ParisTexas7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Men are coping too much about women who don't desire them Indeed. For how much navel gazing that goes on here, it’s often in obfuscations of bigger, more fundamental life questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 03:31 PM
2	Men are coping too much about women who don't desire them Well, many men in this forum have horrible mindsets, which can be changed and is entirely transformative not just for their relationship with women but with life in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 03:25 PM
–	We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super important I echo what the woman who responded said — fakeness is the attraction killer. “Red Pill” is an attraction killer, especially long term	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/26 01:29 PM
–	We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super important It’s funny, OP — I think you’re onto something but, as the user above pointed out, what you’re getting at has little to do with the “Red Pill”. In fact, I’d say the opposite. “True confidence” comes, in part, from shedding away the gunk in Red Pill ideology that poisons the mind. A so-called “Blue Pill” person would give advice more in line with what you’re describing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/26 01:07 PM
1	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away Nah, it’s relevant. I think you’re a liar and likely another unsuccessful man lecturing people on this forum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 02:14 PM
9	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough There are a litany of reasons of why someone might not have a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 02:13 PM
6	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? They are not interested in women, that’s why. This forum is full of loser dudes lecturing well-adjusted people who get laid and have relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:57 PM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Just boys who can’t talk to a woman, let alone pleasure them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:54 PM
1	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit “Purple” — lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:50 PM
1	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away I don’t believe you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 01:41 PM
1	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away Bro, it’s extremely obvious you’ve never been in a relationship before lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 12:16 PM
65	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. No, things were also expensive and financially tough for millennials. There are endless articles from 2015-2020 corroborating it. This is pure revisionism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 11:11 PM
14	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. There were/are plenty of millennial retards like OP for sure. It’s the same pathetic group of men, through the ages, complaining about the same exact bullshit for the past 12+ years. It’s no wonder y’all can’t get laid lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 11:10 PM
2	What is supposed to be "fair" about dating? Well, yes — when it comes to things like food, water, housing, and healthcare, so-called socialists tend to have certain positions as it relates to how state-protected markets distribute resources. These are things with life and death consequences, fought over for thousands of years. By comparison, actual socialists aren’t as concerned over unfuckable rightwing losers not being able to get Hinge dates. If they ARE concerned, it’s only in the context of broader issues — for example, dark rightwin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 03:56 PM
-1	Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them? Ah so RedPill freaks are comparable to neo-Nazis — yep, that certainly checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 12:43 PM
8	What is supposed to be "fair" about dating? Lmfao — it’s always funny seeing unfuckable rightwing losers demand a state-sanctioned girlfriend but then literally argue against The Civil Rights Act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 10:55 AM
1	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive ITT: OP was a kid and now is allegedly a grownup. He used to have baby thoughts about the world and now has attained some level of life experience yet still has baby thoughts which empower him to make remarkably shortsighted conclusions about life. Yep, sounds about right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:46 PM
6	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic Most of the men in this forum giving “advice” are Red Pill losers who repel women on the regular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:38 PM
–	Embracing the Redpill is like stepping out of a sunlit dream into the cold light of day Critical of dating? Are Redpill losers now opposed to dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:31 PM
2	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? It is not even clear if humans have free will at all, so these semantics are pointless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 07:52 PM
1	Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they do In a patriarchal society, women are objectified as property to be conquered and protected. So that explains boys bragging about how many chicks they’ve smashed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 05:23 PM
1	Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many women It could be. Depends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 04:56 PM
1	Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many women Yes, those are unattractive qualities. What’s the confusion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 04:18 PM
3	Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many women Red Pill dudes are out here explaining easily observed phenomenons as if they’re untold secrets of the world. Women and men seek attractive partners sought by others. News at 11.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 03:02 PM
0	Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished place Ah yes — according to you, the Nazis “weren’t wrong”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:51 PM
0	Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished place You know who also bemoaned the “state of degeneracy”? Nazis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:41 PM
0	Being short it s a huge problem in males Thought the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:38 PM
1	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic Yes, and those “families” use global rightwing media to poison the minds of average men to blame women for societal ills. And certain men, by the way, have frequently dominated those families and it just so happens that the politicians that have empowered those families have been overwhelming men. But let’s be real for a second here — girls left-swiping sexless dudes on Tinder is NOT a societal ill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 07:35 PM
1	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic You’re ranting to a white male in his 30s who never goes on TikTok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 07:21 PM
3	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic And yet, average men blame women for the problems in society largely perpetuated by a certain, small proportion of men. Just another sucker for rightwing propaganda used to enforce global wealth hoarding schemes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 07:20 PM
