ParadoxicalStairs Archive

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–	women are unlikely to date outside their than men In addition to being surrounded by white culture, western media severely underrepresents positive Asian male role models. So when an Asian girl grows up in America and all she sees on tv, commercials, and movies are white men, she’ll be brainwashed into thinking white men are THE ideal partner. Although for Asian women outside of western countries, the desire to be closer to whiteness and move up in class seems to be the primary reason. I was in the Philippines last week and saw a good amount of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 04:08 AM
–	women are unlikely to date outside their than men No, they don’t. But there’s something wrong when Asian women only make up 3% of America’s population but date out the most compared to other races of men and women. I never knew about this issue when I was a child living in Japan and the Philippines even though I saw a few white male & asian female couples in those countries. I always thought it was strange. It wasn’t until I read about how some Asian girls hate their own culture and desire to be white so they decide to date out to feel better a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:40 AM
–	women are unlikely to date outside their than men If you take into account how Asians make up only 6% of America’s population, and if 3% are Asian women, and that demographic dates out the most percentage wise compared to other races, that’s a problem. It screams self hate and internalized racism. Asian culture has awful white worshipping tendencies and I believe this affects a lot of Asian girls living in the west bc there are very few positive Asian male representation in American media. A similar equivalent would be black men who date outsid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:25 AM
–	women are unlikely to date outside their than men There are statistics that say Asian women date outside of their race the most and this embarrasses me as an Asian woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:12 AM
2	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates First dates should never be expensive unless both parties agree to split the bill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 04:47 AM
0	Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage? Depending on the culture, yes. Asian culture looks down on promiscuous women bc many Asian cultures are still traditional and conservative. From what I see in American culture, promiscuity is encouraged and people don’t seem to care as much about their partner’s body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 12:53 PM
2	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. Construction, fishing, logging, roadwork, linemen, sewer workers, etc. Being outdoors is good but these types of jobs are hazardous and I’ve never seen any women do them. I drive around my city regularly and pass by construction projects for new apartments and condos and never see a single female construction worker. When I see my local power company’s lineman check the power lines, I don’t see a single woman climbing up power poles. There are men who work indoors but the vast majority of danger…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 05:34 PM
0	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. I just wanna point out how working with children can be stressful but teachers lives arent at risk like the jobs men take. Most women are very fortunate to work at jobs where they’re indoors compared to men who work outside and are exposed to the elements daily or at risk of workplace accidents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 04:51 PM
1	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. I agree. I think both parents should try to be involved in their kids lives somehow and not be absent from it just bc they have a more demanding job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 02:22 PM
3	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. They don’t work as hard? Wdym bean by that, like are they lazier?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 02:20 PM
2	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. My mom is a nurse and I’ve seen how tired she is after coming home from work every morning. I don’t expect her to cook and clean for us everyday bc that’s selfish, and that’s why I had to learn housework to help my parents out. My point is, whichever party in a couple works a less demanding job should try to pick up the slack for their partner to show gratitude. If the woman has the more demanding job, the man should take on the larger share of parenting responsibilities, and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 02:03 PM
2	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. There are women who take on physically demanding jobs but not in the same amount as men. You’ll rarely see a woman on construction sites or as loggers or fishers. I am aware of how society expects women to take on parenting responsibilities even while she works and this is the cause of frustration for so many modern women. Parenting should be a shared responsibility but couples should try to make compromises depending on how much free time they have, their work responsibilities, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 01:54 PM
5	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. If you have a very physically demanding job, you won’t have the energy for other things like spending time with your kids, cooking, cleaning, etc. Both my parents work full time and in physically demanding jobs and I have to help raise my siblings to ease the burden on my parents. To me, whoever has the least physically demanding job should try to pick up the slack for their partner if they can. It doesn’t matter the gender, but historically, men have always taken more dangerous and physically d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 01:27 PM
