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| – | do you wish to be a purpose for men?Well damn is THIS the accountability so many men drone on about?! 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/26 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.I do think everyone should. And no, I don't know what the solution is. At the end of the day both sides feel justified and neither side wants to back down. I think a lot of these conversations are tongue in cheek, if you will. Most people are logical. Most people have the ability to see things with a wide lens. And I think most people are struggling to show that side, especially online, because they feel they were wronged and feel that the other side should back down first. What do you think the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.The other user rightly points out that hate begets hate. If you disagree, you're in denial. No, I absolutely agree. Hence why women started pushing back. Hate begets hate! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays."Poor them. Haters getting hated is just consequences for their actions". It was literally the comment I replied to. The comment doesn't make sense because men were already sexist well before women were "hating" on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.They did. But really my argument is, how are you going to claim men are misogynistic towards women ONLY due to social media, when men were already misogynistic towards women before the internet ever existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Yes. We can end it at "men hated women first" and it still applies. Getting indignant that I went all the way back in history is retarded. I never said ALL men subjugated women. I never said ALL men hated women. Just like I don't believe the man I responded to meant ALL women. (Or maybe he did for all I know) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.What is even the point of this conversation? Is there one? Because my entire point has been that men have been shit talking and sexist to women well before the internet even existed. So his bullshit claim is bullshit. And so is yours. By the way, all women don't live in the same bubble. I'm not oppressed but still experience sexism. Women in Afghanistan are both oppressed, subjugated and experience sexism. Yes, systematically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Are women (and I'll specify in the West) oppressed or are they not? Yes, many women are still oppressed. Am I oppressed? No, I don't believe that (to which I already pointed out). But many still are. Save your little pity party speeches for someone who can't see through them. You truly don't belong anywhere near children 😬 Seriously? How old are you. Refusing to acknowledge my comments and instead downvoting them like a baby. Giant eyeroll bub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.It is so much deeper and nuanced than that. Didn't you say you were a teacher? What do you teach, P.E.? Women were historically subjugated, yes. And in some parts of the world they still are. Women fought for rights and men have continuously fought against that to this very day. And yes. Many men to this very day absolutely hate women and are abusive. Many men to this day continue to shame women for lack of "feminine" behavior. Continue to shame women to get in line. Continue to shame women to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Subjugation is historical. Hate and abuse is historical and current. Hate and abuse isn't oppression. Maybe that's the confusion? I know a lot of men view womens words on the internet as oppression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Nice. And what part of that paragraph says that I, personally, am oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Where'd I say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooI haven't read either.. Seems you are coming across rage bait. That's how redpill works. They make a claim. And then they find the most skewed extreme "proof" and make YouTube videos about it. The best sex I've ever had and continue to have to this day is with my husband. The only thing I ever thought about any of my exes or hook ups is, "thank GOD I'm not still stuck with that" and "how the hell did I ever put up with that when men like my husband exist". And most women share the sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.What are you talking about? Was there ever a time that men..didn't hate women? When was this? Certainly not in my 36 years of life. So before that? Doubtful. Men have been sexist for my entire life and for milenia before I was born. Women are just now, within the last decade (maybe even less) pushing back. And y'all want to sit here acting like women started it. Puhhhh-lease 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 10:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional laborAs a result, the vast majority of SAHDs we see in reality (and become statistics in these academic papers) are took on the role less willingly, usually because they lost their jobs, or their wife earns/started earning significantly more than they do. With neither the passion for parenting nor the socialization towards domestic labor which women receive from a young age, they unsurprisingly start to fall behind. Meanwhile the potential hardworking SAHDs have been filtered out from the pool, and u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 10:11 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooIt doesn't quite work because their wives didn't tell you that all men are bi. You're saying that a lot of women settle. You know this because their husbands told you so. If a woman tells you her husband has little sexual attraction for her, would you just believe her, or would you ask her husband to confirm? If she was complaining that her husband didn't have sexual attraction for her, and when I asked clarifying questions, I learned he is actually working 60 hour weeks and still has sex with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooYou seem to be applying the red pill thought process of "Top men get treated differently". Yeah. So do top women. Most average people are nowhere near the top. Most average people don't function that way. Applying how top men get treated to how a marriage plays out is childish. A marriage takes effort from both sides. Both sides have needs. Breakdowns can happen for all sorts of reasons. Deflecting it as, "Well it's because she's a bitch that settled for me so now she won't fuck me" is just lazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:53 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooWhen you're applying thoughts and actions to a person, yes. Otherwise we can all just say something is true because we say so. All men are secretly bi. I know because their wives told me. See how that doesn't quite work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooThis sounds more like, "I want to be able to treat my partner like garbage and not face any repercussions like those NBA stars get to do" 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 01:59 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooSo their wives told you they think they're ugly and are only with them for stability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 01:57 PM |
| 0 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooYes, similar with my husband. He lived in my hometown and I was going to school 4 hours away. He was supposed to just be a summer fling. Then he showed up at my school the first week after I left, and that was that 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 01:45 PM |
| -1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooI guess the difference is guys have the same sexual and physical desire for both women. And it's an incorrect assumption that women don't feel the same.. Like, absolutely there are cases where a woman OR man marries someone they don't really desire. This most often occurs in more religious, conservative communities. But in the normal world, women absolutely desire the men they marry. It isn't like people are getting married 2 months after meeting. They often date for years first. Women don't put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooDead bedrooms exist because the relationship broke down at some point and one or both sides refuse to fix it. Otherwise, you'd see dead bedrooms from day 1 rather than starting at year 5 or year 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooI don't know any woman who has had a relationship with a man she doesn't desire. That's retarded red pill shit. It doesn't happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 11:40 AM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooExcept women don't have a category 2. That's just a retarded red pill shtick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 11:40 AM |
| -3 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooYeah. I don't understand why it's fine for men to view women as someone they'd only fuck, but for women it's the end of the world. There were plenty of men I had sex with that I would have NEVER dated, cause they were fuck boys. But I liked sex so I fucked them no problem. I'm married now. Hubby also started out as a fuck buddy. He was not supposed to be anything more but the man hasn't left me alone in 20 years, so. Who knows what these pillers assume about that. Doesn't quite fit into their mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.If a smaller person punches you on the shoulder, you are within your rights to punch them on shoulder too. Why jump straight to strangling? Ask the men who do that? Why do you keep leaping to over the top violence? You literally admitted yourself that men cause more physical harm to women. Why do you keep backtracking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Highlighting historical fact is "man hating"? Women were also second class within their own families and homes. It was not just your fairy tale rich and powerful. All men, of all classes, viewed and treated women as beneath them. This is exactly why women don't take that word seriously. "Anything a woman says that I don't like = systematic hatred of men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.You're the only one talking about fists. I never said men should be hitting women. But I also don't But because they are physically weak, they usually end up getting hurt more badly. They end up getting hurt "more badly" because men use much more violent means of physical abuse. Like I said, a much bigger person can kill someone with their fist. But I also don't think it's wise to drum an attitude into a boy that he's fair game for physical assault. Telling him that no matter what he should neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 01:58 PM |
| -1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Show me one misogynistic thing that I've said. You first. I never said anything about you specifically but you've hurled a whole bunch of accusations towards me. Show me one "misandric" man hating thing I've said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 01:34 PM |
| -1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.I have three, actually. And they're being raised to be decent humans rather than misogynistic pigs. I get that is a shame to a lot of men. Oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.I'd rather that, and then file the proper police report, than end up in prison for life because he accidentally killed someone with his fist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Except men hated women first lmao. And more than hate. Subjugation. Abuse. Men have hated women for milenia. Women are just now fighting back and it's a problem. Giant eyeroll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 12:06 PM |
| 0 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.Who gives a fuck who started it? My 16 year old is 6 foot tall and insanely muscular due to football and wrestling. I have consistently told him to NEVER hit someone back that's smaller than him. And at that age I am referencing smaller boys because he can do serious damage and his own fists can be classified as a deadly weapon. That's just the reality of being stronger and bigger than others. If she slaps him, he can shove her and walk away. Why does he have to rearrange her face or strangle he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 12:03 PM |
| -2 | Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays.This is about a brain dead of a take as "women don't initiate because they're lazy". Men of PPD are truly the definition of solipsism. Sure, maybe men don't want to initiate becauss they're lazy. Sure, maybe men hopped on the red pill band wagon because it's the "trendy" thing to do. Relaying that to women is just..no. Women aren't men. Stop trying to relate these things to the male brain. You'll just be perpetually frustrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/26 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Women handle rejection worse then menWe can say all kinds of things are potentially a problem simply because we don't have any way of quantifying it. That doesn't make it actually a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Women handle rejection worse then men...? I never specified by men or women. You're just proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women handle rejection worse then menYou compare the under reported rapes which probably exist but are sort of dark matter vs the false accusations that are processed by the system and found to be false. Huh? No. I am using the statistics we have on hand. Not the unreported rapes. I only brought that up because it makes that number even more stark. Even without it, men are still substantially more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused. Correct answer is: we don't know exact rates. Everyone who claims to know exact % of fals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Women handle rejection worse then menWrong. Exponential can describe a function, relationship, growth, increase or decrease depending on the context. That said, this isn't math class. It is a common colloquialism evidenced by the fact that you knew exactly what I meant. Men are substantially more likely to experience sexual assault or rape than be falsely accused of sexual assault or rape. This is a fact. An uncomfortable one, maybe. But a fact nonetheless. Furthermore, we already know rapes are massively unreported. Meaning it's e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Women handle rejection worse then menYes. Do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The non-red pills have the more inconsistent and incoherent views of gender because they don't understand the difference between positive rights and negative rightsThose statistics aren't created in a vacuum. A large portion of single mothers start out as teenagers who are already poor. Conversely, the vast majority of single dads are middle aged living in the suburbs, and don't start full childcare until their kids are school aged (after a divorce or death). Give newborn babies to a poor teenage dad and then we can compare. This is not even mentioning the fact that single dads are much more likely to have a live in girlfriend or wife, or a mother or siste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 12:56 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Paternity "fraud" is rare. And it's mostly in lower class populations where there is a lot of known cheating already. Y'all act like this is a normal occurrence in your average couple. This is like women complaining that men are drug dealers. Quit looking for your sexual partners in the dumpster, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 5 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Listen to yourself. Most women are against paternity tests because there are people like you demonizing the testing more than the actual fraud and make it look like women are victims of their own fraudulent actions. How much fraud is there? Is there enough to justify the cost of implementing mandatory nationwide testing? I am talking about in comparison to every live birth, how many of those have a mother committing paternity fraud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:27 PM |
