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When you meet a woman, make a remark on something you can use later on. For example, I met a woman at a pharmacy last week. Her shirt had a picture of the woman from Thor that was a king. It had the word “queen” crossed out and king at the bottom. I made a remark about it, we discussed it and I got her number . A day later, I simply texted “wasn’t exactly sure about this Woman King movie coming out but could be fun with someone passionate about the subject” She responded with excitement and we h…
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:30 PM
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Pop some xans before you start moving to cocaine 💀
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:08 PM
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Alcohol doesn’t cause anyone to do something they wouldn’t do without it. If you can’t trust your partner with alcohol, there is a disaster there waiting to happen
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:22 AM
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I think you brought this up on yourself not making any moves in that first date. This could help you in your future dates. My first dates are kind of used as interviews and I am usually super honest with that. Before I set the day, I tell her I want us to spend some time together, take a walk or something and see if we are compatible. We are too grown to waste each other times. If it works out, let’s plan a real date. If it doesn’t well it doesn’t. That first date then is usually little to no co…
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:28 PM
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I think you need to learn to value and respect yourself bud. Have a sit down and ask yourself if she’s truly making you happy. I know from your description, it seems like you won’t be able to find anyone else but that’s not true. The time you’re wasting here could be use to find someone that’s more compatible with you. Also ONE HUNDRED? seriously?
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:52 AM
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Yea good advice but you definitely don’t want to make a woman feel important. With a woman you’re dating, maybe but someone you’re trying to seduce, absolutely not.
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:01 PM
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You are still not getting the point. Yes, they can survive handling those interactions but it doesn't mean they aren't tired from it. It is like how you've been at work dealing with people all day and you are finally off with time to yourself then bamn, someone else come and start another conversation. Most women don't mind but there are some who just wants to be left alone at the end of the day. So saying something to make sure they know you won't be staying too long could help. I thought this …
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:30 PM
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Why is everyone assuming I’m speaking of men hitting on them when I say they’re getting approach by people all day? Do you guys know how many people in general approach others during the day? I’m just saying they could be annoyed from having to deal with those people all day
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:15 PM
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You don’t want to make it seem like you’re going to bother them. That might be the 10th or 20th person approaching them that day and they might have had earlier experiences that put them in a terrible mood. A quick tip is before you say anything you want to say, start with “I have to leave in a minute but …” ,I have to go meet my friends soon but…” That takes the pressure off since they know you won’t be sticking around too long.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:26 AM
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Go ask and see if she’s interested. If she’s not, simply leave. If she is, good for you. It is that simple.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:46 PM
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You might not realize it but you’re doing a lot better at this game thing than most. From what I’ve gathered, you’re mostly yourself all the time, no games, no tricks, just being yourself and being as honest as possible. That’s what you truly want, especially if you want to form an important relationship with someone. Keep it up !
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:40 PM
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I think the mistake most people make with these is trying too hard to say something perfect. Just try to keep it light hearted and joke a little, even get corny. She’s clearly interested so this even makes it easier. You can push the boundaries a little. For this example. She’s talking about being guilty. What do you associate with being guilty? Crimes. Now all you have to do is make the connection between crime and making it sexual. You already said you can’t be held accountable with her in the…
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:17 AM
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Ideally when sexualizing a conversation, I try to let her do it. Essentially, I just over exaggerate things she say and use it to tease her. If you are quick with your words, the opportunity presents itself quite often.
/r/seduction18/08/22 09:01 PM
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It turns me on more than completely naked tbh. It’s exciting when your partner puts in the effort to dress up for you knowing you’re going to take it off
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:17 PM
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Not always. Most of my female friends have told me they smile at men they see to appear nice. Especially the ones who works in an office space said unless they’re smiling, people seem to think they have an attitude. It Carrie’s over to the real world. I have told some of them, smiling to a men might indicate that you’re interested so there’s no need. I guess it’s up to you to judge though. Look at her body language. Is she looking on your direction more often?
