Paragonne Archive

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-109	Bill Burr: "I'm envious of women. At least your problems get taken seriously. Anything happens to a guy and it's just considered funny." Having seen too-many-to-count examples of women being abused AND ignored, including a recent case where a nurse was stealing the pain-killer for women undergoing surgical-biopsy & replacing it with saline, on the important-to-see/witness r/TwoXChromosomes , I call bullshit. Further, https://www.amazon.com/Thats-What-She-Said-Together-ebook/dp/B0716GZT1P/ lists enough hard-numbers to obliterate his claim. Male-culture has specific prejudices, and the prejudice that male-culture puts against all f…	/r/MensRights	17/07/23 05:25 AM
1	Men still do more emotional labor than women in a relationship ROTFLMAO I'm autistic, so, according to some autism-researchers, am more male-brained than normal guys. Here is an objective standard reference, for the difference between female-brain vs male-brain people: When a woman has been wronged at work, and she goes and hangs-out with her best friend ( another woman ), they commisserate. Not problem-solve: commisserate. When a guy has been wronged at work, and he goes and hangs-out with his buddy, they problem-solve, not commisserate. Both modes/normals…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 01:53 AM
2	Why dating/marrying older women is bad deal Why dating/marrying older women is bad deal You will pay for mistakes of other guys Some new set of standards/rules which never existed for earlier guys Certain activities already out of bedroom as she tried them with earlier guys and apparently didn't like it which actually means she doesn't like it with you Lots of unattractive emotional baggage Her older self Dead bedroom 'due to low libido"and other bullshit ?? So, you aren't marrying her, you are only marrying her historical-record & -habit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 04:12 AM
2	women are not self-aware on how badly they treat men According to the Christian bible... biblical-literalists, aka "scribes", & "pious" "Jews" won't speak truth ( he called both "Hypocrites!" ), but... when he was accosting demons, they spoke truth in identifying him as one of the race .. "son of god". ( the old way, was: * Sons of Suns, aka the kings of angels * Sons of God, aka angels themselves, & * Sons of Men, aka Hoomins. ... which makes the Muslim religion's demand "How could there be any son of God?? that is false-doctrine!" .. into egg-on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 08:23 PM
5	women are not self-aware on how badly they treat men Before moneyarchy got really paying all people below upper-middle-class destitution-wages, enforcing long commutes from distant residences, extra vehicles, roads, commuting-time, & stupid hours, offloading employment-costs onto the civil tax-base... ... the commonest form of PTSD, that I can see, was battered-women syndrome. Men are the majority of physical-violence perpetrators, & men gaslighting about how men "protect" women, when it was & is men protecting male assumed authority over women th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 06:36 PM
-1	Why are women more sociable than men on average? I was thinking of work situations, where some cultural-disfunction at work harms the people there, or some wrong-process harms people there ... Once it was pointed out to me, years ago, the concept stuck... a few months ago, one of the various twitter subreddits had an example: a woman was complaining that when she complains to guys, about things, they immediately jump into problem-solving mode... To me it's fundamental: IF one can change the situation to improve things, THEN it is, to some exte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 02:39 PM
0	Why are women more sociable than men on average? It isn't emotionality or whimsicality that grates on my autistic nerves... I've read that women go to a friend, after some situation they found bad, for comisseration. That women will not change the situation & instead, after every time they're caught in it, they go for comisseration... Again & again & again .. not correcting the problem. Ugh. I'm trying to chop my soul out from its soul-unconsciousness, & normal guys find that ( old-testament buddhist ) level of problem-correction to be derange…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 01:48 PM
1	Why are women more sociable than men on average? On which planet??	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 01:38 PM
4	Why are women more sociable than men on average? Autism hits both males & females, & it damages both kinds of lives in the same general way, but it damages male lives in some specific ways & female lives in other specific ways. There is an autism something women subreddit... Please glance into it, & if it is a subreddit filled with your experiences, then see & understand that you're not alone. I'm some kind of mutant autistic, & after decades of fighting with all the conditions/damages/etc, am getting good at some things that normals & normal-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 01:14 PM
15	Why are women more sociable than men on average? Women have waaay more social-process wiring in their brains than we guys do: 2x as much talking-with-people brain, drastically more body-language competence, significantly more social-connections-mapping competence... We guys have brains more organized for things, not for existing-in-relation-with-people. Nature, not mere nurture. As Simon Baron-Cohen says, autism is simply further on the male end of the female-to-male brain spectrum: we're useless blockheads at socializing. Also, please don't m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 11:05 AM
