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The point is that the people who have really good game have success at a much higher rate than the people with no game. We've all seen a guy with no game who can try to hit on hundreds of women and they all think he's weird (some guys here have been that guy or may be that guy right now). Harry Styles or Chris hemsworth have success at a much higher rate than most of us. If you mean it's random in the sense that there are some unpredictable variables then sure. Some people just won't like you no…
/r/seduction18/06/24 12:26 AM
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Do you know what lines your dad said to your mom? How many dates until your parents fucked? Did Dad get some sloppy toppy first?
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:45 PM
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That's what a lot of teasing is. The problem with inexperienced guys is that they're too serious. They think it's a test and they answer every question very seriously. It's better to relax, say something funny, tease her. In one of the classic programs one of the PUAs says "never give a straight answer" and I think that's great advice. Example: she asks how old you are Boring answer: say your age Fun answer: make her guess, "old enough" "too old for you" or something funny you can come up with. …
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:02 AM
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-don't respond immediately -tease her (make it funny) -don't just agree with everything she says -be sarcastic, joke about stuff -you have to express your personality too, don't just just be boring with your messages. Talk about what you're doing or your stories, get her interested in you and your life. -don't say anything weird or desperate. Examples would be telling her you haven't been on many dates, coming on too strong too quick, stuff like that. Just play it cool.
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:18 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:46 PM
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Dude, you have to scope these girls out. Agreeing to pay for shit when you haven't even seen what she looks like yet? Ask for her snap or facetime her or something. If I were you I would split it because I'm not shady and I'm a man of my word. But this one's on you for not checking first.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:26 PM
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Women have varying preferences but there are also some constants in my opinion. Exercising helps at any weight and/or body type. I know bigger guys who are healthy and have dad bods but also muscular arms and a big neck and you can tell that they're strong. Same thing with skinny guys, some girls are into skinny guys but some of them do some exercise and have a little bit of muscle rather than being skinny-fat with droopy man boobs. You can have any body type you want but some exercise and physi…
/r/seduction22/03/24 06:43 PM
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Stuff like that is difficult, I don't know if I'm qualified to deal with that. I think it's huge that you've recognized what's holding you back. Issues from childhood and your background are maybe something to discuss with a therapist or even a close friend that you can confide in. Then you just have to work on changing your mindset and thought patterns. There are self help strategies to do this and some of those are grounded in psychology like CBT. Something like affirmations, visualization, wr…
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:39 PM
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I promise you my man, lots of other guys have figured it out. I don't doubt that you have a lot of positives. A huge part of game is just self reflection and being able to relax and figure out what's going on. I have buddies with no game who say similar stuff, and what I notice is that they only blame external factors. They say they can't get girls because girls just want rich guys, or girls are stuck up, or girls only want tall guys. In reality when I see these guys with girls they're nervous a…
/r/seduction21/03/24 02:40 PM
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Then there's something else going on man, and I'm sorry about it. Work on your confidence and knner game, work on storytelling?
