Parking_Skin4863 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman	Debate	Parking_Skin4863	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 03:30 PM
1	Q4M: would you be offended, unbothered or complimented if your partner told you this?	Question For Men	Parking_Skin4863	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:17 AM

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–	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I remember a while back, the phrase “men will fuck anything” was trending, and there are quite a tew women online that still love sharing the same views. But for some reason, in the minds of these women, this universally observable phenomenon of men lowering their standards for casual sex only applies when men are having sex with other women, not them. I don’t think l’ve actually seen a single one of these women who say these things acknowledge that if they’ve had casual sex that they likely wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 07:49 PM
–	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I don’t know nor do I care. This was not the point of my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 01:53 PM
–	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Stupidity = accepting a harsh truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 01:41 PM
–	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Literally your comment says so. Women want fun and security. But the man they hookup with provided them with fun the person they can get commitment from can’t provide as much, otherwise they wouldn’t feel a need to hookup in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 01:40 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman To be honest in a way I can’t blame them. I mean, we all want to have sex with the best looking people. If my husband wasn’t nearly as attractive as the people I hooked up with, id probably lie to myself about him being my first choice also. It’s not an easy thing to come to terms with, it’s easier to delude yourself than to face the harsh reality. it’s just frustrating when they personally attack you for noticing this dynamic exists. The harsh realities of life aren’t an easy thing to come to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 12:47 AM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman The denial here is funny to me. On this whole post. It’s a bit frustrating when they just can’t admit it, but it’s funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 12:04 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman They don’t want to admit it. They know it deep down, but they don’t want to admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 11:43 PM
6	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Yes and average woman are definitely looking for average men when they are hooking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 09:29 PM
4	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman The fact one man hit it just by existing and another man has to work for it is indicative of who is first choice. The first choice is usually whoever had to put the least effort to have sex with the woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 09:17 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Yeah most people are average but when it comes to casual sex, the top portion of men are getting most of the girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 08:41 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman It is. I don’t know what planet you’re living on	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:20 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Not just marriage but in general commitment. Why is the word situationship overwhelmingly used by women? I think you’re just choosing not to accept an inconvenient truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:06 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Why is it whenever someone complains about not getting commitment, it’s most of the time the woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:02 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Not possible given women have a lower libido than men and are more selective with their partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:00 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Let me know when men can regularly get attention from women out of their league	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 03:54 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Sometimes is is better to see alternate perspectives. But in this case people seem to be in denial this happens in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 03:09 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Do you think average looking women are hooking up with average men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:51 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Because if she was willing to have sex with a man purely based on his physical appearance and not much else clearly he was more attractive? Doesn’t take a genius to figure it out	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:50 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I don’t plan on getting married. I’m in my early 20s and just enjoying myself. Keeping things casual. When I become old and ugly and still want to sleep with younger women, I’ll just get escorts or a sugar baby lol. But marriage isn’t for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:41 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Because I’m answering your question with a question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:08 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Exactly, a lot of married couple will say shit like “everything was fine, besides the dead bedroom”, clearly everything wasn’t fine. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:06 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Ok let me ask you this. Do you think men are willing to “date down” when it comes to casual sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:01 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I don’t think that’s true. And if it does, it’s the exception	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:58 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman People here can’t decide. This dynamic ISNT real! ok it is real, but only a teeny weeny small minority of people are doing it. It’s real, and I brought it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:56 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman You’re telling me average women are hooking up with average men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:52 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Average looking women will not commit to below average man most of the time. you’re right, what women who engage in casual sex will do is spend her youth chasing men out of her league and eventually “settle” on someone who is in her league. Nice personal attacks, you know nothing about me, or how much money I earn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:50 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Where is le based and epic sourcerino for concluding that people want an ideal partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:47 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman True. We should become more aware	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:46 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I agree. This is not a blame game, this is an accepting reality of some people game	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:15 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Because what one man worked for the other got for free	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:14 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman She couldn’t retain them*	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:10 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman What are you even talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:12 AM
-2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I think you’re just annoyed because you match the behaviour I brought up	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:05 AM
-5	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I was not here to gauge how many women engage in casual sex, I don’t know nor do I care. I was simply saying how the dual mating strategy that men engage in is different to the one women engage in. Just because you assumed I was talking about all women is your problem. I never said it was all women, but if the shoe fits, wear it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 03:49 AM
-1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Again with the assumptions. When did I say all women do this? I don’t know what it is with you people assuming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 03:29 AM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I wish you and your husband the best. Feel a little bad for the fella though	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 03:28 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman If a woman has casual sex and settles down later in life, chances are the person she ends up marrying isn’t as attractive to her	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:54 AM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Because that would be transactional and prostitution. You don’t understand that humans want to be desired? Are you normal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:33 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Generally the most important thing =/= only things that matters. Reading comprehension in this place is lacking	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:32 AM
