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Patient-Program224/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 02:21 AM
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Like everyone else said time and therapy. There’s a misconception that going to therapy makes you weak but in reality it helps make you stronger. That’s what I felt in my situation. You loved the wrong person a lot, but think about how much you’ll love the right person when she comes into your life. Prepare yourself mentally and physically to be ready for that one day and the feelings will shift to something like “that stuff didn’t happen to me, it happened for me”. Stay strong brother
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 01:27 AM
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I appreciate you man. I definitely feel all of those things. It’s like standing in quicksand sometimes. The harder I fight the deeper I sink. I definitely need those kids and they constantly say they love me and want to stay with me. Makes me feel like I’m on the right path and doing the right things. Just want to give them more. Seriously, thank you for saying all that
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 01:18 AM
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Just CS fortunately
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 01:14 AM
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I hired the most expensive lawyer in town and got shafted
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:49 PM
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Apparently in the county I’m in, her living with someone does impact things but I can’t have them review for another year. I tried to go the attorney route again because of some other things going on like neglect, sending the kids over with 2nd degree burns that she didn’t know they got while playing with fireworks, and was told taking her to court was going to cost 20k and with zero guarantees that anything would change. We sent her a letter saying that we were requesting mediation to which she…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:49 PM
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You’re right, in the grand scheme of things 650 ain’t bad. Only married for 2 years and I should be able to pay off that student loan this year so I’m making progress. But it’s slow progress. All I want is some breathing room and I’m trying to make it happen, just not as easy as I would like. But again you’re right, no more talk and just do it. FWIW, I work out every day and running 5ks and quarter marathons which has helped my mental strength. So that’s good advice
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 11:42 AM
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I appreciate you. Hope it works out for both of us in the end
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 11:34 AM
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