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Veto them and ask them to stay clean. It's that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:55 AM
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I'm reaching 40 and haven't been as successful ever in my life. I literally got stopped and hit on straight by the bar's cutest girl last Friday. I couldn't believe it, my friends couldn't believe either and I was having a blast. That shit could have never happened in my 20's. This girl was 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:28 PM
0

Whatever. Reddit is an enterprise, not a social public service. The red pill guys went and opened their own forum. The Fat Dater Strategists could never pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:53 AM
5

It's not frightening. It's the internet. Don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:51 AM
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I disagree with the premise. Not because the fact that women age and their fertility declines is not true, but because this fact is thrown out there while ignoring the complex society we live in. First, promiscuity vs finding a husband is not a zero sum game. Promiscuous women can get married. Celibate women can remain single. It happens. Simps exist. Second, the premise totally ignores current gender dynamics. It ignores that across the board, men are opting out of marriage altogether. Sluts or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:33 PM
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Username does NOT ✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:36 PM
30

Do anyone of you actually fuck ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:21 PM
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I would definitely not put France into the same bag as the US. Netherlands is far closer culturally. And then South American countries despite being collectivistic, they have a ton of people who LIVE for others and who publicise their personal lives. So in my opinion, your premise is flawed. All you can do is to be more granular. Comparing countries to countries or even regions to regions. American culture is extremely unique, but so are the others. It's not only it's individualstic nature that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:23 AM
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Tl;Dr, losers: be manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:26 AM
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Even if not attractive to some, it is both attractive and admirable to most. Men and women. So props to you. Keep slaying it and fuck the soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:24 AM
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People can yammer on all they want about a theoretical “solution.” This baffled me as well. There's no top down approach to any of this. There are people doing their thing in reaction to the environment and patters emerge from that. Sure there can be policy and cultural changes, but they don't happen from one year to the next. So what? Are people going to remain locked in their phones until the winds of change start blowing in their favor? How boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:56 AM
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This is the internet. I have the intellectual capacity and the energy to find consensus and be constructive. I'm not going to use those things here. For a 30 second pause I make in this sub every now and then, all I have to offer is "the gun is always loaded" advice to other men. Cheap, but largely useful in most circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:52 AM
3

Attraction and heart ache keeps on growing and it doesn't go away. Frustration grows too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:08 AM
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No. Attraction can flourish at any time. What is needed is communication and respect for boundaries. If attraction happens and you're not liked back, you need to respect her preference right there instead of simping for months trying to change her mind. In turn, she needs to respect your decision of backing off so you can reposition your mind and focus romantically on someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:44 AM
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Absolutely. Don't simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:26 AM
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Yes. You don't want fat women. Why would they want fat men? Because you have money? Wake up, Cartman: Women don't need money to fuck. They will fuck the hot guys no matter how broke. Women can work as much as you do and earn as much as you do. Maybe even more. Have you seen how women date? Fuckers build laundry lists of requirements. Even when they are not vocal about them, they will still profile you. You're fat? You're losing points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:09 PM
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I love sodomy yes please. Fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah: they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:52 AM
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1) how attractive does a woman have to be for you to approach IRL? At least a 6. 2) how attractive does she have to be for you to message first on OLD? I don't use OLD 3) how would you rate yourself out of ten? 7 4) has this brought you much success? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:15 AM
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Nah. The systemic change is that people need to become healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:50 PM
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Men need to lose weight and pursue exciting careers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:38 AM
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From my point of view, I can’t imagine successfully attracting a woman just to have sex and ghost her. If you had caviar every day for breakfast, you eventually see it as unimportant as butter and jam.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:15 PM
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Your friend is an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:28 AM
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I could go once a day. Two a day if the weather is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:15 AM
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I don't care. High N count is high N count period
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:11 PM
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Absolutely. Feminism had to happen. But today's feminism turned into a bullshit far left movement which needs lies to sustain itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:07 PM
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They weren't pseudos, they were real acts of physical violence, deprivation of resources or segregation, or at least the threat of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:14 PM
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We first say that women are hypergamous. This means they date at their level or higher. I think we can mostly agree this is the case. A white collar lady won't probably consider a blue collar guy, etc. Now although this is the true, it is also true that in America, a lot more women are coming out of university and establishing careers compared to men. Men are checking out. This leads to women competing for the fewer men that are left at their socioeconomic level. Women say they can't find a part…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:14 PM
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Sure we do have a mating strategy. But this has never been a secret. We don't have an ideological movement trying to paint things differently from what they truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:07 PM
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College educated, no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:52 AM
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Not my body, not my choice, not my problem. It will suck for the kids who get to grow fatherless, but then again, not my problem, not my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:59 AM
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Nothing. I'm already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:50 AM
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isn’t that the man you want to be anyway? Don’t you want to be handsome, fit, successful, interesting, smart, and kind? Of course. But it would also be nice to be able to access to sex on a whim. Besides, I can't be six foot two, I can't be blonde, I can't have the perfect facial structure if I wasn't born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:22 AM
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Personality, Chemistry, intelligence, personal history. That is what makes me want to stay. For everything else, any will do, many do look the same indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:20 AM
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No kids, all career women, not sure about their sexual pasts, probably a bunch of them are tinder sluts. Most under 30 or in their early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:09 AM
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Them knowing their partners are crazy but staying with them anyway? Totally their fault. Being gaslighted by their own friends, family and society about crazy women? I mean, you don't know what you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:07 AM
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In my own experience. Absolutely yes. It's been open season for me in my 30's. I'm in a committed relationship but I have on average 3-4 women proposing me to either leave my girlfriend or just cheat at any given time. That never happened before. Many of my friends who would simp or get rejected endlessly in their 20's are literally telling girls now they (the girls) have to put up with them (the guys) having a rotation of women, or leave. Women are accepting the deal. My own brother keeps upgra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:36 PM
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Replicant phish lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:56 PM
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Talk about your experience with dating (romantic relationships, not the purely sexual ones). How has it been? What's been difficult? It's been good and not too difficult. My experience is probably not too uncommon. Had my first girlfriend at 12, lost my virginity at 16. Got my heart shattered at 15, got cheated on, but always dated/had girlfriends partners. Uni was a bit of a dry summer, but I quickly got back up to speed after graduation. In my 30's I have been playing the game by my rules. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:38 PM
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Do you feel that looks are too emphasized when looking for a long term relationship? Dude people fuck others based on an online catalogue of pictures where have you been for the last 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:19 AM
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Sure, chubz😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:56 AM
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Definitely not forever, but it takes them a lot longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:36 AM
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So long as she stays thin Yep. We both promised to each other we will both stay in shape. I have to stay thin, too. doesn’t age That is something we can't control. I'm aging, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:14 AM
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Absolutely. Love is a beautiful thing and it's what makes the world go round.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:09 PM
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I'll leave the settling down talk to the fat kweens and the aging harpies who can't realize they will be alone for the years to come. I'm happy and in love with my girl, with her flaws and her virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:08 PM
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Yeah. We know this happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:26 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:25 PM
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Show benis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:24 PM
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Guys to remain in contact with women in the hopes of getting out of the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:01 PM
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Casual, yeah, why not. Having to coordinate your schedule with hers probably gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:42 PM
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I'm slim, six pack showing on good days. Put some some lean muscle but have lost a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:41 PM
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Most normal men have had women sexually interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:41 PM
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Why date a single mom when you can date someone who doesn't have a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:38 PM
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My teenage years are harrowing I hooked up with the ugliest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:14 AM
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I don't care. I don't judge. But I'm not marrying a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:55 PM
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No. At least not with university educated women with jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:54 PM
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There no extra benefit. She's just like every other woman. Older than the younger ones and younger than the older ones Higher chances of single mom, divorce bitterness, blown out pussy and self esteem after years of casual sex and more wrinkles and saggyness but hey, judge each person individually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:53 PM
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Why do you think men are checking out of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:32 AM
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Because it's a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:26 PM
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Strange...they see super useful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:48 PM
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Make a poll? I'm an engineer and business owner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:41 PM
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Men need to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:40 PM
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Infidelity, burnout and memes, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:39 PM
2

There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:28 PM
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It's normalized in many parts of Europe. A lot of women here are au naturel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:36 PM
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I mean if it's raining pussy are you even going to complain?. You just play along and keep whoring around pretending everything's fine. Why ruin it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:35 PM
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Because Stacies are so fucking insufferable that all that titsn'ass doesn't compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:34 PM
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I didn't do it for women, but I have been relatively successful in my life while staying fit and the results absolutely show. You don't have to be the next Elon musk. You just have to be slightly above women's perception of what decent status is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:18 AM
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There are probably even less desirable groups. But, when it comes down to women, yeah, you're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:14 AM
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There's no advice that can go against "become healthier". None.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:15 AM
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Deal? I don't have to deal with the opinions people spew on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:13 AM
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LTRs always suited me, as long as I could travel frequently. They allow me to have my own life, and the weekends with my partner were always varied and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:50 PM
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Well said. Very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:45 AM
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Don't worry. They don't know I call them losers 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:25 AM
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I'm not judging them. I'm stating a fact: there are droves of uneducated, poor men without a bright future which can't compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:19 PM
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Yes of course. Because they are losers. And the country is producing more and more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:13 PM
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Losers, losers everywhere. Which I suspect comes with reduced opportunity and reduced wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:13 PM
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You only needed to type "simps lmao"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:01 PM
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Remains to be seen. I hope she does. She isn't totally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:56 PM
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She's learning slowly. This is a woman that grew brainwashed by feminist literature since her teens. Will take her a while
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:40 PM
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Fat, socially incompetent, uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:22 PM
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I can't agree with you, but I do have a female friend who is a PhD student and is staunchiest vegan feminazi I have met. However, her scientific training has her questioning herself at every statement she makes. I'm proud of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:18 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:03 AM
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I can't say I hold the truth in my hand, but this has been the general trend growing up. We all men advised each other to be careful, to avoid falling in love, to just enjoy and keep the distance. TRP is just the internet-distilled culmination of that shift, complete with all the bullshit that only internet communities can concoct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:38 AM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:27 AM
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Is your own sole experience enough to draw conclusions over the fertility rate vs education topic across an entire gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:27 AM
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Friendship is the key. People don't bring it up often because we have forgotten, but the ultimate joy was to fall in love with our female friends and find out we were reciprocated. At some point we decided there's too much heartbreak potential on that so now we pump and dump. I still believe there's an opportunity for friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:12 AM
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It's the internet. Don't take it too seriously. Don't get too involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:50 AM
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Most fat people date each other. Get over it. The folds of cold sweaty skin rubbing 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:49 AM
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Nothing is "designed". Sexual preferences are just what they are and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:46 AM
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It's not that women must be avoided. It's don't give carte blanche to women just because they are women. Not all women can be trusted, we need to educate ourselves on identifying the crazy ones before they grab us by the balls and we need to learn to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:40 AM
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Lmao you just need to keep the legs closed, keep your boundaries and establish deep friendships FIRST before anything happens. Come on, it's not impossible not to be a slut these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:36 AM
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My girlfriend has a PhD with 12 papers and a national excellence award by the time she was 28. My previous girlfriend also had a PhD and now works as a professor in one of the most prestigious universities in her field. I just love scientists. They are excellent critical thinkers, they look at things from 20 angles before drawing a conclusion. They will see sex as a complex act with many ramifications. Can they still cheat and slut around? Sure they can, that's what conferences are for. But sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:30 AM
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Karens have existed for decades. It's just that finally people realised being discrete, humble and decent is ALSO a way to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:12 PM
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> it would behoove you to toss out girls who have used tinder ​ Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:11 PM
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Also, status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:06 PM
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It's cheap entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:09 PM
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We know women end up not being in the mood for sex after a while what else is new
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:08 PM
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If that person just didn't want to have sex at all ever. But still wanted to be in a relationship, and they check all the boxes of what you look for in a mate, would you discard them for someone who's willing to put out, or would you just accept a sexless relationship with them ? No. Or yes, but that person will have to accept I will be looking for sex elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:35 AM
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But they don't have to, that's why they divorce. And they are miserable when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:58 AM
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I have the same opinion as you. I overall ignore women that are extremely attractive or that put, what is in my opinion, excessive attention to their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:54 AM
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Yep. I don't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:39 AM
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Even men who initiates the break up won’t be able to hop on to the next thing as fast as a woman who was blindsided can. That's why you branch swing, my dude. You start dating the new girl before you break up with the former. Works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:45 PM
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I get hit on quite often. I'm your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:47 PM
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I think reddit is just a more boring place overall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:19 PM
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I come here for the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:24 AM
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Fat, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:24 AM
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This is one of the few subs I haven't been banned from lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:08 PM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:58 PM
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No. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:58 PM
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Why is this? Why are men at 30 dating women like OP but not wanting to get serious for another 10 years? Myriad reasons which vary from place to place but include: 1.men are still fertile Men went through a divorce already or a bad breakup in their late 20's or early 30's and use the decade to develop their careers more and get on their feet The economy is delaying emancipation, being able to own homes, etc. Many men are dropping out of the education system and the job market, May take them long…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:13 AM
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No. Polyamory is just a scammy excuse to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:15 AM
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I'm a 29 year old woman, recently single and am worried that men my age will find me less attractive and think I am "past my prime". Is this true? Yes. Not only because you might have become objectively less attractive if you aged poorly or just got fat, but also because men your age will also like younger women in equal or higher measure. There's also the fact that men also become pickier and take their time to get into a serious relationship with women, which may come off as you feeling less a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:12 AM
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If they really want, then they can bang a chick or two every weekend for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:05 AM
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Go to /r/askfrance today. There's a thread on the matter The French generally don't give a fuck about marriage. Just an example. I'm 7 years into my relationship. we're happy. I don't want to get married, she doesn't care if we do or not. Depending where you live, marriage can be extremely risky for men. And no, that within a year rule is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:21 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:19 PM
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I don't know. I know a few turbolosers in real life that are absolutely hopeless. I also know a couple of superneckbeards and quadraAustists who I thought would never in their lives get laid and they ended up marrying some sweet, decent girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:09 AM
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What's scary about some sluts you will barely remember in a few years? All you need to do is use condoms, don't get married, don't have kids, don't take them seriously and veto them hard. Once a good one comes up, date her for at least 6 months before deciding on anything serious and at leave with her for several years before marrying. You know how a promiscuous woman acts, thinks and behaves. It's easy to weed them out. And always have a escape plan. Easy. No need to be scared of anything. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:39 PM
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No fat women. No women without an education in a scientific or technical field
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:15 AM
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No. I don't care much. I'll try my best, take time with foreplay, give oral, etc. But if she's not communicating what she wants and is expecting me to read her mind, I'm going to be done in about an hour and I'm gonna leave. I can't be responsible for her orgasms. It's casual sex, I probably don't want to see that person again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:11 AM
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I get downvoted to hell when I tell men in these subs to just emigrate. Really, other parts of the world are just more down to earth and humane. I'm happy you're enjoying Prague. Europe is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:15 AM
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I'd stay with her until the end. Because I love her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:48 AM
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I didn't know how much American dudes struggle with all of this. You guys live in a society plagued with narcissistic, heartless, anxious bitches. And your society is driven by having to put the other down so you can be on top or are least feel better about yourself. And the whole idea that money is everything colliding against a shrinking middle class with less and less presence of men at universities is truly breaking havoc in societies capacity to see and tolerate each other as equals. Add fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:39 AM
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> Is it a good metric to judge the health of a relationship? ​ One of many I would say. ​ Giving oral is a completely selfless act. You don't get sexually stimulated from giving oral, so your enjoyment needs to come from seeing the other person enjoy what you are doing. To be happy that other person is happy is to care. So it is easy to tell when the other person does not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:17 AM
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To each their own. I prefer to be in a loving relationship with a woman. Probably could never visit a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:02 AM
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We don't talk much about deep feelings. Just do it with one of my best friends who is also my business partner. He goes deep. They are indeed my close friends. I don't think being more emotionally supported is necessarily a positive thing. Emotional support for the take of emotional support can lead to biases and echo chambers where everyone around you validates you even when you need a slap in the face. I prefer straight advice and criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:01 PM
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>Do you feel that you have the necessary emotional support needed within your friend circle? Nopes. Even if I have lots of loved ones around me, I am still on my own. ​ >Do you talk about your feelings and problems with them? Not too much. At least I try not to bother them. ​ > Do you have many friends? I mean irl see them and hang out friends Yes ​ >Who makes up your social circle? Co-workers, friends from university, friends from high school, neighbors, or random you met through life? Family, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:56 AM
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If that is the price to pay for a free society, boundless of religious norms and ancient social rules, then absolutely. All alphas, betas, sluts, tradcons, traps, furries, milfs and big tiddy goth girlfriends are welcome. ​ Except fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:02 AM
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Don't we own it? I think here in this forum we are rather open about the fact sluts are not for long term relationships. It is everywhere. Now, there is no need to openly call women sluts. For one, you get silenced as a mysoginistic slut shaming asshole. For second, it backfires: if we are slut shaming everyone, the sluts will go in hiding. We don't want that. We prefer a free society where everyone can express who they really are so we can all choose to be with the people we want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:11 AM
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Much easier to hookup with a 32 year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:14 PM
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My mom is one of my best friends. I believe men have disadvantages in the dating world just by being on this echo chamber of fat losers. In my own personal experience, I only experienced some disadvantages during my early 20's that were quickly destroyed after graduation. My mom affected my view of women in the sense that she never warned me of how they could be. Maybe she was as naive as I was. I wish she would have warned me a bit more or taught me a lesson or two about not being a simp. My da…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:08 PM
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Nope I don't and I will never have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:07 PM
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If it is, what am I supposed to do as a young 20 year old man? Go for the 18 year olds and the girls who prefer someone their age. Besides that, there is nothing much you can do. Your early 20's can indeed feel lonely. You are indeed at a disadvantage, but the playing feel levels out in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:52 AM
3

