Payamux Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	When dating never focus on other girls tbh I think people in this sub are pretty cool. Most of the time you can disagree with the op or someone in the comments without being downvoted to hell. People will upvote you if you are respectful, even if you don't have the "mainstream" opinion. It's refreshing to have on reddit. Obviously it's not always constructive and there is circlejerking but still...	/r/seduction	25/10/20 01:11 PM
107	This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive disposition He only appears that way because he's handsome. Put a fat ugly guy with the same body language and he won't seem charismatic at all. People are mysterious because they are attractive, not attractive because they are mysterious. Now I know someone will give me the argument of "I know a guy who..." or "this celebrity is ugly but.." but this argument doesn't hold. We almost always forget to factor in certain characteristics (money, status, etc.) and most of all it's all about statistics.	/r/seduction	20/10/20 12:35 PM
1	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. Being ugly is a disadvantage but notes fatality. It means you have to work harder, be more sociable or funnier, or have more status. All of those things are correlated to physical beauty but not entirely caused by it. For example, it's hard to develop an outgoing personality when you've been marginalised since you were a kid, but it's possible.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 11:30 AM
126	What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me. Don't forget to bring all you ex girlfriends for social proof	/r/seduction	15/10/20 11:25 AM
1	Stop developing oneitis and start being authentic and having abundance Obviously I'm not familiar with your exact situation so you might be right, but ask yourself, if you were some Brad Pitt looking guy, or the man of her dreams, do you think she'd be "confused" and hesitant or would she show herself available and even pursue you ?	/r/seduction	09/09/20 05:38 AM
2	Stop developing oneitis and start being authentic and having abundance It seems clear she's keeping you around for validation or to make herself feel wanted. After the first 2 times of asking someone out, if they're busy but they don't try to set up a date, you should move on.	/r/seduction	08/09/20 09:29 PM
2	Theory guy taking action DAY 2 Damn cool man ! When you think about it, you really had nothing to lose. The way she interacted with you was enough of a signal to ask for her number, and even if she said no because she was just being friendly and helpful, you'd still have a win for having the guts to do that	/r/seduction	28/06/20 03:20 PM
5	LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTION Don't you think if you asked her out right out of the gate she would have said no ? When you took the hour to get to know her and she saw that you were funny/pleasant (you had inside jokes already) she was more inclined to accept your invitation.	/r/seduction	15/06/20 12:17 AM
1	disbelief someone is interested in me Everyone is saying go for it but keep in mind that relationships at work are sometimes really harmful. I don't know what your respective positions are but if you do end up with her and it doesn't work out, it could backfire. So stay level headed dude, she's not the only girl who's going to like you despite what you might think !	/r/seduction	14/06/20 03:58 PM
2	Turns out my dad was a player. More like, girls can get attractive guys in two clicks, why would they bother wasting time on an average guy ?	/r/seduction	13/05/20 12:16 AM
12	Turns out my dad was a player. Yeah so it was realy status, money and good looks that did it. Nothing new under the sun	/r/seduction	12/05/20 10:55 PM
1	2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I Started What do you mean by setting the frame? Making a joke?	/r/seduction	11/05/20 11:24 AM
2	How I succeeded in dating People keep talking about finding interests but what exactly ? I spend my week days working and working out and on the week end I simply go out with friends or play video games I like doing those things but they don't make me particularly interesting or stand out from other people.	/r/seduction	09/05/20 10:51 PM
3	How do you start tinder conversations That works for attractive guys but if you're average with an average life, you need to sway them with an exceptional personnality	/r/seduction	29/04/20 10:26 PM
3	How do you start tinder conversations My friend group doesn't take pictures and I feel like it would be awkward for me to ask them to take multiple pictures on a night out.Where I live it's unsual for guys to take pictures of themselves like that... I feel doomed	/r/seduction	29/04/20 10:25 PM
2	HOW TO BE A BALLER. QUALITY OVER QUANTITY So you don't agree with what he said at all ? Do you think this is all too calculated ? He mentionned that you have to be yourself and not fake a personnality you think will get you more girls	/r/seduction	30/01/20 12:19 PM