| 5 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Wouldn't it be better to break up then "for no reason" rather than when you have a literal child to care for though? Either way you intend to ask. May as well do so when the stakes are lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:23 PM |
| 1 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Facts. I have 3. All of them were unplanned. All of them are my husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Women handle rejection worse then menA man is exponentially more likely to be raped than falsely accused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 07:46 PM |
| 1 | do you truly believe the bar is lower for men?They're delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:51 AM |
| 13 | do you truly believe the bar is lower for men?Well I’m glad the states make dads pay for their kids because in the UK, they do sweet FA and considering I live in the UK, I can say for certain dad’s can walk away easy peasy here with no repercussions Except it isn't true. Plenty of men in the US do absolutely get away with never paying a dime. Over 50% of custodial parents receive less than they're supposed to and 30% receive nothing at all. And this is only the men who get taken to court. A good amount of women never bother. Currently, ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menI didn't write a post. You did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:33 AM |
| 2 | women dont think about menIt means you don't and wont understand women. May as well bow out. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:32 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menIt was addressed to you based on your last paragraph. Immediately claiming women would answer that way because they are autistic. And no, it isn't moot because that is OPs entire issue. He makes zero sense. Placating him helps nothing. Women aren't autistic because we don't immediately get turned on at the sight of an attractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:32 AM |
| 2 | women dont think about menY'all trained us to have to be this way 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:06 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menIt changes EVERYTHING about your post are you being serious? Geniunely. When will you all learn and accept that womens arousal is not, and will never be equal to mens. We have entirely different body parts my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menI wouldn't say your typing skills indicate autism. Your post, and your understanding of it all, is what indicates autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:02 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menThe post was literally just asking women if we get wet and turned on at only the sight of a hot stranger man in public. We all said no, because it is literally physiologically impossible. Women's bodies don't work that way. But we ALSO said that we see attractive men out in the wild daily. Our genitals just don't throb at the sight. This is where his "women don't ever think about men" post comes from. He isn't even making sense. Also, I'm not autistic. And from what I've seen-a lot of the men in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:00 AM |
| 2 | women dont think about menThis made me laugh. But real. I geniunely feel sad for these guys. They're really going through something. I commented on that post. He is just mad that women don't have the same sexual appetite as men. Yes, 100% of the comments did say that we don't immediately get turned on at the sight of men. But, 100% of the comments also said that we see attractive men daily/and do think most men are attractive. I'm unsure what the problem is. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | women dont think about menI kinda asked my husband out. Now, mind you, we were FWB. He did want more initially, but I turned him down for commitment. At the time it was summer break and I was in college. My brain was just in single mode. I did not turn him down for fun though. Eventually, after my friends laid into me that I was being stupid because he was a really great guy, and, after one particular lunch I had with my bestie, I left straight from there to his house, grabbed him and asked him to be my boyfriend. 16 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:51 AM |
| -1 | women dont think about menHuh? Saying you want to spend the rest of your life with a man = men suck and we hate them? Lmfao. This sub just gets weirder by the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:43 AM |
| -1 | women dont think about menListen. Y'all may think we're weird for not being immediately aroused at the sight of an attractive man. On the flip side, we, too, think men are weird as FUCK (and maybe a little creepy) to just randomly get boners and imagine a random attractive woman naked. What makes you think your behavior is the correct one? Out of curiosity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Question for red pill: what of genuinely sexually submissive men?Weird. I don't see that I ever replied to you. By the way; Leaving a comment on your post = Witchhunt. 40 people = amount of upvotes said comment received. Lol. K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Question for red pill: what of genuinely sexually submissive men?like you, she certainly knows her body and what she likes, which is a huge bonus for me. communication could be a little better but i'm good at guessing and gently finding out. talking about sex too much gives her the ick lol. Yep..totally get the "ick" factor. But agreed. Everyone is happier when the woman knows her own body, and especially isn't afraid to do what feels good. mind me asking how old you are? just curious for reference. i'm 59 and she's 64, which has been a challenging transition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menI like how you equate "he does nothing" to "he does slightly less". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Question for red pill: what of genuinely sexually submissive men?Sounds like a very wise woman. I understand this perspective completely. As a woman who orgasms most of the time we are intimate, my kink completely turns off once I do. Every now and again it is a multiple orgasm encounter-but I can never really predict when that will be. So yes I prefer to have my man dominate me before I orgasm as well. It's a win win because the longer we go the better the orgasm is at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menHe's supposed to bring partnership. If she is doing everything, he failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:45 PM |
| – | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menI agree. That said men really do not seem to know what they actually want. They want a woman to put out immediately but equally, they want a virgin otherwise she won't be able to "pair bond". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:48 PM |
| – | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menSure. She can. And then after a couple years she's going to stop and think, "Wait a minute. What the hell does he even bring to this relationship? Nothing because I do everything". Then she leaves. And the man goes on the internet and cries that his wife left him out of "boredom". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 2 | What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud?You're literal username is PurplePill and you want us to believe that? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud?Lmao but we are the ones who don't seem to struggle with interpersonal relationships. Are you sure we aren't the normal people here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:44 PM |
| 3 | What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud?How do you think men would interpret, say, a demand for a lie detector test before marriage? She totally trusts you. She just wants to make sure she knows every detail before risking being hurt, both financially and emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:12 PM |
| 2 | What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud?This is assuming this became an issue years down the road. The majority (of the tiny minority of cases) are found out within the first year of the child's life. It isn't like men are regularly caring for a child for 18 years before realizing he isn't the father. Also, how do you quantify the amount paid? If they were living together and both worked, how do you even quantify the amount the father spent versus what the mother spent? Maybe he only contributed to rent and mom paid everything else. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menI never said you did. But you did express one of them. And the point is, regardless, men will always have a problem with what women do, no matter what women do. Women are always wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menLol I love how the narrative is ever changing. Women need to shut up and stop nagging Also Women need to tell me and not expect me to just know Also Women don't communicate when they're upset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menActually the adult thing to do would be not having to be told in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menAnd then when they do leave, their husbands tell everyone it's because their ex wife got "bored". Anytime a man says that, just know, he actually means she got sick of his shit and got tired of having to nag with no change or effort for the last decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menor what only married people are valid in your worldview? I mean..yes. This generally doesn't become an issue until marriage and children enter the picture. It is not an issue when the couple don't even live together. Why would it be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menThat makes no sense. People usually don't move in together the day they start dating. Realistically this only becomes an issue in established LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menMaybe women shouldnt fold to social pressure like a wet kleenex Are the vast majority of men who practice masculinity also wet kleenexes for folding to social pressure of being a stoic man..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menCome on. I live in a Northern state. It is going to be over 95 degrees all week. We absolutely still have bugs here, especially in the summer months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:23 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.They caught us. I'll admit. It's a deep, world wide feminized agenda to lie about what it is like to live with a man. The jig is up. (Don't tell them about our annual meetings) /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.^ Exhibit A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.I'm not entirely sure it's intentional. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWhen the hookup material gets the better end of the deal than the husband material. This is illogical. There is no "deal" to begin with. She is a human being with the same wants and needs as you. She is allowed to want to be single and have casual sex only. Say, when she is still in school for example. She is allowed to then change her behavior when she is ready to settle down. Exactly like men do She cares about what the man she will marry thinks about her. She doesn't give a shit what the one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I'll do you one better. Everyone says that. Even men themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?All women say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 16 | Men are more ethical, we don't sell our bodiesExactly what I said. Who does he think they're fucking? Lots and lots and lots of men who are getting paid much less than her, if anything. (Goes for all porn really). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Men are more ethical, we don't sell our bodiesGay men are a tiny percentage of the population, of course the market will be much smaller than straight men. The theme here, is that only men consume it. That said..who do you think the pornstar women are fucking? For every woman, there's a man she's fucking lol. Men do it even without the star status and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido?Because they aren't entirely in control of being single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?And you'd be wrong. Because all women will say that. Young, old, married, single, irrelevant. Y'all aren't fooling anyone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?Why would I want to see a womans ASS and minimal dick? YOU like that because you're a straight man. A womans ass does zero for me. I want to see more of the man. The fact that you think that is strange is..strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 11:53 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?Seriously. Why do they all have to be stepdaughters. Nasty fuckers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:09 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?Yes girl! I prefer bi porn though. It's like I mentally have to know they like women too. But ugh. That is the best category. Hearing men moan, real moans, this is the only category you get that in 🤤 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:08 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?I personally prefer watching her wrap a dudes head around her legs like a pretzel. But no..not into booty shots because it blocks the dick. Why would you think women would like that LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?The one that got locked because the mods agreed with me on the definition of Western men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What non-western men are preferable (in totality) to Western Men and why?Being that you seem to be confused about the definition of Western and Non-Western men, I am not sure you are even qualified to ask this question. But, going with your definition, I'd say men from Spain or Greece. They're hot. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Except you were hoping that I was a sad single woman who is "used" for pussy. Men really think they're clever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Oh you aren't American? This is even MORE embarrassing for you. By the way, why are you continuing this conversation? I'm not even a western woman. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?That's literally what a western country is my dude. I clearly cannot help you anymore. I've been saying this a lot lately but my goodness. No child left behind truly was a mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?A western country means the same thing as a first world country. Southern European countries, are western countries. So is Australia. Amazing. Americans really have a poor education. Tell me about it. You are embarrassing ME because we are seemingly both from the US. Stop. People already think we're all morons. That is was established and has been a majority of people from Western Europe. So I'm correct. You are being racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?If a woman feels like men only ever care about her pussy... My favorite thing about this subreddit is when men get mad, they immediately try to put women down personally lol I'm married. It isn't about me. It's about generalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?LMAO First of all, we were never talking about "ethnically" to begin with. Second of all, western society is not the same as western Europe. Tell me. How are Americans part of western society when they certainly aren't part of Western Europe either, genius? