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Right, we got men used to being abused and neglected when it comes to sex, so we are a bit more numb to it. Like dogs that have been beat and starved so much they don’t even growl at abuse they lie there and take it. You women aren’t used to it as much so it’s a shock so you’ll cry out and yip in surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:46 PM
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There is no split of labor that is capable of making a woman happy who holds her own happiness hostage that way. A man could be the sole breadwinner, cook all the meals, do all the dishes, laundry, childcare, etc but the type of woman who is willing to withhold sex over chores will just ratchet up her expectations that those tasks weren’t done even sooner and everything isn’t done 100% immaculate. Those type of women have to be the martyr. It’s in their life script. Women who actually like their…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:02 PM
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if you go over to the deadbedrooms sub you'll find that no, no it wont. choreplay doesn't work. a messy house may be a turnoff, but a clean one isn't a turn on. They just go to the next checkbox on the honey-do list. If a woman isn't horny for her man unless the dishes are done, she's not going to be horny for him even after they're done. There's actually been studies done that men that do less housework have MORE sex with their wives, not less. Like much, much more. Counterintuitive, but it mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:12 PM
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We shame deadbeat dads too. No one is saying people should line up to date single fathers either. Pretty much anyone who’s not a widow and has kids is a second tier dating prospect compared to the single and childless. Don’t breed until you’re married and certain of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:50 PM
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You can get most of that done without getting married, sure. Did you? Do you have an active will that states if your boyfriend and child die in a car accident tomorrow that you’ll inherit all his assets? Do you a living will drawn up and in effect right now? Because otherwise if he gets in a serious accident it’s his closest relative making the decisions on pulling the plug or not, not you. Also one of you filing head of household and the other filing single is costing you thousands in taxes eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:39 PM
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I think women like to pretend that sex workers are exploiting men when really they’re upset that sex workers are scabs lowering the price of sex kept artificially high by the societal pussy cartel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:51 AM
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Everyone who isn’t a celebrity billionaire supermodel “settles.” It’s just by a degree of how much. The important part is your attitude and how you feel towards the best you could get for a relationship. Most men the woman they marry is going to be around the same realm of hotness as the hottest girl they’ve ever landed, so they’ll be stoked. But most women can’t get a commitment from a guy that is anywhere near as good looking as the hottest guy that was willing to fuck them. So they really fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:35 PM
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Amanda’s brother has won two Stanley cups and works out way more than she does yet has a body that looks like most of your average beerbelly dads in America. Hockey training can lend itself to aesthetics but it certainly doesn’t have to. Lots and lots of cardio bunnies putting in minimal effort looking better than Amanda kessel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:08 PM
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I think we should blame the individual for the failures of all those other things you just listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:26 PM
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It’s both. I’m a father. You’re right I do care for and love my child. But even if for some reason I didn’t I’d still have the sense of duty to take care of my child and I’d feel far too much shame not to take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:13 AM
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Nah plenty of women can tell too. They’re the ones with rings on their fingers celebrating Father’s Day with a happy family. But if you’re not one of the ones that can tell, it’s ok to ask for outside help. Also there are some really good predictors that can help you avoid deadbeats. Like if he has other kids he doesn’t take care of, he probably won’t start with yours. If he can’t keep a steady job, holding a steady family will probably be a challenge for him too. If the reason you’re pregnant i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:56 PM
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Shame and criticism does work. It’s just the people left that still do the negative behaviors are the ones it didn’t work on. Everyone else that shame and criticism worked on successfully avoided being deadbeats or fucking men that are deadbeats. Same thing with fat shaming. The people that fat shaming works on make sure not to get too fat in the first place. So the only ones who end up getting mega fat are the ones who it doesn’t work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:43 PM
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No one is letting the man off the hook. He’s a shitty loser for being a deadbeat. And she’s dumb for breeding with a deadbeat. Yes you can tell which guys will be deadbeats and which won’t. And if you can’t, ask your dad about the guy you’re dating and he’ll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:48 PM
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By not getting pregnant at 20… while contraception can fail even with perfect use, that is not what is happening in the vast majority of super young pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:46 PM
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6'0 female bodybuilder looking woman isn't necessarily stronger than 5'3 skinny dude. You're really underestimating just how weak women are in comparison to men. The strength difference is huge. Its why women professional athletes can be seen losing sports to male children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:14 AM
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100k isn’t that much money this isn’t the 70s. Im well off as my wife makes a half a mill per year as a specialized doctor. Things would be much tighter if she only made 100k. Money still is impressive. You just need to adjust properly for inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:24 AM
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Because theres so many dudes willing to jerk it for cash that they can make the cutoff line way sooner than they need it to be so they don't exceed capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:52 PM
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I was never jealous of the kids with "young cool parents." Because usually those are the poor kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:49 PM
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Still going cavil. The genitals is where I make the switch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:07 AM
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My calculus changes if it was like you had to choose which to give oral. I’ll take the worst vag over sucking dick ever. But a quick peck man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:41 AM
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All jokes aside, yes the dude I am ripping on is probably straight. It’s just the insecurity in that fact I’m ripping on a bit. I’m a straight guy, I would be very turned off by kissing Henry cavill of any guy and would really prefer not to. But compared to an absolutely revolting woman? The handsome dude is the lesser evil. I wouldn’t even want the revolting woman near me. For example I used to play center when I played football. And yeah the qbs hands brush against your balls when taking a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:26 AM
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You know that the opposite of having a strong desire for someone isn’t revulsion, it’s apathy right? Sores carry disease which should openly revolt you. I have zero interest in men, but I’d choose a brief kiss with Cavill because at least it’s hygienic and it’d be the equivalent of like an actor in a play kissing to me. You seem to think that a kiss would have to be sexually charged no matter who it’s with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:59 PM
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I'm thinking he's choosing the obese diseased woman, because the prospect of kissing an absolutely revolting woman is far less scary to him than the prospect of kissing a model level man for a second and possibly having to live with questions about his sexuality. Like what if he kisses Henry Cavill and a little bit of blood rushes to his penis? With revolting woman he knows what he's in for, and he remains completely secure in his sexuality. And even though he knows he's not into guys, is like 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:22 PM
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American women can't use their passports to go to a country to find a man more likely to be high income because America has the largest population of rich men in the world. Some smaller countries may have a higher density of rich men like some of those tiny middle east oil kingdoms, but if a woman finds American men mysogynistic or undesirable, she'll be in for a rude awakening if she uses her passport to try to meet some Saudi psuedo-prince who teaches her how a patriarchy is actually run.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:44 PM
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Its not so much about earning it yourself, as it is never having it before. I was broke growing up. I still don't make that much money, but my wife makes a half a mill a year as a specialized doctor so we have quite a bit of financial freedom that I appreciate the hell out of. I didn't do any extra work to get it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:36 PM
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Here's the thing: both men and women have responsive desire. That's what desire and arousal are, they're a response to stimulus. Its just that a women's mere existence and beauty is enough to create arousal and stir desire in a man. Some men are absolutely gorgeous and do the same to some women, but those men are really really rare. So instead men have to create conditions to stir emotions and create sexual tension to create a stimulus that will induce arousal in a woman. And the less physically…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:57 PM
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who the fuck is Jaclyn Hill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:20 PM
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That dude can't cum from sex because he has deathgrip from jerking it to internet porn! Why can't she cum? It certainly has nothing to do with the 1.21 jigawatt DeWalt Power Rabbit that has destroyed her clit's nerve endings that she uses while she reads trash erotica about teenagers being raped by werewolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:27 PM
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From Chads perspective, this is the fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:04 PM
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Wait, are you implying that hooking up with a woman is somehow “hurtful” to her? I thought women enjoyed sex as much as men? Is sex “hurtful” to women if they don’t get some sort of compensation outside of consensual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:47 AM
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These poor 21 year old good looking “victims” forced to go on vacations and eat at restaurants men her age can’t afford, accepting gifts and having sex with an experienced man who knows how to give her an orgasm. From happy girlfriend to “I was a victim!” The second the relationship goes south because she wants to try some new dick her own age, but needs to make the breakup his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:17 PM
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Men are super thirsty so women don’t need a big social circle to up their odds, because their odds are already really good. The more friends groups a guy is in the more women he will meet, the better his odds will be. Not all women have tons of friends/social acquaintances.Most of the really good looking women have a ton though. A big chunk of that group is dudes trying to sleep with her, and women wanting to be part of the in group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:42 AM
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The vast majority of the cases that make up “contraception failure” are user errors, not failures of the contraception itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:44 PM
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Any woman who is physically attractive will have men chasing her. It doesn’t matter how shy or quiet a girl is, if she’s pretty, dick will seek her out and pursue her no matter where she hides.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:24 PM
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I’d buy the plan b in this hypothetical, but “you were just stupid and didn’t use protection” is not something I ever let happen to me. I don’t care how drunk, high, or horny I am, I’m not trying for a baby that i haven’t fully planned. That’s what it’s called when you don’t use any protection, it’s called trying. As in trying to conceive a child. If you aren’t actively working to prevent it, then you are actively working to make a baby when you have unprotected sex. It should never be a surpris…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:33 PM
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I don’t know why we call it love bombing now, instead of it’s classic label that applies to both sexes, the bait and switch. Reel em in with the bait, then switch to your true self. Like women who start out having sex with their new potential boyfriend daily then after a couple months boom dead bedroom. We don’t call it sex bombing, it’s just bait and switch. They know what the other person wants, they give them just enough to get them hooked then once they have them you go back to putting in as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:18 PM
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Ooooh interesting! We are attributing crime statistics to internal traits of that group and not something like sexism or other types of discrimination? Lemme hop on over to the African American community and let them know your position on crime and group traits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:45 PM
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Unless it’s a widow situation, I see two fuck ups in a single parent situation. The deadbeat, and the person who willingly fucks deadbeats or is such a poor judge of character they don’t know a deadbeat when they see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 PM
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Most households are 2 parent households so there’s going to be some. That’s why we use statistics on these issues, and compare the amount of criminals ina group to their share of the population to see if their group is having an outsized effect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:32 PM
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Ok, but be warned once you take the red pill there is no going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:05 PM
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Yeah, you never hear anyone say anything like "thats why you dont stick your dick in crazy." nope. never heard that before. I came up with that line myself. First time ever hearing it for everyone in this sub, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:49 PM
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It’s not like they’re sending researchers to peoples houses and having them observe who does what tasks. These stats are all self reported. So all we know is that women BELIEVE they do more chores and childcare. And they still probably do, but it’s been my experience with women that if their man isn’t a continuous blur of labor they start to seethe.a man could be doing 99% of the household chores and childcare and his wife would still complain about doing the remaining 1%. And you can’t even ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:03 PM
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Well hot women don't want fuck dudes uglier than them either! Either get hotter or accept that you're going to have to settle for women less good looking than the ones you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:57 PM
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An average looking dude can inspire visceral attraction in women by choosing very ugly, slovenly women. They’ll be psyched to get with an average dude that is hotter than what they can usually get and be dtf for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:39 PM
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The problem is you're thinking of a singular social circle, one tight knit group of friends, where if you screw up the dynamic your social life gets awkward. If you want to be sleep with alot of women, you need to be in SEVERAL social circles, all with different members, some of those members being attractive women you can sleep with, andeven if you screwed up the whole dynamic with that group of friends, it would be ok, because you have others. Sure, have your inner circle and abstain from fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:35 PM
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You said she's hot, so she hasn't been using meth for long. I wouldn't fuck around with some addict who's been shooting ice into her vein for years for even a pump and dump. But a current hot, casual user? I wouldn't "date date" her as in date with the intention of getting married. But if you've never taken meth and had sex with an extremely hot woman who is also taking meth, you are missing out, its fucking incredible. It lasts hours, it feels amazing the entire time, nothing beats it. Most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:29 PM
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I'm incredibly wealthy financially, but I like to complain about all the problems and difficulties I have to deal with because of money. I'm not actually upset about those problems, I'm just rubbing in the fact that I'm rich in othere peoples faces in a way they can't claim I'm bragging. That's what those guys complaining that they can't stay in a relationship are doing. Plus by making those complaints, they can communicate to all the other women that might hear about it that A. he's super desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:19 PM
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Why would they be bound to figure it out? I'm a guy, I'm not sure what my number is anymore, I just know its more than 50 and less than 100. I wouldn't even be able to find half of these women that I fucked back in college anymore. my wife would have no chance at figuring it out. Its not like every woman I fuck gets added to some group chat where they can compare notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:57 PM
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Most people are average. But they are not happy about it. The world is not full of a bunch of people who have achieved total innerpiece and have reached acceptance with their place in the world. Hell no. The majority of people have some level of anxiety or depression revolving around the facts that they are out of shape and feel unattractive but can't control themselves around food, are bothered with their significant other because there relationship isn't completely the one they wanted, just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:12 PM
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Men are only useful to society if they have a job. The ones that don't have zero value to society (though their life still has value because they are still human). Women will always have at minimum SOME value to society, because they can reproduce, and men value having sex with them regardless of their job status. (obviouslly I'm not saing a womans only value is her vagina, I'm saying that even if they lacked any other redeeming qualities, at a minimum they'll still always have that)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:03 PM
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“Acting out physically” = closing doors too loudly for your liking and raising his voice. Wow what an abusive brute you’re living with you must absolutely tremble in fear. And you of course never raise your voice and remain perfectly calm at all times when communicating your emotions with zero tears, anger, stonewalling or passive aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:26 AM
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“I want my husband to open up about his emotions…as long as he expresses them in a 100% nonemotional way, if he is mad or sad he can tell me why, but I demand he do so without sounding or acting mad or sad” You’re basically demanding he “calm down” before he expresses any emotions. Remind me again, do women react well when told to calm down?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:38 AM
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Men do build rehabs, schools, etc for everyone. feminists focus on building the DV centers and scholarships for women. Actually they focus on nagging legislatures to have men build dv centers and fund scholarships for them. Men build THE ENTIRE REST OF SOCIETY. Sorry that we took a second to vent about women not showing a shred of gratitude for men building practically everything that exists to create the comfort of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:34 PM
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10 extra pounds on a 6 foot tall man is a lot less noticeable than 10 pounds on a woman who is 5’4. Some lucky women are fortunate to have all the fat go to their ass and tits. But the overwhelming majority get cottage cheese thighs and a FUPA and act like it’s all sexy curves. And since men are so overwhelmingly thirsty even thin men will fuck the fattie, and now she feels validated in her sexy curves, instead of just being the fortunate beneficiary of a mismatch in supply and demand when it co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:06 PM
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It’s even more pathetic that women would rather create entire social movements to warp reality to boost their self esteem instead of just putting the damn fork down for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:08 PM
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It's everywhere all the time. In the criminal justice system women receive lighter sentences for the same crimes and men outnumber women in jail 13 to 1. The gender discrimination in the law blows away the racial disparity but there's no mens lives matter marches to end the oppression. The majority of domestic violence situations involve reciprocal violence where both parties abuse the other, and in those reciprocal situations women statistically are significantly more likely to initiate the vio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:57 PM
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Usually everyone knows that the dude was a future deadbeat except for the woman willfully deceiving herself. Most of the time women could figure this out if they asked their fathers what they thought about them settling down and having kids with the fuckboi in disguise they are currently "dating."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:17 PM
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I have significant doubts that OP is a 6'2", "classically handsome", muscular and athletic millionaire. Also this dude is talking about women that are being considered for marriage. Plenty of hot women with terrible personalities are great fun to fuck a few times and on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:27 PM
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Is your perception perhaps skewed a bit by the fact that women can paint a brand new, pretty face on top of their original one while most men have to go with the OG version of their face?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:08 PM
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Lol men don't have a body positivity movement because they're results oriented. You can have a million Dove moisturizer commercials with obese men telling them they're beautiful, but he's going to still know its bullshit because he's not fucking hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:07 PM
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Simps don't have sex. They pay for the mere dream and hope of sex. This guy isn't a simp, he's a John. He's actually getting the bang for his buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:30 PM
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Its not about being attractive vs unattractive. I guarantee you the girls this dude sugar dates are wayyyyy hotter than the girls you're putting in a ton of effort to sleep with for "free."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:53 PM
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Id be considered a social conservative these days. I was quite promiscuous before I got married and back then was considered a social liberal. But I still hold the apparently crazy belief that a human with a penis is a man, not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:43 PM
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Both situations suck. Parents should stay together and work together to resolve the issues in their relationship in an adult fashion to maintain a healthy, well functioning family. Anything less is a failure in one form or another on at least one of the parents parts, if not both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:05 PM
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I think you are confusing hedonism and nihilism. Nihilism isn't about morality or immorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:39 PM
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Lol 75k isn’t very much money and 17% isn’t particularly good shape for a man. You didn’t list many hobbies. You’re telling me you had to work hard on self improvement and this list of accomplishments is what “making it” would look like to you? Self improvement works. You just have a long way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:33 PM
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I love how women act that a women desiring frequent and exciting sex just absolutely HAS to fuck as many men as possible to do so. It is possible to commit to only a few men, but have frequent wild sex within those few chosen relationships. Saying someone has to choose between a dead bedroom or a woman who has fucked a ton of other men is a false choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:23 PM
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Some people have a strong craving for novelty and a diverse list of sexual partners. Some people don’t. A woman with a low n count is more likely to be one of the women that doesn’t constantly crave novelty than the woman who has fucked 50 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:10 PM
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I'm not a woman, but I am married to a woman who makes wayyy more than me. She makes 500k per year, I make 60k per year. What's the catch? I'm hot and extroverted, she's very introverted with social anxiety. I handle 90%+ of our household chores, do the majority of child care, and handle all of our investments and pay all the bills, she just uses the credit card and doesn't look at finances at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:27 AM
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For a huge chunk of the male population if they’re not in a relationship that means they have zero access to sex. In contrast most single women know that if they really want sex, a man will willingly supply it on any given night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:41 AM
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Working for a company means they’re wayyyyy more likely to be exploited. All the girls making great money and keeping it all are solo independents. We have the internet now! No one needs an agency or a pimp anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:20 PM
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Why would you go to the same sex worker over and over? That’s insane. That’s like only ever going to one restaurant every time you go out to eat. If a dude is ok with seeing sexworker, he’s going to see a variety of them, just like you’d try out all sorts of restaurants. Sometimes you’re in the mood for some Mexican or Thai, or you might want to try something you’ve never tried before. You might be in the mood for more generous portions some time, and other times you want the smaller more health…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:19 PM
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So you want a guy who is really good at lying to you, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:10 PM
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It’s super easy to tell when women are interested, the only men who can’t tell are the ones no woman is interested in. Those men don’t want to believe that is the case so they fool themselves into thinking friendship is something more bc they have no idea what women act like when they actually want you bc they’ve never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:28 AM
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Its nice to have a place online that no one cares about that you can vent all that stuff out to so it doesn't spill out into your everyday life. I like having a place where I can go "isn't it fucked up that this is how women behave?" then close my laptop, and go spend quality time with my wife and daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:59 AM
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You are only viewing materialism as strictly luxury goods and acting like luxury experiences (which traveling the world is, even if you do it in its cheapest, most base form). Early retirement, being able to support adults not in your family, and world travel are all incredible luxuries. Just because these pursuits don't feel as shallow as buying prada bags and a new mercedes doesn't mean they aren't luxury pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:29 PM
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There’s not enough female competitors to come close to being enough available for every male competitor. So it ends up being that most male bodybuilders aren’t dating a female bodybuilder, but most female bodybuilders ARE dating a male bodybuilder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:20 PM
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Nah the overwhelming majority choose someone they find hot and attracted to first, usually because of their confidence, charisma, good looks, height and charm. Then they hope after selecting for those things that the remaining prospects will respect and listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:14 PM
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I love how when a woman doesn't orgasm, its the mans fault, and when a man fails to orgasm, its the man's fault again. Some of the women I know who bitch that they don't regularly have orgasms aren't doing shit to get themselves there in bed. You can't starfish and and not even bother to grind your clit back against your partner as they thrust, then complain that your partner is bad in bed. And you also can't bitch if you're getting eaten out or fingered and the dude has too much or too little p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:06 PM
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What they're saying is average to below average dudes can't get laid at all even if they lower their standards to the floor. You could've gotten laid a ton as chubby karen if you were welling to settle even a little. And im betting what you perceived as your "equals" were actually better looking objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:57 PM
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He’s not offering a 100% foolproof solution, but a good enough solution to cut down on the vast majority of single moms. Don’t fuck the hawt guy who cheats on the 10 women he’s fucking. Don’t fuck drug dealers and criminals. Don’t fuck men with multiple baby mommas. You greatly increase your odds of not being a single mom if you stick with guys who have shown dedication, loyalty and high moral character. Choose men that have held down long term jobs, who’s relationships last years at a time, who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:44 AM
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He’s saying choose your mates wisely. You can’t screw a fuckboi or a deadbeat then act shocked when he doesn’t stick around to raise the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:38 AM
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You can’t ask a question and then demand that we don’t include the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:36 AM
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Its not universally that you can't open up, I've learned. Its what you open up about and how you do it that matters. Many emotional troubles people may have stem from feeling insecure and seeking reassurance and validation from other people. Women show those emotions all the time and are rewarded with comfort and validation from their partners. Men who show any insecurity will dry a pussy up like its the Sahara. They do NOT want a partner who is anything less than pure confidence with zero insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:34 PM
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What you described isnt a FWB. That's your boyfriend, its just one of you refuses to put a label on it so they can still fuck other people even if they told the other person that they're "exclusive fwbs" (there's no such thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:21 PM
3

Being nonfat requires you to just put the fork down regardless of which foods you’re eating. You could have a ramen and Twinkie diet and still not be a fatass if you show an ounce of restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:02 PM
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Pretty much all male friends I had growing up were guys I could play competitive sports with at a high level. There were zero girls that could have played at a level with us that we would've had fun with. When we included girls it was more of a flirty game than the competitive sports we enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:57 PM
6

Millions of sugar babies disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:55 PM
18

Oh yeah it’s impossible to live life and read a 5 minute study from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:42 PM
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You MUST pick one! I don't have to. I won't, and I didn't. My wife is beautiful and puts effort into her appearance and loves respects and praises me and is loyal. If she wasn't all those things, I wouldn't have married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:51 PM
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If I'm forced to choose, I dont want to raise anyone elses kids. But I would choose neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:02 PM
2

That doesn’t make sense. Crabs in a bucket would be if I didn’t want him to improve himself. This dude should be pursuing as many ways to upgrade himself as possible and I’d support that. I’m just saying “being intimidating” is about as true for him as it is when women say men are intimidated by smart powerful women. He’s not intimidating. There’s just nothing particularly appealing that makes people want to go out of their way to approach him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:37 PM
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You’re not intimidating. You’re just kind of an average dude. The reason women don’t approach you is bc they don’t think you’re particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:11 PM
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“Pickme” is pretty much limited to the bitter online femcel community. No one uses it in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:38 PM
1

It’s a sliding scale of mental illness and drug addiction and the overlap. The voluntary homeless tend to get something set up in the winter so they’re not in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:23 PM
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Nah homeless women get to stay in the women’s shelters and churches, or they turn tricks for working class dudes who can’t afford a proper well groomed sexworker. The dudes are stuck in tent city taking turns bottoming for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:08 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of the visible homeless men you see on the street are some of the most low inhibition men you'll ever meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:02 PM
4

Sure you can find a a man who doesn’t put a huge emphasis on looks. In fact he cares about looks so little that he’s pretty damn ugly himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:08 AM
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I mean I am attractive and can get most girls I want for the most part. I’m married so the only one I want is my wife, but I did very well before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:04 AM
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A lot of those super attractive gym girls aren’t holding out for a boyfriend at all. Instead they’re single and fucking older rich dudes for cash and expensive merchandise. There are way way way way WAY more girls doing that then you could ever imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:34 AM
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Oh yes I have experienced that very much so. The high libido feels way better, especially if I have willing partner(s). However too high and I’ll do some real dumb shit for sex I wouldn’t normally do. Low libido feels very ho hum but it does let me focus on stuff like work more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:10 PM
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I’m sure having easy access on the open market dulls the compulsion to find a regular partner a bit, but no matter how much they profess otherwise, in general they don’t have the overwhelming libido most men do, and the reason for the most part is testosterone levels. Any man who bodybuilds and has used cycles of high doses of testosterone and then come off them and had to deal with low T for a bit as they go through post cycle therapy can tell you the effect testosterone has on libido is massiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:41 AM
1

lol at people who think this is actually a woman. Its a dude with a small penis humiliation fetish collecting spank material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:00 PM
0

Hubris and ego. The difference isn’t real to them until they actually feel how powerless they are in a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:21 PM
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Those sporty girls like that are the type that get super depressed when after years where men will play sports with them in a flirty way, and she's used to holding her own when you just play around wrestling. Then one day she starts telling her boyfriend she could possibly take him in a fight, so she wants to see what its like when they wrestle and he doesn't hold back, so he pins her in 5 seconds and she can't do anything about it. It really shakes a girl to the core when she finds out that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:44 PM
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I’m sure there are, but I don’t think the study has been done where it analyzes how frequently sugar babies lie about being in a platonic arrangement. If you insist there is one, I’d love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:51 PM
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It’s way more of a mental game for women than the physical one it is for us guys. Many “low libido” women become “high libido” in certain hookup dynamics, while a women who usually fucks all the time can go dead bedroom in a long boring relationship. You want a woman who will want to have sex all the time and practically beg for it? Find a girl much uglier than yourself and then dangle false hope of commitment just out of her reach, and intermittently respond to her texts unless they’re offering…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:37 PM
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I know men enjoy the company of women. But you don’t have to buy some sugar ho a Gucci bag to get that. Unfortunately there’s no research institute for sugar prostitutes that I can source a peer reviewed study from, but everyone familiar with that game knows the real score and your naïveté is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:01 PM
2