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:22 PM
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Like other people are saying, the first step is go to the gym, get a haircut, do skincare, wear nicer clothes. Look good. Next step is take some good new photos of you for dating apps. Then you need to change your mindset and work on your inner game. You have to practice being confident, practice being funny. You have to come up with stuff faster (in person you have to be funny immediately- practice it!) Think about stories from your life. If you haven't done anything interesting then go do some…
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:05 PM
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The one OP suggested is pretty good. Some solid ones I've heard off the top of my head "Looking for someone to take to weddings so my family thinks I'm well-adjusted" "My favorite color is red flags" "It's tough being a single mom! Or so I'm told. I wouldn't know, i don't have kids." "I go by _______, but you can call me daddy" I also used to put a bit at the end of mine that was like "6'4 in heels" just as a goof, but also if she's scanning it maybe she just sees "6'4" (I'm 5'10) It's also fun …
/r/seduction31/07/20 09:19 PM
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Tbh I don't know that I 100% agree with this. I've had a ton of success on tinder and I would never ask for a number within 4 messages. I always build a bit of rapport first and try to get a number/snap probably closer to 10-20 messages, after I've already had time to tease her, demonstrate value, and build some comfort/rapport. That makes it easy once I get the number/snap to convince her to meet up. I'm not incredibly good looking (although I am very athletic and pretty cut) but I think the im…
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:25 PM
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You just need to read the material and then practice. That's really all there is to it. Look up a list of the best stuff. I like all the classics. Style, mystery, David DeAngelo, book of pook, some newer stuff if you want. Maybe download some video courses and stuff. Then just go out and practice. Talk to girls at the mall, bar, the street. Join clubs or classes, find opportunities to meet people. Get on tinder. Be flirty and funny with every girl you meet, including servers, bank tellers, cashi…
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:37 PM
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Teasing, flirting, being funny, being a little cocky or self deprecating, demonstrating higher value, stories or actions that show off your value and positive traits (intelligence, humor, confidence, success, your goals etc.)
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:59 PM
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It takes practice. See the value in yourself, don't place her on the pedestal. In every situation think "what would _______(famous male celebrity) do?" If she rejects you, move on. There are lots of other girls. Dont be afraid to tease her and call her out. You have nothing to lose. Be yourself, dont hide anything. Force the fear out. Dont agree with her tastes in movies/music, be honest and call her out if she has bad taste. Make fun of her for ordering a lame drink. Dont be afraid to dance or …
/r/seduction15/05/20 11:01 PM
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Friendzone and being friends with girls is not the same thing. I'm really happy with how I've done over 10 years since getting into seduction and I'm friends and fuckbuddies with lots of girls. I also see lots of guys who are picking girls up from the club or bringing them lunch at work and they aren't getting laid. That's an issue. Because you wouldn't do that for normal friends. I'm not bringing my buddies lunch at work, or girls that I'm platonic with. That's guys being needy and acting like …
/r/seduction15/05/20 04:13 AM
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I do generally agree with a few exceptions: Some self help stuff is based on psychological principles. The gurus are people who are trying to get rich, and their seminars and supplements are scams, but at the same time if you follow the legitimate practices (such as goal setting, positive self talk, self cbt, self hypnosis, visualization etc) these can have a positive influence for a lot of people. Part of self help is just getting people to admit that they can improve or that there's a problem …
/r/seduction08/03/20 12:40 AM
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K I get the point, and I agree that learning to approach is important (I know guys who use tinder as crutch because they're afraid to approach) but at the same time this is bullshit clickbait. Come on now dude. Literally anyone can get lays off tinder. If you don't then you don't know how to take pictures. Ask your female friends to help you take pics (if you don't have female friends make some.) I know old guys who get laid off tinder, fat guys who get laid off tinder, ugly guys who get laid of…
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:31 AM
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You need to pique her interest. Playing hard to get doesn't work if someone isn't attracted to you. That's the issue all these guys have when they read a bit of seduction material on here and then try it on tinder. They ignore a girl who isn't attracted to them and then it's just done. You need to get her attracted to you and express attractive qualities, then play hard to get and keep her interested. I'm not the most attractive guy and I do fine, on tinder and in the field. Nobody is batting a …
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:27 PM
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I would reccomend a newbie start with the the classics -mystery method -double your dating -magic bullets And optional if you're interested -the game (not a manual but interesting) -book of pook -don Juan bible Then there's lots more to branch out to afterwards
/r/seduction26/01/20 09:05 AM
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Dude this just sounds needy. You need to read the stuff in pickup material and take it to heart. Dont get overly attached to one girl, avoid oneitis, just have fun and be fun to be around and girls will be into you. Dont put this girl on a pedestal. I'm sure she's great but there are lots of great girls. No one is one of a kind.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:56 PM
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