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| 5 | Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women?I woudnt be able to no. I want to date for marriage and I can’t marry this guy so it would be pointless. I want to lose my virginity to my husband and him to lose his virginity to me. I want to experience the first time having sex with each other and exploring with him. Maybe if years later my marriage goes to shambles (I’m not planning on it lol ,but I acknowledge I can’t fully control the future) this is the worst case scenario That I hope never happens but if it did, I’d no longer be a virgin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Does this subreddit actually help anyone?Help in a positive way ? No I’m not sure. I mean maybe it does for some , but it’s also just as damaging. I do think it’s at the very least educational in some sense? I have seen people come to conclusions I would’ve never came to in my wildest dreams. Both Good and bad. It’s very interesting to see wildly different takes on a single topic . There are a lot of things here that I may have been better off not seeing and maybe totally disagree with but that’s what makes it fun. If everyone in here … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:56 AM |
| 19 | Do you think women on reddit are a good perception of what women in real life are?No I don’t think this is true. I know people hate hearing the term “touch grass “ but it’s really important. A while back I was reading this sub everyday and kept seeing some really abhorrent comments and viewpoints from men. It was really disturbing to me. There was one man legitimately arguing that men should be able to rape women. It really started to affect my view of men. So I decided to take a break and left the sub and all of Reddit for while. During this time I came across men in the rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 10:13 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons?I appreciate your apology, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 10:25 AM |
| 15 | What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons?I agree it’s terrible , can’t imagine a bombshell like that being dropped on me. Life destroying situation right there. For the man and the kids. A selfish and horrible thing to lie about. I’m a little confused as to why you responded to what I said this way though. What do you mean women don’t have the sense or empathy to understand this? Take notice how I did not demonize the man here. I put myself in his shoes and came to the conclusion its perfectly reasonable and logical to get a test. I di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 09:46 AM |
| 24 | What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons?This is so hard for me to think about. The logical side of me understands why a man would want a paternity test The emotional side of me would be offended.I woudn’t refuse the test but ,that would hurt so bad. I want classic monogamy. If I was in the position where I was having a man’s child we’d be married and I’d trust him with my life . To be doubted at this point I don’t know how the marriage would recover from this. I felt the the only way I wouldn’t be hurt is if they’re mandatory. Maybe i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 07:58 AM |
| 4 | I want to know women's opinions on 2 hypothetical menI’m not really Interested in either of these men but if I had to choose I would choose partner A. If both option a and b are exactly the same then it makes more sense to go for A considering in nearly all the scenarios he has the better attributes . The way this question is set up is hard to give a answer because it doesn’t really account for the fact that they are real human beings . It’s like looking at two cars that have the same exact price but one has more features , so I am going to choose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:14 AM |
| 10 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?Body count and past matters, and there’s nothing really wrong with being disgusted with a high n count,as long as you aren’t using this to insult people. Like I find the idea of polyamorous relationships disturbing. I can’t understand it. But just because it’s not for me doesn’t mean it’s not a valid kind of relationship. So there is no reason for me to insult people for being in that kind of relationship. But yeah if I liked a guy and I found out he’s got a high n-count im out immediately. No h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:50 PM |
| 16 | Would you be comfortable filling out a questionnaire for a guy you just rejected?“Sweet candy cavern” good god😭 Anyways if we went on ONE date and I didn’t have sex with him and that is concerning enough for him to question me on why. I would be rejecting him because our values don’t align and would tell him such. If he wants to know why he didn’t get a second date and sends me a questionnaire I would probably ignore the questionnaire part and just tell him the reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:29 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Damnnn you meant genetically deformed…honestly I wouldn’t know how to give dating advice to someone dealing with genetic deformities. This a whole different ballpark, they are going through something I can’t even begin to understand. Anyways I can’t seem them CONSISTENTLY getting women deformed or not. Maybe there is a some woman somewhere able to see the man underneath. The amount digging required to find her…I can’t imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:30 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?See that’s the problem. “Be able to get the same result consistently”…but I’m not working with any real data here. All I could do is guess. I don’t see how my answer would mean anything here. I can say though as someone looking for love like that looks fall to the bottom of the list. Very Rarely have I seen a man so ugly that his looks would stop me and all women from being interested if he had the right personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:12 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Honestly, i’m not sure I can answer this question with any objectivity. There are a lot of variables here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:57 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Of course a 1/10 man isn’t going to land a 10/10 woman with his personality. Who thinks otherwise? Are you referring to people who tell guys in that situation to get out more , get social hobbies and try and cultivate an interesting personality?If so they’re not telling you personality is going to get that 1/10 man a 10/10. They’re telling you that 1/10 man will have a better chance at landing a woman(not a 10/10 but a woman)trying improve what little he can than sitting around doing nothing abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 14 | Q4FandM : why does virginity matter or not matter to youIt’s very big deal to me. Both for myself and my future partner. I don’t think I could I be in a relationship without that. I can’t imagine not being able to share something that special with my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:48 AM |
| 57 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.I could definitely understand being put off by being called husband material. I wouldn’t like it very much if I thought I was being seen as some sort of place holder backup plan wife. Although I do think it can be important to remember while the phrase may be the same it can mean different things to different people. I do not doubt that someone may use husband material in the way you described in your post. BUT For me if I were to describe a man as husband material that would be me saying “he’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:25 PM |
| 0 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?Broadly it seems most of us don’t care. Me personally… I wouldn’t even entertain the thought of dating a man who isn’t a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:21 PM |
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