A vehicle accident doesn’t force you to overeat like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:45 PM
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I know you’re not hiding your pic, but you really should consider doing so. It’s not doing you any favors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:42 PM
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Ummm but you are like that from your first paragraph. I never said anything about them acting that way their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:27 PM
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I don’t think he particularly cares whether US men are fat or not. If he doesn’t fuck men that data is irrelevant to him. He’s not trying to make an argument about who is better, western men or women. He’s trying to strategize about where the women are the best, what the men are like is irrelevant to him bc he’s not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:37 PM
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Lol the best part about the young people who feel like 30 is incredibly old, is hearing their hilariously misguided perception of other things too. Particularly what amount of money they perceive as “a lot of money” and the general intelligence of people they perceive as “really smart.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:24 PM
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You only need the button on the right once really. Otherwise I’m hitting the left button as much as I can right up until I use that right button the only time I need
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:53 AM
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Those 22 year olds are definitely available to 30 year olds with cash and status, or just cash. You’d be amazed just how many young girls are prostituting themselves as sugarbabies these days. I’m starting to form the opinion that most women can be bought for sex as long as you frame the exchange in a way that allows them to feel like it’s not prostitution. Women just place nowhere near the value on sex men do. Women 100% place wayyyy more value on money over sex. They’ll make that trade any tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:37 AM
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I don’t think old men are more attractive than young men to young women. Young women still prefer men close to their age, maybe 2-3 years older not ten. I’m just saying that 40+ year old men have a slight edge over 40+ year old women. Young men will still beat out old men for young women. It’s just that young women have a massive massive dating advantage over young men. So even though a man isn’t getting hotter as he gets older, the power gap in the mating game between him and same age women shr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:01 AM
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Ehhhhh I wouldn’t go quite as far as you’ve said. I’d give men the edge at that age if the guy and girl are about equal in appearance. But it certainly isn’t a massive power gap. When we say women’s power in the dating game drops as they get older, while men’s rises it, it’s more like a young girls edge over young men is like 10 - 1. Two equally good looking 42 year olds? I’d go 55 - 45 giving the man the edge. But men as a group will never experience the kind of power and edge that hot young wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:34 PM
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But her job isn’t full of hot men. Maybe if it was, maybe one of them could’ve taken a run at my marriage earlier on. They’d probably had had a better chance before we had a kid. You are running into the same mistake every purple pillar does, and that is to take one part of red pill and trying to make it the only rule that matters. Yes hypergamy is real. But it doesn’t work like some computer quantifying each man’s qualities into a top score and bubble sorting them. No, you gotta factor in oppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:11 PM
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Like I said, nothing is iron clad. I was only able to start dating her in the first place because I’m very good looking and muscular and she prefers tall muscular men. And I’m a lawyer so I met her minimum education requirements. She is pretty burnt out from her job, that is for sure. Working 12 hours a day every weekday and then those same hours 1-2 weekends a year is no joke. I’m not particularly worried about her cheating, she has neither the time nor energy. And it’s not like some dude at wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:36 PM
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I generally agree with red pill though it’s not like it’s my bible or anything. I am really well off financially now, but that is only because my wife makes a ton money. I just kinda got lucky and I know it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:00 PM
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Single women in their 30s and 40s don't all have these massive social networks you're picturing. Life's not sex and the city. there's lots of women who have a cat or dog, and have 2 or 3 friends that they talk to super infrequently. There's no golden ticket guarantees for either gender of not being lonely no matter what choices you make. ​ I will agree that women aren't particularly driven to settle because they're worried about getting laid or something. They will go the rest of their life with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:37 PM
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No way, that’s a great way to lose your spot to a girl who will fuck him. You gotta put that work in on the daily. Any girl getting with him now don’t be like his wife on the comeup who got paid in the divorce bc it was all community property grown in the marriage. Nah, Amazon stock is actually down. You gotta stay with him and keep him interested to access the cash, in the event of divorce his current billions are all separate property since he got it before they met.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:58 AM
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It’s not just about being smart either. The dude who went to trade school half the day during highschool then built his carpentry business into a full blown contracting business that employs dozens of people and grosses hundreds of thousands a year is undeniably smart. But he talks and acts like the people he works with. He isn’t putting on a turtleneck and debating postmodern philosophy. He drinks lite beer and watches NASCAR. He doesn’t know which ones the salad fork. He reeks of the social cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:23 PM
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Lol the majority of sugar babies have boyfriends at home. It’s cute you’re this naive. Your friend is cheating on her boyfriend honey, just like most of the other sugar babies. You really think that these girls working old men for money have any qualms about cheating on their man at home? Nah. They’re about one thing and one thing only, getting what they want for themselves. And they’ll do what it takes to get it, no matter who they have to lie to or hide things from. Sugaring is a competitive g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:04 PM
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No, you know a girl who tells you she doesn’t. Unless you follow her around 24/7 you have no clue how much old man cock she’s swallowing. And just because she tells you the truth about some of the other men she fucks, doesn’t mean she isn’t lying about the ones she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:55 PM
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How are you going to act like you’re the expert when you clearly have zero experience here. Sugar babies have sex, that’s the whole point. The only thing different is sugar babies only have a couple of men that they’re fucking at once, and not dozens of clients. And there’s also a bit more playing pretend into the fantasy that this hot young girl actually finds you attractive and the money is just a nice bonus for them. Because if you don’t want to play pretend and don’t mind how many clients a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:39 PM
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And by some, we mean about 99.5% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:32 PM
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Yes but when a girl says she doesn’t have sex with her sugar daddy she is lying 9 times out of 10. Them lying about not having sex is way more common than platonic actually being the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:22 AM
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200 is only a lot of money to poor people. And yeah any decent one that is good looking it’s more like 400 usually. At 200 that’s the top of the low end. So you might catch something or they’re probably ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:10 AM
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Oh when you said you were offered money for platonic, I assumed that happened on seeking arrangement or something. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:05 AM
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These dudes do buy plane tickets. Fly me to you is plenty common. guys will pay for the girl to fly in if the girl is hot enough or the dude is desperate and running out of options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:51 AM
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Have you been able to draw a connection yet with your chosen activities you use to make money and that happening? Don’t get me wrong people that assault sex workers are creeps. But you’re not doing much to mitigate your risk factors
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:50 AM
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Oh for sure. Completely agree. It takes them a couple guys to catch on at that age unless they luck into a guy who leads with a normal market rate offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:48 AM
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I’m sure it’s been offered, but if you go on that date it ends in a sexual assault, and make damn sure you get the money up front before meeting. Most of those dudes say “no strings attached” so they can believe you fucked them bc you wanted to, not because you had to. Most dudes like a little more pretending that there’s actual interest. If they didn’t want to pretend they’d hire a prostitute. Though plenty fuck lots of prostitutes then do sugars too bc it’s a new face and they ran through ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:50 PM
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You’re right, it’s not impossible. And they’re all hoping to be the rare one to land that situation. But there’s only a couple of those dudes and they have their pick of which women they can retain to give their money to in exchange for nothing. They’re almost as rare as the dudes who like financial domination which is like the holy grail of arrangements for women. It is FAR more common for a woman to lie and say something is platonic or online to someone who finds out she does it. A good sign i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:37 PM
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It’s super easy to medicate that issue these days. And there’s a bunch of old as fuck men that love eating young pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:28 PM
1

200 is pretty low end still
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:48 PM
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You actually believed the girls that told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:47 PM
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Lol expensive. You have no idea how cheap some are, especially the young ones. A sex worker kicks you out after an hour. You can get a 20 year old SB for the price of a trip To the mall to hit up Pac Sun and Zumiez
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:06 PM
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I’m fine with these websites, as long as some personal details aren’t shared like medical information or something they told them in confidence. That being said, I put zero stock in what anyone’s ex has to say about that person. They’re an ex for a reason and the relationship clearly didn’t work out and all you’ll get from the ex is a one sided biased accounting crafted to leave out any of the parts that were their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:58 AM
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I wouldn’t enjoy having sex with absolutely anyone. I find fat people repulsive as an example. But yeah with everyone I did choose to have sex with it was always pretty enjoyable. If it isn’t you’re doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:42 AM
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I believe the usual spin women give these days is that they're attracted to men who are "driven," "ambitious," "determined" and have life goals and its just a coincidencethat those traits are very important in making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:24 PM
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Significantly cutting down on the number of sexual partners I would've had in my past doesn't sound like an increase in fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:07 PM
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Everyone is a prostitute, most just choose a compensation less obvious than money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:11 AM
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Only people without money think multimillionaires are stuck as virgins. There are a surprisingly large amount of women who will fuck any man with money. Millionaires can go on seeking arrangement and have a new hot woman begging to fuck them every day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:51 AM
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It’s not effective if your goal is to fuck as many hot women as you can though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:42 AM
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Most women are only shy about saying what they want in bed when it’s with a guy they want to have a relationship with because they’re worried the wrong answer will scare him off. If all they wanna do is fuck you though they’ll tell you exactly what they want you to do and how they like it. Unless they just prefer a variety and want to see your particular style.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:04 PM
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Men are low value until proven otherwise. Women always have something they can barter (their vagina). Now men can always improve, since it’s always possible to make more money. Making more money doesn’t improve a woman’s value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:25 AM
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It would’ve taken her 60 years to get the equivalent amount of money on her own. You must be young, because anyone over 30 will tell you 10 years is nothing, if goes by in the blink of an eye. Not a bad trade to be financially secure for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:17 PM
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You don't get what I'm laying down. I'll explain more. Lets say you have a girl with a net worth of 0 who makes 30k per year. She meets a man with a net worth of 2 million who makes 400k per year. I don't dispute that the man retains that 2 million. Its his, period. But by marrying the man, even if she cant stand him, she now is entitled to half of 430k per year. A substantial upgrade! This lets her upgrade her socioeconomic status during those years, so even post divorce she will be in a vastly…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:04 PM
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he just doesn’t want to More like he says he doesn't want to because he can't convince another woman to sleep with him while he's in his cucked relationship. It's like those incels who claim to have really high standards, and thats why they can't get laid. Rejecting others because he knows they'll reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:55 PM
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Its not about comparing total assets from during the marriage to after. Its about compariing total assets from before the marriage to after the marriage. Was she able to upgrade her economic class through a marriage then divorce, so she can have the benefits of being single, but still have assessed enough of a man's resource to upgrade her economic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:51 PM
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I would bet money his wife was bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:47 PM
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Oh yes they do. They just know how to be discrete about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:22 PM
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True but it’s never even, someone always loves the other person more, or has superior options if that relationship doesn’t pan out. You can’t negotiate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:50 PM
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Often it means doing what you can to up the sex drive of the lower libido partner, but after than accepting sex on the terms of the partner with the lower drive. Or breaking up. It is better to be having sex less often than you'd ideally want than for the lower libido partner to almost ever have sex when not in the mood. Exactly, and this applies to things more than just sex. Lets say one partner is a chatty Kathy and wants to talk all the time and connect about their day, and the other partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:43 PM
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Women are more sociable than men on average because historically they had to be. When your livelihood depended on someone else earning a living for you, you’re going to need to be sociable enough to at least catch a man. Men historically would still be able to support themselves by doing backbreaking labor and paying their own way even without social skills. I imagine as time goes on the trend of women being more sociable will lessen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:01 PM
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If you don’t find your partner attractive anymore, than it’s a shitty move to also insist on monagamy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:57 PM
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If you want to date, that means dating is appealing to you. Clearly you want the product, you're just upset about the market price. You want a ferrari (or at least a reliable Honda Civic) but only have the resources to acquire a used moped. The sellers of massively in demand goods and services don't have to do anything to "appeal" to the buyer, they just sit back and take bids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:05 PM
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Getting fat is not just “a matter of time.” There’s plenty of lifelong skinny people. They just don’t stuff themselves full of food all the time and do a modicum of physical activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:01 AM
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Yeah, but you aren't exactly making it a point to try and blow up their marriages and tell all their friends their business. I didn't mean forget as in erase from memory, I meant forget as in you don't inject yourself into their social lives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:44 AM
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This isn't new to you or a sudden change It usually isn't sudden, but it never starts out that way. Usually they wait a few years to start the withholding, once you've really combined your life with theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:08 AM
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Exactly. You don't pay escorts for the sex. You pay them for the discretion. If you cheat on your wife or gf with some hot piece you met at work or the country club, there's a good chance that girl catches feels and tries to blow up your marriage. Escorts have zero interest in getting caught in any of that drama, they just want the money and forget you exist immediately after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:04 AM
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It’s only very recently that women were given an equal place in society by men. Ultimately the structure of society is shaped by who has the highest capacity for violence. Currently western ideological norms are enforced by the US military and police. If women decide they don’t “need” men anymore, the men who control society may decide that women don’t “need” equality anymore either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:54 PM
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Simping is when you give the women the money without getting your dick sucked. It’s still beta bucks if you’re using money to fuck them, but it’s not simping
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:08 PM
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Boo hoo. If you don’t wear your make up and try to look pretty you know how you’ll be treated? Like a man. At least you have the option for special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:58 PM
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Oh yeah it’s easy to stop caring about body count. I cared about body count a whole bunch with my first girlfriend or two. After I’d fucked 20 women or so I basically stopped caring about it altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:55 AM
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Tinothee Chalamet is 26….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:09 PM
1

Get a room already, you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:07 PM
1

Maybe he meant rolls you buy at a concert playing House music
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:30 PM
1

If someone I was arguing with was right about something, and I came to the conclusion they were right, we would no longer be arguing because we would then agree. There would be no reason to “accept defeat.” It’s a conversation not a competition. If I believe someone has proved their point, then I would incorporate that particular point into my own beliefs. If I believed they proved their point, that means I think what they are saying is the truth, and most rational people base their worldviews o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:59 PM
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Of course the paragraph wasn’t about me. I did quite well in dating, the current system benefits me. It’s just I’m capable of empathy and thinking about things outside of myself. Apparently you are not, which would prove what the reds say about women’s solipsism. The fragility accusations are classic projection. You’re taking your own poor history and issues with men and projecting them on to me. I’m just here for the debate, none of this is personal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:26 PM
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I’m married with a child. I wasn’t saying anyone is mandated to be provided sex from someone else. I’m just saying people that are involuntarily celibate end up pretty messed up in the head from not getting their needs met. I’m not saying that means anyone else is required to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:51 PM
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I agree sex isn't a "need" on the level of food, water, and shelter. And that the comparison to arms and legs is a dumb one. You are using the definition of "need" as something 100% vital to survival that a person will perish quickly without. The people saying sex is a need are using the term "need" as essential to a person's emotional, physical and mental health. Others saying sex is a need/necessity mean it is essential to a healthy well rounded relationship. All are correct uses of the term. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:23 PM
1

I wouldn’t say simping is the “natural state” of men. It’s more of an advent of modern civilized society. Grok the caveman didn’t simp for pussy, he just bashed the women over the head with his club and dragged them back to his cave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:10 AM
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A woman who doesn’t wear makeup is like an athlete that doesn’t use steroids. Sure you can do the natural route. But you won’t be able to compete when everyone else is artificially enhanced.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 06:29 PM
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Visual stimulation I thought that was obvious. It’s not like I’m spending even a dime on it. You’re just mad because you feel inadequate in comparison. Most adults come to grips with the fact that there are others out there that have better bodies and are prettier without letting it affect their own self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:49 AM
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Do you WANT to have to put on makeup every day? Fuck that, that shit takes time and costs money, and doing it wouldn’t even give you an advantage if it was customary for every dude to do it. Same thing with heels. You ever try adding like 3 inch lifts to your shoes (I tried it once to go up to 6’3 and see if I was perceived differently)? Girls may have reacted better but all I could really focus on was that my calves HURT. Let women keep their makeup. They look better for us with it on, and we d…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 12:11 AM
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It’s not about “needing porn” I could jerk off just fine without it. There’s just no reason not to have porn too. Just like when I’m hungry, I could satisfy my hunger just fine with a steak by itself. But I like to have a side of mashed potatoes too. That doesn’t mean I NEED it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:56 PM
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I would be thrilled if my wife wanted to watch porn. And I’d expect if she was watching porn it’d be with ripped dudes with big dicks since that seems to be her type. The hornier she is, the better. I fully encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:47 PM
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Nope. It’s a count of the number of millionaires based on each individuals net worth. So it’s just counting them up, no averaging. The official number was 8.9% last time I checked, so it’s more like 1 in 11 are millionaires, but the number has gone up since then. https://www.cnbc.com/2021/02/09/more-than-8-percent-of-american-adults-are-millionaires-heres-how-they-got-wealthy.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:51 PM
0

You must not be familiar with the sugaring world. About half the men who have sugar babies are married with children. If you don’t believe me go over to the sugarlifestyle subreddit and check for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:39 PM
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While your point about liquidity is true and somewhat relevant, that fact that the tiptop has billions doesn’t change the fact that 1 out of 10 Americans over the age of 18 has a net worth over 1 million dollars. That’s an accurate fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:38 PM
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1 out of every 10 Americans over the age of 18 is a millionaire. This is a true fact, you can look it up. More than half of those millionaires are men so that’s plenty of possible sugar daddies. And daddies can have multiple sugars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:42 AM
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I’m just not a fan of ice cream or coffee dates because they’re specifically designed to send a message that sex is explicitly off the table. That’s the case with most quick day dates. And don’t get me wrong I don’t mind waiting to have sex. I just know when a woman is choosing a date specifically to say I’m not having sex with you that we’re probably not compatible. I prefer to go on dates with women are that find me very sexy and attractive, and want to put themselves in a position where fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:57 PM
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I don’t know, you should ask the dozen or so women who I had perfectly normal dinner and/or drinks first dates with. Usually if a woman is super attracted to you they jump at the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:31 PM
1

Wait so they knew it wasn’t her messaging them? No wonder. They want to know SHE is interested. And if someone told me she was doing the messaging for her friend, I’d pretty much assume when I showed up for the date it’d be a massive whale catfish and not the pretty friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:41 PM
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You’re putting the cart before the horse. Entertainment comes from vibing in person. The online messages are just to set a meeting place and time. No man is going to put a ton of effort into delightful pitter-patter when he knows you have 100 other messages in your inbox. Set the meet, THEN be delighted with sparkling conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:38 PM
0

Yeah if I hear “ice cream or coffee” all I hear is “I want to make you jump through several hoops to try and turn this into a serious relationship” I agree asking them to come to my place is a bit too ambitious, but the standard first date should be some place with drinks so the possibility of sex is there if we click, but far from guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:32 PM
1

Did you try to actually close the deal for her ever? The point of OLD isn’t to verbally masturbate, it’s to get to an in person meeting when you’re satisfied the person you’re talking to isn’t a serial killer. It’s not for long conversations. Get the digits, set the meeting place, and then people will show you if they’re funny and you vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:29 PM
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Pussys a cartel, once pussy is openly available on the free market, the value drops. Women who aren’t sexworkers view sexworkers as scabs. There’s a huge chunk of women that only have sex to offer men. If men can just buy it, then those women have nothing to offer. It’s not like your early 20s thot has any interest in cooking, cleaning, and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:22 PM
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I agree with you. I don’t give a shit about anyones health, I just find fat people revolting 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:41 PM
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Oh shit I missed the “unsolicited part.” My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:54 AM
1

Back in the day I wanted the positive press out there to as many women as possible. Best case scenario she shows one of her friends and I end up fucking that friend some day too. I have no idea why the ugly, old, or small dick dudes do it. It’s either delusion, or they figure since they have zero shot anyway, any attention, even negative attention is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:23 AM
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Well for the average dude that stops exercising and gets fat as fuck and has a wife who has packed on the pounds, I imagine their sex drives do die off a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:52 AM
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At no time did I say guys were using that as leverage to say women owe them. Never. What I’m saying is if a man on a first date goes to pay and the woman absolutely insists on paying, most of the time SHE is trying to send the message that she absolutely doesn’t want to fuck you. That doesn’t mean the guy expected or felt owed anything. Just that the woman was trying to send a message
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:03 AM
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I’m married. It’s not a problem for me because I’m hot, so my wife enjoys sex with me. I still like to argue for the average guy in public forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:48 PM
0

How old are you? I’m almost a 40 year old dude and I still want to fuck just as much as I always did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:42 PM
1

I’ve never went on a first date and not had sex on it, so I wouldn’t know what to say in your 3 dates scenario of paying. You’ve gotta at least kiss on a first date, otherwise why would you go on a second?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:19 PM
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That’s the problem really. Men don’t want women to “settle” for a man she perceived as average or less than. Men think women have a completely skewed perception of reality, and want women to realign their perception of reality to where they perceive average men as their equal and ideal mate. Getting someone who’s world view is radically different than yours to completely adjust their view of reality is an almost impossible tax. Especially when the reality you’re trying to get them to accept is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:37 PM
5

Exactly. And women who really want to fuck a guy aren’t worried about a guy feeling “owed” sex, so they’re comfortable with letting the guy pay because they’re already planning on riding that dick later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:10 PM
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Man paying on the date is the norm. While equality is nice, usually when a man goes to pay on a first date and a woman insists on paying half, that’s her way of saying “I just want to be clear that we ARE NOT having sex or even kissing, so don’t try it” those women want to pay so you won’t complain after that she was using you for a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:46 PM
2

It’s not about propping up individuals. It’s about setting standards for success and honoring those standards. This allows for known goals that men know if they achieve them they’ll be rewarded. Recognizing and praising talent is part of a social contract, where if you yourself become talented and special you can also expect praise. Having a fit and muscular body, or absolutely shredding on an instrument is praiseworthy. and men honor that contract because they know that if they put in the hours…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:26 PM
2

Yes most people are fat. But that’s not a height issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:58 AM
8

Oh yeah, tall girls have it super hard dating. That's why super models struggle so much to find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:43 PM
1

Oh no people called you mean names in your chosen career. That never happens to men. Quit playing victim. Men just grow thicker skin and don’t let words hurt their fee fees. Because know one cares about their feelings. Being treated shittily is what men have dealt with just fine for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:51 AM
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Either there is physical danger, in which case it’s not worth it to risk my life or get arrested. Or there isn’t danger, in which case you’re a big girl, you can stand up for yourself. I’m not going to jump in because a mean guy hurt your feelings with his big ol meanie sexist jokes or insults. Hell for all I know the woman he’s insulting is a raging shrew and deserves everything being said. Pick a lane. Either you want patriarchal roles, or you want equality. I’m not going to give you the privi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:54 PM
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I’d love to intervene and help a woman out being harassed in public but my years as a criminal defense attorney taught me that’s a baaaad idea. Way too often if cops happen by, all the men involved are going to jail, regardless of who started it. I don’t want to have to fight bullshit charges. Sorry ladies, we don’t have the privilege of cops discriminating strongly in our favor (as evidenced by men outnumbering women in jail 14–1) Also on top of that, you have no clue what’s really going on wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:36 AM
1

Women only seem interested in answers that put zero fault or responsibility on them for maintaining the physical portion of their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:08 PM
1

But then you go over to the dead bedrooms sub and you see that a man can be doing almost 100% of the household chores and "mental load" and it doesn't change a thing. I think its less lazy men (though they surely exist), and the reality of life not matching up to womens fantasies that they're sold on TV. And its a rough change of pace to go from being a single attractive woman where men are bending over backwards to entertain and excite you, to being a wife and mom, and actually having to work f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:06 PM
1

More like 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:44 AM
1

I was in high school actually dating, not just having my perceptions of the dating market formed by episodes of Saved By the Bell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:33 AM
2

You recall the 90s vastly differently than I do. I think you might be buying into some golden years fallacy. Are you under the impression kids have more respect for adults back then too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:02 PM
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2002 isn't "the 90s." Online dating is much more of a thing than it was, but the social dynamics between who gets laid and who doesn't and how often all seem pretty static.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:33 PM
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2002 isn't the sexually repressed ancient times you're making it out to be. I remember having sex back then, and it was pretty similar to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:05 PM
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Also when you’re thinking of potential partners for your female friends, daughters, and sisters usually you’re thinking of who would treat them the best and provide for them and be intelligent and kind. You’re not thinking of who would be the hottest piece of ass who would give them the best sex of their life, and take them on the kind of emotional roller coaster that mostly exists in trashy romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:13 PM
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You really bent over backwards to shit all over a group over a pretty innocent phrase. I'm married, but I can only imagine if I had told a woman with an axe to grind like you that "I'm getting married." "OMG you don't "get" a marriage. Amazon doesn't sell wives with overnight shipping! Major incel vibes!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:39 PM
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Men follow the pages of dude like Bilzerian because he posts the pictures of the hot models in bikinis doing slutty things. its literally just another aggregator of porn content. A near zero number of men follow his page because they care about his posts otherwise. If Harry Styles or Bieber's pages were all just slutty borderline porn photos of girls that aren't full blown porn stars yet, they'd follow them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:29 PM
1

Yes and what I was saying the toughest thing about being a man is accountability. Men are held accountable for their own actions and must suffer the consequences of their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:41 AM
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If I ever fail or end up being the less qualified candidate sometime, I'll let you know. I appreciate your empathy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:12 AM
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I’m a white guy so if I fail at something everyone knows it was my fault. If I succeed there’s a bunch of lame privilege talk. It’d be nice if I could blame bigots or the patriarchy when I fuck something up and get fired or I get passed over for a job or promotion in favor of someone more qualified
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:18 PM
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That would put you in the scared/insecure bucket. But nothing is an iron black and white rule, you can be scared and still get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:08 AM
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Women aren’t interested in men that are gun shy and scared of rejection or being labeled creepy. There’s two types of guys that worry about coming off creepy. Creepy guys and scared/insecure ones. Attractive men don’t worry about coming off creepy or too direct, because they know they’re desirable and act as such. That doesn’t mean weird ugly dudes should act like those attractive confident men, women would prefer the uggos knew their role and stayed in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:13 AM
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I was thinking of the one where George wears timberlands everywhere and paints them black for a wedding
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:51 PM
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You can stuff your sorrys in a sack, mister
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:50 PM
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Money can be used to increase social status and power, which increases atteacriveness without beta buxxing. Beta bux includes actually letting the woman have some of the money. Having a super nice mansion increases attraction. But it crosses over into beta bux when you let her move in. Money can get a luxury car and designer clothes. Those help increase attraction. But giving the woman jewelry and cars and clothes is beta bux. The important part of being high earning to increase attraction is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:10 PM
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On the con side you forgot to list everyone will think you’re a freakin weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:42 PM
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It’s pretty easy to answer yes, especially since such a machine doesn’t exist, so I won’t have to back any of my claims up. I’d do double the time just to have one up on her. My wife had a c section so no 30 hour labor for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:55 PM
1

Because she feels like you're judging her when she fucks around. They see you staying a virgin as a conscious decision, meaning they know you think remaining a virgin is superior to sleeping around. And since people make everything about themselves, they assume that this means that they assume that you think that you're better than she is, since you're a virgin and she is. Also she probably wants people to validate her own ho adventures, and to also partake so she doesn't feel guilty. Like when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:16 PM
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Body language. they lean in closer when you talk, they may initiate more physical contact like touching your arm. When you're in groups she positions herself so you'll be able to talk to her. Prolonged eye contact, she'll meet your eyes for a second then looks away. Sometimes playing with her hair. She always makes efforts to look her best when she knows she's going to see you. She laughs at your jokes more than other people. she smiles more around you than other people. She mentions her schedul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:22 PM
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Because that’s how much specialized doctors work. They don’t just hand her a check for 450k per year plus bonuses to work a 9-5. There’s not that many doctors with her skill set to meet the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:28 PM
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Unfortunately no, believe me I've asked. She's not into girls at all, which is a shame because her best friend who was maid of honor at our wedding was constantly begging for us to do a 3some. And now, between working 26/30 days per month for 12 hours per day, and spending time with me and our 10 month old daughter, she's booked pretty solid. She barely has time to spend with me, let alone picking up a sidepiece.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:34 PM
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I'm a lawyer. I was looking for someone hot that I vibed well with. Loyalty is a must too. Also whatever the opposite of nag/shrew/harpy, I was looking for that. Having said that, my wife is a way more successful doctor and far higher paid than me. But I couldn't care less about that. It's nice being rich now because of her, but it really didn't change anything and I'd still have married her even if she just stocked the shelves at Target or something. Most of the women I've dated were profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:27 PM
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we're not talking about taming the unemployed abusive bad boy. Think more taming the playboy who has lots of options because he's super hot, funny and successful. Like Amal Clooney for example. George Clooney was supposed to be this super desirable bachelor that no one could lock down, and now he's married to her with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:51 PM
3

Women are negging dudes now? And you let it work? That's like old school 90s type of game.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:08 AM
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Like an actual date? After highschool I never took a girl out on a date who I hadn’t slept with before. Usually it was meet at a party and fuck that night, or meet somewhere platonic and then make plans to go to a club, then hook up.
/r/seduction24/08/22 10:55 PM
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Or let’s be honest, it’s pretty doubtful it’s a woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:19 AM
2

That’s why a few of the men formed gangs, so that their gang could monopolize women. It was the men doing the deciding amongst themselves in one form or another, and the negotiations involved violence or the threat thereof. Women didn’t have a seat at the negotiation table
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:25 PM
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Yeah modern society itself is pretty new. For 99% of human evolution, consent really wasn’t on the menu. Caveman Grogg wasn’t working on his seduction skills. It wouldn’t matter what women evolved to find sexy. Because they had no choice in the matter. It was which cavemen were strong enough to beat the hell out of the other men who tried to come between him and the women he has claimed by force
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:52 AM
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Just because the men you’ve slept with (including your boyfriend) are bad in bed, doesn’t mean the rest of us are. I do know men try harder in bed when it’s a woman they really like and find attractive, while if it’s a slump buster they just nut and don’t care about the uggo’s pleasure. So maybe the fact men don’t try and give you an orgasm is more about you than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:46 AM
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No my answer for where to meet girls Isn’t the same as my answer on where to meet guys Because guys are literally everywhere. Honestly I’m racking my brain trying to think of places where women can go where they won’t be offered dick. Dick is everywhere. It’s more abundant than aol cds during the dot com boom. When a woman answers the phone it is five times more likely that it’s someone offering them dick then it is someone asking about their cars extended warranty. As far as where I met women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:07 PM
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Telling men to not shoot their shot unless they're 300% sure the girl is into them is whack and is a big reason many men go years without getting laid. No one said anything about 300% sure. Not at all. its called rapport building and calibration. You flirt, guage receptiveness, and if they are giving positive cues, you up the ante. You don't just go 0-100 because you refuse to pick up on social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:31 PM
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You are completely wrong, women show their interest all the time when they are attracted to a person. It’s small stuff like attitude and body language. They’re not going to come up to you and yell “omg give me that dick!” And what’s the risk? The risk is you develop a reputation as a person who completely lacks social skills and is unable to pick up on cues and calibrate their behavior appropriately. You end up developing a reputation as being weird and creepy. Not because you’re not hot enough,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:41 PM
2