1	The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting. Don’t men work in more labor intensive and dangerous jobs than women? It would be unfair to expect a man who does something like road work or construction to also provide the same level of parenting as women who likely work in white collar or easier/safer jobs. If most men have easy and cushy jobs then I can understand why people would be upset, but this isn’t the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 01:12 PM
3	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Yeah, it’s a double standard when I see girls saying they won’t date short or fat guys, but then they get offended when guys say they don’t want fat girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 02:25 AM
1	Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice things That statistic is likely true bc my parents ages are 2 years apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 01:25 AM
1	Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice things Am I part of the problem if I choose not to date anyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 01:24 AM
0	Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash? Why are you associating Asians with trad wives, and why mention kimchi, bentos, ricewater, etc? Also Asian women rarely make Asian food outside of their own culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 07:52 PM
–	There is no such thing as misogyny. There is only misandry. Free speech is good, but it’s probably also a good idea to regulate spaces that promote hate towards the opposite gender. I just don’t understand how people get to that point where they hate the opposite gender. I never heard of the terms incel or femcel until I started exploring Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 04:19 AM
–	There is no such thing as misogyny. There is only misandry. Sorry, I was talking about internet spaces. I’ve been to subreddits which people would call incel subs bc the men there were misogynistic. While some women only subs aren’t as bad bc they try to prohibit any femcel talk. Some women only subs do try to fear monger, which is why I said they sometimes have borderline misandrist views. Anyway I dislike it when both genders generalize the other and paint them in a bad light.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 04:07 AM
–	There is no such thing as misogyny. There is only misandry. It depends on the places you visit. Female only spaces tend to exhibit views bordering on misandry. While male only spaces tend to be misogynistic. Edit: I was referring to internet spaces	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 03:16 AM
1	There's just as many low quality Women as Men Yeah guys can be very delusional too. Social media warped everyone’s expectations for their partners and also inflated their own egos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 07:37 PM
1	There's just as many low quality Women as Men I think the women with extremely high standards like the ones on Kevin Samuels show would be happier if they stopped trying to aim for men who are like the top 1%. It just isn’t realistic. Instead of trying to date the doctor, lawyer, athlete, CEO, they should look at guys with other respectable jobs like electricians, plumbers, mailmen, small business owner, etc. The guys on this sub don’t reflect the average guy irl though. I’m sure the average guy isn’t filled with hate towards the average wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 06:17 PM
5	There's just as many low quality Women as Men I saw a Kevin Samuel’s video and one of the recurring problems of single women on his show was they don’t like to settle. Idk why society tells people to aim high when looking for a partner when they should be aiming for realism instead. I find it funny how some of those women wanted men who made 6 figures when they didn’t make that amount themselves. I sincerely hope people come back to earth with their standards bc being delusional isn’t healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 01:28 AM
7	There's just as many low quality Women as Men Yeah it seems like those women have high standards so they only choose the high quality men. It would be preferable if people’s standards were more realistic bc it’s weird to think about a few guys having a roster of thirsty girls around him. I think those girls would be happier being with someone on their level instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 01:12 AM
1	There's just as many low quality Women as Men Yeah. Idk who thinks one gender has more higher quality people than the other. “Quality” can be really subjective too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 11:54 PM
4	There's just as many low quality Women as Men Who’s saying there’s a giant gap? If there was any research done on this (which would probably be a waste of time), both genders would likely be close. Whoever’s worse likely depends on what the parameters or conditions are, and if there’s any bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 11:52 PM
22	There's just as many low quality Women as Men What parameters are we going by and are there any statistics to prove that there is an equal number? I agree anyway bc bad quality people from both genders exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 08:39 PM
51	There's just as many low quality Women as Men Yes, low quality people from both genders exist. I don’t have a problem with that statement. If guys don’t want low quality women, just avoid them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 08:19 PM