5	The logical reason men want younger women for relationships... You are missing a couple of HUGE points... When someone only knows another person visually, by their appearance .. then we judge them, including their value/worth, by that little visual information. When someone knows another by working with them, on some project/hobby or something, one earns knowing of their meaning, in spite of any sexual chemistry between them. Younger minds are more blank .. older minds are more definitely-their-own-meaning, so simple, uninterfered-with sexual-energy is more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 08:13 PM
5	If age gaps are wrong because of a "power imbalance," the same is true for income gaps. Male-ignorance is intractable blockheadedness, autistic-male ignorance is that, but cubed. Try being a dolphin, when your body is a Mechano-set that is rusty... it's frustrating like that... As horribly exhausting as it is to spend awhile in social-process, one gains more sentience-exercise socializing among women, than men, because male-culture considers male-ignorance to be proof of validity instead of problem ( woodenness of mind ), as every boy who's done ( raises fist while saying )"what ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 12:04 AM
7	If age gaps are wrong because of a "power imbalance," the same is true for income gaps. It ISN'T calendar-age that is crucial, when considering if a marrying is going to be unable-to-be-fair, it is stage of unconscious mental development. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Kegan#Immunity_to_Change Kegan Stage-3 unconscious-complexity-development is normal for adolescents. Kegan Stage-4 is what I call "bulling boss mode", & male-culture as a whole is oriented to being the exclusive-owner of that stage, glass-ceiling-ing women into Stage-3 limitation, to protect male-cultural-ide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:36 PM
1	CMV : You can only be attracted and aroused to biological aspects of a human being, not abstract qualities such as wealth and career You miss the fundamental point that awareness itself is abstract, & is conditioned within culture, to have valuing in relation to that culture. ( I'm empiricist/buddhist, btw, in case you wonder what culture could think the way I do ) When you the awareness find someone attractive, .. it is only your idea of them , in your mind, that you are desiring. Maybe you find destitution attractive, because it implies helpless-dependency... Maybe you find sophistication attractive, because it implies a pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 05:09 AM
1	I made a series of posters to inform people about sexist discrimination, and its similarity with racist discrimination searching what percentage of violent crimes committed by males on DuckDuckGo.com https://duckduckgo.com/?q=what+percentage+of+violent+crimes+committed+by+males&t=fpas&ia=web the results show that between "80% of those arrested for violent crime are male" and "approximately 90% of those who commit violent crime are male" AND one sees that victims of violent crime are about 50% female. Integrity dictates that objectivity be in the picture, or it is propaganda instead of journalism. Propaganda need…	/r/MensRights	28/09/21 04:49 AM
-1	I made a series of posters to inform people about sexist discrimination, and its similarity with racist discrimination Which statistics ( both original post & I talk about many things ) Also, look at what percentage of violent crime is committed by males & females, and it is stunning just how tilted the testosterone-distortion is! Look at what puts women behind bars vs what puts men behind bars ( embezzlement & fraud is normal for women, assault, etc, for men ). Also, by commenting for integrity, against the disinformation in the top post, now I am perma-banned from r/OffMyChest ( edit: had misremembered which s…	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 12:17 PM
-15	I made a series of posters to inform people about sexist discrimination, and its similarity with racist discrimination sooo fucking misleading, mixing things and pretending the comparisons are correct... dig into, iirc, r/WhyWomenLiveLonger and you should see that you are presenting false-comparison on the age one: WE are responsible for our shorter-lives, not women being responsible for it! Why do blacks have shorter lives than whites? Systematic, entrenched disadvantage, enforced against nonwhites by white-privelege's (unconscious)regime, which I've benefitted significantly from, even while spending years home…	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 04:36 AM
3	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. I wish you every success in earning all the worth you can take with you, too, & gratitude... ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 08:07 PM
2	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. I am an old, spent-7+-years-homeless, heavily-braindamaged, autistic with not 1 intact tooth in my head, & despicable piece of shit, according to UpperMiddle Class Values, as has been made absolutely-clear to me by decades of adamant contempt/prejudice. ( : Simultaneously with that, tho, from a perspective that the class-religion holds in contempt, I am very-near to realizing a Buddhist accomplishment/realization that modern-Buddhism doesn't even remember. No simplistic-"perspective" is so compl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 07:41 PM