We've been over this. Any n count more than mine is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:04 PM
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It’s amazing how many more people in a group have attractive appearing faces when it is socially acceptable for that group to paint an entirely new face on top of their current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:43 PM
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It means they withhold sex as a form of punishment for not complying with their demands or behavior expectations. So something like "you didn't take the garbage out, no sex for a week!" or "I got a haircut and you didn't notice. I'm going to refuse any and all sexual overtures made by you until you figure out why I'm mad and apologize. but i wont tell you i'm mad you didn't notice the haircut, you should figure that out on your own"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:22 PM
4

There’s a world of difference between “already agreed to date you” and the early stages of flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:17 AM
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Dude It’s 2020 till I’m talking about dad’s that were fucking in the 80s and 90s not after World War II. Aside from online dating the dating scene is not that different between the 90s now. The same shit still worked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:30 PM
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The men who get super frustrated and say "well I never get any body language, receptive tone, rapport building, so people must be bullshitting me! i have to shoot my shot because there's no other way of knowing!" To those men, yes, you do know. You know none of those women were interested in you. Not one. Lower your standards or up your game. And actually learn some damn social skills so maybe in the future you can build rapport and flirt capably. ​ Those videos online where some average looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:12 PM
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Think about your dad, and all the dads that you knew. Most of them aren’t chads but they managed to figure it out long enough to pump a kid out. Sure they’re not putting up Chamberlinesque numbers, but these dads seem to be relatively happy bangin these moms out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:38 PM
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It's really dumb to shoot your shot without even aiming first. And by aiming, I don't mean just picking the girl you think is the hottest as a target. I mean actually guaging interest and receptiveness and building a foundation prior to pulling the trigger. Successful salemen don't just cold call a million people. No, the best ones do their research and pick the best leads, and then lay the groundwork to build connections and networks, they can provide value and know what people are looking for,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:13 PM
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Any number higher than mine, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:50 PM
1

Yeah once you have enough money, you can get into a rut where you don’t know what to do with yourself. People online think they’d just travel a bunch and do hobbies. But they haven’t actually been in that situation. Once money isn’t an issue, and you’re still young and not working, you start to feel useless like you’re really not contributing anything to society. You can’t just hang with friends all day because they actually have works. And most of your hobbies will end up being pretty lonesome …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:28 PM
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I think the work aspect grants enough respect in that a. She knows I’m capable and can perform a job that takes specialized knowledge and skill, and B. I’m not just sitting around playing video games all day. It’s also a holistic thing, there’s more to her respect than just work, though that’s an important element. I’m tall, with a symmetrical face and was a D1 college athlete. The guys she works with are mostly Indian dudes who are significantly shorter than me and awkward around women. Most ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:01 PM
6

Like I told another poster, I don’t need to work for money so I just chose a job I enjoy helping the poor. I make more off my investments than I do my salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:13 PM
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I do eviction defense for indigents. Like I said I don’t have to work, So I can do a job I enjoy helping the poor. I could choose a job making more money working more hours but then I see my daughter less and have less time to do all the shit around the house that needs done. Having said that 60 K is a pretty common salary for lawyers. Google bimodal salaries olawyers. Either you make big bucks in big law, We’re barely make anything. The average salary is deceiving due to the bimodal distributio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:04 PM
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Doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:37 PM
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My wife makes 450k + bonuses/year. I make 60k but get free health insurance for the whole family. I do not have to work if I don't want to. We have a 10 month old kid. I handle all of our money and investments. I would never be a stay at home dad, because I've seen what happens to those guys. A woman going to work while a man stays home is going to grow a massive chip on her shoulder, and the resentment will build and build. I knew 3 men with high earning wives who were stay at home dads. All 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:53 PM
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Why would men “be better” just because that’s something women want but don’t reward? Men will do what’s in their own self interest, not yours. You sound like one of those business owners that complains their workers are “only there for the money” and won’t work unpaid overtime. Men want sex. If you go out of your way to fuck violent sociopaths, men will start acting like violent sociopaths. If you go out of your way to fuck empathetic kind men, men will start acting empathetic and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:05 AM
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People respond to incentives. If women want men to change, they have to offer an incentive to change. The incentive men respond to is sex. Whatever type of men women fuck the most, that's the type of men most men are going to try and be. Women can complain about lack of empathy, emotional immaturity, lack of accountability, and aggression. But they fuck guys with all those traits all the time. If women mainly only wanted to fuck scientists, mankind would've invented the warp drive, a cancer cure…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:41 PM
9

My wife has friends she works with that wont date a man that makes less money than them. Which is usually an ok standard, but these women are doctors making 450k per year
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:57 PM
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As you get older, the idea of being alone as you age becomes less frightening as you see its not that big of a deal. Many of these women would rather be alone than pair up with a guy she's not super into. Also, there's a selection bias. The women that really want relationships bad and the women with low standards for men they want to commit to already got married in their 20s. So the remaining women are the ones with high standards or that are comfortable alone. Its not a change in the individua…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:09 PM
5

Don’t act like these dudes are just shitty out of left field. Women are picking men that EVERYONE knows are shitty. And everyone will tell her that guy sucks. And they ignore it or it makes the guy even more appealing. Want to know if a guy is a decent guy or not that you’re dating? Try asking your parents. Because they don’t care how hawttt he is. They care how he treats their daughter. But instead of listening to that, women find the forbidden fruit even more appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:30 AM
1

I'm a lawyer and I make 60k per year. My wife is a doctor who makes 450k per year plus bonuses. We have a baby together. We've been married for 3 years, together for 9. I know every family court judge in the city and how they would rule and what the results would be if for some reason we got divorced. Marriage put me in a significantly superior situation both financially and legally. Not to mention I love my wife and family and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:33 PM
8

