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Papshmire/r/seduction24/06/10 12:06 AM
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Not sure about this. I wanted to move into a LTR with this one girl, and I figured gaming her was the best solution. Pretty much backfired on me and she is with another man, even showing him off to everyone. But, I will admit though your last few paragraphs nail it. What I've learned on r/seduction allowed me to handle this better than my past relationships. I feel like I've become a better man.
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:37 PM
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Haha. Woops, meant AFC.
/r/seduction02/04/13 10:35 PM
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Non-friend messages don't work anymore. Facebook messages can be weird sometimes. I hooked up with a girl I've hooked up with regularly before and her on/off-again boyfriend sent me a threatening message that went straight to "other" and I didn't see it until a month after. One night I f-closed a random girl in town visiting a friend, and she found me on facebook and sent a message which I received as a normal. She then added me to facebook shortly after I replied to her a day or two later. I fe…
/r/seduction02/04/13 10:27 PM
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Use it as an extension of your sexuality. Too many AMCs do it just because they are bored and it's entertainment for a little while. They typically throw on some porn to get them excited. That just numbs you to your sexual feelings.
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:32 PM
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Most certainly. I could tell a girl was into me after hanging out with her once, and the next time our group of friends hung out and she was with I negged her a little bit and did some light kino. I didn't expect to do anything with her so I went about my business. But come to find out right then she went with her friend to a bathroom and said "I am gonna fuck him tonight", and it was all cruise control from there for me.
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:22 PM
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This is a very timely article. Because I learned a pretty good trick. Think of the most cringe-worthy, most embarassing moment you've been through. When you cringe, don't continue to cringe, just fight it and yell out a "WahooOO!!!" and pump your fists in the air like you just won the lottery. Somehow, I feel 10 times better and my body feels like I finally conquered that emotion and I rarely ever think of it again.
/r/seduction31/01/13 04:34 AM
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Couldn't agree more, especially after a crazy few days I had last week before New Years. I've been in a dry spell for a long while, and kept contemplating that I was going to make 2013 the year I would make all about "the game" and take the rest of the year easy. Day 1. The day after Christmas, I went out with a friend to the bar & grill he works at for dinner and drinks. I didn't even put on my best clothes or attitude, because I thought "screw it" I just wanted to chat and be friendly with a f…
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:23 PM
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Great article. My brother married into a very extroverted family, and family get togethers can be extremely cumbersome for me. I only wish I could meet more HB introverts, but being both introverts can be awkward.
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:44 PM
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I think you are right on the mark. The HB scale is for how easily open the girl is. HB already establishes she's a "hot babe", the number indicates whether she is an extreme hermit who cuts herself off the world (a 1), or an extremely social person who makes friends with anybody and everybody (a 10). Most women are an HB 6-8. HB10's are typically always with the hottest or richest guys because their pool of Alpha Males is so huge. Therefore she is extremely difficult to seduce because she has no…
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:40 AM
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There is plenty wrong with your comment. It matters a lot that it's fiction, because it means no one is acting. FR are not meant to inspire, they're meant to be a real accumulation of their learning and training applied to real field. This story is fake, because the story lacks genuinity and displays no flaws in the author. If you are the type to seek inspiration from FR, then you are doing it wrong. FR are meant to invite critiques of the fellow peers, which this one invites none. EDIT: Removed…
/r/seduction06/01/12 03:33 AM
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Well, that's the thing. I give them all this advice, but they keep rejecting it. Persistently saying how much women are evil and how he holds these extremely outrageous expectations. ("All I want is for her to give me a call, is that too much to ask?") They treat first dates like job interviews, ugh.
/r/seduction11/08/11 02:43 PM
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I've always had a plethora of friends, but I just didn't seem to be able to figure out why girls weren't interested in me. Something was missing and r/seduction figured out what it was. The only regret I have is that it's torture having to listen to your friends' problems with women when all you just want to scream is "it's because you're a chump!".
/r/seduction09/08/11 09:05 PM
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I ran into this girl who happened to be the sister of a friend of mine. She was pretty attractive, and she was totally into every aspect about me. So it wasn't too difficult to end up fucking like rabbits, and a week after not seeing her we ended up hanging out among some friends. Out of the blue, she turns to me and says how much I [ME!] look like her brother (that's not the first time I've been told that by other people too.)
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:10 PM
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Illusions, Michael. Tricks are a what whores do for money... or cocaine.
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:55 PM
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This has been enlightening! It actually puts into perspective why openers can be so effective. For instance, if a girl has a tattoo that you use as an opener (like asking her "why would you picked that one, dogs are so much cooler."), you are making a girl think about your statement for more than what it is (a simple question) by delving into her own past. Good conversation has been my struggle, and I feel like a giant weight is almost ready to be lifted off my shoulder.
/r/seduction09/06/11 12:54 AM
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Ah, I think I get it. Do you have any simple examples of something you said that would cause an emotional spike?
/r/seduction09/06/11 12:49 AM
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My roommate did this constantly at all his jobs, up until two co-workers he was seeing found out about the other. The two girls got into a fight at work. My roommate had a meeting intervention with management, who reinforced the idea: ** "You can't be fishing off the company dock".** Haha.
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:19 PM
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Yes it does, but probably not the type of "nice" you are thinking.
/r/seduction06/04/11 11:02 PM
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That is perfect!
/r/seduction25/03/11 06:30 PM
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I don't mean to disagree with you, I like the concept, but I absolutely hate that phrase. Just the mention of "fake" just seems to self-destruct that statement. I wish there was a more catchy phrase that explained it better. I feel the point of "pushing your comfort zone boundaries" is lost. Just my two cents. :)
/r/seduction25/03/11 03:38 PM
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If you pump yourself up by blasting music before going out, atleast turn it down for 10 minutes before you leave. Consuming loud music messes up your focus. Listening to it softly atleast will get your brain to become more attentive. It has done wonders for me.
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:23 AM
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I went on OKC and noticed that three girls (all crazy) I know in real life were on there. I said whatever, and managed to go on a date with one girl. Account was completely misleading, and I figured I meet her at some costume party at a bar. That way I could easily ditch her. SHE WAS A LEECH. I told her I have to go, and she immediately said "OH, WE GOING BACK TO YOUR PLACE?!" Dated one girl from POF. Faired a bit better and went on a few dates. Finally got her to bed, but she was alllll about b…
/r/seduction02/02/11 11:24 PM
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Run off with the money and create another free dating site. Seems pretty genius (assuming they do that).
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:42 PM
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Been trying to find a job up there. I live two hours south. No luck.
/r/seduction27/01/11 03:36 AM
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Making any sort of announcement about it will just show you as wanting attention. You want the people you are deleting to notice that they are being deleted. This will just make you look weak and its best to just delete your friends without any announcement. Trust me, no one will say anything unless they are a crazy bitch. What can they do? re-add you? I just deleted a bunch of friends a few weeks ago, and I only made a few jokes to my friend. That's it.
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:24 AM
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Simple breakdown of what's going wrong: Didn't talk to her. Facebook.
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:19 AM
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Not at all. If I don't use real names and give specific places, I assume that they would read it and feel that they are in a similar situation and post their thoughts.
/r/seduction04/01/11 11:35 PM
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Definitely. There is a hidden pizza place at the far end of town that is very quaint that is rarely ever packed and is hardly ever visited by any of her/our age. And typically they are amazed that they never have heard of it before. Also, the pizza is AMAZING.
/r/seduction04/01/11 01:50 AM
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Exactly the current situation I am in. She's invested so much in me. and I am keeping it extremely casual. Wish there was a way to leave the situation that'll make us happy.
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:30 PM
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