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| 144 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun. | Inner Game | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 08:40 AM |
| 19 | Should I approach women at my gym? | Outer Game | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 09:29 AM |
| 14 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny. | Inner Game | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 02:33 PM |
| 4 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link? | Logistics | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 07:24 PM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do? | Field Report | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Help with school. | Lifestyle | Parking-Mission600 | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:37 PM |
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| 18 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?Yea too vague of a question. Honestly I think it’s a safety thing I think with obvious attraction of course. If you come off as pursuing here and she knows that all you gotta do is make her safe and attracted towards you. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 05:25 PM |
| -1 | Not giving a fuck, is the biggest form of seduction. 90% falls for it.Nah I’ve had multiple women changed their mind after they seen my reaction to their rejection of me. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How to become more attractive as a manNah not really I feel like a big reason why we’re not present in these situations, is because we’re too worried about the outcome. Once you learn how to detach yourself from the outcome and learn how to enjoy the moment you win. But for me I only get to that point once my confidence is really high and I’ve been validated soo much that I don’t care what really happens next | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 07:24 AM |
| 2 | How to become more attractive as a manNot to sound werid but I achieve true presence when I’m in the flow state. Like after a couple of approaches and my confidence is really high I get into this mode of true being. I’m not worried about the outcome or anything just being present and enjoying myself. That’s when I’m most attractive and your not lying | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Who else feels less confident in shirts without ink?😂😂😂 wow I had a lovely experience reading this thank you | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls?No I think that’s exactly what he means by not courting doing what you want and not really caring about how she thinks about it. Makes sense actually | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 09:00 AM |
| 21 | “If she likes you she’ll make it easy” isnt always true is it?Yea for people like her the phone calls are your best friend honestly don’t even bother with texting them | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | She did it, but I can't do itYea ops whole way of viewing is the reason why he’s like that, all he needs is a slight change of mindset and he’ll be golden. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenExactly. Unless your like a big celebrity there’s no way your hitting 8-9s every 12 days for 4 years. Who would even want that too 😭 like keep a couple in rotation, but nah new one every week and a half and their 8-9s. Just looking at it doesn’t make sense. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise?More than anything you got to choose the right one. I can’t stress it enough you can be perfect, but if you chose wrong you’ll always lose. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Did anybody use Tinder to make friends with women and turn them into wing girls?Women actually do, but you can’t do this through tinder | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?A 5/10 would have a 100x better chance in person than online. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?If you have a great dating app set up yes it’s perfect, buts that’s a small percentage of men. I don’t take or have any good pics of myself so that doesn’t work for me. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?The impression you put on a woman in person could never be replicated on the phone. We’ve all had stories where their dry on the phone but after the first link everything changes, well you skip that faze by meeting her in person. And they’re more inclined to link or see you again much faster, because they’ve already seen you in person and are comfortable. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex?Why tf are yall talking about politics? | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Don’t do that 😭 you might be rn but work to be someone better and always have confidence on yourself fam | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Yea man how old are you? Cause to her she doesn’t even see you as one. And here you are putting her on a pedestal. With all due respect you are pathetic. Let go of her I know it’s going to hurt, but that what it takes to grow and become a stronger man. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Of course a wise man once told me that life is all about homeostasis. Which basically means balance it | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 06:09 AM |
| 25 | Seducing Single MothersNigga I’m 20 😭😭😭 your the big bro | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 06:07 AM |
| 38 | Seducing Single Motherswtf r you doing don’t get trapped 😭. You’re playing a dangerous game she’s young and looking for a bounce back. I would understand if she was in her mid to late 30s but she’s too young | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Either that or you weren’t absent enough fam. You know more than anyone what wrong just be honest with yourself and fix if for the next one. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How to keep yourself mysterious when your info is publicHonestly who would search up someone if they think you are a nobody. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 10:18 AM |
