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You are brave for posting this. I was thinking this too. TRP is turning into this ugly thing. It was originally about breaking the norm to create an ideal life but now it’s filled with resentful arrogant men who want others to be miserable.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:35 PM
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Church If you’re not Christian, consider it. It adds a lot of value to your life and this is coming from an Atheist. Nothing more depressing and pathetic than a vain man that only cares about himself and nothing bigger than himself. Religion is one of the only ways modern marriage can work because it’s not about being together for your own happiness. Through religion, you both serve a Devine being that will keep you together through the worst of the worst and remind you why you need to continue …
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:49 AM
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12 Rules for Life - This one is very lengthy and complex. However, it breaks down what exactly the point of being a human being is and how to minimize the suffering we are doomed to face. You’ll feel very empowered and clear after reading as you know more what you should be doing. Get the audiobook so you can listen anywhere. A mans search for meaning - This one is a short read. I’d get the audio book just to make your life easy. It’s about a survivor of the Holocaust and tells his story of how …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:53 PM
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Have you read any books regarding this topic?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:41 PM
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Better than the alternative and just living for nothing 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:36 PM
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What are you living for? Seriously, is your life purpose just to check off a to do list everyday? You’re life only has meaning when you give it meaning. You need a purpose bigger than yourself. This can be a huge goal you can accomplish, attain status, money, dream career, whatever it is you truly believe is worth getting up from bed and fighting for. When you do this, you know why you exist and you feel joy the closer you get to your goal and it’ll give you reason to fight for your existence ev…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:51 PM
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Well idk what to tell you about your relationship. What I will advice is that you take that safety net and invest it in a Roth IRA or purchase real estate. Keeping your money in a savings account is not wise at all. With the current rate of inflation and the enormous stimulus the US just distributed, everyone is speculating the dollar will crash and that money won’t be worth anything unless it’s in an asset like a Roth IRA retirement account or an investment property that can create cash flow. I…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 06:57 PM
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If she’s not marriage material then don’t feel guilty. In the end, they are adults and they can make decisions for themselves. I know we are supposed to be the protectors of women but we live in bizzare times where gender roles are completely backwards. Chivalry is dead because a woman can sue or frame you if they feel vengeful enough. Remember, if you enter a relationship with them you are the one who is providing and taking a risk so don’t feel bad if you need to weigh your options. It’s what’…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:57 AM
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I think we all agree that you can’t fix this. She doesn’t respect you as a man. If she did, she would be more considerate of your hard earned money and at least try to please you by taking care of the house where you both live. I think she secretly resents you for not putting her in check. Women turn into bullies if they see weakness and it takes a man with balls to not allow that from the very beginning. She is entitled and disrespectful. You can’t change or fix this behavior. I think if it was…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:10 PM
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Lol I actually read no more mr nice guy. Awesome book!
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:55 PM
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Wait what are these books called and what are they about they sound interesting?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:28 PM
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Read no more mr nice guy or listen to it on audible. I think that book will give you the answers you’re looking for
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:27 PM
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Just be genuinely honest. This will weed out the people in your life that aren’t good for you. Not to say feminist can’t be good people but they usually antagonize those who think differently and end up distancing themselves. If they were feminist and wanted to have an open genuine discussion that is different. Just be yourself and the right people will end up in your life eventually. Just be patient, no need to fake your identity for shallow friendships/relationships.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:51 PM
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Mexico, Ukraine, or Russia is your best bet. Women there tend to be more feminine since their society doesn’t promote or financially help single mothers. Therefore, they’re not going to ditch you at the first inconvenience. They also have strong family values. They want masculine men, children, and financially stable household. You just gotta do your part and provide and they’ll do household work. There’s no way in hell you’ll find that in the US unless you meet a conservative Christian but even…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:19 PM
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That’s not the same 😭😭
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 04:06 PM
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Why would you move in with someone you don’t know?!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 04:01 PM
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Gotcha. I think their main issue is that too many people are intimidated by them and they just want to feel included. They also want to have more quality men talk to them because a lot of attractive women never get talked to. That’s my opinion.
