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cries in 12% humidity 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:41 PM
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In a way yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:17 PM
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You gotta admit for that series it’s probably gonna be the best entry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:58 AM
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This game looks cool. Would’ve done numbers in 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:52 AM
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Yeah it’s amazing the lengths they go to. I see a lot just cover their faces with these types of fabrics. But hey it’s paying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:35 AM
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True, that does play a part. It’s also fat distribution and Asians tend to keep fuller faces later in life. Which could also arguably be attributed to sun protection. But as for skin quality Asians pretty much out do everybody lol. And we’ve all seen that truck driver photo where half his face aged 20 years from one side of sun exposure. So sun protection will still do you a world of good and take 10 years off your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:50 AM
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I firmly believe that the reason why Japanese women look 20 in their 50s is because they’re sunphobic like crazy. I see many Japanese and Asian tourists covering up like this outside where I am. And they almost always have god tier skin. Considering that 90% of skin aging is caused by UV, I don’t think it’s super far fetched. Unfortunately this is overlooked in many skincare communities and the west in general. Which makes me wonder if Arab women have less skin aging as well. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:31 AM
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Hmmm yeah that’s a good point. I guess it’s a struggle of personal satisfaction and social satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:52 AM
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I notice men are far more obsessed with masculinity than women are with femininity. Why? What causes men to be more obsessed with appearing more manly than women being more feminine? Or do I have it all wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:39 AM
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My cat loves to watch me play Donkey Kong. She won’t watch me play any other game besides that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:19 PM
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Nobody is complaining that it doesn’t work. Just that it’s undesirable and a bad position to be in as a man. It’s like being proud you get to chew your food but not swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:21 AM
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Why do some people get offended when you point out their disgusting hygiene? Like no, I’m not eat burgers you made with that nasty ass spatula that touched your bare unclean countertop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:56 AM
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A common complaint I heard from women growing up was “The guys I like don’t like me back and I don’t like the guys who like me back”. I’ve never heard a woman above a 6.5-7/10 say anything like this. I think it’s safe to say that for the most part, lots of women are punching above what they can get. I’ve even had this happen in a mostly boys highschool with a girl who was obviously into me but I didn’t care for her, but literally every guy at that school was trying to get with her. You can guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:00 AM
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There’s definitely a “crabs in a bucket” mentality in the manosphere/redpill that drags men down and can worsen their chances. Why do you think they rip on pretty boys and claim that women don’t like them? Ever since I’ve tried looking like a pretty boy I get far more female attention than I would’ve looking like a masculine ogre like these redpillers seem to think women are attracted to. So in essence yes but it’s less intentional and more so in denial. Men can’t comprehend that women are attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:04 PM
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These are in no way remotely comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:04 PM
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Nah labubu people are just kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:02 AM
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Being a naturally rebellious person in life takes you very far. You’re able to walk away from harmful things even if you’re the only one who does so. You’re able to try new things that will be best for you not society. However, these types of people are rare. Most people prefer “safe” options. Safe meaning “won’t get me ridiculed”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:34 PM
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Chicken sausages, sunny side up eggs, and turkey bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:10 AM
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Man rich people used to invest in public infrastructure like roads, universities, hospitals, and water treatment plants (while still being evil). Now they buy social media websites and make stupid trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 PM
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Those guys likely have the features to pull it off. Some guys faces are too masculine to do the androgynous look and if they tried it they’d end up looking like a poorly passing trans woman. As a man it’s best to play off your own phenotype instead of follow trends. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:42 PM
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Man I’m sorry that’s extremely fucked up 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:12 PM
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<image> This chick is super hot. But idk if I’d want to date her irl because she’s always SCREAMING AND STRESSED OUT IN ALL HER VIDEOS!!! But otherwise super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:11 PM
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Whoa whoa where’s this coming from? Is this from a post or a personal story?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:05 PM
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What do you feel like you need to do to be a good boyfriend? Is it the volume of tasks or is there a specific task you feel would be equally satisfying to both of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:29 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand gen z and millennials aversions to phone calls. As a gen z man myself, I actually don’t mind them and actually prefer it to email/texting. Idk if it’s because I like instant replies or whatnot but phone calls aren’t really all that scary to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:02 PM
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Yeah. I think it’s due to humans wanting everything to feel of value. Nobody wants to go through something negative for nothing. It’s why the sunk cost fallacy is so prevalent in relationships, jobs, and projects. The issue is that what we perceive as valuable may not be as objective as we think. Sure becoming vengeful yourself can feel like you’re getting your “moneys worth” but unless it comes from a place of justice AND makes your situation OBJECTIVELY better, it may do more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:49 PM
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Victims and abusers aren’t always different people. Many victims go on to become abusers themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:28 PM
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It’s become impossible to debate on this sub because the majority of you think fallacies are argument destroyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:38 PM
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Man I’m sorry bout all that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:31 PM
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People like this mystify me. How do you go through life being that sensitive and having zero conflict resolution skills? It’s so childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:38 PM
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Q4All: Who was the most manipulative person you’ve dated? What made you realize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:07 PM
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Which is why you shouldn’t focus on labels but their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:42 PM
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I thought that was for premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:31 PM
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Fair lol 😂 but it’s important to have realistic expectations and it depends on the denomination of the woman. There are certain sects where they are headstrong about sex being only for reproduction and no bjs or anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:17 PM
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I have no problem with men wanting traditional women if that’s what they truly want. However, I think they’re unhealthily idealized by a lot of men who don’t fully understand what they’re getting into. A traditional woman absolutely WILL have expectations of you that you might not like. She will expect you to be the bread winner, be masculine, be religious, and will definitely not be kinky. If this is something you don’t like, then reconsider. I’m willing to be most of the time when men say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:39 PM
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If you’ve ever watched love on the spectrum, more women than men say they’ve been on dates before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:41 PM
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Well then I guess we just have different perspectives. The most height obsessed women I meet are the tall ones. The short ones aren’t really like that. I’m not sure why but that’s what I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:40 AM
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Never have I ever heard of shorter women preferring taller men more than other types. In fact, I’ve noticed the opposite. I’m average height for a man in the US and what I noticed is that if a woman is my height or above there’s a clear difference in how she treats me vs if she’s shorter than me. Women who are shorter than me almost always treat me much better and are more into me. Even if it’s like 3 inches shorter. Pretty much every inch she’s shorter than me, the better I am treated and the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:10 AM
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I have more keys than key chains 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:57 PM
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Q4M: Is IQ an important factor to you for dating a woman? To me it is. Dumb girls turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:55 PM
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I just remembered I’m an adult and I can buy a dozen donuts for myself 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:57 PM
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I thought that was sweet til I saw the sub name 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:07 PM
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Yeah we created society for a reason. Nature doesn’t have the best intentions for us. It’s just wild and dangerous. We didn’t build modern society for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:02 PM
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They’re one small part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:40 PM
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“If she’s nice to you that doesn’t automatically mean she likes you!” True but if she’s standoffish, you can bet your ass she is not attracted to you in any way. People for the most part are at best aloof towards, and at worst rude towards people they don’t find attractive. On the contrary women who find you attractive WILL be nicer to you. Worst case scenario she lets you down much easier than someone who truly doesn’t like you. Best case scenario is she’s interested and you get a yes. Point is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:37 AM
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Ironically, me being unconfident and not caring about confidence made me more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:49 AM
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Is it feminists who uphold this or society?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:31 AM
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Pretty much. I see this on Reddit all the time when people complain something isn’t acceptable by society. I have sympathy for them to a point because it would be nice if society was as progressive as we want it to be. What I don’t understand is why you have to wait til society accepts something to be yourself and have your values. It’s not realistic and eats at your soul. Being the change you want to see is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:19 AM
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What are they dying of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:37 AM
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Who exactly is dying out here? Or is this metaphorical?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:31 AM
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No that’s sexual selection. Not natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:12 AM
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No whoever gets the cure for cancers and heart disease will survive. Polio was a big thing before the vaccine and if you got it you were guaranteed death. But instead of letting people with an immunity survive (which likely might’ve let people go extinct. No guarantee anyone would develop immunity naturally) we developed a vaccine which saved people without dooming civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:11 AM
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And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:04 AM
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Humans basically have no natural selection due to the amount of things we can die from drastically reducing by modern technology. There’s a reason why heart attacks and cancer kill more people than anything else. Because we aren’t dying from plagues, Saber tooth tigers, starvation, or dehydration. There’s nothing to “adapt” to. We’re living healthier, longer lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:02 AM
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This isn’t natural selection. Natural selection favors who can survive in their environment oftentimes just barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:39 AM
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Because she knows it’s an act. Guys like this have skeletons in their closet and women aren’t stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:59 AM
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I really hate when anyone makes a claim about human nature on this sub in a vacuum. We don’t have any control groups for human nature besides a small amount of tribes around the world which is not even remotely close enough to know how much of what is a product of our environment and what isn’t. Furthermore we need to stop justifying things because they’re “natural”. Brushing your teeth, wearing sunscreen, and taking antibiotics are the furthest things from natural but are essential for human su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:55 AM
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Why do some people get mad when you don’t believe their obvious lies? Like it’s not my fault you’re a shitty liar. The narcissism is unreal sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:38 AM
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You can always get a body hair to scalp transplant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:44 AM
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I have thick eyebrows, beard, and body hair, yet I’m bald. Funny how that works. Thank god for systems and transplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:52 AM
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The only good thing there is the frosty. The burgers are just ultra greasy and weird tasting 🤢.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:28 AM
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Q4All: Worst fast food joint in your opinion? You’ll never catch me dead at a Wendy’s 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:17 AM
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Whenever some YouTuber doing some crazy ass thing says “don’t try this at home” I laugh because yes I can totally blow up a toilet with thermite at home in my suburb 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:57 AM
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Tbf I’ve seen really skinny women struggle before. Looking gaunt and starved doesn’t look good on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:59 PM
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Sounds like the average 5 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:44 PM
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Most guys I know are either skinny/under muscled or obese so right off the bat that takes them out of the game. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:17 PM
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I will do anything for fun dip rn. I’m high and craving sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:10 AM
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You’re better off putting tiny cookies into a bowl of milk lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:48 AM
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Cookie Crisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:23 AM
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Pretty good. Just working a new less stressful job. hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:06 AM
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Oh hey Sarai :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:16 PM
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I’ll take it if you don’t want it 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:15 PM
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Apparently not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:27 AM
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Why’d you buy it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:22 AM
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Q4All: What is the most useless thing you own?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:56 AM
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Thanks! Calorie deficit and keeping my protein up. Plus lifting and walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:36 AM
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Finally down to 15.9% bodyfat! Almost to my goal of 9%. Just 10 more pounds to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:27 AM
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Q4All: what’s your favorite monkey? I like spider monkeys and mandrills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:19 AM
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Genuinely what point are you trying to make here? I’m super confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:14 AM
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Why is it that people who claim that their race is the best oftentimes are the least genetically gifted? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:48 AM
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Q4W: How often do you come across men who know how to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:41 AM
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I need to get a tretinoin prescription rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:11 AM
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Shit that’s right 😯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:11 PM
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Does anyone else find it weird we have different names for male genitalia that also happen to be first names (Dick, Willy, Johnson), but we don’t have first names for women that also refer to female genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:10 AM
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Q4M: I might know the answer to this but what’s your average match rate on tinder? I got like 4 likes in one day one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:34 AM
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I really hate the advice “go meet someone in the real world” because it’s super flippant and ignores the big picture. 1. The real world is very narrow and similar depending on where you are in the world. Sure if you live in super diverse, high population cities, the real world will reflect that for you and give you an advantage. If not, then you better like what you get because you won’t have much choice. 2. Expecting an introverted man to somehow become this suave sweet talking Casanova is ridi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:25 PM
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Q4All: what happened to most people you went to college/highschool with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:37 AM
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They really need new flavors of fortune cookies fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:07 AM
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Ah yes because the average American is this rebellious counter culture warrior who defys all social norms and fights for their beliefs. Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:02 AM
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If someone keeps doing stupid things, they’re most likely stupid. That’s just how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:55 AM
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Minions are just hello kitty for old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:50 AM
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Would you date a woman with the best bone structure but she was wrinkly, morbidly obese, and bald? If the answer is no neither would a woman do the same for a male equivalent. Even if the problem was your structure, you can still get surgeries to fix it. Again not guaranteed it’s gonna turn you into a giga chad, but it helps. You’re focusing too much on one particular trait rather than multiple traits and how they blend and go together. Even blackpillers know this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:35 PM
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If they didn’t do those things they wouldn’t be attractive. Nobody comes out of the womb attractive. You don’t see their skincare routines, makeup routines (literally every male actor and model wears makeup), gym routines, or even the cosmetic surgeries they get. Not saying it’ll make you some giga chad model but it’ll take you farther than you think. Men using tricks to improve their appearance is a foreign concept to us because it’s been pointlessly gendered and ridiculed. But it happens quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:24 PM
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No they literally don’t lmao. Haven’t you seen the comments under videos of those tik tok thirst traps of pretty boy looking dudes? It’s all women with heart emojis calling him majestic, gorgeous, and sexy. These women probably aren’t stupid either and know those men do these things. They don’t care because he looks good. Stop listening to redpill propaganda and do what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:40 PM
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It’s actually not. Most women couldn’t vote, open bank accounts, own property, or keep any capital for most of the 20th century. You also wouldn’t believe how many men think it’s “gay” to have a skincare routine, to groom your eyebrows and lashes, or grow out and groom your hair. Yet if you look at literally every thirst trap for women it’s a man doing those exact things. Women simp up and down for these men. Women are in the dating market to win, while men are in it to play fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:29 PM
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I really fail to see how this will make anyone safer. Has there been in uptick in murderous male Uber drivers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:09 PM
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Hey that’s totally not me 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:02 PM
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I feel like a rare specimen here because I have had quite a few women approach me before. It’s not like a massive amount like a male movie star would get but it happens fairly often. Idk if guys are exaggerating or if they really don’t get approached at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:41 AM
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Q4W: If there was a time in your life when you were single then suddenly got a boyfriend, how many men left/joined your social circle? Or did it stay the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:34 AM
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So the prince of darkness is no longer with us 😔. Of all the things he did Parkinson’s is what got him. RIP Ozzy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:35 AM
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It really pisses me off in this sub how person a will say something, and person b is like “pffft that doesn’t happen, go look outside in the real world!” Then person a provides evidence for their claim and person b says “Um sweetie this is obvious haven’t you been paying attention?? What exactly is shocking about this??” Seriously it’s just cowardly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:01 PM
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Because I already werewolfmaxxed 😜 But seriously I’m trying to stop looking so old and prevent myself from looking older than my age in the future. That’s why I got a hairsystem and am now starting an overdue skincare routine at the ripe age of 21. So far it is working. Next step is to get my eyebrows and lashes dyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:44 AM
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*anything by Green Day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:10 AM
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Q4All: What political viewpoints do you hold that are opposite of what the party you identify with holds? If any?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:07 AM
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Y’all ever just eat a food you haven’t had in a long time and it just tastes heavenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:33 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:54 PM
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Ngl if a girl wore clown makeup that would be super hot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:19 AM
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Actually I think both parties gate-keep both. If neither agrees to any arrangement, it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:54 AM
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I hate the phrase “age like milk”. Milk ages and turns into cheese which is delicious. It really should be “age like guacamole”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:36 PM
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Whenever people tell me that everyone in their life sucks, it’s either: They take everything as a personal attack and escalate things further. They are the problem and are the asshole but cry when people stand up to them. Not always but the distinction is rarely made.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:18 AM
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Nah just dry but I will check that out 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:26 PM
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Nice 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:39 PM
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Thanks for that. When I was a teen, I had to go to urgent care for horrible sunburns on my legs (blisters, swelling, redness, couldn’t walk very well) I’ve become super sun phobic and took it seriously since. Idk how people get tans but I’ll pass 😵‍💫.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:39 PM
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Cleanser cost me $17 for 400ml and moisturizer was $23. I’d say it’s worth the money though and they last me awhile. I would never buy their sunscreen though. Way too much for what you can get essentially the same thing cheaper with other brands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:33 PM
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<image> My skin care routine. Spf is extremely important since I’m whiter than sour cream and live in a place where the UV index is 11 daily in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:14 PM
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I’m a good one I promise 🙇‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:19 PM
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Q4All: Which eye color is most attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:07 PM
