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Can’t wait for genetic editing to be a thing. This guys getting wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:20 AM
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They are. Just not for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:14 AM
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Q4All: specifically those against the blackpill/lookism. Are you against the idea that men’s appearance specifically contributes to his dating/life success. Or are you against the idea for women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:04 AM
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I met them. I had a fwb with one like that and she was absolutely exhausting and manipulative towards me and I just ended up blocking her on everything because she had tons of growing up to do. My friends ex who turned his friends against him through lies also had these things. I’m not going to assume these types of women are automatically going to be this way, but I do have more caution than I did before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:30 AM
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I also really don’t want to paint these types of women with a broad brush but almost every lady I’ve met with nose piercings, tattoos, and hair that’s a primary color has always had severe psychological issues like lying, manipulation, gaslighting, and threats of suicide when they don’t get their way. I’m trying to be understanding but it just always seems to be the case that sane people don’t have these fashion items and insane ones do. Like I understand if you have trauma, but that’s not what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:14 AM
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Even if it’s true that women will like you if you’re a bad guy, why would you want that? Personally that would be exhausting having to be an asshole daily just to keep her around. I’m not gonna corrupt my own morals just for some pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:00 AM
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Yeah but STIs are equally so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:26 AM
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Is it reasonable to require every new partner to get tested before you have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:32 AM
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And yet here you are advocating for it in your post. Asking a man to pay for it is also asking a woman to charge for it. What really is your point here? Wha kinda submission are young men not getting from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:11 AM
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Is that why you charged your bf for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:04 AM
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As a man, you should be picky and willing to leave a relationship even if it means being single. It’s far better than being abused or betabuxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:23 PM
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cries in 12% humidity 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:41 PM
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In a way yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:17 PM
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You gotta admit for that series it’s probably gonna be the best entry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:58 AM
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This game looks cool. Would’ve done numbers in 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:52 AM
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Yeah it’s amazing the lengths they go to. I see a lot just cover their faces with these types of fabrics. But hey it’s paying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:35 AM
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True, that does play a part. It’s also fat distribution and Asians tend to keep fuller faces later in life. Which could also arguably be attributed to sun protection. But as for skin quality Asians pretty much out do everybody lol. And we’ve all seen that truck driver photo where half his face aged 20 years from one side of sun exposure. So sun protection will still do you a world of good and take 10 years off your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:50 AM
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I firmly believe that the reason why Japanese women look 20 in their 50s is because they’re sunphobic like crazy. I see many Japanese and Asian tourists covering up like this outside where I am. And they almost always have god tier skin. Considering that 90% of skin aging is caused by UV, I don’t think it’s super far fetched. Unfortunately this is overlooked in many skincare communities and the west in general. Which makes me wonder if Arab women have less skin aging as well. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:31 AM
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Hmmm yeah that’s a good point. I guess it’s a struggle of personal satisfaction and social satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:52 AM
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I notice men are far more obsessed with masculinity than women are with femininity. Why? What causes men to be more obsessed with appearing more manly than women being more feminine? Or do I have it all wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:39 AM

I’ve had plenty of male teachers as a kid. Only times I didn’t was when I was under 10. That seems to be where teaching as a man is frowned upon for some reason. Would I have benefited from a male teacher at that age? Maybe. Idk. But this seems like more of a character problem with these teachers rather than a character problem with women. To address your post though: Is straight up untrue. You get the correct answers or you don’t. If you think the teacher made a mistake, Google it and let her k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:54 PM
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My cat loves to watch me play Donkey Kong. She won’t watch me play any other game besides that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:19 PM
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Nobody is complaining that it doesn’t work. Just that it’s undesirable and a bad position to be in as a man. It’s like being proud you get to chew your food but not swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:21 AM
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And where did I say any of that cheif?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:13 AM

Why do some people get offended when you point out their disgusting hygiene? Like no, I’m not eat burgers you made with that nasty ass spatula that touched your bare unclean countertop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:56 AM
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I highly doubt most men will become violent over small stressors. Don’t get me wrong I’ve seen it and experienced it but it’s generally frowned upon and social suicide. The type of men I see doing this are complete losers. Economically and socially. Maybe avoiding those types of men would help?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:05 AM

A common complaint I heard from women growing up was “The guys I like don’t like me back and I don’t like the guys who like me back”. I’ve never heard a woman above a 6.5-7/10 say anything like this. I think it’s safe to say that for the most part, lots of women are punching above what they can get. I’ve even had this happen in a mostly boys highschool with a girl who was obviously into me but I didn’t care for her, but literally every guy at that school was trying to get with her. You can guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:00 AM
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I think it would help if you clarify the type of stress men would be more violent under. Are we talking about work stress, personal stress, relationship stress, current event stress?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:45 AM
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There’s definitely a “crabs in a bucket” mentality in the manosphere/redpill that drags men down and can worsen their chances. Why do you think they rip on pretty boys and claim that women don’t like them? Ever since I’ve tried looking like a pretty boy I get far more female attention than I would’ve looking like a masculine ogre like these redpillers seem to think women are attracted to. So in essence yes but it’s less intentional and more so in denial. Men can’t comprehend that women are attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:04 PM
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These are in no way remotely comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:04 PM
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Holy shit I remember this movie! Can’t believe I forgot!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:22 AM
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Wonder what it’s like having a dad who’s not a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:09 AM
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Q4All: You ever just look at someone and think “I gotta feeling this person is a straight up bitch” and you’re proven right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:30 AM
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Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:20 AM
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r/no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:18 AM
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Everything about that post is fucking weird. Especially that sub 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:58 AM
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Nah labubu people are just kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:02 AM
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Being a naturally rebellious person in life takes you very far. You’re able to walk away from harmful things even if you’re the only one who does so. You’re able to try new things that will be best for you not society. However, these types of people are rare. Most people prefer “safe” options. Safe meaning “won’t get me ridiculed”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:34 PM
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Chicken sausages, sunny side up eggs, and turkey bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:10 AM
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Man rich people used to invest in public infrastructure like roads, universities, hospitals, and water treatment plants (while still being evil). Now they buy social media websites and make stupid trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 PM
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That tie is super dapper on him 😤😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:05 AM
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You just know he asks for uppies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:43 PM
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I’m starting to think windmill flowers is making alt accounts and posting on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:39 AM
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But they’ll have her face though 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:52 PM
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The worst thing about this a 6’3 tall man decided to date that 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:51 PM
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Those guys likely have the features to pull it off. Some guys faces are too masculine to do the androgynous look and if they tried it they’d end up looking like a poorly passing trans woman. As a man it’s best to play off your own phenotype instead of follow trends. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:42 PM
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Q4All: What did you realize was part of becoming more mature in life? Mine was realizing that people don’t have the same brain as me so I can’t be upset when someone does or doesn’t do something that I normally would/wouldn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:34 AM
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She makes reaction content but it’s way over the top. I get that she’s reacting to things that are negative but it comes off as annoying and kinda ridiculous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:11 AM

Man I’m sorry that’s extremely fucked up 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:12 PM

<image> This chick is super hot. But idk if I’d want to date her irl because she’s always SCREAMING AND STRESSED OUT IN ALL HER VIDEOS!!! But otherwise super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:11 PM

Whoa whoa where’s this coming from? Is this from a post or a personal story?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:05 PM

What do you feel like you need to do to be a good boyfriend? Is it the volume of tasks or is there a specific task you feel would be equally satisfying to both of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:29 PM

I genuinely don’t understand gen z and millennials aversions to phone calls. As a gen z man myself, I actually don’t mind them and actually prefer it to email/texting. Idk if it’s because I like instant replies or whatnot but phone calls aren’t really all that scary to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:02 PM

Yeah. I think it’s due to humans wanting everything to feel of value. Nobody wants to go through something negative for nothing. It’s why the sunk cost fallacy is so prevalent in relationships, jobs, and projects. The issue is that what we perceive as valuable may not be as objective as we think. Sure becoming vengeful yourself can feel like you’re getting your “moneys worth” but unless it comes from a place of justice AND makes your situation OBJECTIVELY better, it may do more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:49 PM

Victims and abusers aren’t always different people. Many victims go on to become abusers themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:28 PM
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Tourist. Still gotta plan it out and save up a bit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:48 PM
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That would be the best time to do it lol although I’ve never heard of Australia ever being cold during any time of the year but idk 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:47 PM
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Idk yet. Anywhere I’d be able to see kangaroos or koalas. That’s a start at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:10 PM
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I think I’m gonna plan a trip to Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:01 PM

It’s become impossible to debate on this sub because the majority of you think fallacies are argument destroyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:38 PM

Man I’m sorry bout all that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:31 PM

People like this mystify me. How do you go through life being that sensitive and having zero conflict resolution skills? It’s so childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:38 PM

Q4All: Who was the most manipulative person you’ve dated? What made you realize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:07 PM

Which is why you shouldn’t focus on labels but their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:42 PM

I thought that was for premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:31 PM

Fair lol 😂 but it’s important to have realistic expectations and it depends on the denomination of the woman. There are certain sects where they are headstrong about sex being only for reproduction and no bjs or anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:17 PM

I have no problem with men wanting traditional women if that’s what they truly want. However, I think they’re unhealthily idealized by a lot of men who don’t fully understand what they’re getting into. A traditional woman absolutely WILL have expectations of you that you might not like. She will expect you to be the bread winner, be masculine, be religious, and will definitely not be kinky. If this is something you don’t like, then reconsider. I’m willing to be most of the time when men say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:39 PM

If you’ve ever watched love on the spectrum, more women than men say they’ve been on dates before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:41 PM

Well then I guess we just have different perspectives. The most height obsessed women I meet are the tall ones. The short ones aren’t really like that. I’m not sure why but that’s what I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:40 AM

Never have I ever heard of shorter women preferring taller men more than other types. In fact, I’ve noticed the opposite. I’m average height for a man in the US and what I noticed is that if a woman is my height or above there’s a clear difference in how she treats me vs if she’s shorter than me. Women who are shorter than me almost always treat me much better and are more into me. Even if it’s like 3 inches shorter. Pretty much every inch she’s shorter than me, the better I am treated and the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:10 AM

I have more keys than key chains 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:57 PM

Q4M: Is IQ an important factor to you for dating a woman? To me it is. Dumb girls turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:55 PM

I just remembered I’m an adult and I can buy a dozen donuts for myself 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:57 PM

I thought that was sweet til I saw the sub name 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:07 PM

Yeah we created society for a reason. Nature doesn’t have the best intentions for us. It’s just wild and dangerous. We didn’t build modern society for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:02 PM
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They’re one small part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:40 PM
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“If she’s nice to you that doesn’t automatically mean she likes you!” True but if she’s standoffish, you can bet your ass she is not attracted to you in any way. People for the most part are at best aloof towards, and at worst rude towards people they don’t find attractive. On the contrary women who find you attractive WILL be nicer to you. Worst case scenario she lets you down much easier than someone who truly doesn’t like you. Best case scenario is she’s interested and you get a yes. Point is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:37 AM
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Ironically, me being unconfident and not caring about confidence made me more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:49 AM
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Is it feminists who uphold this or society?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:31 AM
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Pretty much. I see this on Reddit all the time when people complain something isn’t acceptable by society. I have sympathy for them to a point because it would be nice if society was as progressive as we want it to be. What I don’t understand is why you have to wait til society accepts something to be yourself and have your values. It’s not realistic and eats at your soul. Being the change you want to see is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:19 AM

What are they dying of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:37 AM

Who exactly is dying out here? Or is this metaphorical?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:31 AM
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Similar but not the same. If it doesn’t increase chances of survival it’s sexual. If does it’s natural. This distinction is important because it’s possible to sexually select to the point where an organism dies or struggles to survive. Defeating the purpose. Irish elk are perfect examples. Grew too large and antlers were too large. Starving them to death due to the energy needed to move and was essentially the worst for eluding predators. They were walking giant buffets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:29 AM
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Yeah it can do a lot. Know anyone who died of smallpox? Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:24 AM
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What have you done? You might just be focusing on the wrong traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:15 AM

No that’s sexual selection. Not natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:12 AM

No whoever gets the cure for cancers and heart disease will survive. Polio was a big thing before the vaccine and if you got it you were guaranteed death. But instead of letting people with an immunity survive (which likely might’ve let people go extinct. No guarantee anyone would develop immunity naturally) we developed a vaccine which saved people without dooming civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:11 AM

And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:04 AM

Humans basically have no natural selection due to the amount of things we can die from drastically reducing by modern technology. There’s a reason why heart attacks and cancer kill more people than anything else. Because we aren’t dying from plagues, Saber tooth tigers, starvation, or dehydration. There’s nothing to “adapt” to. We’re living healthier, longer lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:02 AM

This isn’t natural selection. Natural selection favors who can survive in their environment oftentimes just barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:39 AM
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Because she knows it’s an act. Guys like this have skeletons in their closet and women aren’t stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:59 AM
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I really hate when anyone makes a claim about human nature on this sub in a vacuum. We don’t have any control groups for human nature besides a small amount of tribes around the world which is not even remotely close enough to know how much of what is a product of our environment and what isn’t. Furthermore we need to stop justifying things because they’re “natural”. Brushing your teeth, wearing sunscreen, and taking antibiotics are the furthest things from natural but are essential for human su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:55 AM
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Why do some people get mad when you don’t believe their obvious lies? Like it’s not my fault you’re a shitty liar. The narcissism is unreal sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:38 AM

You can always get a body hair to scalp transplant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:44 AM

I have thick eyebrows, beard, and body hair, yet I’m bald. Funny how that works. Thank god for systems and transplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:52 AM
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The only good thing there is the frosty. The burgers are just ultra greasy and weird tasting 🤢.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:28 AM
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Q4All: Worst fast food joint in your opinion? You’ll never catch me dead at a Wendy’s 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:17 AM
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It’s a Reddit thing. These idiots are so miserable and unfulfilled that they have to punch down. Normal people (which is most people) will not give a shit if you can get dates or not. They will continue with life like normal and forget about your dating status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:41 PM
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Normies just moralize everything. Not only dating. It’s a human thing. Get cancer? “You ate too many Reese’s and not enough organic mushrooms and kale!!” Lose a loved one? “God is punishing you for some sins you committed as a kid!” Get fired/laid off? “You didn’t work hard enough or go the extra mile!”. When you understand this you’ll realize it’s not personal. People are just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:37 PM
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Whenever some YouTuber doing some crazy ass thing says “don’t try this at home” I laugh because yes I can totally blow up a toilet with thermite at home in my suburb 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:57 AM

Tbf I’ve seen really skinny women struggle before. Looking gaunt and starved doesn’t look good on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:59 PM
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Sounds like the average 5 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:44 PM

Most guys I know are either skinny/under muscled or obese so right off the bat that takes them out of the game. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:17 PM

I will do anything for fun dip rn. I’m high and craving sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:10 AM

You’re better off putting tiny cookies into a bowl of milk lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:48 AM

Cookie Crisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:23 AM

Pretty good. Just working a new less stressful job. hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:06 AM

Oh hey Sarai :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:16 PM

I’ll take it if you don’t want it 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:15 PM

Apparently not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:27 AM

Why’d you buy it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:22 AM

Q4All: What is the most useless thing you own?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:56 AM

Thanks! Calorie deficit and keeping my protein up. Plus lifting and walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:36 AM

Finally down to 15.9% bodyfat! Almost to my goal of 9%. Just 10 more pounds to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:27 AM
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Q4All: what’s your favorite monkey? I like spider monkeys and mandrills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:19 AM
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Genuinely what point are you trying to make here? I’m super confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:14 AM

