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| 1 | Finances and child supportI hear you! Was debt free before my unexpected divorce and put the payout on my previously unused credit line, in addition to seeing my monthly bills double (no kids though). The one thought that is helping me is knowing that if she dragged it out and didn’t pull the plug, I would have lost 10, 20 (or more years) with someone who I know now checked out. My first mentor in the work world many years ago recommended a great book, “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living” by Dale Carnegie that I still… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Finances and child supportDon’t have a lot to add unfortunately, but just want to wish you the best and let you know you’re in a good place here with real world experience in this group (and you’re not alone). | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Wife Says She Doesn’t Know If She Wants the Marriage, Says Nothing Has Changed After a Month. How Long Do I Wait?Sorry man, probably not the answer you want to hear she’s checked out from what I’m reading. There’s no coming back. I certainly wish you the best but telling you this as someone whose wife checked out (seemingly out of the blue to me) after 11 years together and no apparent issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 09:26 PM |
| 2 | How many of you bought your wife out of the house?I stayed in the house and used my line of credit to do the payout. I love the neighbourhood and didn’t want to leave. One thing I’ll mention is that I completely redecorated the place, in my style, from top to bottom pretty much right away. So it’s the same house, but looks a lot different on the inside which helped me a lot staying here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 11:21 AM |
| 1 | One good night - ruinedGood luck to you and sorry you’re going through through this. Not sure if it’s the same where you’re at, but here in my area or Canada my wife and I tried to do the same thing and not one lawyer would touch it. They all required that we both have independent legal advice, even though we’re amicable and drew up the term of separation together. So I retained the first lawyer to represent me and draw up the legal agreement based on what we told her we want, and then my wife is bringing it to the se… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/26 06:36 PM |
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