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May I ask what was so special about that era?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:06 PM
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Right? What morally bankrupt fuck considers this a harsh truth??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:03 PM
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That pizza doesn’t look like a scam to me 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:41 PM
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I never see windmill flowers post anything anymore. Was she banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:55 AM
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You could be a camp counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:43 PM
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Who cares? It’s not like they can force you. Let them shit bricks and cry rivers. Only hurts themselves at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:42 PM
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This was me when my mom would drop me off at my aunts. Except my aunt was a bitch and she’s disowned now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:44 PM
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That’s not why people are trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:43 PM
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This sounds like a movie plot lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:32 PM
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I love poker and blackjack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:31 PM
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Right? Like what else is there to do 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:29 PM
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Did it make that hole in the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:17 PM
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Finally fixed my sleep schedule! Asleep by 9pm and up by 5am 😌.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:16 PM
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Chat?? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:43 PM
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It’s so funny talking to the silent generation vs boomers about costs of living and stuff. Like they actually understand hardships unlike the boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:18 PM
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Saw a skin cancer institute next to a tanning salon today. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:49 PM
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Man I feel sad that my former coworker ghosted me. He was such a good friend. Idk if he got feelings for me (he’s gay) or his boyfriend got jealous but now he won’t talk to me anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:31 PM
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It also implies you can catch it too. If that were the case wouldn’t all the incels just infect chads and Stacie’s??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:23 PM
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Holy crap I forgot about girahim!!! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:38 AM
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Q4All: Favorite villain?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:51 PM
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I’m superficial because I wanna pick less superficial people? Explain that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:12 PM
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I was originally against looksmaxxing because I thought “well what if I only attract superficial women” then it occurred to me that if I look better, I can sort through them all and pick the less superficial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:54 PM
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Broccoli needs to stop being portrayed as a bad tasting vegetable in media. Kale on the other hand should get more hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:23 PM
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I’m curious. How can one look racially ambiguous? Like give me an example of someone who you can’t tell their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:09 PM
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All you have to do is find any country that’s not in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:48 PM
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Stress and lack of sleep ages you horribly. Why does hustle culture promote this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:40 AM
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I’m gonna see if hair systems will allow me longer hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:55 AM
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What does this have to do with feminism?? Where did feminism say that women should have sexual relations with bears???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:54 AM
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Yet they don’t 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:41 PM
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I can understand being against it for potential misuse from large corporations but that’s like throwing the baby out with the bath water. Why not use it for good?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:33 PM
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I will never understand why some people are obsessed with “natural” foods or “natural/clean” beauty products. Natural doesn’t mean these things are automatically safe or effective. Likewise unnatural doesn’t mean it’s unsafe. Also is it any coincidence these “natural products” are more expensive? Yeah I’m not paying extra for organic potato chips that’ll probably have the same calories as the regular ones. Or natural deodorant that’ll last 30 minutes. It’s just ridiculous fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:15 PM
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Golf players
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:01 PM
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Mine was trying to get on my lap and steal my chocolate ice cream >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:08 PM
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Oh I have a bunch of things: •Getting to a lean bodyfat percentage (9-12%) •Getting a good hair style and fixing your balding if have any. •Skincare and sunscreen daily. •Neck resistance training. •eyebrow grooming and coloring. •Dental hygiene. Some dudes will need surgery and that’s ok. But at least do all these things first before getting surgery that can potentially make you look worse if you don’t know what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 AM
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Ok then why not help make them more desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:16 AM
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Made some chicken drumsticks with tandoori seasoning on them. Probably not how it’s traditionally made but was still delicious 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:14 AM
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Lol yeah he kinda walked into that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:51 AM
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That’s not the kinda relationship I want though. If you’re not sure about me that makes me very sure about you. About the fact that I want someone else. Pretty much every woman who liked me got affectionate and sexual with me quick. Never ever had a girl make me wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:17 PM
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$1m for the avatar 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:08 PM
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Ah I see. Well then until the majority of men decide to start making themselves attractive then that won’t happen. Women have tons of tricks and beauty routines to make themselves attractive to men and it works. If men did the same they’d see the exact same results. But too many of them are afraid of being seen as unmanly or gay for improving their appearance. Tough shit. Either be afraid of society’s opinion or do the opposite and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:07 PM
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Fair but who wants someone that’s just so so about them? If it’s not an intense lust then I don’t want it. And yeah I have absolutely experienced the difference. Women that are attracted to you make things sexual almost instantly. If they like you you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:23 PM
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Yes. But most guys do have a lot of upside if they put in the work. Unfortunately most guys in the US are obese and that number is climbing. Already that’s a big strike. If they won’t even lose weight they’re likely not going to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:35 PM
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“Don’t ask the fish, ask the fishermen” is bad advice. Most people aren’t able to accurately articulate the key to their success. Humans are flawed like that. Likewise men who are successful with women will not all give the same answer. What you need to do is look at studies of which traits in men predicted the most sexual success. Of which there are plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:27 PM
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Ahhh ok then. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:05 PM
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What risks??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:02 PM
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Look at all the top 100 onlyfans earners. Pretty much all of them have lip filler, breast implants, and bbls of some sort. These women have millions of men paying them for nudes and yet you’ll be lectured by Reddit dudes about how it looks bad. If it looks bad then why do these women with obvious work done earn that much? What redpill says or what society says doesn’t mean Jack shit. What matters is what gets results. The real reason guys don’t like these types is because they’re out of their le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:58 PM
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Ah Ok. I just want them to be visible from more than 5 feet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:04 PM
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Yes. Brows and eyelashes are extremely light blonde. I have strong Northern European/Scandinavian genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:59 AM
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Q4W: If I, a blonde and pale man, dye my eyebrows a darker color, will I also need to dye my lashes that same/similar color?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:37 AM
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Hey pretty good my man. You? The date didn’t end well and I never heard from her again. She just wasn’t interested. Something about our experience levels not matching. To be fair it was my second date ever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:53 PM
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Our upbringings. Religious specifically. But nothing in particular about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:52 PM
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I wish there was. It was totally out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:30 PM
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Idr I prolly just agreed with her 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:13 PM
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Q4All: What does it mean if a girl on the first date says “sex is so interesting!”? That’s all the context btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:02 PM
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Ok down 7 pounds in the last 2 months. Closer to my goal of 10-9% bodyfat everyday. Thankfully pickles and other things help keep me full. I’m probably around 14.7% rn or something so I’ll need my trainer to run a body test in a couple days. Calorie deficits work. If you’re not in one, you’re not losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:53 AM
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When you realize the UK is technically an island
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:32 AM
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I don’t know who this person is and I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. It’s an odd birthday theme choice yes but I fail to see what this has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:21 AM
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Why can’t boomers understand that the world they grew up in no longer exists? It’s not that hard to use the internet check Zillow and see that rent isn’t $300 a month anymore. And if you don’t know how to use the internet, drive up to the property and ask. Are they just playing stupid with us or what’s going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:47 PM
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Tbf the app boosts your profile when you first download it so that’s kinda expected. You also must be tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:37 AM
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Another thing I saw was a guy who made 2 separate tinder profiles. One with his normal face and one with his edited face with face app. Keep in mind that on the edited pic he did nothing drastic. Just gave himself longer hair, a bit more sharper features, and clearer skin. His normal face got about 5 matches in one week. Guess how much his edited pics got? A few more matches maybe? On his first DAY his edited pic received over 50 likes! The return on investment is exponentially higher when it co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:22 AM
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That’s surprisingly catchy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:24 AM
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Come back to us when you do construction or oil rigging. Warehouse work is tame compared to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:56 AM
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Find me a song where “whoa” is not in the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:54 AM
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Well it comes down to what you want. If they’re not doing anything specific for you then just ask them. If they’re not doing anything just leave. Virginity has nothing to do with it. Think of it as not being duped/scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:29 AM
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Generally speaking no man should ever be trying to convince a woman to be with him. If she’s not interested, it’ll just get you closer to being blocked. If she’s a little interested and not sure, one wrong word and she’ll dip. Besides why would you want a woman who’s only a little interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:17 AM
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Hot take but the gen z broccoli cut is infinitely better than the mullet and patchy mustache crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:29 AM
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If you’re white and live in an area with a high uv index, sun damage will catch up much faster. It’s why Australia is the skin cancer capital of the world. Even if the US government told people to wear it daily people still wouldn’t follow it. It takes a dedicated person which is hard to come by. Yes even for something as simply as applying a sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:38 AM
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Most normies aren’t going to bother with the basic stuff. We all know how bad being obese is but yet 70% of Americans are obese. It’s why I laugh when people are afraid of the red pill and black pill spreading and “brainwashing” men. Only a select few have the drive and motivation to accomplish it. Most will just continue their unhealthy habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 AM
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Right off the bat those “average” guys on that subreddit look like they haven’t eaten a salad since 2011, probably don’t wear sunscreen everyday, and have the goofiest looking neck beards. So I wouldn’t exactly classify them as average. If they did those things it could really help. No guarantees. But it’ll absolutely make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:10 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:36 AM
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Phenotypes don’t get spoken about enough in here. Just as men have different types of women they like (ei alt girls, hippie girls, church girls, sorority girls, gym girls, etc) women have types too. Yes a woman can find someone attractive, but more often than not they will have a specific type that won’t always fit with what’s mainstream. Could be a pretty boy, old money, tattooed rapper, metal head, bodybuilder, goth, or any number of things. Here’s a crucial tip: if you’re trying to hit on a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:04 AM
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There was a video of a guy who put a picture of him with another woman in his tinder pics and that particular photo was swiped on the most by women. Yet if you ask women on Reddit if they would swipe on a guy with that photo they’ll say the opposite. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:57 AM
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What did you do that was aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:55 AM
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People need to understand that glowing up gives you leagues better results. If you go from a 5 to a 7 you will get exponentially more matches because now more women will find you attractive. Similar with height. Every inch is a multiplier and you’ll get more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:17 PM
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Gas is already expensive and not getting any cheaper where I live anyways. So the choice is clear 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:15 AM
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2nd one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:13 AM
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What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:09 AM
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This is good advice in general. If you lose, the other person thinks less of you, if you win, the other person hates you for winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:09 AM
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So I’m thinking about buying an e bike after trump just bombed Iran. I doubt gas in the country will be cheap for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:03 AM
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Leave as soon as they’re unwilling to communicate and work towards relationship solutions. At that point they’re just using you. Also never date someone who won’t even give you basic affection. I’m not talk dead bedrooms or sex, but the unwillingness to even kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:30 AM
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I don’t think they’re dangerous. Just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:48 AM
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Yeah same here but I’m a guy lol. I appreciate the gesture but it’s not a good time. I think a better solution isn’t to approach at a gym but rather join a class or mixed gender sports team and let things happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:13 AM
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Do you or did you approach ten women a day when you were single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:08 PM
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Men skincare products be like: use it anywhere on your body. Even drink it for a detox cleanse. Women’s skincare products be like: This cream is made specifically for your right elbow and if you use it anywhere else you’ll get cancer, aids, and die!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:26 AM
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Ok I’ve made the choice I will take her (my failed date’s) offer to meet her friends. I’ll go in with no expectations and relaxed so there’s no pressure. I was against it at first but maybe things will turn up. It’s worth a try at least 🤷🏼‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:57 AM
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Work is your best bet otherwise there’s lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:15 AM
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I don’t think anyone is to blame except maybe teachers and parents but nobody’s perfect. Doesn’t mean it still doesn’t have consequences. You will be passed up for someone who has better social skills unfortunately because that’s how the world works. It’s cold but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:14 AM
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None. I developed my taste by seeing the kinda women out there and listening to how my brain and body reacted. No amount of shaming swayed my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:10 AM
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Does anyone else get weird dreams after eating a bunch of sauerkraut before bed???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:05 AM
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What would you do differently if you could do high school again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:06 AM
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Q4All: Is there a type that you wouldn’t date or would be a dealbreaker? Personally I could never date a preppy sorority type girl. Not because I’m not attracted to them but because I’m literally not a frat boy and not into that scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:08 AM
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You can easily still look good after 30. Daily sunscreen and retinol, hairloss prevention and gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:13 AM
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How can one be “performatively nice”? Maybe he was nice but then his emotions changed based on circumstance. Would someone be “performatively angry” if one day they’re being nice? I don’t get this sentiment at all. People’s moods and behaviors change on a lot of things and it always isn’t manipulative. That’s not a reflection of his character but his emotional state assuming he doesn’t do anything morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:07 AM
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Who’s making them wait weeks? I made one girl wait a week because I was on vacation but she didn’t make me wait a long time. Just meet in a public place so you’re safer. If she’s making you wait that long she’s probably not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:55 PM
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Nice guys are just autistic not manipulative. These guys didn’t grow up learning how to say no or put themselves first. They think doing that is mean. It’s not. In reality their overly selfless behavior grosses out other people in a way that’s not “omg this guy is too nice he must secretly wanna slit my throat!!”, but rather “this guy is so damn nice and spineless he would’ve gave the Jews locations to the Nazis 80 years ago out of fear”. I fail to see how it’s manipulative. Immature? Absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:48 PM
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Yeah it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:27 AM
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Yeah that strategy probably works best for women tbh. Cause even a heavy girl will still get some matches and all she has to do is filter the feeders/chubby chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:18 AM
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Ah yeah that’s fair. But I still can’t help but think this was intentional. Nothing wrong with it of course and I liked how she looked either way but this was significant weight loss. Idk maybe I’m overthinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:17 AM
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Oh really? How’d that work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:15 AM
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Q4W: Is it true some women will use older and worse looking photos of themselves on dating apps to filter out the superficial guys? I noticed that the girl I went on date from a dating app was at least 20-30 pounds lighter in real life which was surprising. She looked fine either way and I didn’t care. But I can’t help but wonder why she didn’t just post current pics of herself on her profile. Was this intentional? Have you or anyone you know done this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:05 AM
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Ok then what effective advice does redpill offer that nobody else has already said before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:37 AM
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The thing I really can’t get on board with the redpill is the fact they can’t seem to explain why so many people are in relationships and how many men get girlfriends over the course of their life without ever even hearing about the redpill or Andrew Tate or whatever crazy online jargon. Most men never hear or are never going to hear anything that comes out of this sub, and if they do they will dismiss it because they’re likely already in a relationship. And I don’t blame them. If I got rich and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:24 AM
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Exactly. The whole idea around decriminalizing sex work wasn’t to promote it. It was to protect the women who ended up in the industry. Legalization is bad and criminalization is worse because in both instances the seller is exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:44 PM
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I find it interesting that even the words most top paid male models get surgery and lots of it. If a dudes who naturally has a one in a billion face needs to get surgery to model and be considered hot maybe we need to consider if we’re going too far?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:24 PM
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When I met my exes family I was nervous af. I didn’t feel normal enough for them I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:11 PM
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Interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:07 PM
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Yep I gotta agree on this one. Watching what people do is good advice but that’s not what they’re doing. They’re cherry picking and trying to pass it off as “watching what they do”. Seriously did these guys flunk basic logic? Why are they intentionally making themselves miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:52 AM
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That’s what I’m saying! Zombie games/movies barely have any originality. These would stand out massively in a great way!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:08 AM
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Yikes that’s not good 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:06 AM
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Does anyone have any ppd lore?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:31 AM
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I’m considering it even though I have decent skin and maintain it with sunscreen. Although I’ve heard horror stories of it completely ruining some people’s perfectly good skin 😬. Maybe I’ll do a vitamin c serum first instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:11 AM
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Enough zombie apocalypse movies/games! I want werewolf apocalypses! Vampire apocalypses! Hell even fucking mermaid apocalypses! Just no more damn zombies >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:40 AM
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I’ve been researching retinols/tretinoin and it’s insane how good it is at reversing signs of aging/skin damage. Just like a full head of hair, good skin takes years off your appearance. And you only need to do it once a night after your body gets used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:35 AM
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Where did I say twinky little boys lmao? Having long hair and some jewelry doesn’t make you a twink. Yes it’s possible to be too feminine looking to women (ei a cutecel), but the point is you shouldn’t go overboard with masculinity either. Otherwise you’ll attract dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:41 AM
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One mistake I made in the past was thinking women were attracted to pure masculinity the same way men were attracted to pure femininity. It’s actually a lot different when you look at it. If we’re talking about mass appeal here, being too masculine will actually hurt your chances more than being feminine will. Look at the type of guys women simp for. They’re typically eboys and pretty boys who have good looks but also have feminine features that we’d associate with women. It makes sense if you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:00 AM