5	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. What a bizarre collection of conditionings... I guess I really don't belong in this world... Whether someone is "attractive" or not, depends on: how one knows them to what degree one knows them in what context ( what portion of them one is knowing ) one's values etc... IF the only way I know someone is visual-appearance, THEN the only gauging of their value must be visual, right? IF I know their Meanings, their Nature, their Heart, their Spirit, their Direction, their Potential, their Insights, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 03:07 PM
0	CMV: TRP is going to help a lot of men make better relationship and marriage decisions. I agree w/ this, if not more: To be acceptable in trp, you have to be prejudice. No pushing evolving, in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 08:05 AM
8	Presumably there will also be all-female Refuse-Collector and Construction-Worker classes run by the UK Government as well? "Corps Business: the 30 MANAGEMENT PRINCIPLES of the US Marines" teams cannot be mixed: the USMC learned, segregation is required.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 02:33 PM
3	How can we narrow the intragender communication gap? These 2 books complement each-other, both provide healthy learning our world needs: Joanne Lipman's That's What She Said: What Men Need to Know (and Women Need to Tell Them) About Working Together Sam Keen's Fire In The Belly: on being a man Truly important understandings in both that need to displace the echochamber's shouting, fersure... ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 10:51 PM
0	Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people? translating thought-shapes into English: indicating where meaning-boundaries are, so you can understand intended-idea easier... Assists parsing, same as commas, but another level... ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 05:16 PM
1	Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people? we all are! : b ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 04:50 PM
1	Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people? Maturity takes time; internet-time-social-firehose precludes time. If it has been worse during christmas-pressure, see if it improves again when society chills-out in January... ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 04:40 PM
1	Will abandoning any form of moral compass get you far in life? can you value/respect yourself? why isn't that primary? ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 12:49 AM
1	Power corrupts? so, read Fire in the Belly ( Sam Keen ) as an excellent antidote... ( :	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 09:15 AM
2	Power corrupts? in ALL contexts?? that is insane: if she is more-competent in a domain than I am, why the bork would I block her handling it ( and competently learn all I can in the event/process ) and if the domain is mine, why would I not either lead her-learning, or, if she doesn't care about learning that, lead outright? as for the Power Over Others corrupting, it comes down to motivation & consideration: if you are taking her for granted, you cannot help but run-over her worth+validity. Also, if your aim i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 09:14 AM
1	Would you marry an aspie? I'm an Autist: we are FAR better material for training in Zen than social-numpties are... ( that comment was aimed at the lowest-common-denominator people who consider selfishness to be holy, and crass materialism to be True ) I am finally coming to the conclusion that all normal people want in relationship is gratifications of - possessing a partner - posessing social status - possessing relationships to "win" in - passing one's lives through distraction - consumption etc... I wonder, more and …	/r/askTRP	20/11/15 01:20 AM
1	urgent need of help. having panic attacks often. more aggressive than merely meditating, but right direction: after all the shit brain damage and prejudice combined to do to me, I can give you this and say it /probably/ will work specifically for you: do NOT give-in: your unconscious-ignorance has discovered a new game bullying you with panic and feeling you give way. it is your unconscious, not some external agent making them, for what it finds rewarding... fitness-training can correct brain chemistry, significantly. invest in a heart rate mo…	/r/askTRP	20/11/15 01:04 AM
1	Isn't most self improvement a beta move by definition? I am committed to improving me because I am committed to improving me. not because I am told I should. I've been told to take drugs, and refuse 'em. I've been told MANY things. some I accept, some reject... if I find my driving just lost control on poor traction, I step up my game, not because "alpha" or "beta" but because I value what I am losing. ditch social-politics & accept some are more-aggressive, some less, and more-agressive does NOT equate with better! be the right YOU, and whether mor…	/r/askTRP	20/11/15 12:08 AM
2	Any advice/good books on how to give your life purpose or find your true inner motivators? simply work out the dimensions of one's world, such as ( I care about... ) technology enabling real worth... ( I care about... ) breaking bullying/prejudice from my unconscious... ( I care about... ) grinding/reducing bullying/prejudice from our world so kids can find out what awesome living feels like... Whatever you care about is itself a Dimension... AND 2. work out the elements in each, so you /see/ the most significant factors... the elements that keep coming up again and again... That is o…	/r/askTRP	11/11/15 11:36 PM