Important. My girl needs to have hairless armpits and hairless legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:46 PM
1

You will hit similar odds in many clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:23 PM
1

What can we do? Maybe I'm wrong, and people will all come together and learn from each other and find a happy, long-lasting compromise that doesn't have weird long-term issues. Nah I'm good, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:22 PM
67

That technology already exists: selective abortion. What happens is what you see in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:05 PM
2

No one in this sub has even been able to provide me an accurate definition of what societal decline is. This is not the first time I'm bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:04 PM
5

I just believe they are as dark as men. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:15 PM
1

Violent men definitely ruin the day for everyone. The justice system is not swift enough to deal with them in a timely manner. Also, the justice system can't predict sudden violent behavior.v And of course, the justice system can't take people's words 100% at face value without fact checking. So, I completely understand women being extremely cautious. Is it also paranoia? Sure, but who can blame them? Better be paranoid and alive, right?. But then don't complain men won't approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:15 AM
1

Nah. I don't have to finance someone because they won't or can't earn enough to the standard of living they want to have. What you propose doesn't make sense because you drew an arbitrary line. What makes sense is risk / equity. if I earn more and I pay more, then I'm entitled to a higher share of whatever we are investing together on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:09 AM
1

If N counts don't matter, why does everyone lie about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:21 PM
1

The dude wants someone that knows how to suck at dick but not a worldwide conossieur in dick sucking who could compare his dick to other dozens or hundreds. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:20 PM
0

I have as many female friends as male friends. If not more. You know how you carefully pick your male friends? Guess what! You can do the same with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:18 PM
2

How do you explain starving communists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:17 PM
6

Largely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:59 AM
1

Because your horny brain is different from your brain after orgasm. You feel shame for wanting to do something while horny you wouldn't have done if you weren't horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:07 AM
1

are you trolling or did you not get that? I'm ignoring your question dread of what? Of having fucked an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:02 AM
1

then why would you not masturbate since its easier? This is the go to option the vast majority of the time. or why would you not sleep with the ugliest woman since she would likely be easiest to procure? Can happen, but the feeling of dread once post orgasm clarity sets is harrowing enough to prevent you from doing it again. the fact that you select women implies that you do care, and that sex is a meaningful expression of affection as everyone else is saying. Or, orrrrrr sex is nice to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:52 AM
3

Staying at work until late
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:34 AM
3

As a man, there's no feelings towards the other person to begin with. She's just a sex toy for a while. That's how casual sex works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:17 PM
2

I mean if you are happy with the level of intimacy a fwb can give, knock yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:27 AM
1

The bottom line is to be at the minimum standard women think their own standard is: have a career, place to live, car, don't be fat. What they always say about "having your shit together" Then if you are fitter, your career is more high power, or you have a little bit more money, even better. And then, finally, being consistent and present and very honest is the Cherry on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:26 AM
1

I mean, that's implying relationships are only vessels for sex. Which the aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:44 PM
1

I'm not angry about it. All I needed to do is to become a man girls feel like upgrading to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:45 PM
35

I have many loving friendships with women and a beautiful relationship with my girlfriend. My female friends confide me some dark shit, too. My perspective is: some women will enrich your life, some will destroy it. Choosing to be with the right people is your own responsibility. If you ended up with a psycho or a cheater, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:15 PM
3

Latino here. I wreck it here in Europe. It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:12 PM
6

Europeans are calmer, less selfish, more polite, more egalitarian and FAR more discreet. But also shier and approach less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:11 PM
4

What drives a man to stoop so low in your opinion? Desperation and lack of options
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:10 PM
2

I wouldn't say they are "predisposed", but actually they are raised and educated to do so. Sometimes explicitly, sometimes in sneakier ways, but everyone knows a mom who told her daughter to find herself a man with resources. I agree there's a subset of women who do not want us to know this and simply fake interest. This is equivalent to men faking interest about a possible relationship just to get in some girl's pants. Thing is, girls with experience can read when we're only looking for sex, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:58 AM
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Crucially important. Physical contact is as needed as sleep and food. Connecting intellectually and feeling in your own skin are fundamental. I'd rather have a relationship with less sex and a lot of intimacy instead of a relationship with frequent sex but not intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:10 AM
1

I love being a man child
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:08 AM
1

Wanna see average looking women? Go to /r/invicta Spoiler: make up doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:07 AM
1

This is my go to advice. If nothing works: emigrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:15 PM
1

Because I'm a human goddammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:55 AM
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The women work part time because they have to take care of the home/family so yes the husbands should work full time as their time is not dedicated to anything else besides video games lmao This woman doesn't have children. She just wants free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:49 AM
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I have two female employees. One won't ever work full time. Too much work. He indeed has complained she would like to earn more, but she won't work extra hours. Her husband does most of the heavy lifting. She's not the only one: many women in this country work part time out of choice. The men? Those work full time. The other employee is a hardcore feminist. Works her ass off, earns very good money for her age. But lives mental breakdown after mental breakdown because of her anxiety and drive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:32 AM
3

So I was wondering, guys, would you go out of your way to (for example) talk to a random girl in public I'll never approach a random girl in public, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:34 PM
1

Thanks. I have gathered about 8 different definitions in this thread. Evidently, social decline is mumbo jumbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:16 AM
4

Implying porn is a replacement for the real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:26 PM
0

I promise women are not thinking “how can I make the guys here look at me” 24/7 X
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:54 PM
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My experience lines up with this. I live among highly educated people living in urban areas in Europe. Most people in their 30's. All men I know are in couples or have no issue finding women. Many women I know are looking for relationships and can't find a guy. One of them said fuck it, got a hysterectomy and curated a roster of dicks to poujd her weekly. She seems very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:42 AM
2

I'm willing to travel 1-2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:34 AM
4

Emigration
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:08 AM
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This is one of those cases where there's a double standard and it feels we men are being given contradictory messages, which is true. Even then, the woman wants to feel courted and treated. So paying definitely leaves the date with a better closure. Is it fair or how things should be in an equal world? No. But we aren't full equality yet and double standards still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:59 AM
1

No simping. Which limits everything to quietly checking content without interacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:03 AM
5

but I don’t like most people after a while lol. The lack of self awareness is brutal on this one. You have right in front of your face, OP. Racking up 40 dicks tells me you aren't good at keeping long term relationships. If I wanted one, I'd be looking elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:02 AM
0

really don’t see younger girls picking you over the younger guy. I have been vastly more successful with women in their 20's in my 30's compared to my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:04 PM
10

I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:02 PM
3

Most are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:52 AM
1

Get off reddit and go meet people outside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:36 AM
2

And there are others who are just happy making the extra cash. I'm not buying it. There's both victims and opportunists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:37 PM
2

I don't know, ask all those women who seemingly decide to do sex work when they could do any other job like everyone else....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:12 PM
1

If you think that you as a 40 year old have a chance with the average 25 year old woman just because you are fit and have a full head of hear and you have amazing "game" and you're sexually experienced, you're going to be in for a rude awakening. My experience is that some women are indeed into older guys. So no, no rude awakening here. Just the normal state of beings: some people like some other people and you need to find your niche. When I was in my early 20s. Women ignored me. In my early 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:22 PM
2

What about the women who autonomously decide to prostitute themselves without necessarily falling victims of anyone else? Don't you think calling all prostitutes victims substracts agency from women deciding to use their bodies however they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:18 PM
1

It is not the end game. It's just something that flourishes naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:36 AM
1

Blue eyes, big boobs, highly educated (PhD), flat stomach, comes from a loving home with a present father, likes to travel, knows how to cook and clean, hates drama and is genuinely loved by her friends, low n count and knows how not to be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:35 AM
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Requirements? Don't be fat, have your teeth in good shape, don't smoke. Preferences? I like bigger boobs. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:12 AM
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Whatever. That's my number. Works for me. I don't hook up left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:06 PM
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Women who have poor relationship with their father's just have no fucking clue how to plot a life path, how to keep a steady ship in lifecand therefore they don't know how to find a maintain a relationship. Same goes for men without fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:44 PM
2

15 and above is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:42 PM
1

I experience that normal people are nicer. The extremely beautiful ones can be callous, entitled or anxious, the ugly ones are bitter and angry about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:42 PM
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She trapped him He was stupid enough to allow it. Come on, this lady went abroad getting drunk every night and he didn't think any of it? ​ And no, girls won't vouch for the man if the man cheats. The double standard is there. You know it, I know it. No need to get angry at it. And in the end who cares what women think? Almost none of them will consider our side because they are systurs. So why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:02 PM
2

70% of men are obese. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:23 AM
1

Yeah I'm not cutting my friendships off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:22 AM
5

Yeah ok but why are you getting so angry with internet strangers that have no influence in your life lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:17 AM
3

I used to pull a lot of pussy high school teacher 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:52 AM
18

I love her to bits. I really do. Being next to her already increases my quality of life and reduces my stress level enormously. I love her because she is a beautiful person and she is loving and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:29 AM
1

I see more women trying to punch up and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:16 AM
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Childfree man working growing a successful business, generating quality employment, paying taxes, creating products and technology to produce food more sustainably, funding a PhD student.... I think I contribute plenty and I'm more ambitious than many. But I decide not to live in function of what women want from men like me. Does that make me a beta? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:12 PM
1

Trp don't want to date women. They want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:44 PM
2

What's not to believe? I have seen it all my life. All the older women I know acknowledge it. Girls with nothing to hide acknowledge it too. The only ones denying all this stuff is LARPers and virtue signalers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:43 PM
3

I'm just here to stir the pot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:41 PM
6

rather than using those instincts to be protectors and providers. Thank you trp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:41 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:30 PM
1

I don't meet women from dating sites and probably never will. That tells you where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:15 AM
3

2D > 3D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:14 AM
3

I can only speak for myself, but letting women come to me has been actually the best way to get sex without being rejected. It has worked well for me. Sure I'm fit, I have a head full of lustrous black hair and I have a company valued in a couple million which is highly esteemed around my circles but I also was having sex way way before that. I'm short as fuck tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:13 AM
1

You don't have to do this on purpose. All you need to do is live your life by your own rules and principles. That will lead to relationships which eventually fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:09 AM
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Two thirds of America is obese and men are dropping out of society. I'd say we can't draw conclusions under the existing conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:32 AM
3

Fuck it. Looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:30 AM
1

Lmao none
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:44 PM
1

Because I love reddit drama
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:55 PM
2

I am a forever boyfriend and I'm totally ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:55 AM
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The amount of women in relationships and married that I know cheat or that have directly told me they are down to fuck is pretty eye opening. So yeah, stuff from the sidebar? Yeah. It is true and always has been. The wall? Meh, partly true. It's not age alone. It's 1) the compounded effect of years of abusing the body and 2) men deciding to chase less as they grow older. Besides, if girls just want to have sex, it's an open buffet all the way until their 60's. And the ones bitching they can't fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:22 AM
1

That's my impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:10 AM
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I flat out don't approach or chase. I still get laid Girls decide they like me, make it obvious and well, it happens. Probably would happen more often if I put more effort, but I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:23 AM
2

Ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:18 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:18 PM
1

Sexual attraction is amoral
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:52 AM
2

I have cheated in some relationships in the past .Most of my friends have cheated at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:47 AM
1

Most average men are poorly socialized, obese shut-ins. In America, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:46 AM
1

I am 37
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:31 AM
2

It's two things 1) not being ugly (but not necessarily hot) and 2) being intelligent, yet not judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:02 PM
4

I'm 5'7 and brown. For starters. I'm 130 pounds, lean. Trying to regain my abs after Christmas. Looks wise however, I have been rated a 7 or 8. For some. For many, I'm pretty much invisible. Personality wise I'm one of those guys people naturally gravitate to. I'm confident and fun. Excellent dancer. I'm intelligent, educated to Masters but I own an engineering firm and also conduct research. Hobbies? These days mostly gaming and working out. When we can get out of lockdowns I hike, camp and sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:14 PM
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I don't know. I have been dating slim and college educated women all my life. The last two have been high flying academics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:47 PM
4

No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:39 PM
1

Far more plausible that post orgasm clarity kicked in instead of a nitpicky question annoying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:42 AM
2

Yeah we do. But we're not bitching all day about it and throwing it at each other's faces like a bunch of ugly entitled kween Karens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:04 AM
1

I love basking in your miseries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:31 AM
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Nah. They are just gatekeeping the bit of the status quo that benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:23 PM
0

Ye Although I would suggest that a man who is valuable is just also successful with women constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:09 AM
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A soft harem gives a man value because the women involved decide so. They prefer to keep the man even if it's shared. For that, the man has to give them some benefits that outweigh the handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:28 AM
2