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I’ll be honest, this is really the only place I have to socialize outside a few internet friends and my one real life friend in my town. When you’re not in college you and are a hermit outside of work that’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:37 AM
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Ok 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 PM
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I haven’t been roller skating since 6th grade though. I’m also not sure how well I can handle a fall lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:50 PM
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Bernie said this. But the democrats are so head deep in the culture war that they basically hand the elections to republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:48 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, men do like dominant women. Only in a sexual setting though. Being bossed around by a control freak who’s always stressed and stubborn about every minuscule thing is not a turn on. Somehow this is misunderstood. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:46 PM
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Why is Reddit showing me when someone responds to someone else?? Like specifically in this sub in unrelated conversations??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:22 AM
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We’re just extremely stressed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:18 AM
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Guess she’s not your “little” sister anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:01 AM
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Can’t believe my cousin is 6’1 at 14. I remember when I held him as a baby like it was yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:45 AM
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Dude the only way you find out if someone is good for marriage is by dating. Your last sentence makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:08 AM
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I genuinely have no explanation for why that is. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:50 AM
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I agree with you for the most part but to play devils advocate, in the past women would definitely do this because they didn’t really have a choice. Not being able to get a bank account or own property will do that to you. Redpillers who say this are likely just a bit older and dated women with similar mentalities from their moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:41 AM
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When he was a puppy a French bulldog he lived with picked on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:34 PM
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He thinks any animal besides a French bulldog is a friend. He doesn’t care about warning signs or anything. He’s super docile lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:13 PM
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Why does my German shepherd think that rattle snakes are friends???? Even when it’s coiled up and rattling???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:22 PM
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What kinda friends force you to go out with someone? If they want to they will. If not they don’t have to. But it can work since you already know the person and the hard part of meeting is done. Yeah it’s not perfect but it still works. I have had plenty of women happy to set me up with someone a few times. They even offered the idea first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:36 AM
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I disagree. Most women don’t need a dating app because they have big social circles / social media following. Most women using these apps only want validation. Few want relationships or hookups. You’d be surprised how many women openly admit to using dating apps as self esteem boosters. Unless you’re a rich model or a white dude in Thailand, stay off the apps. It’s possible to have a good experience but this is just friendly advice. What has been more promising is meeting through female friends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:59 AM
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I would’ve disagree with you a week ago but a failed date on Tuesday proved this right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:23 PM
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I feel like I had way better results with women when my hair was long. It was shoulder length and probably not the best cared for but still. Women just have a thing for long hair ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:18 PM
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Well it’s not keeping you from spending time with them so they’re doing something right lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 PM
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I mean, unless the job was done so poorly idk if you’d be able to tell. Many blonde/ginger dudes are really the only ones that do it. That and dudes with poor eyebrow genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:19 PM
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I feel this. I have super thick eyebrows but you cannot see them from even 5 feet because they’re so damn light 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:14 PM
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Q4W: Would you think it’s weird if a man tints his eyebrows?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:45 PM
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What people don’t realize is the more you improve (the right things) the more exponential your results become. Humans tend to think linearly so this doesn’t ring well for us. For example if a man who’s 35% body fat loses 10 pounds, the change isn’t as drastic. If a guy at 18% bodyfat loses 10 pounds, the change is far more significant as his face, neck, and body become more defined. Your muscles and bones are far more visible. If anything this is motivation to keep going and improving. Eventuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:24 PM
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There are trans people who transition to get dates. It’s a small percentage but it does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:25 AM
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Forgive my autism here but what does sweep her off her feet mean specifically? Did I not come on strong enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:24 AM
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And who says I don’t? I don’t care about what anyone does with their body. People should be free to accept and change what they want about themselves. Even if it means surgery. Again why should someone not ok with their appearance be forced to accept themselves? The same reason it’s not ok to do that to trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:41 AM
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Why is it fine if a trans person wants to go on hormones and get surgery but if someone wants to get plastic surgery to change their appearance to fix their dysmorphia, suddenly they need to “accept who they are”? Seriously either leave both alone or have some logical consistency. Why does Reddit not think for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:31 AM
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Guess that is a silver lining. Seriously it’s like she was interested in my experience more than me. Multiple times she asked me about my dating history and if I went on dates a lot. Also doesn’t she realize having a lot of experience ≠ being better. Dudes can have a ton of experience and still be shitty. Whatever. Nothing I can do about it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:19 AM
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Yeah but I haven’t gotten any matches in a while since her. They’re really trying to get me to pay for premium and boosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:55 AM
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Ya and she was looking for something more meaningful and serious 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 AM
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Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:45 AM
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Hopefully but I’m not optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:23 AM
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God I am having the absolute worst day today. Went on a tinder date with a girl for coffee and we went to a niche clothing store to talk and look at clothes. Everything is going well right? No. At the end she says I’m not experienced enough for her. Idk if she means sexually or relationship wise. We’re both 21. At least she offered to have me meet her friends. What so they can reject me too? I’m too weak and pathetic for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:16 AM
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Last one isn’t even goth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:35 PM
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Q4W: Would you be cool if a guy picked you up in his car on the first date? Or would you prefer to meet him there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:34 PM
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I feel like most people think that something being an accident somehow alleviates them from the responsibility of dealing with the consequences. And it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:14 PM
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I think I’m gonna start detailing cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:04 PM
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Both are pretty hot imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:45 PM
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I don’t drink much coffee but I found a coffee shop in my hometown that’s rated in the top 5 best coffee shops in the United States and Canada. It’s a Turkish coffee place and they have so many good looking drinks and refreshers. Plus they have Turkish delight and other sweets. I’m going to see if it’s worth it on Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:00 AM
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While I do enjoy my hair system and will keep wearing them until a baldness cure comes out, I do have to admit that even when I was bald I wasn’t totally unsuccessful. Significantly older women really liked me. They were hot no doubt but I didn’t want anything serious with 40 year old women because we didn’t have enough in common. I just struggled with younger women and women my age (20s). I think what this experience has taught me is that people can find you attractive but because you look sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:53 AM
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Q4All: How would you react if your date told you they were homeschooled?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:40 AM
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Perfect for a renaissance fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:29 PM
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I’m calling it. Ai is going to make online dating impossible for everyone. Shit is becoming far too believable now and it’s gonna get worse. Maybe this is a good thing and will force people to meet up again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:41 PM
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Complements only suck if they come from undesirable dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:45 PM
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It calories in calories out. Eat whatever you want as long as you don’t go over your limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:43 PM
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Margarita Pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:17 PM
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Q4W: Would you date a man who wears overalls casually all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:07 PM
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Thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:59 PM
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Bet she was kicking herself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:57 PM
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Q4M: Have you ever had a woman reject you but only to have her come back later interested? What was that like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:34 PM
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It’s mostly ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:19 PM
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Well she did the crime too so I say she deserves the hate. Who says you can’t be mad at both?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:45 PM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:43 PM
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This sub has really fallen off ngl. But I guess you can only talk so much about gender dynamics til you run out of shit to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:27 PM
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Name your pet something you don’t mind shouting in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:38 AM
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I hope your being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:29 AM
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I mean, I’ve had gay friends who complain about the same stuff straight women did and lesbians complain about the same things straight men have experienced. I don’t think it’s entirely inaccurate tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:23 AM
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Under who’s thumb bro? I ain’t struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:25 PM
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I guarantee none of them will be getting what they want lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:40 PM
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Impossible actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:34 PM
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You would need tons of money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:32 PM
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Because women aren’t attracted to resources. They’re attracted to people. Whether that’s men, women, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:20 PM
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I’m nowhere near qualified to talk about human evolutionary psychology. But I can say that your statement is wildly out of touch in the modern world. Most women don’t want to rely on a man solely for resources because it’s not healthy and sets the relationship up for abuse to easily occur. Women in the past fought hard to open bank accounts and own property for a reason. Because the previous model utterly failed. Turns out having relationships for survival makes for shitty relationships. Boomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:49 AM
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I want a pool table so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:42 AM
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That’s the quintessential example of southern rock 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:15 AM
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Southern rock > country
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:06 AM
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Oh nothings wrong I was just emphasizing the fact lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:43 AM
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He was 6ft tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:09 AM
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Q4W: Which US president do you find the most fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 AM
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Well now you can pickup women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:58 AM
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And how would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:22 AM
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But why target specifically? It seems like a peculiar choice but maybe I’m missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:07 AM
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How’d he react to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:00 AM
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The rumors are true. Target is filled with 20-30 year old women. What’re they all doing there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:58 AM
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Finally found a friend who will help me drywall my basement for cheap 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:41 AM
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I’ve been seeing that a lot with my former classmates. Even my friend is engaged. And I don’t live in a small religious town either (I wouldnt call 350,000 people a small town tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:30 PM
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Nah it’s all good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:24 PM
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Actually married at 19 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:23 PM
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One of my former classmates my age at 21 is a literal fashion/beauty model now and she’s married to a guy who’s quite average. They seem happy together though. As a blackpiller I’m not sure how to explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:21 PM
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I think the best we can hope for is parental leave for both genders. Stay at home dad doesn’t sound very attractive to most women. I had a stay at home dad and he only did the stay at home part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:14 PM
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Could also just be exaggerated by looking down at the camera too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:49 AM
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Of course they can. When you lose fat it happens everywhere. Some people maybe store more in some places genetically but it’s certainly possible. Plus the haircut is different too so that might throw it off a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:46 AM
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The ears look similar to me. The head shape is obviously different due to fat loss. That’s kinda the point. Maybe I’m wrong tho 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:38 AM
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Fair. He definitely gives off dangerous and “don’t fuck with me vibes” lol. But there’d still be quite a few women into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:05 AM
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Interesting! How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:02 AM
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<image> Better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:33 AM
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<image> Another good example of how low bodyfat can turn a normie into the hulk. Fillers/surgery is also possible in these photos and I’m not sure if this is strictly from fat loss. But he’s obviously leaner so it at least helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:15 AM
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Looks delicious. How many calories approximately?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:58 PM
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Is it just me, or is going out to eat just not as fun anymore at most restaurants? Forget the cost, it just doesn’t have the same feel as 6-10 years ago. It honestly feels more stressful for food that isn’t worth it. Now if I eat out, it’s rare and at a higher end place such as sushi, or a steakhouse. It’s actually not that more expensive than most “low end restaurants” nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:40 PM
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Thing is, attractive people have to do something REALLY creepy to be considered such. An ugly person just has to open their mouth. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 AM
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So what does any of that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:40 AM
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Nobody’s having kids tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:33 AM
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I really don’t understand why society tries to gaslight the shit out of men by not admitting that creepy = ugly. Behaviors are not creepy unless done by someone undesirable. But yet somehow we’re supposed to believe that the simple act of approaching is somehow creepy? Anyone with eyes can see this is bullshit. I’m not saying you aren’t allowed to reject or even dislike a man you’re not attracted to approaching you. You are and men are allowed to do the same. What is not ok is treating them horr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:55 AM
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It depends on where you carry the fat yes but to claim there’s no difference is not entirely accurate. If you’re 157 pounds and 20% bodyfat you have roughly 31 pounds of total fat distributed evenly across your body. Including your face. Losing 10-20 pounds makes everything much leaner since you carry about 10-12% of your weight in fat. This is what bodybuilders do to show off abs in competition (though they go to single digits in bodyfat which is extreme). Again, it depends on where you carry f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:21 AM
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Really?? That’s the first time I’ve heard eyebags being an attractive trait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:14 AM
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Fair but I’ve seen more paper thin guys with chicks than extreme bloated roid users. Mostly because I rarely see bloated roid users 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:12 AM
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It’s possible but depends on a lot of factors. But the results speak for themselves and it’s definitely worth a shot for guys who complain the gym doesn’t work. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:04 AM
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Lack of sleep or stress probably. Doesn’t look too awful imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:02 AM
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<image> Found this post in r/asianmasculinity. Left is him at 20% body fat and right is 12%. The difference is staggering imo. It’s not about just not being fat. Getting to a leaner bodyfat percentage makes a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:54 AM
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Smart people get burnt out and have lives. The pressure is immense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:23 AM
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The manosphere greatly overestimates how cohesive men can be. A great example is how most men bully pretty boys and women love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:22 AM
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Hmmm yeah that makes sense lol. Somehow in America we’ve lifted gender roles for women but not their expectations. Idk. Should smooth out in a generation or 2. Probably not tho. Because our country is very consumeristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:11 AM
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You don’t want a girl with a Pepe tattoo??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:10 AM
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Q4All: How big of a turnoff is a bad tattoo for you if at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:27 AM
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The system being human nature??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:10 AM
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I really find it interesting that redpillers and blackpillers mostly bring up the fact that men are having less sex and partners IN AMERICA. I have only seen the UK used as a similar reference for how bad this is. Which makes me wonder why we never hear about this stuff happening in other countries. Is there anything specific about American culture as to why this is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:35 PM
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Skunks are cute animals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:38 AM
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OP are you American? Because in places like Europe this rarely happens since everyone walks and bikes everywhere. Not having a car is not seen as poor there. American consumerism has rotted the minds of young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:25 PM
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I think there’s also a miscommunication between each side about what the other person wants and feels the other person should do. Nobody can read minds. Oftentimes you gotta ask for something from them and communicate. With that said, there is a bare minimum that should be met and if they don’t even meet that then yeah, I’d agree they probably don’t like you in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:18 PM
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Fun fact: my grandma claims to have gone on a pity date with George Lucas! Edit: as a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:27 PM
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Mfw real archeology doesn’t involve whips, guns, or holy grails 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:24 PM
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They’ll really say anything besides “I’m not attracted to you” huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:50 AM
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We call that moving the goalposts. Anything can be as good or bad as long as you twist it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:41 AM
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Q4All: Who do you think is more likely to be an introvert: a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:59 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:33 AM
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Enjoy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:22 AM
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Then don’t. You don’t have to. But if the cravings get too much just consume a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:13 AM
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Just work it into your calorie budget. Have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:30 AM
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After battling dry skin for years, I finally found a solution: smothering my face in pure argon oil. It really helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:29 AM
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Hot take on this sub but I don’t actually think simping is ruining women. Women can love the simpy attention they get or hate it. Doesn’t matter because at the end of the day she’s gonna chose the dude she’s most attracted to. Attractive men don’t have to worry about simps, and you never have to worry about simps if your woman is truly attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:14 PM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:06 PM
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I don’t disagree. What those guys really mean is “A women who naturally looks attractive” or “A women with plastic surgery and makeup so good I can’t tell the difference”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:00 PM
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The problem is that it’s obviously and pointlessly gendered and I don’t understand why the same scrutiny isn’t held to women. Not that I think they should be scrutinized for something like that (I of all people would never).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:53 AM
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Q4All: Why is lookmaxxing seen as cringe and laughable and at the same time a woman doing those things is seen as normal? Yet society still treats less attractive dudes like shit. It’s like “We don’t like you the way you are but don’t you dare try to improve yourself either!” Wtf is even the thought process for that???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:46 AM
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He’ll be back one day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:52 AM
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He wasn’t here to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:32 AM
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A dude who’d constantly make burner accounts to call women people that guzzle male reproductive juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:30 AM
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I think there’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:20 AM
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The only people I ever hear using those arguments are super evangelical people who do their absolute damnedest to convince people their sexual feelings are evil. Was that your case by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:15 AM