Why is it that people who claim that their race is the best oftentimes are the least genetically gifted? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:48 AM

Q4W: How often do you come across men who know how to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:41 AM
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Why would any dude be bald when you can have a hairsystem or get a transplant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:21 AM
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Damn even the weather in Australia tryna kill them 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:35 AM
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I will never get the hate for black licorice. Better than red.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:05 AM

I need to get a tretinoin prescription rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:11 AM

Shit that’s right 😯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:11 PM

Does anyone else find it weird we have different names for male genitalia that also happen to be first names (Dick, Willy, Johnson), but we don’t have first names for women that also refer to female genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:10 AM

Q4M: I might know the answer to this but what’s your average match rate on tinder? I got like 4 likes in one day one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:34 AM

I really hate the advice “go meet someone in the real world” because it’s super flippant and ignores the big picture. 1. The real world is very narrow and similar depending on where you are in the world. Sure if you live in super diverse, high population cities, the real world will reflect that for you and give you an advantage. If not, then you better like what you get because you won’t have much choice. 2. Expecting an introverted man to somehow become this suave sweet talking Casanova is ridi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:25 PM
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Q4All: what happened to most people you went to college/highschool with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:37 AM
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They really need new flavors of fortune cookies fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:07 AM
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Ah yes because the average American is this rebellious counter culture warrior who defys all social norms and fights for their beliefs. Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:02 AM
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If someone keeps doing stupid things, they’re most likely stupid. That’s just how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:55 AM
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As a person who considers themselves progressive, it really boggles my mind how many progressives stress themselves out and lash out compared to conservatives. Like it’s not helping our cause. It just make people in our group do irrational things that give the other side ammo and support. The two most high strung groups of people I’ve ever met were super progressive people and super religious people. What causes them to erupt and stress so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:08 PM
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Buy a couple boosts if you need to. Doesn’t have to be a dating app either. Could do instagram, Snapchat, or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:04 PM
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Gru and el macho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:55 PM

Minions are just hello kitty for old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:50 AM
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Idk what you want me to say. There’s still lots you can do that will actually help. You can either do them and see if it works, or you can complain. I can’t make the choice for you. You really are misinterpreting the blackpill and I know you are because they don’t only refer to bone structure. It’s a bunch of other traits too. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:53 PM
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Would you date a woman with the best bone structure but she was wrinkly, morbidly obese, and bald? If the answer is no neither would a woman do the same for a male equivalent. Even if the problem was your structure, you can still get surgeries to fix it. Again not guaranteed it’s gonna turn you into a giga chad, but it helps. You’re focusing too much on one particular trait rather than multiple traits and how they blend and go together. Even blackpillers know this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:35 PM
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If they didn’t do those things they wouldn’t be attractive. Nobody comes out of the womb attractive. You don’t see their skincare routines, makeup routines (literally every male actor and model wears makeup), gym routines, or even the cosmetic surgeries they get. Not saying it’ll make you some giga chad model but it’ll take you farther than you think. Men using tricks to improve their appearance is a foreign concept to us because it’s been pointlessly gendered and ridiculed. But it happens quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:24 PM
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No they literally don’t lmao. Haven’t you seen the comments under videos of those tik tok thirst traps of pretty boy looking dudes? It’s all women with heart emojis calling him majestic, gorgeous, and sexy. These women probably aren’t stupid either and know those men do these things. They don’t care because he looks good. Stop listening to redpill propaganda and do what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:40 PM
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It’s actually not. Most women couldn’t vote, open bank accounts, own property, or keep any capital for most of the 20th century. You also wouldn’t believe how many men think it’s “gay” to have a skincare routine, to groom your eyebrows and lashes, or grow out and groom your hair. Yet if you look at literally every thirst trap for women it’s a man doing those exact things. Women simp up and down for these men. Women are in the dating market to win, while men are in it to play fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:29 PM

I really fail to see how this will make anyone safer. Has there been in uptick in murderous male Uber drivers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:09 PM

Hey that’s totally not me 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:02 PM

I feel like a rare specimen here because I have had quite a few women approach me before. It’s not like a massive amount like a male movie star would get but it happens fairly often. Idk if guys are exaggerating or if they really don’t get approached at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:41 AM

Q4W: If there was a time in your life when you were single then suddenly got a boyfriend, how many men left/joined your social circle? Or did it stay the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:34 AM

So the prince of darkness is no longer with us 😔. Of all the things he did Parkinson’s is what got him. RIP Ozzy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:35 AM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:09 PM

It really pisses me off in this sub how person a will say something, and person b is like “pffft that doesn’t happen, go look outside in the real world!” Then person a provides evidence for their claim and person b says “Um sweetie this is obvious haven’t you been paying attention?? What exactly is shocking about this??” Seriously it’s just cowardly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:01 PM

Some people are super manipulative and will go to great lengths to use someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:56 PM

And that’s fine. But don’t marry someone you don’t picture yourself fucking or kissing. It’s not fair for either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:49 PM
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Because I already werewolfmaxxed 😜 But seriously I’m trying to stop looking so old and prevent myself from looking older than my age in the future. That’s why I got a hairsystem and am now starting an overdue skincare routine at the ripe age of 21. So far it is working. Next step is to get my eyebrows and lashes dyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:44 AM
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*anything by Green Day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:10 AM
3

Q4All: What political viewpoints do you hold that are opposite of what the party you identify with holds? If any?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:07 AM
2

Y’all ever just eat a food you haven’t had in a long time and it just tastes heavenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:33 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:54 PM
1

Sex work will not solve the problems you think it will. You can’t have a relationship/family with a sex worker. Which most men want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:09 PM
1

Ngl if a girl wore clown makeup that would be super hot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:19 AM
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Actually I think both parties gate-keep both. If neither agrees to any arrangement, it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:54 AM
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I hate the phrase “age like milk”. Milk ages and turns into cheese which is delicious. It really should be “age like guacamole”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:36 PM
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Whenever people tell me that everyone in their life sucks, it’s either: They take everything as a personal attack and escalate things further. They are the problem and are the asshole but cry when people stand up to them. Not always but the distinction is rarely made.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:18 AM
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Nah just dry but I will check that out 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:26 PM
1

Nice 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:39 PM
1

Thanks for that. When I was a teen, I had to go to urgent care for horrible sunburns on my legs (blisters, swelling, redness, couldn’t walk very well) I’ve become super sun phobic and took it seriously since. Idk how people get tans but I’ll pass 😵‍💫.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:39 PM
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Cleanser cost me $17 for 400ml and moisturizer was $23. I’d say it’s worth the money though and they last me awhile. I would never buy their sunscreen though. Way too much for what you can get essentially the same thing cheaper with other brands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:33 PM
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<image> My skin care routine. Spf is extremely important since I’m whiter than sour cream and live in a place where the UV index is 11 daily in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:14 PM

I’m a good one I promise 🙇‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:19 PM
0

Q4All: Which eye color is most attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:07 PM
0

May I ask what was so special about that era?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:06 PM

Right? What morally bankrupt fuck considers this a harsh truth??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:03 PM
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He won’t divorce her because he won’t get any other women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:40 PM
1

That pizza doesn’t look like a scam to me 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:41 PM
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Don’t need to. You can choose not to believe me but having good hair and skin as a man will carry you so far no matter your race. What’s the point of being 6ft and white if you’re also bald, wrinkly, and unhealthy looking? There’s a reason why a lot of tik tok thirst traps for women have dudes with long, dark, full hair, thick dark eyebrows and lashes, and super smooth skin. All of which can be relatively controlled pretty easily. Yes height, race, and face shape can help but it’s not the end al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:17 PM
3

I never see windmill flowers post anything anymore. Was she banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:55 AM
2

It absolutely is a thing. Some things I will never do sexually with someone no matter how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:54 AM
2

You could be a camp counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:43 PM
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Who cares? It’s not like they can force you. Let them shit bricks and cry rivers. Only hurts themselves at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:42 PM

This was me when my mom would drop me off at my aunts. Except my aunt was a bitch and she’s disowned now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:44 PM

That’s not why people are trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:43 PM

This sounds like a movie plot lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:32 PM

I love poker and blackjack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:31 PM

Right? Like what else is there to do 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:29 PM

Did it make that hole in the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:17 PM

Finally fixed my sleep schedule! Asleep by 9pm and up by 5am 😌.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:16 PM
2

Chat?? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:43 PM
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It’s so funny talking to the silent generation vs boomers about costs of living and stuff. Like they actually understand hardships unlike the boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:18 PM
2

Saw a skin cancer institute next to a tanning salon today. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:49 PM
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Man I feel sad that my former coworker ghosted me. He was such a good friend. Idk if he got feelings for me (he’s gay) or his boyfriend got jealous but now he won’t talk to me anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:31 PM
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It also implies you can catch it too. If that were the case wouldn’t all the incels just infect chads and Stacie’s??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:23 PM
2

Holy crap I forgot about girahim!!! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:38 AM
1

Q4All: Favorite villain?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:51 PM
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That’s an approach that will leave someone a virgin in their 40s. And it’s not innate. We’re in the 21st century and there’s tons of things you can do and plenty of options available. Not blaming you if you’re not aware of them but this is kinda ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:06 AM
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Just become less ugly. That’s it. Yeah you can hit a glass ceiling but it goes like this: Ugly guys can become average/normal looking guys. Average guys can become above average/attractive guys. Attractive guys probably don’t need to be doing this since they’re already attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:54 AM
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I always find it funny on the tinder and hinge subs they are always telling guys “You need better pics” and it’s not telling them “Look more presentable and use a better angle” it’s useless shit like “No hiking pics! No fish pics! No group photos! No gun in photos! No alcohol in photos!” Virtually zero women care about that shit. They pretend they do because the Reddit hive mind says so but let’s be real here; unless you personally have a specific opposition to those things, most women aren’t go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:38 AM
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I’m superficial because I wanna pick less superficial people? Explain that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:12 PM
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I was originally against looksmaxxing because I thought “well what if I only attract superficial women” then it occurred to me that if I look better, I can sort through them all and pick the less superficial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:54 PM
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Broccoli needs to stop being portrayed as a bad tasting vegetable in media. Kale on the other hand should get more hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:23 PM
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I’m curious. How can one look racially ambiguous? Like give me an example of someone who you can’t tell their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:09 PM

I’ve noticed that it’s a million times easier to get with conventionally attractive older women vs conventionally attractive younger women. Like I’ll see a hot older woman’s instagram and she won’t have a ton of followers unless she’s a regular content creator or influencer. This honestly baffles me. The difference is staggering. Does being older just tank your smv no matter how attractive you are? This kinda makes me feel sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:07 PM
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All you have to do is find any country that’s not in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:48 PM
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Stress and lack of sleep ages you horribly. Why does hustle culture promote this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:40 AM
2

I’m gonna see if hair systems will allow me longer hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:55 AM
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What does this have to do with feminism?? Where did feminism say that women should have sexual relations with bears???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:54 AM

Yet they don’t 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:41 PM
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I can understand being against it for potential misuse from large corporations but that’s like throwing the baby out with the bath water. Why not use it for good?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:33 PM
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I will never understand why some people are obsessed with “natural” foods or “natural/clean” beauty products. Natural doesn’t mean these things are automatically safe or effective. Likewise unnatural doesn’t mean it’s unsafe. Also is it any coincidence these “natural products” are more expensive? Yeah I’m not paying extra for organic potato chips that’ll probably have the same calories as the regular ones. Or natural deodorant that’ll last 30 minutes. It’s just ridiculous fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:15 PM
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Golf players
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:01 PM
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Mine was trying to get on my lap and steal my chocolate ice cream >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:08 PM

Oh I have a bunch of things: •Getting to a lean bodyfat percentage (9-12%) •Getting a good hair style and fixing your balding if have any. •Skincare and sunscreen daily. •Neck resistance training. •eyebrow grooming and coloring. •Dental hygiene. Some dudes will need surgery and that’s ok. But at least do all these things first before getting surgery that can potentially make you look worse if you don’t know what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 AM

Ok then why not help make them more desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:16 AM
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Made some chicken drumsticks with tandoori seasoning on them. Probably not how it’s traditionally made but was still delicious 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:14 AM
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Lol yeah he kinda walked into that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:51 AM
2

Q4W: Do you really care about a company being “women owned” or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:20 AM
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That’s not the kinda relationship I want though. If you’re not sure about me that makes me very sure about you. About the fact that I want someone else. Pretty much every woman who liked me got affectionate and sexual with me quick. Never ever had a girl make me wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:17 PM
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$1m for the avatar 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:08 PM
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Ah I see. Well then until the majority of men decide to start making themselves attractive then that won’t happen. Women have tons of tricks and beauty routines to make themselves attractive to men and it works. If men did the same they’d see the exact same results. But too many of them are afraid of being seen as unmanly or gay for improving their appearance. Tough shit. Either be afraid of society’s opinion or do the opposite and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:07 PM
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Fair but who wants someone that’s just so so about them? If it’s not an intense lust then I don’t want it. And yeah I have absolutely experienced the difference. Women that are attracted to you make things sexual almost instantly. If they like you you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:23 PM
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Yes. But most guys do have a lot of upside if they put in the work. Unfortunately most guys in the US are obese and that number is climbing. Already that’s a big strike. If they won’t even lose weight they’re likely not going to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:35 PM
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“Don’t ask the fish, ask the fishermen” is bad advice. Most people aren’t able to accurately articulate the key to their success. Humans are flawed like that. Likewise men who are successful with women will not all give the same answer. What you need to do is look at studies of which traits in men predicted the most sexual success. Of which there are plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:27 PM
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I’m gonna be blunt with this guy. He needs to looksmaxx asap. I know the mods will hate me for this but let’s be real here. If he’s reached the age of 40 and women still give him disgusted looks then he’s probably not that appealing to them. Idk what he looks like but I don’t need to. If he’s getting no attention then he simply needs to improve. At best he could do with the gym, skincare, eyebrow grooming/tinting, hair styling and it might be enough. At worst he might need some plastic surgery. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:34 AM
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HOW DID THEY FIND DIDDY NOT GUILTY?????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:29 AM
1

What if I told you I know a pretty boy in his early thirties?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:12 AM
1

Nobody wants a roid king 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:04 AM
1

Old twinks? Idk if such a thing is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:30 AM
1

Q4W: Specifically for those who like pretty boy phenotypes. Do y’all really stop liking pretty boys after 25 like the redpill claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:17 AM
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Tbf some political opponents are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:01 AM

Ahhh ok then. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:05 PM

What risks??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:02 PM
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Look at all the top 100 onlyfans earners. Pretty much all of them have lip filler, breast implants, and bbls of some sort. These women have millions of men paying them for nudes and yet you’ll be lectured by Reddit dudes about how it looks bad. If it looks bad then why do these women with obvious work done earn that much? What redpill says or what society says doesn’t mean Jack shit. What matters is what gets results. The real reason guys don’t like these types is because they’re out of their le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:58 PM

Ah Ok. I just want them to be visible from more than 5 feet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:04 PM

Yes. Brows and eyelashes are extremely light blonde. I have strong Northern European/Scandinavian genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:59 AM

Q4W: If I, a blonde and pale man, dye my eyebrows a darker color, will I also need to dye my lashes that same/similar color?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:37 AM

Hey pretty good my man. You? The date didn’t end well and I never heard from her again. She just wasn’t interested. Something about our experience levels not matching. To be fair it was my second date ever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:53 PM