-4	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? Irrational fear. It’s so dumb to think that an entire gender are predators. I think this is just fearmongering to fuel gender wars in the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 01:03 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. I appreciate your concern. I actually go to an afterschool adolescent behavioral program for my self esteem issues, among other things. No, I don’t want them to think they owe me anything if I give them something out of kindness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:04 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. But that’s boring	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:47 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. We pay for our own things for the most part. Like he would buy his own movie ticket and food, and I do the same for myself. He does let me use his metro ticket when we take the subway bc I don’t go to NYC, while he goes often. It’s hard for me to describe why I feel so badly about owing something bc of a date. I feel like it’s the money and time spent on me that makes me feel guilty. I don’t like the thought of wasting other people’s time. Oh yes, that should be why women should pay their share …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:45 AM
2	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Tbh I’ve never gone on a date romantically, but I’ve had dates with my friend and we would always pay our share. I just dislike the feeling and the thought of owing someone bc of what we did on a date. Yes, that’s a great way to clear up any misunderstandings and prevent conflict around money when dating. Perhaps the problem some people have is they don’t express it well or not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:24 AM
2	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. I think your date payment situation works out bc you and your bf already know each other and don’t plan to take advantage of one another. Whereas on first dates, some people don’t plan on seeing the other person again and are only using them for a free meal. Ideally, yes, more people should try to split the bill out of fairness. Although I have no problem if one person pays for the entire bill out of politeness, bc the other person clearly cannot afford to contribute (bc they might be poorer).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:57 AM
8	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. I think the problem happens more often on first dates where some girls use guys for free meals. Edit: Some guys do this too	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:44 AM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion I don’t get why they would answer with hostility when I don’t see anything offensive about the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:58 AM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Well, doesn’t being a 10 include things like being the best looking and the wealthiest? That’s the point we’re trying to establish here. If you’re not the best looking or wealthiest, you’re not a 10. Sorry, I don’t want to date them. I’m straight. The issue is their mindset is delusional and not grounded in reality. They’re free to think like that though, and make themselves look dumb in front of millions of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:56 AM
5	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion That doesn’t make sense bc the question is “what do you rate yourself”, not “do you love yourself”. Real 10s don’t waste time on podcasts trying to convince the world they’re 10s. That’s the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:47 AM
8	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion You’re right, we don’t know much about you and it would be unfair to dismiss you as a 10. I’m just saying that one argument of this thread is the reality of REAL 10s are much different from people who THINK they are 10s. The girls on the podcasts who said they are 10s, aren’t, bc they don’t have the looks, lifestyles, or the wealth of actual 10s. And again if any of those girls are 10s, then they would be movie stars or walking on a runway somewhere. Not wasting time on a podcast trying to convi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:41 AM
5	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion I think there’s a difference between what you want to think about yourself vs the reality, and I’m talking about the latter. I’m sure that’s what the OP is talking about as well. I was alluding to the lives of the top 1% of society. Only the wealthiest actually live like 10s. You might be different and actually come from a wealthy family. Regarding looks, 10s are very rare and people who are actual 10s, have high paying jobs revolving around it like modeling or acting. Even then, most actors and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:15 AM
0	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion I was alluding to whatever the top 1% or the wealthiest people experience from the day they were young or born. Probably stuff like living in mansions, going to the best, most prestigious schools, owning luxury cars, never worrying about debt, etc. I’m willing to bet most people who say they are 10s have never lived like that. Edit: Forgot to mention that if you’re super wealthy, you never have to worry about working or finding a job. Your life is pretty much set.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:06 AM
15	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Can I ask if you objectively think you’re a 10, or that’s what you tell yourself to be confident? Bc telling others you’re a 10 comes off as really arrogant and when they hear that, they’ll naturally size you up. If you don’t look like a 10, don’t have the wealth of a 10, or the life experiences of a 10, it’s better to not say anything at all. Being humble is more attractive and endearing to others than overrating yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 11:58 PM