5	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic I was single for the duration of my 20s, with a few hookups here or there. I encountered many of the same problems, with some of the associated bitterness, that is described in this forum for the past 5+ years. Then, I grew up and confronted the reality that women have zero obligation to date me, fuck me, or respond to my texts, ever. Things got a lot better after that, partially because I also spent my 20s trying to accomplish other things beyond scoring pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:34 PM
-7	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic It is overwhelmingly perpetuated by men. You think the existence of Elizabeth Sackler refutes that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:14 PM
1	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic Do you think men complaining about women on Tinder are mis-directing their rage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:08 PM
1	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic So when men come on here to whine about sluts on Tinder, they’re actually complaining about Elizabeth Sackler?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:45 PM
-2	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic Awww, is there little Red Pill boys outside the U.S. too? That’s right, I forgot about that — global rightwing movements weaponize your dainty little hatred of women to further wealth hoarding schemes around the world. It’s not apex fallacy — certain, small proportion of men have overwhelming hoarded wealth and abused people throughout history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:26 PM
11	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic Meanwhile, I’m just a man in my 30s, with life experience, disgusted by the reactionary whining and entitlement of “Red Pill men”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:01 PM
-1	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic We live in a world of massive wealth inequality largely perpetrated by men, so maybe men should begin addressing that instead of blaming women. Or don’t. You can just vote MAGA and continue to blame women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:57 PM
2	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! It’s not intense or high stress at all. Have you ever done intense or high stress work? It’s also completely voluntary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:32 PM
5	If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair game Of course cold approaching is fair game, without harassment — however, most sexless Red Pillers have no business doing it and fail miserably. They then turn to “Pick Up” grifters who frequently give shit advice, mixed in with some good advice, and get click-farmed for profit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:07 PM
1	I think the true love it s just when you are young You need to figure that out on your own. Having a positive mindset is always good. Balance and fluidity in life has always been big focus for me. Balancing the future with the present, and having the fluidity and openness to “go with the flow”, as you and the world age around you. Good luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:35 PM
1	I think the true love it s just when you are young Generally, that’s the case, yes. Nothing is guaranteed. Men and women have died alone, loveless, broke, and homeless through world history. Hopefully that doesn’t happen to you. Likely, it will not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:26 PM
13	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? ITT: men think women should date shorter men because of violence perpetuated by men. Misogyny and violence are behaviors. Height dimensions are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:05 PM
1	I think the true love it s just when you are young It’s called getting older and becoming a grown man, something that many dudes struggling with dating have yet to literally go through. That’s why people are dismissive of 23 year olds doom ranting about modern dating, because one of their primary issues is that they’re mostly struggle with the natural process of becoming a functioning adult in a harsh world. These problems work themselves out over time, as you get older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:01 PM
3	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Are you telling me that alpha Red Pill men are annoyed they got to put in work? The community is largely rightwing people who vote Republican, so that checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 02:51 PM
–	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up Yes, I understand that little Red Pill / Incel boys have trouble understanding concepts such as irony and “connecting the dots” in their dismal worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 02:41 PM
–	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up And, what? You said women are “told” to pick better men, and I’m reminding others that people telling them that are people like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 02:34 PM
5	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up Lmao, Red Pillers and Incels are always complaining about women NOT picking better men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 01:48 PM
3	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up Yes, just “free content” that perpetuates an existing hive mind for them to exploit for profit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 01:46 PM
-1	romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and women Fair enough. I misread your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 10:49 PM
2	romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and women Relationships can be great. They can also be awful. You’re not entitled to one either way, and that’s NOT changing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 10:47 PM
-3	romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and women Lmao, and men like me will continue keeping you “in check”. You’re not entitled to a girlfriend, ever. Is that not clear to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 10:40 PM
11	I think the true love it s just when you are young Lol, that’s a big fat no. Nerds are severely disadvantaged in high school. 1) A big reason why people become nerds is their slower physical devevelopment, compared to other boys. That changes as you get older. 2) Nerds tend to have less friends or less socially outgoing friends, which makes them more “awkward” and less social skills, compared to Popular kids. That’s a severe disadvantage. 3) High school is where intellectualism goes to die. College is the first place where Nerds can even begin t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 10:24 PM
7	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" Oh, I’ve considered it dude. Because I’ve lived it. I’ve developed a career over time. I once spent a year commuting 2 hours each way, while working 50+ hours a week, to do it. I moved to a city in my early 20s and lived with 3+ random roommates off Craigslist. I did that for years. Late in my 20s I moved to a brand new city again, leaving behind my entire social circle, and it was hard as fuck. It was also ALL worth it. These things take years to develop, and it might not ever work out just lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 09:26 PM
6	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" Yeah, you’re not “just going to get” shit in life that is worth working towards. What else is new?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 09:14 PM
