Paul-Stewart Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Making her pay for herself? Sometimes I just tell them it's their turn... or make them pay first time around so I can take the bill next time, if there is a next time :)	/r/seduction	12/09/15 10:57 AM
1	Making her pay for herself? Agreed!... The more of a deal you make of it, the bigger deal she will think it is.... if you say it like it is normal, she will act as if it is normal and begin to feel that guys like you always do this!	/r/seduction	12/09/15 10:56 AM
1	I don't get it. sex god method.... girl's start talking about the future and shit. Plus in terms of game in general, you have to make yourself seem like LTR material if you want to have em for more than 1 night. Plus how warm are the leads? Are they 1 night stands from a club? Do you portray yourself as a player etc? In my case I had it all apart from the ability to fuck girls into oblivion... Even the ones that say they do not want a relationship end up talking about "the future" and "exclusivity" and "a year …	/r/seduction	12/09/15 10:35 AM
1	any tips on becoming a better kisser? Hmmmm shoulder you say... must try this on monday!	/r/seduction	12/09/15 10:09 AM
1	any tips on becoming a better kisser? LOL squeeze hacks!	/r/seduction	12/09/15 10:08 AM
3	any tips on becoming a better kisser? Things I try to remember.... Don't just kiss her bottom lip, let her kiss yours too. Lip biting is essential, don't over do it. Neck kissing is essential, don't over do it. Sometimes it's not about how good you are, it's about how compatible you are, you start to clock each other's rhythms and techniques and allow them to work, if you don't then everything will feel forced anyway, kissing someone on multiple occasions makes it so much easier. Hands matter, do you begin to hold her tighter? Do yo…	/r/seduction	12/09/15 01:53 AM
1	Nofap? In my experience... fapping is not bad... I fap again kinda just to keep the pipes smooth. But the benefits I experienced according to the Cue-Process-Reward concept outlined in The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg was that.... You get aroused... that's the clue... you Fap, that's the process and you bust a nut... that's the reward. Some people rewire their minds so that they end up sticking with that process which is fapping because it comes after the same cue and gives virtually the same rewar…	/r/seduction	11/09/15 05:09 PM
1	Should I approach when I feel my self-esteem is low, and I look ugly? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhuabY4DmEo Fix your self esteem.	/r/seduction	09/09/15 10:54 PM
2	How to not ruin a friendship by asking her out. Bro, fuck it.... for all you know, she is very shy but actually really likes you. I was in this same situation... I told her I would fuck her.... turns out she really liked me and hoped that I would get drunk and hit on her on many occasions. Now we are dating/fucking exclusively..... If you really want her then risk her friendship and risk the social group, otherwise you don't really want her but you are living in a version of the future that doesn't even exist where she happens to like you thi…	/r/seduction	30/08/15 11:38 PM
4	How to not get attached to girls For real... I used to give a fuck, now I give a fuck less!	/r/seduction	30/08/15 11:30 PM
1	When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date... Did you kino... escalate... kiss?.... I'm no expert but in my experience.... she is on a date for a reason, she stopped her motor mouth running for a reason.... so I'd say kino kino kino kino kiss..... very rarely will a girl say "hey lets stop talking and start making out!".... some silences really mean "hey I'm giving you the opportunity to change this date around by kissing me", you might be thinking she is not interested, when she is actually interested in 1 thing. Again, only speaking from …	/r/seduction	26/08/15 11:28 PM
3	When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date... When the convo runs dry, I usually try to switch locations.... girl being awkward in my bedroom... I take her to the riverside etc. Seriously, I never realised the power of this, I think there is some pua lingo name for moving locations, but it is something that isn't given enough attention. Sometimes you might think it's a fail but all you need to do is change locations, she might not be feeling comfortable in that aura.... I have it easy because we have a river and swans right near my house, b…	/r/seduction	26/08/15 07:13 PM
7	I've finally developed good relationships with 3 different girls, but I'm really scared. Bruh..... "starving artist".... It's not just about how broke you are, it's about how does being broke make you feel? Are you gonna be a beta once they find out that you are broke? Or are you so driven that they admire you and your vision/passion? This past year since I really starting getting into seduction, my image has all be about being super classy and super passionate about the things I do in life.... They all know I am broke'ish.... but I have been with all types of girls. My suggestion w…	/r/seduction	23/08/15 11:56 PM
6	Should I tell potential hookups/dates that I have depression? My motto outside of "game" is to never adopt an identity which is based on a circumstance outside of your control..... If you choose to be an NFL player and you make that your entire identity, then great! You chose that, but you didn't choose depression and anxiety so never make that your identity, whether it's "game" or not. Mould your identity around the things you chose for yourself and the positive reality you have created.	/r/seduction	23/08/15 03:22 AM