Our upbringings. Religious specifically. But nothing in particular about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:52 PM

I wish there was. It was totally out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:30 PM

Idr I prolly just agreed with her 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:13 PM

Q4All: What does it mean if a girl on the first date says “sex is so interesting!”? That’s all the context btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:02 PM
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Ok down 7 pounds in the last 2 months. Closer to my goal of 10-9% bodyfat everyday. Thankfully pickles and other things help keep me full. I’m probably around 14.7% rn or something so I’ll need my trainer to run a body test in a couple days. Calorie deficits work. If you’re not in one, you’re not losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:53 AM
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When you realize the UK is technically an island
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:32 AM
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I don’t know who this person is and I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. It’s an odd birthday theme choice yes but I fail to see what this has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:21 AM

Why can’t boomers understand that the world they grew up in no longer exists? It’s not that hard to use the internet check Zillow and see that rent isn’t $300 a month anymore. And if you don’t know how to use the internet, drive up to the property and ask. Are they just playing stupid with us or what’s going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:47 PM

Tbf the app boosts your profile when you first download it so that’s kinda expected. You also must be tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:37 AM

Another thing I saw was a guy who made 2 separate tinder profiles. One with his normal face and one with his edited face with face app. Keep in mind that on the edited pic he did nothing drastic. Just gave himself longer hair, a bit more sharper features, and clearer skin. His normal face got about 5 matches in one week. Guess how much his edited pics got? A few more matches maybe? On his first DAY his edited pic received over 50 likes! The return on investment is exponentially higher when it co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:22 AM

That’s surprisingly catchy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:24 AM

Come back to us when you do construction or oil rigging. Warehouse work is tame compared to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:56 AM
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Garlic is the best perfume if you’re avoiding vampires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:02 AM

Find me a song where “whoa” is not in the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:54 AM

Well it comes down to what you want. If they’re not doing anything specific for you then just ask them. If they’re not doing anything just leave. Virginity has nothing to do with it. Think of it as not being duped/scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:29 AM

Generally speaking no man should ever be trying to convince a woman to be with him. If she’s not interested, it’ll just get you closer to being blocked. If she’s a little interested and not sure, one wrong word and she’ll dip. Besides why would you want a woman who’s only a little interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:17 AM

Hot take but the gen z broccoli cut is infinitely better than the mullet and patchy mustache crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:29 AM

If you’re white and live in an area with a high uv index, sun damage will catch up much faster. It’s why Australia is the skin cancer capital of the world. Even if the US government told people to wear it daily people still wouldn’t follow it. It takes a dedicated person which is hard to come by. Yes even for something as simply as applying a sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:38 AM

Most normies aren’t going to bother with the basic stuff. We all know how bad being obese is but yet 70% of Americans are obese. It’s why I laugh when people are afraid of the red pill and black pill spreading and “brainwashing” men. Only a select few have the drive and motivation to accomplish it. Most will just continue their unhealthy habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 AM

Right off the bat those “average” guys on that subreddit look like they haven’t eaten a salad since 2011, probably don’t wear sunscreen everyday, and have the goofiest looking neck beards. So I wouldn’t exactly classify them as average. If they did those things it could really help. No guarantees. But it’ll absolutely make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:10 AM

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:36 AM

Phenotypes don’t get spoken about enough in here. Just as men have different types of women they like (ei alt girls, hippie girls, church girls, sorority girls, gym girls, etc) women have types too. Yes a woman can find someone attractive, but more often than not they will have a specific type that won’t always fit with what’s mainstream. Could be a pretty boy, old money, tattooed rapper, metal head, bodybuilder, goth, or any number of things. Here’s a crucial tip: if you’re trying to hit on a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:04 AM

There was a video of a guy who put a picture of him with another woman in his tinder pics and that particular photo was swiped on the most by women. Yet if you ask women on Reddit if they would swipe on a guy with that photo they’ll say the opposite. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:57 AM

What did you do that was aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:55 AM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:44 AM

People need to understand that glowing up gives you leagues better results. If you go from a 5 to a 7 you will get exponentially more matches because now more women will find you attractive. Similar with height. Every inch is a multiplier and you’ll get more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:17 PM
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Does anyone else feel like “G” rated movies are not actually “G” anymore? It feels like it went from general audiences to just being associated with kids movies. Same with PG. I think PG is the new G.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:10 PM

Gas is already expensive and not getting any cheaper where I live anyways. So the choice is clear 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:15 AM

2nd one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:13 AM

What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:09 AM

This is good advice in general. If you lose, the other person thinks less of you, if you win, the other person hates you for winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:09 AM

So I’m thinking about buying an e bike after trump just bombed Iran. I doubt gas in the country will be cheap for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:03 AM

Leave as soon as they’re unwilling to communicate and work towards relationship solutions. At that point they’re just using you. Also never date someone who won’t even give you basic affection. I’m not talk dead bedrooms or sex, but the unwillingness to even kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:30 AM

I don’t think they’re dangerous. Just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:48 AM
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Yeah same here but I’m a guy lol. I appreciate the gesture but it’s not a good time. I think a better solution isn’t to approach at a gym but rather join a class or mixed gender sports team and let things happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:13 AM
1

Do you or did you approach ten women a day when you were single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:08 PM
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Men skincare products be like: use it anywhere on your body. Even drink it for a detox cleanse. Women’s skincare products be like: This cream is made specifically for your right elbow and if you use it anywhere else you’ll get cancer, aids, and die!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:26 AM
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Ok I’ve made the choice I will take her (my failed date’s) offer to meet her friends. I’ll go in with no expectations and relaxed so there’s no pressure. I was against it at first but maybe things will turn up. It’s worth a try at least 🤷🏼‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:57 AM
2

Work is your best bet otherwise there’s lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:15 AM
1

I don’t think anyone is to blame except maybe teachers and parents but nobody’s perfect. Doesn’t mean it still doesn’t have consequences. You will be passed up for someone who has better social skills unfortunately because that’s how the world works. It’s cold but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:14 AM
1

None. I developed my taste by seeing the kinda women out there and listening to how my brain and body reacted. No amount of shaming swayed my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:10 AM
1

Does anyone else get weird dreams after eating a bunch of sauerkraut before bed???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:05 AM
1

What would you do differently if you could do high school again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:06 AM
1

2nd date or above if I’m feeling a connection, and it’ll be flowers or chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:58 AM
1

Q4All: Is there a type that you wouldn’t date or would be a dealbreaker? Personally I could never date a preppy sorority type girl. Not because I’m not attracted to them but because I’m literally not a frat boy and not into that scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:08 AM
6

You can easily still look good after 30. Daily sunscreen and retinol, hairloss prevention and gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:13 AM
3

How can one be “performatively nice”? Maybe he was nice but then his emotions changed based on circumstance. Would someone be “performatively angry” if one day they’re being nice? I don’t get this sentiment at all. People’s moods and behaviors change on a lot of things and it always isn’t manipulative. That’s not a reflection of his character but his emotional state assuming he doesn’t do anything morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:07 AM
1

Who’s making them wait weeks? I made one girl wait a week because I was on vacation but she didn’t make me wait a long time. Just meet in a public place so you’re safer. If she’s making you wait that long she’s probably not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:55 PM
0

Nice guys are just autistic not manipulative. These guys didn’t grow up learning how to say no or put themselves first. They think doing that is mean. It’s not. In reality their overly selfless behavior grosses out other people in a way that’s not “omg this guy is too nice he must secretly wanna slit my throat!!”, but rather “this guy is so damn nice and spineless he would’ve gave the Jews locations to the Nazis 80 years ago out of fear”. I fail to see how it’s manipulative. Immature? Absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:48 PM
1

Yeah it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:27 AM
1

Yeah that strategy probably works best for women tbh. Cause even a heavy girl will still get some matches and all she has to do is filter the feeders/chubby chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:18 AM
1

Ah yeah that’s fair. But I still can’t help but think this was intentional. Nothing wrong with it of course and I liked how she looked either way but this was significant weight loss. Idk maybe I’m overthinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:17 AM
1

Oh really? How’d that work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:15 AM
1

Q4W: Is it true some women will use older and worse looking photos of themselves on dating apps to filter out the superficial guys? I noticed that the girl I went on date from a dating app was at least 20-30 pounds lighter in real life which was surprising. She looked fine either way and I didn’t care. But I can’t help but wonder why she didn’t just post current pics of herself on her profile. Was this intentional? Have you or anyone you know done this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:05 AM
2

Ok that’s a little more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:36 PM
0

Ok then what effective advice does redpill offer that nobody else has already said before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:37 AM
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The thing I really can’t get on board with the redpill is the fact they can’t seem to explain why so many people are in relationships and how many men get girlfriends over the course of their life without ever even hearing about the redpill or Andrew Tate or whatever crazy online jargon. Most men never hear or are never going to hear anything that comes out of this sub, and if they do they will dismiss it because they’re likely already in a relationship. And I don’t blame them. If I got rich and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:24 AM
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Exactly. The whole idea around decriminalizing sex work wasn’t to promote it. It was to protect the women who ended up in the industry. Legalization is bad and criminalization is worse because in both instances the seller is exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:44 PM

I find it interesting that even the words most top paid male models get surgery and lots of it. If a dudes who naturally has a one in a billion face needs to get surgery to model and be considered hot maybe we need to consider if we’re going too far?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:24 PM
1

Damn even lesbians are hypergamous now /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:26 PM

When I met my exes family I was nervous af. I didn’t feel normal enough for them I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:11 PM

Interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:07 PM
2

Yep I gotta agree on this one. Watching what people do is good advice but that’s not what they’re doing. They’re cherry picking and trying to pass it off as “watching what they do”. Seriously did these guys flunk basic logic? Why are they intentionally making themselves miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:52 AM

That’s what I’m saying! Zombie games/movies barely have any originality. These would stand out massively in a great way!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:08 AM

Yikes that’s not good 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:06 AM

Does anyone have any ppd lore?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:31 AM

I’m considering it even though I have decent skin and maintain it with sunscreen. Although I’ve heard horror stories of it completely ruining some people’s perfectly good skin 😬. Maybe I’ll do a vitamin c serum first instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:11 AM

Enough zombie apocalypse movies/games! I want werewolf apocalypses! Vampire apocalypses! Hell even fucking mermaid apocalypses! Just no more damn zombies >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:40 AM

I’ve been researching retinols/tretinoin and it’s insane how good it is at reversing signs of aging/skin damage. Just like a full head of hair, good skin takes years off your appearance. And you only need to do it once a night after your body gets used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:35 AM
1

Where did I say twinky little boys lmao? Having long hair and some jewelry doesn’t make you a twink. Yes it’s possible to be too feminine looking to women (ei a cutecel), but the point is you shouldn’t go overboard with masculinity either. Otherwise you’ll attract dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:41 AM
3

One mistake I made in the past was thinking women were attracted to pure masculinity the same way men were attracted to pure femininity. It’s actually a lot different when you look at it. If we’re talking about mass appeal here, being too masculine will actually hurt your chances more than being feminine will. Look at the type of guys women simp for. They’re typically eboys and pretty boys who have good looks but also have feminine features that we’d associate with women. It makes sense if you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:00 AM
3

I’ll be honest, this is really the only place I have to socialize outside a few internet friends and my one real life friend in my town. When you’re not in college you and are a hermit outside of work that’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:37 AM
1

Ok 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 PM
1

I haven’t been roller skating since 6th grade though. I’m also not sure how well I can handle a fall lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:50 PM
3

Bernie said this. But the democrats are so head deep in the culture war that they basically hand the elections to republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:48 PM
4

Contrary to popular belief, men do like dominant women. Only in a sexual setting though. Being bossed around by a control freak who’s always stressed and stubborn about every minuscule thing is not a turn on. Somehow this is misunderstood. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:46 PM
2

Why is Reddit showing me when someone responds to someone else?? Like specifically in this sub in unrelated conversations??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:22 AM
1

We’re just extremely stressed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:18 AM
2

Guess she’s not your “little” sister anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:01 AM
1

Can’t believe my cousin is 6’1 at 14. I remember when I held him as a baby like it was yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:45 AM
1

Dude the only way you find out if someone is good for marriage is by dating. Your last sentence makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:08 AM
2

I genuinely have no explanation for why that is. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:50 AM
7

I agree with you for the most part but to play devils advocate, in the past women would definitely do this because they didn’t really have a choice. Not being able to get a bank account or own property will do that to you. Redpillers who say this are likely just a bit older and dated women with similar mentalities from their moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:41 AM
1

When he was a puppy a French bulldog he lived with picked on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:34 PM
1

He thinks any animal besides a French bulldog is a friend. He doesn’t care about warning signs or anything. He’s super docile lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:13 PM
2

Why does my German shepherd think that rattle snakes are friends???? Even when it’s coiled up and rattling???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:22 PM
2

What kinda friends force you to go out with someone? If they want to they will. If not they don’t have to. But it can work since you already know the person and the hard part of meeting is done. Yeah it’s not perfect but it still works. I have had plenty of women happy to set me up with someone a few times. They even offered the idea first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:36 AM
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I disagree. Most women don’t need a dating app because they have big social circles / social media following. Most women using these apps only want validation. Few want relationships or hookups. You’d be surprised how many women openly admit to using dating apps as self esteem boosters. Unless you’re a rich model or a white dude in Thailand, stay off the apps. It’s possible to have a good experience but this is just friendly advice. What has been more promising is meeting through female friends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:59 AM
2

I would’ve disagree with you a week ago but a failed date on Tuesday proved this right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:23 PM
3

I feel like I had way better results with women when my hair was long. It was shoulder length and probably not the best cared for but still. Women just have a thing for long hair ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:18 PM
1

Well it’s not keeping you from spending time with them so they’re doing something right lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 PM
1

I mean, unless the job was done so poorly idk if you’d be able to tell. Many blonde/ginger dudes are really the only ones that do it. That and dudes with poor eyebrow genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:19 PM
2

I feel this. I have super thick eyebrows but you cannot see them from even 5 feet because they’re so damn light 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:14 PM
1

Q4W: Would you think it’s weird if a man tints his eyebrows?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:45 PM
1

What people don’t realize is the more you improve (the right things) the more exponential your results become. Humans tend to think linearly so this doesn’t ring well for us. For example if a man who’s 35% body fat loses 10 pounds, the change isn’t as drastic. If a guy at 18% bodyfat loses 10 pounds, the change is far more significant as his face, neck, and body become more defined. Your muscles and bones are far more visible. If anything this is motivation to keep going and improving. Eventuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:24 PM

There are trans people who transition to get dates. It’s a small percentage but it does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:25 AM

Forgive my autism here but what does sweep her off her feet mean specifically? Did I not come on strong enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:24 AM

And who says I don’t? I don’t care about what anyone does with their body. People should be free to accept and change what they want about themselves. Even if it means surgery. Again why should someone not ok with their appearance be forced to accept themselves? The same reason it’s not ok to do that to trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:41 AM

Why is it fine if a trans person wants to go on hormones and get surgery but if someone wants to get plastic surgery to change their appearance to fix their dysmorphia, suddenly they need to “accept who they are”? Seriously either leave both alone or have some logical consistency. Why does Reddit not think for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:31 AM

Guess that is a silver lining. Seriously it’s like she was interested in my experience more than me. Multiple times she asked me about my dating history and if I went on dates a lot. Also doesn’t she realize having a lot of experience ≠ being better. Dudes can have a ton of experience and still be shitty. Whatever. Nothing I can do about it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:19 AM

