it reinforces not only to her that you are high value but also to yourself that you have more to do than give attention to a woman that doesn't care. You take better care of yourself and spend time more wisely on things which are important to you. You become a high value individual and what woman isn't attracted to one of those?	/r/seduction	31/05/21 02:22 PM
0	The cold hard truth about the numbers game Agreed with the numbers game idea. The whole point of the number of interactions is that over time your game and skills will escalate higher and higher with each approach. This is true, although a fatal miscalculation. If you're not going home discussing what went right and what went wrong in an approach then you're merely just waiting to get lucky. You must adapt and evolve your own game after each approach to increase your confidence in not only talking with women but yourself. Rejection is in…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 01:59 PM
1	What would be the perfect (or more like, next to perfect) way to initiate a conversation with a really really good looking girl when even she knows that she's the center of attraction? If you're gonna use questions make them open-ended, which are questions that can't be answered with a yes or no answer. Another substitute for a question would be making an assumption about her like "wow you seem like the adventurous type" then she'll be amazed you knew she was or she'll tell you a different answer like how she would rather stay indoors watching netflix or reading books. You get to learn about her personality without directly asking a question. Then you can go from there and ask…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 01:45 PM
1	What should I do to avoid getting friendzoned Great you're all set on those bases plus you know what you like in a girl. Already you're displaying confidence and leadership. What I believe you need to do more of is sexually escalate the interaction. Non sexual touches are as simple as touching her elbow for a short moment when you're sharing a story or laughing. Resting your hand on her shoulder for a couple seconds when making a serious point. Before touching make sure you two are reasonably close to each other, you don't want to have to s…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 01:33 PM
5	What should I do to avoid getting friendzoned I'm guessing by your description that you have no trouble talking to strangers. The next point I'd look towards is if the conversation is interesting and engaging to the people you talk to. Are they giving you eye contact? Does their tone go up and down during the conversation? Do they talk about their passions and so excited they can't hide it? Are they relating their words to something you've said? Are you both smiling or laughing? Do they show signs of interest? If yes to most of these then y…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:53 AM
3	I paid for sex again, and it's making things worse Then you'll have to be honest and tell them you're not looking for anything serious. Continue with the date and see how you're both feeling towards the end. Not every girl brings up that they're looking for a boyfriend. Just keep playing the numbers game and you'll run into girls who don't bring up this barrier to you. Then you should be good to date girls as you please.	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:17 AM
1	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too Get some practice in for sure, it's certainly a lot easier if you're in the same situation as her. It doesn't really matter what you say at the start, a "hi how are you" can lead to a vast majority of subjects and stories shared or it could end with "sorry I'm busy got to go." You never know. Regardless of what they say or do, you displayed confidence in your actions and you should be proud of that. Getting comfortable with rejection will help and stop you from looking at the outcome. The unknow…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:15 AM
1	Where can I go to meet girls during the summer? Find a hobby you enjoy, attend free classes in your area, go to your place of worship, ask people at the beach if you can join their game of volleyball. You'll find a mix of guys and girls to meet. Be friendly and open to talking with all types of people, stay away from the ones who aren't respectful of your boundaries. The girls will notice your friendliness with everyone in the group and this will translate into you being popular and good with people. While you get to meet girls you also get t…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 09:23 AM
8	What would be the perfect (or more like, next to perfect) way to initiate a conversation with a really really good looking girl when even she knows that she's the center of attraction? Treat her no different from anyone else at the party and get to know her for who she truly is. Ask her who she knows, why she's there. Ask open ended questions. Ask what she would do in any hypothetical situation. Look for mutual interests to talk about. Don't be afraid to stand your ground on an opinion. Share funny moments you got caught up in. And some flirting here and there. Get to understand the type of person she is bit by bit, just like you do with any stranger at a party. She'll respect…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 09:16 AM
3	I paid for sex again, and it's making things worse You say that girls on tinder are telling you that they're looking for boyfriends. Solution: don't ask them what they're after. Instead ask them out on a date and see how it goes from there. If it comes up in conversation then be honest and say you're not looking for a relationship right now while still showing interest in your date. Either she'll continue to be engaged with you during the date or show you disinterest thereafter. Because you're so caught on not wanting to be their boyfriend you d…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 05:53 AM
