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| 4 | [F33] Independent Queen with Expensive Tastes and Two Dependents for You to SupportSteak with potatoes is not really expensive taste tho. Like potatoes are quite literally dirt cheap. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/22 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Unhappy mother and wife wants to escape from the life she chose because she was tricked into marrying and getting pregnant twice by the wrong guy. TL;DR No responsibility, no introspection. She's a victim, someone save her.The real question here is where do they live that they can easily support 4 people + a home loan on 60k? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.That cliché comes from sore losers that need to comfort themselves. There's an entire sub dedicated to them over at r/niceguys. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.That cliché comes from sore losers that need to comfort themselves. There's an entire sub dedicated to them over at r/niceguys. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.That cliché comes from sore losers that need to comfort themselves. There's an entire sub dedicated to them over at r/niceguys. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.That cliché comes from sore losers that need to comfort themselves. There's an entire sub dedicated to them over at r/niceguys. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.You're a child. A lot of people never had gf/bf at 17. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 9 | Divorced after 22 years because marriage is boring!! Busted old hag is ready to see what life has to offer!Uh 4'11" and 115lbs is at the end of the normal range so it's highly believable. She's not petite, but it's likely that those numbers are correct. For reference, she is at BMI 23.2. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm allergic to some foods so i won't eatI'm wary of everyone, that's simpler. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/12/21 07:13 PM |
| 7 | A woman's guide on how to be a man...I guess, given the context of the article, it shows you're not in charge/not owning up to something. Who knows, really. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/10/21 06:54 AM |
| 15 | No surprise that 95% of the stories here are about men.I had the same experience but was an adult. Didn't know him, met outside of a club, he started following me saying "I'm gonna come to your place". Although I was very upfront and told him I don't care about him, I am not interested, had my headphones and didn't engage. There's a guard at the entrance of my place, and he didn't let him in. He acted SO CONFUSED! Dude, I told you from the beginning I won't let you in, why did you even come? That was a 30 minute walk and he kept trying to talk to me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive StrategyFull (total) and radical hysterectomy are different here, so I guess that's why. I'm not arguing, just mentioning that in the cases where the ovaries are not removed, the hormonal cycles don't change. No need to be that aggressive 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Reproductive StrategyAnything that leaves the ovaries in place will maintain your hormonal cycle so only the total removal of the uterus AND ovaries will have an influence on the cycles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Reproductive StrategyNo, hysterectomy removes periods but you still have the hormonal cycles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:09 AM |
| 5 | Reproductive StrategyI cannot handle hormonal BC and went on the copper IUD, but it also doesn't work so well for me, as I've felt in mild but constant pain since I've had it inserted 1 year ago. I'm very desperate about my options now 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Just CoMmUnIcAtE. I asked if someone was hitting you, wouldn't the solution be to leave and they said "you know that's not what I'm saying" but their word is to NEVER just leave. The delusion.🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendSo actual actors are not consenting adults? Their suffering is actually not real, while young girls in porn are often actually tortured on camera to the point of needing days/weeks to heal physically, and years to heal emotionally and mentally. Disgusting mindset from this man... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 8 | Confirmed: We are the product.It's so funny how LVMs always try to put other men in their own disgusting mindset. A LOT of men like to see their woman having a good career, their own money, their own hobbies and a great career. My ex is a HVM and we had the same education and we talked about it a lot; he also supported me the whole time I applied for another program recently, going back to studies after 5.5 years working. He looks down very hardcore on men who are like the one in that post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | How to be emotionally abusive 101I would so much report his ass. And then ignore him until the end of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | How to be emotionally abusive 101But start laughing when he shows his pp and he will cry for 20 years straight 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Ladies can anyone recommend a good dildo/vibrator ?I have the same one and I'm very happy with it 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Ladies can anyone recommend a good dildo/vibrator ?The issue phoenix mentioned is the same for me, I find silicone to be more painful than pleasurable. Glass has a smoother sensation and it also adapts fast to body temperature, you can also choose to heat it up or let it cool down before if you like these feelings. The only downside about glass dildos is that they are by default rigid, so if you like flexible dildos, this won't work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.In short, if you're not conventionally attractive, you better be a doormat for someone to love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Signs your boss might have a crush on youWhenever they interact beyond work responsibilities. I have a male manager, and 99% of our conversations are work-related. Once in a while, we'll talk about the weekend activities, the weather, or anything casual like that. He doesn't know anything about my personal life, he doesn't ask weird questions about my romantic situations, he doesn't make any "subtle" comment about me or my appearance. Anything that you would think is showing interest in you beyond casual conversation should be a red fl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 52 | I'm "supposed" to say thank you to a compliment about my looks?! Thanks for showing yourself so quickly.Whenever someone compliments my body, I just send a thumbs up emoji now. Especially very early in