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| 4 | I get irrationally angry when I get the slow fade. I know its an ego issue, How do I control my ego?How does one fix that though? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Escalating to kissYea we were having lost of eye contacts and laughs but I didn’t feel it this time around. It just seemed different. Will keep it mind for next time though. Not going to do it through questions next time lol | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Escalating to kissYea soft nexting her. Going to let her reach out if she wants to. And I couldn’t do that lol we were in the back seat of my car, which might have played a role in it. Not entirely comfortable with being out in public and escalating so I just keep dates to staying in the car and escalating there. Guess I need to step out of my comfort zone more | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Escalating to kissYea most likely. I kinda just went in for it after the kiss, didn’t really ‘ask’ but guess she figured I was i was a bit nervous. I also feel like I lost quite a bit of attraction by talking too much through out the night lol. Felt that I talked more about myself than she talked about herself. Any tips on being more silent and not talking too much? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting sexual on first dateI feel a lot of girls won’t have sex with me the first date. At least by the second they will. Should I wait out till the second and relax but keep the kino and kissing up in the first? Or just keep trying to push it on the first date? I tried to reach into her pants but she said too far, didn’t wanna get hit with a rape charge tbh but she let me rub it through her pants lol | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Getting sexual on first dateThey seem to do it though, since we meet up through apps. Any suggestions on how to avoid it? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Getting sexual on first dateYea, I’m starting to believe this. Suppose it’s a simple case of LMR, didn’t want to force anything on her because she said “too far” when i tried to reach into her panties to finger her, but she let me rub it through her pants lol. Should’ve tried again after the handjob/blowjob | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Getting sexual on first dateI got hit with LMR when trying to reach into her panties so was hesitant tbh, but we kept making out giving her her validation. Which is most likely where I fucked up | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 02:43 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to “don’t tell me what to do”?lmao i did she’s like “stop being aggressive i wanna have a nice cute wholesome night” About to just say “alright I’ll see ya at 7” | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Interacting with women/people and being less anti-socialYea I’m like that sometimes. It’s inconsistent, some days I’ll feel it and it’ll just come out, other days I don’t feel it at all lol. Either I have to feel a certain way on that day or just have a certain vibe from the girl | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Interacting with women/people and being less anti-socialI get all that, but talk about what? I’ve always seen getting them to talk about themselves and building on that, but either I don’t truly know how to, or I’m asking the wrong questions. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Interacting with women/people and being less anti-socialMy humor is okay, nothing spectacular unless something funny happens. And in terms of speaking standards, I always think what I’m saying is boring and I need to try to say other things that are interesting/evoke emotion. I also believe I just wasn’t truly feeling it last night. And at the club, I was just sloppy drunk, all I wanted to do was drink and celebrate my birthday lol. I know one way would be meditating, got any other suggestions? | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Interacting with women/people and being less anti-socialGives me a way to easily bring up questions regarding sex and what not. I also read about it on here. Has worked in the past for me, might be weak though. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?Index funds? I thought ETFs, if you pick the right ones of course, were generally better? Not an expert in anyway. Any input? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Got told to respect women...yea I didn’t really think of it as much lol. 2nd women to ever tell me it but the first of those two i took out lol. thanks for the help! going to try to use DARE now instead of DEER | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Got told to respect women...Alright, how would you set a date up? I told her a day and place, told her the time to be there by so I can come pick her up. Worded it, “Yea thursday works, get off at so and so, be there by 7! I’ll pick you up” I told her to text me before whenever she leaves her place so I know when to head out. She didn’t but while waiting for me in the cold I told her “find a store and go inside” | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Got told to respect women...Could you elaborate on number 2 and 3 please? Like give details, I must be bossy in texts honestly. Could you give me two examples, one bossy and saying what I want? Like meeting me at a spot and taking a train that’ll be easiest to get there and what not is what I usually say. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Got told to respect women...honestly i’ve told everyone in my family they gotta earn my respect yet when i’m trying to make my way into pussy i didn’t even think about it lol oh well, next time i hear this i know what to say | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Got told to respect women...To be fair, she seemed a bit much from the start with the shit she was saying lol. One example: she went off on game of thrones for using rape as a plot building thing. It's a fucking show, who cares what they do lmao... She also tried to shut me down when I was talking about my degree being easy because everyone cheats lol. My gut kind of told me as soon as she sat in the car I wasn't going to enjoy the night but I went with it | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Got told to respect women...I tell myself this all the time but in the moment never think this. Going to try it more, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Got told to respect women...I haven't really said anything showing I was a douche lmao | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Got told to respect women...Really? I'm from New York lol | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Got told to respect women...Past that point lol, not hitting her up anytime soon. Just for reference, what would have been a good response? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 03:28 AM |