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:38 PM
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That’s a good way of looking at it that I didn’t think of. Thank you
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:04 AM
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They say it because it sounds good to say that. Most will give you a bunch of reasons and claim nice guys aren’t really nice or whoever claims to be nice isn’t nice. Some will go as far as making nice guys sound like they’re putting on a disguise. This doesn’t only apply to woman. It applies to man too. Most men will tell you they want that wife able woman because it sounds good but when they go out, they thirst over the easy, “slutty” looking type. In conclusion, they say it because it sounds m…
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:27 PM
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Which goes back to my comment about some girls don’t care whether you’re fake or not. As long as they can ride in the Ferrari, take a few pictures, show it off on instragram, etc… they’re hopping in. These are the same people that rent out studios to take pics that make it looks like they’re on private jets lol.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:57 PM
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Not necessarily. Back to the point I was making, genuine girls rarely care about those type of things. They care more about how you treat them and your personality as a whole over materialistic things. Of course, they like nice things too but it’s not their priority as long as you’re making an effort. With a decent place and nice car, you can pick up both the chicks that care about the materialistic things and the ones that don’t. This is purely for seduction reasons. For myself, I would rather …
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:45 PM
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Decent place.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:38 PM
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You can’t move your place around to pick up girls lol If you’re trying to go for the classic Instagram, social media obsessed chick, then the car. They would rather be seen in it, take pictures with it, etc.. But if you want a genuine long lasting relationship with someone, the house. Most of those girls don’t really care about all the flashy things as long as you keep it clean and maintained
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:27 PM
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Don’t hit on her right away. Just treat her like how you’ll treat any other person you want to get close to in the gym. Discuss gym related things. Be genuine. The problem women have with people approaching them at the gym is it seems as these people just see them as curvy bodies to get in. It’s obvious. You want to at least form a gym type relationship first before going into all that. Just a quick example. I had sort of a gym crush, she worked there but worked out from time to time. When she f…
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:14 PM
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You don’t necessarily need to bring up anything sexual at that moment. Essentially, if there is a conversation a woman starts that you don’t want to get into, just change the subject. For example, I don’t mind talking about how your day went or stuff like that but I don’t do it with woman I just met or I’m currently hitting on. That’s a sure path to the friend zone. When they start a conversation like those, just say anything flirtatious to change the conversation and bring something else up. Co…
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:39 AM
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It’s just a conversation bruv . If anything, you were probably not bringing up anything interesting to talk about and she wanted to help you out lol. I wouldn’t overthink it. If you do think it’s a conversation to have with your “gay best friend though”, just acknowledge it and change the subject to something that fits your narrative.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:30 AM
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Most of the time, people that suffer from talking too much just can’t accept silence. They think having silence in a conversation means awkwardness. Learn to leave that mindset behind. When there is silence, take that time to just look her in the eyes and wait for her to speak.
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:02 AM
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Maybe there is something off about your vibe bruv . Unless they’re in a relationship, most women give out their numbers really easily. They might not respond to you but getting the number is often the easiest part in my opinion
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:47 PM
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Why is this on seduction though….
