PatrickBoston-123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
300	First approach - I did it!	Field Report	PatrickBoston-123	/r/seduction	31/07/21 07:31 AM
49	Why do you get nervous of talking to girls, especially pretty ones? I’ll explain	Fundamentals	PatrickBoston-123	/r/seduction	05/03/21 06:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
60	"Whatever time you choose is the right time. Not late, not early." Marcus Aurelius Depends what for. If approaching a girl, asap is best	/r/seduction	31/07/21 05:37 PM
2	First approach - I did it! It’s a chest code once you work out anytime you venture outside your comfort zone you build confidence. I see it like building XP on a video game! Obvs it’s harder then that - facing fear in the face is very tricky (especially at the start)	/r/seduction	31/07/21 05:33 PM
3	First approach - I did it! Thankyou. Good luck to you too	/r/seduction	31/07/21 12:49 PM
13	First approach - I did it! It’s what tripped me up for ages. I did loads of research on facing fears ect hoping that it wouldn’t be scary. No, it will be scary. Accept that and don’t try and influence the fear. Focus on what you’re working towards not making decisions from a place of fear!	/r/seduction	31/07/21 12:49 PM
2	I discovered something! One of the secrets to life is finding out the moment you feel nervous to do something, you will always feel regret hiding in avoidance rather than doing no matter how it goes It could be the most terrible interaction of your life but you WILL feel better about yourself than avoiding. I promise.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 10:00 AM
9	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your life It’s not a leadership role in particular. It’s stepping outside your comfort zone which being a leader happens to be for you. The only real way to build confidence is to step outside your comfort zone, whatever that is, consistently.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:40 PM
25	Some girls just flat-out suck Sometimes? Everytime. They are normal human beings with worries and issues of their own. They happen to look good, it is completely out of their control and they don’t believe it themselves what you build them up to be in your head. They are in no way above you - so just be you!	/r/seduction	24/04/21 09:54 AM
12	You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anyway You can’t grow without action either. Once you take action, you can’t lose, no matter the result, as long as you don’t let it stop you!	/r/seduction	16/04/21 05:40 PM
1	Just have fun and stop overthinking it And just be yourself. I cringe so much when people plan out entire conversations. At most plan out your approach and from then on just stay present and respond the way the real you would You can only be yourself on this planet. No one else if like you. You are completely unique. Embrace this	/r/seduction	17/03/21 01:07 PM
7	Never wonder what you said wrong when she stops responding Think of yourself as complete. Never adjust to no one. Never go in looking for a perfect convo. It doesn’t exist. All you can be in this world is yourself. There’s no one like you on this planet, your background, environment, experiences, gene pool whatever make utterly unique. You can’t control how someone else is going to react to you. Imagine you have a speech, to group A and group B. Say group A loves it and group B hates it, even tho it’s the exact same speech you’ve delivered. You can’t co…	/r/seduction	22/02/21 11:21 AM
9	You can't become good at seduction (or anything) by reading about it online. You have to try it, fail, then learn from your failures. And it’s the same with anything in life. People always worry about leaving their comfort zone in case it goes wrong. But you can’t lose, with the right mindset. Going against what your brain is telling you, trying desperately to keep you ‘safe’ and ‘in your comfort zone’, no matter if it goes horribly bad, will be beneficial. Nothing is an L, only a lesson. You’ll gain confidence faster than you’d ever believe.	/r/seduction	14/02/21 02:14 PM
1	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident Brilliant. In lockdown I’ve learned the only way to grow on anything is to challenge yourself and face your fears. I can only imagine how mastering public speaking would help, no just in those situations but in all aspects of life.	/r/seduction	07/02/21 02:07 PM
1	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident How have you found it? I struggle public speaking and hate it over zoom. I’m slowly changing my mindset to face my challenges tho, how does the toastmasters process work especially online?	/r/seduction	07/02/21 01:46 PM
1	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident They do that?	/r/seduction	07/02/21 11:21 AM
22	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident This is great but all of these things have been cancelled due to Corona virus	/r/seduction	05/02/21 11:35 AM