PatienceOk3159 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week	CMV	PatienceOk3159	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:30 AM

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2	A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag. I mean you had a point but ‘gross with his time or crypto” super cringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 12:41 AM
2	People underestimate how circumstantial attraction is 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 12:02 AM
1	People underestimate how circumstantial attraction is Nah you can 100% romancé locals as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 11:59 PM
1	People underestimate how circumstantial attraction is 100% zero disagreements	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 11:59 PM
2	If large age gap relationships with 20somethings isn't weird, would being friends with 20somethings when you're 30 or 40+ be weird? Yeah that’s understandable. Shame he couldn’t be more fun. If he was a more charming or energetic older guy maybe it wouldn’t have been a problem. But yeah youth correlates if it doesn’t always causate with those factors. A lot of younger guys couldn’t keep up but a lot Can as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:00 PM
0	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke Men do age better generally. But that’s also redpill bullshit a lot of the time. Girls will generally favor young hot guys with confidence. And the older you get the more confidence or success you’ll need. Also younger attractive people are usually better at having delusional confidence (before life/the world beats them up too much) You’re acting cocky. But if you think girls are going to be too problematic to even mess with, it’s false bravado. I’m not saying your concept is wrong. But literall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 01:59 PM
1	Men with few options usually screw up the few options they had Yeah, different people are going to feel and process things in different ways. So I get ya. I wish it wasn’t damn near impossible to find a job that you don’t totally despise. Work life balance in the US is crap. Although other countries generally have their own issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 01:56 PM
-1	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke Yes I agree with everyone else here. Get proficient at the basics with girls and sex. You’re setting yourself up for failure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 09:03 AM
2	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke I think we sometimes project positives on women who are clearly fucked in the head when in reality they’re far more shallow and lame than the OneItus fantasy wants them to be. But yes I agree on some level and found that beautiful written.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 09:00 AM
1	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke So yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:52 AM
1	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke So I’m someone who usually succeeds in a similar amount of approaches or less. But my social battery is extremely low and alcohol really drains my even more usually. So it’s tricky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:40 AM
1	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke 100% agree. Most women have jokes of personalities these days (not all but most) so it’s entirely on brand to think this way and embrace it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:34 AM
1	If large age gap relationships with 20somethings isn't weird, would being friends with 20somethings when you're 30 or 40+ be weird? You literally let your friends be 90% of your explanation. Most guys don’t care that much about what their friends think of who they’re dating. Biological differences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:31 AM
15	[CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously. A significant amount of women hold views that contradict. You could argue men do as well. Although I feel it’s more extreme in women. A good chunk of men would be down to settle down with a woman who was chill. Roughly as attractive as them. Who they had decent sexual chemistry with. Women tend to be more mercurial and put themselves in basket case situations intentionally. For men almost EVERY viable situation is a basket case situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 06:42 PM
1	Women are more into the "finer things in life"? It’s pretty simple. If he can spend, then he can provide. Biologically hardwired. Not all women are like this. But a lot are. Personally coffee date to sex pipeline tends to be best imo F’d up as it sounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:53 PM
1	Men with few options usually screw up the few options they had I feel ya. Didn’t do well in highschool but later got a body count of over 20. But now I feel broken and empty. Wanting something I feel I’ll never have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:33 PM
1	There is no hook up culture Yeah what happened. 6 years ago it worked so much better than now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:26 PM
3	There is no hook up culture Hookup culture is why “situationship” has gone mainstream. But most guys aren’t in it. I was in it some but I fell out and haven’t been in it in a couple years. I feel every few years the women get more jaded and up their standards and I’ve fallen out for the most part. At least in my current location. It’s easy to piece together why it’s happening and I don’t really see a solution other than social upheaval changing the culture basically by force. People are forming weak bonds. Betraying each o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:18 PM
0	CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsule I’d say I partially disagree as a guy who’s competent but not amazing at dating (I’ve cusped on really good at times. But circumstances and certain cities have eroded my confidence a lot) The interest is just really faint in the middle aged women. Yeah I’ll date them but I’m kinda ambivalent about it. Which of course starts the cycle these sorts of women complain about. I Can Get younger women and I’m more enthusiastic about them. But I don’t really care there either because my experience with w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:14 PM