All these sources you keep providing are definitely winning me over
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:16 PM
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No one, man or woman, genuinely cares what anyone has to say about anything, unless doing so directly benefits them. Humans respond to incentives. Women on the internet have zero to gain from listening to an undesirable man complain about being undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:27 PM
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lol, that's crazy eugenic pseudoscience. Biological women are physically weaker than men regardless of ethnicity or national origin. "For all age and ethnic groups, muscle strength was higher among men compared with women"https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1878764914000692#:~:text=For%20all%20age%20and%20ethnic,values%20were%20lower%20than%20Caucasians. ​ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7930971/#:~:text=Women%20athletes%20are%20known%20to,%5B3%5D. http://archive.scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:22 PM
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It would really suck to have such little upper body strength and to be physically weaker than over 90% of the opposite sex. I wouldn't feel comfortable with that, I'm surprised more women dont own guns. Giving birth didn't seem fun. Even though my wife had a c section, the thought of "i'm glad that's not me" did cross my time from time to during the pregnancy and when they were delivering the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:48 PM
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How well someone treats a partner isn’t a static trait except at the extreme ends. A physical abuser is always going to abuse and a doormat will always doormat. In the middle, the amount of effort people put in usually correlates to how much they value a person in comparison to their other options. For someone with no options, any girl will have high value and therefore call for putting in lots of effort to treat them well. A hot guy has tons of options, many of them requiring zero effort on his…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:02 PM
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Less attractive men have fewer or no other options. People with no options get desperate to hang on to mates, especially attractive ones, so they will bend over backwards to keep the few they can get. Especially if that mate is way better than anyone else they have a shot with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:35 PM
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I'm not. I'd much rather be a super attractive man. I can see why some people might want to be attractive women. I imagine that feeling doesn't last when that gorgeous woman encounters a creep with 3x her upper body strength who doesn't feel like taking no for an answer. Even though it happens to ugly girls as well, I have yet to meet a girl that's a 9 or 10 that hasn't had at the very least some extremely close calls with men just outright trying to force themselves on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:46 PM
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The money these girl streamers make isnt from twitch. It just serves as a platform to get enough exposure to make their Only Fans popular. These popular girls on twitch aren't making as much as the guys on twitch, but they are absolutely DESTROYING them in income with their Only Fans. Someone like Amouranth has made 28 million dollars off of Only Fans in the past 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:40 PM
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Redpill is about men getting laid. The only relevance women's POV has in redpill is who they're likely to fuck and how they will act. A woman could say some Nobel prize winning scientist who saved millions of lives with a cancer cure is "more valuable" than Chad. But if she isn't fucking that scientist as often or as enthusiastically as she fucks Chad, it really doesn't matter what she thinks of his value as a person. Because the "value" we are talking about in all these discussions is value in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:09 PM
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Once again, blue pillers are conflating SMV and RMV. Sexual Market Value: Chads is sky high. Relationship Market value: Chad still does pretty damn well Red pill is all about getting results in the sexual marketplace. RP don’t give a shit that women think being high RMV is better than SMV. Their goal is sex.As long as they’re getting what they want they don’t give a shit that someone thinks someone else is a better human or something. There’s no such thing as an objective view of someone’s value…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:44 AM
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And this is where I refer you to the original parent comment where I point out its a spectrum and not black or white, all or nothing. We are of course talking about general trends not ironclad laws that everyone must obey. You maximize your success by playing the odds. I know every woman Is a completely unique flower in your world, But in general women tend to prefer rich men over poor men, physically fit men over tbe morbidly obese, intelligent men over the learning disabled, witty and funny me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:23 PM
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let me simplify it. Women want the best, most desirable man they can get. Men, you're going to want to be with a woman who's behavior indicates that you are the best, most desirable man she can get. Is that still too complicated for you hun or do I need to draw pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:19 AM
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The men that are complaining are complaining about the change in dynamic, as they would’ve preferred the prior system. So it is each individual man’s fault if he can’t succeed in the current system, but the change from the old system to the new one is mostly on women, and the smaller subset of highly successful men. Redpill says “yes the current system sucks for most men. But you can’t change the system so learn how succeed in the current one” Blame and fault is irrelevant as it changes nothing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:11 AM
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It doesn’t need to be common. That’s the whole point. The whole point of the red pill is to teach men how to get better results than the average. To teach you how to be so damn desirable that the women who usually holdout won’t with you, because you’re BETTER and more attractive than the usual guy. Obviously not every guy can do this. But red pill men don’t care If it’s achievable for every man, It’s about achieving it for themselves. It’s only contradictory on a macro level. Women will bray and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:12 PM
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No, you're just being too binary/black and white thinking. So their ideal is a woman who is super attracted to them and has sex with them quickly, but is super slow to sleep with other men, or hasn't had sex with other men at all. She just couldn't help but to sleep with them because that attraction was so strong Lets put that outcome at 10 on a scale of 1-10. The worst outcome is a woman who absolutely refuses to have sex with you until marriage, while she has fucked 100s of dudes within minute…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:34 PM
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I'm not the guy you're talking to, but I'll step in here. I agree with you that generally speaking people should provide links instead of just saying "just google it" But I disagree with people who insist on not googling something that is super easy to google. To help you out, the scorpion and the frog is a story where a scorpion asks a frog to carry him across a stream. The frog says no way, you'll sting me and I'll die. The scorpion says "no I won't, if i stung you then we'd both die" Frog see…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:26 PM
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A post like OP's shows how everyone takes everything way way too seriously like everything is 100% black and white, and if you try to deviate from anything, then you're now soooo wrong. Redpill is useful. It is generally correct to describe the behaviors of men and women in the dating and sex markets. Primarily it is aimed at the late teens and twenties behaviors of people. I am a man, married for 3 years, in a relationship for ten. I pursued this relationship and commitment because I wanted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:19 PM
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The life of a pretty average 14 year old boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:50 AM
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OP has got to be a 14 year old boy. I can’t think of anyone else who would be replying to almost every comment with a reply that he definitely has sex, yup rest assured he’s the expert. Did he mention he’s had sex before? He’s not like those virgin nerds in this sub, this man has had sex before, did he mention he’s had sex? Everyone ask mr expert OP about the best way to sex, he has tips you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:18 AM
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There’s levels to things man. You may be getting a wrong impression from the outside since you’re not seeing it in person. I wouldnt even classify it as resentment, More like a mild annoyance. Like on the level of how some women get upset if you leave a wet towel on the floor sometimes not like actually a serious overarching thing. I can count on my hands how many actual serious arguments we’ve had in the decade of being together. There’s not a woman on this planet that absolutely loves and ador…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:33 PM
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Like I said its super duper rare. We've been married 3 years together 10, and its slipped out maybe twice? I wouldn't say "very shitty" at all, she is far far better on the issue than what I would expect most women to be. Every couple has some issues, and I'd put this on a 1.5/10 on the seriousness list. We aren't currently interested in lowering our standard of living as she is currently still under contract, and her high income permits us to be aggressive with investments that will make it so …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:53 PM
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My wife massively outearns me even though I make a decent salary. Together we make over half a mill per year, but she maxes 7x more than me. I love the extra income and the fact we're on such sound financial footing. It doesn't bother me AT ALL. Even though my own job is demanding (attorney), I do 90%+ of the housework and errands, and childcare is split 60/40 me. HOWEVER All the women doctors she works with have husbands who are doctors who make more or the same, and they drive luxury vehicles …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:58 PM
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We really don’t need any policies to convince people to breed. Hell, we can’t convince poor people to stop breeding even when they can’t afford to support the kids. You see that all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:42 AM
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Is it that you wouldn’t yearn, or you genuinely think fucking Chad makes you his match? Yearning for something you never had is very different than mourning the loss of something amazing you can’t get back. Which would you have more cravings for, the best pizza you ever had, or some pizza which Is supposed to be amazing but you’ve never tried it. As to the warm hole thing, quit confusing sexual market value with relationship market value. They’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:46 PM
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I think the point is that if you never get with Chad in the first place, you don’t know what you’re missing, so you won’t have yearning over the hot dude who you could never be anything but a warm hole to anyway. We don’t expect you to “settle” for Bob. Bob isn’t detestable. If we took the entire group of women and men within bob and hours age range and ranked them by desirability, then forced each person to pair up with the person who has their same number in the rankings, Bob and you would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:27 PM
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Divorced and widowed men are more likely to remarry because they want someone to watch their kids for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:43 PM
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The problem here is that there are misaligned incentives and you can mostly predict behavior by incentives. Women can say that they’re OK with men expressing negative emotions, But frankly a man that is sad, annoyed, depressed or down is going to make a woman feel an emotion that kills libido. The man sees less sex which is the ultimate incentive to most men, So now the man has learned not to show negative emotions. But then look at the other side of the equation. What is the reward for a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:09 PM
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2 years is nothing. It’s insane to have a kid that quick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:47 AM
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How long have you been with your current partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:29 AM
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Dude was probably mad his side chick showed up unannounced. Why would you date someone 300 miles away?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:26 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Women don’t know how to be content and happy. Reality doesn’t match tv or a Disney movie, so they gotta make everyone miserable. You could treat a woman like a queen, be the best sex she’s ever had, and be funny, smart, and interesting. But a woman is still going to find something to be miserable about once you’re past the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:38 PM
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The women don’t nag and bitch because a guy “isn’t nice” to them. On the contrary. The guys they nag and bitch at our their SO’s who treat them great, but women always gotta find something to complain about. Like the guy folded the laundry in quarters instead of the store fold, or they put the wrong decorative towel on the oven, or ordered your coffee with Splenda when they KNOW you prefer equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:46 PM
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Lol women nagging and bitching not a common occurrence? Lolololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:42 PM
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Not mutually exclusive. They want a woman to make a pick with realistic expectations, then stick with that pick without a bunch of nagging or bitching. Make your pick and if they’re not perfect be happy with the good things about them instead of trying to nag them into the perfect stepford husband bot. Like learn how to be content and happy instead of focusing on negatives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 PM
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I don't think they were thinking any of the possible long term consequences of letting some deadbeat nut inside them at all. Now they kind of have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:38 PM
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It certainly indicates that sex with your partner isn’t highly coveted or valued, at least nowhere near as valued or desired as your male partner desires you. Men want do be desired as much as they desire their partner, what’s wrong with that? Also, Have you ever seen how women flip out the rare times a man says no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:07 AM
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"Shit up, I don't feel like listening to you talk now" is rude and people shouldn't talk like this to their partners I agree. "Saying "I'm not in the mood right now" or something similar to it to sex from time to time isn't damaging though." Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:00 PM
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I'm not sure why declining sex shows a lack of empathy. Compare it to any other part of a relationship, and see why. "Honey, let me tell you about my day at work" "No. I'm not in the mood to listen to you right now." "Honey, I love you" "Thanks, but I'm not in the mood to tell you that back" "Honey, can I hug you" "No, don't touch me. I'm not in the mood to be touched by you" Sex is someone saying "I want you. I desire to be with you" saying no is showing you don't treasure your partner's desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:17 PM
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its amazing how when hundreds of thousands of men report the same experience with several women over and over again, the response from women is always "maybe its the mans fault? or this women is an exception" maybe, just maybe its possible for something to be womens fault, and for it to be a trait that a majority of women have in common. If that were the case how would we prove it to you with evidence you'd accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:01 PM
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I don't consider dating to be "hard." I just want it acknowledged that when it comes to the sexual marketplace, women occupy a privileged position. Just like how my wife, who is an accomplished physician is doing quite well at work. But she still wants people to acknowledge that men have a privilieged position in some work places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:58 PM
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which of those six categories does dead bedroom fall into? because that and adultery absolutely are the number one reasons men get divorces. Money and abuse are the top reasons women get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:45 PM
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Now that I make good money in SE I couldn’t care less about a man’s wallet. So would you date an unemployed man? Or a man who worked full time in a job he liked that didn't pay a living wage, so you'd have to help support him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:11 PM
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Why would you use one of the world's most famous closeted homosexuals as an example of a fit confident guy that kills with women? Cruise doesn't "kill with women." His ridiculous cult fixes him up with actresses willing to serve as his beard in exchange for a boost to their acting careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:34 PM
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Sure and I agree but doctors don’t. Also it’s about the integrity of the system at large. We can’t prescribe 100 million men supplemental test each year. If you want it buy it illegally off the internet like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:46 PM
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I’m not a doctor, maybe it doesn’t. Even if it doesn’t the worsening sleep apnea alone is too much of a risk for a doctor to bother giving it to you, especially since the reasons wanting it are vanity or can be adressed in some other fashion. Doctors don’t care if you’re ripped, hot, or have the libido of a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:48 PM
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Most doctors are more focused on baseline benefits, not trying to get you enhanced results. I’m a big proponent of using test, but from a medical standpoint, the risks outweigh the benefits. Using test strains the liver and kidneys, and shortens your life span. Now the years you use will be kickass ones with a better mood and better physical appearance. But the ideal approach from a medical standpoint is for people to moderate their diet, do cardio, and not mess with their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:37 PM
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Most doctors are more focused on baseline benefits, not trying to get you enhanced results. I’m a big proponent of using test, but from a medical standpoint, the risks outweigh the benefits. Using test strains the liver and kidneys, and shortens your life span. Now the years you use will be kickass ones with a better mood and better physical appearance. But the ideal approach from a medical standpoint is for people to moderate their diet, so cardio, and not mess with their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:37 PM
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but it is almost impossible to get it unless you are a transman. you mean legally, right? Because its super easy to buy steroids on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:15 PM
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I disagree I think market values are heavily dependent on the characteristics and demographics of the particular geographic market you’re in. Markets all run on supply and demand so when those factors change so does the relative value of a good in that market despite the good itself not having changed whatsoever. These principles can be applied to RMV and SMV. You are arguing that there is a “true”objective measure of RMV and SMV that is constant and doesn’t change even if the market surrounding…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:24 PM
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Oh I thought we we were talking real world possibilities, not just some fictional place that will never exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:44 PM
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If you were a stud in college, and you are still be a stud at 30, you will find it easier to get laid, especially casually. Nah, if you were a stud in college, the pure demographic mix of living in a place with tens of thousands of people living in close proximinity all within the same age group is near impossible to replicate later on. Its way easier to meet new people and seal the deal when every day you are meeting hundreds of new prospects, and for a new one you can just go to the dorm the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:59 PM
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You’re saying wanting to like your partners face is having too high of standards? it is if your own face is detestable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:51 PM
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You’re right, but I’m not going to pay any more than I have to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:44 PM
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Nothing morally in my view. If you knowingly give birth to a kid you can’t support, you’re in the moral wrong and if you do fail to pay for that child on your own, you should from a moral point of view be punished. However! Once the kid exists, it’s not his fault his mom is ratchet. The kid shouldn’t have to starve. And it’s just not feasible to find new parents for that kid, the foster system already sucks. Inundating with more kids just isn’t feasible. Sure letting irresponsible baby mommas le…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:35 PM
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My wife make 450k per year and I only make 70k. She's not blessed, I'm just doing my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:05 PM
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Did you just explain how a woman sees you as a pack mule… whilst saying you take naps whilst she is being a pack mule lol who said anything about me actually taking the nap. I was merely suggesting it as a test. and i never said she would be doing chores or anything. she might just be doing a hobby or something that is keeping her busy. In reality I would never take a nap during the day. I do the overwhelming majority of the house chores and gotta keep working to stay on top of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:53 PM
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You must be a younger guy without kids. Generally if you're a man who's living with a woman, you're pretty much expected to be doing work any time you're not doing something fun with your spouse. Theres always a million things that need to be done around the house, you could alway be earning more money to set the family up better, and stuff like working out or playing sports at least improves your appearance and health and helps you network with other active people. If you want to see a woman ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:43 PM
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Well if the woman has the baby and can't afford it, we as a society dont just let the kid starve or throw the woman in jail for child neglect. We give her social services. So if we were to let daddy off the hook, then taxpayers who didn't even get to nut are on the hook to pay for the kid. That's bullshit. I'm not paying for some kid that ain't mine if there's some dude playing fast and loose with his birth control out there trying to be genghis khan on my dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:29 PM
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I think the key thing to remember when thinking about "nice" vs "hot" etc, is that actions, behaviors, and mannerisms are all signalling mechanisms which can alter your perception of a person's sexual attractiveness. There are certain physical attributes that lay the baseline for physical hotness. Things like height, muscularity, hair, and facial symmetry. However, the PERCEPTION of someones physical attractiveness can be altered by "value" signals that we learned based upon the observed behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:18 PM
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Why do you think you're guaranteed to repeat your parents' faults? You can always overcome them by realizing them and learning from them. because statistically people tend to learn and mimic their parents behavior. Sure their are exceptions. But if you're playing the odds you don't try and seek out exceptions, because the probability of someone actually being an exception is low. You seek out the safer bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:27 PM
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religious men still want sex. the mentally ill and disabled still want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:03 PM
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there's men that voluntarily don't have sex? Why? I know priests take a celibacy vow, but I thought that was just a cover for pedophilia. Who are these men that voluntarily forgo sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:59 PM
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25% is a lot of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:29 PM
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If your health is so shit and terrible that you can't take viagra, you don't need a wife or girlfriend, you need to hire a home health care professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:20 PM
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Incentive. Most men make more money than their wives, so splitting things in half is a bad idea for him, but a good idea for her. Also, the reasons for divorce is usually some form of unmet needs. For men its usually sex, but they don't need to divorce to get sex, they just need to cheat. For women, its usually money issues with the man, and you can't get full access to a new mans money without leaving the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:34 PM
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It doesn't give them what they want, because they went private voluntarily right? There was no verdict from reddit admins that they were dangerous femcels and needed to be shut down. That would have given people what they asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:25 PM
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Those guys will do the same thing people with other serious disabilities do. Just cope the best they can, and try to enjoy their life the best they can. They're probably going to have to focus on lots and lots of oral, and find a girl that isn't really into penetration. There's lots of girls suffering with vaginismus who small dick men would be perfect for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:58 PM
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fair enough. I could see how some people could make it work with long term partners, it just never worked out that way for me and the casuals was way easier to set up for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:46 PM
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Actual pro tip from someone who has been in that situation, having two girls suck your dick at the same time is awesome, and not all girls willing to do 3ways with you are interested in doing lesbian stuff, they just want to make you happy. Just make sure the girls are casual hookups and not long term gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:21 PM
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You go about it the same way most sexworkers do in this day and age. You post an ad on Tryst or Eros letting them know what demographic you cater to. or if you think old women wont browse those sites, google senior dating sites, put a fake age of 50 so you show up in their searches, and have your profile make it obvious that you're a gigolo for older women, without saying it exactly so you don't get banned from the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:22 PM
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I have yet to find the bisexual person that doesn't have a strong preference once way or another. From what I've seen most bisexuals are either gay guys who will fuck anything, or straight women who like to play around with girls from time to time but ultimately end up with a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:42 PM
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Maybe figure out beforehand what can fall by the wayside or find the woman that does like doing the things you like Most of the time in these deadbedroom situations things are very different in the start. Their girlfriend/wife is down for sex several times a week, blowjobs are a frequent part of foreplay and everyones happy. And this isn't just the honeymoon phase, it can last a long time. But, the change seems to happen in these deadbedrooms once they start to cohabitate. The other two events w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:41 PM
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Only poor men are worried about this. I always picked up the check when I was dating. But I very rarely went on a date with a woman I hadn't had sex with yet. And if we hadn't had sex yet and we were going on a date, then it is 100% going to be in a setting where we are having drinks and probably going to have sex after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:18 PM
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oh I don't think a 2 bedroom, 1 1/2 bathroom house in the bay area is that hard to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:17 PM
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I've had a few threesomes before. It wouldn't 100% be a dealbreaker, but I'd generally prefer not to know about it. I don't ask questions I don't want the answer to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:37 PM
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"I’ve heard others say that women should never approach and ask a man out because he’ll almost always say yes - because it’s easy sex - but probably won’t respect her enough to pursue a serious relationship." Well here's the situation. Of course men like it when women approach. Approaching is work and risks rejection. Its nice when a woman does the work for you and takes the risk so you don't have to. Will I respect a woman more or less because she was the one to approach? Neither. Sure I might …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:51 PM
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Lower libido. Its really that simple. If you're a man and want to test it out for yourself, go on a cycle of steroids, and then come off them and deal with that testosterone dip postcycle. You'll find you couldn't give two shits about finding a girlfriend/partner when your testosterone is driven into the dirt. In fact you'd rather people just leave you alone. Women, want to feel what its like to have the sex drive of a man (and not the bullshit "oh i have a higher libido than many of the men I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:06 PM
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One good thing I've seen on FDS is if a guy treats you like shit and doesn't communicate with you, end it. People put up with shitty behavior because usually its a hot person (relative to themselves) treating them like shit. And if they got rid of the person treating them bad, their next relationship/hookup would be with someone uglier. They compromise on how well they're treated in order to get someone hotter than they usually could.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:38 PM
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Nah the men are right, men are the gate to commitment. But only if they’re getting laid in the first place. If no one is fucking them, they’re not the gatekeeper of anything. The only time I’ve ever seen a girl turn down a guy she was fucking for commitment was when she was fucking multiple other guys and the guy offering commitment was one of the lower men on the totem pole. The emotionally independent female “player” is legbeard fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:19 PM
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I've found that to be mostly cope from women who sleep with man hoes but know they couldn't lock it down if they tried, so they pretend they didn't want to anyway. Those grapes are sour anyways, said the fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:55 PM
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I did read your sources, and they were very informative. Unfortunately it doesn't support your claims about the deterioration in fertility and birth defects being equal. Only that men's fertility and sperm quality is impacted, though to a significantly lesser degree than womens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:58 PM
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Its not equal though. Just because mens sperm also deteriorates in quality doesn't mean its anywhere near to the same degree or has the same effects on the same birth defects. And mens sperm can't be 50% responsible for miscarriage since its not just the sperm and the egg that are factors for miscarriage, but the health of the body of the actual carrier. Men don't carry babies. Women have a finite amount of eggs, and once they go through menopause, its over. done. no more eggs. no baby no matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:28 PM
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Self confidence and self delusion are identical without external validation or invalidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:35 PM
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oh sure, I'd say you're right, but I do want to point out these women were vastly overestimating their RMV not their SMV. They thought they were going to date this guy, not just get the chance to fuck him. Plenty of delusional people are out there. I remember watching a Dr. Phil episode where there were middle aged dudes getting catfished. One dad in his 50s legitimately thought he was engaged to someone using Angie Varona's pics for her profile. Like what middle of the road average assed old du…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:20 PM
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Women, especially unmarried women are significantly more likely to be the recipient of public services than men. Married conservative men are more likely to be conservative because they see themselves as the payer of the taxes to fund these services, while unmarried women, especially unmarried women with children see themselves as the recipient of those services. At some point in their lives, 23% of women have used food stamps, whilemen reported doing so in 12% of the cases. That gap is even mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:14 PM
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unlimited subsidies and tax forgiveness for the 1% or UBI you might want to check your math on which money goes where. A UBI of $1,000 per month given to 330 million people would cost 3.96 trillion per year. The entire US budget is 4.79 trillion per year. The entirety of corporate subsidies or anything that is considered corporate welfare comes to 75 billion per year. Your math doesn't work out. at all. That's why they're all pipe dreams. Because they're based on an unfamiliarity with the actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:55 PM
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Sexual connections are beneficial in sexual species as well, so ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 AM
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Being friends with women isn't as rewarding as women try to pretend it is. There's a reason why there's so many women who say they prefer hanging out with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:56 PM
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If you like being friends so much, maybe the guy should just monetize instead of sexualize the friendship. Write him a check the next time you want friend hangout time without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:45 PM
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The people who say its "to shame/bully people into having sex with trans people" are close, but not quite. Instead, its an attempt to shift the societal standard and default from "no i won't fuck a transperson, because as a heterosexual cisgender person, I'm not attracted to people of the same sex." to "of course i would fuck them, why wouldn't I? they're real women/men." Its not about targeting the "transphobe" (or as I call them, "normal sane people") Its about shifting the societal standard s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:35 PM
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I would much rather fuck a starfish lingerie model than even the most skilled land whale that could deepthroat a baseball bat. Sex isn’t that difficult, especially for women. And hotness may not necessarily correlate with skill, but it can be correlated with effort. People aren’t pulling out their A game for a slumpbuster, but if it’s the hottest they’ve ever had, they’re gonna pull out all the stops to keep that hottie around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:35 PM
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Have you ever heard the saying "if you're the smartest man in the room, you're in the wrong room?" Sex can work like that too. If you're the best lay every woman you've ever been with has had, you can probably up the level of woman you're getting with. Unless you're fucking VS models or whatever your standard for top level hotness on the regular is, if you're the best every woman you've been with has ever had, its time to aim for hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:13 PM
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clearly the solution is to break up with her, wait until she's dating someone else, and then you can be the hot adultery she seeks. You can even make up a fake girlfriend that she can feel she's getting the better of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:09 PM
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To validate that she's so hot that sex with her is worth potentially ruining his relationship with the woman he's about to marry. Ego trips are way hotter than orgasms. In her mind that dude fucking her proves she's got a more valuable magic vagina than her rival, (whoops i mean best friend). It doesn't occur to her that it just means that her best friend is engaged to a pos who will scoop up easy pussy when it throws itself his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:07 PM
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We talking wives or just girlfriends? If its girlfriend, go ahead, upgrade away. Wife? That's a commitment. I'm married, I made vows, I have a kid, and I'm not about to bounce just because I get paid (though my wife makes wayyyyyy more cash than I do so its really a moot point)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:13 AM
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Most "polyamory" where an attractive woman is involved is usually just cuckoldry in practice, since the man isn't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:41 PM
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That and natural ectomorphs are less likely to reject you for your own ectomorphic body type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 PM
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Conservative men learn to not bring politics up with women they want to sleep with or date unless they're absolutely certain she'll be receptive to those views. She imagines the hot guy at the gym is pulling the lever for Biden at the end of the day, but in reality he's probably a conservative. https://www.vice.com/en/article/j5e3z7/gym-bros-more-likely-to-be-right-wing-assholes-science-confirms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:05 PM
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reactive to our own thoughts Then men don't have a "spontaneous" sex drive, they're reacting to their own thoughts as well. reacting to your own thoughts is how the spontaneous sex drive works. In reality what's happening is both sexes have thresholds to being turned on, men, particularly young men get turned on super quick, while it takes women longer. Its like the difference between trying to boil an ounce of water and a gallon. However once turned on, THEN the difference between passive and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:17 PM
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There’s no such thing as commitment issues. There’s only “commitment to you” issues. Men who don’t commit aren’t afraid of commitment. They just don’t find the goods on offer from the particular woman seeking the commitment worth the commitment. If a Victoria’s Secret super model or whatever his dream girl is showed up and said “I want to be your exclusive girlfriend!” You’d find he has no commitment issues at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:10 PM
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There’s those strong blue pill logic skills. I wasn’t saying all older men are hot. I was only saying they’re the only group outside of number 3 and 4 to contain any hot guys at all. Not everyone goes bald or has been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:02 PM
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"If a man uses his resources to attract women, does that make him a beta male?" It depends. If he uses those resources on himself to buy a nice car, nice clothes, nice haircut, etc. And women want to fuck him in part because he's rich that's fine. Where it passes into beta stuff is when he actually starts giving those resources to the woman. Buying expensive gifts, paying for expensive trips and 5 star meals all the time, letting her live rent free and jobless in his mansion, that's beta stuff. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:37 PM
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"What should we be telling women who can't get men to commit?" 70% of Americans are overweight or obese, with 42% being obese, so my first piece of advice is to put down the fork. This will be applicable 2/3 of people. You gotta maintain a minimum of physical attraction. Next, if you want a man who will want to stay around long term, you have to be the kind of woman that men actually want to be around long term. That means besides just being physically attractive, you actually have to be kind an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:32 PM
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Also, a lot of those men don't want women their match either. There's plenty of nerdy tech ceos who have married models Snapchat guy married to miranda kerr for example or more accurately instead of "nerdy tech ceo" and "snapchat guy" use the label "young billionaire" Evan Spiegel and it makes much more sense. especially if you describe Miranda Kerr as "divorced single mom and former model in her mid to late 30s" which she would've been when they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:17 PM
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They have time while their wife is at work. They have money. And are probably good looking if they managed to land a woman who makes more money than them. So the real reason they are more likely to be unfaithful is because they can be with decently attractive women. There's whole swathes of men out there who their wife is the hottest (or only) woman they're capable of attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:26 PM
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" I'm already hooking up with someone else exclusively" Lol, oh honey. People that are exclusive are called boyfriends and girlfriends. "we're hooking up exclusively" is just a lie men tell women so that the girl won't go out and find new dick, but the man can honestly tell people in front of that girl or her friends that he doesn't have a girlfriend so he can still try to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:00 PM
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What she is talking about is the concept of congruence. Where someone’s behaviors and physical appearance are in agreement and flow. When someone has been hot and socially fluent for a long time, there are all sorts of minor signals they give off compared to someone who had to practice their behaviors. A person who had to practice behaviors has minor hesitations in their speech as they think of the right thing to say instead of an immediate reflexive response. They are also stiffer and less rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:37 PM
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As someone who worked as a public defender for years, I will tell you the answer is "maybe." The people I represented either had 3-5 girlfriends, or no one would ever want to fuck them. And there were much more of the latter. The trick to being a successful with the ladies jailbird is tattoos and drugs. Mostly the drugs part. The drug dealers were always swimming in pussy, because women like drugs too, and the successful drug dealers had money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:56 PM
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You’re talking about couples at the grocery store. Chad ain’t buying groceries with that 7 he got drunk and fucked. If you want to see women fucking out of their league you gotta go to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:07 AM
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6-9 months?! Maybe if we were in highschool or uber religious. Post highschool I never had a girl make it past the second date without at least oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:55 PM
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admitting you're dressing to be sexy is like admitting you're trying to be cool. You don't want people to think you're trying to be cool. That's not cool at all. You want people to think that you just can't help but come of as cool because you're so cool. Same with sexiness. You don't want people to think you're TRYING to be sexy. That comes off as needy. You want people to think that you're just so smoking hot you can't help but look hot because that's what you are, not something you're trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:03 AM
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nah, its ok if ugly guys glance. But hot women want uggos to know their place. Because an uggo looking for too long is sending the message "a girl like that could actually appreciate being looked at by someone like me." instead of "obviously a girl that hot will be creeped out that a troll would look too long, the rape risk is too real, since that's the only way an uggo like that could get with her" Long looks are for hot guys. they want uggos to avert their eyes like they're old time royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:00 AM
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I do acknowledge that those guys I see at the pool are, as I said,” 4 days swimming, two at the gym.” wayyy more of those guys than you think are on PEDS as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:45 AM
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Intimidating? When you can tell someone has nothing to lose, so they're willing to stab you/shoot you and risk jail over moderate transgressions. Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson is the world's strongest man and played the mountain on game of thrones. He's absolutely massive. I would not be intimidated by him whatsoever, because if that dude strikes me, I am going to get PAID. And he wouldn't throw away his money and acting career just to beat me up. The crazy homeless dude on the street who is clearly h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:58 PM
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oh, the women watch so they can feel superior and stoic in comparison to those hot mess drama queens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:07 AM
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Everyone knows the real reason to go on those shows isn't to outright win. You want to one of the first two runnerups so you have a solid shot at being chosen to be the bachelorette.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:40 AM
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Everyone who shows interest in fucking a man is an option, whether they did the approaching or not. The value of the option is completely independent of who did the approach. Its just when women do approach they tend to approach hot guys who have lots of options. If a drop down gorgeous girl who is hotter than any girl a guy has ever been with before by a mile approaches that guy, there's a good chance he'll try to lock it down. That just almost never happens because girls that hot don't put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:15 PM
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Nope. In my experience libido is both malleable and not just guys wanting it more than girls. I’ve been in fuck buddy situations and relationships where I’ve been the high libido one and others where I was low libido. The controlling factor seems to be which of us is the hotter, more in demand one. The girls who weren’t as good looking as me and couldn’t get me to commit would fuck me 24/7 whenever I wanted, and I found myself not wanting to fuck them much at all over time, while they still begg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:03 PM
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If you see some kid with a backpack that keeps bouncing around between groups of people that’s probably him. It really depends on the festival but usually you just meet some new people, smoke a bowl with them and if they’re chilling doing other stuff you can ask where they got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:04 AM
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It’s been super easy and fun every festival I ever went to. But you’re right, the type of dudes who are super paranoid about rape claims are unlikely to be the ones relaxing having a good time exchanging nude massages in their tent at the festival. Getting accused of rape is more of a thing for the creepy dudes that are treating festivals like hunting grounds and looking for the girl that is half unconscious or tripping so hard she doesn’t even know what dimension she’s in. The dudes that are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:57 PM
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It's completely normal to have a large group of hedonistic, free spirited, sex positive, mixed gendered friends you party with every weekend and still be an Incel. possible? absolutely. completely normal? no way. If you can't get laid at a festival with a mixed gender group of peers and everyone's rolling, you've gotta be a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:55 PM
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Wouldn't it be better the other way around, where a crying man also got equal support? No. We can't have a society where everyone is crying frequently. We could lighten up on the men a bit, but a society of criers and victims isn't going to be successful. You need some stoic winners who shun the lure of victimhood and pull the cart of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:06 PM
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I was always VERY VERY interested in avoiding pregnancy and the child support with it. But sex with a condom on is just terrible. I'd rather just take turns with oral than have sex with a condom on. I only have sex with condoms on with new partners to establish a history of having sex until I knew I could trust them and that they were on the pill or an IUD and responsible about taking it, and would probably get an abortion if I did knock them up. If they weren't on birth control, we probably wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:02 AM
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And since we are mainly focused on attacking men, and not equality at all, we should call it what it is, and that’s a female supremacy movement, not feminism. Feminists have no interest in across the board equality. They just want access to male rewards while retaining female rewards and relieving themselves of any female burdens without taking on any male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:16 PM
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I wonder what girls he’s trying to pursue. Girls? He isn't pursuing girls, he's pursuing excuses. Yeah 80/20 is real, but if you asked this dude what girls are worth pursuing, he'd probably pretend that he's only sexually attracted to the absolute hottest girls. Since if he's too scared and unconfident to approach women, he can just pretend he just has really high standards so he didn't want to approach most of them anyway. And the few that would meet his pretend high standards he can say that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:28 PM
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73% of adults over 20 in America are overweight, with 42% being obese. It ain't that hard to get in the top 20% if you can back away from the feeding trough for a few mins. There's some bodybuilders in that overweight category, but they're not so common as to throw the numbers off that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:24 PM
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That’s quite the Madonna/whore complex you have op. I used to jerk off thinking about the sexy shit my wife does all the time before we got married. Still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:13 AM
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It is not inconsistent to argue that biologically the female brain matures quicker, while men are given more social responsibilities at an earlier age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:45 AM
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all my friends know about this stuff. most of us are married and would never mention or admit such things to our wives, it just makes you sound like you're bitter or an incel if you do. there's no benefits from admitting it to women. My social circle is centered mostly around sports and outings, or playdates for our kids, or traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:34 PM
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so you only know what its like being successful. Like a hitter who goes up to bat, hits a homerun his very first time, and thinks "hey, hitting is easy and fun!" Meanwhile there's plenty of dudes who have to go to bat hundreds of times to get a few hits. strikeouts suck and are exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:27 PM
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Too many scared, socially awkward pussies. Back in the day they might've been able to land a wife since they have jobs, and it used to be women weren't even allowed to have their own bank accounts. Now these dudes actually have to have social skills and be somewhat masculine, and they just aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:58 AM
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The women in here who actually walk in heels are laughing at men who voluntarily want to change to make this a norm for men. I don't know if you've ever walked with significant lifts in or those elevator shoes. I'm 6'0 and tried some 3 inch elevator shoes to get to 6'3. Guess what, they hurt. they're wildly uncomfortable. I definitely got some more looks of attraction from women, but like the top comment says, once it becomes normal for shorties to do it, everyone under 6'6 will have to use them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:47 AM
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Well the nice thing is that with the timing of her fellowship, residency, and pandemic, she will only have 3 years left until pslf kicks in, so her payments on loans only suck for a very short period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:57 AM
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yeah, my wife only made about 75k last year in her pulmonary fellowship. She didn't bitch too much about it because now that she's finished, she's making 400k plus bonus which can range from 25k up to another 100. I doubt the RNs and plumbers have that kind of salary jump coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:39 AM
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If you read the link, they are separated by age!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:02 PM
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unemployment rate and workforce participation rate are wildly different numbers. It the UE rate is only for people who actively want a job but cant get one. A stay at home spouse isn't included in the UE number. the workforce participation rate is the rate of people who are over legal working age having jobs. So it includes groups like 17 and 18 year olds who might in high school, college kids, and retirees. He's right that the Labor force participation rate is 60 percent, while UE is just under…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:35 PM
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Honestly. I think I could be as sexually active as my partner if she was ok being the initiator and planning it out. that's going to breed a ton of resentment from any sexual partner you have. especially women who are used to fucking whenever they want, and their partner is the one initiating it and making them feel desired while they put in very little effort. Your offer is basically the equivalent of telling a pizza place you're not really into pizza, but you'll eat it if they make it for you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:11 AM
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Lots of Americans are fucking. Just because you're not and it doesn't seem like those in your circle are, doesn't mean there aren't groups of people going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:08 PM
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You probably shouldn't do this to your child's mother if you want well adjusted kids. and if you're not having kids, why bother getting married in the first place? kids and family along with a healthy dose of social pressure is whats supposed to keep the family together. Rich man isn't supposed to leave the mother of his children for a younger model, at most he's just supposed to have a young mistress on the side that he keeps as secret as possible, and everyone who knows just pretends its not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:54 PM
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someone to listen to them yap, yap, yap all day and validate their every little emotion. Someone to fix everything and lift all the heavy stuff. Someone to keep them company and attend social functions with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:30 AM
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Are you sure this didn’t bother you just because you’re kind of fat and out of shape yourself, judging by your avatar?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:58 AM
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did you go around and ask everyone if they were on juice, or did you just assume they were on steroids because they were bigger and stronger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:29 AM
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I wouldn't say necessarily "opposite" advice. More like two groups of people talking past one another. One person says "looks don't matter" but what they really mean is they want to emphasize personality and social skills, and of course a person has to be decently good looking in the first place to be considered. Meanwhile the "opposing" person may say "looks is ALL that matters" when they really mean if you're super hot you can get away with a lot of stuff, especially if you're hitting on an av…
/r/seduction19/06/21 11:57 PM
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I’m the guy you meant to insult since you were so in your feelings you had to result to insults. Pretty sure it’s not ok to rape and kill women in parking lots. Or anyone for that matter. That’s why it’s a crime.
/r/seduction16/06/21 08:49 PM
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Nah if men don’t approach nothing happens. You can’t just say “I release you” like Michael Scott declaring bankruptcy. If women want to release men from the burden of approaching, women will have to start doing a TON more approaching.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:31 AM
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For being the sex that does all the work in approaching. You’re welcome.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:01 AM
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No medal, but a little respect and less judgmental attitude would be nice. It’s irrelevant to me now since I’m married and just follow the sub for the conversation.
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:48 AM
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Yeah, as a woman you have that privilege of being able to judge everything as creepy or not, and just choosing to let everyone come to you if they're interested. If men acted like women in that regard, no one would ever approach anyone and the species would've died out ages ago. That's the thing about being a man. We don't have the privilege of just waiting around for people to come to us. We have to take risks without knowing if rejection is coming or if someone will label you creepy for no rea…
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:53 PM
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My wife makes 400k per year as a doctor. I make 50-70k per year as a lawyer. How does my wife see me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:48 PM
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My dad was still bitter my mom was no longer cooking for him after they split up. If he was paying alimony, I feel where he's coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:28 PM
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I don't feel burdened by the protector/provider rule. But I do expect proper compensation and rewards for these duties. My objection is when women want to shed the duties and responsibilities of their traditional gender roles, while taking the rewards of the male gender roles, without also taking on the duties and responsibilities of the male role and shedding the female rewards. Women want all the rewards of both genders with none of the responsibilities. Want me to be big bad provider/protecto…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:24 PM
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It really depends who you are. I'm in the tail end of my 30s now and married, but i caught the tail end of the dating apps. Tinder existed for like a year before I met my wife. Dating apps and tinder especially made getting laid easy as fuck for me. I'd never had it easier, it was so much quicker than the going out to bars, dancing, and spitting game until I took a girl home. Tinder was practically ubereats for sex. If the app had existed when I was in college, I would've tripled or quadrupled t…
/r/seduction13/06/21 05:18 PM
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of course they do. we are merely talking about health facts and statistics and the fact of the matter is that women's pregnancies become higher risk after the age of 35 with a significantly higher risk of birth defects, and the same effect in men is significantly, significantly less pronounced, though some bitter women try to equivocate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:00 PM
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no, because at some point all those other men were also the "one special of many." Its just your turn. The part where you feel special is the selection process, when you're being selected, you're not "beating out" those others. They had her too. They've fucked her. some probably even dumped her and she still pines for them. You're thinking of being picked as being the sole winner of a lottery, where the other men she's been with are the contestants. No. that's not the winning condition. Being se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:27 PM
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its not a rule, but basically if the woman finds me so hot that she has to approach me because she won't let the opportunity pass her by, its almost a certainty we are going to fuck if I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:12 AM
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That's dumb. All an approach is, is introducing yourself, making a bit of conversation, and possibly flirting or indicating non-platonic interest. It's not an invitation to fuck Nah, anytime a woman has approached and opened me, I knew sex was pretty much guaranteed if I wanted it. There has never been a time where a woman approached me, I found them hot, and we didn't have sex. Women approach so rarely, and it takes so much for them to screw up the courage to do so, that its basically a guarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:09 AM
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I can see the logic a bit. Usually when women choose to approach, in the rare case they do, they go for the hawt fuckboi that is wayyyyy out of their league who would usually not show her the time of the day, but since she's making it so easy for him, sure he'll notch her on his belt. Very few women do enough approaches to actually calibrate their relationship market value appropriately and differentiate it from their sexual market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:27 PM
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Ahhh the George Costanza approach. Insidious like a "Bymennen" commercial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:29 PM
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Nah if you ignore they just bitch and moan more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:38 AM
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But when the time comes to support a woman emotionally, then these same men who have benefitted lose interest and don't listen to her. Or they pretend to be oblivious to the problem until it goes away. lol what? are you serious? men have to listen to women's crying and moaning all. the. damn. time. like its not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:18 PM
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Your boyfriend at least probably has the sense to calibrate and ration his emotional openness. I've cried in front of my wife too. but that was years into the relationship, when i had already built up a strong rapport and background of being stoic. If you have some sort of crying fit in the first month of seeing a new woman, or have them almost as often as she has hers, her pussy's going to be drier than the Sahara.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:15 PM
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friends do more than just whine and bitch about their problems to their friends. that's probably the smallest part of my friendships with my friends. With my friends we play sports together, fish, drink beer, video and board games, help each other with manual labor. all sorts of stuff. Those "friendships" where a guy is an emotional tampon for a girl, that's all there is to the relationship, is the whining and bitching about problems. no sex, no sports fun or shared activities that both enjoy. j…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:06 AM
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saying you don't want to fuck a crazy bitch is different from "turned down sex from SEVERAL HOT but loathsome women" men aren't getting approached for sex by several hot women unless they're hot or rich themselves. sorry. this dude is pretending that hot crazy women are constantly trying to fuck him and he's shooting them down. bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:24 PM
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I’ve always found the quality of the blowjob to be directly correlated to how sexually attracted and into you the person giving it is. I’ve had maybe 2 girls who were both super hot and great at head while the rest were average at best, while the most over the top great blowjobs came from the below average to average chicks who were head over heels for me and trying to win me over through head game. But then I talk to their future below average to average boyfriends down the road and that boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:43 PM
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You gotta fuck them to find out. How do you know if a crazy hot chick is bad in bed before you fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:32 PM
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You said “I’ve turned down sex from SEVERAL hot but loathsome women” I rightfully called bullshit. But now it’s clear you were talking hypothetically and don’t find yourself in the situation often where a 10/10 smoke show wants to fuck and you turn her down on personality reasons. Because if you were, like most men, you’d go ahead and smash. I agree don’t marry crazy and always bring your own glove. But just to fuck? Yeah I’ll fuck a hottie I don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:10 PM
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Yeah I’m sure there’s tons of crazy hot chicks propositioning you constantly for casual sex and you’re turning them down. I’ll fuck a crazy hot chick (at least before I was married). You just ghost them after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:05 PM
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You do to be “turning down sex from several hot women” Unless you and I have different definitions of hot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:41 PM
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of course you have. I forgot that all the men in this sub are top 1% like myself, of course. Yes. I'm sure you're shooting down the 10/10s left and right. But lets say hypothetically some other guys in this sub, who also get laid, but may not have as many choices as you or I, maybe they could still get some enjoyment of some hot new variety that they might not otherwise get?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:26 PM
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You ever have some chick that you absolutely hate but is also really physically good looking. Are you telling me if that chick sucked your dick, you wouldn't get any enjoyment out of it? While I agree that the validation of fucking chicks that are genuinely into you is part of the appeal, If you are feeling properly validated elsewhere, then the allure of banging a prostitute can be as simple as variety and physical sensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:58 PM
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I honestly am in favor of chemically sterilizing cheaters so they physically can't cheat again. of course, the losers who no one would ever cheat with always want stuff like this. If you can't fuck, you'd love to punish someone else for having more than 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:30 PM
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hot weirdos are still highly in demand, due to their hotness. you'll still be competing with dudes above your smv
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:56 PM
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well no one is going to want to have sex with the obese hambeasts from FDS, that's not a libido thing, thats a not wanting to fuck someone who has gained 50 lbs thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:49 PM
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Why do you assume men are getting sex and emotional needs met if they're married? Have you ever seen the deadbedrooms sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:41 PM
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How old are you? Were you in college before? Your life circumstances may just be very different than they used to be. Also you might be looking at the past through some rose tinted glasses.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:29 PM
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could you link any of the weight loss/work out comments? Even just 3 would prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:10 PM
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lol none of that is talked about in the weekly check in posts. maybe skin care, that's about it. but especially not working out, since its mostly cows over there. its all just man hate, no self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:03 PM
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Oh yeah its only Amish country. That's why the majority of our most prominent politicians in America are married, even if only to people where the marriage is clearly strategic (bill and hillary come to mind)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:51 PM
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I think when he said "they don't have to work" he wasn't talking just about gainful employment. He means the self improvement rp talks about. I don't see too many threads over in the fds sub about how to do makeup well, how to dress better, working out, or any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:49 PM
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They constantly have threads about how much they HATE sex workers though, unless its the forced human trafficking kind which they feel sorry for. From what I can tell their main objection is that the sex workers are basically scabs ruining the pussy cartel and that it forces them to have to bring something to the table in a relationship other than their oh so sacred vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:45 PM
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Nah that’s just how they package it on the outside. Body acceptance, fat acceptance, trans acceptance, they always are just a road to their ultimate goal which is “if you ACTUALLY accepted these people, you’d find them attractive and fuck them”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:06 PM
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It’s a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:00 PM
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The divisions would be "anorexic, skinny bitch, thin, petite, athletic, and a few extra curves" with 70% of the fighters fighting in the last division.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:22 PM
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Makes them more think gooder too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:20 PM
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It might be popular on the internet, but not really that popular in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:54 PM
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No one here is a Sith lord. There are no absolutes, obviously. Everyone in here is talking about general trends. Do women get rejected sometimes? of course they do. Is it anywhere as often as most men do? of course not. If I said "men are taller than women" would you come in here with "nuh uh some women are 6'0 while there are men that are 5'2!" well no duh. We are talking about trends here. We are talking about generally predictive characteristics of society, not immutable laws of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:43 AM
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Herbivore men don't "control their thirst." They realize they will never be able to compete in the market so they don't even bother in the first place. That is completely different from people that can compete abstaining to raise market prices. The Japanese men knew they were unable to succeed even if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:51 PM
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Screwing multiple chicks makes you promiscuous which is the definition of thirsty Nah, you're confused about what thirsty is. Thirsty is the desire that goes unquenched. If you're fucking, you ain't thirsty, because you're getting your drink. Thirsty dudes are those sad sacks that are desparate for sex, and will simp on all levels to get it, but still never, or rarely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:26 PM
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Prisoner's Dilemma makes this impossible. Any sufficient control of male thirst will results in opportunistic men crossing the picket line to quench their thirst at the expense of their brethren. The only feasible way to address it would be some society wide anti-obesity campaign to increase the supply of fuckable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:21 PM
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legalize actual prostitution. The cam sites, strip clubs, only fans will be gutted of a huge chunk of their revenue since men can cut straight to the chase and purchase the actual goods, not just some electronic tease. If they want to be prostitutes, have them be actual prostitutes, not this half assed e-ho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:55 AM
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, if an ugly girl like truly repulsive would hit on men aggressively they would also find it creepy, it is not a gender based feeling imo. Nah, that's happened to me a few times. I didn't find it creepy, because of course I know they'd want to sleep with me, that's a given, I'm way better looking than them. But while I didn't find it creepy, I did find it insulting. The fact that they thought it was within the realm of possibility that they could land me, and I wasn't like fall down drunk or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 12:01 PM
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I'm amazed the women in here are actually admitting how physically weak they are in comparison men. Usually I have to fight tooth and nail to get women to admit that no, Ronda Rousey would not be able to do well in the same weight class in men's MMA and that men aren't just a little stronger than the bulk of most women, but quite a bit stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:55 AM
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you left out the possibility of people getting superfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:31 PM
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Huh. I always added the girls to my rotation for a little bit unless they were just some slump buster or something. I’ve never been ghosted though. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:46 PM
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Usually I’ve found womens libido to be correlated with how much hotter their sexual partner is than them. When I’ve been with chicks I was way hotter than, those chicks had insatiable libidos and wanted to fuck all the time. But I was friends with some of their future boyfriends or even husbands and they’d take me aside and ask me how I dealt with so and so’s “low libido.” And this does both ways. The couple of women I fucked who were insanely hotter than me seemed to lose interest in sex after …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:48 PM
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Man, are there really MEN who get ghosted after sex? I’ve only ever been ghosted by women who I haven’t slept with. Usually after sex they never leave me the fuck alone pushing for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:34 PM
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Dick ain’t unionized! Pussy is a cartel, dick is cutthroat capitalism. The simp dying of thirst ain’t ruining your market, the chad monopolist who is fucking everything above a 4 is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:26 PM
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The enormous boost to libido while you're on high doses of test or some of the others though...man it'll have you doing questionable things with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:11 PM
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If we could just get poor people to accept their shanty's and position in life, that would cure all this unrest over income equality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:10 PM
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performance enhancing drugs. mainly steroids. though others qualify
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:05 PM
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I'm saying the dude was alright, and I could have obtained it if I did what he told me he wanted, but I didn't want to. This was after he dumped you, right? sure you could have gotten him back..... Just like I could've gone to the NFL, I just decided the risk of brain injury was too much. I'm going to take a wild guess here, let me know how far off I am. Was one of the things he wanted you to change was your body? as in lose weight/get more fit? And did you say no, because even though you totall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 07:02 PM
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Its all push pull. You put in too much effort, you come off as a doormat, they take you for granted, and they treat you like the hired help and lose all attraction. Put in too little effort, you come off as a lazy piece of shit who doesn't care about her. The trick is of course is finding ways to to make the effortful appear effortless, so its like their life is magically falling into place, but you're not seen as some slave. And alternate your effort to keep things from getting dry or stale. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:55 PM
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Eh. The only time a dude ever dumped me for another girl, he told me exactly what he wanted/didn't like that I did, and yeah I was upset over being dumped/tried to argue it, but I could have met his requests, I just.... Refused to. "I thought those grapes were ripe, but I see now they are quite sour.” said the fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:49 PM
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the dudes like that are usually so stiff and rigid, with a skewed perception and think if they just act like the manliest manly man that it'll totally get every girl hot for them. They don't wear cologne, because its too close to perfume, and perfume is for girls. Same with moisturizer, hair conditioner, using a nail file, shaving/trimming hair other than their facial hair, etc. They pile it all on the "metrosexual, practically gay" label. These same guys refuse to dance at bars or clubs, can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:22 PM
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Anyone can get a great body, which would put you ahead of the majority of the population which is obese. You might never end up being a model, but you can get good enough to pull more than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:33 PM
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Its usually miscalibration and overdoing it on the "cocky" and underdoing the "funny" because they're not witty enough to think of something funny so they just do a bunch of insults. Also the amount of cocky that is acceptable has to be aligned with your appearance a bit too, an ugly dude will just seem like a deluded tryhard if he tries to be too cocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:31 PM
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The redpill is a system that describes how things work. I am then permitted to make my own value judgments about that system and the actors within it. Knowing how something works, and condoning it, are two separate issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:47 PM
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So you're trying to tell me you aren't currently fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:26 PM
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Again “simple” and “easy” are not the same. I understand it’s difficult. And at no time did I say you had to go inpatient treatment. That’s obviously not an option for most fat people. But it really is as simple as eat less move more. That can be very difficult for people to do, but it is simple as that. And yes of course I know all about BED. Because I’ve suffered from it. I channeled those issues around eating into bodybuilding and now I’m sexy as fuck instead of a fat ass. It was far from eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:16 PM
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Really? Because I got 51.3 million results when I googled "binge eating disorder treatment near me" and the whole front page was recommendations for counselors. But in reality, the treatment for BED ends up being a bunch of emotional talking to get the person to finally take some agency in their life and stop eating so much. Its just a long road to get fat people there, and they're not known for their persistence and work ethics. And they might get prescribed something like Paxil to help lose we…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:04 PM
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Oh, sorry I didn't specify. I'm hot. I'm just saying what hot guys like generally. Women seem to be attracted to physically attractive men, so I figured clueing them in would be helpful. They can't win me over specifically, I'm married now, but I imagine what works on me would work on men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:49 PM
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Because they could become someone I'm sexually interested in if they put the fork down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:24 PM
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I don't like fat people at all, period. I just don't post about fat men because I'm not sexually interested in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:39 PM
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100% and I think most would agree with me and it’s not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:37 AM
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OH? people say they love pasta, but they don't stick their dick in it? Curious. Checkmate, atheists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:00 PM
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and then people latch on to the fact that you said "not attracted to" to say "hos aren't attracted to johns either" Its not just attraction. Its a complete deviation from your sexual orientation. That is different, no matter how much mental midgets go "drrr how so?? lack of attraction is lack of attraction?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:58 PM
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There's a big fucking difference between not being attracted to someone, and them not even being a subset of your sexual orientation. There are degrees of this. Fucking someone ugly, fat or old isn't as bad for a straight person as fucking someone of a sex their sexual orientation doesn't orient towards, but that's not as bad as fucking an animal or a child I suppose. If there weren't degrees of it, then why do so many whores say "straight only" or hell "no african americans" so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:56 PM
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the guy youre responding to has a very very concerning comment history, I know people throw around the *cel word as an insult, but this guy....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:59 PM
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no one is trying to say anything universal. everyone is just talking about the general trends they've observed and others may have observed as well. No on in here is a sith lord talking in absolutes. when someone says "all women" there's an implied "in my experience." and most peoples experiences are hardly unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:31 PM
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Nah man, there's sexy women who've got simps for life despite spending all their free time whining about their depression on instagram. People will put up with a downer for a long, long, long time if they got a nice body and great tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:21 PM
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You don't have to participate in every thread. They're not all for you. Some people might find it interesting and want to talk about it. They're might be a few unfuckable women who read a few posts, maybe get a little self reflection going, and change their lives. Or its just interesting to some people to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:14 PM
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They just seem happier because no one wants to be around a fat ugly person who isn't going to be nice and pleasant and happy to be around. Pretty people can have problems or be upset and have people still want to be around them, because they're hot. So they will more freely express their emotions. But if you're fat and ugly and start being a downer, everyone peaces out immediately, so you gotta hide that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:01 PM
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oh for sure, but usually we talk about the low value women we'd still fuck, and the talk is just criticizing their behaviors and attitudes. Women who's value is so low that we don't even want to fuck them might as well not exist for the purposes of the men in this subreddit. Maybe that is what this thread could be about. The unfuckables.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:42 PM
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I think that needs to come with a little give and take from the other side too. Like as a man, you would be a bit more careful around a dude who is way bigger than you and could beat you into a pulp, so you make sure not to cross a line with some of the shit you say. Some women abuse the "don't hit women thing" by being egregious line crossers saying incredibly inflammatory over the line shit because they know they're protected by the double standard. The social contract needs to include showing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:13 PM
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Oh come on. That’s like saying if you buy takeout, you’re a loser because you’re not getting someone to make you a home cooked meal from scratch. Plenty of dudes can pick up a chick to blow them, but don’t want to go through the effort of flirting and going on tinder or to a club for a maybe. Whores are on demand easy access. Before I was married, could i pickup a girl to blow me pretty easily? Sure. But not on demand with a brand new girl at 2 pm on a weekday with zero introduction or former me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:07 PM
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Hey man I’m married I don’t need your mom to suck me off. I’m just trying to plead a case for sanity and reality. But by all means try and John shame. Besides, it’s not about “needing to pay for sex” as if everyone fucking whores is some inception. Some people just want to use a commodity without jumping through a bunch of hoops. Like if you’re hungry and want a burger and a milkshake there’s plenty of places you can go pick up a meal, no muss no fuss. You give them cash they give you your burge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:10 PM
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This is false. Quit acting like you’re an expert just because your mom sucked cock for a living. Even if it is voluntary, it’s still a dangerous job. A pimp can provide protection. Also not everyone is cut out to manage a business. Some whores are only good at whoring and need someone else to handle setting up the appointments and all that shit. As long as you’re not being forced to do it and you can say no, it’s voluntary. Pimp or not is irrelevant. You’re basically saying everyone is a slave t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:45 PM
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All of your links I have read before and they all conflate voluntary sex work with sex trafficking. It’s dishonest and done intentionally. Having a pimp shouldn’t mean you’re being trafficked either, unless it’s involuntary. No one thinks a hooker is thrilled to be sucking some dudes dick. Just like i know my waiter isn’t thrilled to bring me a refill on my drink. It’s a job, work sucks for most people. I never said it was “egalitarian and noble” i’d day it’s more like working retail. Not much f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:24 PM
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I can't speak for every region in the world, but in the US. Most of the prostitutes are trafficked. This is 100% false. https://reason.com/2019/05/15/the-sex-trafficking-panic/ Prove your claim. The opposite of what you said is true. If you can find an independent sex worker that entered into the business of her own free will, and is happy doing it. Then it's no one's business but the individuals involved. Those kind of sex workers are a rarity to find. Not rare at all. They're actually the majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:35 PM
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What I don't get is these sex workers and supposedly sex positive feminists who still want to shame and fuck over Johns. They're the ones who want to decriminalize prostitution, while still making it a serious crime to solicit prostitution. And they want to remove the stigma of selling sex while still having it there for those who buy it. It's pathetic. And the allegations of "human trafficking" really don't hold up to statistical analysis, (the vast majority of sex work is consensual). But its …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:33 PM
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The irony of the person who posts in "antikink" calling anyone else boring. Your entire life history seems to be an intense rage at the idea of men having sex without your personal stamp of approval. People are having hot, consensual sex out there, and there's nothing you can do about it. Your opinion is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:10 PM
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Quit trying to rob women of all personal accountability for their own choices. It's either voluntary, or not. John's shouldn't have to know a sex worker's entire life story to make a decision about whether paying her for sex is ok or not. If the answer is yes, you're in the moral clear, period. I'd say over half the population wouldn't go to work either if they didn't need the money. And their bosses prioritize their employees completing their tasks over their "mental/physical/emotional wellbein…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:49 PM
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That's why there's such an effort to lump all buyers of sex as indulging in human trafficking. Its under a pretense of protecting women, but what they really want is to shame all johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:39 AM
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" You can spend the entire night with her" Do I have to? I'd prefer if she just gtfo after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:17 PM
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That’s a mentally ill likesdick. I don’t want to stigmatize mental illness either though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:38 AM
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Nah liking pussy or not is irrelevant. That just ain’t how it works. Women can play around with girls and if ain’t no thing. And a fair amount of the gay men I know have fucked around with a few women. You can experiment with pussy. You can have a pussy phase. But liking dick, that’s locked in. Only gay dudes and straight women play around with dick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:55 AM
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Why would you say that? It's not like Im saying there's anything wrong with dudes fucking dudes or chicks fucking chicks. I'm totally ok with both. I"m just saying how society treats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:54 PM
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Yup, but don't think of him as gay. He's a "likes dick." the amount of pussy you smash is irrelevant to whether you're a "likes dick" or a "doesn't like dick"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:49 PM
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You're not bi or straight. You're a "likes dick." liking dick doesn't mean you don't like pussy, it's just not the tipping point of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:56 PM
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There are only two sexual orientations. "likes dick" and "doesn't like dick" Straight woman can fool around with girls, and still be a likes dick. but lesbians aren't gonna fuck dudes. and dudes that like dick are gay, regardless of how many chicks they may have fucked. You either like dick or you don't. That's the tipping point of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:28 PM
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I don't doubt your own experience here, there are no iron clad rules. Just speaking in general about the actual realities of the situation, and I have statistics to back it up if you wish. "Every interaction I had with the cops in my decade long marriage showed me that they will not arrest unless they saw it with their own eyes" You have seen nowhere near the number of cases I have, and I promise you that's not the case, and they witness personally very few of the overall cases they bring in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:22 PM
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They usually have finally fought back against their abuser and he calls the cops, acts like a total victim like they all do, she spends a night or 2 in jail because he called, not her lol, no. In all my years practicing in criminal defense, that hasnt been my experience at all. they don't defer to the caller. More likely they just take the man either way. They will bend over BACKWARDS to keep from arresting a woman. Women are extremely privileged when it comes to the criminal justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:42 PM
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In my idea world, I have a harem of beautiful women that give me blowjobs on demand. I am married and love my wife, and we have a good situation setup and a child on the way. So if by settling, you mean is she the best I can get? Yes. However, I don't let a fantasy life that never was ruin my current happiness and romantic attraction. I was never "alpha widowed" pumped and dumped by some chick that was way hotter than I could ever get, which could lead to unrealistic expectations in partners. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:42 AM
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"because most normal men are intimidated by intelligent women." Lol, this is ridiculously false. No one is intimidated by intelligent women. Now we won't bend over backwards for you because you're smart. And we're not going to put up with you telling us what to do all the damn time. But no one is "intimidated" Will we prefer hot and kind women over some "intelligent" woman who thinks she's always right so condescends to you all the time? Don't get me wrong. I like smart. My wife is a doctor. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:41 PM
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This is the wrong question to see if 80/20 is generally true or not. Instead it should be "Women: is the last guy you fucked, or the guy you're currently fucking, but you're not in a relationship with for...reasons...or that guy you think you're a couple with but its "complicated" Is that guy in the top 20% of men looks wise?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:43 PM
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how long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:38 PM
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lol seriously, this dude hasn't done much of a variety of drugs if he thinks they're all about fucking. Achieving an erection is a crap shoot on a head full of acid, and actually having the desire to use it is a whole other ballgame. Not every drug is like meth where people just want to fuck like rabbits the whole time. Hell, even if we're not talking about psychedelics, there's plenty of other shit where people do drugs just because the drugs themselves are pleasurable as hell. I don't need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:44 PM
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Yes but those guys are a minority. The supply of hog futures well outstrips the demand. Way more of the population is obese than the amount of people who actually find the obese desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:26 PM
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Women are far more emotionally insecure than they are financially insecure. Tons of women need a boyfriend because they’re scared to be on their own regardless of financial situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:34 AM
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If you’re not fat, it’s probably not too hard to load up a full roster of dick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:34 AM
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Nah this depends on the popularity of the guy. A dude who can swing a whole harem is cool with fuck buddies. Same with a dude with a sexual history 3 miles long. But adude who isn’t popular with women would love multiple fuck buddies too but can’t make it happen, and he figures might as well be exclusive then, since if we are open or just fuck buddies there’ll be 100 penises available to her immediately to compete with, while even if he has the moral on to go for more than one, can’t actually ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:07 PM
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I really think there's two different types of settling, and people like to conflate the two and end up arguing against both behaviors. The first type of settling is settling for some dude you have no attraction to because he's a safe choice and there are solid benefits for dating, but really no romance. Don't do that. The second is the feeling of "settling" because your self concept is so warped by the hawt guys you've fucked but could never lock down, That when you do finally do get a guy that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:27 PM
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Ah, that is what's going on. Totally different game over in Russia. Y'all can just major in law right out of high school instead of having to do an undergrad before you can go to law school. Also in America, public defenders only handle criminal cases and work for the government, most jurisdictons don't allow them to take other cases outside of that, but I am aware of exceptions. Also in my jurisdiction, and most with the death penalty in America, it takes special certification with the state ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:05 PM
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I've practiced for a few years as a criminal defense attorney, just a note kids: NEVER hire the lawyer who practices kitchen sink law (meaning we take anything that walks in the front door) for your murder case. Though that rarely comes up, since most solos who don't specialize aren't death penalty qualified, so its an ethical breach for them to take murder cases. Nothing wrong with multifield solos, I've done that practice myself as well. But if its a murder you need a criminal defense speciali…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:43 PM
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I'm a married dude now, most of my friends are married as well. as to successful, most are married. before they got married they probably had somewhere between a dozen and two dozen sexual partners. So fairly successful, but not like over the top successful. As to unsuccessful friends, their main issues were a mixture of being fat, ugly, not being in any social activities where they could meet women. The majority were open to change and eventually found a girlfriend by changing up their social a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:43 PM
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I never said it wasn’t a big number. What I’m saying is the number of poor people who DONT commit crime is an even more massive number, so having a poor whore mom doesn’t automatically make you a criminal. Most people aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:46 PM
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It really isn’t possible. The prison population is only 1% of the entire US population. Poor people make up way more than 1% of the country
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:18 AM
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I already knew poor people were more likely to commit crime and get longer sentences. But still the vast majority of poor people aren’t criminals. So you’re not actually sourcing the correct argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:17 PM
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Source that over 50% of all poor people commit crime? And I’m not saying that their kids won’t also be poor. Being poor is fine as long as you don’t take money from others or commit crime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:40 PM
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While most criminals are poor people, most poor people aren’t criminals. Just because moms a whore who makes bad decisions doesn’t mean you’re doomed to the same. Failing to punish bad behavior creates moral hazard. Bailing out Wall Street just led to degenerates making riskier bets knowing they always had the government to bail them out. Having the government bail out whore street does the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:38 PM
1