25	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion If you’re a girl on a podcast and you call yourself a 10…., you’re not a 10 😆 I don’t think even top actresses call themselves a 10. There’s really no humility in some people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 09:26 PM
2	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. It’s a bit fascinating how being a step dad is glorified by women in Latin America. I never knew this until now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 01:13 PM
1	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. Yes	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 05:07 AM
1	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. It depends on tastes. I like Asian guys who look like shoujo manga characters or Asian drama male leads. Other girls might like guys who are the complete opposite, like vin diesel or another really macho looking western guy.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 04:51 AM
1	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. What is mog?	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 04:39 AM
1	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? She was a famous actress in the 90s and I can definitely see her getting that many matches if she was young and tried OLD today 😄.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 10:43 PM
4	SEAmaxxing isn’t as simple as passport bros make it sound You don’t have to be white to attract those poor girls. I saw a few black guys and a lot of Koreans when I was in the Philippines. If you have money, they’ll call out to you.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:44 PM
1	SEAmaxxing isn’t as simple as passport bros make it sound Ideally you want a relationship where both sides aren’t using each other to get ahead in life. The poor Filipino girls I’m talking about see foreign guys as ATMs to support their huge families who are living in poverty.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:36 PM
3	Take the passportpill Do you have a Japanese fetish?	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:32 PM
18	SEAmaxxing isn’t as simple as passport bros make it sound I was told by someone on Reddit and by my aunt that most of the poor Asian girls use white guys as free green cards and a way out of poverty. If you men don’t mind being used, then go for it.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:31 PM
1	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. Ikr? He’s not even tall too. He’s about 5’9. I probably wouldn’t be single if I can find a guy in my area that looked like him. But I still have to overcome my low self confidence and other mental health issues before getting into a relationship.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:26 PM
0	Take the passportpill I saw a younger looking European guy at a bar with a Filipino girl and he wasn’t a chad. Very average looking.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 01:17 PM
-3	Take the passportpill Ewww no. I hated seeing old white guys with young Filipino women when I visited the Philippines.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 12:51 PM
3	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. If I can answer your question using Asian guys as examples, a 3/10 would be someone who looks slightly worse than Ken Jeong, and a 9/10 for me is Lee Taeyong.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 07:16 AM
3	Minimum height to have a chance at each face ranking. Do girls really put that much importance on height that they’ll ignore the ugly face that comes with it? I’ve only seen this with basketball players but they make millions, and money makes up for a lot of things.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 07:13 AM
1	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? I’m never going to use dating apps. I’d like to find my partner like how my parents met each other. And you don’t know if guys find me attractive enough to make that claim with 500 matches.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 06:48 AM
4	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? Guys will need to be attracted to me first for me to have a bf. And I’m the type of person who would rather have sex with one partner for life, than have meaningless hookups.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 03:33 AM
0	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? I’m 17 and I’m not allowed to use dating apps yet. I think most girls can get a match if they look good enough.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 03:13 AM
-5	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? I like to think a fair number are indeed lonely.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 02:59 AM
-4	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? I’m one of those ☹️	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 02:58 AM
-2	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? The attractiveness of a woman depends on how many men are “fawning” over her. Most lonely women are ugly or socially awkward. I’m guessing very few are conventionally attractive like you’re imagining them to be. Even if it’s easier for hideous women, most of them want to be in real relationships. Not casual flings or hookups.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 02:07 AM
-13	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? Believe it or not, women are lonely for many of the same reasons men are lonely.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 01:35 AM