Chubby? You mean obese
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:21 AM
3

Too much time spent on FDS, kween...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:10 AM
2

She saw potential in me in the sense that I would eventually get a good paying job or somehow become wealthy so she wouldn't need to work. I'm happy to announce she's my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:51 AM
2

>Imagine at 50 or 60. Yeah, so fucking what? My balls will be hanging below my knees at that point and we will probably enjoy our time sailing around in a warmed up world full of covid. >Look at what they're paying vs what they're getting Seeing how many spinsters and depressed old lonely men are out there, the level of divorce rape and how unhealthy single people end up living their lives, I think they won the goddamm lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:54 PM
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She's 30. I know many men who left their women for younger ones. But my dad has been married to my mom for 40 years and he still thing she's amazing. My father in law is absolutely bonkers for mother in law after 30 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:35 AM
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Not a fucking chance. I'm getting old too, so I'm growing old with my girl. I'm staying with her because I love her and she has proven to be an outstanding life partner. No amount of fake tits and fake eyelashes and bleached hair and anuses can compensate for how amazing my girlfriend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:12 AM
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Yes. If she gets fat, she's out. And if I get fat, I'm out. That's a deal we made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:51 AM
3

I'm in a long term relationship with a "career woman" who most redpillers would probably not accept. She's extremely successful. But I also am so we're sort of a power couple in a sweet and tender way. We have a relaxed and peaceful relationship. She takes care of house cleaning, I take care of the food, we split laundry. I do most of the driving. We split taking care of our cat. She cleans after her a bit more, I entertain her a bit more. We communicate openly but we never argue. We have never …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:41 AM
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I don't really subscribe to any ideology. I just think all the social problems the US is facing is the result of economic erosion and widespread corruption. The country is slowly but steadily turning into a third world country by any social welfare metric but people have a hard time accepting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:34 AM
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Do you believe your wife settled for you if you’re not 6 feet? Quite the opposite. She tells me I'm the guy of her dreams and she's luckiest for having me. Mind you, where I live, almost no one falls for the 6' meme. Not a lot of people care. Are you bitter about it because you were settled for or believe your wife/LTR can’t be truly attracted to you? I'm happy as fuck confirming that in order for a relationship to be successful, she needs to feel she didn't settle for you. If you believe your w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:16 PM
1

The average man will be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:17 PM
1

I'd say an A. Started having girlfriends since I was 12, lost my virginity at 16, never spent more than 6 months celibate and haven't been single for more than a couple months for the past 15 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:15 PM
2

I tend to think young people starting families are most likely making a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:10 PM
3

The fertility rate is and will keep declining and nothing that our current society offers can't solve that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:09 PM
2

I don't hate onlyfans, I just feel disappointed by simps. But, no my momey, not my body, not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:06 PM
1

Dating is a foreign concept tropical Latin America. We don't date. I don't know how the weirdos in the colder parts do it. We organically meet people in large groups of friends and things organically evolve. Most of the evolution even happens during social gatherings, with some moments where they soon to become couple spend time alone together just hanging out, helping each other with chores, work or study and sort of trying to play how to be a couple in trial version. Sex may or may not happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:34 AM
2

I just don't trust women for being women. I don't take their loyalty and innocence for granted. They are treated like any other stranger with a handicap: I will be twice as cautious if I see they are playing dumb to get away with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:28 AM
3

You're not mgtow, you're just a maturing man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:00 AM
2

If there's more, your capacity to veto the wrong women is broken. Sorry bud, this one's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:57 AM
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Fuck. Most women aren't like this but A LOT are. My mom has been always the first person to warn me. The second person to warn me has been my aunt which a high flying divorce and immigration lawyer. The third one to point me out women that do this is my own girlfriend. She was no restraint showing me how her friends treat their boyfriends. That said, their signs show and sadly it is up to us men to veto this women and walk when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:52 AM
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Good post. I held the same views as you, feeding from everyone's stories in America. Then a realized I actually live in Europe and the situation here is more palatable and fairer to us men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:46 AM
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Awalt doesn't exist and have incurable oneitis with my partner of 6 years which thinkd I am the best man she could have found so I'm her hypergamous endgame while being a 5'7 brown manlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:38 AM
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It's all about baggage. Clean divorce? That's a break-up with extra steps. Most men won't care and any non-stupid guy will understand you married young and didn't have sexual partners before. That's still pretty normal. Now, if you are too focused or obsessed about being the one to someone and you are a perfectionist, I can easily see how men will quickly get away from your neurosis. That has nothing to do with sex or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:35 AM
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Fuck off with the victimization, man the fuck up, get of out the house and go meet people and get laid. No one is humiliating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:49 PM
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Some of us are a tough bone to chew when it comes to deciding entering a relationship. This gives us the upper hand in that power dynamic. ​ Women want relationships more than we want them Men want sex more than women want them ​ This is the crux of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:14 AM
2

If intelligence comes with being confrontative, I am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:23 AM
5

Yeah I'm not reading that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:22 AM
1

I prefer ghosting. The message is clear, no drama needed, I wait for no one to move on. Easy and practical. ​ I mean you gotta be fucking a fucking idiot not to realize she is moving on or she didn't like you. Come on, be honest with yourself. If you are too short, ugly, fat, small pp, socially incompentent of chemistry wasn't there, you KNOW it. Just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:20 PM
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>Why do women wear such things that draw attention to their butt and breasts when you're at the gym? Attention whores. Same reason buff guys wear those lose shirts showing everything ​ >To the men - does this make you uncomfortable? Fuck no. Thanks for the eye candy, tho ​ >Do you notice when women dress this way at the gym? For the most part, no. I try to focus on the workout as much as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:13 PM
1

lmfao implying I give a shit about what American women prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:31 PM
0

Hmmmmm incel bussy💓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:20 PM
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That's alright, we're internet strangers. I don't believe your story either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:19 PM
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Not really....they are just.. normal. Not ugly, not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:51 PM
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The tinderellas I know can't stop bitching about how men are terrible lovers who can't please them. They get all the lovers from Tinder. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:47 PM
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nah. not interested. I prefer to go with my intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:52 AM
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lmao imagine asking horny guys you meet on tinder for a quick fuck to be sensible of your delicate anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:48 AM
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Of course I have seen this. ​ Just pop by /r/datingoverthirty and aloofly hint you, as a man in your 30's, have a preference for women in their 20's. Come back and post results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:46 AM
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84 kid here. We're reaching our 40s now. Some of them are total wrecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:32 PM
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Young men (18-30) are immature - The fuck does that mean? Lmao ask women they are the ones saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:44 PM
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Speak for yourself my woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:42 PM
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Hmm.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:54 AM
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I was thinking about that too. You seem to describe mostly millenials. The younger tiktok zoomers seem be far more feminine and more worried about male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:49 AM
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Period sex. I ended up covered in slimy blood and uterus lining chunks. The smell was something else. Never had period sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:45 AM
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I'm truly baffled at the complete loss of cooking skills. I mean I understand you want to want to abolish the patriarchy but you gotta know how to feed yourself at least lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:42 AM
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Yeah nah speak for yourself my man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:38 AM
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Honestly, self improvement is basically being competent at something, earning a decent income and not being a fat slob. This how it has always been. I don't know at which point in the past 30 years we decided things were different than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:25 PM
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I have never met an onlyfans girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:35 PM
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I don't want breadcrumbs or being one of the options. So no time wasting for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:34 PM
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I have more female friends than male friends. I'm in my 30's and in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:39 AM
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Yep. I'm scared I won't be attracted anymore or that the bedroom will die... But there's always a way out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:56 AM
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There's no dream girl and marriage is a losing proposition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:17 PM
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People are free to decide who they spend their lives with. Many women wouldn't bat an eye at upgrading so fair Play
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:18 AM
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>gender studies in college ​ Post ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:05 AM
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I thought you were on /r/wallstreetbets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:33 AM
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Exactly my experience. The polyamory bullshit is simply an institutionalised hallpass because women can't take responsibility for their decision in this regard. They want to have the cake and eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:30 AM
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Men can withhold commitment as much as they want and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:11 PM
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Pornsickness isn't a thing. The term is just thrown around by bitter women who hate the fact men would prefer to rub one out rather than banging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:31 AM
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I won't publicly shame a slut for being a slut. But I won't date her. She's free to make her choices and I have no say over those choices. But, I'm also free to make my choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:30 AM
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"Settling" is for middle age Karens and FDSists who drink boxed wine and are bitter about their string of failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:42 AM
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Yeah it is too much to ask depending where you're from :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:44 AM
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Nah. Travel somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:26 AM
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Same advice I give to men: don't be a beta pickme. Attraction can't be negotiated. If he's not fully onboard, then drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:20 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:00 PM
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Literally not making a single move until you get very clear body language hints she's into you. It might mean I may have spent weeks without picking anyone, but my rejection rate was always very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:44 PM
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​ Yeah. I use it to annoy/troll my female friends. Works perfectly well. I use it as banter, but I can also honestly use it to get self-grandiose girls with over inflated egos to bring it down a notch or two because it's fucking annoying to hear them brag about how much of a great catch they are when in reality, they aren't. ​ I never used it to get someone to like me. ​ I think you are being dramatic. You are aware of it, work around. What's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:40 PM
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It's due to people becoming shut in fat fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:18 PM
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How common is it for a man to only feel sexually attracted when in love with someone? Ubiquitous, universal. The vast majority of men will still feel sexual attraction to someone else. Now, not all of them will give that attraction more than a few seconds of thought and many will never act on it. Is it impossible to hope that I can get into a relationship with someone of the same type of attraction I experience Each person is unique, so yes. It is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:17 PM
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Man here: woman 2. I ain't dating a hot bartender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:14 PM
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We have been together for 6 years and now we live together. It worked for us, but it took some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:52 AM
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During covid my partner and I got locked down on different countries. I had to watch her defend her PhD online, alone. She was alone too. It sucked. My mental health has taken a twist for the worse. I am incredibly burned out and frankly I don't know how I manage to continue, but I do. Now I just want to leave my office and spend my days working from home with my cat on my lap and my girl by my side. I'm part of that great resignation movement everyone's talking about but I'm a business owner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:26 AM
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Dating is not a thing on my culture, so no. But if I like someone I do go the extra mile and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:21 AM
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I like them. My current partner and previous ones have been high flying PhD students which previously were top of their class or end up getting awards or research grants. They are sweet, but also extremely dedicated and hardworking. I am too. There's a caveat to that: the constant moving searching for new jobs. It has taken me a lot of sacrifice and greenhouse gas emissions to maintain these relationships at the distance. These are not women that will leave their careers and I won't leave mine, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:17 AM
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You are missing one: genetic match potential by pheromone detection. Many times a girl is like "I like him". And that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:50 PM
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As for me it's true. If I really like her it will show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:48 PM
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Around 3. Has nothing to do with masculinity or access to sex. More to do with the current state of the world and the bleak future we have ahead. Work stress is also killing me slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:53 AM
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From the "orgasm gap" perspective as you point it. Absolutely yes. This is because men are easier to pleasure and pleasuring a woman takes a lot more effort. Why put effort on some random tinderella I won't see ever again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:38 PM
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The women I see having trouble finding boyfriends are just either fucked up from spme past trauma or difficult upbringing, brainwashed by excessive use of social media or simply too fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:40 AM
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This is an indication that that thot is a fucking idiot and therefore has to be ignored. Otherwise by the same token, we shall reject every woman who lost weight in the gym, who wears makeup, who dresses well, who uses plastic surgery, who wears any padding or that doctors her pictures. Only pure, genetic perfection is acceptable. See how ridiculous that sounds? Now, she brings she gets off vibes from this guy's personality. It can be that yeah, he comes off weirdly because he's not super natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:59 AM
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With a prenup an incoming divorce should be relatively drama free. But there's always some drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:19 PM
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Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:43 PM
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1) Took a girl to a beach weekend getaway just to have to listen to her brag how she would always manage to get gifts and entertainment from men. On my face. All weekend. 2) got married to my back then girlfriend under her pressure when I really didn't want to. Those two I'll never forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:42 PM
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The endgame is to liberate men from the desire to enter long term relationships with women under women's terms, I believe. To make men dictate the pace of the music.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:57 AM
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An intelligent woman who is loyal and who grew up in a loving family with a present, loving father. Those are the women you have a peaceful life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:55 AM
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TRP guy: absolutely annoying bro bragging how he was banging married women. Awkward conversations all over the place. FDS girl: friend of my girlfriend. Says men who enjoy video games are not real men and keeps complaining men have no clue how to please a woman in bed. But she keeps being pumped and dumped by tinder dudes who give her zero orgasms, zero fucks, and scabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:25 AM
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>do you really think women are more attracted to celebrities than non-elite men? Just a subset of basic bitches. ​ Most women I know do not give a rats ass about celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:01 AM
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Water engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:00 AM
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Ok but you can't deny this provides endless entertainment value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:22 AM
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Both have this us versus them approach that never works in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:38 PM
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I'm not sure if overstate anything. I mean, I form beautiful relationships with younger women rather effortlessly so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:37 PM
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I wouldn't handle the differences. I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:35 PM
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I mean you do see the tables flipping among people after the 30's and the whole game does become more enjoyable for more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:01 PM
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And if a woman cannot or does not want to do that, then she has to accept what she can get. Women prefer being alone than having to lower their standards. And they are in the total right to do so. And they do it because society tells them they can. ​ Do some bitch they are lonely and can't find a "good" man? Sure. That's their problem to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:47 PM
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Or women can, you know, assume some responsibility themselves and lower there standards. How is their responsibility to lower their own standards? Responsibility towards whom exactly? A bunch of fat autistic losers? Because if they want to act in their own best interest, of course they will put those standards high. ​ Plus, they can do whatever the fuck they want because no matter what they do, there will always be simps ready to simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:45 PM
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Or men can, you know, assume some self control and responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:21 AM
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I never considered myself attractive, but I must be a 7 or a 8 considering the kind of women I have attracted. Never solid, Instagram model 10s, but some traffic stoppers here and there and generally cute and intelligent. Status-wise, probably an 8-9. I own my own company, I publish papers, I'm growing to become a reference in my professional sector. Definitely on to the top 10% among my peers. Money wise meh, 5. I have some savings, I don't have a house. I'm far from being rich and I live a med…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:03 AM
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Dead bedroom after 5 years and total loss of intimacy. The next one drove me nuts with her anxiety issues. Kept blaming me I was cheating on her when I wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:57 AM
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Yes, because they can, because we men are a bunch of thirsty fucks that can't stop simping
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:56 AM
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I have no clue and I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:00 AM
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Lfmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:00 PM
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I always had a chance with girls my age but I always preferred younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:59 PM
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Won't. Can't means there's a problem that needs solving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:09 AM
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I'll be looking for sex elsewhere in that period of time after the bedroom has died
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:51 AM
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I'd say 3-6months
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:40 AM
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Never did until I got asked first or they brought it up. I'm not concerned about the numbers. Slutty women are super easy to recognize if that's what I'm trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:37 AM
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Period sex. I'm done with the bloody mess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:49 AM
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My girlfriend is 8 years younger and a PhD..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:02 PM
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I like them smart, educated in science, with boobs, and younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:03 AM
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All men watch porn. Including those who are successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:05 AM
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I don't resent anything. If anything I love the current state of affairs. But I won't put up with the hypocrisy of us being criticized for building our own standards or playing the game our way. You do you, I do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:40 AM
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>After a few times with each, I started to literally lose the ability to get hard with the bookish girl. She was a better fit for me, we got on way better and had more fun as people, but the sex was ruined by the fact that on the days I wasnt seeing her I was having sex with a total hotty who's tits just made it an olympic level challenge not to cum instantly. ​ You just liked the hot girl better. ​ I have been in a similar situation to yours, and the bookish girl won the day. Better chemistry, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:19 PM
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Nah telling them to fuck off is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:54 PM
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The problem is that "don't settle" went from being "just don't marry the first deadbeat who lovebombs you" to "ignore every man that doesn't tick every box of your 50 item checklist" I mean to each their own but the constant bitching mixed with total lack of self awareness is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:25 PM
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Their 5 page checklists and their reluctance to accept they aren't 24 year old hotties anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:17 PM
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Wuttt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:04 PM
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I'm banned from /r/datingoverthirty for calling out at the harpies with their bullshit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:01 PM
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Overall access to contraceptives is extremely positive. Most the time women tend to be more open to having children than men, so for us men, it's cool. We know we will almost certainly be able to have children if we want to. That is of course unless you're a loser who can't find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:01 AM
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> Is this even concerning or are we worrying about absolutely nothing? For you as a person? Probably not. There's nothing you can do about it besides preparing yourself, if you can, for a world where retirement or cheap retirement will not exist. ​ >We can always import people from other countries, right? Not at the necessary amounts to ensure replacement. And even then, when you import people from other countries and give their daughters an education, the fertility rates drop drastically again.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:53 PM
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It's not a movement. There's no agenda. It's just a increasingly common lifestyle people are making a personal decision to partake on. Of course,as always, people will want to band around it and call it a movement, but it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:44 AM
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Foodie means free meal. You will pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:12 AM
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She posts pictures of food on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:10 AM
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Hence my question. People need to introspect a little before bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:35 AM
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People villainizing others is just bullshit. Have any of these people tried to like someone they don't? It just doesn't work. You can't just "lower your standards"....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:01 AM
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Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:32 PM
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I like women who love to socialize. ​ I do not like women who need the validation of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:38 PM
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Nah. I just don't like bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:37 PM
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Is not wealth, it's women's access to career and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:38 AM
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It takes a lot of self reflection and honesty to gauge it. And women totally lack that that's how they get burned. I have had literal 5/10 chubby friends tell me "I should become a model" lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:37 AM
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I would say so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:50 AM
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Fuck no. Trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:49 AM
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The Coolidge effect is very fucking real the moment she is out of the radar. Loneliness, intimacy loss, when you feel doesn't admire you, etc. That's it, the man is at least open to look what's out there, even if he never takes action. I have particularly observed this effect playing at max among wealthy older guys in professions where young women continuously enter. It's absolutely super fun to observe. I have worked in offices where the wives of the senior staff would ask for a desk or come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:39 PM
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My 36 year old brother you found himself a 22 year old ultra hottie you guys have no fucking clue what you're talking about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:36 PM
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Sure. The catch is I'll find out quick if you like me back and I'll walk away much quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:49 PM
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Women on reddit: YoU aRe ReSpONsIbLE FoR YoUr OwN OrGaSmS Also women on reddit: you are being a selfish lover!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:39 PM
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Not sure. Seems that pedophiles are just a part of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:50 AM
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A lot of highschool teachers do 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:54 AM
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Call me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:14 AM
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We Latinos don't give a fuck. If we can't get laid, it's all our fault, not women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:12 AM
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Nope. Probably her clit is bigger than my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:10 AM
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Italy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:37 PM
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The blackest of pills: they will be the laughing stock of /r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:20 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah guys, better become a social pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:33 AM
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I don't chase. Women wanted equality and wanted to be left in peace, so that's exactly what I did. Not gonna expose myself to ridicule to give some girl an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:43 AM
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I mean yeah. Some men will look past that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:47 AM
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Congratulations you just swallowed the redpill faster than Mia Khalifa in a gloryhole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:05 PM
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Horniness clouds our judgement. A very horny man will fuck a rusty pole in the highway given the chance. A man with options and success with women won't hesitate to have sex given the chance. Chemistry is secondary. Chemistry makes for better sex and a deeper connection, once the mental clarity comes back, the proper risk assessment of the situation comes in, and often the result is that leaving for good is best. Of course there's several levels to this. But make no mistake, what makes the diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:17 AM
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Yep. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:22 PM
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The causation is the other way around. Parental leave policies have been put in place to try to improve birth rates. So there's no paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:09 PM
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I have to fully agree on this one. That said, her type might change with time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:34 AM
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No. Reducing male thirst would
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:31 AM
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Everyone's fat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:34 PM
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I have several opposite experiences as a man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:33 PM
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I'm not sure. I think it has to do with their compatibility with a more sedentary lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:34 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:47 PM
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Oh shit our cover has been blown
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:47 PM
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Has not much to do with TRP. But more about the internet locker room talk that is the manosphere. We're are indeed obsessed with it. It's a revenge fantasy. The narrative goes more or less like this: Beautiful women treated us harshly and rudely when young. They had the world on their feet and all they did was to waste or abuse their power. Now that their looks fade and they end up lonely drowning in red wine and cat litter, they get to experience what we experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:54 PM
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You don't have to white knight your way around, simpy. Let the losers keep losing and crying about it online, you go have your life and play the game the best you can. No need to feel embarrassed about what strangers say online just because we just happen to have dicks between our legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:38 PM
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That sounds fucking boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:36 PM
10

