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GLOBAL RESISTANCEPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:22 PM
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FDS MEMESPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 10:31 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:53 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:09 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:49 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:05 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:15 AM
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SCROTES MADPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:23 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:22 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:48 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:41 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESPatternedCollar/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:45 PM
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This is a really great breakdown and insight. Thank you for your input and for saying all of this. I totally agree! I don't accept the "spontaneity" move from guys, even if I know them... much from less a total stranger. I have hiiiighhh standards for a first date, like you said. This is absolutely not it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:56 AM
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Right!! We love a good Hula Hut enchilada... but not like this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:28 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:27 AM
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Because they're entitled and inconsiderate and think girls gonna just drop their plans to do whatever they want whenever they want it 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:27 AM
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Thank you so much! I appreciate you saying that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:25 AM
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I totally understand wanting to stick to the handbook, I really do! But every situation is different and nuanced. I think it's okay to stand up for yourself sometimes before blocking. I appreciate you saying this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:24 AM
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I understand where you’re coming from. I’m going to counter again with the fact it was 3 sentences max and in no way emotional, just factual. I never told him I was hurt, upset, shocked, whatever about what he said. I purposely left all emotion out of it. I said this in another comment, but I do think there is some worth in standing up for yourself and not just letting them walk all over you and quietly disappearing. Again, I understand your point of view. In SOME cases, standing up for myself b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:25 AM
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I genuinely don't know why people are downvoting you. Thank you for your encouragement. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:59 PM
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Truthfully, it doesn't matter to me if he sends it to his friends. I called him out for having zero understanding of women. No one can misconstrue that as "lmao you have amazing game bro!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:52 PM
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I was like... do I know you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:12 AM
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Exactly. They could have understanding for how we feel seeing date rape statistics. How we feel seeing stories of women getting murdered via online dating dates. But they don't. The complete lack of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:24 AM
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Thank you for saying this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:54 PM
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I know the advised response is simply block and move on. And truthfully, that's my usual go-to. I totally get why you and others are telling me I should have done that. I think there is some worth to standing up for yourself. No, I don't expect that my 3 sentences will change him as a person. I'm aware what I said was a waste of my time in that this won't change anything. I totally get that! However, I am so tired of letting guys like this come for me and think they successfully dragged me when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:53 PM
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He was 29! Seemingly had his shit together, too (well-dressed, decent job, etc.). What a waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:51 PM
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Yep, I knew the Hula Hut would give it away :) You're right... so so so many tech bros. And 100% spot on with the COVID numbers... cases are skyrocketing right now. Adds a whole extra layer to the shittiness of this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:02 PM
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Exactly! I meant what I said - I do appreciate the effort take initiative... but at least let me get a general sense of who you are? And for him to get a sense of who I am? Made me feel like he wasn't in it to know me. He just wanted to meet up with any female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:09 PM
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Truthfully, I'd usually just not reply and just block and move on but the “ok, well this is a dating app” made me be like mmm actually I should drop some knowledge rq before I do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:34 PM
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Thank you :) Dangerous is a great point. If I'd gone out with him and something were to happen to me what would men be saying online? “She shouldn’t have met you with a guy she didn’t know, it’s her fault 😠”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:34 PM
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Exactly. He really thought he was a lil white knight for me. Here to be the revolution amongst all the other guys on dating apps. Like #NotLikeOtherGuys 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:32 PM
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I'm sorry ma'am but I read your comment and I cannot find the lie???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:24 PM
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'No excuses' he says, as he invites me to go out with him, 30 MINUTES BEFORE he expects me to meet up. Like... do you really think you're that important that I cancelled all my plans the second I swiped on you... I...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:19 PM
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Exactly... he out here making demands like he's someone important... Honestly this would be a little demanding even if I KNEW this person. Even if they were my friend/SO, I'd expect someone to say "can you call me?" or "would you mind calling me?" or "can I call you? I'm driving." THERE ARE SO MANY LESS DOUCHEY WAYS TO ACT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:17 PM
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Love when I am nothing but a toilet to someone ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:09 PM
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I love you for “regional manage away, my friend lol” and I will use that till the end of time honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:40 AM
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You guys I looked at his IG and in his bio HE LINKED A WHOLE SEPARATE IG ACCOUNT FOR HIS 5 FISH TANKS 😂😂😂😂😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:37 PM
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Not only do you have to be a follower on his insta, but his number ONE follower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:26 PM
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This is really good insight! I didn't know this was common in Indian culture. You did a great job of breaking down the red flags... I didn't even know where to start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:24 PM
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😂😂😂 the 5 fish tanks... I'm honestly confused, what is he trying to say? That he's upper class for buying an excessive amount of fish tanks off Amazon???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:20 PM
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Men loooove to ignore the infidelity in Beyonce/Jay Z's relationship and use the "Beyonce forgave him!" narrative to push the idea that they, too, should be forgiven when they cheat 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:17 PM