I don’t believe women have the primary responsibility for children at all. I just believe that women are the only ones in control of the fetus in their body. Post conception, only one person has any actual decision making power in that situation. You can’t just kidnap a woman you knock up and forcefully make her abort. All you can do is tell her your decision as to whether you want a child or not, and then she makes her decision. All I want is for her to have to live with the full consequences o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:05 PM
1

Well, if you're a woman, and a man says he won't help raise that child, then you gotta take that at face value. Don't just let him nut in your fertile womb and hope that he secretly does want kids despite claiming not to. Why would you want to have a child with a man who won't even stick his neck out that tiny little bit? Because a kid is a way way bigger commitment than even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:56 PM
1

If they told the woman when she got pregnant in no uncertain terms that he refused to be a father while the child was abortable, nothing. But if he was like "yeah, go ahead have that baby, I'll be there for you" and then bounces, then lock his ass up too if they're not supporting the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:52 PM
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falling on a hard cock and falling on hard times are not the same thing at all. Here's a good indicator as to whether you can afford a kid or not: do you have a willing partner to help raise that kid? are you middle class socioeconomically or above? If the answer to both is no, then you can't afford a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:47 PM
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Don’t have kids you can’t afford. The only barbaric person is the woman fucking deadbeats with no thought of how to care for her children in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:36 PM
5

In the short term, yes it costs the taxpayer money. Until society pushes back and shames and ostracizes these whores who cheat on their mates appropriately, and other women see how badly they have it and decide “damn, being a whore is more trouble than it’s worth, I don’t want to end up like that chick so I won’t cheat on my mate” and then long term adultery rates reduce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:35 PM
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No contradiction, if someone is going to take my tax dollars because they’re a moron who fucks deadbeats I want them appropriately punished first. No contradiction. How do we teach women to stop fucking deadbeats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:33 PM
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I'm fine with that. It's not about just my money. I just want to make sure that the people involved learn their lessons and there is a strong deterrent to avoid that behavior in the future. Right now the mom gets the payout without experiencing the full consequences of her action. Maybe a few months in county will teach mom to focus more on loyalty and dependability in her next mate, instead of just the next hawt guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:33 PM
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I'd rather men get to veto births, than abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:21 PM
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I'm only down with financial abortion if I can abort as a taxpayer as well. I ain't picking up the tab for some woman fucking a deadbeat. Cut the handouts and if for some reason they can't provide for the child, charge them criminally for child neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:20 PM
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I don't think anyone ever said men weren't shallow. All we said is men are more honest about their shallowness than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:21 PM
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Lol “angry sexually repressed age” nice ad hom. I’m happily married thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:21 AM
1

I know what etiquette is. I’m saying there wasn’t a higher level of it back then either. How old are you that you think that was the case? You used to be able to really bully the shit out of people way harsher back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:07 AM
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People didn’t have a higher expectation of respect either, good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:01 AM
1

People weren’t more respectful towards each other in the 50s. They just didn’t have anonymous internet places to post to be mean to each other. There was more crime, more violence, more hate back then. That’s supported by facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:56 AM
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Please elaborate then. Though I knew you were going to say I misunderstood no matter what I said or how accurately I nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:26 AM
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People were more authentic in their interactions (they weren’t) and dressed better (they didn’t, you just weren’t around to see how most people dressed outside of photos)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:15 AM
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No really people can both understand you and mock you. It’s very possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:10 AM
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I can both understand what you meant, and mock you for being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:00 AM
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Yes I understand you thought your moms friends were hot in that photo. The overall majority of people were not better in any way. Maybe fewer fatties, that’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:25 PM
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Oh yeah, the majority of people had GREAT social graces back in the 50s. Like they were so polite, they wouldn't even let black people eat at the counter and they had to come in the back way if they were allowed in at all. Super duper great social graces. I think you might have fallen for the golden ages fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:40 PM
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It doesn't, what really happens is that it takes the more desirable partner less time to move on than the less desirable one, and part of their ability to move on is based on whether they choose to engage in the sexual market, or the relationship market. Women generally have a higher sexual market value than men, while men's strength lies in the relationship market just due to supply and demand. So if after a breakup, both parties decide they just want to be single and play around a bit, the par…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 02:34 PM
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No I totally understand you, I just disagree. Which is one of my pet peeves. When someone disagrees with you, it doesn’t mean they misunderstood you. I have a minor in women’s studies before I went to law school. I totally, completely understand the whole framework you’re trying to womansplain to me. I’m saying your premise that men historically and currently occupied the majority of high places doesn’t support yours and feminisms conclusion that we live in a system of patriarchy/privilege where…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:42 AM
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Men as a group have not indisputably occupied the highest rungs of society. This is apex fallacy like I said. Only a few choice men have occupied those spots. The vast majority of men occupied the space under the glass floor. Women have been privileged and protected from the cruel harshness of the absolute bottom of society. Men aren’t being “overestimated” by refusing them social support. Instead men are disposable and we don’t help men because we don’t see any value in men that don’t work, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:39 PM
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Because they statistically commit more violent crimes, to answer your question, but I think there’s plenty to be said about how social norms contribute to that situation and push men toward circumstances in which they resort to crime. An argument could be made that men generally have less support socially and when they run into mental illness or bad financial circumstances, they have fewer options to turn toward. Hence, criminal activity is one of the only ways out that they can see. All of what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:40 PM
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apex fallacy, and glass floor as well as glass ceiling. If men are so "privileged" why do they make up 90 percent of the prison population despite only being 48 percent of the general population? We look to a far less racial disparity as "proof" of racial discrimination. How is this not proof of discrimination against men? And don't give me "benevolent sexism." Benevolent sexism is just misandry, period. IF we wanted, we could just flip the entire womens studies script and call all male privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:09 AM
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Well most nonautists can tell their general looks match by just sizing up other members of their gender and and taking a look at the opposite gender and getting a generally good idea of who falls where. Only an autist would try to calculate their exact looks match. Where its useful is when trying to demonstrate what other factors besides looks come into dating and hooking up. It also tells you what group may be privileged and in what ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:40 PM
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Nope, Nope, Nope. Your method doesn't tell you your looks match, it tells you your relationship market value. change it to fucked, and it still only tells you your sexual market value. A rich as hell ugly motherfucker who has been rich his whole life may have only dated/fucked models. They are not his looksmatch. Looks, while a strong driver of both RMV and SMV won't tell you your looksmatch. Looksmatch is harder to identify than that. Looksmatch, is if you percentile ranked your appearance in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:22 PM
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So I had a whole comment punched up, then I read the study. (or at least the abstract since they dont link the whole study.) Huge flaw. In graphic "dark triad vs. standards" they lump all the "standards" traits together under the standards umbrella. They include social level, creativity, kindness, liveliness, and physical attractiveness. If you're dark trial and promiscuous, for short term "dating" (in reality just fucking), only one of those traits matter at all. Physical attractiveness. So the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:38 PM
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My wife makes a ton more than me. She ain't cheating, she's got no time for that, she's stuck working the ICU all day. And her coworkers are all socially awkward indian dudes that are shorter than her or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:25 PM
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Did you just admit that women find the guys they fuck in one night stands more attractive than their boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:18 PM
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Also, women have evolved to realize having a hot lover doesn't mean shit if they’re jobless losers and future deadbeat dads. Evolution only cares about life up until the point of procreation. It doesn't care about how long you live past the time when you breed, or skills and resources that would be useful in your senior years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:24 PM
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oh my god, you can't just ask people if they're white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:03 PM
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Lets not even debate the penile anatomy point and take the assertion that multiple men copulated with the same woman in our evolutionary history as fact. Well, no duh. Cavemen, neanderthals, homo erectus, and all those other links weren't watching videos on enthusiastic consent and wooing promiscuous women to compete to be her choice for a mate. Lol nah. In reality, what happened is any dude that wanted to fuck was bigger and stronger than women, and fucked them by force whenever the urge took t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 03:15 PM
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You don't complain publicly out loud about women, nonanonymously. That's how you end up looking like an incel or a loser. You shit talk them online or in private with your friends behind your girlfriends, wives, and fuckbuddies back. Have some social savvy people!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:19 PM
3

There was an incredibly kind and respectful tutor at school, and I have to say, listening to him patiently help others was a guilty pleasure of mine. I definitely was not secretly glancing his way and eavesdropping mid-studying. I asked a male employee at a convention once where the water vending machines were, and he disappeared for a second and returned with his own unopened water bottle and gave it to me. I still think back to it til this day, that’s how meaningful it was to me. A water bottl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:09 PM
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Chill and nice are different. Being nice implies affirmative acts of kindness and service. Being chill is just the lack of negative acts and not being purposefully mean. You're not going out of your way to be mean or nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:58 PM
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Needs aren't rights. The only thing people most people want to establish by designating sex as a need is to signify its importance. Think of it more as part of Maslow's hierarchy of Needs (regardless of your feelings on the research behind that). The government isn't required to meet your self fulfilment needs (self actualization), or your psychological needs (esteem needs, love and belonging needs) [which is where sex would fall]). But we have agreed that the government can be involved in basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 02:47 PM
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You're close, but the very last part gets you closer: "For red pillers: if a man is attractive enough, does this flip around?" The truth is that sex is something valuable that the person with the higher sexual market value gives to the person with the lower sexual market value. It's just rare in relationships for the man to be the one with the higher sexual market value, because men seek sex far more than they seek commitment, and the relationship market value of a man can be higher since they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:54 PM
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It isn't quite as likely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:06 PM
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Yeah I know, life’s not fair. Not everyone gets what they want out of life and that’s sometimes due to factors beyond their control. All you can do is make the best of what you got. Don’t expect others to change their desires for your shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:46 PM
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I was completely aware of that particular irrelevant fact. I wasn’t insulting women as a group for being fat. I was just saying fat chicks do indeed get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:43 PM
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Nah fat chicks get laid in cities too. Though slightly less, 38% of women living in cities are obese. They just gotta wait a little longer until closing time. That's where their higher alcohol tolerance comes into play, they can wait it out until the end of the night
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:22 PM
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Yet, the guy who would do everything for you The guy who would do everything except stop being ugly, work out religously and learn social skills to a degree where they're fun to be with and someone you'd be proud to introduce your friends to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:15 PM
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41% of American women are obese. fatass becky is still getting approached. Just not by the ripped dude she may want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:14 PM
2