the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 30 | Everybody: what are you doing on Valentine’s Day? I’m sure you have plenty of people you can date. My potential Valentine’s:Also they don't speak. Huge benefit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | TW: DV. And these are just the things they are willing to post publicly.I hope someone from her family sees this and uses it as a permanent restraining order from her and his son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | FDS 101: Money = Freedom = PowerInvested in crypto. Got ADA at 0.54 and it's now around 0.9. Hopefully it will break the $1 barrier soon. Other than that, ETFs for long term 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Navigating personal questions and male relationships in the workplace?Have you heard of grey rocking? It's a technique generally used to deal with toxic behaviour, but works extremely well in work environment. Someone asks if you're married. Just say no and move on. Do not answer questions that are not related to work, just say you would rather not talk about personal things. If someone invites you over lunch or a drink, make sure to invite someone else, ideally another woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againTake a credit in his name 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with menBlessed be headphones. Pretend you don't hear them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.My gosh, what a creep! I read your other comment about the backstory of it, and he definitely can't be trusted and seems like the typical "gaslight, step over boundaries, act all nice to friends, and then abuse the situation" type guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me that takes not even putting a ? At the end of a question as a sign of laziness and low value?A pet peeve of mine too. He used one in the first question so he knows what it is, can't claim ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Just set up a meeting somewhere and don't show up. Then pretend that you never said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:44 PM |
| 34 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.Just tell him it's not rare for you to receive messages like that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay?That's a personal preference but I dislike body hair, for men and women equally. I liked when my bike racer ex boyfriend would shave his armpits, legs and chest before races and encourage him to do it 🙃 I don't care what others do with their body, but I prefer to remove hair on mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | The fact that France has had no age consent and is trying to now make it 15. The fuck??? That’s FUCKED up. I just know pedos love this ew.I'm pretty sure that the age of consent at 15 is what we've been having for the entirety of my life 🤔 The last version was signed in 2018. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 24 | I dated an “Alpha” Red Pill Man so YOU DONT HAVE TO!They just share one brain cell within the pack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 37 | Ah yes, my mission in life.You know what turns men on? Wear a big fucking cleavage. Like literally they won't look at anything else. No need to do elaborate things to get their attention, just exist and they'll sexually harass you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 95 | Ah yes, my mission in life.You know what sexy and scoliosis have in common? That's right, an S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:11 PM |
| 30 | Ah yes, my mission in life.Who realistically sits like that?! Lmao I'm dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 8 | 9/10 the men that lurk, comment or post screenshots from FDS, are men that feel disenfranchised from normal “masculine” circles. And in an attempt to regain power, they enter female only spaces to try and obtain an “authority” or “power”.They're not even LV, they're NV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:19 PM |
| 4 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!I hope you succeed in all your goals! I found that quarantine and limiting contacts with men (most of them are LVM) really helps in lowering stress and focusing on yourself. I'm slow dieting at the moment (looking to lose about 5-10lbs) so don't hesitate to send a DM if you want someone to chat with on that 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?They let anyone in, except people from around 40 countries. You have to self isolate and present a negative COVID test to get in though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 21 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"This is why I have no friends. Don't want to make them worried when depression hits and I disappear and ignore everyone. So I just never kept people around and just cruise life with acquaintances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | BrilliantI do that a lot when they try to make the conversation sexual. "Are you horny?" "What does that mean" "Sex" "What is that?" I swear none of them has even taken it to the point of explaining what sex is. It's worth mentioning that those are absolute strangers, so it's easy to get them to take themselves out 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts?The fake crying is really getting to me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:44 AM |
| 21 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!I'm a recruiter and the number of times I see that when the hiring managers interview... Ugh, it's like guys, you have to vet the candidate, not talk about why the company is great. They're here taking 4 hours of their time, they probably already think the company is great 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 31 | So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughtersThat means if she is your date it's ok? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:28 AM |
| 22 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍Sign me up but switch wine with champagne | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 28 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickI practice the single "ok" answer a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:25 AM |