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You’re misunderstanding. The issue comes when a fuckboy manipulates his way to get a girl to have sex with him by offering her a relationship. He knows she won’t fuck him without giving her a relationship so he pretends just enough so she gives him sex. Then he dips. That’s what it means to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:08 AM
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YouTube shorts and instagram reels are fucking hilarious how different they are. YouTube shorts: Family guy/South Park/ Simpsons clips, cooking tutorials, educational content, science. Instagram reels: Rape jokes, racism, pedophilia jokes, sexism, idiocy, gore, violence, people getting irrationally offended and angry over dumb shit. What is going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:04 AM
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It’s a spectrum for sure. That’s what equality is supposed to be about. Making sure women and men have the same amount of power and focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:55 AM
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Is it weird to eat a black bean dip with just a spoon? No chips or anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:54 AM
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Have you forgotten about CG dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:44 AM
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Seriously did OP not look up the definition of “unfalsifiable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:18 AM
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I keep having dreams where the cops violate my civil rights :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:58 AM
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I found an old Batman comic in my room. From 1986.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:34 AM
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We have eyes??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:05 PM
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If they do approach they’ll end up like the dudes on the video lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:05 PM
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How do you know those women didn’t have boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:19 AM
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So I am a caveman then 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:23 AM
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Alpha male dating advice is scammy for the sole fact that they can twist any scenario to seem logical when it’s really just a red herring to take your time and money. For instance: “Don’t text her back too quickly because women like men with purpose and options!” Or “Text her back as soon as possible because a real alpha goes after what he wants and doesn’t play games.” It’s not that this advice is bad per se, it’s just pointless. Spinning it both ways makes it unfalsifiable. You’ll never get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:09 AM
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I like caves. I’ve been to a lot of caves. Does that make me a “Caveman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:10 AM
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Why do some people complain about snap scores being over 1m? Like why’s that an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 PM
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Kielbasa and sauerkraut 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:22 PM
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Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:28 AM
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I’ve been thinking about why the common advice for unattractive guys is to “Just take a shower! Brush your teeth! Use deodorant! Wash your ass!” And then it hit me; being unattractive means people assume you’re unhygienic. The thought of dating someone those people are not attracted to grosses them out, and they justify it by saying unattractive dudes must be “Gross and unkept.” In reality, most guys take care of themselves before going out in public. Otherwise toothpaste, deodorant, soap compan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:25 AM
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All I can remember was an omelette with stuffed with sun dried tomatoes. I’m sure I had more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:21 AM
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Damn you read my mind 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:12 AM
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Daniel Craig isn’t not a bad actor at all but personally I think he’s the worst bond. He’s too serious, brooding, and stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:04 AM
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Well this is where I do have to agree with bluepillers and to some extent here. Cold approaches just come off as socially inept driven by a Don Juan fantasy. Sure it can happen but it’s absolute shit for getting relationships most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:27 AM
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What this sub doesn’t talk about enough is how proximity plays a big role in dating and forming relationships. This is often why relationships tend to form online, in school, at work, or even church. The more often you see and talk to someone, the more they bond with you. Even simply emailing, texting, and calling often can work towards making you both familiar and bond stronger. Even more so since it can be done any time of day. This is why cold approaches don’t work. The sociological data just…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:10 AM
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They’re just not compatible 🤷🏼‍♂️. Careers can take a lot of time away from relationships. Especially if said career is the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:54 AM
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Flat earth shit is more believable than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:12 AM
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For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:05 AM
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And to think his little brain is probably the size of a Brazil nut 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:14 AM
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Ok but it still matters. Don’t buy your way into love. But realize that a relationship needs logistics and planning to stay alive. If you plan to live with her or get married it absolutely matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:12 AM
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Am I the only one who was able to ride my bike without training wheels on the first try as a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:33 PM
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It’s not hard to tell whether or not a woman is interested in you. It’s hard to tell if she’s just being friendly or not. At least if you have the slightest skill in reading people lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:30 PM
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When you realize a 123 IQ means you’re technically in the top .9% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:20 AM
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All I’m saying is that being accused of any crime can ruin your life the same way. Not just rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:19 AM
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There have been judges who ask women what they were wearing when they were raped and families who shun their daughters when a family friend’s son raped her. That happens far more. I also worked as security for a warehouse and we had a couple of people fired and get on the denied access list simply for an arrest. No record, no convictions. Just an arrest. There’s a reason prison reform and justice reform is being advocated for. And the main reason isn’t just false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:56 AM
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Fair lol. Even then that’s still more evidence it’s a gendered issue since more men have trouble with the law. But I never hear that point brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:49 AM
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And can that stigma not apply to other crimes? Who wants to hire an accused murderer/pusher/thief? Who wants to rent to one? Even just an arrest can disqualify you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:42 AM
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You found my cats sub 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:57 AM
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While false rape allegations are horrible and should be discouraged, it’s important for guys to remember that if you’re accused of ANY crime, your life can still be ruined. Doesn’t matter if it’s rape, possession of narcotics, murder, theft, etc. Our “justice” system operates under a guilty-until-proven-innocent model. Why do you think America had the highest incarceration rate in the world? America is still in the dark ages when it comes to prison and law reform so at the end of the day, it’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:57 AM
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So the constitution is just toilet paper then. Man I’m not optimistic for this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:53 PM
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Holy hell I just remembered. 🤯 it’s been ages since I’ve seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:14 PM
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I read this as “Harry Kanye” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:27 PM
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Word girl is hilarious to me because correcting people on their grammar, spelling, and definitions isn’t even a super power or necessary. It’s just something she does to feel superior lmao. She’s basically a Redditor lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:14 PM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:12 PM
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This is windmill you’re talking about. All she posts is ragebait disguised as arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:36 PM
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When I worked at chipotle, I threatened to cut up a man’s missing credit card after he was a dick to me on the phone about it. He left it there and then called us. His fault for being a dumbass and a jackass 🤷🏼‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:04 PM
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Don’t worry. She was probably exhausted after that lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:59 PM
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My mom told me the reason why we always brought pizza or food when we visited my friends house as a kid :( they struggled with money and sometimes didn’t eat enough so she wanted to make sure they had something. I was too young to realize because I enjoyed the pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:54 PM
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Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:46 PM
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Man time was rough to him 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:35 PM
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Negging
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:55 PM
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Q4All: Who were you in the past and how do you compare now? How does that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:52 PM
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Did you pay a $3k bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:25 PM
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sigh Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:19 PM
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“Bf who’s average” was that really necessary ? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:14 PM
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Maybe I have but idk what a manic pixie dream girl necessarily refers to. Is it just a woman who’s “not like other girls”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:09 PM
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I don’t get it. First women are “picky”. Then they’re “slutty”. They can’t be both. Also isn’t the average n count a 8 over a lifetime for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:54 PM
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Try going to a group therapy session. I was told I was sexist because I said if I wanted to back in time I’d go to the renaissance. I was literally answering the question I was asked about time travel. They said “well it’s because you’re a man and you would’ve had privilege.” Yeah and deadly diseases before modern medicine too. It’s like walking on eggshells 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:49 PM
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What even is a “Manic pixie dream girl”? Why do so many people have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:47 PM
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My cat literally snuggles by the lit fireplace whenever it’s on lmao. She loves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:55 PM
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I need movies that are so bad they’re good 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:47 PM
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Old people have way too much time on their hands 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:16 PM
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Boomers grew up with lead in their brains. It was proven to lower iq and cause brain issues. We can’t blame them entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:57 AM
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One thing I wish Reddit understood is that no man just randomly decides to believe in manosphere teachings one day because of a fucking YouTube video or tik tok. What actually happens is men see what the real world is like in terms of dating. Either from his parents, peers, or his own experiences. If enough of it happens, the only thing a YouTube or tik tok video is gonna do is confirm his already lived experiences. Sure not everything is correct and not all the solutions are effective or moral …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:55 AM
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Does anyone else feel like most parents don’t actually parent their kids? They kinda just maintain them like pets and then don’t prepare them for the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:21 AM
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Q4All: Is it strange if a married couple sleeps in different beds?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:59 AM
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No. I’m saying that misogyny isn’t a direct trait of incels. Getting women doesn’t determine how misogynistic one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:31 AM
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But those terms are mutually exclusive. Misogynistic chads who get women exist. That’s the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:22 AM
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Hey now don’t exclude the majority of the members on this sub 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 AM
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I see no reason why someone can’t be an incel and a proponent of equality. Your ability to get laid doesn’t determine your ability to stand up for what’s right. While I’ll admit most incels are not feminists, excluding men who would otherwise be for equality by shaming their sexual attraction and success will ultimately lead to more men going the opposite direction. Feminists ultimately shoot themselves in the foot by enforcing the idea that “More sexual success = More moral”. No. Sexual success…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:35 AM
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High class escorts are a minority and charge a fortune. Most sex workers barely break even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:02 AM
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There’s cuddle therapists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:56 PM
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Dude. Prostitutes would never do what they do unless they got paid. High class escorts are extremely expensive and rare. Most women in sex work don’t even make 30k a year. But they really don’t have a choice most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:55 PM
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Well then I must be missing something because I won’t ever have sex with someone where the desire isn’t mutual. Idk how guys can lie to themselves unless they see the woman as a human pocket pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:53 PM
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I don’t get hostile but it doesn’t seem like a good idea to me. 1. It’s basically buying consent. Few women would subject themselves to the dangers of sex work without receiving a pretty penny. Nobody should have to go through all that just to live and eat. You also have zero idea if she’s trafficked. 2. It’ll basically do nothing for your dating life. Real human relationships don’t operate like sex work. You can’t just pay any random woman to sleep with you. You need social skills, attraction, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:51 PM
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With casual sex there is at least desire from both parties. The prostitute just wants to pay rent and eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:42 PM
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Majority of women I see aren’t like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:53 PM
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Q4All: Would autistic people be better off finding another autistic person to date, or maybe find an understanding neurotypical person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:13 AM
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I disagree because I’m a bald man who wears a hairsystem. Guess how much attention from women in real life and apps I got before and after my system? It was a night and day difference and I’m never going bald again. Hell, even my young mid twenties cute therapist said “Omg he looks good” to the admin when she thought I couldn’t hear. This is why I don’t like the whole “Apps are looks-based bro go meet them in real life”. Because the only difference is volume. Obviously real life is better but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:56 PM
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Yeah but the concept is weird. Talking to me isn’t like talking a different species. I’m a normal human. Just talk to me like that. Flirting might be difficult only because I can’t pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:52 PM
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Sorry but real life isn’t that different from dating apps. Real life is also VERY looks-based. It’s just that there’s a higher probability you’ll find someone who is attracted to you with the larger volume of people. That’s the main reason you shouldn’t use dating apps. Not because the dynamics are somehow different (because they really aren’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:38 PM
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Introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:00 PM
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Life can be as simple or complex as you make it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:26 AM
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Apparently my 100lb German shepherd tries to boss and police the other dogs at his daycare. If two dogs get into a fight he’ll get between them and make them stop. I wonder if this is normal German shepherd behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:26 AM
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Yes and I will never forgive my dumbass parents for thinking that Indiana Jones of all movies was somehow inappropriate. Even my aunt who was super controlling with her kids even told my mom to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:48 PM
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Don’t ever blame shrek again!!! 😡😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:45 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:26 AM
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Q4All: What letter does your name start with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:22 AM
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You are too focused on these arbitrary rules that Tik tok made up. Any place where women are is a good place to approach them. It’s not the approach they don’t like. It’s the man approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:39 AM
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Why does bro want me to go to the motorcycle school in the middle of bumfuck nowhere 😭?? I don’t even get cell service down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:12 AM
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I’ve made myself so unnecessarily stressed out too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:31 AM
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Perhaps I should’ve clarified no obnoxious intros lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:16 AM
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I agree with that but I haven’t seen you explain how that relates to dating or how we can apply that to the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:43 AM
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And what the source you heard that from didn’t tell you was the amount of cheating, drug abuse, physical abuse, and depression that went on behind that mask of perfection. Have you not heard boomers constantly complaining about their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:41 AM
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Where are you going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:36 AM
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Exactly 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:05 AM
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If your voice is way too calm and boring I will not watch your YouTube videos. If you shout and speak with passion then I will be interested. Doesn’t matter the topic material. Work on the delivery more than the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:00 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:48 AM
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More young people are not more bisexual. They’re more comfortable identifying as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:11 AM
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That old huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:43 AM
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Does this subreddit have a birthday? Like when was this sub created?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:40 AM
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“Pumped into eachother?” Did I read that correctly?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:39 AM
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I have met women that don’t mind that stuff but yeah it’s a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:53 AM
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I’m the opposite I remember everything like an elephant lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:46 AM
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Sexual orientation is not a choice. This is actually insulting to real queer people who can’t just flip a switch to be straight. I hope you realize this shit makes you look very bigoted from every side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:39 AM
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What’re you gonna do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:36 AM
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I hope that’s enough to dissuade anyone from going back to that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:35 AM
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Which is so funny because you have 18yos today spewing this crap when they didn’t even grow up in the 2000s. They hate how the dating scene is now and think if we just go back to the “good old days” dating will be better. We can’t go back to a time that never happened. It probably never happened because it was an unrealistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:31 AM
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Thank you and looking back I totally missed so many signs she was probably a lesbian. She never confirmed it and I’ll never know but she’d pick so many movies we watched in which there was at least one lesbian kissing scene. She also had a female foreign exchange student she hosted at her house one time (before we dated) and she’d talk almost borderline romantically about that girl. I know that girls on average are a bit more affectionate with their friends than men are but this one felt a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:25 AM
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Why does it matter if it’s natural or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:31 AM
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But you won’t find a shower/bath in the wild with shampoo and conditioners. The point is that the idea of nature shouldn’t be used as an argument. What is your claim even trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:26 AM
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It’s unnatural to shower, lift weights, or take antibiotics. Yet those things are good for us. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:23 AM
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As a man, I will never put up with a bad relationship over no relationship ever again. My ex was extremely unaffectionate with me and wouldn’t let me kiss or even cuddle her. But she had no problem doing that with her own female friends. It ruined my self esteem and I was like 16-17. I constantly worried what I was doing wrong. I’ve still never kissed a woman or even cuddled with one. Being alone sucks, but bad relationships are so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:58 AM
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Americans say talk like “tawk” and torque like “toark”. British people tend to say “toak” for both words lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:53 AM
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How do I know if a British person is saying “Talk” or “torque”? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:46 AM
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People say not to drive high but I can’t even find my keys when I’m high lmao. Couldn’t drive if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:42 PM
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Why not party with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:21 AM
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I NEED ICE CREAM SANDWICHES RN!!!! ESPECIALLY THOSE NEAPOLITAN ONES!!! 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:13 AM
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Part of the fantasy is that it’s just that; a fantasy. Nobody gets hurt nor does it reflect someone’s true desire. People have fantasies about stopping an active shooter or saving someone from a burning building but that doesn’t mean they’d really go through with it and risk their lives. But I’m more interested in why it seems to upset you. What’s really the issue here? Yeah it’s a little screwed up but what is it that irks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:14 AM
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Anyone ever see someone make such a dumb decision that you don’t even feel bad for them anymore? Like you’re so pissed off that they could make such a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:07 AM
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Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:04 AM
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Good luck bro. I’m serious btw not sarcastic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:42 AM
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Same. Idk how it is for women but most men are scared to death of seeming girly or gay for the most harmless shit. Can’t really say women are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:07 AM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:50 AM
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Why are the mods gonna remove it? What rule does it break?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:45 AM
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Q4All: Who would you say is more free from societal judgments for choosing to not follow gender roles? Men or women? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:42 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Unless they were extremely unlucky, hot young people become hot old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:51 AM
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Yeah I got my heart set on the ninja 500 (451cc) the lime green color is just gorgeous. But if it turns out I enjoy riding I’ll add different bikes to my collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:12 AM
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I’m gonna start my journey to get my first motorcycle. First gotta take classes on it to get my license. Me and bro gonna tear up the streets on our ninjas. At least I’m getting a ninja. Idk what bro is getting. Maybe a Honda 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:50 AM