You can't rest your face on your male friend's soft, warm tits while caressing their hair. I known women baaaawwwwling because they feel lonely without boyfriends despite having friends. So people just crave romantic company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:35 PM
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I don't mind that she knows me well. I do mind the nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:30 AM
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Well. It's it true, but not because he's ready for a relationship with someone else immediately at that point. But if you stretch this guy's life story into the future, he's indeed gonna end up with a relationship with someone at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:48 AM
1

I guess wanking and banging children
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:46 AM
2

Social validation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:38 PM
2

Nothing. I want nothing. I'm perfectly fine with who I am and how things work. I get to play the game just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:43 PM
1

Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:42 PM
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I want women to have stellar careers but what I also want is them to stop bitching there aren't any men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:40 PM
0

For me it isn't. Privacy comes first. I'm lucky to be with someone who shares my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:38 AM
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Whatever works for us. Privacy comes first so no one is entitled to find out how much money the other has. If I disclose it, it's because I decide to. Same for her. And we keep accounts separate, each other managing their own finances. If we decide to invest together, then there's legal agreements for that. I couldn't give two fucks if my girlfriend had a million stashed somewhere in Panama. That's her money, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:51 AM
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We're just a bunch of stuck up people that see others as potentially offenders and we love to climb on that moral high ground at the slightest excuse. That's why people don't compliment each other directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:26 AM
1

Yep. Wait a bit, you will probably change your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:34 PM
1

you must be young, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:24 PM
2

I love playing the game
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:57 AM
1

My female friends confide me their deepest secrets: most of them are too fucking crazy for me consider them relationship material. Many are raging closeted sluts. They are also hopelessly single with no end to their singledom in sight. Sadly, it's my friends whom I don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:53 AM
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Random thot opinion dismissed. I mean you do you, but I don't date sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:49 AM
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>Men, are you okay with your female SO watching porn? Yes ​ >Do you guys watch it together? No ​ >Are you genuinely unbothered by it? ​ Yes. ​ >Would you rather it stay “out of sight out of mind” as in she shouldn’t tell you that she watches it or when she does? >How do you feel about the erotica she reads, if that’s her preference? ​ I don't give a fuck. Her wank material is hers to enjoy and I have no opinion or say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:57 PM
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Imagine wasting time with some bitter girl with a chip on her shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:32 PM
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You won't get much more interaction from me. Maybe some other user wants to chip in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:27 PM
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Men are told women are sweet, innocent. Girls on a daily basis are trusted by default. Questioning their motives is frowned upon. Men are never told upfront women can lie and deceive. Men are sadly also never told upfront the girl they like will leave for someone better given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:06 PM
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It's not evil per se. What men loathe is having grown up being told women don't operate the way they do. At least in America. In South America, hypergamy is not only widely recognized, but also openly fostered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:40 PM
5

Speak for yourself, simpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:35 PM
7

Wtf is this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:35 PM
14

For men? As long as they are decently attractive, keep themselves in shape, have good financial standing and good attitude towards life, it's almost never too late. For women? It's over in their 40's, the latest. Not because they could not find a partner, but because their standards and demands keep increasing while their attractiveness dwindles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:22 AM
4

Check their family history and upbringing. How how loving her parents are, and how close is she to her father. Any absent father, history of neglect or abuse, etc. Run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:23 AM
3

Pear shape is sexy. Apple shape isn't. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:30 PM
3

Because tats are a sign of impulsivity, mental issues and short term thinking. You got tats, you're not fully stable mentally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:58 AM
1

>How often do you have "nights out"? eg. 2x a week, once a month, a few times during the summer, etc. (You can say pre/post-COVID too) ​ Depends where I lived and the social context. In countries where I made good friends and that had a vibrant social setting, we would go out at least twice a week, if not three or four. Now where I live, I barely go out and I have no friends :). >Where do you go? How many places do you go in a night? eg. clubs, bars, etc. Normally bars then we would finish the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:54 AM
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> Was that too soon? Remains to be seen. ​ >I really wanna say something like “Friendship and emotional intimacy are very important dynamics to me when having sex with someone. I’d like to build that and take things more slowly before being physical” I’m worried that’ll ruin it tho... thoughts? It's bullshit. Because your actions did not match your words. They guy was going to come up with "wtf are you saying we already fucked". ​ >I honestly just wanna avoid that cloudy judgment and looking at …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:47 AM
5

fucking simps man. ​ I have also seen women simping, and its equally pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:44 AM
2

For a year. Then we had to long distance again, which I'm not willing to keep doing so I'll quit my job to go after her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:24 PM
1

You don't care if a potential partner is attracted to you or not? Of course I do, and I can perfectly assess that in every case, no need to worry about that part. But I don't care if in general women as a group aren't normally attracted to x or y. They like what they like and there's always exceptions to the rule. It's not our problem to try to change women's dating struggles. Well men apparently care about dating women who aren't virgins to to the divorce risk, but a 95% chance of divorce with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:12 AM
3

There's an ocean between women who use dating apps and women who have never used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:58 AM
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Most younger women generally aren't attracted to older men Not our problem. Women in the west now make their own money so income in a partner is losing importance and things like looks and common interests are gaining importance Not our problem Age gap relationships are a divorce risk with a bigger age gap being associated with a higher chance of divorcing Yeah, so what? Marriage is still a risky endeavor for men. Older men will know how to navigate this better. Women living longer than men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:57 AM
2

We were long distance (400km) for four years. I traveled to see her every weekend, no mater what. Driving, hitchhiking, buses, trains. ​ I am considering having kids, when I never wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:41 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:40 PM
6

Of course there a secret underworld: it's covered by privacy. We all have something to hide. Some hide more, some hide less. ​ Most people cheat, most women will have more casual sex than they will ever admit, men will have a bunch of sex partners they will never disclose. A bunch of people had whore phases they would rather hide or never lived at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:40 PM
2

As a man, I dictate my timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:14 PM
1

Feels gud
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:12 PM
1

She's intelligent, humble, well mannered, not confrontational, not inflated ego, not a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:38 AM
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It already changed the dating market. women don't date down so they are left to fight for the fewer highly educated men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:36 AM
3

Avoiding social stigma. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:35 AM
11

Yeah the only mistake is that this is all reddit stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:54 PM
2

Do you live in Yemen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:20 PM
5

Nopes. It's hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:52 PM
7

Right. There's welfare and public spending for everything. That's the price we pay for living in semi functional countries. I don't want the country waging war yet taxpayer money is used for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:50 PM
3

What does taxes have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:28 PM
28

Fairest achievable: men go their own way fully and stop simping left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:25 PM
7

Man. I don't know. Would you put up with a stinky woman on a date? Smells are a powerful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:51 AM
3

Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:49 AM
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Pornsickness is a meme created by the FDS fatties to shit on men that would rather crank one out to goth tiddies than having to deal them Change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:54 AM
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Betas and virgins are jealous 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:13 PM
2

It's a semi lie. People like a warm home to come back to at the end of the day but they would totally fuck someone on the side given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:57 PM
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The girl doormats him. She builds or tries to live her life how she wants it, he reluctantly accommodates around it. He works nine to five, getting shit from the boss, comes to a home where he still gets shit on. If he gets too deep into a hobby, he gets shit on. If he works too long, shit on. New hair style? Shit on. Growing a beard? Shit on. Sex happens once a month, she feels she could do better and goes out to fuck some dude to see if she still "has it". Probably she becomes infatuated with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:38 AM
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I would outside the US. I dated coworkers often and even ended up marrying one. I don't live in the US and dating co-workers is pretty normal in my culture. In the US? Fuck that. You fuckers are mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:27 AM
1

Same with women dating nice guys and lusting after the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:42 PM
8

You date your plain Becky while you lust after TikTok thots. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:53 PM
5

Why? Because double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:15 PM
4

Everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:06 AM
5

Awalt can't be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:01 PM
7

No. Men choose to follow these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:01 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:47 PM
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Lmfaoooo imagine paying 5000 dollars out of desperation to get your ugly ass noticed at 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:26 PM
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Ah just come and keep with your mindless bitching about my comments and it will come naturally 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:00 PM
3

More than welcome to make it as deep as your genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:46 AM
1

Yeah. We are getting bombarded with absolute hotties on TikTok and Instagram daily. The ugly ones don't post. Of course you receive a warped idea of what's standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:08 AM
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You can't make everyone happy all the time. A group of women are happier, another group are less happy. Then there are larger factors at play that are making everyone unhappy. Depression, anxiety and medication use are at historical highs. Can be blame that to equality when the American middle class is getting destroyed before our eyes while the planet burns and billionaires measure dicks in orbit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:06 AM
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When you are an obese NEET living in your mom's basement waiting to die of a preventable disease before 50 without a way out of depression.... yeah... self improvement might help
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:51 PM
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People are not fully developed and financially established until they reach their 30s. Plus marriage is overall a losing proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:48 AM
2

You will be judging your boyfriend based on the actions on another person? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:57 AM
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Shut the door. Everyone can go home now. Next thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:45 AM
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Tall men have always been more attractive but the internet gave everyone a platform to bitch about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:36 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:40 PM
5

If I was single I would go on a rather short slut phase and get bored of it all rather quick. Casual sex is fucking boring. As I'm not single, nothing would change, but it would be nice to know a slut phase is possible if my relationship goes down the drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:55 PM
4

Divorce take a buttload of money fuck the pool boy win win
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:54 AM
4

TRPrs are the true NPCs trying to live in a postwar telefivision show change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:31 AM
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My 60 year old friends shagging women in their 30s gives me a different message
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:04 PM
2

World exists outside of internet echo chambers who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:27 PM
4

