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I’m honestly not even thinking about the marriage part as much anymore. It’s the girl dad part. Part of me thinks, if nothing changes, do I just hold on another 2–3 years so they’re a little older? I honestly don’t know if that’s me being thoughtful… or just afraid to make the call
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 04:57 AM
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Dude, you sound just like my bro. I can’t rip the band off.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 04:41 AM
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But I feel I’m unloyal or something knowing that I want more
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 02:18 AM
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But neither of us have pulled the trigger. But sometimes I think she’s just staying for a way of living as well. She’s never been through this either and hard adult life. We basically got married as kids.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 02:17 AM
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Yeah, and that’s honestly where I’m at. Some mornings I wake up and think I can get through this for the kids, have fun, and make it work. Other mornings I wake up sad and feeling ready to just move on.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 02:16 AM
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No, I think that’s just my years in sales saying the same thing two different ways But you did make me think. A year ago, the thought of leaving would’ve destroyed me. Now I can actually picture life without her. The only thing that’s kept me here is my daughters and not seeing them full-time. And honestly… I accidentally got someone’s number the other day (nothing happened), but it made me stop and think… am I already starting to move on?
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 01:54 AM
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What I mean is I can’t force her to process the pain we both created, forgive me, or even want to see me differently than she does right now. And honestly, no, I don’t think this is just about me wanting her to validate that I’ve changed. A year ago? Probably. If I’m being honest. Now what I think I wanted was willingness. Not a promise to reconcile. Not instant forgiveness. Just willingness to maybe relearn each other, have honest conversations, or see if something new could be built instead of…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 01:42 AM
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I’m really glad you spoke up. I’m so sorry you’re carrying this, especially right now. What you’re feeling is heavy, but it doesn’t mean this is the end of your story. Please don’t go through this alone. If you’re in the U.S., you can call or text 988 right now to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. If you’re elsewhere, your local emergency number or a crisis line can help you get through tonight. Talking to someone live can make a difference. For this moment, just focus on the next small step …
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 05:07 PM
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Thank you brother for fighting the fight. Kick ass bro. Treat yourself kind and don’t be so hard on yourself
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 03:26 AM
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Those moments are hard. Just focus on getting through today and being present where you are. That’s enough right now. Just don’t mix it with the past. You go bro!
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 02:45 AM
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I know, man. That pain is brutal and it cuts deep. You’re not alone in it, even when it feels like you are. It does get lighter with time, even if it doesn’t feel that way yet. Keep showing up. Keep breathing. You’re still here for a reason.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 02:05 AM
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You got this brother. That weight is real, especially when kids are involved. You’re not broken, you’re just in the middle of something brutal. Take it one day at a time. Show up for them, show up for yourself. You’re stronger than you feel right now, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet. You’re not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 01:20 AM
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We’ve all been there. After months of being “separated,” I asked her for one thing just to say I love you and give me more time. I told her I’d wait. She couldn’t say the words. That’s when I knew it was over, even though I still had hope. It hurts, but it’s part of it. Build the walls. Build yourself. Love your kids and show up every day. We got this
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 12:52 AM
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I hear you. Living under the same roof is brutal, but you can make it happen. Keep your head down, keep moving, and build loudly.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 12:46 AM
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Dude, me as well. I was always confident and successful. I even told people I couldn’t do it without her. I praised her and put her on a pedestal. When she said she wanted out and didn’t love me anymore, I lost myself. I thought I was a failure. The nights of yelling, crying, pleading about the last 15 years felt like I was dying. But I’m getting through it. I’m in a better place now. I love my kids. I love myself. Still learning and reflecting every day. Let’s do this thing.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 12:36 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 12:10 AM
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This is true. 2 kids 10 & 6. Worked 60 hours a week a cleared 160k. Wife stay home. Now she wants out, claimed I’m abusive and controlling. Just don’t make the mistake I did. I switched industries when she told me that. Cut my pay in half and worked from home. Did the work, worked on Myself. Nothing changed.. STAY MAKING THAT MONEY!! Now to be honest. I learned a lot about feminine and masculine energy and all the attachment styles. Read all the books. It did make me a better dad and husband.. b…
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 03:00 AM
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I really liked that
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 02:22 PM
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We tried couples therapy and I suggested and found a mediator to try to figure it out before Filling and she didn’t want to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 06:38 PM
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Man, I’m really glad you didn’t go through with it. I’ve had friends who reached that point, and it’s heartbreaking. I know there’s always someone out there who cares, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Reading stories like yours hits hard. It’s what gives me anxiety too , thinking about missing my kids or them having to adjust to all this. None of this is easy, but you’re right about trying to keep a positive mindset Respect to you for still showing up for your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 06:21 PM
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