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Sales only hires attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:41 AM
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They have some of these in the Asian market where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:44 PM
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Ate it too fast didn’t have time to take any. 😩 it was that good 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:50 AM
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So just found imitation crab is basically a fish hotdog lmao 😭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:07 AM
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Omggg y’all it’s best soup ever!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:29 AM
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I’m making soup rn. I will let y’all know if it’s good in 45 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:45 AM
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One time when I was babysitting my cousins at a children’s museum, some dad was telling his toddler son off for pushing a baby carriage saying “Boys don’t push baby carriages”. And we wonder shitty fathers are so damn common. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:35 AM
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Not everyone fits into every role. Living by arbitrary standards will never make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:32 AM
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No don’t do it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:44 AM
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Yeah. Difference between “high opinion” and “still not over her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:40 AM
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But I like mustard and fries 🍟
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:34 PM
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My desire to be strong, bold and resilient, conflicts with my other desire to be accepted, calm, and free of confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:13 AM
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Thinking about getting a motorcycle. Anyone here ride?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:43 AM
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I don’t have any skin in this game because I’m not a gun owner and probably won’t be, but no matter what side of the gun control debate you’re on, you gotta admit that we’re not ever going to remove even a fraction of firearms in America. That’s over 500m guns btw. It’ll end up like the war on drugs and ultimately create more violence than we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:56 PM
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I saw the criminal minds one lol. The dude who acid attacked couples. The point is that humans tend be of things that look scary rather than things that are logically more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:44 PM
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PPD women will shit flames and cry rivers when I say this but, no, I don’t think incels are as big of a threat to society as we are lead to believe. Dudes like Elliot Roger are such a tiny minority that they don’t even come close to the people who are actual dangers in society. It’s like being afraid of shark attacks when in reality you’re more likely to get heart disease. Not mention that someone doesn’t have to be an incel to hate or kill women. Ever heard of abusive relationships? Those guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:39 PM
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There are women who simp for men with boyfriends?? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:59 PM
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10,000 dollars what a fucking idiot! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:30 PM
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I’ll answer this one. I live in a town with a few brothels nearby. I’ve heard stories from people that work there where men have bitten, slapped, and attempted surprise anal on the girls. This isn’t rare either. The men who pay for sex in general see women as property and treat them like property. The men who don’t see them that way don’t pay for sex because they want emotional connection or at least not having to pay for sex. So yeah, calling them rapey is not far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:18 PM
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Nerds satisfy my craving for aquarium pebbles 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:28 PM
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Let our generation have our rocky horror picture show moment man 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:24 PM
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If she doesn’t love you after you expressed emotions to her, she never loved you. Redpillers are slow to grasp this concept
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:22 PM
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Exactly! Neither have I. My ex would constantly compliment my personality/kindness and me being a dumbass teen thought it was endearing. That was until she rejected every form of affection I had. Idk why she’d date me if she wouldn’t even let me kiss her. She was probably a lesbian tbh. I’ve had girls who weren’t my girlfriend show me much more affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:31 PM
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Q4All: What game shows would you be best at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:06 PM
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That’s different. That’s looking at how compatible you are. Not what they can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:27 PM
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Do we REALLY need a study for that? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:30 PM
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Which is why I dislike the whole “what do you bring to the table?” argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:27 PM
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People like being in relationships. It makes us happy. Seeing relationships as transactional and practical kills all the love. You can do all the practical stuff yourself. Just enjoy the person you’re with. If their love and affection isn’t enough, then you should probably stay away from dating entirely. Most of the time people back then just got married because they didn’t want to be seen as secretly gay or a spinster. You see this with the boomer generation who hates their wives. The reason is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:25 PM
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Never had it. I’ll try it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:06 PM
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What’s on your toast?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:04 PM
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One thing I’ve noticed with women is that if they’re attracted to you, physically, they will rarely comment on your personality. Don’t get me wrong, they’ll appreciate it and give credit where credit is due, but the more she brings it up or focuses on it the less likely it is she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:32 PM
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Spoken like a true Capricorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:21 PM
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I think it’s the melatonin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:17 PM
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Had a dream where Nintendo was suing me and sending people to kidnap me. I escaped by helicopter before they could get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:46 PM
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Balance seeking? Yes. Balance receiving? Ehhh 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:34 PM
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Canada isn’t the only country with universal healthcare. Other countries are better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:27 PM
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Libra. I don’t know what traits are assigned to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:26 PM
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Ok and? Nobody asked for your compassion specifically. Pretty much everyone knows what dry spells feel like man or woman so get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:19 PM
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Not for me. For the dudes who can’t get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:11 PM
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So then why does all of Reddit and many bluepillers in this sub say otherwise? They don’t understand that and therefore don’t have compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:24 PM
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Childhood plays a larger role in that regard. Even if you get positive experiences in the future you will not be prepared or able to fully embrace it unless you have enough or forget the negative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:40 PM
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One thing I’d love both pills to understand is that it’s way harder than you think to change your personality. Nobody can turn the switch to be more confident, nice, outgoing, or witty. Personality really isn’t a choice for most people. You’d literally have to have anti social personality disorder to pull it off effectively. Your environment and experiences largely shape how you become. We wouldn’t blame a dog who barks at little kids because little kids were mean to him as a puppy, so why shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:31 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:17 PM
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Yep. Or any tree that produces sap within the northern climates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:13 PM
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Apparently you can get syrup from other trees beside maple. Wish I knew where to find some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:01 PM
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I’m still struggling with miles vs kilometers tho. Everything else I have down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:50 PM
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I feel like the only American that likes the metric system. It makes more sense and easier to weigh stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:58 PM
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I think you’re confusing shared experiences with bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:32 PM
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My cousins an older millennial and she met her husband at a gay bar lol. People find love in strange places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:49 AM
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Men weren’t taught to groom as much because their fathers came from a time when women were basically property. It was assumed that he’d find a wife if he could provide. Now guys are waking up to the fact that their appearance matters equally. Men actually are far more disadvantaged in this regard because their toys and childhood is based on fun things rather than appearances (with the exception of fitness and sports). Girls grow up with toys centered around literal beauty from the day their born…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:37 AM
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Does this sub think nobody has loving sex in a relationship? I swear it’s either “FWB” or “Sexless marriage” with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:51 PM
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Dating intentions and plastic surgery are not the same thing. Lying about dating intentions gets people hurt. Plastic surgery doesn’t. Done yet edge lord?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:50 PM
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It comes off more like a “Ask women a loaded question and try and get them in a gotcha moment” post. Very bad faith from OP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:08 PM
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Exactly. Redpill conviently leaves that crucial detail out. It’s so porn brained and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:05 PM
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You do realize that people aren’t born with age? Younger women eventually become older. Quit treating them like they’re different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:03 PM
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No she’s not. Most 30yo women won’t do that unless they’re messed up in the head. Age gap relationships that wide are far from common for a reason. I’m not making any case for sharia law. Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:09 PM
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Last year and yes she is that easy to manipulate. Did you also forget that he’s a registered sex offender? What are you trying to get out of this by victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:05 PM
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And creepy and exploitative people go after easy prey. You proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:04 PM
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My mom’s friend 30yo daughter is engaged to a 50yo JW preacher who is a registered sex offender (involved a child). You cannot tell me after that experience that men who go for significantly younger women are not exploitative and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:58 PM
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Even as a blackpiller, I’d have to say confidence, aggression, extroverted-ness, and independence. It’s generally consistent across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:32 PM
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“CHICKEN JOCKEY!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:29 AM
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Minecraft movie was wild. Part of the experience is the freakouts and memes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:14 AM
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Cigarettes will destroy your twinkness. Not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:13 AM
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Holy shit I’ve noticed this too! There’s always a massive bitterness with them and it always feels like walking on eggshells. My ex was this way too and she was the absolute worst liar, cheater, and gaslighter. It really fucks with your confidence because you feel way less attractive than them. I really don’t know how to explain it. I thought I was the only one who experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:35 PM
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Who doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:00 AM
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Ok well what about James Bond and Batman?? Those 2 have little to do with each other lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:49 AM
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Can someone tell me why I had a dream about James Bond and Batman torturing people with legos??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 AM
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I did yesterday and slept good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:22 AM
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I hate how in America, things like healthcare and housing are treated like investments rather than necessities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:05 AM
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Someone told me that the “woman are wonderful” effect largely works on men. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:55 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:48 PM
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Craving Steve’s lava chicken rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:45 PM
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The great thing about history is that the present isn’t permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 PM
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Q4M: Has a girls dad ever threatened you with a “Whatever you do to my daughter I do to you”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:38 PM
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I’m gonna try to be more optimistic from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:01 AM
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Lmaoooo yesss. Seriously. It’s all sour grapes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:54 AM
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I’m gonna keep trying and stretching lol. But I feel like I gotta take more pain before I get to that level again 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:31 AM
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It physically hurt to use the monkey bars lol. I’m getting old 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:32 PM
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Omg I hate food snobs. r/cooking is the worst. They all act like Nazis when it comes to how to cook something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:10 PM
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I might make French onion soup now 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:46 PM
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I don’t know what to do with my kitchen torch besides making crème brûlée.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:02 PM
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Carrots and celery every meal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:01 PM
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I usually boil 6 at a time. But I prefer making omelets out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:58 PM
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Jeez that’s a lot! I didn’t know Russian weddings were so big.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:15 PM
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What kinda venue was that? I’m not religious but I’d love to have a wedding in a beautiful church. I also can’t tell if that’s cheap for a wedding dress but to me that’s too expensive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:12 PM
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It makes more sense to splurge on the honeymoon than the wedding. Of course my rich cousins did both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:08 PM
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Getting anyone to accept anything is childish. It’s not gonna happen. You have control over your own thoughts and nobody forces you to think anything. In the end most of those people will be hurting themselves. Average dudes aren’t causing systemic misogyny. Rich people and politicians are. Right now they’re laughing because they’ve convinced all the pseudo feminists that average joes are causing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:23 PM
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I worked security before and men are most certainly not good boys at work. Lol. Who comes up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:29 AM
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True but that last part will effect the man negatively if she finds out he lied about that last part. A woman can say she has a bf and lie, but a man will generally see this as disinterest rather than her being available. A woman finding out he didn’t have a girlfriend will just cause her to lose interest and resent him for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:50 AM
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Hmmm you got a point lol. This probably explains dudes who try to convert lesbians lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:59 PM
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Thoughts? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:03 PM
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I think so. Weird isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:53 PM
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Isn’t it weird how a woman having a boyfriend means random men disappear from her life and a man having a girlfriend means random women appear in his life? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:52 PM
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Some do some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:43 AM
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How did you get any of that from her statement? Where did she say that she thinks every minor critique of women is misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:42 AM
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Why not just find a good woman? Expecting someone to change for you is not realistic. People will change if they have the desire to. You leaving or staying doesn’t make a difference. There are good women out there but they are uncommon. The best thing you can do is keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:41 AM
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Say that last sentence louder for this whole site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:50 PM
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I was not prepared for that lol. How does hrt even work on an old person? Is it safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:48 PM
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Bluepillers outside this sub will say this shit. Especially in dating subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:24 PM
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And why does this bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:23 PM
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One thing I absolutely despise about blue pillers (despite me being partially blue pilled myself) is how so many of them are hellbent on the just world fallacy when it comes to dating. How does someone go through life believing that good things happen to good people? Anyone with any of the five senses knows this is bullshit. More importantly, why is Reddit so insistent with this way of thinking when it comes to dating? Have they not seen abusive men get into relationships? Have they not seen wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:18 PM
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In my experience therapy didn’t work. Therapy exists to make money. It’s all bullshit that I’m not sure even the therapists believe the crap they spew. Looking for advice from a therapist is a fool’s errand. It’s not just men either. I know women that have similar experiences. The issue is that most people don’t want to cope with or understand their problems. They want their problems to go away. Obviously a therapist isn’t a magician but they aren’t a big help either. They will give very useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:44 PM
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We just have to see. Most people already don’t like what trump is doing to America so there’s enough pushback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:11 PM
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It really sucks that the relationship between Canada and the US is fraying. I never thought it a million years it would happen. Hopefully nothing ever escalates and we can make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:05 PM
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Life is short. Do as much as you can now to work towards a better future. If that happens to be later in life, so be it. But you’ll have better chances starting now than any other point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:18 AM
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Not always. Art is mostly an escape from reality to something more pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:33 AM
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You’re gonna LOVE tik tok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:20 AM
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Thing is I feel just so weird because I hear about kids rebelling all the time as a result of overprotective parents and I never really rebelled because I was hyper analyzing every move and walking on eggshells for stupid things. Idk. Maybe my rebellious phase comes in my mid 20s 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:32 AM
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Idk how it is for women but as a man, growing up sheltered and overprotected ruins a boy like nothing else. My parents tried to shield me from R and pg-13 movies, M rated video games, and anything they believed was anti christian (which was lots of things). My father was also emotionally abusive and called me every name in the book. He’s disabled now so when the time comes, I’m not even wasting time with a nursing home. He’s on his fucking own. Coupled with possibly being on the spectrum, this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:20 AM
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Would be a sick place to parachute off of
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:59 AM
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Can we all agree that movies and fictional media are horrible ways to interpret real world dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:58 AM
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Sex workers are people too and should be treated with respect. That said I’d personally never date one because the amount of shady shit and baggage is too much to deal with. Most women who work in this industry are abused, mentally unwell, and often substance dependent. It’s heart breaking really. Many of these women don’t want to do it and see no other choice. Sex should at the very least be a product of desire and trust. Not paying for it. That way less people get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:09 PM
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As an ex Christian, you’d be surprised of the seemingly innocuous things that cause other Christians to explode and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:01 PM
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Anyone else craving snow cones 🍧 rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:18 AM
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Yeah some
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:13 AM
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I heard someone say that millennials got rid of unnecessary labels, and Gen z has a label for EVERYTHING. It’s so true tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:57 AM
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I’ve had women approach me. Not as much as women have had men approach them but usually the super extroverted women approach me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:51 AM
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Isn’t it already illegal to misuse child support funds? In the us at least? Seems like an easy case of fraud/embezzlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:23 AM
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The only answer is that some men are assholes who only care about their legacy. Not supporting their kids. I understand child support. Kids are expensive and if you don’t wanna pay for it, don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:21 AM
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They can get men who aren’t fat. That’s why they don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:48 AM
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Lol people in general are harsh on weight. It’s not a gender specific thing. That said there are far more straight male bbw fetishists than straight female bbw fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:41 AM
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I’m sure there’s far worse than poop clean up in a hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:35 AM
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Really wish people would stop suggesting bars and clubs as places to find relationships. Even if you do find one it’s unlikely to last. Drinking alcohol is not enough to bond over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:29 AM
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I heard that nursing is becoming more of a diversity hire for men. Like there’s a big push for men to get into nursing. Nothing wrong with it but how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:25 AM
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My cousin met her husband at a gay bar. I don’t know how that works either lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:23 AM
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No. Obviously it’s better but not ideal. I’m trying to get opponents to think critically and open their mind. Shouting sexism isn’t an argument but it seems to be the only argument from the side of opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:03 AM
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Which is exactly my point. It gets them to be self aware. I disagree with quit a few Redpill things because of its ineffectiveness. Yes sexism is wrong but everyone calls everything sexist nowadays that nobody takes it seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:41 AM
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How was he effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:35 AM
