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I agree with this. Older you get, it gets harder to find people who're willing to come to be a wing man. Just don't approach with him. If you're doing night game, do everything solo and occasionally meet up with him for some regrouping and light conversations.
/r/seduction28/07/26 11:39 PM
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I agree with this. Older you get, it gets harder to find people who're willing to come to be a wing man. Just don't approach with him. If you're doing night game, do everything solo and occasionally meet up with him for some regrouping and light conversations.
/r/seduction28/07/26 11:37 PM
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Ive been approached at a bar more than a few times by women, but it doesn't mean jack shit. I usually end up going home alone anyway, because I suck at every other part. Don't let this get into your head. Plenty of my friends who never get approached do way better than me.
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:39 PM
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My French friend always says that it's actually even uncommon to approach girls in a bar/club setting and you only interact with your extended social circle. Not sure if he was telling the truth or he was just using this as an excuse.
/r/seduction28/12/20 02:17 PM
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Dont be too selfless; be a little selfish, its perfectly fine. Be honest but not too honest; playing some mind games every once in a while wont hurt you. Most importantly tho, do not give away compliments. Make your compliments earnable. Compliments are only worth to the person if they had to fight to get it; if you gave them away like loose candy, you will come off as too nice and sweet. Remember that you're always out to serve your own interests first and other peoples second.
/r/seduction15/12/20 01:14 AM
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I dunno man, making friends with women has always been very difficult for me. In fact I have had way more girlfriends over the ages than platonic female friends. Seems that my hobbies and interests don't quite match with most women as a friend. Also there is so much drama involved with female friends that makes me think its not worth the effort altogether.
/r/seduction09/12/20 11:39 PM
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I agree with you. I'm tired of hearing the "those girls are shallow, needy, etc." excuses. As a man, you don't choose what you're attracted to, and you don't really consider a relationship with people whom you're attracted to.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:31 PM
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Honestly, all the OPs advice does is that once a girl gets to know you deeply, they will fall really hard for you and won't let go; However, getting a girl into that stage is like a whole another story that no amount of self-improvement will help
/r/seduction15/11/20 01:26 AM
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I'm not the type who would approach at the gym, but if you absolutely want to, I would suggest going for the girls that are usually there at the same time as you, and instead of going for a classic approach, trying to build some kind of acquaintance with them first. Perhaps start with a casual nod or simple hi, and later perhaps make a comment about the music when you get a chance or some other small thing. Once you get some recognition going, you can escalate to talking further and seeing how i…
/r/seduction11/11/20 10:57 PM
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I personally dont believe so. Biologically, we're not wired to mate for life. We've only decided to do so as a society. Early humans lived in tribes and the women were shared with across all the men as far as I recall. Although I do believe that there is certain benefit in monogamy that you can't find elsewhere, and that is the security aspect. You can live a safer, lazier and more stable life. Being constantly on the hunt is like being constantly in competition. You need to keep yourself in top…
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:48 PM
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Good for inner game and that's it. Teaches you how to be honest and legit, instead of playing mind games, being fake and pulling manipulative shit. However, I firmly believe that there is more to game than this. You still need outer game. On a side note, it bashes the PUA community really hard which I found pretty off putting. Perhaps there's a lot of bs in the PUA materials, but there's also a great deal of beneficial advice.
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:02 PM
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Right there with you mate. I've had so many of these boring platonic conversations with girls over the years that didn't go anywhere that I've actually lost count. Nowadays I usually try to find a way out of the conversation once it starts going that way. Not sure what OP is on about.
/r/seduction11/09/20 03:02 PM
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Unless a girl pulls your pants down as soon as you open the door to your apartment, I don't really think they're ever gonna notice it. You're probably already rock hard once the foreplay reaches the phase which underwear starts coming off. Im a grower myself and never really had this issue for sex with a new girl. Usually, later on once the girl gets comfortable with you in bed and such, they naturally will give it a closer inspection, as for some reason they all seem to be kind of amused by pps
/r/seduction22/08/20 05:34 PM
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Do you want to hear something scary? I don't remember the last time I actually did something for myself. It feels like I have shaped my entire life, hobbies and ambitions around attracting girls who have been out of my reach(and needless to say I've failed at that). It is so bad, that whenever I try to go into a relationship, depression hits me really hard because I absolutely stop doing anything useful with my life and can't find the reason to do anything other than my daily routines; I literal…
/r/seduction07/02/20 11:24 PM
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