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:59 AM
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Believe or not, better. I treat women I’m not attracted to better because I don’t have any agenda toward them. You do the same to a woman you’re attracted to and you end up in the zone that’s not to be mentioned lol
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:30 PM
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I remember the best and most confident I ever felt was when I completely cut out social media for a couple months. Unfortunately, I work in tech and it’s important for me to keep an online presence. You have to learn to accept yourself and be proud of your accomplishments. Set goals and standards for yourself. STOP COMPARING yourself to others. There will always be someone better than you if you look for them.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:02 PM
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Reading body language, knowing how to speak and when to speak, confidence, valuing yourself, marketing, etc… Pretty much everything in game that can be applied outside of seduction . You can even think of it as you seduce pretty much everyone. You just seduce them for different reasons. You seduce your interviewer for a job, new coworkers to be your friends, etc…
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:14 PM
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I will have to respectfully disagree with this. Of course looks matter. It’s part of game. You have to dress well, groom, smell good, stay in shape and do all you can to maximize your appearance but seduction isn’t all about looks. Online dating is. A woman can have a type that’s skinny men or tall men and you can be the opposite of that but still manage to seduce her. That’s literally what seduction is. If she already wants you without you having to try because you’re her type then there’s no n…
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:12 PM
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DMing someone and meeting up to have sex that same day says more about your looks than it does about your seduction skills. I completely understand everything you’re saying but this sub is literally for seduction. People want to actually seduce who they want. Yes, online dating might be easier as you’re essentially just swiping on each other like bodies on display but there is some sort of excitement that comes with cold approach. And cold approach builds a lot of qualities inside of you that yo…
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:57 PM
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Just ask them straight up. Nothing wrong with that. There used to be this girl in my gym that looked really good but I was never too sure how old she was. Before making a move, I simply asked how old she was. She was underage so I just left it alone. You can do that with any girl. The college jerseys could be from their older siblings or something. Don’t try to guess it, just ask.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:15 PM
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Nothing wrong with you speaking with the ages 18-21 but 15 bruv…I don’t know about that. I know you have good intentions but unless they’re relatives, I don’t see what business a 25 years old has with a 15 years old.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:05 PM
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I hear you and everything you’re saying right now. Since you seem to understand women better and know better and we are all wrong, don’t you think it might be more useful to actually give OP some advice to his particular situation instead of criticizing other people that are trying to do that?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:43 AM
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Don’t respond right away either. It makes it seem like you’ve been waiting for her to respond. Don’t address it at all. If she takes a day to respond, take 2 days. No one is too busy to respond to a simple text if they’re interested. If she continues to not show interest, I’ll say drop it. If you have her on social media, good. Here are your next steps. LIVE YOUR LIFE AND HAVE FUN. Post yourself having fun and doing you. If you have other female friends, go out with them and post it. You mention…
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:25 PM
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Someone mentioned porn and masturbation. I’ll say listen to that advice. There are some great natural remedies for this. I’ll say cut down on porn and masturbation for at least a week. When you’re ready to go again, eat some watermelon, dates, ginger. You can even blend them together. And try again.
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:05 PM
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No, don’t go confessing your feelings or anything like that. In fact, I know it can be tough but if you can, don’t go immediately. You can even find some way to not make it today and show some restraint. Once a woman knows you’ll come running whenever she asks, you lose her a little. It is sometimes difficult for women to express themselves like this though so you should show som excitement to the text as to not discourage her. You don’t have to do all this but it is just a way to be a little un…
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:28 PM
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You sometimes have to do and say things you don’t want to. For example, sometimes I honestly just want to be genuinely nice to a woman I meet, like on some friendship type of nice but still have a romantic relationship. We all know that doesn’t work. My biggest successes? Literally the woman I treat like I wouldn’t care if they dropped dead tomorrow. Sometimes I switch things up and act like a decent human being but then get reminded easily why the fuckboy attitude was needed lol. That’s just my…
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:40 PM
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This. I myself never dated any of them but a colleague of mine seems to move from one to another and he tells us this all the time. I’ve met a few of them, they seem to have this “I’m on top of the world energy” and not in a good way. They lack personality because of it. Also you’re definitely right about they look like regular folks without the makeup. My colleague invited me over once and I was SHOCKED when I saw her without makeup. She wasn’t ugly or anything close to that at all. She just lo…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:29 AM
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Beat your meat and then read this to yourself afterwards .