| 11 | Got told to respect women...Just making sure my social autism isn’t making me seem like a dick when I mean no harm. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 02:14 AM |
| 2 | I'm a typical Indian nerdI’ve rebelled against my family for years, always trying to not let them dictate my life. Old pakistani traditional muslim parents. Any suggestions on anything i can do on top what I already am? My brother also seems to take their sides making it about 10x harder. Moving out is a big option but seeing as I have a year left in college, I’d rather wait and do something else and save money. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Girlwill do. is that simply from the fact that she’s flaked that many times and i’ve let it slide only to keep attempting to set it up? probably more than that now that i think of it lol | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How's my tinder approach?Oh no I haven’t been texting her lol, it says that in her tinder bio. I just texted her a little for logistics and haven’t said anything since. I like that, might give it a try in person and see what she says. I was just planning on bringing her bio up and saying one of those things as a slight sexual tease to initiate some kissing | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How's my tinder approach?Alright gotcha. Just out of curiosity, her tinder bio says “Asian brains with a Latina body,” would saying something along the lines of “Latina body usually means a nice big ass” in some type of context be a nice tease? Still new to flirting/teasing but thought that’d be a good one after a while of talking cause she’d either deny and say she has one or agree and amplify it herself and that’s where I look her in the eye, smile and pull her in to make out or something lol | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How's my tinder approach?So do I just pick her up, find a nice secluded spot in the car, tell her to come to the back and slowly escalate while talking? It’s worked for me before but that was because I did something with them beforehand but I really don’t want to with this girl lol. Might just take her to play pool and say “if I win this game you owe me a kiss” or something which I’ve done before too lol | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How's my tinder approach?Don’t exactly have a place to bring her to lol, live with parents. Just planned on taking her to some dark area in my car and fuck her in the car, as uncomfortable as it gets, only place I can really fuck | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How's my tinder approach?Can confirm, I’m the idiot. Thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:18 PM |
| 0 | How's my tinder approach?Yea, just going to message her whenever she's here saying "ill come pick you up and then lets hook up" | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How's my tinder approach?I haven't confirmed that she's down to fuck but would assume so from the messages. Also, I'd have to take her in the car, can't have girls over, live with parents. Figured it'd be a better idea to get food before to ease into it, might just pick her up and go straight to a nice spot instead and start making out. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How's my tinder approach?Yea that’s true, I’ve found a few true to actually following through. She seems like a slut tbh, her ig comments and stories from what I’ve seen make it seem so. Her recent story was someone asking her how she let someone hit and she claimed the guy was a child and she didn’t let him. Seeing as how she is out there about stuff like that, I’m guessing she is lol. Should I hit her up and say “let’s grab food and hook up after” when she’s here and ready to meet, if she is? Would probably make the c… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Age of consent in New YorkAlright. I just wanted to make sure there was no possibility of me getting in trouble. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Age of consent in New YorkNot worried so much, just checking up on a minor thing. I have other options, just seeing if this could be an addition. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl and me snapping back and forthShe knows for sure lol, it’s just a matter of time before it happens and she lives kinda far from, 50 min in New York. She was 100% down i had kept sending her sexual innuendos and she kept responding positively. It might just be the fact that she was busy getting her shit out of her dorm and saying bye who knows. Time will tell I’m going to take long times to open and respond to her snaps now | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl and me snapping back and forthshe was away at her dorm and I was waiting for her to come back home, that was our plan. im going to finish up with finals and message her to come over and if no response im done from there | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Girl and me snapping back and forthThat's where I thought I fucked up. Well not asking for anymore from here on out. And i'll keep snapchat but not snap girls constantly, just keep it for friends. I needa stop being an idiot | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I fix internal game?Action as in approaching females and trying to game/escalate and failing constantly? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceYea was a last ditch effort on my part, shouldn’t have but won’t next time with any other girl. I’ll let her hit me up to chill again but I won’t initiate anymore plans with her. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceTrue. Maybe I came off as too much of a nice guy and didn’t give her the tingles to want to fuck me, instead just be attracted to me and waste my time. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceYea you’re right. I keep getting blind sided by the fact that I may get laid. I’ll be more used to it soon enough anyway. She knows I’m fine with not having sex with her and I straight up told her it’s a number game to me and I’m not upset at her. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceIve tried, her definition of fun according to her was “getting out there in life with guys but not having to sleep with the guy” to which I agreed but knew deep down it was bullshit. Giving her one more chance and if she doesn’t put out I’m done here. It was a slow step in the right position anyway with me finally not being a pussy to escalate and make out with her, used to be scared, getting less and less scared now. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceYea I just said “it’s cool, no worries” and left it at that. She responded with “:)” lol | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date, need some adviceShe just texted me saying, "I should've stayed and kissed you more -_-" and then "I feel so bad because we're at such different places/point with this" What should I even respond to that... Thinking of saying, "as I assured you before, I'm fine with it" but feel like that's coming off as too nice | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | “Wow what’s wrong with fat girls”Makes me come off as an asshole, I like it | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 08:31 PM |
| -1 | “Wow what’s wrong with fat girls”Scarcity mentality and trying to secure a sure thing once she’s in town I suppose, haven’t fucked or approached in a while due to school but spring break is coming up going to change that | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 08:30 PM |
| 0 | “Wow what’s wrong with fat girls”I’m responding to her very carelessly and days after she texts me since she doesn’t live here. From my personal opinion, she can tell I don’t really care and she seems interested, but in essence, yes I am cause she doesn’t live in New York, rather lives in New Jersey and visits once in a while so I’m just keeping in touch | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Question on frame with tinder girlYea was thinking of saying, "Only one way to find out, what's your number?" and text her for logistics | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?I always knew to use agree and amplify but didn’t think of it at the time. Oh well I’m getting practice so it’s whatever in the end I don’t mind. Thanks for the advice going to keep it mind next time | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?Any tips to better my text game or just game in general? I’ve heard all these people say “just be yourself” and what not but I don’t think that’ll work lol | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?She started it by saying “I could flame you for saying what you said before” and I said “ok flame me? Lmao” and that’s where it all started | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Muslim Family and me trying to change myselfYea I’m on break right now so shouldn’t be an issue that i’m out sometimes. But he seems to have an issue everyday. Going out to the mall at 11am? He has an issue. And of course any time i’ve drank before i’ve made sure to not drink a lot and wait a long time after the last drink before driving | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?What do you mean by false time-constraint? and yea i feel like i came off as too caring in our last interaction also making her back off a bit lol | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?LMAO too late for that shit this girl is legit broken. I thought i was but once i got to know her i started changing the view on myself that I had. she has some jewish guy she fucks on the side and she pretty much makes out with any guy around her while she’s drinking. and clothing? she loves to wear no bra and shows off a lot of cleavage. her father died a while back, clearly showing she has no one to keep her in control. when i think about her i sometimes feel bad then remember she isn’t my pr… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?I guess my justification for being somewhat attached is, as dumb as it seems, because she’s the girl i had my first kiss with and would’ve been the one i lost my virginity to and is also Paki like me, but whatever i’m not wasting time on her. had oneitis but time to get rid of it. if anything, after break maybe but for now ima try to game other girls and work on myself during the break | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?Yea shoulda realized the constant need to look/stare at me was either her way of leading me on or feening for attention/validation. Thanks for taking the time to reply | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?Even if she doesn’t respond to my text I sent a while ago? She did it twice but played the first one off as “I forgot to send the message” lol but never responded the second time around | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Attempt to have sex again with girl?I was thinking of waiting to see her in person and striking a convo and seeing where it goes from there. Can't tell whether that'd be a good idea or just texting "Hey we haven't spoken in a while, lets catch up over coffee this Saturday night" or something along those lines | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Frame, confidence and home problemsYea I do give too much of a fuck. Used to not but that was back in the day now I started caring more. Ill start meditating consistently and will read that book as well, thank you