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To anyone who’s against manosphere content and wants to turn young men away from this, you need to realize that harping about it being sexist isn’t gonna change their minds. You need to tell them how it’s ineffective. They don’t care if it’s sexist they care if it works or not. Sexist dudes are gonna be sexist. Most of these guys just want a girlfriend. For instance: Bad example: “Age gap relationships are super predatory and wrong and men who do that should burn in hell!!” Good example : “It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:27 AM
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Not as long as the dudes are on the app 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:44 AM
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Because women don’t stay on them for long
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:04 PM
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Regarding the whole “ugly guy with hot girl” thing, it’s total bull. Women have a tendency to overrate other women and underrate men. I’ve seen this before. In reality the couple is looksmatched and the guy looks decent. She just thinks the guy who isn’t her type is ugly instead of just not her type. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:47 AM
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Is it weird that as an atheist, I’d still be interested in getting married in a church?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:56 PM
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You didn’t see the right wingers smashing beer in Walmart??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:55 PM
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Ok but porn is still fantasy and different from real sex. It may look hot but when you try it you might have a different experience. That’s what makes or breaks your sexuality. Things are different when you actually experience them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:24 PM
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No it’s not moving the goalposts. People masturbate to things they’d never actually do in real life all the time. That’s the difference. You can’t say you’re gay but then never chose to date and have sex with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:19 PM
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Porn is fantasy. Does not reflect true desires or life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:35 AM
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How do women see bi men? As a man, I see a bi women as just women. Surprisingly they much different than lesbians. Closer to the behavior of straight women with a few differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:24 AM
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I’ve noticed guys tend to be very certain of their sexuality from a young age and don’t stay confused for too long. But I’ve seen lots of women jump from being straight to bi, lesbian, trans, non binary, and all over the place usually within the span of a year. Why is it that men tend to know what they are and who they’re attracted to while women seem to take longer and stall?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:13 AM
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Feminism is good. Without it, we end up like the Middle East. Feminism doesn’t really affect a man’s dating life. He’s either attractive or not. Most of the women men claim are corrupted by feminism are really just corrupted by American selfishness and hyper capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:57 AM
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How is anything you listed toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:53 AM
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Ok what does she mean then? They have to hate her to do this? Is she high?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:15 PM
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What does this even mean? Eiffel Towered? Is this some kinda sex move?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:12 PM
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Favorite superhero
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:09 PM
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Sandal and Cedar wood. Or any wood scent. Patchouli is a close second
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:06 PM
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House is the only good character on his own show. Why do they nerf the other characters into total dogshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:34 PM
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Exactly! They even had to ban sexual questions on the other ask men sub because it was all anyone wanted to talk about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:47 AM
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<image> I see endless posts like this from women all the time. Are they really this out of touch?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:23 AM
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Why are you bringing me into this? I’m not talking about myself. I’m talking about the reason other guys are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:44 AM
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What you said doesn’t disprove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:33 AM
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But why is a woman hating women supposedly “not as bad as men”? Hate is hate no matter who it’s from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:10 AM
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Lmao. The amount of women I see making excuses for bad men is disturbing. I’ve heard it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:09 AM
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When you’re attractive, you will get obvious choosing signals and women will even approach you first. If those things aren’t happening then you have more work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:08 AM
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No unattractive behaviors. Just unattractive blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:05 AM
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Ok why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:02 AM
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If you’re not very attractive, then nothing is gonna work. Meeting women is not the problem. Women are everywhere and guys know this. When dudes ask “Where do you meeet women??” They really mean “Where can I meet women attracted to me??” Focus on being attractive first. Then meeting people will be the least of your worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:02 AM
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Q4All: Do you agree with the statement “Misogyny in men is treated like a character trait. Misogyny in women is treated like a disease”? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:59 PM
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Yeah. People generally see nice people as targets for exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:02 PM
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No. Nice guys are not secretly manipulative or not “truly” nice. They’re just not attractive to the woman. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:32 PM
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Hell fucking no. I hate when people beat around the bush. If they make you wait, it’s because they don’t actually intend to follow through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:37 AM
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Guitar. I like it and played for 5 years but not getting any appreciation just hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:35 AM
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🫥👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:34 AM
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For me that’s ok up to a point. We’d all be lying if we said we didn’t at least crave some validation for the things we liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:34 AM
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Guitar. Been playing for 5 years and at an intermediate level. Not even any of my close friends complement my skills. I like it but not getting appreciation and praise makes it impossible to enjoy playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:33 AM
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Have y’all ever been so into a hobby but nobody notices or cares and you get so depressed that you don’t even try to improve anymore and slowly give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:29 AM
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The more you do something, the better your stamina
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:23 PM
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Also masking isn’t hard. All one has to do is watch NT people talk and interact and copy that. That’s what I did and I was successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:14 PM
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I’m not sure how her being approached has anything to do with masking. Masking is literally just blending in and imitating NT people. That’s not a hard concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:13 PM
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Holy crap guys I agree with u/windmill_flowers buy a lotto ticket everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:50 AM
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If you looksmaxx you can get a girl. Can’t say the same for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:12 AM
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Dammit artichoke now I can’t stop thinking about this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:42 PM
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Y’all ever had dreams about getting blackmailed and having your private shit revealed to the world by a close friend? Just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:42 PM
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Ok then explain how nsfw subs with small chested women have over a million users? Are all those guys lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 AM
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Why? What about either of them places them into those categories? I’m failing to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:59 AM
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No I’m not overweight. Why do you think that helps your argument? Wrinkles aren’t from lifestyle and neither are most things on OPs list. It’s called aging and there’s no cure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:58 AM
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Aww! Why tf do they think that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:52 AM
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First woman is literally wearing lingerie so this is not even a fair comparison lmao. The second one looks better because it’s more natural looking. Make up can look good but it needs to blend the harmony with your face otherwise you’ll always be better off with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:51 AM
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Way to show off badger 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:47 AM
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Can you tell me which ones op listed are from lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:46 AM
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Labiaplasty is reshaping of the labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:45 AM
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That seems a little backhanded to say yeah? Why can’t a natural looking women be hot/sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 AM
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Anyone else gonna watch the total lunar eclipse tomorrow night at 11:30pm? Get to a dark place if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:33 AM
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Everyone has a warped definition of natural. Yeah I won’t deny that most men who say this really mean “a good plastic surgery job that looks natural!” But I promise you that men who appreciate natural women exist. Literally look at nsfw subs of women with stretch marks and body hair. They get 1,000s of upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:29 AM
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Why are dreamworks movies either absolute goated masterpieces, or god awful, inhumane cia torture devices??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:25 AM
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Why do you think good women don’t exist? Are they rare? Sure. But holy shit dude this post generalizes way too much. What do you want? A loving caring woman? Or just to get back at women who wouldn’t care if you bleed to death? One is far better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:43 AM
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Why should love be unconditional? Not gonna love someone abusive or vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:22 AM
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Chips and guacamole and pico ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:31 AM
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Canadian??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:30 AM
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I fucking hate how when some people bring the safety of vaccines or some chemical that they’re like “it causes autism!!” Really? That’s it? Autism is somehow worse than meningitis, polio, mumps, or measles? You’d want your kid to have that rather than a bit of social awkwardness?? Seriously it’s just dehumanizing and reflects how society treats autistic people. They’d rather have deadly illnesses than a kid whose brain works differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:21 AM
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Minor inconveniences are more abrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:14 AM
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I’m just insecure around everybody. Don’t take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:38 PM
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Now are you sure those women are actually feminists and not just regular women who enforce gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:55 PM
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Hell men on this sub have said they’d fuck women they’re unattracted to. That’s wild to me. I only would have sex with someone I was attracted to and liked. Don’t they see the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:12 AM
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Especially children who grow up with this media. Kids minds are like play doh and will copy things they see on tv or YouTube. Yes parents should teach their kids to be moral but many don’t. How we portray things in media is really telling us how we see those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:08 AM
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They can have the right but they’re not free from criticism and shame. You still didn’t answer my question. I don’t think guys necessarily have the right to someone but they do deserve loving partners and I can hope they one day find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:02 AM
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Which is why I also hate people who say to lonely guys “just see a prostitute if you want sex!”. Sex is far better with people who don’t see you as their next rent payment. It’s about desire. Not the act itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:52 AM
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Can you think of any consequences you think oversexualization in the media could maybe cause? Even just 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:42 AM
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I live in a town with brothels. Never been in one but knew people who worked in them. It’s not glamorous and women who come from abuse flock there and have nothing left for them. Abuse happens in the brothels all the time and it doesn’t get reported or it’d get shut down. It’s really predatory and I feel sorry for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:29 AM
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Yeah. It’d be a stretch to say calling out medias portrayal of women somehow fighting for privilege. Guys here complain about the portrayal of men in media all the time. Turns out people don’t like being portrayed in ways that are outlandish because it has consequences. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:24 AM
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One can still have opinions on things and gender dynamics. Feminism isn’t just about fighting for basic human rights. It’s also a philosophy on gender dynamics as a whole (whether or not you agree with it). I’m not an expert but I’m pretty sure feminists cover this in regards to things like TERFs and intersectionality. Basically feminism argues that gender roles aren’t inherently natural but rather forced by society and would be easier if men and women could do things outside the norm. I don’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:20 AM
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Why go to a third world country? Why limit yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:51 AM
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I’m 21. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:54 AM
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Old people be like: “I suffered in the past and even though you have the opportunity to suffer less I’m still gonna be mad and call you lazy for not suffering as much as I did!” Then what was the point of making life better for your kids and the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:53 AM
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I’ll agree with all those except 2. There are women out there who will take advantage of a man and use him for money. Even if it’s not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:46 AM
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You remind people about men’s biological clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:42 AM
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Men actually do have a biological clock but redpillers don’t mention that. Older man’s sperm significantly contributes to birth defects and men just generally lose fertility with age. Why do Redpillers focus on women’s biological clock then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:39 AM
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You had anxiety tho. Not physical pain. Of course they’d put you on anti anxiety medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:37 AM
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This has to be fake right???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:18 AM
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Pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:19 AM
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Oml that’s awful! I’m not a doctor but holy crap I’d never make that assumption without at least getting some imaging. Hope you’re better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:10 AM
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Q4W: Do doctors really take women’s health issues less seriously than mens? I haven’t been to a doctor in a long time because I’m lucky to be healthy. But are women’s health concerns really dismissed by doctors like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:44 AM
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Needed a new look 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:27 AM
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People are entitled to partners who’ll love them. Maybe not anyone specifically but everyone deserves love. I’ll die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:15 AM
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No lol. I come from a small town filled with gambling, drugs, and hookers. It’s a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:42 AM
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I’ve never been tested but I’ve always suspected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:19 AM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:17 AM
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Most of my former classmates are getting married more than I thought. And here I am a virgin and never even kissed a girl 😔 Happy for my friend at least. He got engaged awhile ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:06 AM
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I had a dream about this exact image. Except there were far more physical details.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:26 AM
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Omg how is that Machiavellian?? That’s called being a good boyfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:25 AM
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No. Just give boys more physical activity and PE. Give some to girls who need it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:24 AM
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Men truly can benefit from having female friends regardless what anyone says. In my experience they will be more affectionate, attentive and understanding. Most guy friends haven’t been in my experience. I have met a few that do but most straight guys think even breathing the same air is gay. I can’t speak for it getting a girlfriend since I’m not experienced in that field. But there’s no reason to not be friends with someone solely based on their sex. Having a social group is very important for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:21 AM
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You’re right it is valid. But why focus on that? Find someone who will work with your inexperience and help you. Sex isn’t a contest. It’s something done out of love and affection. Many people are just happy to be there with their partner naked and having fun. Otherwise what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:05 AM
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Sex at the very least needs trust. If you don’t trust your partner, don’t have sex. Simple and plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:17 AM
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Ok I’m finally getting back into guitar. Practicing everyday with a metronome and absolutely scrutinizing my technique. I’ll be advanced in 6 months 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:38 AM
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Didn’t she try to sue a subreddit? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:35 AM
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How is it that Reddit is simultaneously cynical doomer yet also hellbent on a just world??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:34 AM
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I got nothing in there :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:49 AM
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<image> Not really sure if this test is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:24 AM
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Send me the link where this is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:03 AM
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The bar is on mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:28 PM
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When was this “magical” time you speak of???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:24 AM
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Attractive people get better treatment FROM OTHER ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE. Normies and sub 5s will gladly rip and shit on people more attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:36 AM
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I’ve seen this too. I wonder if it’s because these men are more proactive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:07 PM
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The people who are good at carrying out relationships typically don’t go anywhere near dating scenes for the most part. They’re too busy enjoying their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:29 AM
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My dad has literally said how the 19th amendment was a mistake so probably him 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:15 AM
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Employers are the Bane of my existence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:57 AM
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Can you blame them? Most don’t get female attention at all despite craving it. Anyone would be. Have some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:43 AM
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I don’t think most women loathe it. They might think it’s weird but I don’t think it’s based on any hatred. And no it does not threaten their position. They didn’t want these guys before so nothing’s changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:23 AM
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And that’s all valid. I completely understand. But I wonder if there is actually a way for a man to learn these skills without the heartache and rejection. It’s easier when you’re a kid and around other kids that you can interact with (assuming you’re neurotypical). But I’ve never thought how an adult could achieve this (if they can).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:53 PM
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Yeah being a virgin and not knowing how to act in a relationship are 2 different things. Obviously they go hand in hand for the most part but I’m willing to bet that not knowing how to act in a relationship is a more of a turn off. Mostly because those things are basic social skills you learn from interacting with friends. I’m not trying to shame or make anyone feel bad if this applies to them. It’s not their fault. Some people have mental issues or were just never properly socialized when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:26 PM
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Idk but It’s possible. Only one is still alive and it’s not like I can ask “How did you abuse grandma back then?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:09 PM
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Trauma? I wasn’t even alive back then and I think it’s funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:05 PM
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Redpillers love to misrepresent the tradwife era. Both my grandmothers viciously assaulted my grandfathers due to the stress and abuse of being a sahm. One poured hot beans on his head giving him burns. The other stabbed his leg with a fork.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:01 PM
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That last part is a big reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:59 PM
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Providing for your woman isn’t wrong and can be cute, but make no mistake; women back then weren’t “provided for” in a loving way. More like maintained property. Besides I’ve never seen women in real life who want a sole provider. Most women want to provide for themselves and their family. Few women actually want a father figure as a partner. Providing for your partner should be seen as an act of love and not a necessity or way to gain “dominance” over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:53 PM
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It depends on the woman. They all have different thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:38 AM
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Finally!!! Lilith has a good take!!! Celebrate 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:31 AM
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I always hated mustard til I realized every other kind beside yellow was delicious. Honey and stone grain mustard ftw 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:05 PM
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Ok guys just had a zoom interview with the company awhile ago. Now they want me for an in person interview. I hope this goes well. Out of all the shitty jobs this looks the most promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:27 PM
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The difference is that I actually have something to do about baldness. Height is pretty much set it stone for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:21 PM
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Idk what else to tell you. It’s your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:38 AM
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Well unless you can grow a couple inches after puberty why dwell on it? I don’t think you necessarily want anyone to admit it. I think you actually want it to not matter at all. What good is getting every woman to admit what you already see and believe? It’s not gonna change how the world works. I’ve seen tall dudes struggle too. Most tall guys are normal looking and not conventionally attractive. An attractive tall guy is exceedingly rare and I’ve met only one. Attractive short guys (or average…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:23 AM
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This thread is gonna go exactly how you think it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:12 AM
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For me elementary was the worst and I didn’t mind middle school and high school as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:52 AM