| 65 | For real though.I'm in a country with 3 official languages + 4 others spoken commonly. I just pretend I don't understand when I'm not in the mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.Thanks! Yes I'm ok, it really hurt in the beginning for like 3 weeks, then got better, then worse, then better and stayed as it is now, which is generally not too painful but some things are still to do with caution like sleeping on that side, lifting heavy things quickly or contact sports. Other than that, most of the annoying pain stopped. Did you know that when you have a broken rib, standing and walking is really painful? That was the worst because I couldn't sleep on that side (the only sid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | My friend is all set to marry an LVMWow, great friend 😐 I hope you treated yourself to something nice instead of spending more time and energy with this nasty one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | My friend is all set to marry an LVMI just dream of an all-girl vacation to Goa with women who don't care about men. Until that time comes, I'll avoid places that attract influencers and similar types of people. There's a special thing about these places... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?This guy has never seen my mom's cat. He's literally glued to her all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | The audacity is off the chartsI hope he wears the red flags bright and high when he meets women so they know how to avoid him like the pest he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 23 | As the weather gets colder, walk dates are no more. They have been replaced by requests to meet at a stranger’s house for the first time.I got something funny like that. Met a guy at the gym, didn't talk for a super long time. One day he hits me up, we catch up a bit, and says "it would be nice to go for a drink this weekend". To be fair, I wouldn't have accepted, but perfect opportunity, lockdown. So I remind him that all restaurants and bars are closed (and have been for several weeks!), and he just answered as if he was clueless about it all like "ooooo that's true. My place then?". You guys, I laughed so much and just said "u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:11 AM |
| 2 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.It's easy, I have no deep connection with anyone and don't consider anyone as friends. However, I've had a couple of people that I was close to and trust enough to share personal things with, and most of them were men, a big part of which I never met in person. I don't think men or women make better friends, but I think that you tend to find friends in the spheres you frequent and most of my jobs/hobbies have a majority of men. Most of the women I met were in techs, engineering, or into bodybuil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:49 AM |
| 11 | My friend is all set to marry an LVMIndian men can be so entitled and childish. Dated two, and they both were the only child and treated like they were literally a gift to Earth from God. I had fun times but LOTS of red flags, and not worth a long-term thing. They both had very wrong ideas of dating, women and relationship, not from their culture though, but looking around at their friends and their relationships, they all behaved the same way and supported each other, it was disgusting. The second one thought it was "funny" that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:38 AM |
| 9 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.Absolute agree. They don't even need to wife you up. Some fucking LV manchild broke my rib and it's still painful to this day, 8 years later. Don't give them any attention or time, just avoid at all cost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Boundaries are not just about peopleI read about that and got surprised too. Got offered nothing, but the pain was not too bad for me (I went straight from the hospital to work 🥴) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Do Men Really Need This Level of Bro-ism to Wipe Their Asses Properly?Omg this is hilarious. I'm not surprised considering men like black packaging so much that some toothpaste brands do "men toothpaste". Like guys, you have the same teeth as us 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”I personally always felt horrible about my body and got a breast augmentation last year and I'm extremely happy about it. Didn't do it for men since I have a boyfriend. I thought about it for 10 years and thought that 29 was the time to do it. I think if something is debilitating to the point of making you uncomfortable when you look at it (the number of times I cried in the shower about how I look...), it's legitimate to think about it. Now, I wouldn't do it on impulse, I took one decade of ref… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 43 | So broken, that I think are Red Flags Are Actually WorkingI think it's a good part of therapy to challenge yourself with things that may trigger a change. Talking to someone that sets tricks she would fall for in the past and acknowledging where the problems are is really important in avoiding mistakes in the future. It may come naturally to you, but some people need to learn these things, especially when they struggle with co-dependency tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Suggesting couples counseling can be a form of gaslighting. This lady could have died in the shower while pregnant and her husband got mad at her for being upset he wouldn't answer her, after her begging him to just answer his phone. It pissed me off to see "counseling" suggested here& it's upvoted.So she fell and could have died and HE won't speak to her? Ughhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:00 PM |
| 29 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseYou should have asked if he planned to put your name on the ownership of the house too. To make things equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Amy WinehouseHer music was her way to express her suffering through addiction, self-destructive behaviour and depression. She just wanted to feel good and tried different things that left her even more broken. One of these things might be related to men, but that's how a lot of self-destructive people are; get attached to things that hurt you and behave in ways that don't make you better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 31 | A Woman Is Going Viral For Sharing How A Man Shamed Her For Not Sleeping With Him, And Her Message Is So ImportantThe scariest ones are the ones who don't understand the word no... Bouncers must be seeing a lot of shit like that, sadly 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:25 AM |
| 143 | A Woman Is Going Viral For Sharing How A Man Shamed Her For Not Sleeping With Him, And Her Message Is So ImportantHad a similar experience but even worse at the end... Met this guy through common friends and we agreed to meet at a restaurant near my place (the word date is never mentioned). He pays for food and drinks although I offer to split and he refuses. After about 1.5 hours I explain that my friends are going to go home for Ramadan the next day (we were in China and that means they would be more than 5000 km away for more than a month) and I wanted to meet with them. And said he could come if he want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:49 AM |
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