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Right...and also born and raised in the US for several generations. Hell his family has been in the US longer than mine. Literally any man born in the US or any western country IS a western man. It seems you think they have to be white. Yikes dude. Your racism is showing. Also, southern Europeans are still western countries LMFAO Jesus lord. Well..being that my parents were born in Italy, I'm not a western woman either. Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Because they aren't my "preference". I'm attracted to Hispanic men, white men and black men equally. And um. Hispanic men are absolutely Western European (Spain). 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I live in one of the biggest cities in the US. My husband is Hispanic (town I grew up in was actually more Hispanic than white). Pretty sure he is still considered a western man though. And yes, traveled plenty but only weirdos travel with the goal of finding a spouse. Plus, I was literally already married. 😅 Also: I'm just not attracted to Indian or Asian men. I dated a Korean dude once. He was cute but too needy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Nah, I'm 35. Got married at 21. And what do you mean best option? Western men were my only option, as thats where I live 🤣 It seems you're trying to soothe your own insecurities here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Came to my senses? I've been married since you were in diapers buddy. I'll tell ya what though. If something ever does happen to him or we divorce? I will never get remarried. I will never live with a man again for the rest of my life. And I got a good one too so I completely understand why younger women are choosing no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:10 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is a conspiracy based on low understanding of Sociology.Women like to fuck as much as men do. That's it. The prettier women just have better odds at finding a guy to commit. That's the only difference lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:54 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is a conspiracy based on low understanding of Sociology.You'd be correct. The women who get onto those shows are not the average women whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Caring about getting pussy is not the same thing as caring about women as people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Caring about getting pussy is not the same thing as caring about women as people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Lol western women aren't though - they're desperate. They are?! Then what are the men in this sub complaining about? They should have women THROWING themselves at them if that's the case. You saying that like it's a negotiation and you're hardballing is hilarious though. I'm married. I don't give AF either way. How about you? How's your love life? And that's why men go overseas to other women who western men are their highest preference or women lower their standards (lowering to the best men in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Women aren't complaining though. They are simply making a statement and choosing to stay single. See how that works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I assumed you were using the same study that's been going around about men having a "more favorable" view of women. And no. I'm not reading a wiki page on the "Women are Wonderful" effect as if it's something I've never heard before and as if it is relevant to the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Lol the women are wonderful "effect"? I'm not sure how that equates to men not hating women. Hell. That is partially WHY men hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Like I said you can choose to do nothing. And women will continue not choosing you. Simple. I'm not sure what you think you're accomplishing. Your personal mission to prove western men are less bad than the rest is not going to get you (or them) pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Ok, so you admit western men are the preference and it sounds like western women disliking western men (their highest preference) are pricing themselves out of the dating/relationship market by asking for more - when they already have "the most" with western men And women are fine choosing to be single How can western men get better Stop raping, killing, and beating women. Stop looking down on women as less than. Stop trying to take away womens rights Stop trying to control what women do with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:16 AM |
| 5 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Ah so this is like the male brain competition thing. There is no competition. You get better than your current selves. Clearly there is a disconnect. Women aren't choosing you for a reason. The fact that men are worse in the east is irrelevant to the women who've never lived there. They're talking about y'all. Not them. If all your food options are garbage, it doesn't mean the least disgusting option is good. It just means it's slightly less bad than the rest, but it will still give you the shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves.Lol you don't see the difference? Femcel women target other women for being pretty. Incel men uplift the Chads and blame women. No matter what it is womens fault. Not to mention, it is a TINY community that has not bled into the mainstream whatsoever. You can literally scroll through a CNN comments section and find incel and red pill talking points all over the place. You do not see these women in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:32 AM |
| 8 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Why do you keep asking this same question ad nauseum? What is the relevance? Are you trying to say that western men are the obvious better choice because non-western men subjugate and murder women? As if there aren't legions of men in the US trying to take away womens right to vote and turn us into Islam lol. Sure, western men are less bad than non western men. Less bad doesn't mean good. Men in the west still beat, rape and kill us, so. Stick them in a non western culture and they will behave j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:25 AM |
| 18 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Men will say they have a favorable view of women because they still want to fuck us. That doesn't mean shit. They can still be misogynistic toolbags. That self report "study" is garbage. We see this playing out in real time. The women going their own way are simply..staying single. The men going their own way spend every free minute bitching about women and not being able to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:21 AM |
| – | non western women are better than western onesFascinating!! Almost as if we all see the same pairings every time we go outside in the good ol' USA. Western men are just victims of their own basement. Amazing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:42 PM |
| – | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?To be fair, the guy commenting on that video also misrepresented the entire conversation for the manosphere to salivate on. That said, the fact that they all hear the same thing we do and come to an opposite and completely illogical conclusion is a bit concerning. No child left behind was truly a mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:58 PM |
| – | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?Whole time they aren't even redpill. They just wish they were 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notNeither are the women.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?women messaging avg guys a bit more than vice versa proves nothing as it doesn't lead to anything, just means women are desperate as well So..messaging proves less than a right swipe? Lmao. I'm pretty sure it leads to much more than a like or a swipe but what do I know. Y'all will twist yourselves into a pretzel to victimize yourself. Also, using your own logic, men liking the majority of women also means nothing. It just means they're desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?I am a millenial. Men were absolutely saying that when I was a teenager. Editing to Add: I remember one of the most popular Facebook groups in the early 2010s being "Single Moms Overestimate Their Market Value". That was millenial men. Gen Z were still children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?Except that JUST happened two months ago and financial issues were already a problem that they had been going to therapy for for the last two years... That's the key difference you seem to be missing here. It wasn't just one fuck up. It was a series of fuck ups PRIOR to even two years ago that inspired them to start therapy. Followed by two more years of continued fuck ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:43 PM |
| 10 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?Learned? Telling women to choose better (take accountability for mens bad actions) goes back decades. Before social media. Before the internet even. Men even love shitting on a woman who so much as just mentions she is divorced, or is single with kids, to "stick up" for some imaginary man they've never met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:30 PM |
| 10 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?I mean..there is a difference between saying you'll never leave someone, and then leaving after fifteen whole years of that someone taking advantage of being a shit partner because they think the vows shield them from consequences. And just..lying about a previous relationship. Or lying about finances (which the dude in your example did). I do not consider someone divorcing for good reason as "breaking their vows". Especially after two years of obvious one sided repair work. I do consider the pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?What an embarrassing example. Surely you could have found something that ACTUALLY makes women look bad. I'm on her side. Guys a dunce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?You just keep repeating this same thing. Do you not have any other thoughts? I am sure a man would not want to stay with a woman who continuously ran up his credit cards, put them in debt and hid it from him. I very highly doubt you would advise the man to stay with her because "for richer or poorer". You'd tell him to leave that gold digging bitch before she does any worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?Men do exactly the same thing in reverse.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?I watched slightly longer and the guy commenting on it was so full of shit. The woman said, "This isn't good for the kids they see we don't get along" And he said, "NOOO they see two parents working and busting their ass every day" And the dude goes, "he sees them working on their marriage as part of their vows and she doesn't care wahh" The husband was literally just talking about going to work. Like..their jobs. Not working on their marriage 😆 I'm convinced men only hear what they want to hear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemJesus christ no child left behind was a real mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I literally already linked it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThere is literal data on this proving me correct. Where is your data from? https://preview.redd.it/kl6hudepv7ch1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2561d338fcb4f0186496eb0cdcd760b620ada57 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem😒 Again, No. This is the context for this entire thread: "The average man is below the average woman" That is a general statement Nope. That is the context of the post. However, the context of THIS thread is: I mean in terms of effort, men are below average. Many men as live in boyfriends don't do 50% chores. That YOU replied to with: They don't do 50% of chores because they don't care as much if the house is clean. And now you're pissed that I also responded on topic in regards to splitting cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThey don't. Thanks for playing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem...this particular thread IS about cohabitating. Why would chores be split 50/50 if they don't even live together. Do you even know what you're commenting on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemRight... You've never met several women who over-rate themselves while rarely meeting men who do - in fact many men who under-rate themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?Who cares what you explained? The data proves you wrong lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:16 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemTranslation: I have no argument so I'm going to throw a tantrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women find it so much more difficult to orgasm than others?That isn't entirely true. A woman's orgasm does help with reproduction. The contracting muscles push the sperm up where it needs to go. I have 3 kids. They were all the result of insane, amazing, explosive, orgasming in unison sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:56 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemYou literally said you meet women and men who rate themselves. No you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:36 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemUm, what? Because the only time this is EVER an issue is when kids are in the picture. Statistically, childfree couples are the most egalitarian. And it's women by and large that want it clean so yes, they take on the bulk of the cleaning. That's the way it goes and that's why they do what they do, not because men force it upon them You can be an adult and not care about having a squeaky clean house. It just so happens that the majority of adults that are like this are men, not women. Lol no. Li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:29 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemYour leap in logic of “men take more risks in X” doesn’t translate to them taking risk in Y. It's not a leap in logic. Men take more risks in LIFE. The real question is why apply it to everything BUT dating? women have been continually complaining about how men don’t approach them, Relevancy to men being "less deluded" about what average is..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:26 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemNo. They send likes or "right swipes", but actual messaging only goes to the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.What? No one said being a good person is lame or naive. We should all be good people. I am a good person because I empathize with others. I don't want to hurt people. We are just saying it's not an automatic ticket to pussy. I am not a good person in order to get anything in return. Why do men think being a good person is some kind of social currency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:02 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemNo they aren't lol. The majority of men send messages to the top women on dating sites. I mean honestly. Why would you even think men are more reasonable when we have a plethora of data showing men are much more likely to take risks in ALL areas of life. This is also mens excuse as to why they get paid more/get jobs they are unqualified for. They are much more likely to take the chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:53 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThat's literally not an excuse. Women don't get the option to care if the house is clean. Before I got married I was messy and disorganized as fuck. It was fucking torture figuring out adulting (ADHD) but I didn't get to just say, "Meh, don't really care". I had to figure it out. I DON'T really care. But I do care about my children not living in filth. The problem is men don't care. And that is wrong of them. They need to start caring. Because they are adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:51 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWhat are you even talking about? I have never met ANYONE in real life who has "rated themselves" in public. Lol who does that even? That's weird. "Hello Susie. So like I was saying, since I am an 8 and he was a 6" No. No one does that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:45 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWhat do you mean? If reality is opposite of what OP claims, why would one falsely engage with that premise? What is there to even engage with? It's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:44 AM |
| – | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?This just doesn't make sense to me. Why would a woman "fuck everyone" when she could instead have an endless rotation of hot Chads to fuck from dating apps, nightclubs, etc? This was 10 years ago. We never used dating apps. Back then you were an absolute loser if you admitted meeting someone on Plenty of Fish or whatever existed. Also. She fucked hot guys too. Like I said everyone got a turn. She found beauty in everyone, idk. 🤷♀️ Y'all really have a weird version of how reality is for women lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesWhat literature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticThen it's whatever. That's fine obviously if you have the same standard for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesWomen are pretty open about this preference It's funny men say this because I cannot think of a singular time in real life that any woman has mentioned it. But somehow men, who spend way less time around women in general, hear it all the time? we have tons of data The data is from dating sites. sure many RP guys overstate it to an insane degree, but pretending that men and women are comparable in this preference is just as insane. I think it is. I think most men prefer a woman shorter than him a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesGreat. And I think mens height preference is equally as weak as womens. You really have absolutely no way to prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticRight...But then you would say. "I would receive feedback. I wouldn't just stick it in and out." The way you worded it tells me this is not something you've never done before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticI did say as long as he has the same standards for himself it's whatever. But then he said this, so he obviously isn't a virgin, so is obviously being a hypocrite. Also he said it made him repulsed and "cuckish". I receive feedback, communicate. I dont just put it in and out, nut and go to sleep and never talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticI receive feedback, communicate. I dont just put it in and out, nut and go to sleep and never talk. How have you done all of this if you've never had sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesLike yes I have a slight preference for short girls, but it really doesn't matter much and not something I think about when online dating, the height filter on these apps are for women's preference, not men. Women don't think about it either. You all are basing this off of dating apps. Most women don't even use them. I have never used one myself. Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticAh. So you ARE a hypocrite. Just say that instead of pretending you have some special high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticHe is pushing the incorrect claim that women are dirty if they've had sex No one likes a hypocrite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticAs long as you're not a hypocrite and you're saving yourself for her as well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticcalling my way of thinking lazy and assuming i am ass at sex so i need a clueless woman who doesn't know good sex to feel good about myself. You said it. Not me. i have to be the one and only therefore the best, otherwise there will always be the lived experience of other men inside You have to be the one and only because you have to be the best. Meaning..you don't think you can measure up to literally any other man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticYeesh. You really don't think highly of yourself do you? You cannot compete so you'd prefer no competition and thus, minimal effort. Yeah I can see this. If you're that bad in bed I would probably want someone who has no idea what good sex is too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesI don't even read those books so I could only imagine they meant whatever drawing was on the cover. This is even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.What's the golden rule? I don't know what to tell you. Most people I know would never take dating and sex advice from their literal parents. You simply follow what you see with your own eyes. That's what I did. If all you see is the most attractive people dating, I geniunely do not understand how it would never dawn on you that just being "a good boy" would get you anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?So are you going to admit you were wrong now or nah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesThe fact that they are somehow comparing a BOOK COVER to entire magazines of porn is wild to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesMy boss gets calendars every year with different themes. One is always half naked women. They are all the same. Usually blonde. Huge boobs. Hourglass figure. Perfect face. It's the same thing. Playboy. Calendar girls. Same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesDoes this work for all the women in porn? Calendar girls? Playboy posters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesI think this is pretty true, yes. I RARELY wear make-up. Never did a lot. I only do when it is absolutely necessary like I'm going to a wedding or something. Never had an issue attracting men but women? Fucking cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesYep, agreed. I dated ONE guy who was very muscular and he annoyed the shit out of me. I'm not interested in men who are more full of themselves than me. Also, it kind of grosses me out. Idk how some women do it. Like bro that shirt is about 4 sizes too small and your vein looks like it's about to explode. But yes. Totally hot. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselvesSure. Women like men to be big and strong just like men like women to be short and dainty. I'm 5'4. Men, for whatever reason, LOVED how small I was. "You're so cute and tiny and fit perfectly in my arms uwu". My husband still says this. "You're so tiny and soft I love it". I am tired of these discussions pretending like men don't equally like the opposite. My best friend is 5'11 and struggled with dating. She dated one guy who was shorter than her and he cheated. Another guy who was her height a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Saying asking for prenup means you dont trust your partner is hypocritical because the entire marriage system is based on lack of trust.If there wasnt any requirement of prenup then why have problem signing it? Because what are you signing to keep? Lol. Nothing. You had nothing other than your bank account that didn't have much more, IF any more than hers. If you really want to go through all that for $150 be my guest I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I like how you immediately dismiss it as BS. It is true. From the very holy grail OKCupid study you all use, actually. In fact, men are the ones more likely to message women out of their league. Sure, they swipe on everyone. But like the men explain in this very sub, it is only to "cast a wide net". Women don't do that. They're more realistic. "Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?It actually does show that women go for the more average men via messaging, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:29 PM |
| 10 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Yeah idk. I feel like by the time I was 11 (middle school) I realized the adults were full of shit. That's plenty of time to figure it out before you hit adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Because the people repeating this aren't impressionable kids anymore? We were ALL told this by older relatives and adults. Yea. Girls too! Most of us took it as bullshit adults just have to say to be nice to kids as it didn't match our reality.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 22 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.They choose to believe the lie rather than reality. It makes no sense coming from the "logical" gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:48 PM |
| 21 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.So I doubt it is porn, it’s likely mommy and grandma, and the men believed them It's geniunely funny to me, because I remember older relatives saying that to me as a kid/teen as well, and I specifically didn't believe them because they were family. They had to say that. But also...it didn't match reality. So yeah..I just don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general). I can acknowledge that some men are lazy. Can you acknowledge that some women can never be pleased? Sure, I can! But like I told the other guy I think it is a cop out men have latched onto to avoid accountability. I don't believe for a second that the majority of this is due to women just having impossibly high standards. I would agree and be just as annoyed if my spouse said the towels needed to be folded a specific way or we had to have a specific amount of pillows on the bed. The frustratio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)If men work more hours outside of the home it’s not inherently maliciously nor bad Maybe not malicious, but why are men able to do this? Because they can count on their spouse being there to get the kids picked up, dinner made, baths and bed. Women don't usually have that same luxury. They need extensive planning to have the ability to work additional hours. that they may forget how their partner likes things clean. This is a cop out. I would agree that if one spouse is particular about certain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:13 PM |
| -9 | Why are men shamed for using porn?Why are we talking about masterbation? The post is about porn. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?Ah. Reading error. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?Oh hush. You are only talking about the top women to begin with. I'm very average in my opinion. And I was never, ever interested in the "Chads" and "Jocks". I couldn't trust those men further than I could throw them. Why waste time? Plus they were boring as shit, like talking to a brick wall. The prettier women were certainly a tad more delusional. But most of us are logical. Most women date men that are slightly less attractive than we are on purpose. You can't trust em otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)Because presumably there's enough friction about chore division to be seeking solutions So because he was too lazy to begin with forcing her to do more work because yes, it HAS to be done, she also has to make him a list? The person who is frustrated because they were doing more to begin with now has to do EVEN MORE, in order to POTENTIALLY have slightly less work to do? Nope. That doesn't work for me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessNo, they wouldn't and don't. I know this from experience. I was like that as a teenager (probably because I only had brothers). No one gave a fuck it was due to untreated depression. They rightfully did not want to deal with it. It was on ME to manage it and find healthy coping mechanisms. When men act that way, people brush it off and don't take it as seriously. "That's just men". When women do it's the end of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain less....no You need to learn to address your emotions before they lead to those secondary, negative emotions. If women just raged and punched walls constantly people wouldn't like that either. They'd tell her to get a fucking grip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessHas it ever occurred to you that actually, you just don't see it as complaining because they are men? When they are cussing out the sky? That's complaining in male form. It's literally because men don't use their words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:41 AM |
| -1 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessmen aren't allowed to have feelings. Some feelings are negative. Like resentment and anger. They are also secondary feelings. Meaning, if you've gotten to that point you actually did not open up at all. You let it fester and now everyone thinks you're crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureWomen never go for men with greater looks than them though. Look around you. You never, ever see a man dating a woman less attractive than he is. Never. No. Sex doesn't count because most men will fuck anything. Dating does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)The issue I take against lists, personally, is why the flying fuck do I have to be in charge of it? When the hell did I volunteer? We both entered this relationship at the same time. We both moved in at the same time. We both became parents at the same time. But somehow I just magically know that garbage needs to be picked up, groceries need to be shopped for, kids need to be fed? No. That is lazy bullshit. How about women go to work, then come home and sit on our asses and wait for men to deleg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:29 AM |
| 10 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantI've only heard trad type women say this shit, so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:22 PM |
| 6 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantExactly. Of COURSE they can grab that second shift until 10PM when they've been working since 7AM. They have a wife who, yes works, but she'll still manage the school pick ups and dinner. What happens if the woman is asked to stay late? Who's doing that for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:21 PM |
| – | Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women.This is like a woman with small breasts complaining about how the hottest men like women with the biggest boobs and then saying, "But the men's boobs are flatter than average!" Men like big boobs. Women don't. Women like their partners bigger than them. Men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?As far as sexual preferences specifically? It goes as far as: Does he make me cum? Yes or No. An ugly guy with a huge dong wouldn't be appealing to me. I have to visually think he's hot also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?It isn't great if it's too big to go in all the way. Then I'm disappointed. I want it in all the way. My vagina is only so long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:49 PM |
| 3 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?Not really. I have had men bigger than my husband. It wasn't enjoyable. My husband is the best sexual partner I've ever had. Size isn't everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?High five! ✋️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:12 PM |
| 4 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I think there is an "absolutely lowest" one will go on the "I am attracted" scale that could potentially be compensated by personality. But if one doesn't even cross that bar then no. It's irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I know she isn't lol. I swear every man got a turn. Didn't matter how tall or short. Even some of the ugliest dudes she would somehow find attractive. She was wild. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:01 PM |