1	You can find out if you are attractive when working with strangers on a daily basis. Sounds like you have mean classmates 😕	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 02:08 PM
1	How old is everyone here? Where’s the choice for less than 18 yrs?	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 09:47 PM
1	Catfishing really works! I GOT LAID!!! Is this your version of the D.E.N.N.I.S. system?	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 01:01 PM
-1	Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutal Are you really unattractive? If guys around your looks range are getting girls, there’s a chance for you too.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 01:41 AM
-2	Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutal Honestly, there could be a number of reasons why you’re not getting matches. Maybe the girls on the apps are too picky, or your standards are high. You might have a better shot asking girls out in person, or asking a friend to introduce you to somebody.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 01:23 AM
2	Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutal Who are you looking to attract? White Australians or other minorities? White girls might be more picky because they tend to prefer tall white guys.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:57 AM
2	Where are you from/where would you like to live? I’m from NJ. I’d like to live with my relatives in either Japan or Philippines. If I can I’d like to visit countries like Singapore, Vietnam, Hong Kong, and maybe Austria or Germany.	/r/AllPillDebate	29/10/23 12:00 AM
2	How tall is everyone here ? Vote Can standing out for being tall be a negative thing for men? They might get picked on for deviating too much from the norm, like short guys. I picked 5’11/6’ because my dad is 5’10 and my younger brother is 6’ ft tall. I thought I would be that height if I was a guy. I didn’t know about median heights for both genders, lol. Do a lot of women really have strict requirements? And what about guys, do they require a certain height for women? How about weight?	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 10:11 PM
-6	Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution” Why are there guys like him who threaten to kill people because they can’t get sex? I wish he channeled that hate into doing something productive for himself or other people.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 06:42 PM
11	Virtually all the male protagonists of the video games that I played are chad You forgot to include Leon from resident evil. So many girls IRL and in-game simp for him.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 03:14 PM
1	How tall is everyone here ? Vote I think being that tall isn’t good because you stand out too much from the general population. If I was reborn as a guy, I’d like to be around 5’11 or 6 ft. But it all depends on how good looking my face is. I feel like guys put too much emphasis on height to make up for their face. I think guys who are around 5’8 and handsome, are just as attractive as someone taller. 🙂	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 09:40 AM
2	How tall is everyone here ? Vote Most skin conditions can be treated so stay positive. I just hope your skin isn’t too damaged that it requires expensive treatments like laser or micro needling.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 03:27 AM
3	How tall is everyone here ? Vote Hopefully the dermatologist can help. You might have an allergic reaction to something or have a serious health condition.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 03:11 AM
3	How tall is everyone here ? Vote I didn’t know you were suffering that much. Wdym by bad skin? Is it like acne?	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 02:57 AM
3	How tall is everyone here ? Vote Can I ask if you receive compliments for your height?	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 02:49 AM
2	How tall is everyone here ? Vote When you’re that tall, do people often ask if you’re good at basketball?	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 02:31 AM
2	How tall is everyone here ? Vote 5’6 same as my mom	/r/AllPillDebate	28/10/23 12:48 AM
3	Woman exposes the FAW subreddit I’m not really surprised about her story if it’s true, because every group has a few bad apples. People will always be picky and want something better. I’m unfortunately not close enough to any FAW mods or senior members to corroborate this story. I’m just a casual member who likes to ask questions and learn more about FAW.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/10/23 04:17 AM
3	When should I give up and escortmax? Breeding sounds primal lol. I think a lot of girls would be turned off by that word.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 10:43 PM
1	Something that is unpopular, even anime male characters don't fit female standards and wouldn't be called a Chad Goblin Slayer is hot and we don’t even see his face. He has a muscular body with scars but also the hair of a shonen manga protagonist. Kinda like Jin from Tekken.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 10:28 PM
1	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 No, lol. This place appeared on my home page one day and I thought it’s a place for discussing problems between the two genders.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 09:25 PM
1	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 I won’t speak about weight, because I do agree that it’s something that can be fixed with some willpower. I’ve seen some men say they prefer women bare faced, without makeup. Men also don’t want to start a family with an ugly woman, and vice versa.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 09:17 PM