| 40 | Why Most Men Marry the Wrong PersonThat’s when the paradox of choice comes in to play. Sooner rather than later you have to settle down, you can’t spend your life looking for the perfect one while your life is passing by you. Be smart and choose wisely, but there’s no such thing as a perfect wife you have to be okay with some flaws if you want peace. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Why so? | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.She didn’t like your presence enough then. Move on to the next. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Of course chasing women is useless and bad for you, but just like any other vice people still do it. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.Of course, but nobody is looking for love in this sub Reddit 😂😭 at least me. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What training MMA taught me about success in dating100 percent, but in the same way you can out work those things. Some people aren’t the most talented when it comes to fighting and don’t have the aggression, but the beauty of being a human is the ability to learn and grow no matter the circumstances. Life is never fair, but we all have one thing in common. The ability to grow. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 08:07 AM |
| 3 | What training MMA taught me about success in datingI hate when people use and exceptions and say the rule doesn’t apply. Stop being dense obviously there’s going to be people like that, but that doesn’t change the rule. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Reputation is everythingIn life it is and if you have a bad one your fried. The lack of a reputation in it of itself is a reputation. Guard it with your life | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 10:12 AM |
| 5 | How would I go about talking to a girl that works at my gym?Yea ngl it might be awkward if shit goes left. I wouldn’t unless it’s damn near guaranteed and she’s showed you hella hints | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Girl ghosted me after a perfect date (full story)Show just enough—don’t text too much, or at all. In person, have a great time, but make her feel like she doesn’t fully have you. Don’t be too eager to plan the next meetup; instead, casually say something like, “Maybe we’ll see each other again.” If she’s really into you, she’ll try to get more of your attention. And if she’s not? Move on—it’s a win-win either way. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after a perfect date (full story)To hook her, yes you can drop the game later. But in the beginning, most women operate this way. Think about it: who were you most successful with, and how much interest did you actually show them? She seems young and not mature enough to appreciate what she has. Whether you play the game or not is up to you but understand the risk if you don’t. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 08:31 AM |
| 9 | Girl ghosted me after a perfect date (full story)She’s wifey material, let me play it safe and not be bold,” is the moment you lost her. Countless other men have probably thought the same thing, and she’s grown bored of it. She has endless options of guys treating her the exact same way. The harsh truth is that coming off as boyfriend material too soon can backfire—you lose the excitement that keeps her interested. Unless she’s mature enough to value stability over the chase, she’ll always choose fun over settling down. You showed too much int… | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seduced a coworker?Don’t get your meat where you get your cheese from | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Seeking RejectionIt’s not about the losing per say but the experience it’s self the greatest lesson is experience | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Seeking RejectionIf you fear failing you would never attempt. That’s the whole point. In order to become the greatest boxer you have to acknowledge that your gonna get punched on the way to the top, if you’re that afraid of rejection/punch you’ll never succeed. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Seeking RejectionNo it will. It’ll build confidence to speak to women | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 02:10 PM |
| 8 | I think I’m starting to hate women…Most men struggle to even connect with one woman in a year, while you’re experiencing that thirtyfold. The frustration you feel toward women for how easy things seem for them imagine how other men view you. To them, you’re in a position they can only dream of. You’re already in the top 1%. Take a moment to appreciate that and be grateful for what you have. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Analyzing my mistake.I think she might be holding back because she’s afraid of rejection and doesn’t want to risk jeopardizing your relationship. It could also be that you come across as a very passive guy who doesn’t make a move until you’re absolutely sure, and you may not be showing clear signs that you’re interested. That’s probably why she assumes you were just drunk talking. If you genuinely like her, the best approach is to tell her in a sober, sincere manner and show her how much she means to you. If you’re … | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:12 PM |
| 4 | How do people walk up to a complete stranger and have a full blown conversation that never ends standing face to face?They don’t overthink that’s the key. It’s like the flow state you’re not thinking just doing. Obviously the beginning is going to be a bit rigid and awkward, buts once you really settle in and get comfortable you start flowing. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 02:51 AM |
| -2 | It’s likely that I can sleep with three women next week. Should I?Get the hatrick fam. As long as they’re clean and seem like good people it’s fine, you don’t ow them any loyalty. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Bagwork would a call do the same? | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?I can get it this takes time tho | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Well of course that’s what I mainly do it’s just sometimes I’m a young male hormones get the best of me | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Yea but creating sexual attraction is difficult online plus ion take good pics linking girls I’ve met in person is a cake wake | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:51 PM |