Yeah but I haven’t gotten any matches in a while since her. They’re really trying to get me to pay for premium and boosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:55 AM

Ya and she was looking for something more meaningful and serious 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 AM

Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:45 AM

Hopefully but I’m not optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:23 AM

God I am having the absolute worst day today. Went on a tinder date with a girl for coffee and we went to a niche clothing store to talk and look at clothes. Everything is going well right? No. At the end she says I’m not experienced enough for her. Idk if she means sexually or relationship wise. We’re both 21. At least she offered to have me meet her friends. What so they can reject me too? I’m too weak and pathetic for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:16 AM
5

Last one isn’t even goth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:35 PM
1

Q4W: Would you be cool if a guy picked you up in his car on the first date? Or would you prefer to meet him there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:34 PM
1

I feel like most people think that something being an accident somehow alleviates them from the responsibility of dealing with the consequences. And it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:14 PM
1

I think I’m gonna start detailing cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:04 PM
1

Same tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:47 PM
4

Both are pretty hot imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:45 PM

I don’t drink much coffee but I found a coffee shop in my hometown that’s rated in the top 5 best coffee shops in the United States and Canada. It’s a Turkish coffee place and they have so many good looking drinks and refreshers. Plus they have Turkish delight and other sweets. I’m going to see if it’s worth it on Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:00 AM

While I do enjoy my hair system and will keep wearing them until a baldness cure comes out, I do have to admit that even when I was bald I wasn’t totally unsuccessful. Significantly older women really liked me. They were hot no doubt but I didn’t want anything serious with 40 year old women because we didn’t have enough in common. I just struggled with younger women and women my age (20s). I think what this experience has taught me is that people can find you attractive but because you look sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:53 AM
1

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:52 AM
1

And how would someone like that act?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:11 AM

Q4All: How would you react if your date told you they were homeschooled?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:40 AM

Perfect for a renaissance fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:29 PM
1

I’m calling it. Ai is going to make online dating impossible for everyone. Shit is becoming far too believable now and it’s gonna get worse. Maybe this is a good thing and will force people to meet up again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:41 PM
2

Is that a Tasmanian devil?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:19 AM
2

I don’t. But mods don’t like me saying that 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:51 AM
3

Those just sound like 2 flavors of asshole lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:45 AM
3

Give examples of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:02 AM
1

Q4M: Would you date a woman who wears a wig? I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:55 AM
1

That was the first time I tried to kiss her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:19 AM
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Idc how pathetic this sounds but genuinely the most humiliating and heartbreaking thing I’ve ever experienced in my life was when my first girlfriend refused to kiss me. We were both 17. It was at her house around the 7th month mark of our relationship (but we just started meeting up after the pandemic). We were next to each other on the couch and I leaned in awkwardly to kiss her. She laughed and turned her head away. I asked her if everything was ok. She said she wasn’t ready yet. This broke m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:05 AM
2

Complements only suck if they come from undesirable dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:45 PM
1

It calories in calories out. Eat whatever you want as long as you don’t go over your limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:43 PM
2

Margarita Pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:36 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:17 PM

Q4W: Would you date a man who wears overalls casually all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:07 PM

Thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:59 PM

Bet she was kicking herself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:57 PM

Q4M: Have you ever had a woman reject you but only to have her come back later interested? What was that like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:34 PM

It’s mostly ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:19 PM

Well she did the crime too so I say she deserves the hate. Who says you can’t be mad at both?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:45 PM

Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:43 PM

This sub has really fallen off ngl. But I guess you can only talk so much about gender dynamics til you run out of shit to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:27 PM

Name your pet something you don’t mind shouting in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:38 AM

I hope your being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:29 AM
1

Well then what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:30 AM
1

What country are you in? Are you getting rejected or just not getting attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:11 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:09 AM
1

Monopoly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:29 AM
2

I mean, I’ve had gay friends who complain about the same stuff straight women did and lesbians complain about the same things straight men have experienced. I don’t think it’s entirely inaccurate tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:23 AM
2

It’s cuz guys will take up high paying intensive manual labor jobs. But the difference is very slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:18 AM

Under who’s thumb bro? I ain’t struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:25 PM

I guarantee none of them will be getting what they want lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:40 PM

Impossible actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:34 PM
3

You would need tons of money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:32 PM
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Because women aren’t attracted to resources. They’re attracted to people. Whether that’s men, women, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:20 PM
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I’m nowhere near qualified to talk about human evolutionary psychology. But I can say that your statement is wildly out of touch in the modern world. Most women don’t want to rely on a man solely for resources because it’s not healthy and sets the relationship up for abuse to easily occur. Women in the past fought hard to open bank accounts and own property for a reason. Because the previous model utterly failed. Turns out having relationships for survival makes for shitty relationships. Boomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:49 AM

I want a pool table so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:42 AM

That’s the quintessential example of southern rock 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:15 AM

Southern rock > country
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:06 AM

Oh nothings wrong I was just emphasizing the fact lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:43 AM

He was 6ft tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:09 AM

Q4W: Which US president do you find the most fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 AM

Well now you can pickup women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:58 AM

And how would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:22 AM

But why target specifically? It seems like a peculiar choice but maybe I’m missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:07 AM

How’d he react to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:00 AM

The rumors are true. Target is filled with 20-30 year old women. What’re they all doing there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:58 AM

Finally found a friend who will help me drywall my basement for cheap 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:41 AM
1

I’ve been seeing that a lot with my former classmates. Even my friend is engaged. And I don’t live in a small religious town either (I wouldnt call 350,000 people a small town tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:30 PM
2

Nah it’s all good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:24 PM
1

Actually married at 19 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:23 PM
1

One of my former classmates my age at 21 is a literal fashion/beauty model now and she’s married to a guy who’s quite average. They seem happy together though. As a blackpiller I’m not sure how to explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:21 PM
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I think the best we can hope for is parental leave for both genders. Stay at home dad doesn’t sound very attractive to most women. I had a stay at home dad and he only did the stay at home part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:14 PM
1

Could also just be exaggerated by looking down at the camera too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:49 AM
1

Of course they can. When you lose fat it happens everywhere. Some people maybe store more in some places genetically but it’s certainly possible. Plus the haircut is different too so that might throw it off a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:46 AM
1

The ears look similar to me. The head shape is obviously different due to fat loss. That’s kinda the point. Maybe I’m wrong tho 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:38 AM
1

Fair. He definitely gives off dangerous and “don’t fuck with me vibes” lol. But there’d still be quite a few women into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:05 AM
1

Interesting! How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:02 AM
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<image> Better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:33 AM
1

<image> Another good example of how low bodyfat can turn a normie into the hulk. Fillers/surgery is also possible in these photos and I’m not sure if this is strictly from fat loss. But he’s obviously leaner so it at least helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:15 AM
2

Looks delicious. How many calories approximately?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:58 PM
1

Is it just me, or is going out to eat just not as fun anymore at most restaurants? Forget the cost, it just doesn’t have the same feel as 6-10 years ago. It honestly feels more stressful for food that isn’t worth it. Now if I eat out, it’s rare and at a higher end place such as sushi, or a steakhouse. It’s actually not that more expensive than most “low end restaurants” nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:40 PM
0

Thing is, attractive people have to do something REALLY creepy to be considered such. An ugly person just has to open their mouth. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 AM
0

So what does any of that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:40 AM
3

Nobody’s having kids tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:33 AM

I really don’t understand why society tries to gaslight the shit out of men by not admitting that creepy = ugly. Behaviors are not creepy unless done by someone undesirable. But yet somehow we’re supposed to believe that the simple act of approaching is somehow creepy? Anyone with eyes can see this is bullshit. I’m not saying you aren’t allowed to reject or even dislike a man you’re not attracted to approaching you. You are and men are allowed to do the same. What is not ok is treating them horr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:55 AM
1

It depends on where you carry the fat yes but to claim there’s no difference is not entirely accurate. If you’re 157 pounds and 20% bodyfat you have roughly 31 pounds of total fat distributed evenly across your body. Including your face. Losing 10-20 pounds makes everything much leaner since you carry about 10-12% of your weight in fat. This is what bodybuilders do to show off abs in competition (though they go to single digits in bodyfat which is extreme). Again, it depends on where you carry f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:21 AM
1

Really?? That’s the first time I’ve heard eyebags being an attractive trait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:14 AM
1

Fair but I’ve seen more paper thin guys with chicks than extreme bloated roid users. Mostly because I rarely see bloated roid users 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:12 AM
1

It’s possible but depends on a lot of factors. But the results speak for themselves and it’s definitely worth a shot for guys who complain the gym doesn’t work. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:04 AM
1

Lack of sleep or stress probably. Doesn’t look too awful imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:02 AM
2

<image> Found this post in r/asianmasculinity. Left is him at 20% body fat and right is 12%. The difference is staggering imo. It’s not about just not being fat. Getting to a leaner bodyfat percentage makes a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:54 AM
2

Smart people get burnt out and have lives. The pressure is immense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:23 AM
1

The manosphere greatly overestimates how cohesive men can be. A great example is how most men bully pretty boys and women love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:22 AM

Hmmm yeah that makes sense lol. Somehow in America we’ve lifted gender roles for women but not their expectations. Idk. Should smooth out in a generation or 2. Probably not tho. Because our country is very consumeristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:11 AM

You don’t want a girl with a Pepe tattoo??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:10 AM

Q4All: How big of a turnoff is a bad tattoo for you if at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:27 AM

The system being human nature??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:10 AM
2

I really find it interesting that redpillers and blackpillers mostly bring up the fact that men are having less sex and partners IN AMERICA. I have only seen the UK used as a similar reference for how bad this is. Which makes me wonder why we never hear about this stuff happening in other countries. Is there anything specific about American culture as to why this is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:35 PM
1

It gets easier because those dudes get settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:39 AM

Skunks are cute animals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:38 AM
1

OP are you American? Because in places like Europe this rarely happens since everyone walks and bikes everywhere. Not having a car is not seen as poor there. American consumerism has rotted the minds of young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:25 PM
2

I think there’s also a miscommunication between each side about what the other person wants and feels the other person should do. Nobody can read minds. Oftentimes you gotta ask for something from them and communicate. With that said, there is a bare minimum that should be met and if they don’t even meet that then yeah, I’d agree they probably don’t like you in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:18 PM
1

Fun fact: my grandma claims to have gone on a pity date with George Lucas! Edit: as a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:27 PM
2

Mfw real archeology doesn’t involve whips, guns, or holy grails 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:24 PM
2

They’ll really say anything besides “I’m not attracted to you” huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:50 AM
6

We call that moving the goalposts. Anything can be as good or bad as long as you twist it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:41 AM
1

Q4All: Who do you think is more likely to be an introvert: a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:59 AM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:33 AM
1

Enjoy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:22 AM
1

Then don’t. You don’t have to. But if the cravings get too much just consume a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:13 AM
1

Just work it into your calorie budget. Have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:30 AM
2

After battling dry skin for years, I finally found a solution: smothering my face in pure argon oil. It really helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:29 AM
2

Hot take on this sub but I don’t actually think simping is ruining women. Women can love the simpy attention they get or hate it. Doesn’t matter because at the end of the day she’s gonna chose the dude she’s most attracted to. Attractive men don’t have to worry about simps, and you never have to worry about simps if your woman is truly attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:14 PM
1

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:06 PM
2

I don’t disagree. What those guys really mean is “A women who naturally looks attractive” or “A women with plastic surgery and makeup so good I can’t tell the difference”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:00 PM
1

The problem is that it’s obviously and pointlessly gendered and I don’t understand why the same scrutiny isn’t held to women. Not that I think they should be scrutinized for something like that (I of all people would never).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:53 AM
2

Q4All: Why is lookmaxxing seen as cringe and laughable and at the same time a woman doing those things is seen as normal? Yet society still treats less attractive dudes like shit. It’s like “We don’t like you the way you are but don’t you dare try to improve yourself either!” Wtf is even the thought process for that???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:46 AM
2

He’ll be back one day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:52 AM
2

He wasn’t here to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:32 AM
3

A dude who’d constantly make burner accounts to call women people that guzzle male reproductive juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:30 AM
1

I think there’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:20 AM
4

The only people I ever hear using those arguments are super evangelical people who do their absolute damnedest to convince people their sexual feelings are evil. Was that your case by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:15 AM
0

You’re misunderstanding. The issue comes when a fuckboy manipulates his way to get a girl to have sex with him by offering her a relationship. He knows she won’t fuck him without giving her a relationship so he pretends just enough so she gives him sex. Then he dips. That’s what it means to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:08 AM
2

YouTube shorts and instagram reels are fucking hilarious how different they are. YouTube shorts: Family guy/South Park/ Simpsons clips, cooking tutorials, educational content, science. Instagram reels: Rape jokes, racism, pedophilia jokes, sexism, idiocy, gore, violence, people getting irrationally offended and angry over dumb shit. What is going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:04 AM
1

It’s a spectrum for sure. That’s what equality is supposed to be about. Making sure women and men have the same amount of power and focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:55 AM
2

Is it weird to eat a black bean dip with just a spoon? No chips or anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:54 AM
2

Have you forgotten about CG dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:44 AM
20

Seriously did OP not look up the definition of “unfalsifiable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:18 AM
1

You could always get head gear designed for it and attach a plate to it. Looks goofy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:34 PM
1

Then just recover properly and go light. 10 pounds is good enough to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:31 PM
1

I did some neck training yesterday and now I’m sore in my neck lol hopefully this will be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:05 PM
2

I keep having dreams where the cops violate my civil rights :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:58 AM
2

I found an old Batman comic in my room. From 1986.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:34 AM

We have eyes??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:05 PM
3

If they do approach they’ll end up like the dudes on the video lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:05 PM

I’ve never understood being rude to unattractive people. The way someone looks doesn’t effect me. Why do so many people have hatred for people they deem unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:10 PM
1

How do you know those women didn’t have boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:19 AM
3

Moles are very territorial animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:07 PM
3

Reddit is good for technical advice if you need to repair something or improve a skill. That’s it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:35 AM
2

So I am a caveman then 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:23 AM
2

Alpha male dating advice is scammy for the sole fact that they can twist any scenario to seem logical when it’s really just a red herring to take your time and money. For instance: “Don’t text her back too quickly because women like men with purpose and options!” Or “Text her back as soon as possible because a real alpha goes after what he wants and doesn’t play games.” It’s not that this advice is bad per se, it’s just pointless. Spinning it both ways makes it unfalsifiable. You’ll never get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:09 AM
1

I like caves. I’ve been to a lot of caves. Does that make me a “Caveman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:10 AM
1

Why do some people complain about snap scores being over 1m? Like why’s that an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 PM
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OP is also overestimating how much people care about other men being single. If you log off of Twitter and Reddit, that number drops by 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:52 PM
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While that advice might be shit, I highly doubt it’s ill intentioned. Most women usually don’t have to do the hard stuff in the beginning of the relationship (ei making the first move, planning dates, initiating sex, etc). That’s usually the man’s job. Most women have never done those things so they can’t tell you exactly how to go about it. I could tell you what an engineer does, but I don’t possess the skills or crucial bits of knowledge to teach you how to be one or be one myself. Also creepy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:49 PM
2

Kielbasa and sauerkraut 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:22 PM
3