Well I don't want to shame the sluts to their face, they might take their sluttiness elsewhere then. I'm married now, but I never hated sluts. I just didn't want anything long term with them other than fucking. For me to have an enjoyable, fulfilling sex life with several different women, sluts are essential. Its just when it came to commit I want someone a bit more selective. There's plenty I don't say to people in real life for many reasons. I don't tell fat chicks in real life that fit women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 06:51 PM
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Any rich kid with that dilemma can just go on Wallstreetbets and yolo options. If they succeed, BOOM! selfmade millionaire. If they lose all their money, then suddenly now they can do all that working for a living and succeeding on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:25 AM
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the 22 was the less relevant study regardless. I agree the trend is rising. as of right now. I would like to see some more isolated racial statistics, because black men really drag down the earning statistics for men, and black women are more likely to be gainfully employed there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:58 PM
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of which the overwhelming majority make less than their husband, as your studies showed. Now they're starting to do better, but they're still getting beat out 3-1. Lets combine all 3 studies. Do you see how that if, cohabitation couples 28% of women make more, and for married regardless of children, 22% make more, and that married with children only 14.8% of women make more, that obviously popping out a baby is a huge factor here? it reduces womens role chances of being the primary provider in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:21 PM
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Young career women tend to make more than men initially. Its just when baby time comes along, women drop out of the work force. It's actually a major problem in medicine, where schools are preferring women more, and women are now the majority in med school, but a bunch of them retire from practice once their fellow doctor husband gets them preggo. Its a contributer to the doctor shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:06 PM
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You read that wrong. Its 37% of the 40% who are the breadwinners. That means they're only 14.8% of breadwinners in marriages. the rest of that 40% is single moms. so of married women with children, 85.2% of the time the man is the primary bread winner. 14.8% the woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:47 PM
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Your second paragraph is a lot of words to describe putting lipstick on a pig. Fat is disgusting no matter how you dress it up, polish that turd all you want, its still a fatso.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:24 PM
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yes, rules have exceptions sometimes. this is a general framework about how the vast majority of social situations turn out, not immutable laws of physics. Just don't get caught up in the fallacy that because exceptions exist, your next or current relationship is one of them, because that's probably not the case. Though I argue that hypergamy isn't just wealth but other things like looks and social savvy as well. And this is coming from a married guy who makes 60k while his wife makes 400k + bon…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:18 PM
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Raised in a conservative environment, and still believe in conservative politics. I am not religious. Had a pretty active sex life in college and after, and am married now. The only thing that stands out between how I think and reddit and the internet at large seems to think, is that I don't think anyone with a penis can ever be a woman, having a penis and cutting it off doesn't make you a woman, just a mutilated man, and I personally find the idea of any of my sexual partners having a penis dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:10 PM
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You’re just objecting to the lingo. Absolutely every woman shit tests even the good ones. Some more than others. Blue pilled men are just as unaware of these tests as the women are, but they still must respond to them. I’m not doing intense red pill jargon based schemes with my wife. It doesn’t take any conscious plotting. But I do recognize what women do and just naturally pass them from years of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 12:12 PM
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Not that you’re aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 12:40 AM
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Nah, all men say this, from my experience. We just never admit it to women in person because it sounds creepy. There's a ton of shit we don't tell the women in our lives because they can't handle it. But here on the internet we can be honest. Hell, even my wife shit tests sometimes (though not as frequently as when we first started dating). Would I ever tell her "oh you're shit testing/ comfort testing?" Hell no. Women really don't enjoy seeing how the sausage is made, or having the curtain pull…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:37 PM
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If all the people around you are reporting dead cats littering the sidewalks surrounding your place, it might be worth looking into. Likewise, if all the men women date are saying this shit happens, there's probably a reason for it. It's not like I made this up myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:23 PM
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I at no time said it was a conscious choice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:01 PM
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unfortunately ".end of." doesn't end anything. you aren't aware of what you're obviously doing and every man can see it. eNd oF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:39 PM
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It's more "you don't seem to acknowledge how you are acting and responding to things, but its obvious to all the men around you"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:32 PM
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You can gaslight all you want, but me and every other man know its true. I didn't "ignore" your points. I read them, and decided they were wrong. I can do that. I can read something, and disagree with it. Just like you're doing with my posts. You are not aware of what you aren't aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:20 PM
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Yes you do. You're just not aware of it. You know how we accuse people of racism through unconscious bias? This is kinda like that. Its an unconscious process. You don't even know what you're doing when you do it. But we can tell you're doing it and see how you respond to how we handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:12 PM
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The mistake you're making is thinking the tests are something she comes up with on a conscious level. Almost all of the time, they don't know they're doing it, its just something that comes natural after modeling behavior from all the women who have come before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 12:56 PM
1

I understand the argument. That men can make money by going gay for pay, and when one inevitably says "but i'm not attracted to men!" the online hos can say "i'm not attracted to these men either!" But its not the same thing. In my poor days, I would've done some whoring to downright revolting women that I'm definitely not attracted. But never a man. Because I'm not gay. I'm fine with other people being gay. I would be willing to accept labels like "promiscuous, easy, whore, etc." but not gay. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 08:04 PM
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I'd add in a third type of settling. Where you've ended up with somebody who isn't as hot or fun as the best you've been with, but is smack dab at at the median or above of mates you've been with. So you have concrete evidence that you have indeed done better before, but it didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:02 PM
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Yes science can use surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:58 AM
1

Well the above science proves you wrong, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:44 AM
1

So which are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:07 PM
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Your league is the range what the sexual market will bear at a price you'd be reasonably willing to accept. The bottom of your league is the ugliest chick you'd be constistently willing to smash, and the top is the hottest that you can consistently get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:24 PM
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Sure. And apparently White and light skinned women don’t prefer you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:58 PM
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“I don’t want to date black girls” Other girls “we don’t want to date black guys.” You “WHhhhhhhaaaaaaattttt????? How could this be???? That’s racist!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:01 PM
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of course they do. You just have to actually be good looking. Besides, there's a shortage of black men available for black women, that should be your niche
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:11 PM
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These guys probably don't understand or dont care that other people can see their likes. And i highly doubt they think the girls will bang them, they probably are just using the likes to curate the content. I used to hit the like button on the thots I jerked off to on instagram, I really had no idea people could see the likes. I wouldn't comment like some simp, that's kinda pathetic. But I figured the like count would tell the ho what we wanted to see or not see. If some Thot gets 2,000 likes on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:44 PM
1

Did you stop reading after the first sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:12 AM
1

It’s not on the books as illegal. You don’t have to bother to pass a repealer when a statute is found unconstitutional. It’s just unconstitutional. No technically about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:03 AM
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That’s just a good way to get two women who will jerk you around and take your money and attempt to do so without putting out. They all like to complain about how what they want is “platonic sugar” Shit needs to be a straightforward transaction. This doesn’t really apply to me, my wife is fine. But I can see why it’s not really as easy as people make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:11 PM
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it is very, very much prosecuted, I don't know where you get your information. Nowadays they even try to slap people with participating in human trafficking on top of prostitution solicitation charges. And no its not technically illegal for your wife to blow you where you live, sodomy laws being on the books aren't enforced because they were all ruled unconstitutional under Lawrence v Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:30 PM
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The prostitution cases in our county go through PRIDE court here. (Program for Re-Integration, Development and Empowerment of exploited individuals (PRIDE) court) It's like drug court, for whores. We do not go so easy on the Johns, they get the big boy court and no breaks. We do around a thousand of those cases each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:27 PM
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no, I"m talking about the majority of america. adultery is legal. prostitution is not, except for in a very specific place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:14 PM
1

What would i know, from my years of criminal defense practice, seeing the full docket daily in the court we have dedicated completely to prostitution cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:13 PM
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prostitution is illegal in most places. Getting caught can result in potential jail time, public shaming, and loss of professional license. You can get put on probation and terms of probation can include things like not being allowed to drink, and limit your travel. People need to stop acting like "just hire a prostitute" is so risk free. I"m sure there's some people comfortable with doing it all the time and haven't been caught, but to pretend there's no risk is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:35 PM
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Nah still sexist. Imma need a source for that prior to the crack boom thing. Though it wouldn’t change the argument. The system is sexist against men, period. You can’t see it because of your female privilege. You need to check your privilege. Listen to men’s lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:47 PM
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Now replace “men” with “blacks” and “race” with sex. And if you think the changes make it a racist statement, you may be on the way to realizing you’re a sexist who supports discrimination against men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:39 PM
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The disparate treatment of the sexes in the criminal justice system is far greater than the disparate treatment of the taxes. A white man is far far more likely to get locked up than a black woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:31 PM
1

Prenup wouldn’t have done much for her anyway, most of her wealth has come after we got married and I wouldn’t sign one even if she bothered to bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:02 PM
2

The attorney part isn’t what screws her. It’s the making 8x my salary part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:34 PM
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that's only because a sexist criminal justice system that discriminates against men locks the men of that race up far more than the women. 50% of all black men will see a jail cell sometime in their life. And if we are judging mates based on their likeliness to be educated and earn money, black women should be the last choice of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:14 PM
0

Well, you could be like me. I'm a married guy. I'm an attorney but my wife makes wayyyyy more money than me as a doctor. If anyone is getting raped financially in a divorce its her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:10 PM
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You can't be no longer married unless you die or someone files for divorce/annulment. The woman initiating divorce is a clear but-for cause of the divorce and a divorce can't happen without it. Everything else can be worked through. I know women want to give women a pass on this one, but that's how it is. Saying "I think I have a good reason" whether true or not, doesn't change the fact that it shows that they aren't taking "till death do us part" seriously. Its not "till you show you can't hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:23 PM
1

but certainly social trends don't really show people take marriage as seriously as that phrase seems to describe. well, social trends as cited above seems to think male people still do take that part of marriage seriously, while women don't as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:13 PM
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Sorry, people respond to incentives. If hot women were attracted to scientists in droves regardless of appearance and social skills, we’d have colonized half the universe already. Same if men were purely attracted to brains. But the sex drive doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:09 PM
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Couples therapy is always a terrible idea. Either the therapist 100% agrees with the woman and they work on how you need to change, or your wife/gf doesn't like the therapist and will insist on a new one until you do get to one that completely agrees with her.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 03:35 PM
2

only in a binary system. This can still be interpreted as a minimum score on the scale of creep to alpha is required to permit consideration for mating, and that photos with female friends improve that score while no photos decrease it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:42 PM
2

Removing a negative is a plus. Removing (-3) from an equation is the same as adding 3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:50 PM
3

You're both saying the same thing, creep to alpha is a scale, all you're both saying is pictures that show you have female friends puts you more towards one end of the scale than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:27 PM
2

We're talking about dating and sexual market value, not their worth as a human. Obviously they're still worthwhile as a human. but they're definitely below me when it comes to dating and sex. They're still fine people, I'm just not interested in them at all sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:01 PM
2

I’m not awful. I’m fit, good looking and a fun person to be around. I don’t crush it in the gym to have a cover model body just to have some chick who can’t control herself around a Big Mac cop a feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:34 PM
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I'm married now, but before I was married, the answer was "it depends" If she's in my league, or hotter? Awesome!If she's way below my league? insulting that you thought you actually had a chance with me. I must be looking like shit or have really let myself go if some landwhale thinks she has a serious shot with me. Every time I talked with a girl who said "I approach guys all the time, and they must not like it, because they're not interested in dating the girls who do that." I ask who they ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:09 PM
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but then when she tried to sue and fucked it up, she ended up owing Trump attorneys fees, and her lawyer ended up in jail on unrelated charges. One of the first times in history the whore ends up paying the john.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:37 PM
1

Before I was married, would I rule them out?To date: yes to fuck: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:20 PM
2

People are more than the service you offer. You can hate Jeff Bezos and order from Amazon. You can hate a player on a sports team but still like the sport and the team. You can hate a chick's personality but love her titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:18 PM
14

She wants some companionship, but also doesn't want anything to ruin her chances of upgrading. I used to do the same thing, except instead of calling them my girlfriend in private I'd just leave it all hazy like "i dont want to put labels on anything" or "I dont want to rush into anything" or "I'm focused on my career"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:40 PM
5

" I guarantee you that a 5'7" martial artist (or someone that exercises regularly even) can kick a 6'5" dude's ass. " I wouldn't be so sure. There's weight classes in fighting competitions for a reason. People love the videos where a smaller guy beats up a bigger guy because of the novelty of it. Plus we love when it happens in disney movies. Usually in a fight, bigger guy will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:13 PM
1

That’s just how it worked out? I wasn’t trying to reach a certain number. I’ve been on Reddit since before the red pill was even a sub. I wasn’t trying to brag, just saying obviously not an incel. I’m sure plenty of men have been with more women than me. I’m on here because the subject matter is interesting to me, and red pill stuff just always seemed correct for the most part. It’s not a bible or religion though so I’ll still do what I want. Marriage made sense for me. I want to build a family …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:54 PM
2

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3177486/Child-bullies-sexier-popular-dates-victims-grow-new-research-suggests.html "The results showed that bullies, who accounted for around 11 per cent of the group, scored highest when it came to social status and self-esteem. They also came lowest when it came to depression."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:58 PM
0

I'm married and have fucked about 20 women in my life, but yeah sure. incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:56 PM
10

there are also studies that say bullies are more likely to be more successful in their careers and less likely to experience depression, and have higher happiness indices. so it seems like we have conflicting research.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:29 PM
1

I'm not capable of beta-buxing since I'm natural alpha. I could alpha bux, but she'd still be lusting after me. This is all academic though since I'm married and my wife makes a ton more money than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 06:22 PM
2

Legalize prostitution. and I don't mean in the shitty decriminalized way where it stays a crime to buy sex but its legal to sell it, i mean full sale legalization. It's not a full solution, but it takes a portion of sex out of the equation so relationships can be built on actually enjoying each others company and not just thirstiness. It's nowhere near a full solution, but it would help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:26 PM
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I've fucked about 20 women in my life, and i have NEVER met a woman that would fuck me that didn't try to lock me down Usually I said no, because I wanted to be free and have sex, but i have never had a woman say no to a relationship once we had sex. ever. i've always assumed it was on me whether to date or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 11:23 PM
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You don't want to look like a wolf on the prowl, looking like you're there for the sole purpose of trying to find a chick to fuck. that makes you look thirsty. They want you to be there just to have a fun time socializing and it just so happens to be their good fortune that you clicked with them. They don't want to think you were on the lookout for whatever you could get. they want to feel like they hooked a popular guy that was there just enjoying his fun life, not a thirsty guy hunting for sex…
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:26 AM
1

I've pointed this out to this sub before, and I'll do it again. There are only two sexual orientations. Likes dick, and doesn't like dick. Your girlfriend cheating with another girl doesn't change her sexuality, she's still a "likes dick" because she fucked you. However, if a dude cheats on his girl with another dude, he now has crossed from being a "doesn't like dick" to a "likes dick" When you girl cheats on you with another dude, it feels like he might've been "more manly" than you. Maybe str…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:21 PM
1

I'm 6'0 235 bench 335 Squat about 500. If she's stronger than me, she's on some serious steroids. If she could somehow be thin and sexy with nice tits while doing it, then yeah i'll still find her hot. but in reality for a woman to be that strong she's going to have to be packing some giant unattactive muscles and probably have an enlarged clit and facial hair from all the roids. If something happens and my normal hot wife got super strong from a genies wish or bitten by a radioactive spider, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:20 PM
1

yeah but by then some majority female congress and president will have outlawed the use of sexbots without the official consent of human females, or you'll have to meet certain criteria to get one that involves gatekeeping by women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:36 PM
1

Alcohol lowers inhibitions. People don't like having their inhibitions lowered around people with full shields up. We want to drink, dance, flirt and fuck, and lower inhibitions lead to that. A bunch of people drinking around a sober person who may or may not want those same things (aside from drinking) feels like hanging out with Bill Cosby, there's a power differential.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:43 PM
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A creep is NOT an alpha male in a beta males body. alphas are good at reading social cues, know how to flirt effectively, lots of creeps think they're mimicking alpha behavior, but their timing is wrong, their tone is wrong, their stance is wrong, they're stiff, they're overly invested in the outcome, all sorts of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:55 AM
1

Usually the lazy people try to form and stick with groups too. Then some of the stronger people try to kick them out. If it’s a lazy dude, he’s toast his ass is out of the group and he’s fucked. If it’s a lazy chick the dudes like to keep them around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:56 PM
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from the episodes I saw, the most successful ones are the people who coast on other peoples effort, or luck into finding a nice resource. Like dudes will burn themselves the fuck out building a sweet shelter, or establishing the water supply, but they expended too much effort and get heatstroke and have to leave. Then the people who relaxed just enjoy the fruits of the labor and preserve their energy as much as possible and follow established procedures once everything is set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 06:54 PM
1

I have lots of close platonic friends of the opposite sex. But importantly they are my wife's friends too. I do have close friends who aren't friends with my wife, but those are all male. all the female platonic friends have to be friends with my wife too, or no deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:54 PM
2

Hey, Some people say life begins at 40
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:41 PM
1

I don't prefer women without makeup. I prefer women who's facial features are so beautiful that they look amazing and like the girls who are wearing makeup even when they're not wearing it. That way when they do wear makeup its even better. I am fully aware of the difference between absolutely no makeup, just concealer and foundation, a 'natural look' and full glam and all the little in betweens and each has their own place. What some guys might mean when they say they "prefer women without make…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:08 PM
7

they have tits and ass to garner them attention. they don't need to do stupid shit for attention, they have built in attention getters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:57 AM
1

Probably for the same reason that if you interview someone from a starving third world country a question about the obesity epidemic, they're more likely to be envious, while first worlders are disgusted by fatasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:58 PM
10

Men lead the stats for getting raped too. People just factor out prison rape and its not followed up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:59 PM
4

Even with steroids that still takes a lot longer than 3 months to achieve. You don’t do just one cycle and gain 60 pounds of muscle in 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:17 PM
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looked like the second picture in 3 months Bull. Shit. Bullshit. So full of crap. I don't care if he was taking enough steroids to choke a horse, you don't get that in 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:15 PM
2

They want the state to pay all the bills. And then to have as many partners as they want to love
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:03 PM
8

I expected her to say "vagina printer go brrrrrrr"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:06 AM
3

Women realized that with their boyfriend or husband at home all the time, they're pissed he's not at work or doing something productive. Even if they don't have kids. Don't believe me? If you're a married/committed man, try taking a nap on the couch in the middle of the day. You can practically feel the seething rage coming from a woman who thinks you should be doing some work. It's like seeing a packhorse with a lame leg. There's no use for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:35 PM
2

A lot of those the person who is CEO founded the damn company. If you want to be as rich or powerful as Jeff bezos maybe try creating something like amazon. Or you could produce absolutely nothing useful and become the richest woman on the planet just by divorcing the richest man, like Mackenzie bezos did
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:21 AM
4

What the hell. I"m a taxpayer and I"m going to be the one paying for that baby now?? I didn't even get to nut
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:39 PM
1

I'm only ok with paper abortions if it includes an 18 year exclusion from social assistance for the mother. Dad shouldn't have to pay if mom has the kid without his consent, but me as a taxpayer sure as hell shouldn't pay either. That's all on mom. I'd be ok with allowing the kid to get social assistance while mom is in prison for neglect if she can't afford him. No prison for dad unless he told her to have the baby and then changed his mind after the kid was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:38 PM
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If she couldn’t pay then she had the chance to abort. Daddy made it clear he didn’t want the baby so ifs all on her. Daddy shouldnt pay unless he told her to have the baby. I’m fine with her body, her choice. Her body, her sole choice, her sole consequences. You want to be the decider? Then you can be the one who handles the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:33 PM
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That’s fine, mommy better get a job then. Taxpayers shouldn’t be paying for her ho ass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:31 AM
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no, we shouldn't allow government assistance at all for pumping out kids. if a child isn't getting enough support from their parents, lock the mom up for child neglect. she's the only one who had the chance to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:34 AM
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They end up having other options eventually. The ideal employee is one who has zero power in the employer - employee relationship. That way they'll do absolutely everything you tell them to do with zero pushback because they can't afford to lose their job. An overqualified person will only tolerate so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:32 PM
2

Direct. I’ve had success fucking both types quite frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:58 PM
3

My own experience contradicts yours on the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:52 PM
11

The idea that the ones who dress slutty are actually secret modest good girls is pure blue pill fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:20 PM
10

I remember that thread. “Everyone” didn’t agree. One purple piller circle jerked with a blue and that passed for consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:09 PM
0

I'm a trial attorney that is good looking and confident and have a pretty decent track record with women. I agree with most of what they say, though I am married now because the overall calculus was unique in my case. I've been lifting and working out for over two decades now. I'm not as much of the provider as she is, since she makes drastically more money than her. But I run the household for the most part and handle all of our investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:31 PM
1

Forrr sure. There was this chick I used to see when I was in law school who would make me lunch every day and helped me get a spot in student government. She also paid for alot of stuff, it was great. But she was average looks at best. Like I barely wanted to have sex with her, and had another girl on the side that I slept with all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:11 AM
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Well OP said “completely obsolete” so in this instance a single counterexample disproves the claim. If he had said “generally obsolete” I might agree. Typical redditor answer of you, trying to be smart but failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:43 PM
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Yup turns out my good looks and dick was really all I needed to end up relatively well off. Though I would've never met my wife if I didn't go to law school, and all the well off women I've dated have all said they'd never date someone without a similar level of education so....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:41 PM
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I don't know man, i'd say 3/4 of the women i've dated have been significantly richer than me. Doctors love me for some reason. and lawyers from rich families. It helps that I'm hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:43 PM
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Prenup? Why the fuck would I want a prenup. She's the one who should've gotten a prenup. This property division and alimony is done off a chart, I am legally entitled. I don't care which "liberal judge" you talk to (which by the way, I know exactly who the judge would be presiding over our case if we were to get divorced, the county isn't that big and I'm friends with the judges) I can always appeal. I would agree that the system generally favors women, but I am a bit of an outlier here. I am in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:06 PM
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True, but you said "completely" obsolete. Now, if you wanted to say "mostly" then I might agree. But objectively I made a smart choice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:02 PM
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google "bimodal salaries of lawyers" What I make is pretty typical for most attorneys outside of big law and boutique firms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:58 PM
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Lol I told her what the alimony chart and property division will look like if she decides she wants a divorce someday. I will be MUCH better off financially than I was if we had never gotten married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:57 PM
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False. I'm married. My wife makes 400k per year as a doctor and I'm on her health insurance. I make 50k per year as an attorney and am well versed in family law. I promise you, I am in a GOOD position here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:44 PM
5

All of human interaction is "manipulation" Everything you do and everything you say when interacting with another human is based off of obtaining the desired result. That may just having them think you're kind or polite, or your may try to stoke attraction, or you might just be trying to get them to give you retail goods in exchange for money. but its all "manipulation"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:01 PM
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People like variety. You know what's more fun than fucking one woman who loves sex? Fucking dozens of women who love sex. But yes the woman I chose to marry enjoys sex. But I enjoyed fucking lots of women before her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:13 AM
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I'm married. You're missing the implication of what I'm saying. If all you have to offer is pussy, then indeed, a hoe makes it much harder for you to compete, since you're trying to charge premium rates for something they give away. It makes it so these women have to offer more than their holes. Hence making it "harder" for them to get commitment. to get commitment they have to offer more than just pussy. Plenty of nonhos out there who's whole personality is watching the office and playing games…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:35 PM
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Of course hoes make it harder on other women. Its just like how scabs undermine union contracts. Ain't nobody paying union prices for pussy when you can get your needs taken care of for free. It makes pussy cartel members have to bring something else to the table besides a god gifted vagina, and thats too much work for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:16 PM
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Because it works and is awesome. It was like postmates or grubhub for pussy on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:32 PM
2

Can't get into fights without getting arrested anymore. Too many cameras around since everyone has a camera phone. Cops cracking down on everything. Professional organizations strip you of your license and your future. Used to be you could get into a fight at the bar, shake hands, down a few shots and drive home. If a cop came in at any point he'd tell you to break it up, and you best drive straight home if he pulls you over. Now? Do not pass go. You will be arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:53 PM
8

Are you really now doubling down and saying that actors are humble because they have to work so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:10 PM
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I work in the film industry. Obviously those hot people are talented and interesting to a greater degree. Wait. Are you honestly trying to say that you think actors are LESS shallow and vapid than other people? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:56 PM
1

Depends on how good the drugs he has are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:47 PM
3

My wife will be upset but fair is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:31 PM
2

My username is just a reference to mock all the betas who get dumped by their girlfriends so they can bang me, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:21 PM
9

You can't just steal whole sections of my autobiography without giving me credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:15 PM
4

A woman would rather be beaten to death than bored to death. Edit since its seems to needed to be said, I do not endorse beating women. Abuse is never acceptable. I suggest playing some fun board games instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:53 PM
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Man in 30s with shit together here. I got tired of swapping chicks in and out and had my fill of variety, so I decided to settle down. The whole chasing down new women, having to go out and flirt at the bar or whatever just seems so tiring and annoying to me now. Plus two people working together on sharing expenses and developing a financial portfolio really accelerates the rate of our asset growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:54 PM
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It took me a while to figure out that you probably meant one of those smokers that adds wood smoke to whiskey or something. I was sitting here scratching my head trying to imagine something that vaporizes liquor so he can smoke it like a vape. Seemed unhealthy and impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:09 PM
4

Kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:00 PM
0

I’m talking even before the photoshopped pics. You know you can see these chicks live videos right? Their pics are photoshopped but their real bodies aren’t as bad the fat hags who comment on Instagramvsreality want to pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:04 PM
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What is strange is the average guy here hates on Instagram models. I think the average guy here hates on instagram models PERSONALITIES. In part because there's only so many women that are that physically hot, that them having a complete dumpster of a personality seems like such a waste of a rare commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:03 PM
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Women don't have an equivalent. There's a few thousand Thots on instagram that beg to differ. Most of these women lifting don't end up like Miss Olympia. They're aiming for the look where they can money make pushing Bang energy drink to their few hundred thousand thirsty followers who follow them to see them do squats in spandex and model bikinis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:41 PM
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they have a whole division of the police force that does those stings. They are not uncommon. And if they don't feel like doing that, they just kinda follow around the whores that are the most frequent flyers. Or they troll craigslist/backpage/ whatever else is popular. There's also some whores who turn into rats for the cops after they get caught and point out their competition. The cops are after the Johns, not the whores. https://time.com/sex-buyers-why-cops-across-the-u-s-target-men-who-buy-…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:41 PM
1

I'm a criminal defense attorney and it is largely flipped now. The prostitutes get a counseling program, and Johns get hit with a felony on their second attempt in my jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:18 AM
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Who doesn't love sluts? Sluts make the world go round. If it weren't for sluts, where would I have gotten all the casual sex I enjoyed before I got married. And of course it doesn't cross your mind as a woman. It's like you own a gas station. You don't actually talk to the other station owners about the price of gas, you just kinda notice when other people raise their prices and raise yours accordingly. If some station down the street starts chargin 5 cents for a gallon of gas, you and the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:12 PM
0

I have not seen any feminists argue that johns shouldn't be punished. I've only seen them argue that sex workers shouldn't be punished. And yes I suppose you could say men "punish" whores by not marrying them. But if you're really into bowling and want to buy a set of shoes so you'll have your own pair, do you buy a brand new pair no one else has worn before? Or do you buy some used shoes from the alley that have everybody's disgusting juices in them? Whores, like used bowling alley shoes, are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:02 PM
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Exactly. They can’t punish the fellow women sex workers, so they want to punish the customers to discourage use of the service. There’s a reason so many “feminists” want to decriminalize selling sex but keep the act of buying sex highly criminal. Which is the exact opposite of how decriminalizing drugs is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:32 PM
1

First of all, there's no such thing as a "former" slut. Abstaining from sex for awhile doesn't unsuck those dicks you sucked previously. Committing to a slut, pornstar, prostitute, escort etc is like calling ahead for reservations when you eat dinner at McDonalds. Its completely unnecessary and you look stupid for pretending you've got something special when more than half the planet can get in there whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:02 PM
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No that’s just what bi dudes tell themselves because they’re still homophobic and think they’re somehow more manly than the femme dudesthey fuck when in reality they’re still just as gay. The Roman’s just didn’t want to admit they were cock lovers because it was so widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:43 AM
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No it’s not the same. If you like fucking dudes in the ass you still like dick because the person you’re fucking has one. I am a straight dude aka “doesn’t like dick.” If chicks were somehow able to have dicks I still wouldn’t fuck one, even if she wasn’t planning to put the dick in me. “Doesn’t like dick” means you don’t want your mate to have a penis on them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:24 AM
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there are only 2 sexual orientations. Likes dick, and doesn't like dick. Straight men are fine with biwomen because they have the sexual orientation they're looking for, which is 'likes dick." lesbian women aren't ok with biwomen, because they want "doesn't like dick." Gay men are fine with bimen because they are looking for the orientation of "likes dick".so what is four orientations is actually just 2. lesbians = dont like dick bichicks = likes dick bimen = likes dick gay men =likes dick. It d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:06 PM
21