| 8 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?No. I will say I have to think he is hot first before anything else is even considered. That is the reality. If I'm not attracted to him at all his personality is irrelevant. If I am attracted to him and he has a shit personality? No longer attracted. If I am attracted to him and he has a good personality? He gets pussy. Easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:58 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?What does that have to do with hypersexual women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:27 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I had a friend in highschool who fucked everyone. She was not a "size queen". She just liked men. A lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:26 AM |
| 5 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?I can be honest and say I wouldn't want to fuck someone I wasn't attracted to either. I've just...never done that to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:23 AM |
| 10 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?Nah. My sex drive was insane before I had kids. Its beause I was bored and had nothing else to do or worry about. 15 years in we do still have sex multiple times a week. But it's not multiple times a day anymore for obvious reasons (kids are cockblocks). I geniunely don't understand how men think a womans libido at 20 should be the same at 30, 40, or 50 otherwise she hates you. Male solipsism I guess. Mens bodies never change the way womens do. So obviously women are broken, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:21 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierOh boy. Women are by far more likely to go to the doctor True. at any sign of discomfort and complain about symptoms that simply do not end up being diagnosable or treatable as a medical condition for the doctor Source for this? whereas men are far more likely to go to the doctor when he feels the problem is significant enough to burden other human beings Again, source for this? Because your bias is showing. So.. I know you want to twist this the other way to make men look better You're doing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierNot saying these are right but i literally saw a woman’s IG account post “I married for money” and a cutscene of the dude having sgg with other woman and putting it as a joke “you guys want anything for dinner” was the punchline. I remember the comments supported it too ....so an obvious joke? People ragebait for clicks. And oftentimes, the commenters are "in" on the joke. Tik tok and Instagram don't represent reality. That's geniunely ridiculous. And let me guess. The woman was insanely gorgeou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:30 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierExactly. My husband is blue collar. Every single day I get to hear about something some moron did that almost lost his arm/eye/life. And it is always something done out of laziness and cutting corners. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:26 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierWho gives a fuck? I watch it with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:23 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierSays who..? Just anecdotally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:23 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierI also went to university and had a lot of male friends. Men were doing the same. They would literally fuck some random girl at a party and then call their girlfriend when we were walking back to the dorms. One of them is now married to that girlfriend back home he constantly cheated on. Talk about having your cake and eating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:22 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierWhat women feel is medical discrimination is the result of the differences of their own biology and behavior, as well as on the other end how doctors respond due to how women statistically engage with them on a daily basis. Men are far less likely to complain about medical symptoms that end up being a waste of the doctor's time, and therefore they are taken more seriously. In fact, men tend to be too far on the opposite spectrum, e.g. they got injured at work and have been walking on a broken fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsSee what I've been dealing with? 😬 Apologies. I tried warning everyone not to engage with this guy, but it got downvoted. They'd rather prop up a guy going through a manic episode than ever DARE believe a woman. Smh. 😆 | /r/MensRights | 04/07/26 07:27 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?but the axis of who will actually end up being expected to help is largely going to be not women. Which is interesting because studies show women are less affected by the bystander effect than men. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24762431/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardAsexual would mean still not wanting sex in spite of there being a connection. No connection? Not wanting sex is valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:21 PM |
| 15 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardThe fact that man truly cannot fathom the reality that women can go a very long time without sex and be completely fine. We're women. Not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardExactly. They ALL do this. And if you stick it out long enough, eventually the paranoid cheating accusations start. Not worth it ladies. Know your worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.Go ahead...make the connection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 12:03 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.No, often it is said in a vacuum You are ignoring the fact that women would have never put that phrase into existence if men weren't already shoving being a provider in their faces lol. In other words, the phrase doesn't make sense without the context behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.Yeah. My husband was very proud to tell his family about me because of my degree and career. And he's always been blue collar. I don't buy that men don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:37 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.but women also do when rejected start saying how they have this job, can pay their own bills etc. This isn't said in a vacuum though, is it? It's said because men will also throw being a "provider" in her face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"You sure are suspiciously sensitive over the idea of being called a baby snatcher, even though I never said anything remotely like that. Wonder why.. (You are the one who KEEPS finding my comments to start back up days later after I have told you several times to stop. I've ignored several. And then you made an entire post about me. Twice. Now YOU stop it.) I expect you to never say another word to me. And if you do? I'll just keep referring you back here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Just making shit up as you go. What even is your goal here my dude? Is this just some kind of role play activity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsYou mean I started off with a main post that made me look bad, and you posted a link to a post that made me look good, Nope. The opposite. get out of my inbox and take a look at the ratio here Ironic for someone that has dm'ed me. take a look at the ratio here Reality isn't measured in upvotes. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 08:26 PM |
| -11 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsand said "you should have said that at the start" Correct. To show the rest of the sub how full of shit you were in your main post. You Mott and Bailey'd it. You really have an odd way of taking one thing someone says...and turning into something that doesn't even make sense. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"I've only seen your comments removed. Also. Not doing all that. I don't really care one singular bit. Turning post notifications off but... You'll be back. Just like always. (I think maybe it's a crush) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"TL;DR: you don't deserve an answer OR to be a parent if you can't read anything that long, because medical forms, etc., for your kid are easily much longer. Not to worry. I always read important things. Nothing you've ever said was important. So. I just coached my 15 year old through cooking his favorite meal. He's a good boy. My 12 year old says I am her best friend. My youngest is an absolute mamas boy. I get the best of both worlds. Salaried WFH means I get money AND all the time with my babi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:59 PM |
| -14 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsYou literally shared the post with me. And the post is a screenshot of MY comment. I have every right. I also said nothing of the sort. By the way..all I did was link your own words. How is that projection? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"That wasn't my comment lol. I would get a notification if my comment was removed. P.S. I am not a feminist. They'd never allow me into the fold. I am just a woman who is very blunt. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Yeah that's why I said I wanted my mom to take out a loan ...your mom? Why don't you have your own income or career at your age? I haven't asked my mom for anything in nearly 20 years (she's dead now anyways) And certainly not to finance my ability to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:39 PM |
| – | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Aren't you 34? You're severely behind schedule my friend. And also? I geniunely thought you were not more than 19. You're my age 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:48 PM |
| -14 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsHey! Thats me. This guys obsessed. I would geniunely stay away. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/o9uar7uU0l Be sure to read my comment directly above it that shows how much he is lying in this post. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Oh perfect I'll go ruin that for you with what you actually said LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"None of my comments have been removed. Grow a pair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"My comment is based on the things he has actually been saying to me (on several other posts before he made this one) it did finally all come out on his post here This is what I mean by he is only being 25% honest. A reality Mott and Bailey if I've ever seen one. And yes. He literally continuously says children are better off with their father's because of some dude named Warren Farrels 70 reasons. Also. The whole "I will pay her a bridal gift and the equivalent of a surrogate, etc etc" is just b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"How have those reports worked out for ya thus far? I already told you. I'm on vacation sipping piña coladas rn. Quit harassing me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menLiterally my ex from highschool. I have been married 15 years btw. I have people telling me he still talks about me to this day (usually drunk) And yeah. He's been single ever since. When he found out I was pregnant with my first (she just turned 13) he sent me a FB message, "That baby was supposed to be mine". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:55 AM |
| – | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Cry about it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:20 AM |
| – | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"I bet the mods are getting exhausted from all of your reports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"And if you "lol" at the idea that defamation is a crime, it's no wonder nobody gives a shit about false rape accusations. I am laughing at the fact that you tried screaming defamation over a misunderstood comment from an anonymous user on REDDIT 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"I always continue the debate via private message when the thread gets locked, or I get banned from the sub Not something I'd readily admit below. I just want you to either retract or back up your statement that I PLAN on divorcing and stealing custody Can't retract something I didn't say.. because defemation is a crime. Lol He wants this in the event of divorce, so he can get custody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"I always continue the debate via private message when the thread gets locked, or I get banned from the sub Not something I'd readily admit below. I just want you to either retract or back up your statement that I PLAN on divorcing and stealing custody Can't retract something I didn't say.. because defemation is a crime. Lol He wants this in the event of divorce, so he can get custody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I'm fine with this and I think that it can be very possible under the correct framing. It would have to be done legally, obviously. And men would have to have a time limit to revoke their rights, at least 2 weeks sooner than the woman's abortion deadline depending on location. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"You have a real thing about getting me, specifically to respond to you. Thus far you have: Private messaged me Came back to a comment where you "turned notifications off" a day later to restart the debate Made this post Came back to this post a day later to demand I respond And yet, you want to keep reporting me. Give it a rest. Editing to Add: I have responded to A LOT already and you keep beating a dead horse for some reason. Stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Some of us have jobs. (I'm actually heading off to vacation with my husband and kids today though) Maybe I will eventually. But when your comments are 18 paragraphs long, and every single word is incorrect, I'm simply just not interested in wasting my time on such delusions. Notice how no one else is either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:21 PM |
| 7 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Hello. I am a woman who is happy that my male sexual partner takes the time to go down on me to ensure we both have pleasure. I orgasm every single time and it is specifically because my husband does foreplay right, gets me to the point i need to be and then we orgasm together in ecstacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:38 AM |
| 6 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Irrelevant. This has been a thing since the beginning of time. Trying to relate it to only Gen Z doesn't work. Millenials, Gen X and Boomers all have/had the same issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I'm all for women having abortion rights, but I'm not ignorant to fact that put all power in women's hands, which mean I'm just there for ride hoping it ends well. Wo once again dice roll Okay. So what is YOUR solution, as you clearly don't like the status quo? You don't want women to not have abortion rights, but also, women having abortion rights disadvantages you. So? What's the solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:26 AM |