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:28 AM
3

I’ve been thinking about why the common advice for unattractive guys is to “Just take a shower! Brush your teeth! Use deodorant! Wash your ass!” And then it hit me; being unattractive means people assume you’re unhygienic. The thought of dating someone those people are not attracted to grosses them out, and they justify it by saying unattractive dudes must be “Gross and unkept.” In reality, most guys take care of themselves before going out in public. Otherwise toothpaste, deodorant, soap compan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:25 AM
1

All I can remember was an omelette with stuffed with sun dried tomatoes. I’m sure I had more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:21 AM
2

Damn you read my mind 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:12 AM
0

Daniel Craig isn’t not a bad actor at all but personally I think he’s the worst bond. He’s too serious, brooding, and stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:04 AM
2

Well this is where I do have to agree with bluepillers and to some extent here. Cold approaches just come off as socially inept driven by a Don Juan fantasy. Sure it can happen but it’s absolute shit for getting relationships most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:27 AM
3

What this sub doesn’t talk about enough is how proximity plays a big role in dating and forming relationships. This is often why relationships tend to form online, in school, at work, or even church. The more often you see and talk to someone, the more they bond with you. Even simply emailing, texting, and calling often can work towards making you both familiar and bond stronger. Even more so since it can be done any time of day. This is why cold approaches don’t work. The sociological data just…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:10 AM
1

They’re just not compatible 🤷🏼‍♂️. Careers can take a lot of time away from relationships. Especially if said career is the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:54 AM
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My fault for clicking on that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:22 AM
2

Flat earth shit is more believable than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:12 AM
1

For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:05 AM
2

And to think his little brain is probably the size of a Brazil nut 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:14 AM
1

Ok but it still matters. Don’t buy your way into love. But realize that a relationship needs logistics and planning to stay alive. If you plan to live with her or get married it absolutely matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:12 AM
1

Am I the only one who was able to ride my bike without training wheels on the first try as a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:33 PM
1

It’s not hard to tell whether or not a woman is interested in you. It’s hard to tell if she’s just being friendly or not. At least if you have the slightest skill in reading people lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:30 PM
2

When you realize a 123 IQ means you’re technically in the top .9% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:20 AM
1

All I’m saying is that being accused of any crime can ruin your life the same way. Not just rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:19 AM
2

There have been judges who ask women what they were wearing when they were raped and families who shun their daughters when a family friend’s son raped her. That happens far more. I also worked as security for a warehouse and we had a couple of people fired and get on the denied access list simply for an arrest. No record, no convictions. Just an arrest. There’s a reason prison reform and justice reform is being advocated for. And the main reason isn’t just false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:56 AM
2

Fair lol. Even then that’s still more evidence it’s a gendered issue since more men have trouble with the law. But I never hear that point brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:49 AM
2

And can that stigma not apply to other crimes? Who wants to hire an accused murderer/pusher/thief? Who wants to rent to one? Even just an arrest can disqualify you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:42 AM
2

You found my cats sub 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:57 AM
1

While false rape allegations are horrible and should be discouraged, it’s important for guys to remember that if you’re accused of ANY crime, your life can still be ruined. Doesn’t matter if it’s rape, possession of narcotics, murder, theft, etc. Our “justice” system operates under a guilty-until-proven-innocent model. Why do you think America had the highest incarceration rate in the world? America is still in the dark ages when it comes to prison and law reform so at the end of the day, it’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:57 AM
3

So the constitution is just toilet paper then. Man I’m not optimistic for this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:53 PM
1

Holy hell I just remembered. 🤯 it’s been ages since I’ve seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:14 PM
2

I read this as “Harry Kanye” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:27 PM
1

Word girl is hilarious to me because correcting people on their grammar, spelling, and definitions isn’t even a super power or necessary. It’s just something she does to feel superior lmao. She’s basically a Redditor lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:14 PM
2

😋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:12 PM
20

This is windmill you’re talking about. All she posts is ragebait disguised as arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:36 PM
2

When I worked at chipotle, I threatened to cut up a man’s missing credit card after he was a dick to me on the phone about it. He left it there and then called us. His fault for being a dumbass and a jackass 🤷🏼‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:04 PM
3

Don’t worry. She was probably exhausted after that lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:59 PM
3

My mom told me the reason why we always brought pizza or food when we visited my friends house as a kid :( they struggled with money and sometimes didn’t eat enough so she wanted to make sure they had something. I was too young to realize because I enjoyed the pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:54 PM
1

Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:46 PM
2

Man time was rough to him 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:35 PM
2

Negging
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:55 PM
2

Q4All: Who were you in the past and how do you compare now? How does that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:52 PM
2

Did you pay a $3k bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:25 PM
2

sigh Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:19 PM
2

“Bf who’s average” was that really necessary ? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:14 PM
2

Maybe I have but idk what a manic pixie dream girl necessarily refers to. Is it just a woman who’s “not like other girls”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:09 PM
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I don’t get it. First women are “picky”. Then they’re “slutty”. They can’t be both. Also isn’t the average n count a 8 over a lifetime for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:54 PM
1

Try going to a group therapy session. I was told I was sexist because I said if I wanted to back in time I’d go to the renaissance. I was literally answering the question I was asked about time travel. They said “well it’s because you’re a man and you would’ve had privilege.” Yeah and deadly diseases before modern medicine too. It’s like walking on eggshells 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:49 PM
3

What even is a “Manic pixie dream girl”? Why do so many people have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:47 PM
2

My cat literally snuggles by the lit fireplace whenever it’s on lmao. She loves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:55 PM
2

I need movies that are so bad they’re good 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:47 PM
4

Old people have way too much time on their hands 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:16 PM
2

Boomers grew up with lead in their brains. It was proven to lower iq and cause brain issues. We can’t blame them entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:57 AM
5

One thing I wish Reddit understood is that no man just randomly decides to believe in manosphere teachings one day because of a fucking YouTube video or tik tok. What actually happens is men see what the real world is like in terms of dating. Either from his parents, peers, or his own experiences. If enough of it happens, the only thing a YouTube or tik tok video is gonna do is confirm his already lived experiences. Sure not everything is correct and not all the solutions are effective or moral …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:55 AM
1

NGL the data on autism is pretty blackpilling. Only a tiny percentage ever manage to obtain relationships or hold down jobs. They almost can’t function in society. Like at all. I feel the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:40 AM
5

Does anyone else feel like most parents don’t actually parent their kids? They kinda just maintain them like pets and then don’t prepare them for the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:21 AM

Q4All: Is it strange if a married couple sleeps in different beds?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:59 AM

No. I’m saying that misogyny isn’t a direct trait of incels. Getting women doesn’t determine how misogynistic one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:31 AM

But those terms are mutually exclusive. Misogynistic chads who get women exist. That’s the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:22 AM

Hey now don’t exclude the majority of the members on this sub 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 AM

I see no reason why someone can’t be an incel and a proponent of equality. Your ability to get laid doesn’t determine your ability to stand up for what’s right. While I’ll admit most incels are not feminists, excluding men who would otherwise be for equality by shaming their sexual attraction and success will ultimately lead to more men going the opposite direction. Feminists ultimately shoot themselves in the foot by enforcing the idea that “More sexual success = More moral”. No. Sexual success…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:35 AM
1

I unfortunately have a massive sweet tooth lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:36 PM
1

Some dude. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:31 AM
3

I can’t remember the last time I had a donut. Probably for the best because I’ll never just have one donut 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:30 AM
2

I’ve heard before that on dating apps, you shouldn’t use selfies but rather take a video of yourself with the normal camera and choose the best angle of you and use those. Assuming all else is equal I wonder if that’s really the case 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:15 AM
2

Billionaires want to eliminate the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:39 AM
0

High class escorts are a minority and charge a fortune. Most sex workers barely break even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:02 AM
2

There’s cuddle therapists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:56 PM
2

Dude. Prostitutes would never do what they do unless they got paid. High class escorts are extremely expensive and rare. Most women in sex work don’t even make 30k a year. But they really don’t have a choice most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:55 PM
1

Well then I must be missing something because I won’t ever have sex with someone where the desire isn’t mutual. Idk how guys can lie to themselves unless they see the woman as a human pocket pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:53 PM
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I don’t get hostile but it doesn’t seem like a good idea to me. 1. It’s basically buying consent. Few women would subject themselves to the dangers of sex work without receiving a pretty penny. Nobody should have to go through all that just to live and eat. You also have zero idea if she’s trafficked. 2. It’ll basically do nothing for your dating life. Real human relationships don’t operate like sex work. You can’t just pay any random woman to sleep with you. You need social skills, attraction, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:51 PM
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With casual sex there is at least desire from both parties. The prostitute just wants to pay rent and eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:42 PM

Majority of women I see aren’t like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:53 PM
4

So Amy Lee…?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:11 AM

Q4All: Would autistic people be better off finding another autistic person to date, or maybe find an understanding neurotypical person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:13 AM
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I disagree because I’m a bald man who wears a hairsystem. Guess how much attention from women in real life and apps I got before and after my system? It was a night and day difference and I’m never going bald again. Hell, even my young mid twenties cute therapist said “Omg he looks good” to the admin when she thought I couldn’t hear. This is why I don’t like the whole “Apps are looks-based bro go meet them in real life”. Because the only difference is volume. Obviously real life is better but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:56 PM
1

Yeah but the concept is weird. Talking to me isn’t like talking a different species. I’m a normal human. Just talk to me like that. Flirting might be difficult only because I can’t pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:52 PM
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Sorry but real life isn’t that different from dating apps. Real life is also VERY looks-based. It’s just that there’s a higher probability you’ll find someone who is attracted to you with the larger volume of people. That’s the main reason you shouldn’t use dating apps. Not because the dynamics are somehow different (because they really aren’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:38 PM

Introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:00 PM
1

The dentist loved my teeth today. Zero issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:23 PM
2

Cuz I’m on this sub Reddit too much lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:07 AM
1

Ikr. Shitty comparison lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:33 AM
3

I had a dream this sub was gonna be banned by the FBI :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:32 AM

CMV: Most women are not selfish and uncaring because of feminism but rather because of a hyper capitalist and materialistic culture disguised as feminism. Redpill is fighting the wrong enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:12 PM

Life can be as simple or complex as you make it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:26 AM

Apparently my 100lb German shepherd tries to boss and police the other dogs at his daycare. If two dogs get into a fight he’ll get between them and make them stop. I wonder if this is normal German shepherd behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:26 AM
1

I’m neither but who gives a fuck 😂. Life is good if I do what I love and have no stress or student debt. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:17 AM
1

Bro 10,000 years ago doctors didn’t even have a fraction of the medicine they do now. Besides someone has to weld the hospital and it’s equipment together. You’re not thinking this through.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:10 AM
1

Not everyone can be a doctor though. Someone has to weld, fight fires, police, build, pick up trash, and do the less glamorous jobs. Maybe if everything is automated in the future we could have UBI but that’s not happening anytime soon. Nobody should have to become a wealthy doctor to support their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:04 AM
1

How many doctors make that much at 21/22?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:56 PM
2

Are you American by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:53 PM
1

Fr. My buddy and his fiancé make bank fixing and repairing cars. While my friends who got degrees are lucky if they can find a job that makes $40k a year. On top of the debt they’ll never pay back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:52 PM
3

Without either of them, neither would exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:46 PM
2

Why are we so focused on whether or not men go to college vs women? It makes no sense. A doctor isn’t somehow more valuable than a welder or vice versa. College is simply a path to different careers. It’s not necessarily better or worse objectively. Just seems like more sexist and classist bullshit expected from a society that looks down on lower or middle class people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:42 PM
1

Aging well is largely genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:04 PM
2

Yes and I will never forgive my dumbass parents for thinking that Indiana Jones of all movies was somehow inappropriate. Even my aunt who was super controlling with her kids even told my mom to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:48 PM
1

Don’t ever blame shrek again!!! 😡😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:45 PM

😟
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:26 AM

Q4All: What letter does your name start with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:22 AM
5

You are too focused on these arbitrary rules that Tik tok made up. Any place where women are is a good place to approach them. It’s not the approach they don’t like. It’s the man approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:39 AM

Why does bro want me to go to the motorcycle school in the middle of bumfuck nowhere 😭?? I don’t even get cell service down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:12 AM

I’ve made myself so unnecessarily stressed out too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 AM

Perhaps I should’ve clarified no obnoxious intros lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:16 AM

I agree with that but I haven’t seen you explain how that relates to dating or how we can apply that to the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:43 AM
12

And what the source you heard that from didn’t tell you was the amount of cheating, drug abuse, physical abuse, and depression that went on behind that mask of perfection. Have you not heard boomers constantly complaining about their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:41 AM

Where are you going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:36 AM

Exactly 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:05 AM

If your voice is way too calm and boring I will not watch your YouTube videos. If you shout and speak with passion then I will be interested. Doesn’t matter the topic material. Work on the delivery more than the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:00 AM
16

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:48 AM
3

More young people are not more bisexual. They’re more comfortable identifying as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:11 AM

That old huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:43 AM

Does this subreddit have a birthday? Like when was this sub created?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:40 AM

“Pumped into eachother?” Did I read that correctly?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:39 AM
12

I have met women that don’t mind that stuff but yeah it’s a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:53 AM

I’m the opposite I remember everything like an elephant lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:46 AM
5

Sexual orientation is not a choice. This is actually insulting to real queer people who can’t just flip a switch to be straight. I hope you realize this shit makes you look very bigoted from every side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:39 AM

What’re you gonna do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:36 AM
14

I hope that’s enough to dissuade anyone from going back to that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:35 AM
40

Which is so funny because you have 18yos today spewing this crap when they didn’t even grow up in the 2000s. They hate how the dating scene is now and think if we just go back to the “good old days” dating will be better. We can’t go back to a time that never happened. It probably never happened because it was an unrealistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:31 AM
3

Thank you and looking back I totally missed so many signs she was probably a lesbian. She never confirmed it and I’ll never know but she’d pick so many movies we watched in which there was at least one lesbian kissing scene. She also had a female foreign exchange student she hosted at her house one time (before we dated) and she’d talk almost borderline romantically about that girl. I know that girls on average are a bit more affectionate with their friends than men are but this one felt a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:25 AM
5

Why does it matter if it’s natural or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:31 AM
10

But you won’t find a shower/bath in the wild with shampoo and conditioners. The point is that the idea of nature shouldn’t be used as an argument. What is your claim even trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:26 AM
12

It’s unnatural to shower, lift weights, or take antibiotics. Yet those things are good for us. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:23 AM
2

Which dynamics specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:38 AM
1

You’ve pissed off the ant god 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:37 AM
1

What exactly are you Redpilled about regarding women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:37 AM
1

Oh I feel kinda dumb now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:32 AM
3

Reminder that someone being less sexual doesn’t always mean they’re less visual as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:31 AM
1

I have one but all she wants to do is cuddle and beg for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:28 AM
1

Ants eat through wood?? Sure those aren’t termites??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:28 AM
1

Dammit my house has mice 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:08 AM
12

As a man, I will never put up with a bad relationship over no relationship ever again. My ex was extremely unaffectionate with me and wouldn’t let me kiss or even cuddle her. But she had no problem doing that with her own female friends. It ruined my self esteem and I was like 16-17. I constantly worried what I was doing wrong. I’ve still never kissed a woman or even cuddled with one. Being alone sucks, but bad relationships are so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:58 AM
3

Scalp massages are the best things on planet earth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:44 AM
1

Could be. Location does make a difference. The particular mall I’m talking about where I live theoretically should make enough money since it’s in a high traffic urban shopping area. However ever since sears shut down it’s kinda been slowly rotting ever since. That’s mainly what I’ve noticed. Before it was much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:06 AM
2