1	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 What is TRP? Idk how many ugly women are obese. I always thought they were talking about their face. There’s not much you can do with the face you’re born with aside from plastic surgery, and most ugly women lack the funds to fix it. Makeup isn’t going to help when most men prefer seeing the natural bare face of their partner.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 09:11 PM
2	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? Not all Asian guys can look like BTS V 😆. But I agree that physical appearance plays a role in attracting partners, no matter the race.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 03:14 PM
2	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? What is changmaxx? 😆	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 01:44 PM
3	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? That’s interesting. I’ve been in a few Asian centric Reddit communities and Asian guys complain about white guys taking their girls, lol.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 01:41 PM
3	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? Including us? 😭 Most of the Asian girls in my school are with Asian guys, but there is one Filipino girl who’s with a Latino guy.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 12:17 PM
1	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 Well, not all of them have gone on dates or have ever been approached by men. I see multiple users often saying they’ve never been sexually harassed, asked out, never dated, had sex, etc. You know, things most normal women experience.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 05:07 AM
1	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? Which women? Can’t be all of them.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 04:59 AM
2	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 I’ve read the comments in some of those posts, and most have reasonable expectations for the men they would date. There might be certain qualities or traits in a man they won’t accept, but their standards are mostly fair.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 04:57 AM
5	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 They’re the loner, unpopular girl in school who got bullied. They don’t really hang out at a specific place meant for ugly women. From what I’ve read on r/foreveralonewomen most are homebodies or recluses that rarely leave their home, except for work (if they have a job).	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 04:29 AM
5	Blackpilled men of this sub, what race/ethnicity are you? Why? I would vote too but I’m not a guy.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 03:57 AM
5	In your own words explain what is wrong with the dating marketplace in USA 🇺🇸 Something that bothers me is people having too high standards for their ideal partner when they don't meet those standards themselves. They have a skewed perception of their self worth making them think they deserve a partner of that caliber. This is probably why most guys dislike how below average and average looking girls reject them and going after the fabled Chad. What's even worse is that same group of women belittle and insult men in their own looksrange, thinking they are above them. Men …	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 02:35 AM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? I appreciate the link, but I was only able to read the abstract not the full article. Dark skin IS viewed as more masculine by some people, but that doesn’t take into account other beauty standards or preferred phenotypes. For example, dark skin possesses a negative stigma in many parts of the world where it is commonly associated with “bad”. So you have to wonder if dark skin is actually a good thing.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 12:23 AM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? Is hypermasculinity a good thing? I know that being a bald guy in Asia isn’t attractive at all. Everyone there values a nice head of hair.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 12:04 AM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? I should’ve said taller on average in America, sorry.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 12:01 AM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? Balding is a negative trait though. No one wants to be bald.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:55 PM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? How are they more masculine? What’s the criteria you’re using? I’m genuinely curious.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:47 PM
2	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? Black men are taller on average than other races, but that’s about it. They don’t possess any qualities that other men can’t have.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:39 PM
3	Do you think black men are inherently the most masculine race? Wdym by most masculine? Because there are masculine traits that exist outside of appearance.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:34 PM
1	Racepill is the most brutal pill Are you trying to paint me as a racist? Someone like me who is of the Asian race and ethnically Japanese-Filipino has a better chance of finding a date or a successful relationship with a fellow Asian (or Japanese or Filipino) because we share the same culture and values and also likely find Asian features more attractive than western features. This is really common sense and how the rest of the world are attracted to each other.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:59 AM