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Haven’t divorce rates been steadily declining for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:49 AM
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We don’t all go grocery shopping each time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:00 PM
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Do y’all take every words so literally on this sub? Lmao. Of course we don’t mean to chase people running away. Chase people who want you. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:47 PM
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Women aren’t opposed to those things. The opposition comes from: •Dating significantly younger (10-20 years) •Dating women in piss poor countries and luring them with money (If you think for a second these women aren’t after your money I’m gonna laugh so hard at you).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:51 AM
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So then what’s stopping you now? Make up for lost time if you really believe this. I don’t disagree that dating doesn’t necessarily get easier with age but it’s not as hard as you’re making it out to be. Part of dating is learning and improving from mistakes. You will make tons more later in life even if you had teen love. Just start now and resolve it with more experience. You get a short time in this life and if you didn’t have a girlfriend in the past, you either chose not to date or were nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:39 AM
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You wouldn’t know unless you brought it up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:58 PM
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Lol I’ve done this before when I’ve talked about going to a shooting range with my friend and his boyfriend. Confuses tf out of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:53 PM
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It does make sense in your 20s. Some people have different goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:47 PM
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Just make sure the woman you say this to has a pentagram on her neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:44 PM
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Exactly. I mean, it’s not like it’ll never come up lol. Better to know now than further down if y’all get married or moved in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:41 PM
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Unpopular opinion but you absolutely should be talking about religion, politics, and values early on in a relationship. Maybe not the first date, but early. I really don’t see the harm. You’re identifying dealbreakers early and strengthening the relationship if you do happen to share similar values. I think people avoid talking about it because few people know how to have a discussion and disagreement without anger and heat. If you didn’t learn how to respectfully debate and disagree then you sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:35 PM
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I’ve discovered? Lol. I’ve know this for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:13 PM
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No. A smoker saying smoking is bad for you is hypocritical but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:13 PM
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Idk why dudes on this sub think that feminists being hypocrites and selfish is some kinda gotcha or revelation. Have you ever heard of Christians my guy?? Of course most feminists are in it for themselves and will gladly go back on their values to get what they want. Just as much as Christians do. Or any other group for that matter. Very few people who have the integrity to keep their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:38 PM
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He’s disabled now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:31 AM
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Lol you aren’t rare trust me. My mother has been taking care of my father (despite his assholishness) ever since I’ve been born. My mom does 90% of the providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:21 AM
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Don’t shoot the messenger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:29 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:17 AM
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Probably the same people who made urban dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:10 AM
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The reason why I think some blackpillers do better in dating is because they stop stressing out so much about game, female nature, or whatever silly thing Redpill came up with. Don’t get me wrong; improving your looks definitely does help, but when you have the mindset of that it’s all that matters, you don’t have to meticulously analyze your words, tone, or anyone else’s. You just relax, try, and repeat until you find someone. Redpillers tend to treat dating like a chore or a goal similar to ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:09 AM
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Omg I had a dream about this!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:48 AM
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Wtf is up with Reddit??!! I was looking at Monterey Bay on google maps and planning a road trip for the future and now reddit is recommending me Monterey Bay stuff!!! I never even searched reddit for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:20 AM
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No, men aren’t “always paying for it”. This is dumb shit conjured up by dudes who try to justify sleeping with hookers. A real loving relationship, cost far less than that. Even casual sex is cheaper than hookers. Plus you’re actually desired for who you are instead of your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:27 AM
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Lol what crackheaded cooked up theory is this? The novelty of attraction wears off when the guy begins to show the uninteresting side of him. The halo effect states attractive people are assumed to have more of x. If people find out they don’t have x, then they lose appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:30 AM
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This is very reasonable no matter what pill you take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:59 AM
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It’s not the healthy part that’s boring. If we have nothing in common to bond over then it’s boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:58 AM
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Can confirm. I never got treat badly when I was bald but women my age were definitely not interested. I thank god for hair systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:58 AM
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I just don’t know what to make of my stylist hugging me everytime we meet. I’m not interested in dating her because I don’t want to make things awkward and I actually need her services. But is she just friendly like that or what??? I’m so confused!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:07 PM
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I’ll never understand how people even get social lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:47 PM
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It’s just advice take it or leave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:52 AM
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Not Redpill but treating waitstaff like shit is a basic sign someone will do the same to you one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:42 AM
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You’re from Norway right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:46 AM
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What is it about older women being exponentially more confident, forward, and sexual then younger women? Not complaining at all as a fellow cougar lover, but I can’t help but notice women 25 or older are much different then younger women in terms of sexuality and confidence. I’ve had a 48 year old female janitor hit on me at my job and make sexual innuendos towards me. Another older lady who was the Head of HR at the warehouse I guarded always insisted that I wand her down and she wouldn’t take …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:37 AM
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What for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:11 AM
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Are tons of straight women really going to gay bars to avoid being hit on by men??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:57 AM
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Oh my!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:45 AM
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Acting more like an adult and less childish in their mannerisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:39 AM
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Sorry about that :( yeah most girls I knew were pushed really hard to accomplish everything. Mostly just moms wanting to live through their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:34 AM
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Do women really mature faster than men? Or is there just more pressure for girls to mentally grow up faster than boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:29 AM
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Would work unless I travel to Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:36 AM
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Then maybe the bluepillers on this sub should start saying that more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:32 AM
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Who tf said that?? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:26 AM
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Sometimes it’s a miscommunication issue 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:56 AM
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Have no idea what that means lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:47 AM
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What foreign countries can I go to that won’t discriminate and shit on me for being American?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:43 AM
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In fact I’d go as far as to say that’s not personality but rather character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:36 AM
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Ok I’ll humor bluepillers here and say yes, having a good personality is important, but not in the way they think. What guys need to work out is not kindness, or confidence. That’s not enough. They actually need: •extroversion •assertiveness •not giving a fuck what anyone thinks of them •Having more balls to say what they want Do any bluepillers agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:27 AM
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Numbers on this sub really mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:13 AM
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Yeah. Nobody actually gives a shit if it’s someone they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:50 PM
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And if someone is unhappy without a romantic relationship…?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:19 PM
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I mean, women can be forced into working and providing too though. Not every man is will to just support a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:59 PM
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Not a passport bro but what does a guy even do when he gets there if he wants pussy? Just open tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:47 AM
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As a 21 year old, I’m now starting to realize how annoying I was as a teenager when I thought I knew everything. Now I have to suffer through the other billions of teenagers acting like they know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:40 AM
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Sure it’s the sexual liberation. Not climate change, not war, not disease, not a nuclear apocalypse. Just people wanting to fuck. Brilliant analysis op.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:24 AM
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You’ll never get a straight answer on this sub about that. I’m not even sure the percentages are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:06 AM
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I don’t complain when a woman I’m not interested in likes me. I just say no thanks and go about my day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:00 AM
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I mean it’s lingerie. It can’t be that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:57 AM
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We all need to be more gracious to those that struggle socially. Some people grew up with little friends or just have brain problems. I don’t like how some people treat them so horribly because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:56 AM
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I have no idea. It’s possible though. I love the kid to death but he’s not having the best start in life unfortunately. After we heard my cousin did that, we’ve avoided talking to her since.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:57 AM
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Sometimes single mothers are single because they’re batshit insane. My cousin with a 13 year old son just got engaged to a prisoner. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:46 AM
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Help me understand something. Do the majority of women really view relationships as utilitarian rather than something that enhances one’s life? Cuz if so that’s really sad. What’s wrong with being with someone because you simply want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:44 PM
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¿Por que no Los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:31 PM
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Lol at the last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:27 PM
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This is the most comprehensive list. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:24 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:20 PM
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Q4All: What does it mean for you personally to act masculine or feminine compared to how society says these things are done (ei would you consider being loud or risk taking to be more masculine or feminine or neither)? Do labels even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:09 PM
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I don’t mean this to put women down at all, but unless a woman has dated other women or is otherwise extremely self aware, women just aren’t gonna understand male dating problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:22 AM
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Where is the bar even set now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:26 PM
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Every time I scroll through reels, I see absolute chads complaining about the same dating and rejection problems. What’s going on? Are these men lying? Why aren’t these guys able to get someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:21 PM
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It’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:04 AM
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Being sweet and chill. Women who are high energy and super extroverted really aren’t my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:42 PM
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I’m a man and I hate this idea. I want real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:27 PM
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Within reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:30 AM
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I think one reason men say that they got more pussy after becoming a bad boy was because they were finally honest about who they were. Virtually nobody is nice, kind, and respectful 100% of the time. People will be suspicious if you act like this because it shows that you can’t really express how you truly feel. Real human beings have emotions. Negative ones. They also express them. You don’t even need to go so hard. Sometimes just having a negative tone or body language is enough. This is only …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:25 AM
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They will think that no matter what. Moving the goalposts and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:15 AM
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It’s most likely a bot that’ll ghost him anyway. If he went out in real life he’d get a better shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:05 AM
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Idk why feminists and Reddit women push the narrative that women innately have misogyny detectors and can tell if a guy is faking his kindness. Seems pretty sexist to the thousands of women who were in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:47 PM
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I’d argue they cheat more since they’re often sexually repressed. Liberal women tend not to be so repressed and hung up on it like conservative women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:12 PM
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Why “150 years”? Does op have a crystal ball or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:55 PM
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I think I know the reason why Reddit dating advice is so delusional. A lot of the people giving advice are like 13-16 years old. It’s natural to feel like you know everything at that age. Doesn’t make it true. In turn, these kids have zero dating experience or self awareness, so the repeat the same crap their parents tell them. This includes confidence, showers, not being a misogynist, being nice etc. When they get older, then they realize that this isn’t enough and they get upset how they were …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:50 AM
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Lol at the last sentence. But seriously so many guys think it’s a flex to care about their own orgasm. Because that’s what every woman wants. A man who only wants to cum with her but will make no effort because why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:20 AM
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Ok fine. Lots of things we don’t enjoy ourselves but are willing to do for our partners to make them happy. I hope that’s the case for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:17 AM
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Never. I’d love foreplay. Men enjoy foreplay too. Why does everyone act like sex is such a chore on this sub? It should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:15 AM
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It has for me. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:40 AM
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Word of advice to guys. If you’re going to ask for relationship advice on reddit, hide your gender or at least pretend to be female. Reddit is highly biased and will alway find a way to blame the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:52 AM
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How early were you into the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:42 AM
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Am I the only one who hasn’t had a bad experience opening up to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:38 AM
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Criticizing and generalizing people who didn’t cause those problems is not a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:52 AM
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It pisses me off how so many foreigners claim to hate America but then take it out on average American citizens who had nothing to do with what the American corporations and government did. And yet they have the audacity to accuse us of being stupid and intolerant? Pure projection. America has a lot of issues. But I and every other working class citizen did not cause one of them. So all the self righteous foreigners can shut up and get educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:35 AM
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Q4All: How much self improvement are you will to do to get what you want out of dating? How much can you, and will you realistically do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:40 AM
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Well finding a partner is work. It can be fun when you find a good one but for the most part it is work. Also I like my hobbies regardless of who’s in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:32 AM
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Highly depends on the hobby. Yeah some will have a higher male to female ratio but the trick is to find a hobby that you like that also has a high female membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:12 AM
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Tbf id prefer a girl with similar hobbies and interests to me. It doesn’t have to all be the same but if we can’t agree on at least music, food, art, or video games I don’t see it working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:02 AM
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It definitely matters in dating. Attraction not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:53 PM
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Cuz they’ll get shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:01 AM
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This may come as a shock to you but I’ve only had one bad experience with a woman. And she ended up worse than I did in life so I don’t care anymore. I’m not upset at anyone. I think you’re just being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:56 AM
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What would that prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:50 AM
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Why do you care? Don’t act like you’re special for not holding grudges.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:42 AM
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Congratulations for them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:17 AM
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Tf is an average race??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:18 AM
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Reminds me of the “Girl is attractive when she takes her glasses off and lets her hair down” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:10 AM
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You wouldn’t worry how people would see you after the movie comes out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:06 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:04 AM
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Ok which roles would be a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:02 AM
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Q4All: You’re offered a movie role but you’re cast as the “ugly” character (despite however you look now). No, you don’t get the girl or guy, or a glowup in the movie, but you get paid a lot of money. Would you take the role?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:59 AM
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Well how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:50 PM
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I’m getting fatter 😩. I was 17.7% bf a couple weeks ago and today I measured 18.6%!! I’ve been lifting 3xs per week and eating tons of protein. Maybe I need more cardio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:43 PM
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Define first choice. Being her first ever or being her ideal choice of who she’d pick over other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:38 PM
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They’ll learn how delusional they are real soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:29 PM
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That’s the problem universal basic income is trying to solve. The idea is the wage that would’ve gone to the worker (now replaced by a robot) would now go to the person laid off. I’m no expert so don’t shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:06 PM
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Women have always worked. They just couldn’t own property or capital like men could.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:04 PM
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I honestly don’t think most women want providers anymore. I think a lot of them were kinda forced to find men to provide. Now that women can own capital and go to college, why should she choose a man who only has money to offer? Trust me when I say this is a good thing. Relationships based on money are not real. They never will be. Women only care if you can support yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:02 PM
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People who call the police on stupid things need to spend time in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:49 PM
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You can have preferences. Just ignore the Jabba the huts who say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:48 PM
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I really can’t say because I’ve only known 2 bisexual women and one bisexual man. The 2 bisexual women were chill but like I said, I don’t know enough to make a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:47 PM
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Well those guys probably think that they’re special and one of the good ones. They’ll find out how false that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:37 PM
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Well you didn’t say equal looks. In that case I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:33 PM
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It’s not a crime worthy of death but would you date a woman who hates men? Then she wouldn’t date someone who hates her gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:31 PM
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She really doesn’t wanna say he’s ugly af :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:29 PM
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What did they mock you for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:28 PM
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We can’t be upset about how people treat us in the past now?? Sounds like someone has a guilty conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:25 PM
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Ok? Never said you were. Just that we can become or already are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:50 AM
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We’re all damaged. We all get damaged eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:03 AM
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Yes. As long as she doesn’t take it out on me or use her situation as an excuse to act shitty towards me. I’m willing to help her and heal her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:02 AM
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I saw a dumbass comment saying exactly that the other day. Some of the dudes here man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:01 AM
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Its because the women telling you those things have zero self awareness and live in lala land. Most of them probably couldn’t even define the words they said to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:35 PM
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Where did he say he wanted women to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:33 PM
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Well it’s gotten to the point on Reddit where if a man expresses his dating woes on a dating sub, even if he doesn’t blame women, he’ll be lambasted as a misogynist, incel, hitler worshiper. Reddit basically equates dating struggles with leftist politics at this point (Don’t come at me. I’m moderate left. I just think politics have nothing to do with dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:30 PM
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Only on Reddit and twitter are they invalidated. In the real world, most are just not aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:27 PM
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I’d love to hear the explanation of how you fucking with no condom and getting an std is the woman’s fault. Unless you both agreed to get tested and stay clean, you only have yourself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:41 AM
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I mean yeah. But both people need to make that choice mutually. Otherwise they wouldn’t get together. What’s your point? Men can’t choose? Or men don’t have many good choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:58 AM