5	Femininity is not valued in our society Eh actually I’d say a lot of them ARE NOT KIND deep down lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 08:37 PM
1	Self Improvement Discussion Thread So I’ve found I clean up relatively well in California. But do inconsistently to very badly in Chicago. But I get the feeling I’d do fine in NYC or Philly. And I’ve always done relatively well in South Africa. Chicago has killed my spirit	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 03:16 PM
3	Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced? Yeah sorry that happened brother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 08:15 PM
1	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. How is casual sex not viable in your 30s? Had some of my best streaks post thirty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 04:27 AM
1	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. I have met girls like that but I’d argue around 70% of girls aren’t quite like the that. But there’s definitely a lot of scattered similarities in many other girls. That said people in general are mostly shallow and selfish. Certainly in a country like the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 04:11 AM
2	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates 100 percent	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/23 01:02 AM
1	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates Again 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 07:04 PM
1	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates I disagree. I personally feel most women go from so so to super hot for me after I sleep with them. It’s a total game changer. And it’s sucks honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 07:04 PM
2	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates Guys that are into them will totally chase but that’s considered unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 07:03 PM
2	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates Honestly I’ve had the most success with the first date. If I don’t close on the first date it’s usually a long time before I get a chance to have a second date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 07:03 PM
1	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 07:02 PM
0	There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense? Uh lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 06:57 PM
1	American capitalism has destroyed dating Great post. Basically agree with everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 07:07 PM
1	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. I’d say when you get older you have a bullshit guard. And it keeps you more chilled with women and less dramatic. That helps a lot. Physically you prolly lost a touch though Somewhat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 06:47 PM
60	CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes women Perhaps I’ve encountered more overtly TERRIBLE men but I’ve also encountered more ‘low-key’ terrible women if that makes sense. And perhaps more overtly righteous men. I feel it’s similar to the IQ curve. But I’d also say that men are judged quite flippantly these days and women gravitate towards shaky relationship foundations rather than ones that are likely to be legit commitments. And this comes from my own in-field successes And failures. Basically NO woman I’ve met/dated has preferred certa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:28 PM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay Well yeah- but marriage needs reform	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:23 PM
1	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week I feel many of the responses I’ve gotten here are way too harsh. First off: I openly communicated for ages it was an open relationship. Until eventually she started making up a narrative that it was something else. I’ve seen so many women who I’m friends with (not friends with the guys they’re seeing) do this. It’s laughable. I’ll listen to the problems if I’m bored - But at this point I’m just like “Oh wow” and “No way!” Of course this is a generalization but it’s just something I’ve observed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:43 PM
1	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week I’ve met very few of these magical women that can’t be manipulated. I remember growing up my mom getting manipulated and I wanted her to leave my dad and I wanted to treat a woman totally different than my dad treated my mom 😂 And to be fair I’m a lot more blunt and honest even now than my dad But I gave up on this idea of being heart on my sleeve and deeply in love and romantic and all that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:35 PM
1	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week Im friends with women between 20-40s. For a lot. It never stops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:32 PM
5	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week I Don’t really consider Reddit a place where I can feel like a fool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:26 PM
6	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week I have those things. I’m saying there’s certainly guys out there in these situations that also have those things and want to commit	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:26 PM
10	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week Was literally super transparent for over a year. Sorry guys who really want you will bar their emotions and simp some. That’s how it used to be in most relationships Modernity destroyed that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:24 PM
5	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week I was transparent. Then she interpreted it somehow after I didn’t talk about it for awhile as something else. After a certain point you just let foolish people be foolish. I never said anything that contradicted it and I stated how it was many times. Non committal guys don’t become committal just cus or really ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:23 PM