One of the 3 malls in my town is just… dead. It used to be so lively but now it’s such an eyesore and waste of money. I probably only see like 3 people per store now compared to when I was a kid. I’ll go check out the other malls and see if they’re similar. Maybe it’s the location?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:49 PM
1

Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:08 PM

Americans say talk like “tawk” and torque like “toark”. British people tend to say “toak” for both words lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:53 AM

How do I know if a British person is saying “Talk” or “torque”? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:46 AM
1

Unfortunately the west has a tendency to see anything middle eastern as Islamic, terroristic, misogynistic, and anti democratic. 9/11, and the war in Iraq, has basically destroyed any good view of middle eastern culture even if it’s innocuous as food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:27 AM
2

And I realized how well it goes with everything. Cheeseburgers, roasted veggies, fries, sandwiches, chicken, and chips 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:49 AM
1

Just made so homemade hummus and it’s fantastic and surprisingly cheap! I will never buy store bought hummus again! I’ll make my own from now on 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:34 AM

People say not to drive high but I can’t even find my keys when I’m high lmao. Couldn’t drive if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:42 PM

Why not party with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:21 AM

I NEED ICE CREAM SANDWICHES RN!!!! ESPECIALLY THOSE NEAPOLITAN ONES!!! 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:13 AM

Part of the fantasy is that it’s just that; a fantasy. Nobody gets hurt nor does it reflect someone’s true desire. People have fantasies about stopping an active shooter or saving someone from a burning building but that doesn’t mean they’d really go through with it and risk their lives. But I’m more interested in why it seems to upset you. What’s really the issue here? Yeah it’s a little screwed up but what is it that irks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:14 AM

Anyone ever see someone make such a dumb decision that you don’t even feel bad for them anymore? Like you’re so pissed off that they could make such a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:07 AM

Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:04 AM

Good luck bro. I’m serious btw not sarcastic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:42 AM

Same. Idk how it is for women but most men are scared to death of seeming girly or gay for the most harmless shit. Can’t really say women are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:07 AM

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:50 AM

Why are the mods gonna remove it? What rule does it break?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:45 AM

Q4All: Who would you say is more free from societal judgments for choosing to not follow gender roles? Men or women? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:42 AM
2

Oh forgot to ask! Did you ever take that USA to Alaska trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:53 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Unless they were extremely unlucky, hot young people become hot old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:51 AM

Yeah I got my heart set on the ninja 500 (451cc) the lime green color is just gorgeous. But if it turns out I enjoy riding I’ll add different bikes to my collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:12 AM

I’m gonna start my journey to get my first motorcycle. First gotta take classes on it to get my license. Me and bro gonna tear up the streets on our ninjas. At least I’m getting a ninja. Idk what bro is getting. Maybe a Honda 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:50 AM

Sales only hires attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:41 AM

They have some of these in the Asian market where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:44 PM

Ate it too fast didn’t have time to take any. 😩 it was that good 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:50 AM

So just found imitation crab is basically a fish hotdog lmao 😭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:07 AM

Omggg y’all it’s best soup ever!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:29 AM

I’m making soup rn. I will let y’all know if it’s good in 45 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:45 AM
20

One time when I was babysitting my cousins at a children’s museum, some dad was telling his toddler son off for pushing a baby carriage saying “Boys don’t push baby carriages”. And we wonder shitty fathers are so damn common. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:35 AM
5

Not everyone fits into every role. Living by arbitrary standards will never make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:32 AM
3

How exactly do they take it out on them? I hear this all the time but have never seen an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:34 AM
1

Is it weird that I enjoy and appreciate Japanese culture but I simply cannot get into anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:10 AM

No don’t do it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:44 AM
6

Yeah. Difference between “high opinion” and “still not over her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:40 AM

But I like mustard and fries 🍟
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:34 PM
2

Guilty 😔🖐🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:33 AM
2

They’re probably waiting for you to plan something 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:19 AM
2

Damn I should revisit that now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:19 AM
2

Why do I always get stuck at the very last boss battles of video games? 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:52 AM
3

My desire to be strong, bold and resilient, conflicts with my other desire to be accepted, calm, and free of confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:13 AM
1

Thinking about getting a motorcycle. Anyone here ride?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:43 AM
3

I don’t have any skin in this game because I’m not a gun owner and probably won’t be, but no matter what side of the gun control debate you’re on, you gotta admit that we’re not ever going to remove even a fraction of firearms in America. That’s over 500m guns btw. It’ll end up like the war on drugs and ultimately create more violence than we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:56 PM
2

I’m really interested to see how bad parenting affects men vs women. Obviously it’s a bad outcome for both but it’d be interesting to see any key differences based on gender alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:19 PM
2

Q4W: What do you think of the whole “girlboss” thing? I’ve heard arguments that it’s basically capitalism dressing up as feminism. Is there some truth to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:53 AM
1

Tiny school
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:05 AM
1

Yeah I never understood this. I got along with popular kids but didn’t really click with them. I’m sure most people have similar experiences. Of course some exceptions exist not denying that but why would someone who can make friends with alot of people also intentionally make alot of enemies unless they were genuine psychopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:03 AM
3

Most guys wanna get women simply to boost their ego. To them it’s like “More girls? More SMV!” When it’s actually “Better Girls? More SMV!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:49 AM
1

Now this is just my experience but the bullies in my school didn’t really get girls other than the absolutely trashy broads nobody wanted in the first place. I hung out with a lot of girls in elementary school as friends and man the stuff they’d say about the bullies lol. “Yeah Chase is probably a p3do lmao” “Bet Gabe has a tiny dick because he’s (insert obvious race that relates to racial stereotype here).” The truth is most bullies are ugly lvm bitches who can’t cope with the fact that they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:41 AM
2

I want pretzels 🥨 rn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:44 AM
1

Are they both “rewaiting?”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:43 AM
5

We should ban those people from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:56 PM
3

I’m not the one who needs to hear that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:12 PM
3

I saw the criminal minds one lol. The dude who acid attacked couples. The point is that humans tend be scared of things that look scary rather than things that are logically more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:44 PM
9

PPD women will shit flames and cry rivers when I say this but, no, I don’t think incels are as big of a threat to society as we are lead to believe. Dudes like Elliot Roger are such a tiny minority that they don’t even come close to the people who are actual dangers in society. It’s like being afraid of shark attacks when in reality you’re more likely to get heart disease. Not mention that someone doesn’t have to be an incel to hate or kill women. Ever heard of abusive relationships? Those guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:39 PM
1

There are women who simp for men with boyfriends?? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:59 PM
2

10,000 dollars what a fucking idiot! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:30 PM
2

I’ll answer this one. I live in a town with a few brothels nearby. I’ve heard stories from people that work there where men have bitten, slapped, and attempted surprise anal on the girls. This isn’t rare either. The men who pay for sex in general see women as property and treat them like property. The men who don’t see them that way don’t pay for sex because they want emotional connection or at least not having to pay for sex. So yeah, calling them rapey is not far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:18 PM
1

That first one describes pearl h davis perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:30 AM
2

Fake men’s rights advocates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:22 AM
1

The existence of fake feminists must imply the existence of fake mras? What would that look like I wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:01 AM
2

Q4All: Knowing that CTE (basically dementia caused be repeated head trauma) was found in the majority of deceased NFL players, would you still let your kid play football or box?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:33 PM
4

Nerds satisfy my craving for aquarium pebbles 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:28 PM
2

Let our generation have our rocky horror picture show moment man 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:24 PM
9

If she doesn’t love you after you expressed emotions to her, she never loved you. Redpillers are slow to grasp this concept
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:22 PM
3

Exactly! Neither have I. My ex would constantly compliment my personality/kindness and me being a dumbass teen thought it was endearing. That was until she rejected every form of affection I had. Idk why she’d date me if she wouldn’t even let me kiss her. She was probably a lesbian tbh. I’ve had girls who weren’t my girlfriend show me much more affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:31 PM
2

Q4All: What game shows would you be best at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:06 PM
4

That’s different. That’s looking at how compatible you are. Not what they can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:27 PM
2

Do we REALLY need a study for that? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:30 PM
7

Which is why I dislike the whole “what do you bring to the table?” argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:27 PM
4

People like being in relationships. It makes us happy. Seeing relationships as transactional and practical kills all the love. You can do all the practical stuff yourself. Just enjoy the person you’re with. If their love and affection isn’t enough, then you should probably stay away from dating entirely. Most of the time people back then just got married because they didn’t want to be seen as secretly gay or a spinster. You see this with the boomer generation who hates their wives. The reason is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:25 PM
1

Never had it. I’ll try it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:06 PM
1

What’s on your toast?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:04 PM
5

One thing I’ve noticed with women is that if they’re attracted to you, physically, they will rarely comment on your personality. Don’t get me wrong, they’ll appreciate it and give credit where credit is due, but the more she brings it up or focuses on it the less likely it is she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:32 PM
3

Spoken like a true Capricorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:21 PM
2

I think it’s the melatonin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:17 PM
3

Had a dream where Nintendo was suing me and sending people to kidnap me. I escaped by helicopter before they could get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:46 PM
2

Balance seeking? Yes. Balance receiving? Ehhh 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:34 PM
1

Canada isn’t the only country with universal healthcare. Other countries are better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:27 PM
2

Libra. I don’t know what traits are assigned to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:26 PM
3

Negativity is not productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:15 AM
2

Ok and? Nobody asked for your compassion specifically. Pretty much everyone knows what dry spells feel like man or woman so get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:19 PM
1

Not for me. For the dudes who can’t get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:11 PM
2

So then why does all of Reddit and many bluepillers in this sub say otherwise? They don’t understand that and therefore don’t have compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:24 PM
1

Childhood plays a larger role in that regard. Even if you get positive experiences in the future you will not be prepared or able to fully embrace it unless you have enough or forget the negative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:40 PM
1

I will admit that this sub thinks that it’s either chad or incel when it comes to dating and it’s completely out of touch. I’ve know plenty of guys who at least have one date. I think that this sub is more out of touch with the average man than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:35 PM
3

One thing I’d love both pills to understand is that it’s way harder than you think to change your personality. Nobody can turn the switch to be more confident, nice, outgoing, or witty. Personality really isn’t a choice for most people. You’d literally have to have anti social personality disorder to pull it off effectively. Your environment and experiences largely shape how you become. We wouldn’t blame a dog who barks at little kids because little kids were mean to him as a puppy, so why shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:31 PM
1

Nobody said having casual sex makes you chad. Generally chads have an easier time getting it if we’re talking about a general quantity. Normies can still get it in niche areas or with a few random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:16 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:17 PM
2

Yep. Or any tree that produces sap within the northern climates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:13 PM
1

Curious what you tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:10 PM
2

Apparently you can get syrup from other trees beside maple. Wish I knew where to find some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:01 PM
2

I’m still struggling with miles vs kilometers tho. Everything else I have down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:50 PM
1

I feel like the only American that likes the metric system. It makes more sense and easier to weigh stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:58 PM
1

I thought everyone did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:49 PM
1

I think you’re confusing shared experiences with bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:32 PM
2

My cousins an older millennial and she met her husband at a gay bar lol. People find love in strange places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:49 AM
1

What does she think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:45 AM
1

Men weren’t taught to groom as much because their fathers came from a time when women were basically property. It was assumed that he’d find a wife if he could provide. Now guys are waking up to the fact that their appearance matters equally. Men actually are far more disadvantaged in this regard because their toys and childhood is based on fun things rather than appearances (with the exception of fitness and sports). Girls grow up with toys centered around literal beauty from the day their born…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:37 AM
2

Does your SO know that you post on purple pill debate? 🤥🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:26 AM
3

I’ve been thinking about determinism and how it relates to the pills. It makes plenty sense and I never see it talked about on here. Many conditions lead to the choices we make. How hungry we are, how much sleep we get, memories and past trauma, and also just how popular something is. In a dating context, confidence is usually developed because the person gets results. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t be confident or motivated to try again. Likewise many such decisions are really about the characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:06 AM
4

Does this sub think nobody has loving sex in a relationship? I swear it’s either “FWB” or “Sexless marriage” with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:51 PM
1

Dating intentions and plastic surgery are not the same thing. Lying about dating intentions gets people hurt. Plastic surgery doesn’t. Done yet edge lord?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:50 PM
25

It comes off more like a “Ask women a loaded question and try and get them in a gotcha moment” post. Very bad faith from OP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:08 PM
3

Exactly. Redpill conviently leaves that crucial detail out. It’s so porn brained and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:05 PM
10

You do realize that people aren’t born with age? Younger women eventually become older. Quit treating them like they’re different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:03 PM
2

No she’s not. Most 30yo women won’t do that unless they’re messed up in the head. Age gap relationships that wide are far from common for a reason. I’m not making any case for sharia law. Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:09 PM
4

Last year and yes she is that easy to manipulate. Did you also forget that he’s a registered sex offender? What are you trying to get out of this by victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:05 PM
2

And creepy and exploitative people go after easy prey. You proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:04 PM
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My mom’s friend 30yo daughter is engaged to a 50yo JW preacher who is a registered sex offender (involved a child). You cannot tell me after that experience that men who go for significantly younger women are not exploitative and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:58 PM
3

Why would I stick my hand in the toilet??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:12 PM
1

Do I spy dolmades??? 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:56 PM
3

Even as a blackpiller, I’d have to say confidence, aggression, extroverted-ness, and independence. It’s generally consistent across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:32 PM
2

“CHICKEN JOCKEY!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:29 AM
1

Minecraft movie was wild. Part of the experience is the freakouts and memes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:14 AM
2

Cigarettes will destroy your twinkness. Not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
1

Holy shit I’ve noticed this too! There’s always a massive bitterness with them and it always feels like walking on eggshells. My ex was this way too and she was the absolute worst liar, cheater, and gaslighter. It really fucks with your confidence because you feel way less attractive than them. I really don’t know how to explain it. I thought I was the only one who experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:35 PM
5

Only to normies after you look good. Other mentally ill people will have a blast with ya. I should know 😌.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:06 PM
2

Nobody ever tells you what to do once you looksmaxx because once you do, you find out you’re so far behind and lacking in socialization from being treated horribly as a kid/teen. People are drawn to you initially but find out your some kinda mentally ill freak and it leaves a bad taste in their mouths. People who grow up attractive/normal get this socialization because they were treated well by adults and their peers. How do you even deal with the resentment of not getting the support when you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:44 AM
2

Wa- was he fapping??? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:29 AM
1

Who doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:00 AM
1

Ok well what about James Bond and Batman?? Those 2 have little to do with each other lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:49 AM
2

Can someone tell me why I had a dream about James Bond and Batman torturing people with legos??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 AM
1

I did yesterday and slept good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:22 AM
3

I hate how in America, things like healthcare and housing are treated like investments rather than necessities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:05 AM
2

Someone told me that the “woman are wonderful” effect largely works on men. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:55 PM
2

😏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:48 PM
3

Craving Steve’s lava chicken rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:45 PM
3

The great thing about history is that the present isn’t permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 PM
1

Q4M: Has a girls dad ever threatened you with a “Whatever you do to my daughter I do to you”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:38 PM
2

Oops silly me 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:06 AM
3

I’m gonna try to be more optimistic from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:01 AM
4

Lmaoooo yesss. Seriously. It’s all sour grapes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:54 AM
2

I’m gonna keep trying and stretching lol. But I feel like I gotta take more pain before I get to that level again 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:31 AM
3

