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Red Pill TheoryPaydenwayne/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 02:59 PM
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Paydenwayne/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:46 PM
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Rant/VentingPaydenwayne/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:52 AM
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Paydenwayne/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:08 PM
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Yeah he clearly doesn’t get it. Point of this post was to emphasize holding frame in an LTR. Be her “chad” and she won’t find another to fuck on the side. Remember AWALT while in an LTR so you don’t fall into oneitis, hold frame, and it will improve the relationship drastically.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:40 PM
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And not spending resources or time on them that could better be spent elsewhere
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:02 PM
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Nah, In that context might seem like it but definitely not.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:30 PM
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Losing ur temper is a beta insecure bitch move not alpha. Keep cool, treat the insult as if it were coming from an insignificant child, play it down, and the other person will look like the joke they are. Just making stern eye contact with the person for a few seconds until they break contact almost always works for me, people will sense it, and everyone will know.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:22 AM
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The only place she is going from here is harder and harder abuse, she isn’t going to get better, sh she isn’t going to let up, she’s going to break you down and make it harder for you to have the confidence to game afterwards. You need to get out now or ur not going to recognize yourself in two years. Trust me
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:58 PM
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No u need to next her, end of story
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:53 PM
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This, I was in a similar situation once and made the mistake of treating it more as a date, felt an obligation to the woman and never really established my value so I came across as beta. You have no obligation to her outside of her being your “arm candy” don’t express over interest and just do you and have fun, if she accompanies you in it great, if not let her do her thing and when y’all meet in bed at night treat it like it’s nothing, she will initiate once ur in bed if you hold frame all day…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:33 PM
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Definitely catches me off guard still as well, people who before I would set next to in a class or wherever it may be that would totally ignore my existence now smile and strike up conversation wanting to be my friend, its enlightening and still almost odd to me, a great feeling tho.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:33 AM
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Also a former skinny dude here (6’ 140) to now about two years later (6’ 180lbs less than 10% body fat) you literally hit a point in which the whole world seems to respond better to ur presence, everyone becomes more friendly, especially the women but men also. Hit the gym boys
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:46 PM
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I’m not, I have a rather nice dick, but I was so worried about being shot and robbed it wasn’t working for me, long story. The lesson here is don’t make friends with ur cabbie in Honduras, or do, it was actually an epic fucking night
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:09 AM
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I had a whore in Honduras laugh at my dick, ur argument isn’t valid
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:52 AM
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I guess my question then is, if there is no escalation over text, how do I go from first getting a number and just starting a conversation, to logistics, without appearing thirsty or boring
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:12 PM
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Sounds to me like she has no idea what she wants, changing her mind that often only means she would cheat on you all the same. Dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:35 PM
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Sounds good, but what do you mean by “leveling bullshit”
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:07 PM
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Sounds good. What do u mean by leveling tho
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:11 PM
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Yeah I’m not as good at this as I should be. I sent her my place at 8 and she said “adress? But I’ll probably be at the gym at 8” I know I’m not supposed to bend to her schedule so I’ll probably let her know I’m going to be at the gym around then also so I’ll let her know when I head home
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:02 PM
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I don’t have much to add the comments already here are really well put, I just want to say, it sounds like ur moving in the right direction, you have a shit self image but you are making healthy moves towards bettering that and I think that is awesome, keep indulging in hobbies, keep ur mind busy, keep improving and it will all fall into place. One thing I might add tho is, don’t be afraid to take down some ugly women man, no shame in practicing on women below par, as I always say, have to smash…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:03 AM
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Well I wasn’t trying to imply that she was well rounded, just that she happened to be the best of the first group of extremely unseasoned women.
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 01:51 AM
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Land whales or feminist trolls, don’t forget those, they love to message first to show you how big their dick is
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 06:33 PM
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No kidding, dumbest shit ever. She isn’t even close to the hype she got anyways, she was just the first decent women’s fighter, as soon as a couple more decent women’s fighters showed up she got owned.
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 06:18 PM
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Yeah I agree, he went from cocky asshole mode to ashamed creepy dude with the apology
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:39 PM
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Regardless, he looked beta just jumping her hoop with no exchange there. He needed to toy with her at the very least about it, not just held her notes quietly like an obedient pup.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:10 PM
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If I walked up to you as another man and said, hey hold this and just handed something to you so I could talk to someone else, while you are just standing there with what I handed you, waiting on me to finish my business, I just made you my bitch. It would be another thing if she was predisposed and couldn’t hold her own notes, or she was a long time friend. That isn’t the case. She can hold her own damn notes. Dealing out favors with no reward is how you become a beta.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:59 PM
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Or just grab her notes, write down ur number in large print across the top, intentionally through some of her “notes” hand them back and walk away
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:50 PM
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It was a shit test and you failed. Have you ever walked up to a guy you just met and said “hey hold my notes” next time don’t do it.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:48 PM
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Talk is cheap
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:16 PM
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Ur in luck, because honestly ugly dudes can do just as good as handsome dudes. Lift hard, loosen up and stop being so fucking hard on urself, gain some confidence in the gym, learn how to laugh it off, and find ur element, something ur good at where you thrive and let people see that.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:22 AM
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Well I just got out of the military and landed a great career, although I’m not settled in yet, I’m moving forward. Our relationship is long distance though due to meeting her while I was in the service. As far as myself I’m pretty sorted, but being long distance isn’t ideal as far as my relationship.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 02:04 PM
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What do you mean by “you’re all sorts of sideways and this guy has absolutely nothing to do with anything”
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:28 PM
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Bahaha i think I might actually do this
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:08 PM
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Like I said, I’m not so much concerned as I am annoyed and just wondering if it’s better to continue ignoring his orbiting, or do something about it. I figured the former but thought I’d ask.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:05 PM
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She sounds like she’s 15, hard next. Her first reaction to things not going her way was manipulation and nearly blackmail. You can not get a bigger red flag.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:32 AM
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I couldn’t say. Probably from being a BP in a not so distant past life
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:49 AM
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Thank you, I think that’s what I was feeling is why I never expressed my annoyance, but I wasn’t sure how place it. Hearing it resonates tho, it felt wrong to gratify her with my acknowledgment of him and now I know why.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:45 AM
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I’ve mentioned the no platonic BFF of the opposite sex early on in our relationship but she seems to have missed the memo, I haven’t pressed out of fear of looking like a bitch, or appearing threatened by him. How would I avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:25 AM
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I’m relatively new on here and i am not sure how to go about asking these questions aside from in the comments. So I will ask it here and hope it is seen. My girlfriend of two years has an orbiter, this dude from her high school days who she speaks to in texts on occasion. I know they have had some sexual tension due to her turning him down before because she told me how he went on a vacation with her and her family one time and it went terrible and was super awkward the whole time, due to him e…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:15 AM
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Another just FYI, even if a girl is really clean, but stinks, could be because a guy just dumped a load in there recently. Anyone who has been in a long relationship and done so themselves knows there is nothing that spoils it faster..... so unless U want another mans stank on you, just one more reason to dip out.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 04:13 AM
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There is no hope for this relationship, there is a small amount of hope for you to save some of your pride and take it with you into a different relationship, hopefully with a new woman who will build ur pride instead of tearing it down. Grab what’s left of ur manhood and go, no more texts, no more calls, don’t look at any more pictures of her, nothing. Be gone, absolutely
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:38 PM
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