bro! | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Frame, confidence and home problemsWould this help me in aspects of trying to explain myself in front of people too? Can't tell if that's emotion or impulse but I will pick up meditating | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Frame, confidence and home problemsGotta work on the frame part. But tell me one thing please, I have been working out, is the main concept of lifting to make a person look physically strong which'll then convert to mental confidence too? I have the physical part down, gotta get that mental part down. Been working out for 2 years now almost | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Nexted girl then we made outyea I'm trying. don't want to make her wait too long like last time again lmao i'll just wait till monday and les see what happens. learning as i go | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Nexted girl then we made outi guess what I was trying to get at was whether I should text her or wait till we're face to face considering I did send the last message | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Nexted girl then we made outI thought about that. But don't really think Im completely there yet. Might head there if i don't escalate the next making out session we have if we have one. Just want to make sure she's sober that time around because it seems she clearly has something for me. It's my first time doing this anyway so Im just learning slowly. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Nexted girl then we made outI didn't talk to her, only said hey at times thinking she wanted nothing to do with me. then she approached me and started talking to me | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Nexted girl then we made outDowned half the bottle. Changed the format up anyway. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 05:40 AM |
| -2 | Nexted girl then we made outmeh wrote it on mobile, i thought it was fine | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campus, v2plus she asked me to massage her back and i said no cause i didn't want to lol might have been her trying to see if she can still lead me or or an invitation to kino but i personally didn't want to so i didnt | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campus, v2to be honest i haven't even flirted much with her, kept the kino to a bare minimum, literally only had my hand on her inner thigh. all i talked about was life and she kept breaking the comfort by asking "so how's everthing" all while i relaxed and she kept breaking eye contact dotting her eyes everywhere while i kept mine. i think it's my fault there and if next interaction i do get flirty and much more kino in it might be salvaged. i was technically put on through her friend in a sense. she see… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campus, v2she just texted me saying "sorry if i made you feel awkward, i just didn't feel like it was the right time just then, i just didn't want it to be forced and over thought" wtf does this bitch mean | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campus, v2she's still going to talk to me in person now and then, how should i respond? still try to escalate or just keep calm and not show any interest? i originally wanted to hit and quit then realized she's smart and chill to be around shortly realizing she's a fucking bitch at times yet still relaxes me cause she's smart idek how to explain | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat storiesyea it is honestly i've gotten rid of the aspect of using instagram so i don't seek it but after adding girls on snap i figured what could go wrong. i still find myself checking if they're seeing the stories or not. slowing getting out that habit too | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?damn too late lmao, i just responded with "damn all those youtube tutorials for nothing" and she said "lol" i'm not gonna say anything till she initiates now gonna go game other girls | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?yea i responded with "ok i got you" and she responded today morning with "i was kidding btw" idk what to say to that lol | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?she hit me up with "i was kidding btw" today morning lol i was thinking of saying "trust me sweety, if i took everything literally in life it would be no fun" | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?she definitely is interested but i feel like she's playing games, regardless i'm not going to hit her up till she hits me up and i'm definitely not making her chai fuck that i've been in her frame for long enough from our past interactions | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?should i respond? was thinking "we'll see, let me know before hand" | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?i told her i might make plans for yesterday but didn't follow thru lol but i already kissed her once i'm just gonna say "we'll see, keep me posted" | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I made this girl cryhow do i get the past out of my mind? the fact that my whole life my family has been fucked up and none of us get along. i usually keep it forward about that don't do break down but then some days it just happens out of nowhere | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I made this girl cryyea i don't know how, it's a family thing and they're so set on thinking it's all good but i'm gonna start meditating it'll prolly help a lot | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | I made this girl cryyea panic attack and a rush of emotions got the best of me, i'm soft nexting till she hits me up doubt it tho anyway lmao | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I made this girl cryyea i know i'm invested in her way too fucking much, just going to text her happy birthday and leave it at that. if she wants to hang out after she can hit me up | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I made this girl cryyea that's what i was thinking but then i see that she wants me to walk with her and she just felt comfortable around me and cared about