ParamedicEastern582 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? This is some basics of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. Good stuff.	/r/seduction	17/07/23 05:40 PM
1	Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive. So you've met them mostly through Instagram?	/r/seduction	14/04/23 07:19 PM
1	How to get out of your head? If that's true, then take what you've learned and apply it. You're wasting time arguing with ppl on a subreddit.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 07:35 PM
1	How to get out of your head? Listen to what's said here if you're interested in learning.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 07:27 PM
0	What to do? Plenty of people here with a preference for the atypical and out of the ordinary	/r/seduction	03/10/22 12:36 AM
0	How to get feedback and improve cold approach? Actually solid advice	/r/seduction	23/09/22 07:32 PM
4	Should you always ask out / get contact info when cold approaching? There may be signs but some people haven't yet learned to read them and sometimes the signs aren't there. It's not easy starting out. Has it always been easy for you or was it something you learned? Share what you've learned and listen to others' experiences. There's a way to be helpful without being argumentative.	/r/seduction	20/09/22 07:26 PM
3	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. There's a way through the pain. There's an end to it where your life goes on. Please seek professional help. At this point I recommend getting committed to the care of a psychiatric hospital. Even when I thought it wouldn't help, it did. Or at least call a hotline and talk with them.	/r/seduction	20/09/22 12:05 AM
3	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. It sounds like your in a really terrible place and that sucks. I'm really sorry to hear that. I genuinely hope you get the help and support you need. If "end this shit" is as dire as it sounds, I've been there many times. Don't give up yet.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 10:33 PM
3	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. Okay so let me help you understand. This is a support group for people who seek to improve themselves and advice attracting partners and dating. Your opinion (and it is just that) is seduction only works for certain people. You base this on looks or, as you put it, "genetics". Not only is this demonstrably untrue (we've all seen fish faces with gorgeous women), it's unhelpful and unconstructive. Just a poor attitude to have. It's like going to an Alcoholics Anon meeting and for your share you sa…	/r/seduction	19/09/22 10:28 PM
1	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. Really? Because you're pushing back pretty hard on decent advice, support, and encouragement offered to someone else. It's not helpful to them. How's this help you understand people better?	/r/seduction	19/09/22 08:22 PM
2	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. Of course you are allowed. I'm questioning your intentions. What're you aiming to accomplish?	/r/seduction	19/09/22 08:07 PM
3	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. Why are you even posting on this reddit?	/r/seduction	19/09/22 08:03 PM
9	How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager? I feel similarly to OP except about my 20s. I'm now 32. Say more about how 30s are better.	/r/seduction	10/09/22 02:20 AM
1	When you accept a flaw and remain confident despite it, more attraction can be generated than if you lacked the so called flaw altogether. What if your flaw is chronic negative self-talk and high confidence in a negative self-assessment (I call this nega-confidence)? What are some solutions? I suffer from this terribly.	/r/seduction	21/11/21 11:51 PM
1	Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!? 31M. Last girl I dated was 21. That's the largest age gap I've pulled across and she'd never dated anyone 5+ years to her. She was in my social circle and I just happened to catch her fancy. My age was far less relevant to her than it was to me; she didn't really think about it. So yeah. Very possible and worthwhile. Remember everyone's different.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 08:30 PM
0	[deleted by user] Me? A negative Boi? Au contrare. I'm not the one advocating a grading rubric that stigmatizes people under 6' and expects them to compensate for this "disadvantage" by earning 5k for every deficit inch. The face of it is so ridiculous that I'm just laughing. I have to remind myself that the humor disguises a really twisted way of evaluating people's worth and value. Yeah money can help. But that's true for everything: generally money helps. Nonetheless, I can be poor and dress sharp. Or be short…	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:40 PM
0	[deleted by user] Wtf is this money offsets shortness nonsense? This is hilarious. Yea work real hard and top out at 7. Gtfo of here you clown.	/r/seduction	24/09/21 05:44 PM
2	If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics? Great reply 👍	/r/seduction	31/08/21 12:47 PM
0	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet You're right: it's something you can't change and it's holding you back from being what you want to be. That really sucks. Fortunately, there is a solution where you can get what you really want. B/c you don't really want to be taller; you want to be objectively attractive. It's just that you've framed what you cannot change (physical traits) as what will make you more attractive. Of course there's no solution: you've fabricated the problem. This is the true issue that needs to be resolved and w…	/r/seduction	28/08/21 10:44 PM
1	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet I mean yeah. Maybe. But so what? I've got swagger but it doesn't come from my height b/c I'm 5' 5". And it sounds like you know you've got swagger elsewhere. Focus there. Get in touch with your swagger.	/r/seduction	28/08/21 08:20 PM