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:49 PM
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I’m about to tell you something that’ll only work if you have the tone and personality for it. With most game, it is all about how you say it. If I know she already feeling me, I say “the classic watch Netflix and chill”. It usually gets a chuckle or something along that line. Then just keep it rolling from there. If she’s being a bit hesitant, you can say something along the lines of “I’ll let you pick the movie..” Again this is really hard to explain because it’s all in your tonality and deliv…
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:47 PM
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I’m actually fully bald. Shaved it off when I realized I was balding and I’ll say the key is just owning it. My go to: “I didn’t see it coming but it has worked in my favor” They go on to ask “how so? or some shit like that” I answer with “I’ve been getting approaches from more older women recently “ (actually true) The conversation then carries on to talking about me liking older women. I then list qualities in older women that makes them much more attractive to me. The girl then starts qualify…
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:22 PM
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Yea I’ll add that just don’t add exclamation marks to your texts. Is just something I see mostly from my women friends so every time I see it, I imagine I’m getting texted by a woman.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:18 PM
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Currently at around 600 and all of them, either good friends or women I have gotten in touch with. Some ended up in getting laid, some just good friends that introduce me to their friends that got me laid.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:43 PM
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Not always. Sometimes I just text them when they follow me back. Contrary to the popular belief that you need a huge following on social media(social status) for seduction, I actually have very little following. Kinda sends the idea I only follow people and allow people to follow me that I’m interested in getting to know. Me following you already sends the message I’m interested. Don’t need to like a pic but it couldn’t hurt.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:38 PM
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If Instagram:” Are you as interesting as you look in your photos?” works well for me
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:06 AM
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I would say you shouldn’t have added her lol. Almost sounds like you were thirsty. I can just imagine her thinking you were scrolling though all of Instagram looking for her 😂 But yea just go ahead and set something up asap
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:37 PM
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Actually you’re right, I didn’t pay much attention there. I still don’t think OP meant any harm by using the term though
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:55 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with saying female ____. It is simply an adjective. The problem is referring to women as females. You wouldn’t say my “men coworkers”. You’ll say my “male coworkers”. Same here.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:53 PM
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This is actually really really easy. First and foremost, remove the “attractive” part from it. That’s just weird. Why are you trying to make friends but they need to be attractive. You said so yourself that it’s just friends. This goes into my next point which is just make female friends. As simple as that. Whether they’re attractive or not doesn’t matter. You want to know why? Because women are friends with other woman. You become good friends with one women, you become friends with her friends…
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:50 PM
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Play the long game. I know no one wants to be put in the friend zone but in this situation, you actually want to form that friendly vibe first. The gym is where majority of men hangout and she must have ton hitting on her all day. You don’t want her to just throw you in that bucket. I have been in this same situation and I might have been lucky but it was what worked for me. I just treated it as how I would if I wanted to make a friend. Eventually, she was comfortable enough to wave at me while …
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:59 PM
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“I’m going to _____ this weekend, you seem like you know how to have a good time. You can come along” After of course introducing yourself and she knows who you are. You don’t need to do a lot when you first get the number. It’s essentially to set up a date. The second option you have could do that.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:29 PM
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Just make sure you bag it up, that’s all I gotta say
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:25 PM
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Make hot female friends, JUST FRIENDS. They don’t even have to be super hot, just make some good looking female friends. The more women you are surrounded by, the less you put them on a pedestal. Even better, if you can become a roommate with one of them. Once you see they are just human as you, they shit, wake up not looking so good, etc… it is actually simple.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:46 PM
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The throat goblin herself 😂
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:30 AM
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The biggest thing I needed was inner game which I learned from seduction. I use seduction tricks even when I don’t need to seduce(ex: marketing, etc). Seduction is essentially just having the right social skills and knowing how to use them. A good book I always recommend is How To Make Friends and Influence People. Yes I know, you don’t want to end up in the friend zone. But if you know how to use the things in that book, you can leave a lasting impact on someone just by the first few minutes of…
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:09 PM
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I mean, that’s because most people don’t truly understand why women are attracted to taller men. Yes, it is an attractive trait but that’s because it is perceived as being confident. If a tall guy and a shorter guy approach a woman, the taller guy automatically has the upper hand until they start talking. Since being short isn’t attractive, most short men has to work on themselves to attract people. Having charisma, building an interesting life, being a man of value, etc… All this shows once the…
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:54 PM
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They way I explain it is you should always approach women like you’ll approach a friend you see from across the street. When you see a friend you know, you don’t wait till you’re right in their face before you start speaking. From across the street, you already smile at them, seek friendly and while in a walking distance, say hi or something. You should approach women the same way. They’ll feel much safer.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:06 PM
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I think a good opener depends on the type of person you are. If you like jokes, you could start it up with a joke. There is direct opener vs indirect opener. Direct meaning you show intent from the beginning like “hey you’re cute, what’s your name”. Indirect meaning well, an indirect approach like asking for a direction. You can even mix in the two. For example: “Hey, do you know where there is a coffee shop around here..actually I don’t care, I don’t even know why I asked that. You’re cute, who…
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:58 PM
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I think you just have to get creative on the spot with something or just not say anything at all like you handled it. I can only remember this happening to me once and all I said was “okay awkward silence it is”…that didn’t get a response from the girl I was talking to directly but it got a chuckle out of another girl that started up a conversation. The girl I wanted to talk to in the first place later on tried to join the conversation but I didn’t really care by then and just ignored her too. Y…
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:42 AM
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Thank you for mentioning this, I see everyone just throwing the “use Minoxidil” for beards pretty much everywhere nowadays and it confuses me…You want to risk complicated health issues all for a beard..? That might even grow on its own eventually.