Someone has obviously never seen how turned on women get when men fight. They can say "oh no, don't fight I would never want you to fight" but if you kick some dude's ass in front of them for a halfway decent reason, their pussy will be wetter than the ocean and you will have some hot fucking sex that night as long as you don't get arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:45 PM
2

dude there's a whole world of frigid women who are otherwise nice, solid people that would be happy to have a relationship with a dude like you with a stick up his ass. There's a solid demand for dudes like you! My mother in law would love a dude like you. She's good looking but she doesn't fuck her husband either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:40 PM
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I think you wildly underestimate how batshit insane many of these women doing erotic work are. Many of them just go boyfriend to boyfriend for support, but between boyfriends they need a quick sizeable cash payoff to tide them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:55 PM
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sublimated into something actually worthy. Like what? Earning money...to do what with? Humanitarian efforts to benefit others? Ultimately meaningless hobbies that will affect the world how, exactly? What are these 'worthy' things that are so much more pleasurable to me than getting my dick sucked? Honestly I would probably work far less and contribute much less to society if I wasn't concerned about staying on top of my game and being desirable. Like Chapelle says "If a man could fuck in a cardb…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:36 PM
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This is the correct interpretation of looks match. I understand what OP is saying, but what OP is describing is SMV. of course a 50th percentile woman has a higher SMV than a 50th percentile man. but the 50th percentile is by definition her looks match. saying otherwise is not understanding what a looks match is. what she's describing is a market value, which is an important thing to keep in mind, but its not what we're talking about when we say looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:51 PM
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No doubt. That's why I can't still just eat whatever the hell I want. But being able to bench 340 and squat 450 gives you a little bit of leeway and makes it so when I am a bit irresponsible with my diet that it doesn't look too bad while I get it back under control. My TDEE is way higher now than it would be if I never worked out and just focused on diet control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:19 PM
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There's an obesity epidemic out there. Women aren't attracted to fat men. I lift and workout a bunch because otherwise I'd be fat as shit. The alternative is to eat less and I don't have that kind of self control. And from the way women react to my muscles I find the assertion that women aren't attracted to them comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 02:40 PM
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I never said they HAD to settle. They are perfectly free to shoot for the stars. Doesn’t mean it will work out. It’s ok to be alone. I was just giving what I thought reality was. I wasn’t advocating for any position. Me personally I would never settle. That’s part of why I made sure I worked out and had a great body and worked hard in school and work to get a great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:29 PM
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If they were incredibly hardworking, they'd find time to hit the gym 4 frequently and intensely enough to at least have a great body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:14 PM
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I don't believe that "there's someone IDEAL out there for everyone." But I do believe there's someone out there that everyone could be with if they decided to be. Plenty of people out there with unrealistic expectations. A person may not be out there that meets your expectations, but a person is out there that would want to be with you. If you want to get a better person than the bare minimum, you gotta be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:12 PM
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It's obvious, isn't it? They're here to bitch about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:55 PM
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I'd be so disgusted with myself if I was fat I'd probably have trouble getting it up at all, let alone finishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:38 PM
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Of course we've met people. I talk negatively about women on the internet because it's one of the few places you can do so. If I want to speak positively about women I can do that anywhere in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:30 PM
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I don't respect women less for sleeping with me. That's how I know they're capable of picking a winner. I just respect women less for sleeping with a bunch of losers. If I'm showing you less respect after sleeping with you, that's most likely because I never had any respect for you in the first place, and was just pretending to so we could fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:07 PM
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" I’m not convinced it’s all true. I know few women IRL who’ve cheated & ones that have actually told on themselves & came clean - so put themselves in the firing line without being pushed . " Yeah, that's because they're better at keeping a secret. You have no idea how many of your female acquaintances have cheated. You only know which ones got caught or confessed. You'd be surprised how many women you know are getting side dick. They just hide it from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:00 PM
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fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:58 PM
1

I mean other than the sucking up to superiors part, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:16 PM
0

absolutely. i have a great body and a great body really attracts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:19 PM
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Neither. 6/10 is below my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:57 PM
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keep in mind that to be desired for your accomplishments, you have to actually accomplished something of impressive significance. All men aren't instantly seen as accomplished. You'd have to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:04 PM
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I would think that women want the legal benefits of marriage over the fun social media event. Yeah a great party is fun. Being entitled to half of all assets when you break up is more fun. My wife makes a ton more money than me, so I'm one of the exceptions as far as my wife will be the one taken to the cleaners in event of a divorce, but the prevalent arrangement is still man making more money than the woman. While everyone talks a big game about prenups online, most people wont get them and us…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:09 PM
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There's a whole spectrum of life between gigachad and shutin incel to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:35 PM
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Why would you kill yourself just because you're not as good as someone else? Just because you won't get all the top tier rewards doesn't mean life isn't worth living. So you wont end up with the hottest women or getting a legendary life of casual sex with models, but you can still put together a pretty enjoyable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:12 PM
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3 months?? What is this, 10th grade?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:01 PM
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you're acting like fucking a variety of hot women isn't a fun activity in and of itself. sure its affirming. But its also fun to fuck novel hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:20 PM
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I'd never even heard of this Ansel dude. I think most women don't follow boxing at all. My wife would know who Floyd Mayweather and Manny Pacquiou are, maybe, but no one else. And there's plenty of shredded boxers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:25 PM
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Wladimir Klitschko You mean the guy who was married to Hayden Panettiere, and after her married Ukranian model Aleksandra?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:16 PM
2

If you know how to make a meatball, its just a giant meatball. Hamburger, egg, and breadcrumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:27 PM
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Just be in the top ranks of hot girls I am capable of getting. Worked for my wife. As long as you're going for your looks match and not swinging out of your league with some guy who is happy to sleep with you but would never introduce you to anyone as a gf ever, it'll work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:14 PM
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"dating" sites. If there were more women on sites purely for sex, men would focus on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:37 PM
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They would definitely change. And while some might diet more and work out more and exert more confidence, I think the most marked difference would be in the things that they wouldn't do anymore since they don't work. Whiteknighting would go way down. Being nice to woman just because they're women would go way down. Supplication, favors, all that sort of thing that men do when motivated because they want to sleep with a woman would go down. Kindness of course would still exist, but would be based…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:08 PM
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Criminal defense attorney here. It's definitely a mix. I'd say the majority of the criminals I represent end up with low life women. But the absolute most successful with several hot women men that I've ever met in real life were also clients. The alcoholics and homeless criminals usually just have a very unpleasant low life girlfriend. Two groups of my clients do great with women. Number one is the hard drug dealers THEY clean up. Especially if they sell coke. There's a lot of super hot girls o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:55 PM
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That’s a bit misleading. Sharply increasing from something below 7% of the prison population up to 7% is hardly a sharp correction in justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:57 AM
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Nah the opposite actually. Most of the women I've fucked have had way more money than me. When I was born my parents lived in a trailer. Women with money seem really attracted to me for some reason. hell my wife makes 400k a year while I only make between 50-60. I can't explain it. Though I guess if we are talking about me currently, I do have money now, but its mostly my wife's. But I haven't been trying to pick up new women while I've been with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:48 PM
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Oh yeah, I was very clear too. they usually want to move on and try to find a boyfriend, or don't want to fuck unless i swear i'll stop fucking the other women. Never been rejected when I wanted a relationship though. That seems odd to me. We must just be very different people with different effective strategies. It's like Lamar Jackson telling Peyton Manning that the key to success in Qb'ing is running the ball more and not trying to hit precision passes down the field all the time. Maybe it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:16 PM
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I'm not arguing that good looking women like getting fucked. I know this. I'm saying they always tried to lock it down too. I guess we're just going to have to disagree on this one. I suspect we have different ideas of what a good looking woman is, but without proof I'll never know and you'd be crazy to actually share pics with a stranger on the internet. I have no idea why these women never wanted to date you but they always wanted to date me in addition to the fucking after awhile. I promise y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:00 PM
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yeah, but the women I'm talking about were good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:52 PM
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I don't think you understand what "spinning" is. There's no manipulation or anything here. spinning plates just means fucking a bunch of girls for as long as you can. I don't care if you only call them at 2 am for 3 months straight, eventually they're going to say "I want us to be more." I wasn't going to the movies and dinner with these girls. at most, drinks, and fucking. that's it. These mythical women that you can just fuck forever while you also fuck other women forever, aren't real. and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:39 PM
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No it doesn't. Because they want relationships and its too painful to know I'm fucking other women. I was always up front in saying I don't want a relationship and I just want to fuck. and they were always ok with it. for the first month or two. But they would always want to lock it down. Usually they'd even say dumb shit like "I don't even have to be your girlfriend, I just want to be exclusive" and you don't get to tell me what part of my experience was true or not. I lived it. I know what wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:23 PM
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Are you so bad at sex that it isn't enough for women to want to keep having it with you without you manipulating their emotions (spinning them)? lol no. That was never the problem. The problem always was that women would want me to be having sex with ONLY them. If you're fun to be around, and good at sex, almost all women will catch feels and try to lock you down (read: prevent you from fucking other women). Spinning plates to me is that delicate balance of keeping them interested enough to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:05 PM
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the prison and sentencing disparity. Cops will bend over backwards to avoid charging women, prosecutors will prosecute as lightly as possible, and the judge will do everything in his power to keep them out of jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:38 PM
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looks can absolutely get you across the finish, what are you smoking? Doesn't mean you shouldn't try to maximize your own game, but don't be willfully ignorant. Pretending women aren't motivated by looks and wont seal the deal on looks alone is ignoring the real world.
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:09 PM
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Plenty of men are fatasses. I completely agree. Those men shouldn't judge anyone. I'm not a fatass. So I do judge the fatties. Me not mentioning all those male fat fucks doesn't mean I condone them. The topic was women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:06 PM
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I think this is being willfully ignorant of reality. I think OP knows if his buddy is the hot one, and everything he has said sounds like that's the case. I've had experience with this situation too. The best strategy if you have such a handsome wingman is to just use it to open up way hotter groups than you usually would and then picking up the "ugly" one of the new hot group, but the group is so hot that their ugly one is like an 8 at the lowest.
/r/seduction09/01/20 03:33 PM
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I completely acknowledge that. The obesity rate is out of control in this country. The amount of women that share anywhere close to my level of fitness is absurdly small. I'm married now, but I'm well aware that these women exist. They seem to be everywhere, and apparently always eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:04 PM
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If I have a son, I'm not going to teach him how to act in an ideal world. I'm going to teach him how to act in the world we live in. I imagine most likely he's going to want to be attractive to women. I'm not going to teach him things that would result in him repulsing women and ending up as some sort of incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:39 PM
1

you know a lot of guys who TELL YOU they are into small or even non existing breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:04 PM
1

But why male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:36 PM
1

I do know some fat chicks that run half marathons on the regular and marathons ocassionally. They just eat too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:18 PM
1

Plenty of power lifters live in the gym and are still fat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:10 PM
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Lol plenty of them do. Just because they don't want that WITH YOU doesn't mean they don't want that. They just know they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:48 PM
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A big chunk of people that frequent reddit are in college. If you're in college, college girls should absolutely be your target. They're everywhere and it'll never be easier than it was then. College was like going hunting at the zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:14 PM
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So what’s wrong with a 40+ year old chad hitting on 20 year olds? I take it it’s not just the fame that makes it ok? If you’re super hot in your 40s, would you agree it’s not gross or creepy to hit on girls in their 20s? We know you don’t want ugly old guys to hit on you. I’d assume you don’t want ugly guys of any age to hit on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:24 PM
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Isn’t it just so much easier to say “I was wrong. He was right. My bad” Much less wordy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:14 PM
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but for some reason you felt the need to correct the man, and let him know that Texas was only the 16th state to do so, so it couldn't be a federal reg to you. Why correct somebody on a subject you're wrong about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:02 PM
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So you think it'd be gross if Brad Pitt, Matt Damon, Patrick Dempsey, Gerard Butler, or some other handsome 40+ year old man that was your type hit on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:01 PM
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I think he's hounding you because you "corrected" him. Lots of states are passing the 21 year old new tobacco age to align themselves with the new 21 year old federal age that will go into effect in about 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:55 PM
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I'm married so yes I believe happy relationships exist. Having said that I still maintain that the redpill is 99% correct and I wouldn't be in the great situation I am now if I wasnt on top of my game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:02 PM
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If there was a dude handing out $100 bills on the street for free would I think he was an idiot? Yes. Would I take one? Absolutely yes. I hope there's all sorts of people handing out things of value for free to me to their own detriment. Doesn't make them any less stupid or me some sort of hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:57 AM
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So would it be fair to say that this is just a conclusion you came to based on your education and different articles that don't necessarily connect the conclusion you made? I am a criminal defense attorney who's undergrad was in Psychology (for the easy A's, originally I did computer science but that didn't go so well and I wanted a high gpa for my app). I would agree that it's a cultural issue but not one unique to being poor, as whites who are born poor grow up to be rich don't have the same i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:34 PM
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Source for this being the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:17 PM
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are you aware of statistics that rich black men have similar rates of criminality as poor white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:44 PM
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Well that, and you can't get in fights in America without an extremely high risk of getting arrested, and an arrest significantly affects your career prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:42 PM
5

You are way overthinking this. Just chill
/r/seduction25/12/19 01:46 AM
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"tell her?" I ain't "telling her" shit. I'm flirting, using body language, and escalating physical touch until it happens as part of a natural progression.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:02 PM
1

Back before I was married, the time for a girlfriend tag would vary HIGHLY based on several factors. Usually the hotness of the woman, the regret I'd feel if I lost out on her, her attraction towards me, my other available options to fuck, and her insistence on the tag or not.If you were a girl that was super in love with me, but just hot enough to fuck but not hot enough to show off, you were never getting that tag. Super duper hot? You're getting the tag as soon as possible but not too soon as…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:00 PM
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She is up there. Definitely top 3 physically. The hottest physically was this chick who cheated on her boyfriend of years with me, started dating me, then cheated on me about 3 months later (I was shocked I tell you, shocked!) I got lucky though because my wife is hot, and she's smart (she's a doctor in a decent paying specialty), and she's pretty cool generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:57 PM
1

I've been with my wife for about 6 years now. We just got married in August.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:53 PM
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Probably highschool. Relationship lasted about a year. She was my first girlfriend really, I was a late bloomer. She was funny and very talented musically. She was fun to hang out with, good sense of humor. She actually pushed for sex first about 6 months in, I hadn't had sex before but she had with one person. but I really didn't know my value quite yet or how hot of a girl I could actually get. I didn't figure that out until freshman year of college. Once I dated my first actually hot girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:37 PM
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yeah we call those people women who lack self awareness. I'm aware. But seriously, I mean women have been offered dick pretty much every day since they hit puberty. And they've been craving commitment that entire time. Meanwhile every chick I've ever fucked has tried to lock me down long term, but the casual sex has taken a bit of effort. Its no wonder that something that comes so easily has little value to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:27 PM
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Hey, as I said previously, I'm married. All I'm saying is the desire is there. Not that I'm going to act on it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:09 PM
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Open relationship? as a man? are you retarded? Just be single. Otherwise you're begging to end up a cuckold. The way open relationship always ends is the woman fucks around a ton, and the guy gets nothing. He gets even less than he did before since his girl gets her share elsewhere.
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:46 PM
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Well if you're going with that analogy, I still want to try other Michelin star chefs who may have other strengths or weakness. No matter how versatile a chef she is, she may never be an authentic asian or soul food chef. she'll never be twin chefs, or a chef that does gymnatics and teaches yoga while she cooks. She can't both be a super tall chef and a super short chef. Maybe I want to try a chef who's core personality is a domineering chef while another chef's core personality is much more kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 02:41 PM
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Hey, I'm married. I'd love to have sex with women other than my wife. I won't because I made a commitment, and I'm willing to make that tradeoff to build a future family, but that doesn't mean the desire isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:40 PM
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Why would someone want to go to a Mexican restaurant or get Thai food sometimes when they have a Ruth's Chris next to their house? Because other tasty food is fun and different and enjoyable. You get tired of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:34 PM
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What would he have to gain by telling you that he wants casual sex with random women? That's just a fight for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:22 PM
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Sure it would. ms big nose weird body just need to be charming and out going with less hot guys who are more in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:49 PM
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its not innate. They just don't show you how the sausage is made. We intentionally keep it looking effortless to you. Telling you that it was deliberate and cultivated ruins the magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:04 PM
1

Depends on how how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:28 PM
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This is not a hard thing to attain. Its like you're saying you really want to eat a burger from mcdonalds and asking how to accomplish this. Step 1. go to mcdonalds. Step 2. ask for Burger Step 3. recieve burger. Success! Now apply this to sluttyness. Just to go a place where men are, express in no uncertain terms you want to get down, and it will most likely happen. Its not hard. Just make sure you're shopping at the burger shop you can afford (not shooting out of your league) and itll be like …
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:44 PM
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I’m married. When I comment on this sub I’m commenting on what I was thinking back when I wanted just casual sex. And when I wanted just casual sex I wanted women who would fuck without commitment, and a hooker wouldn’t have filled that role because I wanted to feel genuinely physically desirable. I didn’t want a relationship. Wanting someone to want your cock doesn’t mean wanting a relationship and I doubt I was in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:47 AM
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Hookers are illegal in the vast majority of places. Not to mention I want the mental validation and turnon of feeling like someone wants my cock, not my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:25 AM
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They’re fat. The men and the women. Even fat people don’t want to fuck fat people, they’d rather jerk off to actual attractive people in porn. Their wife is just there for companionship and splitting of chores and family duties
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:53 PM
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Different groups of men. The ones getting used and bounced on aren’t the ones pumping and dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:41 PM
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I’ve definitely seen it where an ugly chick is all over one of my wasted bros, he fucks her and avoids her, and she claims she was taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:42 PM
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I’m married now. I’m just talking back in the day. Never been accused of rape since I always went fwb instead of ons. I think there was only one chick where I got too drunk and fucked someone too ugly to fuck again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:27 PM
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Or women get butthurt that after a one night stand I’m not interested in dating them or committing. Like damn if I was looking to commit I would’ve done much better than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:15 PM
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The nice thing about being a woman is cardio. You can run, run, run, run, run without worrying about whether you’re killing any muscular size gains. Back when I did a lot of cardio instead of lifting I would run 6-8 miles a day. That buys a bunch of extra calories and wasn’t hard after the first month or two. Men have to plan to build muscle and keep fat in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:32 PM
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Well it’s not like those animals rely on consent either.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:19 PM
3

Unless you are a young child, most likely your mom is postwall so is stuck with scraps. That sucks, but unless she’s a widower she probably should have exercised better judgment in choosing your father
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:03 PM
0

Women have been complaining and moaning since the dawn of time. Just because we didn’t call it feminism until much much later doesn’t mean the concept didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:54 PM
2

She’s 35. The second half of her life has started.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:27 PM
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Until you find out he just lives with his mom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 12:22 PM
3

If you go over to dead bedrooms apparently that love still lasts for years and years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:50 PM
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That’s also a great argument against allowing abortion. Don’t want to get knocked up? Don’t let a dude cum in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:09 PM
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And I love when women value having sex with me as high as I like sex with them so I don’t have to bother with commitment but it doesn’t always happen that way. Women’s commitment isn’t a huge prize. Pretty much every woman I’ve ever fucked has eventually wanted commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:55 PM
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That’s about the same as if a woman asked a man “what do you do for her that you expect her to have sex with you all the time” and the man answers “I provide her with sex too!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:34 PM
1

Well statistically 2/3rds of black women are obese, as I showed. So your group is the exception. I live in the north though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:32 PM
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I live in a predominantly black neighborhood and the women here by and large are just obese. Yes they have big butts with a ton of cellulite that merged into their cankles and they pull their leggings or sweats over their guts and complain that men only want white women. But really we like nonfat women of all races. It’s just that only a third of black women aren’t obese in the first place. Really trims down the dating poll. I like a nice round ass attached to a girl with a flat stomach but not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:19 PM
1

So most have implants?i doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:13 PM
2

Yes, they’re fat. And that’s unattractive. I’m not seeing where we disagree. I like firm muscularly tend round butts on women of any color but that doesn’t sound like what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:10 PM
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That’s true of all women, black women are not genetically different from white women on that way. And apparently they don’t go for that, since by your own argument men aren’t pursuing black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:05 PM
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Which isn’t surprising. Black women have the highest obesity rate of all race and gender groups in America. 2/3rds of African American women are obese! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3804270/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:43 PM
0

No, you just said that privilege is available to only young pretty whites women. I was lumping them in with young pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:31 PM
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Oh yeah there’s no one willing to shower Beyoncé or Chanel Iman with adoration and privilege. Only white women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:55 PM
2

I just assumed you were a lawyer like I am from the tag. Maybe it’s more common knowledge among the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:33 PM
8

I’ve noticed that the older lawyers like to hire decent to hot looking women to forge “mentor ship” relationships with. No small amount of those they ended up having sex. Most of the rest the young lawyers I’m friends with complain their mentor is kinda creepy but really helps their career. None of the male attorneys I’m friends with have mentors, though I do know of some men in the profession who do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:11 PM
2

Who’s willing to fuck faster without commitment? Who is willing to make more first moves? The stable or unstable girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:20 PM
7

I’m not old old, but I am older than the average redditor. If tinder had existed while I was in college I would’ve just been dialing it up like it was takeout. In my day you had to grind on girls at a frat party or bar before you had sex. When I used tinder after college that took so much less game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:21 PM
1

Part of sex is the desire for validation. It’s like getting into an exclusive club. Everyone wants into the really popular frat with the cool guys with rich connections but they don’t let just anyone in. If they did it wouldn’t be an exclusive club. Same with sleeping with women. If she’s super hot and super selective then I must be a pretty top tier dude to fuck her. But if she fucks a lot of people it’s not really that unique or an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 02:40 PM
1

Women don’t actually want to die they just want more attention and cry for help. And they can count on getting that help since people care about women. No one cares about a mans cry for help so they don’t bother with cry for help attempts. They just go straight to effectively ending it. No one is going to shower a man with attention and help like they do with a woman. Just look at social media. Girl posts I’m sad? Dozens of comments and reaction emojis. Man posts that? Crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:23 PM
1

Well perhaps women deserve the blame? Would we tell an abuse victim that they just need to learn to tolerate the abuse? Maybe it’s a society that needs to change to treat its men better, not men who need to change and sacrifice even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:18 PM
5

The 2-10% number is based on “provably false” claims of rape. The fbi defines probably false as a claim of rape that the accuser has admitted is false or is completely impossible to have happened (like the alleged offender is show on camera in another country at the time of the alleged crime). Given that you can receive criminal charges for admitting you lied, there are most likely far far more false rape claims than the 2-10%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 03:53 PM
1

I know this will be unsatisfying but I don’t remember exactly it was back when I was still in law school. So almost a decade ago. It was pretty short only about two pages and multiple choice so I can’t imagine it was a final. I could ask my mother what classes she was teaching back then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 09:05 PM
1

Nope. Part of the nursing program. Nurses aren’t geniuses no matter how much you want to believe it. I’m not confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:31 PM
1

Would it help if I told you that it was for one of her intro classes and she teaches at a program that’s just a step above community college? I’m not claiming to be some kind of genius, just that nursing isn’t that demanding intellectually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:02 PM
3

Personal experience, just like you. My mother is a nursing professor and former nurse. My fiancée is a pulmonologist. The difference between them and their colleagues and students is obvious and noticeable. I’ve proofread the tests my mother gives her students and taken them for fun. I got better scores than some of her students and I don’t even go there. Meanwhile i would never have been able to maintain the gpa and score high enough on the mcat to even get into an American medschool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 07:00 PM
0

Autocorrect. And they really aren’t smart enough to go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:51 PM
5

This is laughably laughably false, most RN’s couldn’t even get into med school and if they did they’d fail out the first week. “Nurses know as much as doctors!” Is feel good bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 06:13 PM
1

I’ve fantasized about All of the very hot ones. Not that frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:07 PM
2

Or these women have much higher standards than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 10:40 PM
2

They’re doctors around 26 or 27 but they have zero time to date during residency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:21 PM
5

Change the article to confident vs arrogant and you are right on. It’s all about congruence. Cocky is a sexy thing to women. It becomes arrogance when it’s completely incongruent (this guy thinks he’s smart when he’s clearly an idiot, signaling hot despite being ugly, etc)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 02:18 PM
1

on Planet Earth? plenty. and in this thread? I'd be willing to bet there's more than a couple, but since they didn't do any damage they probably think it "didn't count."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:19 AM
1

Usually they end up pleading to a summary and getting stuck attending counseling and having a long term pfa/restraining order and then being thrown in jail when they inevitably violate it by breaking no contact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:36 AM
1

Girls assaulting guys and having nothing happen. Men calling police and ending up being the ones arrested. Men getting charged for things as simple as grabbing a wrist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:14 AM
2

I’m a criminal defense attorney and I will tell you it happens a lot. It’s about as common as DUI. And I’m talking about for minor stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:06 PM
2

I was sort of using the royal “you.” You as in all women. Meant more for the thread to see than just a specific address. Would you agree that the respect and deference from women has gone down in recent years while punishment of mehas been ratcheted up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:54 PM
1

Lol. I’m not saying 2 is more than 1. I’m saying 1 is less than 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:52 PM
1

So maybe show a little respect to the man/bear if they’re more dangerous? There used to be an unspoken understanding that you act a bit more respectful to people that could beat the shit out of you. And in return for being respectful, the law would punish the strong more harshly when they used violence. Now the respect and deference is completely gone but the harsher penalties remain
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:46 PM
2

Women who listen to country LOVE that song. It’s probably the most sung song for women in country karaoke bars
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:42 PM
3

And if she follows, clawing and biting the whole way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:41 PM
0

So if someone steals $100 from a rich man it should not be charged the same as if someone stole $100 from a poor person? Because that’s not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:37 PM
1

The important part isn’t to stop wanting things from others. Obviously we want others to perceive us a certain way because we want them to reward us with behaviors and actions. We want to get that job, get paid more, sleep with that girl, etc. What’s important is not to let the perception of individuals affect your own development and performance. One person thinking you’re ugly/dumb/whatever doesn’t mean it’s true and you should never accept someone else’s judgment over your own in this matter.…
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:46 PM
0

If my woman’s sex drive was way higher than mine then I would just cast a spell to increase my sex drive, put my unicorn in the stable for the night, and teleport us both to a bed in Aphrodite’s lair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 08:08 PM
1

So how much weight has she gained since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 08:02 PM
1

I’d rather they be poor with gambling or credit card debt than poor with debt from a dead end degree. At least with the former they can just declare bankruptcy and move on with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:19 PM
4

The tattooed college professor always strikes me as a hipster vibe to it. They’ll have beards that they buy expensive soaps wax and conditioners for, and they’ll be completely devoid of muscle mass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:14 PM
2

I’m not bp, but if I were I still think “attend lots of music festivals and have good drugs” would be an effective strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:58 PM
-5

So if everyone has a shot with everyone, you’re saying you’d seriously consider going out with a morbidly obese woman?
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:41 PM
-14

It’s not flattering though when you feel like you’re obviously out of someone’s league and some cow comes up to you like she has a legitimate shot. It makes you think damn if she thinks she’s got a shot with me, I must look like total shit
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:10 PM
1

Oh I definitely agree. The theory part is that i believe it’s their main motivation behind shooting up the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 11:04 PM
2

It’s my theory that many of these school shooters are the type that suffer from not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:11 PM
44