3	M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to Week Yeah I don’t really pay much attention to it now. I work two jobs and have a financial plan to have property and have freedom to do the things I enjoy. Don’t have time. And i go on chill mini trips with LTR like once a month	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:21 PM
5	Western Women hate it when men have sexual access as easy as they do CMV This is a gross comment. I have dated plenty of American women. I’m in an LTR right now and I can always get one. Western women are just frequently insufferable like you sound. They don’t offer what a man wants from a long term relationship. It’s not rocket science. I’m above average looking too. But I work two jobs and am tired all the time and I have little patience for people that actively make my life more of a pain	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:48 AM
2	Western Women hate it when men have sexual access as easy as they do CMV Based and legit comment. I find endless hook ups with new girls tiring. In an LTR I know has no future. Working to save up for a property and get financially sorted out. But in the end I’m going over seas to figure things out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:43 AM
3	Western Women hate it when men have sexual access as easy as they do CMV Based comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:38 AM
6	Western Women hate it when men have sexual access as easy as they do CMV They tend to like the countries and cultures too. It’s not just the women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:35 AM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that What’s your career and how did you boost your income?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 01:46 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that Sure. Would like to see	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 01:45 PM
1	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that Hmmm I feel in the looks range I must be closer to Chad lite. But I’m not getting any younger 🤣 Girls will talk about my appearance and before dating apps they did a lot. Sadly no game back then. But in the end there’s always someone better and once they’re used to you and you start treating them nicer and you have a fight - well then she’ll let you know I’m in the group where if I was taller I’d he Chad without a doubt though. So there’s that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:40 AM
0	I feel like women are allowed to have mental illness and men aren't Straight Men don’t really have borderline personality disorder. Something similar can manifest but it’s just not the same because of the nature of hypergamy. More codependent would be a better description.	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 11:21 AM
2	where do artistic men fit in all of this I feel men need to start consuming male art. I’m a male artist. And i just don’t believe there’s much of an audience anymore. Which is a shame ….	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 09:56 AM
1	Boy accused of asking to touch girl was treated like a 'monster' before suicide He was likely faking being gay to fit in. That’s where we’re at at this point.	/r/MensRights	11/01/23 12:17 PM
2	How the media frames the suicide epidemic. Dude I recognize the double standards. But you sound a bit unhinged around this Asian women thing. Care to DM me so we can talk about this?	/r/MensRights	11/01/23 11:26 AM
1	How the media frames the suicide epidemic. Yeah ditch that disgusting woman. She’s utter trash.	/r/MensRights	11/01/23 11:21 AM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? If you give people the ability to act violently many prior losers will surprise others. One of Hitlers most ruthless men was cut from that cloth. I don’t think I’d participate in any kind of rebellion unless forcefully conscripted. But I’ve been on both sides of the fence (good with women/modern women are a pain) that I get it and see how it could happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 09:16 PM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Went up. At around 40-50%. I’m not one of them. But won’t act like I’m not miserable in my own way	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 08:51 PM
1	Women have a looks barrier for friends too. Kinda rude to call your friends stupid. Basically she’s saying that her friends didn’t understand why their shorter friend had comparable trouble with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 02:14 PM
2	A man with minum safety in the process of laying high tension electric wire.When are feminsts going to fight for equal representation in this field of work? Then I’d be 5’7 not sure I’d take the exchange especially now he’s older 😂	/r/AntiFeminists	04/01/23 06:09 PM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege Eh tik tok complaints paint things a little differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 06:43 PM
3	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege That was well said on the porn. I’m an 8-8.5. Currently around a 6-7 because Poor self maintenance from stress/job etc but bouncing back. Been dating a 6 about that’s older than me for two years. I’ve messed with some other girls as well during this time. Probably ranging from about a 5 to a 7. Main girl is chill. Thinks she’s an 8 but she’s not. Maybe when she was younger. But anyhow I’ve also dated 8s and 9s and god it was a pain. The arrogance of a lot of these girls these days in unfathomabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 06:40 PM
1	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? True makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:43 PM
3	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? Agree. Conservative-ish (but with some liberal ideas) I think religion can be good for society. But I myself can’t get into religion. I just don’t feel it. It’s almost impossible to meet the right person through anything but very blind luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:42 PM
-1	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? I agree basically Although I will add most of the good ones are in their 20s but even that’s rarer these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:37 PM
23	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? Marriage rates keep going down. Divorce rates keep going up. Virginity rates in men keep going up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 02:06 AM