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:32 PM
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Just let her qualify herself to you. She’s the one interested, not you. It’s like if a company is super interested in hiring me, I don’t go to the interview stress about what to do. This is their chance to sell themselves to me.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:37 PM
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The same way you should always ask anyone out. Tell them you’ll be doing something somewhere or going somewhere. Tell them they’re free to come if they are interested. This way, they know whether they come or not, you were already planning on going there. For example: “I am going to grab a bite to eat. I could use the company if you’re feeling hungry”
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:35 PM
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I mean you’re right but not in the way you think. I have a couple super attractive mates myself that seem to get the number of every girl they approach without doing much. I myself have to put in more effort. What I have found though is that although no girl would want me just for my looks, once I win them over with game, it’s over. There are plenty good looking men that approach women all the time, especially good looking women. Very few of those men can keep them on the edge because they’ve al…
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:25 PM
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Seeing as she left, there is really nothing much to it from there. Had she stayed, you could’ve used the opportunity to flirt a little. The classic “hands off the merchandise” or something even a little more creative “hey I’m not that easy, you got to at least buy me a drink first”. I would say if someone is touching you like that, it is definitely showing interest. Most platonic touches happen above the waist area. I find my female friends mostly touches my arms but not below that, if they are …
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:09 PM
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Make genuine gym related comments but that’s not the important part. The important part is to LEAVE THEM ALONE right after. “ I find that whenever I do this, the girl initiates the conversation the next time. Most time, it’s just a hand wave or something. But from then on, they know I don’t bite and they can approach if they want to. Most girls at the gym look good enough for men to constantly try to hit on them while they’re working out. Don’t be another one of those men they complain about on …
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:43 PM
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If she fr said that about her man, this ain’t a win bro
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:31 PM
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Show interest. If you don’t show interest, you risk being thrown in the friends category
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:56 PM
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Yea I have a love and hate relationship with it
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:50 PM
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Not a woman but I think I can answer. A girl at my gym used to stare down at my crotch area all the time. She later on confessed that she was just interested and wasn’t sure if I had anything there since she could never see even the smallest print or anything. Let’s just say she now knows what a grower is. But in my experiences, women stare at your ass, shoes, and forearms a lot more than anything else.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:39 AM
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This is a rule I follow. I never say anything that could be taken as sexual directly. Only things that she herself could interpret as sexual. I don’t know the context of what you’re showing her but that emoji made it too sexual(don’t know how to explain it)
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:52 AM
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Here you go buddy: https://youtu.be/7CtEVFSeDM4
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:48 AM
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I never really approach a friend group because for the most part, it’ll feel like you’re just interrupting their conversation or whatever they have going on. It’s like someone stopping you mid set at the gym to ask a quesiton
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:42 AM
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As someone with female friends, this works when you’re young (below 19) but once you reach that “mature” age, it kinda just gives off a childish vibe, especially since some women had this done to them many times throughout high school. You just become another dude acting like some dude she remembers from high school. If you want a girl close to you, fix your body language to be more inviting. Break that first touch barrier and just let it flow from there.
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:36 AM
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Thank you for this!
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:29 PM
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