61	"Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive" It’s not pointless advice. The issue is that friendless virgins are trying to score pussy before ever making friends, which is basically guaranteed to fail. These are people with poor social skills that need to be developed. If you don’t have the ability to form a meaningful social circle, you’re severely disadvantaged in getting laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 07:18 PM
34	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? We did this yesterday? Nah, we have had this ongoing conversation since 2017, in fact. It’s the same complaints regurgitated endlessly. Dating is difficult. This has been discussed in media for several decades. Little rightwing boys think the Me Too movement is their problem, and then wonder why they can’t get laid. And they expect other people to do something about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 05:45 PM
2	Capitalism is the reason people deny men's issues Women have provided financially for families for centuries. The immediate reflex to blame men for societal woes is natural, due to certain men overwhelmingly being responsible for all large scale abuses within societal history. Capitalist control isn’t going away any time soon in American society. The question, currently, is whether America’s rabid social conservatism and anti-science instincts will hand the country over to its most brazenly corrupt, woefully inept, and viciously nihilistic hand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 10:33 PM
12	Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days? Gee, are you telling me a guy who posts on the Purple Pill subreddit would have these “observations”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 10:23 PM
0	The endgame of the Black Pill Of course it is. Which is why mentioned that Red Pill and Black Pill communities have been weaponized by broader rightwing movements.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 09:27 PM
-4	The endgame of the Black Pill No, strong social conservatism is what makes you rightwing. The fact that MAGA is popular with these communities is evident of that.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 06:26 PM
-3	The endgame of the Black Pill There are many examples. The rise of Andrew Tate and his promotion in rightwing media is the clearest example.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 06:15 PM
-5	The endgame of the Black Pill “Red Pill” and “Black Pill” communities are outsider communities that are weaponized by broader rightwing political movements. The only reason these cultures have risen to prominence is due to their usefulness in rightwing politics.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 06:03 PM
14	Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach. The idea of “lonely men” in society “approaching women” is preposterous. These are people that don’t even have friends, let alone have a shot to spit game at women in public to score puss. These men, if they are genuinely lonely, should be focused on meeting people, both men and women, and developing friendships. First, learn how to connect with other people as an adult, and develop a support network. Everything with dating, while still difficult, becomes much easier after that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:55 PM
1	Would you be willing to take on the dirty jobs men do? LMAO, men who complain about women not doing “dirty jobs” are 99% of the time weak little boys who’ve never done a hard day of work in their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 03:12 PM
12	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman “No one owes you anything” is not a grim reality. It’s THE reality. It’s amazing that you think you’re owed anything as it relates to socialization, when many societies don’t even consider things like food or shelter as rights. The world has real problems to deal with that are much bigger than your gripes about not having a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 02:26 PM
7	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman Depends on the rules of the club. Some clubs are more hostile about stuff like this than others. If the people in the club are primarily interested in hiking with others, which is its purpose, then it makes sense they’d be hostile to folks who exploit their club as a vehicle to “approach women”, separate from its intended purpose. Let’s put it in simpler terms — if you’re mostly interested in approaching women and not hiking with others, and it’s apparent by your behavior, then why the fuck are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 02:22 PM
6	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman First off, there are some clear rules in society. Legally, there are laws against sexual assault / rape, which certain men seem to mock or dismiss. Within organizations, such as workplaces or social clubs, there are frequently outlined rules regarding sexual harassment and code of conduct — again, frequently mocked by certain men. In addition, yes — other forms of socialization have less defined “rules” and there will be trial and error. That’s why it’s important to be careful with how you inter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 02:01 PM
20	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman Yes, sorry socialization is difficult for you. Not everywhere is a safe space for you to awkwardly approach women without pushback. Guys who are successful with women understand this. Time to learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 01:53 PM
17	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman Hiking clubs are meant to bring together people who like to hike — they’re meant for meeting people with shared interests, not for “approaching women”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 01:41 PM
10	someone change my mind? Nah, the main thing they have in common is that they’re 10+ years older than you and have significant more life experience. But by all means, if Andrew Tate’s advice is working out for you, that’s YOUR decision to adopt his advice and behavior.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 03:27 PM
9	someone change my mind? No, they’re all in long term relationships, engaged, or married with well-paying jobs. They’ve all earned college degrees. Some of them own houses. They’re all relatively physically fit and active.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 03:19 PM
12	someone change my mind? Is it effective advice? I have loads of friends with girlfriends, and who’ve been successful with many women — none of them act like Andrew Tate or RedPill figures.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 03:15 PM
15	someone change my mind? No, he’s trying to make money off you. If anything, he’s hoping the advice won’t work so you keep coming back for more. You’re 19. You’re barely out of high school. At your age, I had awful social skills, no girlfriend, barely any friends. That’s normal. Your life is going to go through A LOT of changes in the next 10 years. Your brain is literally not finished developing. Seriously, you’re not even a fully developed HUMAN yet. Of course you’re going to have challenges dating and getting laid. Y…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 03:06 PM
12	someone change my mind? OP — how old are you? Andrew Tate is a scam artist, literally. He makes money off of pyramid schemes. He’s not trying to help you. Even if your goal is just to hook up with a bunch of girls, there are plenty of other “self-help” gurus that are FAR less toxic and who can give you social skills advice. If your goal is to have long term relationship / marriage, then Andrew Tate’s advice is about as bad as it gets. It’s the most cringe shit ever and extremely counterproductive to your goal. If you h…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 02:55 PM