| 0 | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.Half the men here don't say that and many men were directly TOLD by parents, teachers and female friends to be nice and that doesn't help in dating at all. Not taught, told repeatedly (and lied to(. Men don't take accountability do they. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:24 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Unless you're sticking your ding a lings in random women left and right, it's not a dice roll. You discuss it together as a couple like two grown adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyOkay. We all believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyI mean. If you read the sentence before it, it gives you the context you need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNope. You aren't only doing that.. https://preview.redd.it/bniv30a50iah1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fbb65cb5bc327acb5400a8118a5ef263373bfee2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyIt's funny you're still ignoring my comment but insist you aren't biased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyFor the 5th time, I am not talking about the victim. I am talking about how men view victims, other than themselves depending on which gender the victim is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyIs saying “men only care when they are abused” not discrediting men they are victims yet that’s a generalization. Men only care when OTHER men are abused. I am not talking about the victims. I am talking about men like you, who will immediately yell ACCOUNTABILITY when the woman is a victim, but amazingly grow empathy when a man tells you that he is a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWho are the victims that I am generalizing? Be specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWhat? Lol. Yes. I said that. And stand by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNo, it isn't. I don't think generalizations are bad in general. I think they can be useful. I think it is bad to make sweeping generalizations towards victims to discredit them, yes. Men judging women and not other men does not equate to those judgemental men being victims. I noticed how you never really denied this. You just dont like that I pointed it out. The fact that you claim THAT, of all things, is harmful, but cannot see how your accountability comments are harmful is showing your bias. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyI don't think I said generalizations are bad.. We're going to have to agree to disagree. Trying to relate your opinion on victims to my opinion on mens empathy towards victims is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyThat sure is...a conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyand now you are making generalizations about abuse the very thing you said I was wrong for. No. I am not making generalizations about abuse. I am making generalizations about mens reaction to abuse depending on which gender was abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyExplain how that’s helpful. What I said is at least true. Your claim is dismissing and harmful. The very thing you attributed to me The irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyErm...show me where I did that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyHang on, do you think only women can be abused? No. I am saying that I only see men say this to women. When men are abused, suddenly they find their empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyLastly of course saying it that way is bad. But notice how I phrased it as “the abuse is the abusers fault but yes the responsibility for your own health and safety is your own” Notice how that sounds entirely different than “take accountability”. One thing I noticed is that you aren't pushing against the men on this very post saying just that, even though you claim it's wrong. You are only arguing with women about why it's okay to tell the abused they need to be accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallySome actually need to hear that as I stated before. Oh please. Yes. Victims just need you to mansplain. They wouldn't survive otherwise. So again do you think a therapist will say “I can’t say that’s them practicing autonomy because they already know”? Or will they tell them if they seem to struggle with that? I answered this. It's different when you know the person and situation personally. It's deflection when its a stranger and your immediate reaction is, "Well you chose him". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Do you believe there is a biological component to male violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Hey. Maybe if reddit still exists in a decade you can come back and show me how wrong I am. Deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyYes. It is different when you know the person and situation personally, as I've said. What is not okay is making sweeping generalizations every time you hear the word "abuse". "I don't know you. I don't know him. I don't know what happened. But you need to take some accountability". ^^^ That is unnecessary, unhelpful, and cruel for no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyYou seem to keep missing my point so I will copy my original comment, I guess. Here's the thing. I think everyone with two functioning braincells agrees that if a person is continuously finding themselves around people who treat them terribly-that person needs to figure out why they keep finding themselves in that situation. This is literally obvious. So obvious it doesn't need to even be said. The issue is, it is also assumed (by men) to be the majority of cases of abuse. That the woman is at f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want">And guess what? Not only are dad's-new-girlfriend-types WAY less abusive than moms-new-boyfriend-types, pew data shows that single fathers are twice as likely to be cohabiting after the breakup than single mothers. I really want to know why women are afraid of these relationships if they care about the welfare of the kids so much, Whip that werewolf with a belt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqjeZKhDOso Ah yes. Stick it to women because men cannot be trusted around children. But also! Men shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want""everyone else is wrong and I and my one follower are right" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyBut not really though, because you still want to hold the victim accountable to "get themselves out of the situation". Yes. This is obvious. No one is saying someone needs to rescue the "damsel in distress" My point is that there is no reason to even say it unless you are directly trying to absolve the abuser of *some* responsibility and/or feel better about yourself by dunking on someone. You admitted yourself you understand there are psychological components, financial components, trauma relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?>But women are socialized to care about it, do we ever wonder if they are socialized to care too much? And that there's a possible ask on the other end that maybe women need to evaluate what is truly necessary, especially if they are driving themselves mad over it? I think it would be a multi-pronged approach. A lot of it comes down to different societal expectations of women and men. If a home is very dirty, society will blame the woman of the house similar to if the family is very poor, societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallySpecifically? No. I didn't say you did. As you said "no one says" not "I didn't say". But you do contribute to it when you argue against another commenter saying it is the difference between "I'm glad you left" and "you reap what you sow". You are framing it in a way it is almost never framed, especially in these online discussions when everyone is a stranger and has no idea about the specifics of the person or the abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNo one is going to go “you went back so you wanted it” ....A lot of men are saying exactly that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWho said anyone had to do it for them? And who said no one had personal responsibility? I suppose it's the age of the internet. Everyone wants to be an asshole to everyone else. Like that recent story about that man that got eaten by a croc in Puerta Vallerta? The comments; "Well that's what you get for falling asleep on the beach!" "Well that's what you get when you stay at a hotel that took over their habitat" I genuinely don't understand the point of those comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWanting accountability is wanting blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyBecause that says psychological components of exist but when able the onus to leave is still on them so please quote Sorry. Maybe I'm too tired. I do not know what you mean by this. And yes. You literally said "abused people" need 7 times to leave a situation for psychological reasons (still not an excuse) Meaning-the reasons it is difficult to leave an abusive situation is "not an excuse" and thus you will still hold the victim accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyI'm sorry. I geniunely thought you meant with different men. I did not realize you were also holding blame for those struggling to leave one singular abusive relationship. Yeesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyBecause statistically abused people need 7 times to leave a situation even outside of times when they are forced that’s why. There’s many psychological reasons (still not excuses) on why people keep going back A victim doesn't need an excuse. This is geniunely fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyHere's the thing. I think everyone with two functioning braincells agrees that if a person is continuously finding themselves around people who treat them terribly-that person needs to figure out why they keep finding themselves in that situation. This is literally obvious. So obvious it doesn't need to even be said. The issue is, it is also assumed (by men) to be the majority of cases of abuse. That the woman is at fault because she keeps choosing bad men. I do know several women who have been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyOften? Come on. If it happens often then the inverse is also true. Women are often being abused, and not by the "same few men" either. Also? Men do this too. I was dating this guy once and we broke it off when we went away to college. We always kept in touch and kept the possibility open. A couple years later when we were both back things started heating up again. And then some girl much prettier then me showed interest in him. He literally said, "I'm sorry. I just never thought I'd get a chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Aren't the men in here the one's who want to have a positive impact on women? I mean for the most part, the single men who are hurting and lonely? I'm not sure why women would even care to be entirely honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:11 PM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.This is the one. I would one million percent trade being the dating pursuer if it meant I never had to do fuck all again once I find my match. That is an amazing deal are you kidding me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:05 PM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.Most women say people told them things or "taught them" and they NEVER did, literally never. Most women? Lol. Reminds me of half of the men in this group claiming they were taught they just had to be nice. Women don't care about looks. No one told them that either. Also, if you think women are just born that way, what purpose do you get out of berating them about it? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:03 PM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.Is it possible that women are just risk averse because if they fail/are rejected - the emotional fallout for her is very painful, as opposed to men who aren't as emotionally sensitive so are more likely to take risks. Except women are more risk adverse than men in general. Not just when it comes to relationships and/or emotional fall out. Driving has nothing to do with emotional sensitivity Less risky sports has nothing to do with emotional sensitivity Less financially risky behaviors (gambling)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"See? THIS should have been your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Yes. This is why I am saying this. He is treating the woman as a tool to give him children. No more. No less. Just a tool. Worse. He doesn't want to be a stay at home dad because he loves children or wants a connection with his children. I am not even entirely certain he wants children. He simply wants to be a stay at home dad to "stick it to her" in the event of a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"You said I mentioned it in another post, but I didn't mention it here, and you concluded that I was being "25% honest." I'm calling that you accusing me of hiding it. This is clearly a comprehension issue. You're responding to more than half of my comments, so that would explain why YOU, in fact, are arguing with your own made-up topics That makes zero sense. Like, look above you and below you, where half the people ignore when I say I will contribute 120k bridal gift, work weekends or afternoon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want""No. I never claimed you were hiding it." Yes you did: "In typical fashion he's only being about 25% honest in his post." "I'm geniunely concerned for you at this point." Yes. You were not being honest in your post. Why didn't you use the same format in your post you use in all of your comments? You softened it and left a lot out. There's someone above saying "he keeps talking about how he wants to 'put alimony in his favor'" like I'm hiding I didn't say you were hiding THAT specifically. This i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"Yes. She is also talking to herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Except women aren't disadvantaging you. Policies put in place for Group A (women) due to the historical and current disadvantages implemented by Group B (men) is not Group A disadvantaging you. It is Group A taking what they always deserved to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"No. I never claimed you were hiding it. I'm geniunely concerned for you at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"He isn't trolling. He's dead serious. r/revtrad. <--- That's his sub where he talks to himself to spread the word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:51 AM |
| 33 | Debate : People (both men and women) strawman men family planning as "believing everything will go the way they want"He has also mentioned some things that give me pause. He mentions "tipping the scales in my favor" a lot. He wants this in the event of divorce, so he can get custody (because fathers are better than mothers according to him-something about rough play) It is such a weird starting point. Not only that but he wants this woman to give him 3 children, and before she even does it, before she even EXISTS, effectively gives her the middle finger and ignores her sacrifices. His only goal is to take cust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Like I said to the other guy. You're both telling on yourselves. You don't have to be the chooser to benefit off of something. The fact that you've both decided you're at a disadvantage because women have the last say when it comes to their literal body is wild. Financial savings be damned! Option 1: (women can't abort): 100% chance of financial and legal responsibility Option 2: (women can abort) 50% chance of no financial and legal responsibility You: "Nah we would have been better off if we k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?At the end of the day, I simply have more empathy for those who were subjugated to begin with. I am always going to empathize more with the group who started out with less power. I don't believe it is because of bias because I feel exactly the same way regarding slavery. Sure. The slave owners were just trying to survive. Sure. Black people owned slaves too. Sure, the slave owners felt like they lost something and maybe life sucked for them afterwards. Sure. Black people aren't 100% perfect 100%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I'm sorry? No, you aren't. There are accommodations and laws for both mental and physical disabilities. You aren't disqualified from those just because you're a white male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Oh except they do. They make the choice with their partner upwards of 85% of the time. And, even if they did not make the choice with their partner, they're still benefiting from not having the financial or legal responsibility that they would have otherwise had prior to women gaining abortion rights. The both of you arguing with me are truly telling on yourselves here. You don't have to be the chooser to benefit off of something. The fact that you've both decided you're at a disadvantage becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himThere is such a thing as homoromantic. Maybe explore that? Geniunely. I feel you. I wish I could be into women that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?No, not same energy. Last I checked there is no biological difference between men and women that would prevent a woman from opening a bank account. Males don't get pregnant. They cannot make a choice that they weren't afforded by our maker. It's like me complaining that I cannot jack off. Duh. I don't have a dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:23 PM |