me. might not be ruined at all dunno | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I made this girl crytowards the end i said we talked and she seemed fine about it, and responded to my text so i should just continue and try to take her out still? she seems incredibly into me by the shit she was doing on that saturday lmao | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl on campusaight ima take her somewhere fun and start making out with her let's see what happens | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl on campusyea regardless she responded to me telling her to hang out next week with "(: sounds good" so let's see | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl on campusyea honestly i'm an idiot she would always stare at me for the last year and i just never made a move and this other girl i hang out with hinted towards trying to get us together so there's that. she acts awkward around me while with friends too but more if she's alone around me | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl on campusi don't think i necessarily messed up, just there was no way/reason for her to respond to my message. she always says hi to me in person seems genuinely happy and winked at me a while back. i think there was just nothing to say to my text but i may be wrong. like she responded with "(: sounds good" when i told her ill be free next week and ill keep her posted | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl on campusyea idk i figured she'd be playful next time she sees me idk what i was thinking. anyway it doesn't bother me i'm just going for experience now first time i've done this. and yea definitely i guess i took the brag and confidence. i told her what the guy above told said, "hey, so i'm busy this weekend but i want to hang out soon, possibly next friday, i'll keep you posted 👍" and if she responds then it's set if she doesn't respond then ima just move on. although i don't know if that'd be the righ… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campusalso, i texted her, if she doesn't respond i guess it isn't happening or wait till i text again to set it up? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campusyea got a midterm next week and some stuff this weekend, thinking if saying "hey so i'm really busy this weekend but i want to hang out soon, possibly next friday, i'll keep you posted" | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campusill ask her out for next friday, prolly will do it next week but should i text or ask in person? going to guess asking in person is better | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campushow would i go about making this correct? maybe starting a convo with her in person next time and joking around and asking her out? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl on campuslol how do i salvage this? thought i was being flirty rude but guess not lol, knew women were sensitive but didn't know they were this sensitive. she's definitely a wild girl by the way i've seen her act and the shit i've heard she does, ie; drinks like crazy and smokes, | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 01:56 AM |
| 0 | “All Women Are Whores”Ok so part of what you said has been on my mind a lot lately. I'm 20, go to college and live in NYC but live with incredibly religious/strict muslim parents. They don't let me out after 9 no matter what the occasion, and call me throughout the day asking my whereabouts and who i'm with what i'm doing etc . If I ever bring it up, my father, who keep in mind has actually drank and smoked and done a lot of shit before in his life, says "I've experienced this life more than you and I don't want you … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Liftingyea, clear that it's a byproduct of slacking. your post inspired me not to be a retard and i thank you for that, going to keep this in mind and get my shit together | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Lifting40-50 g P 10-25 g CHO Can you elaborate? Shouldn't I have a lot of protein when eating at a caloric deficit? And won't that amount of cards make me extremely weak? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Liftingnah don't feel comfortable putting physique photos just yet | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | LiftingYea I used to lift in highschool before I started actually hitting the gym and all I did was bench lol I guess strength carried on from there. I just wanted to lose the fat since I'm at about 20-25% body fat percentage. Think I should try to cut once and for all or just go straight to clean bulking and find a better program | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | LiftingTo try and lose fat. Have a slight gut along with a bit of fat in the face and legs. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | LiftingHonestly, I was getting strong, then tried to cut and failed at it for a while so a bit of both right now. I have definitely gotten stronger since I started and gotten bigger though | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Lifting171 pounds, was squatting 225 pounds benching 225 and deadlifting 235 pre cut, the numbers have gone down a bit not too much though. 20 years old and 5'9 | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | LiftingIt's fine I don't care what anyone says. 5'9 171 pounds. My training routine has been the same for a while could be it. Have been planning on changing once I lose the fat and doing a better split. Just do a body part per day split right now. But yea I guess I should really get this whole losing weight situation over with and it should probably change everything. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | LiftingI have a decent diet, if I follow it. 2 eggs in the morning, a buffalo chicken breast sandwich during the day, and after training I usually do a protein shake and a meal prepped burrito bowl. Around 1800~ calories with about 160ish grams of protein. Main issue was I would relapse and end up eating something bad because I'd have nothing to eat around and would be starving and still live with family so my mom tends to bring around horrible unhealthy snacks | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | LiftingA little more confident, a little more energy. Nothing significant though. I may just be doing it wrong. Been trying to cut 15 pounds for a while and haven't been successful, always end up relapsing and eating a lot leaving me little to no progress at the gym which I thought could have been the problem. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | LiftingWouldn't say I'm not confident per say, had a lot of issues with that before. Slowly recovering but not really all that confident as I feel I should be. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | LiftingWhat I thought it could be was the fact that I've been trying to cut 15 pounds for a long time now and haven't been successful leaving me little to no progress at the gym. It crossed my mind but wasn't too sure. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | LiftingYep | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | LiftingYea exactly what I'm saying. Mentally feel the same, a bit superior to others who don't have muscles but other than that nothing really. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:04 PM |
| 2 | "Yea you're pretty cute"put it that way, maybe i did think about needing it, wrong on my end, know better for next time | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | "Yea you're pretty cute"copy | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 03:26 AM |
| 0 | "Yea you're pretty cute"Don't need anything from her. Just curious how to change any girls view from "pretty cute" to better, im personally fine with where i stand right now was just a question out of curiosity | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Botox and body weight/muscle strengthSweating. I literally have pools of sweat under my arms minutes after putting my shirt on the first time in a day. Hyperhidrosis is what it's called i believe. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motheri could just start working for a few years, save up, move out and have financial aid take care of everything if i prove that i'm living alone. they don't give me anything given that i live with parents right now, considering that right now. transferring isn't going to help, took a few computer science course classes already and gpa dropped a bit, going to of course for us and try to raise it but doubt i could get anywhere. i honestly feel like i could deal with her for 3 more years at least if a… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motheri do that, then her and my brother show up to my room lol, it's fucking retarded. im get looked down upon as the disrespectful one in the family because i'm the only one who goes against what they say, don't follow their direct orders, and do what i feel like doing. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling mothergets looked at as disrespectful by whole family, even when i try to cook myself stuff i get the whole "i cook for you, do you not love me enough to eat the food i make?" | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motherhe cares too much to do that, wants to make sure my brother also benefits and me and him both know it won't work out. plus i personally don't want to live with him either, same thing, controlling tendencies, guilt trip bullshit. i come from a middle eastern family... | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motheryea doing computer science. nyu is pretty expensive, already taking loans out to pay off the 3.4k tuition since mother has a spending problem as well making it hard to pay this tuition off alone lol, pretty sure it's the cheapest tuition, live a few blocks away from the school anyway | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motheryea i've been trying to just focus on myself but the minute i sit down to do something school related, or healthy food related, she either has something against it or has something for me to do which is completely unnecessary. but yea the atmosphere is horrible and i'll try to take your advice, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motheri'm going to look for a job, but considering i live in NYC it'll be hard paying rent and all that stuff. i'm in second year of college, originally wanted to dorm but family was all against it given that they're religious and think i'm gonna go sin my ass off or whatever. regardless though, living in nyc is expensive and as much as i'd like to break contact with family completely my dad pays for every single thing, i'm grateful for it and all it's just this mental stress from my mother that i'd l… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Middle Eastern girls and their staringyea that's what I was wondering mainly, whether I should take it as a compliment or nothing at all | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Middle Eastern girls and their staringthey're fairly good looking and all just really judge mental lol. all come from religious families and no matter how nice their parents can be, they're judge mental in one way or another. same shit with the males lol | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Middle Eastern girls and their staringlol, thanks for answering nevertheless | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Creatine useYea I did look into this. If that's the case I'd rather not. Thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women will treat you like garbage if you are low SMVNoobish question, but what are ways to improve SMV other than lifting and having goals? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Upbringing makes the child - YOU have to make the manThis hits right at home. Was grown up in a house with an arranged marriage, parents have never gotten along but never got divorced and have communicated through me and my brother. I feel you on the toll is takes on your life. If only they opened their eyes and noticed themselves. Only recently hit me all at once, how my life might've been different. Been reading around TRP for a while now and it's helping me change. Only now realizing I have to make the change to become the man I really want to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First ever cold approachYea who knows, I asked her last week, and she said she was busy. Hasn't replied in a week, obviously I'm not important enough for her, so no reason to waste my valuable time. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First ever cold approachWell I just tried again lol, texted her asking if she's free, and she ignored it. Just going to move on completely. Need to work on my initial interaction anyway, knew/felt it was weak when it happened. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 10:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First ever cold approachYea I texted her a while ago asking if she was free tomorrow, completely curved it. Regardless, I'm just happy I went through with it. Going to use this as the first building block in my journey. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number, texted her, 12 hours later no response?yea... trying to stay away from that as much as possible lol, i'm sure she knows or knew I used to like her idk | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number, texted her, 12 hours later no response?we just talked about school honestly, nothing else really. she seemed equally interested and seemed glad to see me. she was the one to even offer her number before I could even ask for it lol. we went to same high school, from same countries. i just found out what class she came, what math class she's in, where she's from, and her major that's about it lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number, texted her, 12 hours later no response?should I just say, "oh I noticed I didn't finish the whole message, but are you still down to get lunch next week?" or coffee or whatever, I asked for coffee and I don't even drink coffee lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number, texted her, 12 hours later no response?She never responded to the initial message so should I still ask for coffee? Feel like me texting her again, while she didn't respond the first time, would just make me seem needy | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls to chase me?yea religion does play a decent role in all this. parents are conservative I don't care, but I'm sure a lot of these Muslims girls eventually want that since their parents probably will force them into it. But yea I will definitely look into those books, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Could she be trying to avoid me?I mean ppl hinted towards it and stuff I just never went for it. should I just go for it tomorrow and see how she responds? | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Was going to make my first approach...alright cool, I just gotta get over it since I've had this oneitis for a while. she seemed perfect but I'm slowly learning she's not the only person I need in the world and I can live without her. just the anxiety of failing to approach constantly is what's killing me. thanks for advice though man appreciate it | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Approaching on campus/smilingAlright. I got nothing to lose and the world to gain. Hopefully this mentality stays in my mind next time I want to approach someone. | /r/seduction | 06/03/16 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I am a coward. Never realized how big my approach anxiety really is.in the exact same boat right now. just can't do it :/ | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Putting girls on pedestalsyea exactly what I was thinking. I was reading the 7 laws of seduction and got upto chapter 5, I'm going to start that now, thank you for input | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Putting girls on pedestalsNow that I think of it, that's the gist of it. I will look into your tips, thank you very much man. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Putting girls on pedestalsI can stop the thought but the actions afterwards are my concern. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | When she's with a friend?I'll probably end with asking whether she wants to hang out sometime for coffee or something before/after class and if she says yes get her number, if not then I'll just move on. just wasn't sure how to ask since I've only spoken to her for 5 minutes which was 2 years ago. but thanks for help I'll definitely ask one way or another | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | When she's with a friend?alright, I just didn't know whether I should ask for the 1 on 1 situation without ever initially talking to her since I'll probably only talk to her for 5 minutes before asking her to meet up and for her number. thanks for the help man. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | When she's with a friend?Just go through convo and end with, "hey you should give me your number so I can text you sometime when I'm free." Would that suffice or what should I say? Thanks for advice in advance btw | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | When she's with a friend?nah, 2nd half of freshman year in college. she's just always with her friend from high school | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | I am afraid to approach and talk to girls/women in my own country (Pakistan)Nah, parents are from pakistan, I was born here and pretty much pure american. Don't exactly follow the culture/religion, only to the extent of not eating pork or drinking alcohol | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | I am afraid to approach and talk to girls/women in my own country (Pakistan)I'm kinda on the same boat. Think this cute paki girl liked me for a while now, never knew what to do or anything, maybe because she was paki. Well then again I've never tried to approach girls in general so that might be it. But it's also that arranged marriage bullshit and you never know whether she believes in it or not and shit like that. Religion/cultures for Paki people really clouds their mind, and it's sorta annoying. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 02:04 AM |
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