They don’t want to hear about the work behind your goals and definitely can’t stand failure. I work out all the time but just tell women it’s my genetics. They want a guy with a great body but not one that has to spend time in the gym. Just like they want a guy with a high status career or money, they don’t want him to have to always be at work. You gotta make it all seem effortless
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 10:26 PM
1

Why not just cut out the middle man and pay for a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 03:43 PM
1

Or he cares about cleanliness for company but doesn’t give a shit about it personally for just him and you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:42 AM
1

Being direct doesn’t mean you’re entitled to everything you want all the time. It just means it’s at least known you want it so it’s somewhat more likely than just random guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:39 AM
3

Also when you ask someone to do something for you, you then kinda feel like you owe them. So when the person does what you want without asking, now you don’t even have to be grateful. Bc they just did it, it’s not like you asked a favor. So you get what you want AND you don’t have to reciprocate any effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:13 AM
2

I’ve followed this subreddit for years, and the “I got her number” posts are rare. And you never see a post saying “and then we had sex. Like damn, aren’t you guys trying to fuck? I see more successful pickup stories in subreddits like r/aww than this one.
/r/seduction15/01/18 11:35 PM
17

Twox is a feminist sub, half the posts there are about sexual assault. How many subs does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:59 PM
1

Pirate insanity off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:23 AM
3

I think it’s a bit different than you’re saying but mostly right. Slut shaming is mostly done by women, but they lash out at these women because they’re scabs breaking the picket lines at the pussy union. Selling sex cheap undercuts the pussy cartels negotiating power. How can they insist on primarily hot guys or commitment from above average dudes when there’s other women undercutting their collectively bargained pussy price.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 09:24 PM
1

So what you’re saying is alpha fucks beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 03:53 PM
4

She was probably building up to ask you for money sometime on the near future now that she’s been recently pumped and dumped
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:08 PM
1

How much were you courting, wooing, and seducing the men in these dead bedroom relationships? Why is it on the guy to do all the work of heating up the furnace and setting up the mood for a healthy sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:32 PM
4

I don’t know why people act like hiring a prostitute is some casual thing. There’s huge risks to it. Running afoul of law enforcement, having to deal with seedy criminal elements, risk of disease or being robbed, the grossness of fucking some chick who has banged hundreds of dudes not to mention the lack of validation of feeling sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:23 PM
4

I’ve always found it funny when women think they’re tearing down the patriarchy by saying to men “hey! You can be whatever you want to be, don’t let those evil men and the patriarchy tell you you have to have a bunch of muscles and avoid being overly emotional sensitive” Most guys know they can be whatever they want. But being whatever you want AND having sex with women you desire is what men desire. It’s useless to tell a guy they can act sensitive and be physically weak, and don’t have to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 03:21 PM
2

The doj crime statistics where the 2-8% stat comes from, defines a false accusation as "provably false" and defines that phrase as I did. (2% being the fbi's baseline for false reports of any crime, and 8% being the rate of false reports of rape under the definition of provably false)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 11:36 PM
7

2-8% is the “provably false” rate of false accusations where probably false means the rape was verifiably impossible (the dude has an iron clad alibi such as being on camera in another stage at the time of the alleged rape) or the accuser confessed to making it up. Even if the accuser is almost certainly full of shit that does not get counted in stats as a false accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 10:07 PM
3

or maybe they dont want to get into a debate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:10 AM
28

They are. When life is really good to you it tends to give you a sunnier disposition in general. And since people are nice to them all the time they figure that's just how the world is, people are kind so they should be kind too.
/r/seduction30/08/17 07:49 PM
1

"A matter of strength". ... isn't there a gender that is significantly stronger than the other on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 01:17 PM
3

Put on some mass so you have an Arnold build, then you won't have to worry about it.
/r/seduction08/08/17 02:02 PM
1

Several women I know totally identified with the chick in gone girl and really empathized with how terrible it must be to "have to act like the cool chick" and therefore the setup was somewhat understandable. Like not being a nagging bitch was some kind of Herculean task that could excuse any behavior. That came off super creepy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 10:32 PM
8

He's just talking out of his ass about something he has no experience with. I'll stick to my doctors recommendations when it comes to medically treatable issues.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:13 PM
16

Seriously thank you for posting. I take an antidepressant and feel emotions just fine thanks. I hate when people try to act like I was just weak or emotional. No. I knew something was wrong, so I went out and got the treatment I knew I needed. When there's a problem, you try and fix it you don't just ignore it. Also while he is correct that women are 2.5x more likely to have a bout of depression in their lifetime, ten percent of men having a bout of depression in their lifetime is no small numbe…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:09 PM
4

That's a great way for people to end up talking about how you have small man syndrome behind your back
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:44 PM
1

You forgot option C. He is an actual capable leader who knows the way out and she can just relax and follow, knowing he's got things covered. No one wants to submit to a bumbling fool. People want a capable leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:17 PM
1

Ordainments through the universal life church are not valid in many states, about roughly half of them. Could leave the marriage open to annulment or attack on the marital status by those with an interest in doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:13 PM
6

It depends. You are confusing smv with relationship value. If you're out at the club or on tinder looking to fuck they don't care that you're a doctor. Doctor only comes in handy if they get access to your money. When you say you're average height, do you mean Asian average height or actual average height? My girlfriend is a doctor and pretty much everyone I've ever met that she works with is socially awkward as hell
/r/seduction29/06/17 10:04 PM
1

If you settle with a person who is actually your equal, yet still behave as if you settled that's really rude to your partner. It usually means less sex, less kindness, and a less enjoyable relationship. And if a majority of women are doing that it just does unkindness in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 08:21 PM
34

Every time you hear someone describing themselves as an 8 or a 9 and they post a pic, they end up being barely average.
/r/seduction29/06/17 05:25 PM
3

A lot of times sex as a "need" comes up in the context of relationships, when a person has been cut off for awhile and complains that their needs aren't being met by their partner. Someone in a forum like r/relationships will say "sex isn't a need, you won't die without it." Ok then, well if that's the definition we are using, then showing respect to the other person or even engaging verbally with a person isn't a "need" either, but see how your relationship feels and how long it lasts without i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:28 PM
4

I was having a hard time thinking of something indisputably agreed upon as a standard for something that at the same time people would disagree on. The point isn't about vacuuming, it's that some people have higher standards of cleanliness than others and what's objectively reasonable is hard to agree upon for those with different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 08:33 PM
4

Not op, but they do want control in setting what the level the standard of cleanliness is at and expectations. If they want all the floors vacuumed weekly they don't appreciate you saying that is unnecessary and we can do it far less frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:37 PM
3

I had read the original thread on that comic and one of the users had suggested the "OurHome" app which lets you list out all the chores and assign point values to each one that are awarded after the task has been done. It sounded like a good idea since my girlfriend had just nagged me about not doing x chore for the millionth time, when I knew I more than did my share. I really don't give a fuck how clean the house is, but I do keep it nice bc j know it matters to her. The app has been a godsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:25 PM
2

doctors dont marry nurses because they want a spouse with the time to run the house. i'd agree with them marrying women much more attractive than themselves, because looks is highly important. thats basic redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:42 PM
4

you don't see doctor's marrying a hairstylist or nurse because those women just quit their jobs and become stay at home moms since their income is so insignificant compared to the docs. i know tons of doctors with stay at home spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:22 PM
3

Are color choices what we are talking about when we discuss "fragile" or "toxic" masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:30 PM
2

Says you. Testosterone is biological and manifests itself with physical and behavioral traits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:23 PM
2

Do you think it's ok for women to define what masculinity is instead of men themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:06 PM
8

They might get upset, or start a loud argument. Maybe throw things. Or maybe a huge crying fit. The primal scream for no reason is kinda weird. But if I had to guess I bet your girlfriend is a little weird. Which is fine because you're a little weird too. It's ok. Not a big deal. You can call it presumptuous but it's not hard to get a sense of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:54 PM
12

You're asking a question about your girlfriend disguised as asking about "all women." No, most women aren't like your girlfriend. Yes, they do sometimes have emotional meltdowns, though probably in a somewhat different manner than you're thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:41 PM
5

The difference between being sexual and being creepy is by being responsive and tuned in to her verbal and nonverbals cues (what you would call ioi's). You test the waters a bit with some flirtatious jokes and light touching and if she's into it turn up the heat a little. The main way dudes end up looking creepy is when they keep throwing sexual attention at a girl that has clearly shown she is not interested.
/r/seduction06/03/17 07:08 PM
2

It's increased blood flow doing it. Has nothing to do with testosterone. Both cardio and weight lifting drop testosterone immediately after the workout. Increased muscle mass and lower body fat do correlate to higher T levels.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 08:39 PM
2

Get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 10:00 PM
2

Why do all the incels choose ballroom dancing as their dance lesson when they take up dancing as a hobby to meet women? Hot women like hip hop and that's that is done in clubs. I guess ballroom just feels safe because all you have to do is learn steps and rules instead of improvising.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:54 PM
2

Do you really need unlimited abortion? You could just cut welfare, and then if someone neglects their child, that's criminal neglect and they can be charged for that and thrown in jail. It'd make you think twice about not using birth control, that's for sure. (Note that this is not my recommendation, I highly recommend that women get an abortion if they get knocked up by a guy that won't commit)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:24 PM
1

Now how does duel parents in south philly compare to single parent? Likewise in jenkintown?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 08:53 PM
7

Yet the same people who say "stay away from creatine" are also probably drinking alcohol on a regular basis. That's like hippies who say "stay away from gmos" then eat a bunch of Molly every weekend
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 05:11 PM
3

Has anyone mentioned drugs yet? Lots of dudes with access to drugs are able to get some attractive girls that want to share said drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 11:04 PM
0

No, both men and women are uglier than in the past due to the obesity epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:14 PM
10

On the female hate sites a comment like you'd would be deleted for "derailing." Gosh, can't we have a discussion about anti male hate without a "what about the womenz?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 03:16 PM
1

You're either autistic or trolling. Probably both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:03 PM
4

Average woman is 5"6
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 10:29 PM
2

The effort I put into sex as a man is directly correlated to how attractive I find the woman. If I find her amazingly hot and want to keep her around, she's in for an energetic, dominant, multi-orgasmic romp. However, if she's just barely bangable, I'm just going to lazily pump however I want to get my rocks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 10:19 PM
1

Doesn't mean the prosecutors don't use the threat of a false report prosecution to keep their witnesses from recanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 01:58 PM
1

You don't think that the women were afraid of coming forward and getting prosecuted for false reports?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 10:02 PM
5

I don't think trp'ers give a shit about the dads. They're not trying to fuck the dads, so the dads are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 02:53 AM
2

If "negging" is anything other than playful teasing, you're doing it wrong. I don't know why people latched onto that and twisted it into something other than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 02:39 PM
3

Well my live in girlfriend is a doctor for one. And a large majority of her friends are doctors too since she basically lives at the hospital. But no matter how many I know, the plural of anecdote is not data. Op's phrasing of his argument was weird to me. Red pill works on all the women I know, but its not that they have secret lives where they work as hookers or anything. I'd argue its more that the entire world is insecure in some way. There's no such thing as a person without insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 02:11 PM
2

Where would you get this data? Are they doing double blind social research on career vs sexual frequency vs feelings of insecurity? How would you administer such a study without huge flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 01:49 PM
1

You are way overthinking this. Women who like drug addicts like them because they have access to drugs and those girls like to do drugs. that's really all there is to it. Now you can say "I know this girl, and she doesn't do drugs, like ever." But its not like you're around the girl 24/7. She probably does drugs when she's alone with her addict boyfriend. That's all there is to it. No mystery.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:41 AM
2

that would be a reasonable explanation if it was seen on both sides of the aisle, but the women's attractiveness follows the normal bell curve. And it's not like super hot women use okcupid just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:39 PM
4

Youre discounting the other okcupid study where women think 80% of men are below a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 04:16 PM
2

sadly quite a few people. I've worked as a criminal defense attorney and none of the prostitutes i defended were anywhere near attractive but they all made more than enough to fund their drug habits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 07:59 PM
5

here you go,check out page 20 https://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/1996/96sec2.pdf ""Eight percent of forcible rape complaints in 1996 were “unfounded,” while the average for all Index crimes was 2 percent."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 03:34 AM
5

I'm not sure what you're implying I'm doing, however I would be happy to continue the debate in any form you wish, as long as I'm allowed to ask questions you may not feel comfortable answering and may conflict with your worldview. What was wrong with my question? maybe i could reword it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 02:42 AM
8

How would we find out if his feelings about being raped were genuine? Would it be ok to question him to find out the truth of his motives in bringing the charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 11:51 PM
9

What if he decided he felt that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 11:31 PM
18

Its hard to tell the truth when you lie to yourself too. Being a "good" nonshallow person is so important to many people's self concept that they literally believe that what the noble nonshallow thing they say they are attracted to is something they are actually attracted too, and their hookups with traditionally hot and masculine men were just weird exceptions they can't explain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:03 PM
0

Most likely at college
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:25 PM
3

You don't do it all in one run. bulk up 10, lose 5, repeat until appropriately sized. You don't want to go on that dreamer bulk
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:53 PM
14

Some hate groups are very socially acceptable and allow their members to vent all they want. If you want to hate on white men, the whole world is your oyster to vent those feelings and get backed up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 03:08 AM
2

So...how many women have you explicitly asked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:55 AM
2

That's like saying you used to enjoy rental cars at a heavily discounted price but now you own a car so you no longer care about the vehicle marketplace. While true, it doesn't mean that you didn't benefit greatly from the rental market in the past in ways that freed up your money and time to accrue the benefits you still enjoy to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 09:21 PM
2

no, your analogy was spot on, and tallwheels was exactly spot on too. Learn from his example and appreciate what you have. Don't let the invisibility of your female privilege to you, spoil you from enjoying how good you have it in comparison to men in the sexual arena
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:46 PM
4

I think he is probably looking on the steps leading up to how to actually get to the part where he can give or receive pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:07 PM
0

It would be terrifying if slander and libel were criminally punishable. Could you imagine how much even more power women would have to abuse if they could get a guy thrown in jail just by accusing them of ruining their reputation?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:06 AM
1

Those tort laws form the basis of civil suits. I should mention I am an attorney. I have no idea why I was downvoted so significantly for providing true legal facts in the post you replied to.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 09:48 PM
-2

Slander isn't a crime. False reports and perjury are though
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 02:28 PM
11

I would think that getting shot at just to protect other people's wealth who aren't even fighting is more cuck status
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:37 PM
1

So there's no fat rich upper class people? and there's no in shape underprivileged people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:25 AM
1

it's not that people think the scenario is fake, we just don't believe women would be willing to admit it in a public forum or say it out loud. Instead this situation happens all the time, except instead of seeking advice on the internet, the woman just withdraws sex and and stays in her sexless relationship until she gets some tingles from a Chad
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 12:51 AM
2

no thats ok, i got an a in it and all the other women studies courses i took to get the minor. i just made sure to keep my thoughts on how it was all bullshit to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 04:28 PM
2

I remember male gaze theory from my women studies classes. basically it screamed to me that there's no bigger crime than a male having an erection without the approval of some woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 03:58 PM
40

This is correct. Op clearly doesn't understand tax brackets, which is pretty basic financial knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 10:54 AM
23

because if he says nothing, that makes it seem like hes angry and giving her "the silent treatment" as some sort of tantrum. I think he handled it well
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:46 PM
1

So you're a tall goofy white guy who's not broke and used to be fat. Bravo
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:36 PM
2

What do you base your high value on? Do you have a highpowered job? Are you incredibly wealthy? (you, not your parents). Do you bench at least 3 plates, squat at least 4, and deadlift at least 5? are you a famous dj or musician? or are you just a god in your own mind
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:19 PM
2

You sound kind of autistic and lack the ability to perceive normal social norms. I would highly recommend some sort of therapy. Also, I promise you at 19 years old your SMV isn't as high as you've deemed it to be, unless you're Justin Bieber or some sort of celebrity. A "bright future" means nothing. Women dont care about what you're going to be, they only care what you are. Dudes applying to medschool get no attention from women, only the fullfledged doctors making bank do.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:57 PM
4

he says he has money to blow....but lives at home with his parents
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 03:25 AM
2

I think theres a pretty legitimate fear of doxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 06:35 PM
0

"Those grapes are sour anyways" said the fox
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:12 AM
6

That seems like semantics. 62% enjoying out right rape fantasies is a huge chunk that I think you can draw some general conclusions about. just because theres special snowflake exceptions doesn't mean the general rule isnt telling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:44 PM
3

They absolutely can be removed from office, they are elected officials. Unfortunately, judges like this are wildly popular with the electorate especially those who vote (old people). So saying shit like that judge says actually help you get elected
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 02:00 AM
11

He was resentenced to probation. In order to receive any sentence at all, he would have had to be convicted of something. Don't get me wrong, he is wayyyy better off being off not having to register as a sex offender, since a violation of those draconian terms is serious time, but lets not act like he wasn't convicted here. This will still show up on background checks and bar him from jobs and security clearances
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:48 AM
2

Entrapment isn't a crime, its an affirmative defense to a crime alleging government misconduct.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:45 AM
1

Sure but most dudes that are willing to even try pegging once are probably going to be the type of dude thats into it again. Its not the reverse situation if we're talking about things that havent been done with a past partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 02:08 AM
3

Yes, it was. PUAhate was all about if you weren't tall, genetically goodlooking or rich then you were just fucked with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:04 AM
2

PUAhate was an anti-redpill site. so really, more like thebluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 02:59 AM
1

No one is saying you should give up your domains and hosting and go to gmail, they are just saying gmail is fine for pretty much anyone that wants to use them and doesn't have a business domain. No one is concerned about them shutting down any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 10:52 PM
2

or her friends are beyond ugly as hell, so the ugly as hell guys are still a higher sexual market value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 06:52 PM
1

Yeah but men don't give a shit if women have money or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:02 PM
3

He doesn't need all of you. Just one at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:11 PM
3

We already had Michael Jackson
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:48 AM
2

what's the point of throwing away your professional career with assault charges over some chick slutting it up? just dump her and move on. Cut your losses.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:46 PM
1

The problem with the anger from your past mistake is all in the ego. You blame yourself for your past mistakes, you identify with those mistakes, and you're angry at yourself for who you were. And then that anger will always come back when you are reminded of who you were in little ways by things women say or do or ways people judge. The problem is you have that ego, that sense of self, that identifies with that past pain and mistake and identify with it as part of you. You can't live in the pas…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:29 PM
1

I have to say, I am impressed at the level of level discourse on TRP, its better than alot of the legal subreddits (though like them we're going to have people that are wrong at times too.) I looked into it on Westlaw and you're right. I'm a criminal guy and also assumed the malicious prosecution was a part of a 1983
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:28 AM
1

Malicious prosecution is suing the police/prosecution for prosecuting you. the tort against the person making the report would be defamation.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:06 AM
0

But the rich guys don't want only sex. they want to be lusted after, not just be given sex begrudgingly as a way to keep access open to their wallet
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 07:38 PM
3

Alot of guys are penny smart, pound foolish when it comes to their attorneys. They dont want to pay their lawyer's hourly for another court appearance so they jump on the first settlement offer even if their lawyer strong recommends against it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:58 PM
2

maybe they're tired of their wives fucking chad the pool boy while they're out making money.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:54 PM
19

If you're physically assaulting people over verbal confrontations (especially breaking a bottle over a dude's head??), in the states that would be an agg assault. Enjoy the felony on your criminal record and never getting a decent job again. If this story is true (I have my doubts), you're going to want to be careful because this is a path that ends in jail time for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:39 PM
6

right. but its described as a "sexual peak" which is a misnomer. 30s is peak libido for women. sexual peak makes it sound like they're the best to have sex with then, and thats definitely not the case.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 02:21 AM
14

Oh ok, then. I was at my "peak" physically when I was some out of shape slob, because that's the time I desired six pack abs the most. I'm ripped now, but my desire has leveled off, so I guess I'm not at my peak anymore since my desire has dropped.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:50 PM
8

Yes, but you can't describe your "peak" as your desire to do something. Is Terrell Owens at his "peak" football ability because he really, really wants to play football now but can't, or was he at his peak when he was actually playing and getting paid cash
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:16 PM
1

If Genghis Khan lived in the United States he'd be in jail for not paying child support. You can believe redpill tenets without carrying about evolution and genes. There is no benefit to passing on your genes outside of your own ego. Who cares if the gene pool has a percentage of your DNA? Once I'm dead and my consciousness has ceased to exist I wont give a shit about what's alive and walking on this earth. Red Pill is about maximizing my enjoyment for the time while I'm here, period. I spin pla…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 05:15 PM
2

no, no, no welfare is temporary, you're clearly not up on the "milking social benefits for money" game. She needs to neglect the kid to the point he's seen as special needs. then get him a diagnosis and signed up for SSI, and bam thats a monthly check with no end in sight.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:32 PM
1

Morally, I think if you're a net positive to society then you're doing pretty good. There's so many people who refuse to even covere their own shit, wont get a job, steal things, hopeless drug addicts, expecting others to care for them. If you at least support yourself and dont leach off other people, anything else from there is just gravy
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:30 PM
1

Coffee is not a date for closers. Coffee is a lets be friends date. Now, if it was a meet up for drinks where she warns you ahead of time about the boyfriend, its because she wants to cheat and then blame you for it. "He knew I had a boyfriend, I wasn't planning on doing anything, it just happened!"
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:38 PM
-1

That's true, I do think minority women tend to seek out white men to sleep with because they find them more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:27 PM
1

Yes, but isn't the whole point of the prostitute thing to avoid effort? Seems like an awful lot of effort to put in so you can avoid putting in the effort of gaming women.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:40 PM
2

You have to have the correct licenses to produce porn. I am not familar with the licensure process but its not that simple. You probably should not take your legal advice from reddit or comedy sites. (I realize the irony of this post as a lawyer on reddit)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:19 PM
5

Slap on the wrist??? You wish. Its a felony for the John in my jurisdiction, and a misdemeanor for the girl.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:23 PM
1

No, the thing is the men that are 10s are fucking everyone in the 6-10 range. Mr. Thundercock doesn't limit himself, he'll fuck the whole world. Getting those 10 girls takes some effort, sometimes he just wants an easy lay so he scoops up that 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 07:16 PM
1

The problem is when she confused her relationship market value with her sexual market value. Just because Chad fucks you doesn't mean he's going to be your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 07:12 PM
0

Well some guys are doing that, and becoming 10s. And those guys that are now 10s dont want to commit, they want all that effortless fucking and chucking the other 10s are getting. if you want a commitment, chad and the other 10s are a poor choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:44 PM
6

Right. I said they're picky, not that they dont like sex. they only want to fuck Chad Thundercock and the top 20% frat star alphas. Women that are 6's will be fucking guys that are 10s because guys that are 10s are willing to fuck lots and lots of women. So suddenly jill average thinks she's a ten too, and refuses to find anything less as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 04:21 PM
14

Are you kidding? Do you have any idea how often men complain about how there are so few 'decent' women left to date? We were talking about attractiveness and you immediately jump to "dating" and commitment. Men still want to fuck all those sluts and whores. Women are far more picky for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:30 PM
1

I don't mean days later. I mean when you were fucking her the last dude's cum was probably still fresh in her.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:55 PM
1

This was a sorority girl who, as we were fucking, was getting her phone blown up by the frat guys who were at her party trying to get alone with her. I'm not trying to brag, but this girl could have VERY easily made me leave to fuck one of those other guys. hahaha. Usually those girls just take turns. its a take a number type system. she'll fuck you. then fuck them after.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:40 PM
16

The guard was acting in his own rational self interest. If the bank wants a guard who will actually risk his life and do the job, then they need a hiring process with an attractive wage that will attract men willing to do that. Pay shit wages, get shit workers.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:50 PM
1

You are oversimplifying, I promise you that people with PTSD don't have a free pass to beat the shit out of anyone they want. I am a criminal defense attorney, and while I admit things do vary between states I have a hard time imagining that in your state PTSD is a get out of jail free card for any simple assault under the sun.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:37 PM
1

In my state if you have ptsd and someone triggers you to violence, you can't be charged this is nowhere near as accurate as you think it is. It may be part of your insanity defense, but you're definitely going to be charged and be sitting awaiting your trial.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:44 PM
1

Anytime a woman goes out of her way to say how passionately she hates some guy, its only a matter of time before she's sucking his dick. Intense hate and intense lust are just opposite sides of the same coin. Its the truest when the reasons they describe for hating him are "he's so cocky, such a player, what an asshole, so rude, etc"
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:29 PM
2

Yes but lawyers can think gooder too
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:46 PM
2

This is not a terrible idea. Though you don't necessarily need a PhD to get that deal.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 12:53 PM
-1

I would say don't have kids, that's my recommendation. I really wouldn't know what to recommend for people who have kids anyway, I don't have any experience with that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 08:06 PM
8

Art History Midterm. Good! this means you haven't thrown your money into the lawschool toilet yet. I am a lawyer. I would have far far less debt and make more with less effort with virtually any other career.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:13 PM
47

I am a current lawyer. You know how we warn guys about to get married that they're making a huge mistake? Your choice of career is a huge mistake. Turn back now.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:37 PM
3

The county is way too cheap to pay for the proper amount of CO's as it is. They try to understaff as much as possible.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:24 PM
18

So you regret having a highschool education then? If you had been raised for 10 years in Compton, you probably would've ended up dropping out.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:54 PM
10

It was a county jail so it was probably a coed facility with the men and women in separate cell blocks. You need female CO's to be available to supervise and escort the female inmates, because the female inmates have a tendency to make rape/sexual assault claims against the male CO's if they're left alone with them.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:52 PM
1

Yes, but athletic/toned /= healthy. the link you gave was about health. Too many women think weightlifting leads you to looking like kai greene or some other monster bodybuilder immediately. Weightlifting combined with diet is really the fastest track to whatever body you want, whether that be the "athletic/toned" body you're talking about or huge body builder. You are all talk/talk/talk and refuse to listen to people that probably know mroe about fitness than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 09:18 PM
1

But we're not talking about health. We're talking about physical attractiveness. They're not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 08:50 PM
4

I think thats because most people know the route to the "toned" sexy body is faster with just weights and controlling your diet. You don't need the aerobic activity to get there if you're eating right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 12:09 AM
3

Because you're the best these chicks can do. And if you're not getting them to send you full body current selfies prior to meetup you're doing it wrong. That's what I do with the chicks I pull off Tinder. Weeds out the myspace angle using fatties so I only meet up with the actual hot ones.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 05:21 PM
1

Just because that's all you're pulling from online doesn't mean other guys aren't doing better. Maybe your SMV isn't as high as you believe it to be
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:58 PM
20

no way in hell. Yes she's resentful, but in the split he's going to get half of all growth her assets have accumulated in the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:09 PM
2

No broke father thats forced to pay that much arrearages is going to have the cash to pay an attorney to appeal it for him. Attorneys like to get paid for their work.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 10:02 PM
1

Where would you get your client base from? A huge portion of attorneys only have a client base because they bought the practice from the previous attorney, and they pay out thousands a month for the privilege. What else would I suggest? Getting out of the field entirely.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 01:46 PM
0

There's a HUGE difference between billables and salary. My very first lawyer job I was making 35k a year. They billed me out at $175 an hour. There's a ton of overhead and limits to what you can call a billable hour. So no, you do not know how deep those pockets go.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 01:41 PM
1

Now do you actually personally know any of these lawyers, or do you just see them on tv? Yes some make that amount of money. Most don't. Google "bimodal salaries of lawyers" to temper your expectations a little better. I make 45k a year now (granted I'm in a rural market with low cost of living), and most of my colleagues here make something similar.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:57 PM
3

I'm a lawyer, law school is a terrible idea. If your goal is to make money, that aint the way.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:25 PM
9

Its not lose-lose, its win-lose. there's tradeoffs for everything in life. If they didn't fuck the alphas in the first place, they might still be able to be attracted to the betas.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:17 PM
1

I didn't actually look at the site, but I was just implying he personally did the legwork and fucked all the prostitutes on the list. I wasn't talking about any actual work in coding the site.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:54 PM
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