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I immediately read OPs title in David Attenboroughs voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:55 AM
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Many people including me feel that way. Even though I have no kids. That’s why we have first responders. People who give a shit about the community. People who run into danger to save ALL people. And most importantly, people who are SPECIAL TRAINED to do those things!! The average person doesn’t even know CPR. I don’t expect them to do anything. In fact, they could make it worse if they don’t know what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:14 AM
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Wow that’s impressive! It just goes to show how you don’t need a ton of strength or size to help people. I’ve heard stories of women emts who were able to start immediate lifesaving procedures on car accident victims simply because they were able to fit in the tight space. 6ft 210lb Lars might be able to lift rubble off of someone’s back, but 5’2 90 pound Mackenzie would be able to squeeze through the tight space to apply a tourniquet so they don’t die before they get extracted. Of course if op …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:02 AM
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Watch him reply with “Well, they aren’t as good as the MALE ones!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:50 AM
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Bro why make things harder without a paddle board? Should all firefighters operate on brute strength according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:48 AM
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Exactly! That was just awful! Op thinks that just because women won’t save a random man that she won’t try to protect her loved ones. I don’t think anyone would try and help a random person unless they were an off duty / former emt and had experience. At the very least we should all call 911. That alone can make a big difference. I was a former security guard in the middle of nowhere and me being able to report suspicious activity, fires, or broken pipes was more valuable than people know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:40 AM
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Are you kidding me??? I’ve seen women saving drowning children ALLL THE TIME!!! I was saved by a woman when I was drowning in a wave pool at 10. Dude, humans have a natural instinct to protect. Don’t forget the male cops in uvalde who let kids die. Cowardice isn’t gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:37 PM
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Actually, that would be r/ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:11 AM
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Why not give trans people their own league?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:08 AM
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Can someone tell me why I can understand German better if I’m high on weed???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:06 AM
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Holy crap you’re like the 5th women to tell me you like body hair!! Some girls I met while locked up in a mental hospital literally wanted to feel and touch my leg hair (I’m serious)!! What is happening?! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:09 AM
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So are you lesbian or just like feminine guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:45 AM
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Basically how they behave and look. Such as how ladylike should your girlfriend be or how manly should your boyfriend should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:40 AM
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Q4All: How important is masculinity or femininity to you in a partner? What are your limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:17 AM
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Money they don’t have to spend on cosmetic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:13 AM
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Oh interesting! Is there a reason for why that specific demographic likes you? Are you middle class yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:46 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:41 PM
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Hey we’re the same in that regard! I’ve still had plenty of girls approach despite my expression lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:40 PM
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Q4M: How often do women approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:38 PM
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Q4All: do you do better with other races or your own race when it comes to attracting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:28 PM
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Are your police 6’5 bodybuilders/mma fighters?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:11 PM
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Ok then how you prefer he defend himself and you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:07 PM
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So what if a guy owns a gun or collection for self defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:03 PM
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My uncle is liberal af and has a whole arsenal in his attic. Also check out r/liberalgunowners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:00 PM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:57 PM
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Q4W: would you ever date a gun owner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:44 PM
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That’s the second time today I’ve randomly see Shaun the sheep!! Am I going crazy here??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:43 PM
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I’m starting to think that when people say “be friends first”, they really mean be friends with benefits first and not get so serious or exclusive too soon. I’m really struggling to understand how a 100% platonic friendship with no affection or attraction can just magically turn into a relationship. A relationship with pure sexual attraction and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:55 PM
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I’ve been on a few dates but that’s it. I literally haven’t had anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:40 AM
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Pirates also elected their captains and let women in their ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:39 AM
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Q4All: Maximum and minimum age limits for your ideal partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:05 AM
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Bush!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:58 PM
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What if I really want to kiss someone but don’t have anyone special at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:34 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:33 PM
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Does it really matter who your first kiss/lost virginity is with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:26 PM
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Let’s assume in this perfect world it does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:23 AM
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Q4All: which society would be most ideal: One where the government pays for necessities through taxes (like housing, food, education, healthcare, water, sanitation, ect.)? Or a society where those things are made cheaper by the free market?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:09 AM
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There’s a crying filter?? How useless lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:00 PM
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According to Reddit, 99.999%. Soap hasn’t been invented yet and women naturally smell good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:12 PM
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Wtf is a horny sociopath??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:45 PM
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The jury is still out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:43 PM
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Some dudes are not attractive enough and need to focus on themselves first. Otherwise they’ll be shooting in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:40 AM
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It’s because you’re honest. People respect honesty because it keeps them safe and allows them to make decisions better. Most guys who try to be nice end up being only nice instead of honest. This comes off really bad as you might expect. Nobody in the history of ever has been 100% all of the time!! Sometimes rudeness is needed. Especially if the person is screwing you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:29 AM
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Bwahahahahaahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:48 AM
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These guys have zero self respect. “Women are evil people who will divorce rape you, Choose only the hottest men possible with no flaws, and will cheat on you! But we still wanna date them and you should too!” It’s absolutely ridiculous. Just accept that good people are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:23 PM
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*Never met one who took their mask off
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:36 PM
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Two things can be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:29 PM
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Well no shit. It’s obvious to anyone with eyes. These women are insecure about their own weaknesses so they pick on others who they perceive as weaker. When I was 12 and living in California, I got into a few fights with kids who picked on me. Was it the tall football players, or Mexican ghetto kids (these guys were super nice btw)? No it was always the skinny guys who couldn’t even bench the fucking bar if they tried. They feel the need to prove they’re strong so bad that they’ll commit assault…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:26 PM
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Yes. Assuming she’s attractive. A hot 48 year janitor at my former workplace got all the attention from the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:09 AM
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You’re speaking for yourself man. Sure I’m not attracted to elderly women, but there’s more hot 45+ than you think out there. I agree that it’s not always about power dynamics but whenever I hear Redpillers talk about this along with game and how women will ruin your life in every way possible I gotta wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:07 AM
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I can’t be the only one who thinks that majority of Reddit is wildly out of touch with reality right? Especially with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:27 PM
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How’d you get the star shapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:26 PM
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Bro did you forget about gay marriage? Bet you can’t explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:45 PM
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I don’t. It literally comes up with these dudes. I hang around normal blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:54 PM
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I’ve got some unfortunate news, they’re hiding it from you. Redpill shit almost always comes up when I talk with a new group of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:35 PM
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It doesn’t matter either way. Why would you want someone who’s desire is low enough to avoid fucking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:27 PM
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For me, if it’s an in person relationship, if we go a 2 weeks without non sexual intimacy like kissing, that’s too long and usually she’s uninterested at that point. If we go more than say 2 months without sex after meeting, than I’d say she’s not interested and I’m getting played at that point. I specify sex longer because we’d have to both be on board, get tested, and discuss boundaries. Also just for the record, even though I’m a virgin, the women who were attracted to me wanted to move thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:27 PM
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So what is it you want then? Women who are easy with every guy, but also low body count, and are mentally stable? Help me understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:19 PM
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This is Reddit you’re talking about. Nobody has their own lives lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:14 PM
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Maybe you shouldn’t date women who have hookups then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:11 PM
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You can like someone, be attracted to them, but still wanna vet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:01 PM
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Are relationships where sex happens quickly, as successful as those who wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:58 PM
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I have zero qualms about waiting for sex as a man. I have had women come on to me way too strong too early and it turned me off. I say this as a high libido man. I would personally make a girl wait for sex until we get to know each other better and get tested. With that said, waiting too long is an obvious turn off. I was in a “relationship” with a girl who made me wait eternally. We broke up and never got intimate at all. Sometimes the honesty falls on the person making the other person wait. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:54 PM
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They way they look. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:37 PM
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I absolutely care about women I date having a job. Doesn’t need to be corporate or white collar but she has to support herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:06 PM
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Two words. Uhaul lesbians. No it’s not a porn genre lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:36 AM
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So helpful :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:29 PM
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How does a first kiss even happen in a relationship? When should you even make the first move? Does god himself just smoosh 2 people’s faces together?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:25 PM
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I feel bad for her. She got death threats for a song that she didn’t even write.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:19 PM
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The problem is most female popstars are not chosen for their singing ability. It’s because they’re sexualized and bring in money. There are many great female singers imo who have a fantastic range and performance. They’re just not as heard of because the industry values novelty vs talent. I don’t prefer male or female singers. I like both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:16 PM
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Omg they’re getting stupider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:00 PM
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I play only classic games and Roblox so I can’t relate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:54 PM
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Bro just needs to lose weight and get some testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:53 PM
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You literally just did lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:57 PM
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One of the rare posts on this sub with more upvotes than comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:12 PM
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I agree. One thing I will say is women themselves are far more aware of the tactics other women use to manipulate and lie then men are. They’re not blinded by sex like most men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:11 AM
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I see you’re conveniently ignoring my brothel example lol. You are literally advocating for sex work which involves money! Even in a casual sexual relationship there is desire. There is no desire on the end of the prostitute. She just needs to pay rent. And maybe you need to go meet more sex workers because you will find quite a few have been abused as kids/teens. If you don’t believe that, surely you must at least believe that they get abused at their workplaces right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:08 AM
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I agree up until your last statement. Men who view women as only sex objects will do so whether or not women post nudes on the internet. It’s on the dudes to realize that some women don’t want to be as sexualized as others. That’s the whole point of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:50 AM
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I’m curious what you think about women or couples who upload their stuff to the internet as opposed to being employed to porn companies. Yeah they probably wont make much money but it’s safer right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:39 AM
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You cannot pay a woman to love you. If that’s something you’re cool with fine but I’m telling you right now most girls who go into sex work have likely been abused and also get abused at their jobs. I live in a state where brothels are legal (but I’ve never been or will ever go) and the girls get 50-75% of their pay taken by the brothel. She has to charge insane prices to make a living. Thousands and thousands of dollars. The brothels will also avoid calling police on rowdy customers to avoid dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:31 AM
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You will take the advice! And will also make me a chicken sandwich!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:52 PM
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I’ve come to realize the true key to happiness in life is variety. Doing the same thing everyday will never make you happy. Even something as simple as trying a new hobby can make life better. Sounds simple enough but you’d be surprised to see how many people just keep doing boring shit and wonder why their life sucks and they’re depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:35 PM
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Probably not. Which is why the analogy sucks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:15 AM
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I’ve been hit on by gay dudes as a straight man so many times. Not once did I feel weird, uncomfortable, or offended. All I said was no and they respected it. Maybe these women are just uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:50 AM
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No wtf? That sounds extremely creepy and unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:08 AM
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This post reeks of inexperience lol. You’re just finding awful women. Why don’t you think that women are trying to find the same thing? Plenty of breakup subs are filled with women. I’ve even met women in mental hospitals who have attempted suicide because of a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:12 AM
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Teach me your ways!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:07 AM
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Which types of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:51 PM
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People still read magazines?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:49 PM
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Sorry but what does an indoor pole vault have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:42 PM
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That’s a little bit dramatic. How is that not having respect for oneself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:39 PM
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American culture pretty much rewards selfishness and rudeness. But that’s more of a human nature problem and we can’t really do anything about that besides shaming people. Selfishness is unfortunately seen as a virtue in American society. From the citizen level to large corporations. We simply have zero grasp about this. Also nobody dresses immodest in your country cuz it’s cold as fuck lmao. Not that I have a problem with how anyone dresses. Wear whatever you want. Idgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:36 PM
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She’ll probably meet someone who will actually go psycho on her. I’ve seen it happen before and it’s not pretty. All it takes is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:59 PM
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Q4All: Have you ever known a women who abused her boyfriend or husband? What happened? Did she get punished?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:48 PM
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Alcohol makes people violent. This is why I require my future wife to be alcohol free. Or at least not being an alcoholic. Preferably alcohol free.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:04 AM
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Someone needs to take care of that child. Legally it’s its own person once out of the womb. Tell me why a man who choose to fuck without a condom shouldn’t pay for a kid because he acted stupid? Who else will pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:02 AM
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Define too much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:26 AM
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Ops example was definitely a man looking for approval. Otherwise he wouldn’t be seeing escorts and asking the same questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:48 AM
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That sounds a little sad. If I don’t like someone, I’m not going to have sex with them. You do you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:47 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s conditioning. Just immaturity. Setting boundaries is a skill you gotta learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:46 AM
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Humans naturally want validation even if it’s from someone they supposedly “hate”. A lot of this hate is really just bitterness and resentment towards modern women. They’re upset that modern women can have a lot of things that they can’t such as a rich social life, plenty of dating options, and just popularity in general. A lot of this bitterness and resentment would leave if these women gave these men a chance. Otherwise they wallow in their own pity. It’s ok to be jealous and feel sad that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:43 AM
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Would you take a 5’10 or 5’11 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:19 AM
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She looks exactly like Chappell Roan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:35 AM
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That’s literally what I’m saying. Telling guys to be any kinder and they’re striving towards an unrealistic goal. We are in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:00 AM
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So then we’re in agreement that kindness isn’t enough then? Other things matter a little more?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:59 AM
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I’m saying that only focusing on kindness and morality is not enough. Reddit seems to think it is. You should still be kind. It’s just not enough. You need attraction and compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:56 AM
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So how kind does someone need to be to get a date? What’s their issue if they meet that kindness but still fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:51 AM
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Some women even agree with what the men here say. Can we please stop pretending all women have the same feminist views in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:39 AM
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You’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:36 AM
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Ironically, mother Teresa was an abusive piece of shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:32 AM
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So then at what point should you realize your problem isn’t being kind enough? Nazis, crusaders, and murderers have had wives. Same with moral people. Something is missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:31 AM
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I agree that it can be off putting to some people. But we’re talking about morality here. Everyone will have different views on morality so it doesn’t make sense that a guy will struggle with most women because of his beliefs or actions. Not all Christians want to date every Christian. There’s other things to take into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:28 AM
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Not really. You’re talking about 2 different requirements here. I can want pizza. However I don’t want every pizza. And some types pizzas I like aren’t always the same. Likewise, it’s ok for women to like a 30 year old guy and have other requirements for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:24 AM
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Reddit and this sub never seem to understand this concept. Some women don’t want anyone under 6’? “You go queen!” Some guys don’t wanna date anyone fat or trans? “You bigot! Date them right now!” Leaving anyone or not wanting to date anyone is ok for any reason. Even if it’s because they eat their French fries weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:48 AM
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Funny enough, the most obnoxious feminists I’ve met had no hair dye, tattoos, or piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:24 PM
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You’re mom and teachers told you that. Not your female peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:24 AM
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I didn’t realize being liberal meant you had to change your preferences. I’m a moderate and even I can understand it. You can say it’s ok for men to do traditionally feminine things but not want to date them. I can still fight for gay and trans rights but not wanna date them. What’s your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:22 AM
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Yeah. Two x just has an inferiority complex and will risk their lives to prove their “better than men”. Don’t interrupt your enemies when they’re making mistakes 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:41 PM
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They’re referring to dating. They have it easy in dating but not life in general. I saw someone on a black pill forum that “Women can just get a hot guy to live with if they’re homeless.” I know a couple women who’ve been sexually assaulted as a result of men offering them housing. Funny how dudes claiming women have easy lives ignore that small detail. Women may get offered things, but are still taken advantage of more so than guys. At best they get scam and worse they get hurt/abducted/etc. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:22 PM
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Hey I’m definitely not a cow 🐄 but that grass looking fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:27 PM
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It has to be the dumbest thing on that sub and this one. I didn’t realize how many women expect all men to be murderous navy seal combat specialists. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:14 PM
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That’s what I thought too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:08 AM
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I’ll address your nonsense when you give me a source that a drunk man like that is more likely to hit a woman. Otherwise you’re dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:49 AM
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Well said. These women are in lala land and cannot understand how real world violence works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:36 AM
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