| 0 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Deadass a day ngl 😭😭😭 I’m fired mentally dawg | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?It might be comfortability, but not wanting to be seen as “hoes” or too easy. There’s plenty of women who’ve found me hella attractive, but want to be seen as a good girl. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:35 PM |
| 0 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Yes but the reason why I never want to go down that route is I feel like I wasted time because the effort it took to get there is never worth it. Sex dont motivate me that much | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:09 PM |
| 8 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?Okay so the whole premise is for them to get used to saying yes so when the time i want her to say yes it’s easy for her? | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to get a girl comfortable in order to link?You right. I was hoping for something, but it just gets annoying after a while acting to get the cooch. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 07:39 PM |
| 5 | 18M I've never had a gf and girls never take interest in me but a girl in gym is holding eye contact. Should I approach and if yes how?If you’re unsure how to approach her, the best strategy is to keep it casual and indirect. For example, if she’s at the chest press machine, ask her how many sets she has left. This approach works well because it’s natural and non-intrusive. It also gives you a chance to gauge her reaction. If she responds warmly or even starts a conversation, that’s a green light. If she just gives a short answer and doesn’t engage further, she might not be interested—or she could just be focused or having a to… | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Hello SeducersI mean your right if your making bread do you. And it makes sense if you like hooking up on vacations, but if you’re doing this in the city you live it’s kinda dumb, that’s what I was assuming. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 10:06 AM |
| 0 | Hello SeducersNgl that’s crazy. Just go outside or after a while just maintain 2-3 girls no need to keep spending money on apps. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Bro I’m 20 with a baby face 😭 i can only mess with girls around my age. I want some cougar love | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Nah you nailed it dawg. Lately I’ve realized that’s number 1 thing I value in a partner and it’s intelligence or something that makes you interesting. I hate having convos with most girls they all sound the same. It’s soo hard to come across women like that and that time I did she wasn’t my type. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Problem is I have a 2 link clause where by the 2nd link I don’t want to ever see em again there’s plenty of women I can hit up rn and see, but I want new women. The people I already linked bore me. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.My therapist never really told me anything she rarely diagnosed me and would ask questions like how would you solve this. Is that what most therapist do? I want my therapist to have be opinionated. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Curiosity. It’s a problem , but I barely talk to girls. I see one like once a week maybe and that’s it. I just wanted to see why I’m like this. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 5 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.I never thought about it like that. Thank you I’ll try to switch them over. Should I choose an older guy? | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Damn at least give me some advice. I barley talk to women, it’s a problem I have help meeee | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Damn buddy 😭😭 nah I got stuff going on for me dawg I have hobbies I’ve been going to school and I honestly don’t crave sex at all. I don’t care much for women honestly and I’m not hungry for them. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 0 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.I see them as people bud. Chill out, but don’t act like everybody deserves the same amount of respect. I’ll treat you how you allow me to treat you. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.None | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Yea I’ve learned that and I appreciate the advice. I think this problem has more to do with me than anything else. I’m deeply flawed, but don’t know how to solve it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Elaborate | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:35 PM |
| 0 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.It’s not that I don’t care for them, but I’m just being more selfish you know. These women I’m talking about aren’t the ones that want dates and stuff like that. It’s the ones who just are messing around just like me. I wouldn’t do this to a girl who doesn’t want it herself. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:35 PM |
| -13 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.I’ve been going and my therapist kinda shitty ngl all she says is stop talking to them and I’m avoidant | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Wdym? | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:31 PM |
| -2 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.I understand where you coming from I really do. And I try my best to not do anything harmful to good women, but most of these girls I come across are just as bad as me. I can’t have empathy for them when they’re trying to play me from the jump. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:31 PM |
| -2 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Never. I mainly crave for validation, paying for pussy doesn’t give me what I want. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.And I’m talking about just here and there quick fcks. Every good girl I came across I tried to respect and honor, but most of these girls are just as manipulative and selfish as me. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:28 PM |