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I know rich people buy expensive things all the time but this one doesn't make sense... He's eyeing a 10 bedroom house in the most expensive area of our city for literally only himself... I don't understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:11 PM
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This is from ~Facebook Dating~ and he was in my 'people who have liked you' folder so I'm going to match with him just to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:02 PM
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People that will call this woman a "man hater" are the same people that have no problem upvoting videos and tweets and memes for shaming women for being too fat, too skinny, ugly for not wearing makeup, ugly for wearing makeup, too outspoken, golddiggers, or whatever other accusation they feel like making toward women that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:01 PM
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He only has to have one eye minimum and he's out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:57 PM
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I do agree it's important to look at things from both perspectives. For me, I saw someone desperate for equality in their relationship, rather than it being a case of him being forced to leave because of her unhappiness. I do agree though that it does seem like they are both better off post-divorce. Out of curiosity, why do you think the article was unnecessary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:27 PM
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Sorry, but what are you talking about? I did read the article, thanks. Not long after the accident, I sat on our bed with my knees pulled up to my chest and tears in my eyes. I told Elon, in a soft voice that was nonetheless filled with conviction, that I needed our life to change. I didn't want to be a sideline player in the multimillion-dollar spectacle of my husband's life. I wanted equality. I wanted partnership. I wanted to love and be loved, the way we had before he made all his millions. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:58 AM
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She didn’t - he filed for divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:55 AM
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Exactly. “I defeated 1000 enemies and dismayed 1000 liars”? What???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:01 AM
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I think the (poor) excuse is there. However I can assure everyone that I looked at his photos and he looks nothing like John, Paul, George, or Ringo 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:58 AM
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But also how does one look like all 4 of The Beatles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:22 AM
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LMAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:21 AM
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Girl I already feel this way about the guy I broke up with in March 😂You are 100000% right on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:28 PM
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He not only bumps into you over and over but keeps basically grinding on you even after you ask him to stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:45 PM
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Straight up Beauty & the Beast energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:32 PM
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I've heard of this happening, and it seems like it's a pretty common occurrence, which is pretty gross, and saddening to hear that women experience this while distressed. Does someone know the psychology behind this? Why does this happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:00 PM
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This truly made me sick to read. It's so sad to think that someone has to endure this kind of abuse. Which is what it is - abuse. She needs to get out. Immediately. One conversation may seem trivial, but that one conversation they had is so telling. He was out to hurt her and abuse her, demoralize her, not to even mention the blatant and flaming misogyny happening here (it's ok for him to enjoy his exes to giving him head, but she's wrong for doing it in the past?) It's all so much. This makes m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:39 AM
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This makes me thankful I don’t have a roommate. I’ve had so many roommates over the years and it’s almost always some shit like this. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. People can be selfish and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:45 AM
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Exactly... if that was done to him, it would be a whole issue. Women are expected to cook for men, that's like the baseline to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:53 PM
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Come to think of it, you could be right. This was probably done intentionally as a passive-aggressive move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:52 PM
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You already know he left everything out and will complain later about how she needs to contribute to chores more lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:50 PM
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Wait, which cross post are you referring to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:22 PM
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Do you understand how much of a burden it is for them to even be texting you back? That's difficult enough... much less be concerned about your physical safety. You're asking for way too much. /s (very, very /s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:24 PM
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IMAGINE being that selfish. OH my god. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Just this story got me actually heated. That like physically made me angry. How can someone be so emotionally stunted that he cannot understand why you'd be upset that PEOPLE (PLURAL) SAID THEY'D RAPE YOU. Incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:22 PM
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What... the fuck... is wrong with people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:20 PM
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You make such a good point, guys almost always see any negative feeling, emotion, or circumstance that we go through as a personal doing. My most recent ex boyfriend told me that my being hurt from him cheating on me and physically hurting me was MY fault, because I "need to take responsibility for my happiness." It's always going to be our fault to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:19 PM
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I wouldn't blame you, it's nauseating to see at this point honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:17 PM
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This meme didn't have to go that hard on us but it did it truly did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:17 PM
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Or not even a terrible attempt at acknowledging your situation, just "Lol" Then next text "send nudes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:16 PM
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This was also 10000000000% my ex boyfriend. I feel you. It's like they're TRYING to be bad people, I swear. Glad we're both done with that. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:15 PM
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IT'S SO LOUD ISN'T IT I'm so sorry for your loss and that someone would be disgusting enough to be so flippant in a time of actual crisis for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:14 PM
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I'm sorry he did WHAT HOW DOES ANYONE THINK THAT'S OK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:12 PM
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100%. Last year, I was sexually harassed by a man, and I told a guy friend (now ex friend) about it because I was really upset about it at the time. He literally told me I was "giving him (the man who harassed me) too much power" and I "just needed to get over it." Good lesson to never seek support from men ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:48 PM
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True.... I should have kept not responding. Definitely won’t next time this happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:44 AM
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