5	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman As we say, alpha fucks, beta bucks	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:29 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Did I say looks are all that matters?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:28 AM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman They ideally want both from the same man but are unable to, so they settle for the stable guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:21 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman If you’ve engaged in casual sex he likely isn’t your first choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:19 AM
7	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Looks generally are the most important thing. And if they weren’t, the same woman who expects her man to abide by all these standards wouldn’t have hooked up with a man who did nothing for her, simply because of his looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:11 AM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Are you in a long term relationship or currently want one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:52 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman With these dynamics, Men go with similar attractiveness because they can’t regularly get attention from women out of their league. Women go for similar attractiveness because they can get attention from men out of their league, they just can’t keep them	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:52 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Women want everything in one guy, I mean everyone wants everything in one person. Point is the guy who is the most attractive won’t commit to an average woman, why would he? Marriage itself isn’t a punishment, but being in a marriage with someone who views you as a betabuxxer is. You’re being dishonest. There is a difference between fantasising over celebrities and people you’ve had prior relations with. Of course most people don’t think they can be with a celebrity. I love how you make assumpti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:48 AM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Commitment, provision, being their first choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:42 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman 👍🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:42 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Alright. I acknowledge that men and women are capable of dual mating strategies. Just that, in the dynamic that’s created by a female dual mating strategy, the man gets a much worse deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:16 AM
4	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Yeah that’s my point. She’ll uphold all of these standards the husband has to commit to meanwhile she let another dude hit simply for being attractive. How is that not second choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:08 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I spoke about very real dynamics that occur, you write it off as fan fiction then start talking about something completely different	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:59 AM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Why are you assuming that just because someone is good looking that they’re automatically a bad person? Plenty of good looking men who are decent people who sleep around and don’t want to commit to women below their league, why would they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:57 AM
5	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Plenty of women will simp over guys they are in a situationship with, you’re acting like it doesn’t happen. I’m also calling bullshit on the last paragraph, if she could retain the “hot men” she would be with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:56 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Man look at my post I acknowledged there is a male dual mating strategy also. I think most people want someone ideal, it’s not a unique thing to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:14 AM
5	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Then this dynamic doesn’t apply to you. And to be honest I wasn’t talking about you in particular, I was speaking in terms of hypotheticals	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:03 AM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman That’s true. But there is a big difference, men most of the time can’t have sex with someone out of their league, women can. So if a woman indulged in that behaviour and wants commitment also, it’s unlike the “chad” or however people want to call them, will commit. So their LTRs will be second choice. Hence dual mating strategy	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:03 AM
7	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman You’re telling me the average person doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a hot person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:01 AM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I agree, looks are very important. What I am saying is that women can regularly hook up with men out of their league. Everyone wants to have sex with the best looking person, It’s an understandable choice to make. The issue is these same woman can’t get those guys to commit due to them being out of their league, but if they desire a relationship they must settle in looks, so in this dynamic their husband is their second choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:01 AM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman If you hooked up, chances are you did so with a man out of your league. You chose your LTR because the men you perused didn’t commit	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 11:37 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Oh yeah fair enough man, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 11:27 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I think most 5/10 women would rather be in a relationship with a 8/10 man than a 5/10 man (same with men but the opposite), people want the most attractive person they can get. The difference is there’s a difference between what a woman can get causally and long term	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 11:20 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I’m not saying what you’re saying isn’t true. I think it is. To be honest I think both genders like to bullshit themselves about how looks don’t matter as much as they do, but most men are unable to really have sex with women outside of their SMV, so this happens less often than the opposite	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 11:13 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman And who are they hooking up with? Definitely not average looking men	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 11:05 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman She desired those men the most, and if she could have retained them she would. She is only with the second choice male in this scenario out of desperation, not out of choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:59 PM
2	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman If a woman has engaged in casual sex, it’s unlikely that her husband will be her first choice, unless she also happens to be in the top % of women. But a 5/10 will definitely not hook up with another average looking man. So by default if a regular woman engages in that behaviour, unless she is very lucky, is unable to gain commitment from the people she was hooking up with, and is only able to get it from men she wouldn’t hook up with	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:57 PM
3	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I agree that not all women abide by this dynamic but I’m not sure where I said all of them do	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:55 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman You are saying that it is wrong to “commodify it”, could you say the same thing about a man’s commitment? If a woman fails to get commitment from a man and brings it up, would you accuse her of the same thing? Are you denying that women who engage in casual sex will not chase the top portion of men? And if you acknowledge this happens, how is it possible for her husband to he her first choice, or anywhere near it, if there are only so many men who fit this criteria?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:54 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Because I can? I don’t see why I can’t compare a woman’s dual mating strategy to a man’s when I’ve seen it repeatedly used to shut down people bringing it up. I simply brought up two dynamics that occur. If people want to assume that I meant it happens most of the time that’s on them	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:50 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Are you denying that women who engage in casual sex tend to chase the top portion of men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:49 PM
1	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman There are, I never said they don’t. But in this dynamic in particular that I brought up they wouldn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:45 PM
-6	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I’m not saying that what you’re saying is wrong. But I’m not sure why people are assuming that I said this applies to the majority of people. I simply compared two dating strategies that men and women used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:44 PM
-8	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I’m not saying that what you’re saying is wrong. But I’m not sure why people are assuming that I said this applies to the majority of people. I simply compared two dating strategies that men and women used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:44 PM
–	Q4M: would you be offended, unbothered or complimented if your partner told you this? Ok I did not see the other post. I think I will delete this one then	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 12:27 PM