| -9 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.don’t most men not really care for the girl? Am I really crazy? I thought most people thought the same. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:27 PM |
| 7 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Barley do honestly. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Probably an unusual question, but how do I make friends?Yupp that’s life fam. You gottta be uncomfortable sometimes that’s when life really happens, but if you’re not into fighting just try something else. The reason I said fighting because it’s very tight knit group of people and it’s very easy to bond, you find brothers when you’re fighting. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 02:29 PM |
| 10 | Probably an unusual question, but how do I make friends?A lot of people tend to have this problem, even I deal with it. The solution you’re looking for is a bit simpler than you think, you just have to find those uni/school environments for your age range. For example the gym get to meet a ton of people and network, but if your lacking social skills that’s a whole different problem. Basically what I’m trying to say here is find hobbies/environments that you like and feel comfortable with and everything else will come. Fighting is another great avenue… | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Are they just outright asking for your number? Or are they being slick about it? | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?That makes sense but the girls i want to approach I never see again id understand if this is school or work but women aren’t typically loyal to the gym at least the one I go too | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Good game | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Nah fam I’ve been going for a year straight never thought of doing it. But on election night I saw that fattest ass I ever seen and didn’t approach, now I’m left to deal with regret of that decision. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Every non-club/bar/event approaches seems to be frowned upon?Yea that’s why you indirectly approach em lowers their guard and doesn’t make you seem creepy at all. Unless you’re extremely confident in your looks, but even then some girls will take it the wrong way if you just come and say hey can I get your number. | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Help with school.That’s prolly it | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | takes so much out of youYup everybody got their own style of seduction. Best type of seduction is the one that best fits your personality. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How to reschedule a date after a valid excuse ?Yea bro leave it alone dont feed her ego but asking her if she wants it she’ll come and that’s when you’ll have more leverage and you’ll know that’s she actually likes you. Worst case you guys never talk again and you save countless hours and days of begging and lacking self respect. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:24 AM |
| 8 | Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You ThinkYea I think he gets a sense a validation from it. Usually people who take it those extremes are doing it for some self worth reasons. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Wrong about dating appsDamn you hit it on the fucking nail ngl | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you find hookups?Your ok the right track but your missing something women don’t want to be seen as a hoe most are fine with just hooking up as long as you make em feel like they are more than that you don’t have to love bomb em | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:12 AM |
| 4 | How do you find hookups?Real game but another thing is too girls don’t ever wanna feel like their just hookups MOST OF THE TIME so as a long as you make her feel like she’s more than that and your not fit for a relationship boom your in the green | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 10:09 AM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Can it be her? I hurt her so much I just want to repay her somehow | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Of course I’m not saying I’m not guilty and I deserve her I know I don’t all I’m saying is can I be that person and is there a chance of it happening | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 01:03 PM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?I can’t be that person? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Can’t do that now she’s seen the truth and she’s not dumb besides she didn’t even let me speak | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:46 AM |
| -5 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Did that many times it worked on smaller things but her perception of me shatterd shit broke my heart ngl. I want to become a better man. I hope this never leaves me and I really do change. Too many times in my life where I don’t learn from my mistakes, how I make this one stick? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?I’m her first everything does that change the situation? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:42 AM |
| -3 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?She’s a shark amongst fish perfect in every way | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:41 AM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?She really was. Sometimes people can always fuck up perfect situations | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?Insecurities honestly I glew up in the relationship and didnt know what I had | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 11:36 AM |
| 38 | Do I come off too strong while flirting?Nah you cooked 90 percent of men aren’t that confident to even do what you did and she was comfortable with it too? Yea 10/10 approach. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 10:59 PM |
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