| 6 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThe racist one? Or the one that was so positive the child he was a stay at home parent to for 3 years wasn't his, that when the results were read proving him to be the father he went full crazy and screamed (the baby IS mine?) "WE'RE DONE". I geniunely do not have sympathy for either one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:20 PM |
| 0 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I'm not trolling at all. I am baffled you are not understanding the simple concept that a woman choosing an abortion benefits men in the same exact way it benefits the woman who made the choice. --> No financial or legal responsibility. You bringing up when women choose to keep the baby is irrelevant to my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:17 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testIf we need paternity testing for genetic testing purposes, then maybe we need some kind of automatic DNA database as well for all of the children who don't have a clue who their dad is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testI do believe you believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Men are still 100% legally and financially responsible for a child if one is born. That hasn't changed. And? What does that have to do with abortion? The only thing abortion changes is that the woman has the option to prevent the child from being born. Ah. So men are still legally and financially responsible for the aborted baby for 18 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testI get blood tests done every year even tho I am perfectly healthy Yes. Totally the same as accusing your wife of cheating every time she has one of your children. In secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:22 PM |
| 4 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testWow those stories are insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:20 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThe opposite is true: women who bear another mans kids want to control men. Both of the wronged men in that case. It's kind of ironic that the same people who claim women are all unknowingly dating the same men also claim men are unknowingly dating the same women, so much so that mandatory paternity testing is needed. Are you implying the women would not leave if it was mandatory? Correct. Because it removes the direct accusation of cheating by her partner. If a woman is cheating a man into a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:08 PM |
| 3 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testI have to admit I love the irony of this. Must take paternity test because you don't trust your wife to be honest. Proudly admits he would never be honest and would absolutely hide it from her. Sigh. I mean. No wonder y'all are so paranoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?You're asserting that men have gained zero benefit from abortion because they are not the one's choosing. Even if the man did not want a child and he is no longer automatically subject to the financial and legal responsibilities of parenthood when the woman chooses not to continue the pregnancy, he doesn't benefit. Before women had access to that choice, men were legally and financially responsible for a child 100% of the time. My husband chose his career before we met. I had no say in it. But, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenOh I didn't mean it as you specifically. It was a general you. I understand that is how men think. Women do have a much higher tendency for neuroticism so we have for the most part already thought of literally everything. I am glad that you and your wife understand eachother now. That is really all women want. Understanding and acknowledgment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Perfect. So a woman choosing abortion also benefits men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:32 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Alright. So then equally following this logic, the career choice my husband made does not actually benefit me. Even though I get to spend his money. It was his choice. No benefit to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThis is what pisses women off though. Your "problem-solving" implies that she is a moron and hadn't thought of any of your "solutions". Women don't want men to solve their problems. They literally just want understanding. Instead we get push back and hateful drivel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Those are not your stipulations and you know it. You are not even in a relationship, and you've already got it planned in your head exactly how it will go. Oddly, your desire to be a stay at home dad has nothing to do with wanting to actually be a stay at home dad and everything to do with you going into a relationship with the preconceived notion that you are going to "get yours" come hell or high water. Women don't even do that. I am married but if I were still single, I would never trust a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?You have a habit of bringing up 15 different topics all in one comment. Condense your thoughts if you want an actual response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?You have a real thing with YouTube videos, eh? Is this where you got "Reverse Trad MRA" from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:22 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Women raised children according to the example set by their mothers, Why did this example exist to begin with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:17 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Again. It's not about men having a choice themselves. It's about men benefiting from the choice that women have. If women did not have that choice, there would be a lot more men paying a lot more money towards child support. Abortion benefited all of them. I'm sorry. I'm very firm when it comes to children. They equally affect both men and women. Similarly, when men like to say women are a net negative for welfare? Shit point. They wouldn't have the welfare if they didn't have the kids that the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:16 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?It's not. They are benefiting by not having 18 years of child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Now you're ignoring my source. A snopes story and some YouTube videos? Yes. I am ignoring your source not a source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:07 AM |
| 3 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?But either way, who raised those men? Yes. It makes perfect sense. Women raised men to subjugate them. Of course they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:06 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Do you geniunely believe men, in general, would be willing to take on an infant alone? I don't believe most men would. So yes, I think supporting the decision is the same as agreeing to not be a single father. It reminds me of a viral reddit post from years back. The woman wanted an abortion, the man wanted the baby. The woman agreed to sign over her rights and pay child support. Within 6 months, he tried taking her back to court to take on custody of the child and the court said no (they cannot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:05 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I keep getting notifications from you, but you're either deleting it or getting your comments removed? Or maybe you've blocked me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:58 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Ah yes, back to the cave days to make a point. Start with the agricultural era. Men were the only ones voting. But if women had been able to vote, they would've voted overwhelmingly in favor of patriarchy, That sure is a conclusion. So if that's true why did women eventually fight to earn the right to vote? If they were totally fine with the status quo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?19% of parents in the USA are stay-at-home dads, you can go to and tell all the men, and sometimes their wives, that they don't exist Oh. I never said stay at home dads don't exist or shouldn't exist. I think they are great. I just don't think you specifically will have any luck there based on your behavior and ideals. No woman would want to ever entertain that. You are effectively asking women to cut their legs off with all of your psychotic stipulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:53 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Again, no data, and women wouldn't have to if they didn't steal the kids in family court, so pound sand LOL but this goes for married women too. Not only your evil villain single moms who obtain full custody because the father was a shit brick. Yeah, even when men are the genocided gender you won't take it seriously. Oh I would take that seriously because that is actually bad. I've yet to see an example of this though. Pointing out men pee on trees is not equal to genociding men. It's misandrist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:49 AM |
| 4 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?And neither were men Except they were. Because they could vote. Women could not. Are you really going to die on the hill that...women were always allowed to vote? I'm not sure what you're implying there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:47 AM |
| 6 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Research shows 82% make the decision with their partner https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2011/most-women-obtaining-abortions-report-their-partners-know-and-support-their even if that were true what does that have to do with the main point The main point that abortion also benefits men? That's the entire point. Most couples make the choice together. Thus, men benefit from abortion. You claimed they did not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpThe fact that the vast majority of women I've spoken with (including myself) felt the need to lie during those questionnaires because we all know of horror stories of what happens when you tell the truth. Especially if you're a minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:40 AM |
| 6 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?So. When you're born into a society where each gender has to be a certain way or suffer, you're going to ensure your kids don't suffer. Women aren't at fault for the society they were born into and forced to raise their children in. Again. They couldn't even vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:34 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?You have an unhealthy obsession with a made up reality that is never going to come to fruition for you no matter how hard you try. That is definitely something therapy would help with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:29 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Sure. We take longer because we have 3 kids in tow. "(men will find a spot outside if there's a line)" Yeah more casual misandry, "we all know men will piss and shit in the street like bums" gtfo No one said anything about shitting but you. And this is exactly why I will never take the word misandry seriously. It's misandrist to point out men can and do, pee on a tree. 🤭🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:27 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?It's funny you believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:25 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?If someone's obsessed with dead bodies, you don't say "go to therapy until you are no longer obsessed," I absolutely would say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:24 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?you are under the assmuption that women do not have children against mens wishes, this is false, it can happen I never said it couldn't happen. I said the likelihood is low. The US doesn't have much in the way of provisions either so it just doesn't follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:23 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Yes, absolutely. Men no longer have to provide on their own. They get a partner who also earns money and contributes. They have less financial pressure. Men benefit from abortion. All of those abortions are also fathers who don't have to pay child support for 18 years. Men now have stronger bonds with their children than they did in previous generations. This wouldn't happen without women earning and providing and thus, giving men that opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:22 AM |
| 10 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Ah yes. The women who preceded me who couldn't even vote. My grandma had 6 kids between the ages of 25 and 40. She did not want 6 kids. Grandpa did though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:18 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Have you never been outside? Anywhere you go, the womens line is about 15 feet long and they've always got a couple kids in tow whilst right nextdoor the men are walking in and out. This is why. Because there are more women using them (men will find a spot outside if there's a line) in addition to all of the children. And they're trying to get out ASAP because 30 other people are waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:14 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Lol you are really obsessed with this topic. You somehow mention it on every post you can. Like i said. I hope your plan works out for you. Moving on. and everybody freaked out, It was a man who freaked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:11 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?Men are fucking horrible to service workers but no one calls them a Karen. Usually because the poor workers are fucking terrified. And everyone has that story with their mom because the mom was the only one shopping WITH kids in tow. FFS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himList the accommodations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?I should report this comment as its against the rules but I'm not butthurt like a lot of men are. Are you going to respond to the topic or keep deflecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?What's the question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:53 AM |
| 1 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Of course not. Because it's not about reality. It's not about facts. You function off purely vibes and emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:52 AM |
