PatrickBaitEm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? Go to r/relationship_advice and type in "vibrator", then take your pick. I also can't help that think that the problems that a lot of women have with orgasm has something to do with being used to having something hit their clit at 6,000 RPM. When a man is used to climaxing from more pressure than most vaginas can produce, we call it a problem. When a woman can't climax without rates of stimulation that are only attainable by a machine, we call that normal female sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 04:28 PM
2	At least 59 people upvoted this comment about child support If women have kids that they can't support, we all pay via the state benefits system. If my options are making men accountable for where they shoot their seed or paying for irresponsible men to bareback with reckless abandon, I'll take the former (even though I still end up doing the latter too).	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 08:23 AM
1	If a man gets consistently used for his wallet, it’s safe to say that’s all he’s worth I honestly think that most men in this situation are fully aware of what they're doing. The older I get the more money I make and the less of a driver my libido becomes. The idea of swiping through dating apps and talking to strangers with a view to sex becomes more tiresome and the financial hit of hiring a 21 year old, expressly for the purpose of sex becomes less severe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 11:54 AM
1	Do men who "don't care about a woman's income" expect to pay for everything socially with their date or what? I think it's said in the sense of it not being actively attractive. Obviously there are practical concerns and it's context dependent but if I were theoretically dating some girl straight out of college, I'm probably more concerned with what will get my dick sucked rather than how we're going to blend finances, so her money doesn't even come into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 11:19 AM
2	The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justified I don't even think it needs justifying. For example, I weigh close to 220lbs, I do pull-ups with an extra 20kg of weight and I can squat twice my bodyweight. I look like someone who can do these things and I like looking like it. If I described what I was sexually attracted to and that description matched my physique, most people would assume I was gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/20 02:26 PM
5	So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk? Imagine that overnight a hamburger at your typical shitty fast food joing now costs $200 instead $8. I think I'd just get fried chicken instead. I don't know how that fits in with your analogy, but it's what I'd do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 04:07 PM
2	Original survey data on perceptions of "relationship value" of average man and average woman I think it's sort of true. If everyone on the planet lost their sexual desire tomorrow, I'd guess that there would be a much greater proportion of men than women who'd voluntarily live in relative solitude and not go out of their way to form relationships. Women seem more likely to enjoy the social aspects of a relationship in a more general way. They enjoy having "someone" and doing typical relationship stuff more than men inherently enjoy it. That could easily account for a gap that small.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 11:16 AM
5	Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more? Probably women. I think from their late teens, they get a lot of attention from men and, when they're young, they assume that a lot of it comes from their innate value and attractiveness, rather than just being hot because they're young. I think this tends to normalise around their late twenties when they realise than that attention is 99% sexual and most of those guys are much less attentive after they've cum. It probably contributes to the whole "settling down" thing too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 11:03 AM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? I think guys do want relationships but if you're a woman and you're under 30, you're probably widely physically attractive to men. As a result, you have a situation where the majority of young women are interesting to a man sexually, but the problem is that in many cases, that's the only reason the woman is interesting (to a given man). That's enough incentive to chase and do all of the things that make up the male part of the mating ritual, but not enough to make a guy want to spend time with t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 09:39 AM
3	How do redpillers justify wanting a woman with fewer sexual partners, while not judging themselves by the same standard? I never understood this question. It's pretty normal to not want a partner who is exactly like you. I can pretty easily deadlift 500lbs, I weigh about 200lbs. I like being able to do that and looking like someone who can do that. My girlfriend quite likes the fact that I can to. If she had my physique, I'd find her patently less attractive. If she could lift the same relative weight, I'd find it impressive but it would have no bearing on how attractive I found her. A preference isn't really the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/20 12:38 PM
1	Do women "really" hit the wall at 30? I think that's the key. When you have to start adding "for a" you have to admit something is lost. As a man, you can't really adjust how physically attractive you find someone for age. A woman who is a great looking for a 40 year old, will look like a busted 25 year old. That's not to say she's unappealing. It's like a masters' category in a tournament. They're not bad because they're old, they just physically can't keep up with younger competitors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/20 12:17 PM
2	Discussion: Women are supposed to be the more emotional sex. I disagree, I believe women display emotions more readily, but men feel them more deeply. I think society encourages pragmatism in men. A man displaying emotion in public(crying, for example) is seen as something to avoid, a potential danger. A crying woman will garner more sympathy, someone might hand her a tissue or try to find out what's causing the issue. Basically, I think displays of emotion often lead to positive effects for women (people will help), whilst for men, these are often neutral or negative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/19 10:02 AM
2	Masculinity is natural - femininity is artificial This is an extremely western-centric idea. You can see the same traits in plenty of countries where you can spend a childhood not seeing a Barbie. How much of the time that humans have existed and spent child-rearing have plastic models of babies been a part of it? The vast majority of mammalian species have relatively high female investment in child-rearing without having to have had advertising companies teach them to arrange themselves in that way. Humans could be an exception, swayed from pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/19 02:48 AM
2	CMV: "Sex is a need, like food. If you can't quell it, it should be taken care of. It's cruel not to" They're not needs either. The ubiquity of all of those things is relatively recent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/19 07:13 PM
1	Sex Isn't a "Need" or Prostitution Would Solve It - Men Want the TINGLES I would assume a good one is going to act as if they genuinely enjoy your company, even if they're indifferent towards you, like any service provider. I've never used one myself, but when I've been in countries where prostitution is open and legal, they are very friendly in their attempts to court you for business. It makes sense, economically and would likely extend to the act itself (if they are any good at it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/19 03:27 PM
4	CMV: "Sex is a need, like food. If you can't quell it, it should be taken care of. It's cruel not to" It's not a need, simply because you can survive without it. I went 2 weeks with no sexual contact or masturbation recently (the longest period without either since puberty, most likely). By the end of the period, not only was I still alive, my sexual response was genuinely dampened. It took a lot more effort to get to a point of physical arousal. A desire that dissipates when you don't feed it, with no severe pathological effects is not a need. It more closely mirrors an addiction, if anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/19 11:37 AM
2	Sex Isn't a "Need" or Prostitution Would Solve It - Men Want the TINGLES I think it's both thing. Men have a desire (I'm not going to say need, because noone is dying from it) for sexual novelty and to feel validated as a man. That's the role prostitution plays. The novelty and facsimile of validation is fine (maybe even preferable than genuinely chasing an emotional investment from multiple women) if you're getting the validation (in a happy marriage, for example). If it was just sex, men would masturbate and never interact with women. If it was just validation, men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/19 11:33 AM
1	Men do not need or want to control women. That's not my experience, but" perfectly happy" is the point though. If they're happy with things as they are and you're not, why would you feel aggrieved at having to be the one to make the things you want happen? What incentive does he have to turn a relationship from something he enjoys into something he enjoys less? The only leverage you have is your presence and if you're sticking around, he's going to assume it works well enough for you too. Same as a guy complaining about not getting a bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/19 11:26 AM