It physically hurt to use the monkey bars lol. I’m getting old 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:32 PM
2

Omg I hate food snobs. r/cooking is the worst. They all act like Nazis when it comes to how to cook something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:10 PM
1

I might make French onion soup now 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:46 PM
1

I don’t know what to do with my kitchen torch besides making crème brûlée.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:02 PM
2

Carrots and celery every meal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:01 PM
2

I usually boil 6 at a time. But I prefer making omelets out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:58 PM
1

Jeez that’s a lot! I didn’t know Russian weddings were so big.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:15 PM
1

What kinda venue was that? I’m not religious but I’d love to have a wedding in a beautiful church. I also can’t tell if that’s cheap for a wedding dress but to me that’s too expensive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:12 PM
6

It makes more sense to splurge on the honeymoon than the wedding. Of course my rich cousins did both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:08 PM
1

I don’t trust it. I’ve gotten burned with even the highest spf so I just cover up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:49 PM
1

🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:38 PM
3

And you asked why you get roasted on this sub 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:33 PM
1

Do I even wanna know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:32 PM
2

You and me both. I can’t even use sunscreen. I have to basically cover everything with clothing lmao. It’s our Scandinavian genetics unfortunately 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:31 PM
1

Getting anyone to accept anything is childish. It’s not gonna happen. You have control over your own thoughts and nobody forces you to think anything. In the end most of those people will be hurting themselves. Average dudes aren’t causing systemic misogyny. Rich people and politicians are. Right now they’re laughing because they’ve convinced all the pseudo feminists that average joes are causing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:23 PM
1

Well duh that’s the least religious state in the nation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:01 PM
1

Where are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:47 PM
0

I wouldn’t be so sure about no sex lol. Growing up as a Christian people broke that rule a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:46 PM
1

You know what’s weird to me? As an atheist, I’ve met far more men that don’t believe in god or anything than women who don’t believe. In fact, when I went to a church group with my ex (when I was still a believer) it was exclusively all women with the exception of the man being the pastor/youth group leader. Maybe one or two guys would show up. I’ve seen far more women in religion than men. Anyone else notice this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:01 PM
1

Sounds very similar to a guy I knew in highschool! He looked good but was 5’2 and clean shaven. He was mistaken for 10 all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:26 PM
1

I just couldn’t tell from your original response lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:21 PM
2

So all they gotta do is grow a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:16 PM
1

Interesting. Now is it possible that a straight dude could be a cutecel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:16 PM
2

I hope I don’t get banned for this but can someone tell me what a “Cutecel” is? Heard it in conversation and I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:12 PM
3

This implies kitty is bald 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:10 PM
1

Ppd shows up in my dreams 😶‍🌫️ for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:54 AM

I worked security before and men are most certainly not good boys at work. Lol. Who comes up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:29 AM

True but that last part will effect the man negatively if she finds out he lied about that last part. A woman can say she has a bf and lie, but a man will generally see this as disinterest rather than her being available. A woman finding out he didn’t have a girlfriend will just cause her to lose interest and resent him for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:50 AM

Hmmm you got a point lol. This probably explains dudes who try to convert lesbians lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:59 PM

Thoughts? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:03 PM

I think so. Weird isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:53 PM

Isn’t it weird how a woman having a boyfriend means random men disappear from her life and a man having a girlfriend means random women appear in his life? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:52 PM
1

And some who probably say the opposite 😏😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:03 PM
1

Awesome! At least stretch every day so your skills don’t entirely perish lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:25 PM
2

You should’ve made them spar for your affection! Like in the old days 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:16 AM
1

I’m assuming that’s like the 3rd or 2nd rank lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:16 AM
1

That’s why you have to practice silly 🙃 what belt were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:00 AM
1

Still possible to get bangs. I know a few ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:41 AM
2

THAT’S A GI!!!!!!! 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:36 AM
2

No? Still says purple pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:33 AM
1

Tbf most forms of fighting on tv are unrealistic. Best form of self defense is either a gun, pepper spray, or running away (of course you need to train this too).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:33 AM
2

Q4All: Ever did martial arts or are currently doing an art?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:26 AM
1

Wait arranged marriages are real? I thought it was just a running joke on this sub 😯🥶 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:25 AM
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Absolutely. Far too many in the sex positive division. I even heard a dude say “I support abortion for women! Means I get to cum in them more!” 🤮 No matter what side you’re on that’s a gross statement to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:18 AM
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“I’m not a feminist but I believe in women’s rights and equality!” I hear this all the time from women and men. What do y’all think? Has feminism really garnered such a bad reputation that people have to separate themselves from the movement while simultaneously assuring everyone they aren’t sexist? If so why do you think this is? Why couldn’t they say something like “I’m a feminist but I don’t hate men or trans people.”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:12 AM
2

Tbf they aren’t really generalizing anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:06 AM
2

Bro just needs to lose weight and get bangs. He has massive potential
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:25 AM
2

Thx 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:04 AM
2

Lifestyle stuff. I’ll post it here once it’s written. I think it’ll be very interesting. I’ve never been in the news so this will be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:39 AM
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Ok guys not to brag but I’m gonna be in the news soon. I’ll post the article when it’s done. Feeling kinda famous ngl 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:28 AM
3

This has to be April fools 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:22 AM
2

😳
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:56 AM
2

Q4All: Did you ever have major suspicions about someone that turned out to be true? What were they?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:40 AM
4

Some do some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:43 AM
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How did you get any of that from her statement? Where did she say that she thinks every minor critique of women is misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:42 AM
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Why not just find a good woman? Expecting someone to change for you is not realistic. People will change if they have the desire to. You leaving or staying doesn’t make a difference. There are good women out there but they are uncommon. The best thing you can do is keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:41 AM

Say that last sentence louder for this whole site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:50 PM

I was not prepared for that lol. How does hrt even work on an old person? Is it safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:48 PM

Bluepillers outside this sub will say this shit. Especially in dating subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:24 PM

And why does this bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:23 PM

One thing I absolutely despise about blue pillers (despite me being partially blue pilled myself) is how so many of them are hellbent on the just world fallacy when it comes to dating. How does someone go through life believing that good things happen to good people? Anyone with any of the five senses knows this is bullshit. More importantly, why is Reddit so insistent with this way of thinking when it comes to dating? Have they not seen abusive men get into relationships? Have they not seen wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:18 PM

In my experience therapy didn’t work. Therapy exists to make money. It’s all bullshit that I’m not sure even the therapists believe the crap they spew. Looking for advice from a therapist is a fool’s errand. It’s not just men either. I know women that have similar experiences. The issue is that most people don’t want to cope with or understand their problems. They want their problems to go away. Obviously a therapist isn’t a magician but they aren’t a big help either. They will give very useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:44 PM

We just have to see. Most people already don’t like what trump is doing to America so there’s enough pushback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:11 PM

It really sucks that the relationship between Canada and the US is fraying. I never thought it a million years it would happen. Hopefully nothing ever escalates and we can make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:05 PM

Life is short. Do as much as you can now to work towards a better future. If that happens to be later in life, so be it. But you’ll have better chances starting now than any other point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:18 AM

Not always. Art is mostly an escape from reality to something more pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:33 AM

You’re gonna LOVE tik tok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:20 AM

Thing is I feel just so weird because I hear about kids rebelling all the time as a result of overprotective parents and I never really rebelled because I was hyper analyzing every move and walking on eggshells for stupid things. Idk. Maybe my rebellious phase comes in my mid 20s 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:32 AM

Idk how it is for women but as a man, growing up sheltered and overprotected ruins a boy like nothing else. My parents tried to shield me from R and pg-13 movies, M rated video games, and anything they believed was anti christian (which was lots of things). My father was also emotionally abusive and called me every name in the book. He’s disabled now so when the time comes, I’m not even wasting time with a nursing home. He’s on his fucking own. Coupled with possibly being on the spectrum, this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:20 AM

Would be a sick place to parachute off of
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:59 AM

Can we all agree that movies and fictional media are horrible ways to interpret real world dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:58 AM
3

Anyone ever own poison dart frogs? I think they look super cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:00 AM
2

Sex workers are people too and should be treated with respect. That said I’d personally never date one because the amount of shady shit and baggage is too much to deal with. Most women who work in this industry are abused, mentally unwell, and often substance dependent. It’s heart breaking really. Many of these women don’t want to do it and see no other choice. Sex should at the very least be a product of desire and trust. Not paying for it. That way less people get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:09 PM

As an ex Christian, you’d be surprised of the seemingly innocuous things that cause other Christians to explode and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:01 PM
3

Am I the only one hesitant to get into a relationship with someone because I feel like I might not fit in/get along with their family and friends? How do I get over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:27 AM

Anyone else craving snow cones 🍧 rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:18 AM
3

Yeah some
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:13 AM

I heard someone say that millennials got rid of unnecessary labels, and Gen z has a label for EVERYTHING. It’s so true tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:57 AM
1

I’ve had women approach me. Not as much as women have had men approach them but usually the super extroverted women approach me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:51 AM
5

Isn’t it already illegal to misuse child support funds? In the us at least? Seems like an easy case of fraud/embezzlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:23 AM
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The only answer is that some men are assholes who only care about their legacy. Not supporting their kids. I understand child support. Kids are expensive and if you don’t wanna pay for it, don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:21 AM
4

They can get men who aren’t fat. That’s why they don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:48 AM
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Lol people in general are harsh on weight. It’s not a gender specific thing. That said there are far more straight male bbw fetishists than straight female bbw fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:41 AM

I’m sure there’s far worse than poop clean up in a hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:35 AM
5

Really wish people would stop suggesting bars and clubs as places to find relationships. Even if you do find one it’s unlikely to last. Drinking alcohol is not enough to bond over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:29 AM

I heard that nursing is becoming more of a diversity hire for men. Like there’s a big push for men to get into nursing. Nothing wrong with it but how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:25 AM
1

My cousin met her husband at a gay bar. I don’t know how that works either lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:23 AM

Attractive guys don’t need that crap and act normal. If they are talking normally then they aren’t attractive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:31 AM

No. Obviously it’s better but not ideal. I’m trying to get opponents to think critically and open their mind. Shouting sexism isn’t an argument but it seems to be the only argument from the side of opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:03 AM

Which is exactly my point. It gets them to be self aware. I disagree with quit a few Redpill things because of its ineffectiveness. Yes sexism is wrong but everyone calls everything sexist nowadays that nobody takes it seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:41 AM

How was he effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:35 AM

To anyone who’s against manosphere content and wants to turn young men away from this, you need to realize that harping about it being sexist isn’t gonna change their minds. You need to tell them how it’s ineffective. They don’t care if it’s sexist they care if it works or not. Sexist dudes are gonna be sexist. Most of these guys just want a girlfriend. For instance: Bad example: “Age gap relationships are super predatory and wrong and men who do that should burn in hell!!” Good example : “It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:27 AM
1

Damn you’re really gonna hate my state 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:56 AM
5

Well fuck then what can she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:58 AM
1

Why nurses?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:57 AM
3

Q4All: Do you have any dealbreakers regarding your dates profession? Personally I’m fine with everything besides strippers or sex workers. No hate to them at all but that’s not something I want to be involved with. Too many horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:02 AM
2

Not as long as the dudes are on the app 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:44 AM
1

Millennials on this site need to realize that it’s not 2010 anymore. Social media and dating apps have completely changed the game entirely. Things aren’t what they used to be. Beauty standards have skyrocketed and approaching and flirting in public is seen as creepy. Any advice you have about dating now is irrelevant because of these things. Just like how the boomers are delusional about housing prices and rent, I’ve found many millennials delusional about dating in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:42 AM
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Because women don’t stay on them for long
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:04 PM

Regarding the whole “ugly guy with hot girl” thing, it’s total bull. Women have a tendency to overrate other women and underrate men. I’ve seen this before. In reality the couple is looksmatched and the guy looks decent. She just thinks the guy who isn’t her type is ugly instead of just not her type. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:47 AM

Is it weird that as an atheist, I’d still be interested in getting married in a church?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:56 PM

You didn’t see the right wingers smashing beer in Walmart??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:55 PM

Ok but porn is still fantasy and different from real sex. It may look hot but when you try it you might have a different experience. That’s what makes or breaks your sexuality. Things are different when you actually experience them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:24 PM

No it’s not moving the goalposts. People masturbate to things they’d never actually do in real life all the time. That’s the difference. You can’t say you’re gay but then never chose to date and have sex with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:19 PM

Porn is fantasy. Does not reflect true desires or life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:35 AM

How do women see bi men? As a man, I see a bi women as just women. Surprisingly they much different than lesbians. Closer to the behavior of straight women with a few differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:24 AM

I’ve noticed guys tend to be very certain of their sexuality from a young age and don’t stay confused for too long. But I’ve seen lots of women jump from being straight to bi, lesbian, trans, non binary, and all over the place usually within the span of a year. Why is it that men tend to know what they are and who they’re attracted to while women seem to take longer and stall?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:13 AM

Feminism is good. Without it, we end up like the Middle East. Feminism doesn’t really affect a man’s dating life. He’s either attractive or not. Most of the women men claim are corrupted by feminism are really just corrupted by American selfishness and hyper capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:57 AM
7

How is anything you listed toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:53 AM
2

Ok what does she mean then? They have to hate her to do this? Is she high?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:15 PM
2

What does this even mean? Eiffel Towered? Is this some kinda sex move?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:12 PM
1

Favorite superhero
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:09 PM
2

Sandal and Cedar wood. Or any wood scent. Patchouli is a close second
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:06 PM
2

House is the only good character on his own show. Why do they nerf the other characters into total dogshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:34 PM
1

Exactly! They even had to ban sexual questions on the other ask men sub because it was all anyone wanted to talk about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:47 AM
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<image> I see endless posts like this from women all the time. Are they really this out of touch?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:23 AM
1

Why are you bringing me into this? I’m not talking about myself. I’m talking about the reason other guys are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:44 AM
7

What you said doesn’t disprove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:33 AM
1

But why is a woman hating women supposedly “not as bad as men”? Hate is hate no matter who it’s from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:10 AM
3

Lmao. The amount of women I see making excuses for bad men is disturbing. I’ve heard it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:09 AM
3

When you’re attractive, you will get obvious choosing signals and women will even approach you first. If those things aren’t happening then you have more work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:08 AM
0

No unattractive behaviors. Just unattractive blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:05 AM
2

Ok why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:02 AM
3

If you’re not very attractive, then nothing is gonna work. Meeting women is not the problem. Women are everywhere and guys know this. When dudes ask “Where do you meeet women??” They really mean “Where can I meet women attracted to me??” Focus on being attractive first. Then meeting people will be the least of your worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:02 AM
2

Q4All: Do you agree with the statement “Misogyny in men is treated like a character trait. Misogyny in women is treated like a disease”? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:59 PM
1

Yeah. People generally see nice people as targets for exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:02 PM
5

No. Nice guys are not secretly manipulative or not “truly” nice. They’re just not attractive to the woman. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:32 PM
2

Guys is it weird to have a dream where you’re brother tells you he died and that you need to go find his body?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:34 PM
3

Hell fucking no. I hate when people beat around the bush. If they make you wait, it’s because they don’t actually intend to follow through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:37 AM
1

Guitar. I like it and played for 5 years but not getting any appreciation just hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:35 AM
1

🫥👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:34 AM
1

For me that’s ok up to a point. We’d all be lying if we said we didn’t at least crave some validation for the things we liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:34 AM
1