-1	Racepill is the most brutal pill I don’t understand what you’re saying. My point was that if your ethnicity is the minority in a society, you automatically have a handicap in the dating market. Most people will flock towards those whose appearance fits the beauty standard, and if you don’t fit it, you might have a better shot with someone from your own ethnicity. I’m not telling people to not date white people.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 11:28 AM
2	Women view fictional characters as competition Jin is my favorite and he warped my expectations on what an ideal Asian man should look like when I was younger 😅.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 10:42 AM
7	Women view fictional characters as competition Not all women think like that. I like good looking characters in my games too. That’s one of the main reasons why I love final fantasy games.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 04:47 AM
16	This is entirely the problem with dating in 2023 Her attitude is ugly. I won't comment on her appearance because some guys might find her attractive. She didn't need to insult guys who are less attractive than her. The most insulting part though, is that she thinks she's above them for some reason.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 02:04 AM
-1	Racepill is the most brutal pill If you’re trying to date white people, yeah. If you stick to your own ethnicity or race, your chances should be a lot better.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 01:50 AM
4	Racepill is the most brutal pill Isn’t this common sense for any minority in the west? We will always be beneath whites in the dating market because America is a predominantly white country that promotes western beauty standards. It would be like if I traveled to Argentina and saw that most guys preferred Argentinian women. I shouldn’t be surprised if Asians are having a hard time there.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 11:26 PM
1	I need women’s take on something What is your question?	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 09:15 PM
5	My personal witness of a femcel I relate to this girl. I was bullied a lot in middle school and my first 2 yrs of high school which made me become a “femcel”.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 04:53 PM
3	This is what happens to OF girls in the end I can’t support girls who choose to go on OF or are very promiscuous. They’re really setting themselves us for failure in the end when no man wants to marry a slut.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 04:50 PM
6	I believe there is a scary silent majority of men who have never been in relationships or had sex. I dont have a problem if above average looking or truly beautiful women didn’t find average men attractive. I think most people here dislike it when below average to average looking women don’t find average men attractive.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 01:57 PM
7	I believe there is a scary silent majority of men who have never been in relationships or had sex. Something is really wrong with dating culture if most women are trying to lockdown the few chads, instead of being with average guys.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 01:47 PM
1	I believe there is a scary silent majority of men who have never been in relationships or had sex. From what I’ve seen, this problem is really prevalent in the west because some women have unrealistic standards or are more shallow.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 01:45 PM
2	I believe there is a scary silent majority of men who have never been in relationships or had sex. Is there a way to make more relationships happen? Idc about sex because I think casual sex does more harm than good.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 05:48 AM
3	Daily Grannypill #4 The grandma is so sweet for playing along.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 05:43 AM
1	Would you date sub 5 overweight minimum wage job no education woman? If that type of girl is your preference then go ahead. If she isn't, don't. Why do people make it sound like they HAVE to date girls like those?	/r/AllPillDebate	23/10/23 08:34 PM
1	Did anyone else become ugly as an adult I think I was a decent looking kid and after puberty, I became an ugly teen/young adult.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/10/23 09:57 PM
1	Which is more important height or looks? Agree. I think the vast majority of women would choose average height Johnny Depp over someone like Channing Tatum.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/10/23 12:07 PM
1	Which is more important height or looks? For me it’s face. I’d rather date someone who looks like Mackenyu over a taller guy like Shohei Otani.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/10/23 12:05 PM
2	Beware women in open relationships (ENMs) I’m sorry but open relationships and hookup culture are so toxic to me. I have no idea how people can maintain trust these days.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 06:27 PM
2	What's your bodycount? Oh darn, I have an acne scar on my chin that looks like a small cigarette burn. There goes my chances of being with a guy, huh? ☹️ Wouldn’t it be better if everyone goes after their looksmatch, instead of aiming higher? Going after someone out of your league almost always ends in disappointment. But it seems like most people have no clue where they belong on the attractiveness scale. I’m guilty of always comparing myself to others, especially to K-pop idols, Japanese actresses, etc. And you’re r…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 03:39 AM
2	I gotta know something, ladies. That’s a great point. Going into relationships with that way of thinking is much better because it’ll create less resentment if things dont work out. However, I don’t want to see guys put in too much effort or else they’ll look like a simp, especially if the previous guy didn’t give the same amount of effort. To me, it would look like the girl is stringing the poor guy along.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 02:00 AM