| 5 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?And what do single mothers have to do with this conversation? Come on. Because if a woman chooses to keep a baby against the mans wishes, she's going to be a single mom. No one ever said it's a decision a man can make alone. Other than in the cases of rape, I don't think it's right for a woman to make that decision alone either. Most do not. Most make that decision with their partner. I know I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himSo you've got nothing. Thought so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:49 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?believed the “marketing” definition that feminism means gender equality. Yes, women were not equal so it does mean gender equality. For women. I'm still not following how it's a "weasal" definition just because some "bizarre" men chose to purposely misunderstand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:48 AM |
| 2 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?So are you going to admit you were misinformed and stop spewing lies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:46 AM |
| 11 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?No, I don't. Equality does feel like oppression when you're used to privilege. I can empathize with that. But it doesn't equate to you being disadvantaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:44 AM |
| 6 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?It was a vague non answer but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:42 AM |
| 10 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Most men benefit, not some, because most couples are deciding whether or not to keep a child together. Being a single mom is a woman's top fear. Most women aren't going to purposely make themselves a single parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himThis is like asking for sources that water is wet Well. Where are the sources then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himFunny you all don't like your own behaviors turned back at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:40 AM |
| 6 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Equality for WOMEN. The focus is on WOMEN. Leave it to men to try to weasel their way into a movement created for WOMEN. Yes. Feminism has many direct and indirect benefits for men. No. Their main concern is not men. It's women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:35 AM |
| 3 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Sure thing pal. Feminists are the ONLY ones who are trying to do something about it. And the audacity for you to admit men are doing nothing but still blame women. Wild. https://feminist.org/resources/feminist-chronicles/part-iii-the-early-documents/women-and-the-military/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:32 AM |
| 11 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Personally if I was a man I'd direct my anger towards my dad, and all of the men that proceeded me for contributing to the inequality of women over the centuries. Instead of the women, ya know, just trying to play catch up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:23 AM |
| 6 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Because you answered her question with a question. She was still waiting for your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:21 AM |
| 16 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Abortion changes a lot for men. Many men made decisions with their partner to have an abortion when they weren't ready for a child. How can you say that doesn't benefit men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himCENTURIES of common knowledge? That's funny. Post sources of the centuries of common knowledge that women demand men to accommodate their moods on their periods. The most a woman may ask a man to accommodate when she's on her period is for him to not fucking touch her. The horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himPerfect! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:55 AM |
| 4 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpActually, yes. In the case of involuntary commitments they are put on the FBIs NICS list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:52 AM |
| 0 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himYou're being ridiculous. Wanting a healthy sex life is fine. Wanting a bang maid is shitty. See? Now two of us said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:44 AM |
| -2 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himSure thing pal. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:41 AM |
| 0 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himErm..Pick better bud. That is wild. So because the woman you chose is that way, you've unilaterally decided all women are. Giant eyeroll.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:40 AM |
| 10 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Your not worth responding to. Yet...you did 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:37 AM |
| 8 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.When you see the rare obscure short-lived forums that say negative things about women with more people looking for a chance to be seen dog-piling them for brownie points than agreeing, that is evidence of a HUGE problem. This isn't reality. It's perception as I can just as geniunely say I see the exact opposite occurring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:25 AM |
| -1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himYou are surely taking the piss right now, Nope. now, there are literal ad campaigns that use this expected accommodation to sell shit Example? The only thing I've ever seen remotely close is a tik tok of a man saying he cooks his wife steak when its her time of the month. Nice gesture. But certainly nothing I've ever seen anyone demand. Not to mention the phrase "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" is again, literally!, about this I think this is a dumb phrase. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:22 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himThat's a weird topic. I can't imagine any grown ass woman expecting her man to "accommodate" her time of the month. As a woman I would upvote. Seems like some fringe tongue in cheek topic that isn't actually a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman provides"Men have access to the trades. High school diplomas aren't relevant* Yep. In response to which of your claims? That "even men without a highschool degree perform better". My answer to that is because they still make great money without it. Not that it's good they don't have a degree. That they make great money in spite of that. Anecdotally it took me 7 years after I got my college degree to make the same amount of money my husband was making at 19 with only a diploma due to the trades. And now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:17 PM |
| 24 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpYes..they ask that question at my doctor's office too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 19 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpIt's an extremely standard question even for children.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesyou said "let's try a switcheroo," not "let's go 50/50" Correct. To prove your hypothesis that men are better single parents. Yeah and the data shows fathers instill that better than mothers. It doesn't. I told you, you are just rolling with a stereotype that men are assholes who dont teach emotional stability etc, Ah, so is your claim that men are better at confidence and independence building equate to you thinking women are just weak morons? they are irrational, overly emotional, and they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesSo you support 50% custoidy? Never said I didn't. I just disagree with your claims about who a child is better off with. Rough and tumble play has positive impacts. So does emotional regulation and security. So does bonding through affection. So does empathetic nurturing. Who are you to say which is more positive? It's a very lazy conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesall of those are "better" instead of "different" Agree to disagree, dude. but two healthy adoptive parents are better than any single parent Disagree. Adoption is traumatic. Adoptees have a high rate of drug use and suicide. Babies need to stay with their biological family. Period. but it's just a temporary thing, Nope. It's forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesThere's like a half-dozen other points, but you will call it gish gallop if I'm too long Great, all of the above prove nothing. You are only explaining what makes fathers different. Not better. 6 more you say? Warren Farrell I don't know why you keep mentioning this guy as if I know or care who he is. Women can already give up EVERY responsibility via adoption. Nah. I like the idea of giving the baby to the dad better. Adoption is traumatic. At least if baby goes with dad it will have half of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesOff topic Rocky Horror song because you are pissing me off https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4T9CSJJAww I am glad to be of service to you, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesOMG man, it's not a gish gallop unless you can prove my intent is to overwhelm you (and it isn't), and you haven't demonstrated that it's incoherent I'm reporting this comment to the mods because this sub has a rule against not making a substantial comment LOL suprised you won that one. You are absolutely gish galloping. No one is going to read 25 paragraphs and you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesand you haven't proven that his higher income leads directly to "better neighborhoods and thus better schools," and that explains everything Is that good enough, because I really cannot reduce it down any further Okay, if it has nothing to do with money, then what ARE the reasons? Are you able to show the specific reasoning on why single father homes fair better? Or are you just saying, "they're better because they are"? Because right now, there are simply not enough studies leaving everyone to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesAnd again, show me where a court goes to 16 year old boys and says "take 50% custody, OR pay support, OR go to prison" Well..the thing about teen moms? They are mostly knocked up by adult men. And the teen boys that knock them up never see the inside of a court cause they run. (Often with the help of their own family-Sorry Jimmy is suddenly going to college on the other side of the country!) Also-the courts barely want to give the teen mom custody and usually only will if she lives with her own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:48 AM |
| – | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesI ain't reading all that. If I have to scroll your comment? Fuck outta here gishy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.It is an interesting thing I have noticed. Men have this insatiable need for a legacy. I geniunely think it's because they're scared of death at a higher rate than women are. For me? Death never scared me until I had children. And not because I am afraid of the unknown. But because the idea of my babies being without me is horrifying. That's it. That's the fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.Oh my husband and I used to battle about this one. Because why do you get to just wake up Saturday morning and wander off to the hardware store without saying a word but if I did that, everyone would be dead. I have to check in with you like I had to with my parents as a teenager. Except it's to run one kid to an extra curricular or go grocery shopping. Like, they do not understand the luxury they have and I'm always going to resent that a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.It's not shocking at all. Women talk about this amongst themselves all of the time. The fact that you, as a man, has chosen to remain oblivious until now is a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:12 AM |
| 8 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.I literally DID die on the operating table due to hemorrhage. I lost too much blood, rushed to surgery, and flatlined. My doctor said I scared the hell out of her. I feel like that is definitely an "almost died" scenario. You? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:09 AM |
| 9 | Women ignore men on purposeYeah, cause y'all have a habit of getting creepy immediately. Best to avoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:09 AM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesMedium is a trash "source". Just a bunch of turds with opinions typing up trash. Men have access to the trades. High school diplomas aren't relevant. Many men get GEDs and immediately become electricians, or linemans, or HVAC. All of which are highly still boys clubs that whine every time a woman is hired. it’s the same story even if the single mother is not in poverty Source. Yeah whose fault is that? The teen boy for ducking and running whilst the teen girl actually takes care of business. Sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:00 AM |
| 3 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesYou can equally say children fare better with two adults in the home. (Single fathers are more likely to remarry/have live in girlfriend that takes on the second parent role-Moms can't because the men do bad things to little kids) You can equally say children fare better the wealthier their parents are (single fathers are better off financially) You can equally say the older the parent, the wiser, the better off their children. (Single fathers are more likely to start out in middle age. Single m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesWhat are you talking about? The only reason single fathers do better than single mothers is because they have more money and live in better neighborhoods and thus the kids go to better schools. And typically, men don't become single fathers as teenagers to an infant. It is the best of the best middle aged men who even get full custody to a kid in school full-time being compared to teenage girls and young women in the lowest rungs of society with a newborn. Not exactly that difficult of a bar to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 01:59 AM |
| 5 | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?They're more afraid of death than women. Honestly just look at the animal kingdom. Hell, my male and female dogs display this perfectly. The female can make it on her own, she is smart as fuck, and will fuck a bitch up. The male is scared of his own farts and spends most of his day trying to find ways to put his penis on things. And no. He would not make it on his own for a single minute. Yes they are the same breed. This follows for most animals. The males are big. But it's the women with the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:49 PM |
| 6 | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Lifetime prison sentences are fine too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:04 PM |
| 19 | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?No silly. I see the literal threats of violence as a threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:02 PM |
| – | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?How are you going to call that evil when these very same men are threatening women? Be for real. Stand your ground is a thing for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:48 PM |
| 0 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menYou never explained what the big words you used were? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:53 AM |
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