Men will fuck women so ugly they will traumatize themselves psychologically after nutting and waking up the day after. This is how horny they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:30 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:26 PM
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Pretty often, really. I see an epidemic of single frustrated women everywhere I go. I just spent a weekend with a friend in her 30s saying she won't date a man who doesn't text often, who plays videogames and has immature hobbies and that doesn't have a high flying career. She's a 5 at best, fattening, gets pumped and dumped by tinder guys and she wants to leave her own high flying career to become a high school teacher. The memes write themselves. One of my best friends fucks the whole office a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:25 PM
1

I'm not going to be taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:08 AM
1

Losers gonna lose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:57 AM
3

Nice word salad, op. Go to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:55 AM
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How do you feel about having sex or a relationship with someone who only thinks you're passable or average? Casual sex? I don't care. I'll be on my way in the morning Do you care if you get someone to have sex with you even if they don't really like the way you look? Is that enough to satisfy you? That's setting myself up for a miserable relationship. So I do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:27 AM
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You don't have to belong to any group. In fact don't even try it. Be yourself and enjoy your life. Cut the external noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:45 PM
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I don't know about the percentages, but there's nothing more satisfying than finding the right girl so you don't have to deal with any other girl again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:05 PM
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Submissive: just don't be a confrontational bitch that gets offended about everything and forces me to walk on eggshells
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:24 PM
2

You just have more options. Or at least the impression of having more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:57 AM
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They shouldn't prioritize marriage and they shouldn't commit to men long term. Yet, many keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:56 AM
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Excellent question. I think you (we) are aroused by the idea, the character, of an anonymous woman enjoying to the fullest, boundless. This is because as gatekeepers of sex, if she's boundless, then we are boundless too. But personify the situation using someone you know and you could imagine having a relationship with and that genetic self preservation kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:08 PM
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I already emigrated from a collapsing country. I'm pretty safe where I am and I would know how to move again if I have to. The decline in the US won't be an apocalyptic civil war. It will be a, slow decay with increasing economic hardship, inequality and violence. Learn to hedge against inflation and you will be largely OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:42 PM
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Speak for redneck America. I'll be just fine with my money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:35 PM
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Enjoy the decline, eh? I'm sure as hell enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:59 PM
1

The issue is that it has a destabilizing effect on society at large since the family unit is now disrupted. And nothing of value was lost
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:55 AM
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Good try laying the pros and the cons. The cons VASTLY outweigh the pros. Bonus track: you will never be a priority to her. Scheduling, short and long term planning, finances, ALL are thought around the children. Her objective eventually becomes how can she use you so her children fare better. Sure if being a father without fathering children is your thing and simping is your fetish, then by all means knock yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:04 AM
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Yeah I'm well aware... Nothing that a vasectomy and good veto power can't solve
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:01 PM
2

These days? Intelligence, dark triad stuff, and assertiveness: everything that works into making money or gaining status. In civilized societies, financial success: babies. In barbarian societies, brutality: babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:54 PM
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Wanting women something they aren't just because I want it puts me on the level of those women who expect men to change. Fuck that. Women are better being just the way they are and I am the way I am. We either make it work or we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:50 PM
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Of course they aren't, but eat pussy right and they will keep coming back for more. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:27 PM
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Ugly men are seen as a potential threat everywhere they go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:03 AM
1

MORE insecure? You want MORE? Pls no🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:10 AM
0

Nah I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:41 PM
5

If I were to live in the US, the Pence Rule applies. I would limit my interactions with women to the minimum and more importantly I would not work alone with one. But I don't live in the US so it's cool. I can keep it professional and at the same time work closely with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:18 AM
0

No. It's not causing a morality imbalance. It is causing that Sony guys go hang out on other sites outside of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:15 AM
1

Honestly, cheating is cheating for a reason. You don't need to justify cheating to anyone. You just go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:08 PM
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My plan is to make shitloads of money, continue investing and starting businesses, and perfecting the art of being a digital nomad as much as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:04 PM
0

Excellent prospect, really, if you manage to weed out the crazies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:44 PM
3

Man.... That FDS thread really stirred the pot. Who gives a fuck. Keep your phone locked and establish your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:55 AM
1

Because a woman said something you don't agree with that means you can be a scumbag with no remorse? Yes. Do psychopaths need a reason for being psychopaths or is biology the reason? No reason needed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:54 AM
2

These neurotic fatties know no limits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:52 AM
1

Yeah, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:51 AM
1

And that's a good thing or a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:50 AM
4

I wonder how FDS is still alive 🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:49 AM
2

Six years into mine. I see my girlfriend on the weekends. No issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:23 AM
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I started looking into this a couple of hours a go when a TRP guy on Youtube was saying that he never eats pussy because that is beta. who THE FUCK are these guys lfmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:47 AM
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Being 10/10 does not compensate for sucking at eating pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:40 AM
3

The bottom line is: people need to expose themselves to interactions as much as possible. You never know when some girl is going to find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:36 AM
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Women bring all that indeed but then why is everything flooded with tits, ass, onlyfans, instagram, tiktok shallowness that wipe all the underlying value and replace it with a 5 second dopamine shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:14 AM
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Look, this is all advice that works for a normally attractive, socially balanced guy. Happens to me as well. I'm short, brown and frankly rather average in looks. Yet I have always been rather successful with women. Am I that 10/10 giga chad that beds hotties every weekend? Absolutely fucking not. I don't aim to live in a porn movie. I don't even like hotties. But you are appealing to a bunch of sexless social outcasts with no confidence and no tools to adapt to the current social environment an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:12 AM
6

Whatever it is. It's the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:35 AM
12

Some women LOVE married men and men in relationships. Women cycle through the top males in the hierarchy. In Norway for example, higher class men have more children from several marriages compared to lower class men. And yes, male sluts in online dating just do great overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:27 AM
1

Bot my partner and I work our ass off and have always been overachievers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:45 AM
1

I don't know. My brother is average at best and he's fucking a string on married women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:12 PM
1

Who gives a, fuck about what this sub thinks? We know what's good and what's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:11 PM
1

The results are actually good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:10 PM
2

I'm not spending money on strangers I meet over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:11 AM
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Do any men want housewives? I don't. Should housework be split with men? Yes. 50/50 Should a woman be submissive? Should the man be dominant? Whatever floats their boat What do you expect regarding gender roles in a relationship? 100% equality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:06 AM
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There's no point in speaking up when most guys find it too easy to blame their failures on their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:48 PM
1

Nope. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:46 PM
1

I have to agree. About 50% of the women I know cheat or have cheated on their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:45 PM
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I think the whole thing is absolutely blown out of proportion online and I'm a short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:44 PM
1

Normal weight, highly educated, from a good family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:41 PM
5

Sure. Some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:10 AM
2

I'm 37 and so far it's been the opposite. Some of the women that have approached me have been beautiful. Then again, I have never been approached too much by women anyway. I can definitely see I am more attractive now than I was in my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:32 AM
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Normal weight, younger than me, highly educated, from a good family. These are not unrealistic, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:28 AM
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Learning that women expect a free meal from me just because they have tits is an even better vetting strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:25 AM
0

Read more on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:54 PM
2

Seeing the orgies boomers throw on beaches around the world, I think people reach their peak in their 40s to 60s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:51 PM
1

It's not super common these days but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:45 AM
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I'm six years into my relationship and I'm crazy about my girl. So I don't know. I'll tell you if it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:55 PM
1

How often approximately do you include them them in normal gatherings with your closest friend circle? Depends how fun she is and how the chemistry builds between them. If it's all fun, then as much as possible. Do you expect your friends to start including and inviting them too? No. Do you mind when your friends start overly including their partner? Nope. Do you have more fun alone with your friends or with all of them together? Do you act the same either way? Depends on my partner. If she's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:17 PM
2

I wanted a partner to play life on co-op with. I got that. I was attracted to her intelligence and her values. For the rest, women have no particular appeal to me. They can be good friends, good coworkers, etc just like guys. With an extra sweetness that is often pleasant although their anxiety can be off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:14 AM
1

I need an intelligent person. Can't deal with an ignorant one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:11 AM
1

I personally do care about a, woman's career. Not because of money, but because her career choice tells me a lot about the kind of person she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:09 AM
5

Speak for yourself I'm having a blast
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:24 PM
4

I date younger women and I couldn't give less of a fuck about what people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:59 AM
1

You're right. Not all women because undesirable. But many do become.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:26 PM
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Although it sounds like bad advice and definitely TRP words this from a veey male-centered perspective, they are right on one thing: you don't get marriage and kids happening within your timeline just because you want it. It takes years to foster the kind, loving relationship that leads to marriage. Men these days want to take it very, very slow. It doesn't matter if you are in a hurry, they aren't. So keeping an eye on a possible long term relationship while in your 20s makes a lot of sense, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:25 PM
3

I possess none of those traits You're 24
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:19 PM
1

I have to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:54 PM
4

How's that sad? Enter in a relationship with a non promiscuous woman and you're set.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:18 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:47 PM
5

Bahahaha "we're a package deal if you can't handle that and step up swipe left"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:43 PM
5

Prove me wrong. Consenting adults can do whatever the fuck they want and it's no one's business. That includes simping, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:54 PM
15

A wife these days is someone you play life on co op with. You establish an alliance, you share the same friends and the same enemies, you strategize together, putting two brains to work for common goals. You grow together, succeed together and suffer together. You work as a unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:53 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:49 PM
0

Well, you are more than 300 million people. There's cultures and subcultures and subcultures of subcultures in the US. But the extremes make us feel that we're playing Russian roulette when we meet some of you. I have American family and extended family, some American friends, yet I have meet among you some people that really rub Europeans the wrong way. Most probably people were not saving face to you. Especially in Europe, people will be just polite, but not super friendly, if they don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:56 AM
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I don't know that just seems like a super trashy show to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:18 PM
2

Americans are absolutely fucking mental. At least from what we read on the internet. I listen to the voice of an American woman abroad and I cross to the opposite sidewalk. If I listen to an American bro for more than 5 minutes I need to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:36 PM
2

It's pure bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:35 PM
1

Yes. They are considered threats
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:35 PM
2

What if I am, the Chad she feels she caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:26 AM
5

Where I live it's pretty much 50%50....?not sure why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:59 AM
9

Parties are happening in some places at the moment. There's of course pull and push with vaccines rolling out and the delta variant fighting back. I had a female friend send a a video of a, roof party last night. 90% women. In groups. Just a few guys. All they did was talking about finding boyfriends. She even drunk texted me to "give her a chance" because she can't deal with this anymore lmfao. This at the same time i was chatting with another female friend who gets drunk on weekdays with her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:43 AM
1

Being a husband in a intimate, fun loving marriage beats 10X times getting casual sex from, randos
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:38 AM
5

Mid 30's
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:27 AM
3

I look around, the droves of single women I know are not necessarily fulfilled with being single. Yeah they get fun weekends and shit, but they all recognized they are missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:18 AM
11

A below average women is ignored. A below average men is considered a potential threat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:16 AM
7

If you're a STEM educated guy, these women aren't attracted to you Absolutely. Keeps us safe and sound.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/07/21 08:54 PM
9

If you are STEM educated guy, you just don't go with these type of women.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/07/21 08:37 PM
2

Now let me answer your sales questions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:07 AM
7

The common denominator is their incapacity to adult. Their parents, although having caused some trauma, support them financially. Both studied psychology. One of them would constantly confide her anxious attention issues. Constantly. It's like her brain would go on reset every two days. Her mind is filled with shallowness and all she would talk about is her sexual experiences with men that leave her and that's it. She has a completely skewed idea of her value,thinking she deserves a fairy tale l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:35 AM
1

Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:01 AM
1

You your mom's a Karen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:40 AM
1

This hits close. I had a couple of friends with cluster B. One wanted to date me. Noped out of both friendship before it was too it was late. Gotta stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:35 AM
1

How? They are so insufferable and uncontrollable that no one can stand them for long. It's literally like dealing with a 6 year old child daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:29 AM
0

​ Just divorce her ass and find someone who likes to fuck and have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:32 PM
2

Yeah. America is absolutely fucking nuts. But it is what it is, boundless freedom, which includes freedom to brainwash others and freedom to be a willful ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:31 PM
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Yawn. I'd rather be single and jank it to porn tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:11 AM
1

Who cares about these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:07 AM
1

its all larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:25 PM
14

Online dating is 70% males looking for sex and 30% girls mostly looking for a relationship (or sex if the guy is hot enough). ​ therefore, online dating apps are only easier for women looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:23 PM
2

No. In fact reading about all the idiotic fuckery here makes me appreciate my relationship even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:33 AM
9

Everyone's fucking mental. 50% of women in the us use antidepressants or similar forms of medication. It's q gold rush for therapists and psychiatrists. Suicide rates are increasing. Everyone's anxious, depressed. Everyone's afraid for the future. They are becoming poorer in a world that offers less and less opportunities while rich men race to space. They seek refuge in social media, which we know just makes everything worse. And at the same time everyone's told they are special and that they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:21 PM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:40 PM
2

If so enjoy it I guess. I'll enjoy my little peasant farm over here with my tea and video games. This is exactly it. This SHOULD be the end of the discussion. But it isn't. You (we) are not shutting down the computer, getting of these subs and calling it a day. We keep coming back to discuss. Sure in real life it is indeed happening, but in my opinion, it would be time we also stop engaging online as well. ​ >Just world fallacy. Our lives are not completely within our own control. There are many…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:39 PM
4

It's entertaining sometimes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:16 PM
2

>Men and Women have to live on this planet together wouldn't it be better to come up with a fairer deal for both genders in this? It's easy to ask for a fair deal when you seem to be on losing end of the transaction. The winning end is less sympathetic of having to step down to your level. So no. And I say "seem" because you may be in your teens and 20's as you struggle through life. Eventually the playing field evens out and you may end up being the guy that can have the luxury of picking a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:16 PM
3

Why do you care about those particular ones?that's like trying to make dudes care about the FDS fatties...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:51 PM
4

Well, we know awalt can't be a fact. Awalt is just an excuse to tell men to stop playing the game altogether. So why even give that any importance at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:50 PM
3

But we know awalt is gross generalization used to oversimplify the problem of dealing with troublesome women and relationships, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:48 PM
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No. You aren't wrong in that assumption. I think there's not really a double standard as you suggest. Women have always wanted resources. That hasn't changed. They can get some by themselves but they expect to at least double that with a partner. Having a partner that earns less puts them under a diminishing returns situation where the effort of the relationship doesn't justify what it brings to them. I don't blame them. Now, where do men fit in all this? They don't. They simply don't. Some wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:33 PM
4

No. We don't value beauty less. We just value women less. In general and across the board, we stop caring. The beautiful will still be as beautiful, but we just simply won't move a finger for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:31 PM
1

You didn't need to spend time writing the obvious, op
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:28 PM
0

Who says men chase all types of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:28 PM
21

Maybe the standards have always been there but alcohol made sure they were forgotten
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:03 AM
0

Who checks that nest of harpies of a sub anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:23 PM
1

>What do you think the future will bring? ​ Look at Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:40 PM
2

We are just more practical. We do have standards tho: we don't tend to marry promiscuous women :P
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:59 AM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:25 AM
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You know what? You are right. It's just that we men don't use the term compromising, so that didn't click in. We don't marry sluts. Marrying a slut would be compromising HARD. We don't compromise. That said, and as, you saw from that thread, we don't have a laundry list pulled out from a Disney movie catalogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:20 AM
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Yes. It's women. Women are the only ones running that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:14 AM
15