0	What's your bodycount? Yes, women can be invisible to men. You know that unattractive, overweight girl you went to school with? She likely never went on a date in her life. Girls don’t even have to be overweight to be invisible. They could just be plain ugly and will never get attention from guys her entire life. No, we’re not all attracted to Chads. Many FAW are aware of their status and know they can never attract that type of guy. I’ve read posts of women saying they tried dating short men, bald men, broke men, abu…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 01:51 AM
2	What's your bodycount? Yeah, I suspect social media warped everyone’s standards. I have a question. What are their standards for women?	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 01:40 AM
2	What's your bodycount? I don’t mind reading vent posts from guys because its nice to see their views on modern dating culture. I dislike the posts that have a certain level of vitriol towards all women. It’s very off putting and is likely the main reason why FAW users are discouraged from visiting places like these. I also don’t think single guys are losers, because FAW are on the same boat too. I would describe FAW as the invisible women. The unattractive, socially inept ones that don’t get any attention from guys. T…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 01:32 AM
7	I gotta know something, ladies. I never dated or had sex before so I can’t really provide any insight on this. Although, I do understand how unfair it is for guys to put in more effort when courting a girl, when the previous guy didn’t.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 12:20 AM
1	What's your bodycount? The west not valuing traditional family values and marriage have hurt both sexes too. I find it really strange how a lot of people nowadays glorify single parenthood like it’s an achievement, and also divorcing their partner for the pettiest reasons (like being bored). My parents are very traditional and we come from cultures where you would be shamed or disowned for having a child out of wedlock. I find the modern dating culture really toxic because while it helped give women more power and opt…	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 06:41 PM
2	What's your bodycount? You’re so right, it’s scary 😟. But hasn’t this always been the case? The huge problem I see nowadays is below average or average girls having unbelievably high standards in men. However, I’d like to exclude FAW from that group because most are aware of their looksmatch and rarely go for “Chads”.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 05:10 PM
1	Look at all the bluepill replies to this post 'What can a man do that attracts most women?' Oh, I wasn’t encouraging people to become athletes or artists. I was making a point that if you make a certain amount of money, looks go out the window.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 05:06 PM
-4	What's your bodycount? Why does my gender matter?	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 11:23 AM
-4	What's your bodycount? Why is it funny? 🤨	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 11:22 AM
1	Look at all the bluepill replies to this post 'What can a man do that attracts most women?' Not always. Most athletes and musical artists look average at best and yet they get girls out of their looks range because they make millions. If they weren’t getting paid that much, those girls wouldn’t look in their direction at all. I follow jpop and kpop, and interestingly, some actresses and idols marry non celebrities. So there is still a chance of an average looking guy getting together with a beautiful girl.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 09:28 AM
-5	What's your bodycount? A big 0 for me 🙂	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 04:39 AM
18	Look at all the bluepill replies to this post 'What can a man do that attracts most women?' It’s mostly looks. Men don’t have to be 6 ft or taller if you have a great face. Ig if a guy is average looking, being taller than average can help. Also having a full head of hair helps too, along with a good hairstyle. Its a sign of good health and genetics, and that you care about your appearance.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/23 03:53 AM
-2	Proof right here that women are not willing to lower their standards to their own looksmatch What? There are countless replies of women saying they still ended up in a bad relationship or ghosted despite lowering their standards.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/10/23 10:34 AM
1	Forever Alone Women "Have you rejected men before?" Every single persons answer: "Yes, multiple." Thanks for the book recommendations! I hope my local library has them 🙂	/r/AllPillDebate	01/10/23 10:14 AM
1	Forever Alone Women "Have you rejected men before?" Every single persons answer: "Yes, multiple." I’ve been on FAW for about half a year and most of the people there have said that they were either too ugly and men ignore them, or have low self esteem/mental health issues that makes it difficult for them to trust men. Usually it’s a combination of the two because unattractive women get so jaded from being mistreated all the time, that they become FAW. Many FAW also don’t care about sex. They want true relationships. I was friends with an older FAW in her 30s who told me she would actually go…	/r/AllPillDebate	01/10/23 12:10 AM
2	Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics. I also like looking at pretty characters male or female 🙂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:57 AM