/r/seduction15/12/20 03:03 PM
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We have to remember that not all attractive women are the same or think the same. Some attractive women are very humble and some of them are very narcissistic. I think they are fed up with men being cowards and not approaching them/talking to them. I think what they’re really saying is “men have to grow a pair so that I have a better chance of finding a guy that I like”. It’s ironic that most beautiful women I come across have boyfriends that don’t look as good as them. Women aren’t attracted to…
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:53 PM
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People are usually more honest online just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 02:15 PM
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Well in my opinion, I would recommend to not look at all. Just rub one out. The reason I say this is because if you aren’t attracting the type of women you want it’s because you need to work on yourself. This can range from improving body, charisma, finances, passion, etc. Once you have confidence and things in your life improve, you’ll find it easier to find the women you deem attractive. You need to be a 10 to attract a 10. I don’t recommend to keep chasing women if you need improvement becaus…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:47 PM
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Use your loneliness to your advantage. Sometimes we go through stages in life where we get no girls/quality girls. We might see it as a terrible phase, but it’s also a time to reinvent yourself. Use this time to pursue a passion. Get a masters degree, open a business, go to another country and work as a teacher, literally do something but don’t chase anymore. Every time I go through this kind of drought I focus on something else and once I start seeing success that’s when quality women gravitate…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:00 AM
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Guys cheat as well but women have more options than the average dude
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:14 PM
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I see where you are coming from. Why not indulge in the easy route? Well the thing with that is it might be easy in the moment but you will regret in the long term. I’ve met many women who slowly corroded their psyche and ended up being miserable for taking too many easy choices. (No lifelong partner, no kids, no ambitions, just living for a paycheck). Easy choices are convenient and momentary, but they don’t build anything long term. It’s the same as indulging in drugs (or my experience nicotin…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 05:00 PM
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I mean if you’re not weird they might just think you’re more of an introverted guy. Idk this is a vague question. You don’t have to be an extroverted alpha life of the party Chad to have other people’s respect
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:02 PM
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Wow this really helped! I think this is what I needed to hear. Thank you!
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:43 PM
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Invest in real estate so that both of you guys can make passive income
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 02:50 PM
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Yeah it looks bad because it makes it look like you don’t know how to pick high value women or women in general don’t respect you to at least break up with you. Just don’t talk about past relationships in general. There’s no reason to bring it up at all. If she really wants to know just say nothing but good things. When you talk shit about an ex they think that you talk about women like that behind their backs (aka her if you guys break up). Just say you guys didn’t match or you guys wanted diff…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:03 AM
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It takes balls to walk up to women and tell them you like them. A guy with balls is significantly more attractive than a guy that objectively looks attractive. You just have no idea how much women want that in men. I don’t think they talk about it, especially on an app like Reddit. But they’re looking for men that aren’t pussies. That doesn’t mean they have to look a certain way or act like assholes. It just means they’re confident and control their own fear. In the west that is incredibly hard …
/r/seduction10/10/20 12:41 AM
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This is good. This is the beginning of your new life.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:34 PM
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Go do stuff you like and join others doing it. Examples include: Go play soccer and join a pickup game at a local park. Go play pool and join a group that needs another player. Take dancing lessons and dance with girls or talk to a friend group that is there Trick is to do activities that require a group and then seek out where those potential groups can be.
/r/seduction28/09/20 04:22 AM
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That’s rough
/r/seduction28/09/20 01:30 AM
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You have my respect for doing that in front of her parents. Not only is it classy but it’s super brave too 👌
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:09 AM
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You want to get to know her to see if you guys are a good match. The trick is to make it seem like you are seeing if she is good enough for you. Don’t come from the perspective that you are beneath her and want to know more about her. Make it seem like you need to know if she’s worth your time. Of course do this in a charming way, don’t be a dick. If you do it right, she’ll respect you and have more interest since you aren’t easily swayed by her looks alone.
/r/seduction21/09/20 11:17 PM
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Totally agree. Happy to see that people still think traditionally and with common sense!
/r/seduction13/09/20 12:06 AM
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I like your insight, it’s a good way to think about it. The reason I’m not fond of women approaching men is more of a philosophical one. When I hear men complain that women should approach, I hear entitled men saying they don’t want to work or try to win a woman’s interest. I feel like that’s men abandoning their responsibility of being a man and that makes me feel disappointed. It may not be fun to be rejected a million times but its our responsibility to be brave in the face of humiliation. It…
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:20 PM
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A lot of guys complain that women should approach them instead. What’s your opinion on that? I don’t like the idea but curious about your POV
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:45 PM
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This needed to be posted!! Hate the nay-sayers that discourage a guy from starting a conversation with a girl. You only live life once, start taking risk!
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:42 PM
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I wasn’t talking about the employees. Sorry should have made that clear
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:03 PM
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