Yeah I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:28 AM
3

Oof 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:06 AM
3

Abortion ban: more unwanted babies. That'd it. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:03 AM
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I said before and I say now: "compromising" is an idiotic concept entitled women use to cope with the fact that they can't meet a man they created in their head. Women that feel they are compromising have both a inflated sense of self worth and a fucking Disney movie playing on repeat on their head. I didn't compromise because I didn't have a checklist. I didn't compromise because I didn't have a standard. A standard is something I use to put other people down and to feel better about myself, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:01 AM
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Ah yes. The cost of being a fake thot. Look, broke losers are not sexy. We get that. Not having money is really a downer. But your high maintenance excuse is just ridiculous. We don't care about the fake eyelashes and the makeup plastered faces so we find it ridiculous that you use that as an excuse not pay for your part of the date. We live in 2021. You girls study and work as much as men. You are fully independent and autonomous. I'm not paying free entertainment and meals to a random girl bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:53 AM
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What are your thoughts You should probably move to Saudi Arabia If I'm not getting my needs met, I'm out. I don't need to involve the system in my relationship issues. And it is my responsibility that I put the necessity safeguards to get divorced quickly and effectively if it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:43 AM
0

Haven't used apps. Probably never will
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:14 PM
2

No problem. Women bitching about going Dutch is a great way to veto them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:14 PM
3

It is true until beauty fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:03 PM
1

No sex: fat, dumb Only have sex: cute, dumb, feminist or hard leftist 🤣 Commit to: cute, intelligent, can stand for herself, stable family background with present, loving parents. Married to: none. I'm not a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:03 PM
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>came to the conclusion that the average man does not respect the average woman. What is your definition of respect? Because if the majority of men are just out there minding their own business and not actively attacking women, you are pretty much there. ​ > they have a basic level of respect for other men The same respect we have for women. I mind my business, you mind yours. You don't fuck up with me and I don't fuck with you. I think is clear seeing this is the most common way people interact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:17 PM
0

Women can't cook in 2021 even to save their own arteries and livers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:15 AM
1

Women can be exhausting. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:59 AM
2

Yep. The men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:44 AM
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And they come to bitch on the internet in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:38 AM
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>If I’m letting a man into my life then what does he bring to the table that I couldn’t bring myself? The question is, what do you want from a man? ​ Because things that men can bring to the table, for example: 1) Extra income to increase purchasing power, plus whatever financial stability that comes with that 2) human contact, physical protection, emotional support, someone to play with and have activities with 3) Penis 4) If the man is skilled, then whatever skills come with him for fixing cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:08 PM
1

You're fucking delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:57 PM
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The US is not what it used to be and life is to be lived and enjoyed. Europe is where's at, at least so far. Gotta love his resolution, tho. A fat girl against a trend preferring skinny women goes on a fat shaming HAES revolution. A guy like your friend takes life by the balls, stops playing the game and leaves for greener pastures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:58 AM
2

How does it foster single motherhood when 50% of the pregnancies are unwanted? Yes. They might never be able to escape their dependency from the Estate. But that's a consequence of single motherhood , not a cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:26 AM
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Women in Europe are as varied as they come. And their tastes are also as varied as they come. Southern Italy is gorgeous, but it's also slowly dying. Will be a cheap place to retire but most people are leaving it. For heterogeneous variety, I would pick Paris, Barcelona or the coast of Spain. Even Mallorca, Malta or Cyprus. Everyone in Malta is super short 😭🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:18 AM
0

Not every "career woman" is a ruthless boss b*tch who only cares about money and power. True, but a proper career woman won't prioritize a relationship and starting a family until the clock starts ticking and by then, it's too late. It's late because men will simply run under the pressure to things out of their own timeline. I know many girls like this. All sweet, caring women. Nice people overall. But they are all single and ai really don't see them changing their situation anytime soon and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:57 AM
1

Welfare programs reduce crime, dropout rates and help get kids through school. You are spewing an opinion against evidence of their benefit. I'm a man btw and as trp as they come.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:51 AM
4

Honestly at the end of the day who cares what redditors think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:49 AM
11

He'll be fine :) All he needs to do is travel the world a settle in a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:48 AM
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No. Society taught indoctrinated you into the false belief that men are nasty. Bullshit. I have seen it all. Deceit, violence, corruption, lies, passive aggression, harassment, reckless behavior, infidelity. All by men. ​ But then, I saw the same in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:27 PM
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Lfmao no. Roman catholic. Which says something about virgins and blahblah, although my family was not religious, society at large was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:19 PM
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I guess I blame the society I grew up in which hammered me how women were such innocent princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:16 PM
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"Go find some who loves for who you are" - that's pure bullshit. "If you are kind enough and give her attention, she will come" - more bullshit "women are angels" - even more bullshit. ​ Overall it taught me that women are as nasty as men. Which makes life a lot easier because I already new how to deal with men. ​ Overall, TRP taught me to say no when needed and to stand my ground. To not be a pathetic yes man. It taught me to pick my battles and it also taught me that fuck it, my self improveme…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:08 PM
1

So a muscle head wants to have a relationship with a hottie. What's so surprising about that? The stereotype confirms itself over and over. I would vouch that he isn't the smartest. Extremely beautiful people often don't have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:25 AM
2

Lmao simping this fucking hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:07 AM
1

From what I've observed at work, men do not care if a woman is financially irresponsible as long as she is hot For something casual? Sure. They will be willing to spend some money and time trying to bed a hottie. For something serious? Intelligent men will run elsewhere. The idiots that allow looks to take priority are in for a world of misery. But nearly every dude in town wants to take her on a date because she is so good looking. I wonder how many of these men truly now how financially irresp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:04 AM
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No. We dislike gold diggers and we are weary of women that are financially irresponsible. Splurging within the realm of possibility? Perfect, you have earned it. Having to eat ramen for two weeks because you needed your nails done? Red flag. A woman working her ass off can buy whatever the fuck she wants with her money. We drop 4000 dollars on a gaming computer and no one gives a fuck. A girl like that is definitely not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:14 AM
2

It's always been like this. We know we're shallow when it comes to trophy wives/girlfriends. We know trophy wives / girlfriends are gold diggers. The deal has always been there. The rules are not outspoken, but they have always been played by. But things have started changing. Women work as much as men now so we can't see why you have to be spoiled when you can take care of yourself. Your looks will fade sooner than later and we know it. If I become financially more successful, there's probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:08 AM
1

Those women don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:17 AM
1

Having kids adds a layer of stress on top. I think they are detrimental to marriage unless you can provide a comfortable life to the family and yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:03 PM
1

Yep it is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:02 PM
2

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:43 PM
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All the effort for what? Pleasing randos on a dating app? For the most part it is not worth it. I don't intend to be accepted women like another body type or look. I don't care. You chase your buff guys, I'll do my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:54 PM
4

It definitely gets harder. Men are either partnered up or they don't chase as much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:47 PM
12

>Is this accurate for anyone here? Is it inaccurate? ​ Open video ​ Woman talking ​ Close video
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:46 PM
2

>What are TRP's opinions about why these women who are out of touch with the current sexual marketplace, hang around this sub? Feel free to address why. ​ The argument has been laid and as been beaten to death. They were told they could have anything they wanted. They actually went through a phase where they could have all the attention they wanted, and the freedom they wanted, and they fun they wanted. So the story they were told was perfectly confirmed, until it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:38 PM
1

Male, white and single 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:30 AM
2

I love your username
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:23 AM
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So what you are saying is that we should lower ourselves to hoe level in the interest of equality? No thanks. I like to lift and dress well without being a hoe and I'm very much happy giving sex the value I think it deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:21 AM
3

Yup. That's men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:39 AM
2

I don't know. As long as they are happy I don't see a problem ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:35 AM
1

What makes a man regret it 1) not being attracted in the first place and having felt for the beer/horny goggles 2) the girl looks actually worse naked 3) bad hygiene, ugly genitals (for some) 4) bad sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:34 AM
5

Now you're talking bullshit 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:31 AM
3

I'm saving this one 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:30 AM
6

Also If men leave and ghost is because they weren't attracted to begin with, but having sex takes priority. Also: you're all a bunch of horny chubbychasers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:26 AM
1

Lmao wtf is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:25 AM
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Why are they such attention whores
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:17 PM
2

My end goal is to have fun at the fact that despite your message being absolutely right, you are a still a bunch of insufferable, anxious people who can't be happy if you're not married with kids by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:57 AM
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I don't hate them. Power to them if they can keep simps simping. But I wouldn't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:30 AM
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In research paper in the matter, they found out that the average guy should earn 60% more to get to what women expect men to earn. So that rounds up to 100k if you consider a median salary. Women are out of touch with the reality of the situation and somehow its men's fault we are "affecting their marriage prospects". This is a conclusion of that paper. 😂🤣. See, everyone has gotten poorer. Men have been dropping out of colleges and life. But in any case, not everyone can have a 100k salary, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:01 AM
3

First, yes. Men have a preference for younger women. Second, why do you care about what the harpies say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:54 AM
2

I had both. I'll stay with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:20 AM
16

Oh no! Anyway. It's definitely not a time waster for me. It's fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:18 AM
1

Yet they seem to get together :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:56 AM
13

In America? Fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:00 AM
2

No I haven't thought of a viable alternative that considers both men and women happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:09 PM
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I love feminism. I love free, empowered, independent women. What I dislike is women asking where has the chivalry gone, goldigging whores planning to "level up" by snatching a man because they can't do it themselves, the born again virgins and the sudden U turn to "traditional values" when the hypocrites can't or won't do the work for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:47 PM
2

If it comes effortlessly, why not? ​ You have to deal with some drama, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:44 AM
2

Make the shorts close their positions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:07 AM
3

Easy: learn to veto women. If you can't stand the insecurity, then don't date/fuck sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:37 PM
8

Not really. All you need is a girlfriend who dated men which were less attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:18 PM
8

Sometimes, yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:12 PM
1

Why is this the case? Who gives them leeway? Their partners? If so, then yeah. Partners prefer to put up with infidelity and still have access to the lifestyle these people provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:04 AM
1

Bitches gonna bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:32 PM
1

I haven't been sexless in 15 years... But who knows, maybe one day I will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:43 AM
9

Fucking off is also a fantastic outcome for us. Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:24 PM
10

So women use a statistic pulled out of someone's ass to make a point? Ok. One third of women use dating apps to get free meals. There. That's my defensive statistic. Now let's go 50/50 or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:17 PM
2

What are men’s opinions on this topic? Fucking barbarians
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:44 PM
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Plus they are fucking fat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:37 PM
1

Nah I'm not angry. I just opt to ignore women across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:33 PM
1

All I know is that after all the years of feminist bullshit, "women and men are equal", the wage gap, women outsmarting men in school, etc etc, there's a growing trend of gold digging whores looking to "level up" in life by catching wealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:19 PM
1

Insecure about what? Being fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:38 PM
1

But le reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:04 AM
3

MySpace was our lowest.. Or maybe tumblr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:35 AM
4

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:23 AM
2

He has 4 side chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:18 AM
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but why do we drop that same logic when discussing men? If a man becomes successful as he gets older and his partner becomes less attractive, the logical step for him would be to find someone better, no? Who drops this? This is exactly what happens. Yeah we know women use their looks to bag us. It's all part of the game. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:14 AM
8

Their main problem is tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:12 AM
9

Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:11 AM
1

Because YOLO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:04 AM
1

Nope. That's straight manipulative bullshit from people who can't control their urges. She's got her privacy, I got mine. If she's cheating on me, it won't be by sneaking on her phone how I will discover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:03 AM
1

It's two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:00 AM
3

Cheap and shallow attention. These women won't hold their ground when intelligence starts becoming an important card in the dating game. Plus they will prefer hot men. Hot men use the apps well because it's easy for them. The apps are for attractive people. It only makes sense. Thus, they are trapped in the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:59 AM
3

You discovered lukewarm water. This is not about men lying. We know we lie and deceive. We do it all the time. The difference is we recognize it, we accept it and we aren't tooting our horn about how nice we are (except for the niceguys but no one buys their bluff). We don't virtue signal as much. And AMALT has always been there. For generations. The first family member to warn you about men when you are a young girl is your own father. Your brothers will also try to protect you. This wasn't pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:54 AM
3

This is it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:51 AM
2

Bragging rights and feeling they were "chosen"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:49 AM
1

Nah. A virgin is not the most attractive thing. The initiation into sex can be frustrating and awkward sometimes. No issues if she already went through the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:48 AM
1

Aaaaand on top of that, you all care too much about what other people think. Peer pressure and societal expectations make you slaved sheeple of your own trends and shallow culture. 80% of the problems would go away if you would live life minding your own business, being discrete, protecting your private life and keeping your useless opinions to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:52 PM
1

I just doubt there's a "tsunami" or that they won't wind up better off than the men who struggle finding a woman. Whatever helps you sleep at night :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:17 AM
1

The tsunami of women who can't find a man tells me otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:11 AM
3

Speak for yourself. I very much care about it. And when you see couples pairing at the same social class or education level, that's also men making their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:10 AM
1

Nope. I'm not a pathetic domesticated simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:44 PM
7

Yep. The perfect STD cocktail
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:19 AM
1

Well, it's not illegal to manipulate and they will keep doing it as long as we allow them to. So, educate simps instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:13 AM
1

We know we are being manipulated. We play the fantasy because we want to. It's on us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:00 AM
2

Second option by far. It's the smartest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:50 AM
3

I blame the simps themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:45 PM
8

My gf is my perfect waifu :3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:13 PM
1

Women give up on idea sooner. Men still keep hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:04 AM
1

Not objectively. However, relatively, men prefer young women more often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:03 AM
17

I think they perfectly know the kind of women they are dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:54 AM
13

I still don't get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:51 AM
2

Therapy is a fucking scam for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:15 AM
5

What if my ideal of a woman is a woman who approaches and then one does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:14 AM
1

50% of my female friends have cheated on their husbands and boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:13 AM
1

Yep. I also had a friend like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:36 PM
2

Yes. Google beer goggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:34 PM
2

I don't feel burdened because I decided not to, but the pressure is definitely there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:33 PM
1

Yes. I won't make a blind move. Sometimes they fully approach, sometimes they flirt heavily, sometimes body language is all I need to read. I haven't been single for more than 3 months in the last 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:50 AM
4

The purchasing power of Americans have dramatically eroded since the 70's. That's the elephant in the room everyone misses. America is becoming increasingly poorer and now their level of poverty is creating the social dynamics we see first, in poorer first world countries such as Greece, Italy or Spain and in the future, if nothing changes, those dynamics will resemble south American ones where men won't leave their house until their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:54 AM
1

You are damn right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:52 PM
13

Step one: ignore the vast majority of women. No social media, no simping, no bullshit. Step two: focus on my development, enjoying life and making as many friends and possible. Step three: wait for women to approach or show interest. I'm good at reading people so this comes naturally. Once I know I have a clear way ahead. Court and explore. Step four: veto after some interaction, or keep dating afterwards. Step five: only commit after 6-12 months of dating. Not getting married, not having kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:13 PM
2

Fuck it, it would be my child. I would want custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:08 PM
1