Guitar. Been playing for 5 years and at an intermediate level. Not even any of my close friends complement my skills. I like it but not getting appreciation and praise makes it impossible to enjoy playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:33 AM
2

Have y’all ever been so into a hobby but nobody notices or cares and you get so depressed that you don’t even try to improve anymore and slowly give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:29 AM
1

The more you do something, the better your stamina
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:23 PM
-3

Also masking isn’t hard. All one has to do is watch NT people talk and interact and copy that. That’s what I did and I was successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:14 PM
3

I’m not sure how her being approached has anything to do with masking. Masking is literally just blending in and imitating NT people. That’s not a hard concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:13 PM
2

You wouldn’t have been able to get a transplant at 22. No doctor would perform it. Basically unless you’re above 25 and no higher than Norwood 4. Hair transplants would be very ineffective. Hair system or fin+min is a relatively cheaper route until much better treatments come out in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:43 AM
1

Holy crap guys I agree with u/windmill_flowers buy a lotto ticket everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:50 AM
3

I can’t keep up with these acronyms 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:47 AM
1

Tf is ngmi?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:45 AM
1

Base it on reality? Not many people would disagree with me. Stuff I mentioned happens in American colleges daily lol. Do you go to college in the Middle East or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:44 AM
1

Yeah guys still gotta put in the hard work to become better. But once they do, college is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:38 AM
1

Did you miss the part when I said “Your 20s and potentially your 30s?” That’s a common age range to go to university. Obviously 40 year olds would look creepy doing that. I don’t have advice for them. They typically get married by that age 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:36 AM
2

I heard someone say before that college is hands down the best place to meet women in your 20s and potentially your 30s. Reasons being: •You will not find one place with as much women your age besides uni. •You will also not find one place where most of the girls actually want to have sex and do wild stuff. •Pretty much every town has a university or is close to one in an adjacent town. •You can try a wide variety of women until you find someone you like. This applies to women too who’re looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:30 AM

If you looksmaxx you can get a girl. Can’t say the same for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:12 AM
1

It would be sad if you hated your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:44 AM
3

It’s very low. I’ve found that most men tend be very certain about their sexuality throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:42 AM
2

I think some crows hacked into your account Sarai lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:35 AM
2

Am I the only person who’s not afraid of clowns or dolls? Why are so many horror movies based on them? I do not find them scary one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:16 AM
1

Damn thank god it’s just a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:50 PM

Dammit artichoke now I can’t stop thinking about this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:42 PM

Y’all ever had dreams about getting blackmailed and having your private shit revealed to the world by a close friend? Just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:42 PM
1

You’re a white 6ft twink. What’s holding you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:52 AM

Ok then explain how nsfw subs with small chested women have over a million users? Are all those guys lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 AM

Why? What about either of them places them into those categories? I’m failing to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:59 AM

No I’m not overweight. Why do you think that helps your argument? Wrinkles aren’t from lifestyle and neither are most things on OPs list. It’s called aging and there’s no cure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:58 AM
1

Aww! Why tf do they think that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:52 AM

First woman is literally wearing lingerie so this is not even a fair comparison lmao. The second one looks better because it’s more natural looking. Make up can look good but it needs to blend the harmony with your face otherwise you’ll always be better off with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:51 AM
1

Way to show off badger 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:47 AM

Can you tell me which ones op listed are from lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:46 AM

Labiaplasty is reshaping of the labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:45 AM

That seems a little backhanded to say yeah? Why can’t a natural looking women be hot/sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 AM
2

Anyone else gonna watch the total lunar eclipse tomorrow night at 11:30pm? Get to a dark place if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:33 AM

Everyone has a warped definition of natural. Yeah I won’t deny that most men who say this really mean “a good plastic surgery job that looks natural!” But I promise you that men who appreciate natural women exist. Literally look at nsfw subs of women with stretch marks and body hair. They get 1,000s of upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:29 AM
5

Why are dreamworks movies either absolute goated masterpieces, or god awful, inhumane cia torture devices??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:25 AM
1

Ok what if it was a fbw situation with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:05 AM
3

Q4M: Would you be ok with not being a woman’s first choice for a relationship if she were to do anything you wanted sexually and genuinely love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:49 AM
1

Why do you think good women don’t exist? Are they rare? Sure. But holy shit dude this post generalizes way too much. What do you want? A loving caring woman? Or just to get back at women who wouldn’t care if you bleed to death? One is far better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:43 AM
4

I’m starting to think being a jerk is necessary to stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:37 AM
3

Guys on this sub need to stop letting the opinions of Redditors, Tik Tokers, and Instagramers drive their life. So what if they have a dumbass opinion? Sucks for them being a dumbass. You’ll age gracefully if you don’t give in to the ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:36 AM
1

You said you’re horny. Do I really need to explain more? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:29 AM
2

Are you a triceratops?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:25 AM
5

Why should love be unconditional? Not gonna love someone abusive or vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:22 AM
1

Chips and guacamole and pico ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:31 AM
1

Canadian??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:30 AM
4

I fucking hate how when some people bring the safety of vaccines or some chemical that they’re like “it causes autism!!” Really? That’s it? Autism is somehow worse than meningitis, polio, mumps, or measles? You’d want your kid to have that rather than a bit of social awkwardness?? Seriously it’s just dehumanizing and reflects how society treats autistic people. They’d rather have deadly illnesses than a kid whose brain works differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:21 AM
3

Minor inconveniences are more abrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:14 AM
3

I’m just insecure around everybody. Don’t take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:38 PM
3

Tbf there is no “in” (involuntary) in the word femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:12 PM
2

I hate the whole notion of “Guys are getting rejected because they go for 10/10 models!” Most guys have not met model looking women or 10/10 because they’re rare. You’re average guys struggling is not hitting on women out of their league. They’re struggling in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:48 AM
3

Interesting. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:18 AM
1

Now are you sure those women are actually feminists and not just regular women who enforce gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:56 PM
5

Now are you sure those women are actually feminists and not just regular women who enforce gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:55 PM
1

Looks like cheeseburgers 🍔 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:34 PM
3

Thoughts? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:33 PM
3

Why is it that I’ve met more gay men and bisexual women, than lesbians as a straight man? Like it feels like lesbians as a whole are very rare. Have I just not met enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:18 AM
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Hell men on this sub have said they’d fuck women they’re unattracted to. That’s wild to me. I only would have sex with someone I was attracted to and liked. Don’t they see the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:12 AM
1

Many guys don’t realize that being sexualized ≠ true desire. They’re not desiring you. Just the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:10 AM
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Especially children who grow up with this media. Kids minds are like play doh and will copy things they see on tv or YouTube. Yes parents should teach their kids to be moral but many don’t. How we portray things in media is really telling us how we see those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:08 AM
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They can have the right but they’re not free from criticism and shame. You still didn’t answer my question. I don’t think guys necessarily have the right to someone but they do deserve loving partners and I can hope they one day find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:02 AM
9

Which is why I also hate people who say to lonely guys “just see a prostitute if you want sex!”. Sex is far better with people who don’t see you as their next rent payment. It’s about desire. Not the act itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:52 AM
8

Can you think of any consequences you think oversexualization in the media could maybe cause? Even just 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:42 AM
16

I live in a town with brothels. Never been in one but knew people who worked in them. It’s not glamorous and women who come from abuse flock there and have nothing left for them. Abuse happens in the brothels all the time and it doesn’t get reported or it’d get shut down. It’s really predatory and I feel sorry for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:29 AM
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Yeah. It’d be a stretch to say calling out medias portrayal of women somehow fighting for privilege. Guys here complain about the portrayal of men in media all the time. Turns out people don’t like being portrayed in ways that are outlandish because it has consequences. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:24 AM
38

One can still have opinions on things and gender dynamics. Feminism isn’t just about fighting for basic human rights. It’s also a philosophy on gender dynamics as a whole (whether or not you agree with it). I’m not an expert but I’m pretty sure feminists cover this in regards to things like TERFs and intersectionality. Basically feminism argues that gender roles aren’t inherently natural but rather forced by society and would be easier if men and women could do things outside the norm. I don’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:20 AM
3

Well when it comes to friendship gen z has ruined that. Plain and simple. Social media, selfishness, and lack of morals did that. Only way we’ll ever get rid of it is to make it common and normal to shame people who don’t follow social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:17 AM
1

In what context would that ever happen? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:53 AM
2

Q4W: is there anything a guy can say that’s inoffensive but a massive turn off? Have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:49 AM
2

2 possibilities: BPD or the guys she wants don’t fw her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:45 AM
1

🖕🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:41 AM
1

Just to show how insane this whole “don’t approach women” sentiment is getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:41 AM
2

Wish I could find that reddit post of a man who got pepper sprayed for simply approaching a woman at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:28 AM
2

Well maybe start having more unhinged takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:22 AM
1

Well depends on how high you rank it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:21 AM
1

Don’t be shy. Post em. I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:18 AM
2

Redditors have too much time on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:18 AM
1

Sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:17 AM
2

I’m blackpilled in the sense that looks matter but bluepilled in the sense that love does exist and there are good women out there for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:12 AM
1

I have a coworker like that and I normally wouldn’t say this but she is honestly just venting. She’s nice and respectful otherwise but I wouldn’t date her. Way too many mental issues. I also don’t think she’s straight tbh. I wouldn’t be offended but I’d be curious why she’d think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:09 AM
2

Why go to a third world country? Why limit yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:51 AM
-2

Tell me why in a court of law, a man whose otherwise mentally sane, financially able, and willing is going to be denied custody solely because he’s a man? If both parents are, shouldn’t kids get to see their moms too? I’m not following here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:08 AM
1

“Men rarely get custody of kids in divorces!” How many men actually fight for custody? People who say this really underestimate the amount of men who want to father children. Spoiler alert; it’s depressingly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:42 AM
2

I’ll never know if the world was better when I was a kid or if I was just naive and clueless 🤔 I’ll believe the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:26 AM
2

I’m 21. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:54 AM
2

Old people be like: “I suffered in the past and even though you have the opportunity to suffer less I’m still gonna be mad and call you lazy for not suffering as much as I did!” Then what was the point of making life better for your kids and the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:53 AM
3

I’ll agree with all those except 2. There are women out there who will take advantage of a man and use him for money. Even if it’s not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:46 AM
1

You remind people about men’s biological clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:42 AM
1

Men actually do have a biological clock but redpillers don’t mention that. Older man’s sperm significantly contributes to birth defects and men just generally lose fertility with age. Why do Redpillers focus on women’s biological clock then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:39 AM
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You had anxiety tho. Not physical pain. Of course they’d put you on anti anxiety medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:37 AM
1

This has to be fake right???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:18 AM
1

Pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:19 AM
1

Oml that’s awful! I’m not a doctor but holy crap I’d never make that assumption without at least getting some imaging. Hope you’re better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:10 AM
1

Q4W: Do doctors really take women’s health issues less seriously than mens? I haven’t been to a doctor in a long time because I’m lucky to be healthy. But are women’s health concerns really dismissed by doctors like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:44 AM
1

What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:03 PM

Needed a new look 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:27 AM

People are entitled to partners who’ll love them. Maybe not anyone specifically but everyone deserves love. I’ll die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:15 AM

No lol. I come from a small town filled with gambling, drugs, and hookers. It’s a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:42 AM

I’ve never been tested but I’ve always suspected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:19 AM

21
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:17 AM

Most of my former classmates are getting married more than I thought. And here I am a virgin and never even kissed a girl 😔 Happy for my friend at least. He got engaged awhile ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:06 AM

I had a dream about this exact image. Except there were far more physical details.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:26 AM

Omg how is that Machiavellian?? That’s called being a good boyfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:25 AM

No. Just give boys more physical activity and PE. Give some to girls who need it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:24 AM

Men truly can benefit from having female friends regardless what anyone says. In my experience they will be more affectionate, attentive and understanding. Most guy friends haven’t been in my experience. I have met a few that do but most straight guys think even breathing the same air is gay. I can’t speak for it getting a girlfriend since I’m not experienced in that field. But there’s no reason to not be friends with someone solely based on their sex. Having a social group is very important for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:21 AM

You’re right it is valid. But why focus on that? Find someone who will work with your inexperience and help you. Sex isn’t a contest. It’s something done out of love and affection. Many people are just happy to be there with their partner naked and having fun. Otherwise what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:05 AM
1

Well maybe she had a bad experience. It does happen to some women. I’d say give it time in any situation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:42 AM
1

I think confidence should be looked at more as an action rather than a feeling. Yes you can feel confident but why waste time chasing a feeling? No use in judging how you feel. Simply acting more confident can help. No need to feel any particular way. Just come across as a carefree determined individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:41 AM
1

Yeah. I guess it certainly wouldn’t hurt anyones chances lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:26 AM
2

Ohhh 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:25 AM
3

Oh I kwym. I’ve also noticed that whenever I’m around a girl I like in any social group, I just immediately get the urge to be super extroverted with everyone around me except her lol. Like it’s just so natural. Of course im always too chicken shit to talk to her but it does get me attention from her. Idk why im like this 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:20 AM
2

Sex at the very least needs trust. If you don’t trust your partner, don’t have sex. Simple and plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:17 AM
1

Well what specifically would be too conflicting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:14 AM
2

Does confidence help? Even just a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:14 AM
1

It’s called starving
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:11 AM
2

Q4M: Would you ever date a feminist if she didn’t hate men and practiced what she preached?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:11 AM
1

Q4W: What do you think about women (especially younger ones) who pretty much expect a man to pay for her and treat her like a princess? Do you know anyone like this personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:15 PM

Ok I’m finally getting back into guitar. Practicing everyday with a metronome and absolutely scrutinizing my technique. I’ll be advanced in 6 months 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:38 AM

Didn’t she try to sue a subreddit? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:35 AM

How is it that Reddit is simultaneously cynical doomer yet also hellbent on a just world??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:34 AM

I got nothing in there :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:49 AM

<image> Not really sure if this test is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:24 AM

Send me the link where this is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:03 AM
1

So just me then??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:19 PM
1

So you like sweet submissive virgins then 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:18 PM
1

Do y’all ever have a dream about dating someone you didn’t think much about before and now you just have a crush on them??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:16 PM
4

What feminists say and what random women say are 2 entirely different things. Why are guys conflating the 2 all the time? Feminist: “Women should have the right to work and support themselves. Men, Women, lgbtq+, and everyone should be allowed to break gender norms if they want to. This includes not seeing men as weak or pussies for wanting to cry or have moments of weakness.” PPD dude: “Well this particular woman didn’t do any of that as she made me pay for everything and left me for crying whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:47 PM
1

Yes you do. We all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:32 PM
2

Wait til you hear about how sea urchin in Spanish is literally just “Sea hedgehog” lol. I thought it was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:30 PM
3

The bar is on mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:28 PM
1

Do you live in a less religious country? If so chances are you could just find most people with similar views.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:42 AM
1

Idk if you aren’t religious it’s a massive gamble to find people with similar values to you in random places. Wish I had the answers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 AM
0

When was this “magical” time you speak of???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:24 AM
3

The kinda men who go to clubs are almost guaranteed to be commitment phobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:22 AM
1

You know what to do. Either lifts or surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:19 AM
1

Reddit loves to advocate for mental health until it’s something that’s not as glamorous as depression or anxiety. That’s when they change their minds and start dehumanizing those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:16 AM
1

I want a sub sandwich but it’s 1am and I got no ingredients for it 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:12 AM
5

That’s wild. I would never have sex with someone I don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:14 AM
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