3	What's a cool but affordable attraction to have in your pad to entertain/entice guests? I always invite my friends over for a game night. On game night we play board games and the Wii which is perfect for to accommodate any number of guests. They really get involved and excited by the whole competion which is an energy that will last the whole night until they're tired. If they want to do another round of the same board games I'll go with it if everyone is onboard. Next thing on my list is to get a table for ping pong because I love playing it and it's the ultimate entertainment pi…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 02:28 AM
0	College Bar Scene Hit the nail on the head @earsurgery9 I often forget to mention the importance of mixing small talk in open ended question form as I discount this as part of normal conversation for me. A mix of small talk and flirting techniques will both keep the person you're talking to engaged while feeling that you care about their life and what they have to say. Thanks for reminding me the importance of small talk!	/r/seduction	31/05/21 02:11 AM
1	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too It's good that you're comfortable chatting with service workers. Now the freezing up probably happens because you don't know what to do or say so it helps to use small talk or tell her about something that happened to you recently or asking her about what she wants in the future. When doing the approach you have to look at her values and see if they match up with yours, the whole point of the conversation is to see how compatible you two are together. Dig for a mutual interest by sharing your ow…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 02:07 AM
1	College Bar Scene Beautifully said by your SO. I love the confidence and comfort they provided instantly by sharing their wine.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 12:56 PM
1	College Bar Scene Those are both great things which can be used at the same time by sharing a funny story you were involved in. I agree it's very formulaic and looks weird in detail but it does shine when you're both sharing stories and laughing together. That's very smooth, it's good that you both had a mutual friend and a mutual hobby. Makes the conversation topics a lot smoother and straightforward. Unfortunately for OP he wants to approach girls he doesn't have any connections with so he just needs to use con…	/r/seduction	30/05/21 12:52 PM
2	College Bar Scene Agree to disagree. There are plenty of ways to make a conversation interesting and engaging with women. What are some of the things you would like guys to do or guys have done in the past, mid conversation, that has appealed to you and your friends?	/r/seduction	30/05/21 12:17 PM
2	College Bar Scene Those are good things to say as openers. The assumption IS NOT an opener, its used during the middle of conversation used to replace a question and play a guessing game with her. Everybody loves playing games.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 12:12 PM
5	College Bar Scene Assumptions are risky and can come off as sleazy or judgemental. It's up to you and your observational skills to come up with good guesses about the girls values. From u/kelseysays26's response it obviously pays better to be more humorous with your assumptions. If you're wrong and she gives you IOD's just brush it off and continue talking about whatever you want. If she's offended and keeps bringing the conversation back to that assumption just be sincere and tell her you were only guessing. Don…	/r/seduction	30/05/21 12:04 PM
0	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too Thank you! Sure you can message me through reddit chat and let me know how I can help you.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 09:46 AM
24	College Bar Scene Let's say you were going to initiate a conversation with a girl at a bar, she gives you a look with her eyes that you match then she looks away. You have 3 seconds to walk up to her from the front or side then say literally anything you want. If you take longer then 3 seconds you'll let the anxiety build-up and be less likely to approach her.(Mystery Method) Come in with high energy and adjust it if hers is lower. "Hi, how are you?" "Hey what drink is that?" "Hey we haven't met yet, what's your …	/r/seduction	30/05/21 09:42 AM
1	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too Glad you enjoyed the post! Let me know how you go mixing some of these into your approaches. I'm really turned off by the manipulation tactics, they feel sneaky and disingenuous. It doesn't shine light on your personality which is the best thing to attract the right girls for you.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 07:45 AM
1	The Genuine Approach That's Actually Fun For You Too That's right @bath. They can't leave because they're at work but you can tell whether to want to continue talking with you or not. Just like for IOI's and IOD's. When they're giving you IOD's such as looking or turning her body away from you, taking steps back, not giving you any eye contact etc. That's when it's time to pull away from the interaction. Also notice if there's anyone else that is waiting for their help. They've got a job to do, although sometimes they're so hooked on you that they…	/r/seduction	30/05/21 07:38 AM
1	DON'T WASTE YOR TIME I'm pretty new to using game on women and it feels scarier to approach girls I find attractive than drunk guys that look unfriendly. The nerves will always be there but with repeated exposure to the fear the nerves can be eased. All it takes is practice. Most important thing about approaching is to actively listen to the words they're speaking and build on-top of that. When you feel like changing the topic as the conversation is getting boring, do it at your own leisure. Display leadership and l…	/r/seduction	29/05/21 07:21 PM