Me don't postpone having kids: men either want to have them when they feel in love and secure, or they just don't want to and probably never will
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:07 PM
1

I wouldn't care much because I don't use these services.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:49 AM
0

I think it's not correlated. Both winners and losers use porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:48 AM
1

Fatties can't cope with reality so they lie themselves into a fake one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:32 PM
0

If things can remain fresh, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:32 PM
2

YAS FDS KWEEN!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:48 AM
1

Not if I'm not lying. If my intentions are clear from the beginning but she keeps coming back for more 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:52 PM
0

Yay less competition for meee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:54 PM
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"According to the most recent data published by the CDC, reported cases of syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia in the U.S. reached more than 2.4 million in 2018 — the fifth straight record-breaking year for STDs" Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:51 PM
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They are not less worthy than I am as person. They are not inherently bad or evil. I just have an opinion about promiscuity and I prefer to enter in relationships with people who share a similar opinion to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:50 PM
4

Her height won't dictate the course of action: her body language will. If she's taller and showing interest, then why not give it a try?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:15 PM
–

You have never worn love goggles, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:13 PM
–

Sorry man. It's on you for having horrible veto capacity. Pick your women carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:12 PM
1

I'm a 6, minimum I date is a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:31 AM
6

Yes: I avoid popular women like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:19 PM
1

And guess who is the only group brining such exaggeration? You got it right: older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:29 AM
1

No problem with them taking their chance. But don't come back crying when they are circumstances change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:46 PM
1

It cemented my views
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:29 AM
1

None. We can tell you are strategizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:10 AM
10

That's she's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:48 AM
2

No. The average man is thirstier than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:39 PM
5

Yes. I married one. She was a 9 easy. Traffic stopper. She found my intelligence and my potential attractive. I was the beta. She knew she could land hotter guys, so she asked to open the relationship. She had the typical ulterior motive: secure future resources, fuck hotter guys in the process. She was largely stable, but came from a disfunctional family Of course I divorced her ass. Perfect ass, that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:18 PM
5

"comedy"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:15 PM
1

The only way to get an accurate result is to post in /r/rateme
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:33 AM
4

Women live in a world with hotdogs on the ground. Men during their young years, leave in fucking Namibia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:32 AM
12

Check the book "men on strike". Basically the traditional role of men as providers is gone and marriage is a losing proposition. It's only logical that men are looking at other ways to live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:29 AM
5

No. We prefer average looking women because hot women are so full of themselves they are unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:17 PM
2

For sex? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:16 PM
3

Here in Europe we just don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:43 AM
3

Nope. TRP does nail most of the stereotypes, but there's a lot confirmation bias as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:42 AM
6

Just own your fuck ups. Got fat? Don't start with the HAES bullshit. Got pregnant? Welp. You should have used contraception. You are a slut and men won't take you seriously? It's not the patriarchy. It's you. Bad career choice that left you financially disadvantaged? No one to blame, but yourself. Sure the US is a fucking scam and the game is rigged for the small guy, but we knew that already. Men ignore you? The common Denominator is you. Time for introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:11 AM
1

We value it. We are just vocal about the things we value
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:31 PM
1

They are whores, not financial planners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:29 PM
0

Why are most women on these subs referring to themselves and other women as females, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:32 PM
1

How..... Horrible.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:09 AM
5

How can an asian man deal with this ? What is there to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:55 AM
1

Sure. That totally matches my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:47 AM
2

Woke educated women should invest in Chewy shares
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:42 AM
1

Really, who gives a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:26 PM
1

I do care, but I'm an elitist nerd so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:03 AM
1

Either she (and he) are madly in love with each other or are simply pleased with not chasing people, or cheating will happen. 50% of the married women I know cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:02 AM
1

I have been with my partner from 6 years and we have fought twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:28 AM
1

You can't baby trap if you are infertile due to age, OP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:07 AM
1

Cat supplies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:07 AM
3

Women: YoU ArE ReSpOnSiBlE FoR YoUr OwN OrGASMS. Also women: omg the orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:05 AM
3

Read the literature on the matter. Fatherless kids are very ill equipped to face social circumstances, they perform poorly in school, they take much longer to develop careers. Those awkward losers that go about through life without a path? Often fatherless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:45 AM
4

Therapy is fucking useless. ​ What men need is present fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:58 PM
1

There is not problem to solve. ​ DO not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:38 AM
5

"Equality" was a lefty pipedream based on hollow rhetoric and with neither action nor substance. ​ There can't be equality in a system made to make some people rich at the expense of making everyone else poor. There can't be equality when the middle class is destroyed and leaving people asking themselves what the fuck is going on. There can't be equality when said people are being kept ignorant and uncapable of taking action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:35 AM
6

How is any of this a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:32 AM
1

Yay! Tinder!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:42 AM
2

about 50% of the women I know, I know they have cheated. Many just do it on the regular as a part as who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:41 AM
32

Male thirst is the source of all male frustration. You are an evolved ape, OP. In everything in life, being patient and keeping frame will always lead to better results
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:11 PM
0

Never used tinder. Never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:35 AM
5

I'll put it like this. Post nut clarity can lead to PSTD. That's how low our standards can get when horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:34 AM
2

Of course not. There's a lot of pleasantness and happy stillness in checking out of society and doing your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:41 PM
1

So why do you think those two groups are so different? Looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:44 AM
1

I can't wait for extinction!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:41 AM
3

Who doesn't have baggage over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:40 AM
2

Physical attraction is absolutely crucial and more today than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:49 PM
0

Diseases and emotional trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:56 AM
1

In Germany, if you hit 30 without being married, your friends will parade you around the city throwing pennies at you and making you sweep the street. It's a prank. Not sure what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:56 AM
3

Honestly? Bullshit. You can perfectly choose who you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:54 AM
1

2021 is about Gamestonk. Anything related to women and relationships has completely fallen out of my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:08 PM
1

We know that. We know the whole thing is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:05 PM
1

Women can do whatever makes them happy. I do whatever makes me happy. It makes me happy not to engage with promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:26 AM
2

Fulfilling careers, disposable income and freedom of movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:57 PM
5

I want men to be happy and fulfilled without having to rely on women for it. Like Japan's herbivore men, but happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:53 PM
1

What the OP said plus lack of education, anxious personality, low self esteem, inflated sense of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:22 AM
2

My father's friends, my extended family. I grew up in a huge social circle. I had the opportunity to learn how men amd women interact in a myriad of situations. I grew up redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:51 AM
7

You don't watch the guy. You watch the woman. And even then, imagine how dreadful it is to date that we even prefer watching a foreign dick have all the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:47 AM
19

Oh boy I do care. If the love and respect are gone, she's out. I don't think these people are happy. These people are incredibly frustrated that their significant others don't behave in exactly the way they want. They can't accept things as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:41 AM
0

Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:36 PM
2

Just leave me alone. Do your thing, I do mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:35 PM
1

20% bodyfat if you want a exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:20 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:19 AM
2

Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:49 PM
2

I described my girlfriend :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:45 PM
1

Money first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:42 AM
1

Default position of TRP: don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:41 AM
2

Normal weight. Not super skinny, not fat. Smart. Fucking smart. Someone pursuing or having a MSc or a PhD. Under 30. Sporty or active. Loves videogames. Kind. Has not been promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:38 AM
3

Ex wife. Put on the the sexy exciting girl show to become a manipulative dead bedroom bitch the moment the papers where signed. Don't get married, kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:54 AM
1

As a man, there's little incentive to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:53 AM
2

No hookups. Pill when in relationships. Frankly I do a terrible job at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:23 AM
1

Nope. I want nothing to do with shallow women. I want nothing to do with most women, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:57 AM
1

Short cute girls with curves and a PhD in life sciences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:23 AM
6

Look at Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:22 AM
1

Yes. But this only applies for "hot girls who are always having fun" Who in their sane mind would want to have long lasting relationships with one of those? So relax, there are plenty of women you can be empathic with. Just ignore the thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:57 AM
1

Nope. I just know plenty of women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:05 AM
14

Women cheat and scheme A FUCKING LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:15 PM
1

I have seen this a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:08 PM
2

are you in (or have you been in) long term relationships? How many/how long? I haven't been single for long in the last 15 years. My current relationship is almost 6 years old. Had 6 long term relationship before that. -are you close personal friends with women? How many? Yep. About 5 women in my life are close friends. -do you have sisters you’re close with? Yep we are close. you do have (or have had in the past) close female relationships (girlfriends, wives, close friends, sisters, do you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:28 AM
1

No. There aren't any. Especially if you are the main earner. Now, if she is the main earner, then yes. There are benefits because you can (in some states) skin them off for alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:58 AM
1

I do. We cum together or nothing. But she's my partner and I love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:55 AM
2

Men are being raised by single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:54 AM
2

guess in order to do this you must withdraw most sex you have with him. Wrong. It means that the relationship needs to find more commonalities besides sex. You get together to explore life, to discuss matters, to share hobbies, etc etc. BESIDES having sex. You can have sex every day and still not base your relationship around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:53 AM
3

You have a perfectly valid point. If you don't want to aim higher, you don't have to. So do whatever makes you happy. I just have higher aspirations. I love traveling and I want to buy a house and have some money for retirement. I don't want to retire poor although most probably I'll just off myself the day I'm a burden to society. But yeah, my fun is a bit more expensive than videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:07 PM
1

I'm not going to get lawyers involved in my bedroom. I'm not going to risk wasting time and money if shit goes tits up. I'm not going to be turned into a weekend dad or an alimony tit. Relationships these days are more fleeting and sex is abundant. I want to be able to get on my feet asap if my relationship goes down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:48 PM
1

Sympathetic? Nah. Schauenfreude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:51 AM
2

I just want them to live their lives and leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:49 AM
1

Cheating is not good. That said, if my relationship is going down, hell yeah I'm spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:02 PM
1

Same with men Wanna be on the top 30% don't be a fat fuck. Thing is, thirsty men will fuck fat women. So women believe there's some semblance of value to them despite their fat rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:01 PM
2

No self respecting man stays around orbiting a woman. ​ Attraction is a fleeting thing that cannot be negotiated. If a woman did not like you from the beginning, she will never like you enough. All the attraction built up from someone who does not like you from the get go is built on compromising and coping. There will always be something missing. ​ A woman instantly attracted? Walk in the park, magic, effortless chemistry and joy. ​ Any man who has been on both ends of the situation knows exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:43 AM
1

12
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:33 PM
1

That was a great answer from that lawyer. Reminds me of militant feminists that decide to engage in the conflict instead of taking the high ground and then no men will approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:54 AM
2

Eeeeeeewwwww you guys a grosssss
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:47 AM
6

It is sexist, yes. But as always it's our own fault as men for being so fucking thirsty. We agreed to this deal. We want bars full of drunken girls. We don't have to go on a Twitter rampage yelling "misandry". All we need to do is not go to bars on ladies night.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:45 AM
3

I'm extremely thankful for the experiences, but that doesn't mean they don't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:42 AM
0

My question is, why in the fuck do you want these women anyway? Why do you seem so envious? Why do you care about what asshole women are doing with asshole guys? We don't want them, we are not envious. We are raising awareness to men which have grown educated to think women are pure beings with honest intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:29 PM
1

Nah I didn't shift anything for me. Everything looks as red as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:48 PM
4

> what informs your views about sex and attraction in women? ​ Personal experience. ​ And I don't agree with the quotes you pasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:47 PM
2

Frequentl holidays, hours together playing videogames, chasing common interests, time.... Time... Time available to do whatever we want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:52 AM
0

That's their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:50 AM
2

Educate them on health, nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:49 PM
1

My partners used to be my age and older. As I got older, i started attracting women 8-10 years my junior. I can definitely attract them....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 06:40 AM
3

Men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:05 PM
2

Thoughts? I don't care what frustrated women on the media have to say about anything related to men. I'm tired to read that women's misery is our fault after 40 years of being bashed as the enemy as women rise to dominate education and the workforce. They can go meet guys in Morocco or Turkey for all I care. Or meet them locally Malmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:09 AM
3

Men want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:11 PM
2

I have been rather successful all my life, except for a dreaded couple of years at university. I was the first of my friends to have sex and have girlfriends. Always had girlfriends, some of them very attractive. I got married, then I divorced, then I dated amazing women, then I had women openly showing interest. I have been enjoying the most beautiful relationship I have ever had. We have been five years together. Sex life has been good and in line with what I want. No one night stands, no craz…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:12 PM
1

Partly, yes, for LTRs. For a quick fuck in the bar's toilets? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:02 AM
9

Man child is a term used by women to try to shame men into doing what these women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:12 PM
1

To some extent, yes, you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:21 AM
1

Trying to come up as edgy and exciting. Good that in her second paragraph she proves this is not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:29 AM
1

I work out, I grow my business, I keep educating myself, I buy better clothing, the whole thing. It all adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:36 AM
1

Probably those sluts are also very physically attractive. And we men get mentally stunted by beauty. These guys may know these girls are slutty, but their beauty is more important. But we eventually come around. Most of those marriages will end up unhappy and in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:33 AM
17

Stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:29 AM
1

Which tells you these people need to 1) work on becoming attractive 2) leave their marriages or 3) find lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:40 AM
6

It's almost like attractive people enjoy exploiting the benefits of being attractive sometimes at the detriment of others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:47 AM
0

Have you ever met a man who consciously and systematically cheated? How would you describe him? Just as you did, but with a caveat: they simply love the attention from women, the access to sex, feeling desired, feeling that the other woman longs for them, feeling that they are sexually attractive and capable of conquering women if they want to. And downright quite amused with how women are willing and able to share a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:14 AM
1

No. I love the current dating dynamics. It gives men the upper hand as long as they are successful. And I am successful. So why change things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:48 PM
1

Yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:03 PM
3

Not too much. I used condoms when i had to. Stopped using them when I could. I have had normal girlfriend. No baby traps, nl unwanted pregnancies.... All good. I'm still considering a vasectomy but would be nice to have a pill option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:06 PM
1

I'm not having kids in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:31 AM
1

Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:30 AM
0

I love my abundant, lustrous hair. I don't give a fuck what women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:45 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:21 AM
2

Exactly my point :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:35 AM
9

If I'm openly a manipulative asshole and women still want to sleep with me, who's fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:03 AM
2

Gym, traveling, sailing, skiing, hiking, diving, drawing, reading...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:57 AM
6

Sexual liberation and an increase in single parenthood which makes the kids grow isolated without skills to socialize. Also everyone's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:56 AM
1

Shaming takes too much energy. Just ignore and make fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:55 AM
0

Tops
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:15 PM
0

Sure. But largely men can reproduce well into their 60's and beyond. It's not unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:02 PM
0

Sure they do. If they don't take care of themselves they just age horribly. But they don't get the ticking clock....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:28 PM
0

No. Not because they can't be attractive, but because by that age the majority have ruined their looks with alcohol, sleepless nights, obesity, smoking and childbearing. So as a, general rule, they, just don't look as nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:03 PM
1

No. They have never been. Come on, we all, know that weddings have always been about women and their disney movie finales
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:59 PM
3

Been doing that for about a decade. Works amazingly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:50 AM
2

Lmao what a beta simp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:48 AM
1

I knew three marriages like that. The ladies where addicted to alcohol and antidepressants. Two of them killed themselves. One got divorced became a black belt, lost dozens of kilos and turned her life around. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:50 PM
3

Just a facade for people to slut around while feeling OK with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:37 AM
1

They should be if that's what the are and want. Up to us men to decide what to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:35 AM
0

Tits on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:34 AM
1

No kids, dude is not the picture anymore, no crippling financial fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:19 PM
1

Many do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:39 PM
1

Of course body positivity is a fucking lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:38 PM
7

Women: "I'm such a catch!" Also women: "I have been single for two years! Men are narcissistic commitmentphobes!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:50 AM
1

And I constantly give 20-50 euros to people in need begging on the streets. Someone in need that has fell out of society is not a fat basement dweller living under a comfy roof supported by someone else and posting shit on the internet from a computer which probably costs several times a monthly salary in many parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:57 AM
1

Ayyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:59 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:12 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:55 PM
1

Correlation is not causation. Successful men get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:10 PM
55

No one implies is women's fault. It's societies faults. Both men's and women's. In fact men are quite careless about other men. Can't give two fucks about losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:08 PM
6

Thank
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:02 PM
2

I do what I do to try to attract as many people as possible. Then I veto. But generally, I don't chase women, I don't approach women in bars or clubs, I don't simp, I don't flaunt my wealth or status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:56 PM
1

The Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:54 AM
1

Better: the masks are off and we have more information to base our decisions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:03 PM
4

I won't bring it up straight away because i know she will lie. Ill just stick around until there's more confidence so i can see who she really is. There's no fixed timeline. Can be weeks, can be a year. If i discover something that is a deal breaker, I'm out and she might not even see it coming. Luckily for me, I have been able to navigate this without entering in a serious relationship. And yes, I have vetoed women over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:59 PM
2

Ask Belle Delphine's pubescent simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:57 PM
10

Sure. If we were raised by our mothers and teachers to pedestalise women.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:45 AM
4

Intimate. I hate casual. I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:43 AM
1

But sex and companionship trump the risks. But men these days take calculated risks. So they delay marriage, having kids and all of that while still having relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:42 AM
1

Very little. Feels a bit lonely at times, but I don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:36 PM
2

For sex? Yeah. For long term relationships? No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:35 PM
2

Yeah. Not changing your view here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 09:41 PM
1

Experience. I saw them go with assholes when I was the lanky nice guy. Then I turned into the asshole and women started going after me. Many of them married or in relationships. So yeah, the experiment confirmed the hypothesis. Asshole: person that doesn't care what other people think. That is not afraid to speak up or walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:10 AM
6

That sub is a harpies nest lmao. Just go them and chat about how you prefer younger women and they LOSE it. And yeah. That is pretty much what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:50 AM
1

can you understand that most women want you to outwardly desire them for girlfriends/more than sex, in 1-3 dates? Yes I understand. But I don't care if the chemistry and the click isn't there and I'm not going to stay to find out. What does an LTR really even mean to you (especially in the early stages)? It means everything. It's the ultimate goal. But with the right person. Not with one vapid girl I met in tinder. No. We don't exaggerate the commitment. We trade freedom and peace of mind for ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 05:10 PM
3

Yes that is how sex has been traditionally. But that view is changing super quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 04:54 PM
3

Vasectomies are largely irreversible. Still, guys should have Vasectomies anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 04:53 PM
1

Yep OP. That actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:29 PM
0

The famous pop singer literally who?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:28 PM
2

😂🤣😂🤣😂 Men and women can do whatever the fuck they want. It's time that we, on the other side, establish boundaries and stick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:24 PM
1

A few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:59 AM
3

Well not particularly me. But men that wish for more pure women are indeed fooling themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:01 AM
10

I don't think we are being fooled. We know younger women are using us in a way or another. We don't care. We use them, they use us, all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:56 AM
0

With 70% obesity rates and rising? Nah. You are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:52 AM
12

Yeah OK what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:51 AM
1

See what Japan's going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:16 AM
2

Nope. Successful betas can still get laid. All they need to to know is go out dating and get sex out of girls wanting to snag a man. ​ Using sugarbabies is absolute simping, the absolute lowest you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:34 PM
1

Short answer : no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:33 AM
2

Yes until they feel like settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 09:01 PM
3

Absolutely. So fuck it. Option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:55 PM
9

Option 2. Option 2 will be remembered as a man that lived life to the fullest. Option will be remembered as some sort of lukewarm simp hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 08:00 AM
8

Just go to /r/datingoverforty It's a shit show
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:16 AM
2

Because having sex is a normal, natural, spontaneous behavior that proves you can function as the ape you are. If you are not having sex when everyone else is, then there's something around your capacity to function socially as the social ape you are, that is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:57 AM
6

The amount of married women I have seen going home with another guy.... Then I get to know their husbands. Yeah I have seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 05:49 AM
5

Everyone's fatter and poorer so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:04 AM
2

Anything life sciences, biochemistry, physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:40 PM
1

Education, intelligence, kindness, family upbringing and sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:39 PM
2

everyone is responsible for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:37 PM
3

Wrinkles on face. Face skin loses its smoothness and shine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:42 AM
1

They do. Every single woman coping on reddit goes "I have a, career, my shit together, a house and a car why am I still single?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:40 AM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:47 AM
6

What do you think this is doing to women and how they perceive dating? Are women really placed more on a pedestal today than they were decades ago? Is this is contributing to the prevalence of incels? Any other thoughts? Tbh I see some much tits and ass daily from women showing themselves on the internet that I have become desensitized to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:25 AM
28

We tolerate insecurity in women because we value pussy too much. ​ The moment you stop valuing pussy, you won't give girls a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 03:32 PM
1

Yes. She's a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:55 AM
8

Disagree. Wife and three mistresses is where its at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:32 PM
3

then why do they not try acting more like that? Because dealing with different women constantly is fucking exhausting. A girlfriend brings a sense of peace that weekend thots can't provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:38 AM
1

I'm going to bet that gays were persecuted decades ago, being born out of wedlock was a big nono, women couldn't vote, etc etc etc. There's going to be increased tolerance to behaviors we see today as fringe and they will become more and more accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:36 AM
2

Neither option: they should not have had children in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:33 AM
2

Whatever internet strangers tell you, ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:06 PM
1

If there was a solution, someone would have been applying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:04 PM
1

He just needs to get fat tbh. Or age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:09 AM
1

Lmao I hope she comes home with a black boyfriend you trumpette.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:57 AM
1

It's not being insecure. If the woman comes to me boasting how successful and independent she is... Well, good for her! What does she need me anyway? She does well on her own! I don't want to get in the middle or her journey...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:50 PM
6

I hate casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:46 PM
5

Never used OLD, never will. My love life has been great in my 30's. My male friends have all been largely successful. Most of the cases revolve around them hooking up with some girl, the girl catches feelings, they bail and move onto the next one.... Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:44 PM
2

Well, there's nuance in this, which is the division of work at home.... It could be that unhappy couples are those where the woman works AND does most of the household chores while the husband does not contribute as much to either.... In fact, there's research on how men and women being equal earners in the household, still don't distribute household chores evenly... So it's natural to see why the arrangement where the men is the breadwinner seems to work for both. So to my understanding, it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 10:26 AM
0

Being in the chooser position is already great
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:49 AM
7

In my experience, yes. But, men are a lot more accommodating to socioeconomic status. They don't care that much if their partner earns less. There is some interesting psychology research that hints couples where the woman is he higher earner tend to be less happy. https://theconversation.com/most-couples-are-less-satisfied-when-the-woman-earns-more-131659
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:42 AM
3

Someone that can pay the bills and the lifestyle of the couple and the family if she doesn't have an income. Someone that can help financially during rough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:28 AM
2

the introduction of the internet and social media have skewed dating so far in the women's favor Many women are desperate with the current state of affairs,which also includes men opting out of the game altogether or simply accepting sex but rejecting commitment. If you are an attractive man with commitment potential, times have never been better. The dating market will stabilize once people lose weight and stop giving socioeconomic status so much importance or when wealth inequality flattens an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:21 AM
10

Check on the dating subs and the subs that mock women on the dating apps and you will see what women are looking for. But it comes down to money and status: women want men with established careers and life goals. Men that can stand for themselves and play the provider role if needed. Men that don't need a woman to clean after them and cook. Women became the men they wanted to be, now they are looking for an equal or higher status partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:20 AM
5

By mocking dem losers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:55 AM
1

The term has been whored out so much that it was lost meaning. It's like every trashy black Twitter user is a king or a queen. Then no one is really a king or a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:28 AM
3

No. I don't feel any duty towards women or children. Yes, I have a reputation to keep towards the people in my industry and my clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:00 AM
2

Yes I am perfectly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 11:10 PM
1

That's what's always been happening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 11:10 PM
1

Who said the Netherlands was disrespecting or abusive? The country has its particularities, but I have felt nothing but respect and acceptance and even love from my Dutchie friends. I owe a lot to this county.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:54 PM
6

Nah. 90% of the woken are OK looking. With or without makeup. Then there's that super hot minority that gets even hotter with makeup and fitness. That's genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:29 AM
1

Upbringing, relationship with their parents and how their parents treated each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:55 PM
0

I'm not sure.... I think men eventually move fully on. If they had the dick energy to go nuts for a girl, they certainly have enough to fall for another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:54 PM
1

That would mean every woman on the pill would be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:28 PM
6

It's because they think that no matter how hard you try, she will always, invariably, leave for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:27 PM
3

Mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:46 AM
1

I don't know. All I know is once you are 40 years old and single, forget about starting a family. Even in your 30s everything will become harder. Yes, you are juggling a lot of pins in your 20's. You need the career but this is also the decade where you are at your prettiest and most fertile if you are into starting a family. And of course, being able to survive financially comes first, so you do risk ending up being a high salaried spinster asking what's wrong with men in /r/datingoverthirty Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:33 PM
6

Depends where you live. I'm 5'7 in the Netherlands and I'm close to invisible. Then I go down south and I'm perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:28 PM
0

I love independent women. We can both grow together, be a power couple and she can hold her own weight once the relationship goes down the drain. I couldn't keep up with the pressure and risk of having someone depending financially on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:28 PM
3

A loser is a loser, no matter the age. A 40 year old guy staying rich, traveling and slaying pussy left and right is a happy man. I have met a few like that. But money is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:16 PM
2

Efficient for the ghoster, shitty for the ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:14 PM
1

😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 10:32 AM
5

Who said we want to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 02:16 PM
-1

Yes. Sort of. I age too, so I find her young relative to my age, it's cool. And if she manages to help me keep the chemistry alive, perfect. But aging plus becoming boring and bitter? I'm looking for someone younger and more exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:37 AM
2

I see a lot of men complaining about morbidly obese women having sex with decent looking dudes. Why though? Hornyness blinds judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:31 AM
0

Divorce? Cheating? Settling? Yes, yes, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:29 AM
1

You are me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:42 PM
5

That's perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:56 AM
9

If you are fucking other guys while I'm courting you, you are never getting out of the fuckzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:53 AM
11

Pretty girls living life in tutorial mode is a meme already
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:37 AM
2

Divorced, a hundred times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:32 PM
1

I'm in the way to it. This effort takes years. It's worth the results. I never felt healthier / mentally stronger and my girlfriend is all over me. At the same time, I have cut contact with most women so I can't gauge if there's been a change in how I would interact with them, but I do have a female coworker that gives me thirsty looks which are rather cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:26 AM
8

Women are chill and don't degrade people 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂 The main form of female violence is gossip and covert degradation. They may not do it as vocally as men do, but they are the best at it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:07 AM
10

Slut is a term used solely for women. And largely BY women too. Girls love slutshaming each other and using promiscuity to bring each other down. This is not a "tawhxick masculinity" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:30 AM
6

men think about sex more frequently than women Yes men has higher sex drives than women, and they initiates sex more often Yes porn is targeted towards men, women that has onlyfans won't get sexually satisfied, they just need money and attention Yes men are more likely to cheat than women in relationships and marriage Not anymore men prefer to have multiple partners in life while women prefer monogamy Not anymore more men engage in casual sex for sex while women engage in casual sex for others (…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:28 AM
3

Do you think that the men who hate women and women who hate men, have equally justified reasons for doing so? Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 04:57 AM
2

Poor wahmen :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:59 PM
0

Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:58 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:57 PM
0

I do. Fuck sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:18 PM
2

Maybe where you live :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:34 AM
3

😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:48 AM
2

Oh definitely, but the mask eventually falls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:29 AM
5

You are dating the wrong girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:28 AM
4

It is worth it. You just have to not stand for narcissistic bullshit and filter out women properly. Every man that got fucked up by a woman had it coming. All of them know the girl isn't right but they stay anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:59 AM
1

Man. 36. Absofuckinglutely. My love life is 100 times better than what it was when I was younger. I'm overall much much happier. I'm more attractive, Fitter, wealthier and smarter and I perfectly know how to filter out people from my life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:59 PM
11

Mediocre quality, post nut clarity kicking, increased STD risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:03 AM
2

Well, look. If women were happy about the decisions they make in life and go along with them, they wouldn't suck. But at least on the internet, women seem so fucking miserable no matter what, so they must suck. The ball busting careerist can't stop bitching she "intimidates" men, that her "standards are too high a she's not settling" but at the same time, she's lonely and running out of time to start a family, but somehow, it's men's fault for not bending. No one wants to hear it. The young one …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:59 AM
3

I don't wish lots of casual sex. I despise it, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:47 AM
1

No. It's a horny and desperate thought. Everyone that has fucked beautiful women knows that they, as most things in life, lose their shine with repeated use.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:43 PM
7

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:02 AM
1

It works when she wants the pic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:18 AM
1

If the utter lack of sex and repulsion did not convince them to change, nothing will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 02:52 AM
3

Bragging to her idiotic friends until the novelty wears out. That's the benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 02:48 AM
3

I want to raise a family and teach them how to sail. Just like my father did. I need a wife and a boat. I have the girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:42 PM
3

You presented one legal right. That is used once in a lifetime. Marriage is a potential death trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:58 AM
1

I can't give a single fuck about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:13 PM
3

This thread you started
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:17 AM
6

You have clearly never been married OP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:10 AM
1

The problem of morals is that it is subjective and ever changing. If you are going to champion morals you are going to have to be prepared for a long struggle full of contradictions and moving goalposts.....for nothing. An utter waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:54 PM
7

Sexual strategy is amoral. Women have their plans and agendas, you got yours. Life is easier living if you just ignore and let others do their thing while you focus on doing yours. If they want to fuck around, get mad, etc. dude, whatever, none of that is your problem. Let them seethe and go about your day. ​ It's just so easy and effortless to ignore others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:45 PM
3

Given all that, why isn't obesity not brought up more as a reason for why some men have issues with their sex lives and dating? Because muh body acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:39 PM
2

I have no fucking clue about dress sizes. I just know you are hambeast regardless of how you dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:09 AM
0

No one's fault. The women putting themselves in bikini want to attract attention, the men given them that attention. The fatties on the sideline who don't get the attention are the ones bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:08 AM
3

The male version of the /r/whereareallthegoodmen Karen. Don't get too fat, Chadboy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:06 AM
2

None
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:33 AM
1

That you are right and I was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:24 PM
1

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 12:29 PM
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