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1

If she cheats and i do find out, i have no issue dropping here cold Keep that stance and don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:12 PM
7

Smile and give her a hug (or slap her ass).
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:59 PM
1

My ex never fucked me harder and drained me more then when she found out I was talking to other chicks while we were broken up Same thing happened to me... and it got even better when she found out I was fucking those girls. Eye-opening and fun, until the drama made it unpleasant.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:19 PM
4

Did I just read the script to some lame teenage romance drama? What's all this "will you be my girlfriend" crap? What in the sidebar told you to say that? You haven't even gone out on a single date with her (let alone had sex with her) and you want her as your girlfriend?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:58 PM
24

You sound kind of autistic, too. You two will make a great couple. You've been "talking" or whatever for months and you haven't asked her out? Why?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:37 PM
5

Since it was only 3 months, you can probably plate her if you want. She will resist and give you tons of drama, though, and it's probably not worth it. There is plenty of pussy out there.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:40 PM
1

Friday night is a big night. Might not wanna invest that on a first date. Good point to make.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:44 PM
3

Talk to other girls. Done.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:24 PM
7

The key is that it counts on women being logical and rational, two traits which most women do not have (through no fault of their own). Don't worry about it and hit them in the feels. They will "forget" about all that pink pill crap and do what they feel like doing in the moment.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:27 PM
4

Not interested.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:25 PM
2

How man other girls are you banging? I suspect the number is zero.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:13 PM
1

Is this a joke? You were posting on TRP 4 years ago. One of them about how guys in their 20's shouldn't be in serious relationships.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 10:12 PM
2

Girl ive been talking to for a couple months I hope you are fucking her. Otherwise, this question is pointless.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:00 PM
26

Yup, it is a good one. True confidence is key.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:15 PM
5

Yeah, I don't have the energy to read all these humblebrags after banging my 6 bikini model plates everyday. A man has his limits. I mean, I have to keep telling them to get their perfect tits out of my face so I can see the screen. It's pretty rough.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:38 PM
17

Make a woman cum if you want to keep her coming around. I enjoy making/seeing them cum, so I don't find it to be a hassle. You can get pretty good at it too, but all women are different. You shouldn't "be worried about it", but you should make them cum.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:36 PM
6

Yeah, totally this. The hardest part for me is the initial dating before plating. Logistics are a pain, but then patterns start to work out.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:02 PM
0

For 22 days
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:37 PM
1

What is happening? You're thinking about her too much.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:02 PM
2

Women love the drama...
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:21 AM
1

Agreed, this post oozes insecurity.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:20 AM
2

Nothing wrong with catching feelings for someone you care about, it is human nature. Just be prepared to walk away when your needs aren't being met. You are your first priority.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:30 PM
4

... and tired
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:11 PM
4

Kinda like, be perfect with game or SHE WILL stray. This is the beta in you talking. The point is to not care what she does. If she fucks up, she's out and you find someone else (if you want).
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:42 PM
1

I try to be as nice as I can and remind her every once in while how much I care about her, but she doesn’t seem that she even cares. You clearly have not read the sidebar. Also, read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:40 PM
1

It's ego and she is playing you (and she knows it). It sucks, for sure, but it is time to man up and dump her if she is going to treat you like that. Do you really want to be with someone like that? She's blaming you for her being slutty? Taking control? That is typical girl logic and AWALT. Find new chicks (not just the single mom, either).
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:21 PM
3

Don't shit where you eat... and sleep. Think about how awesome it will be when things go South and you have to move out.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:46 AM
1

So stop replying to her. That is her keeping you in orbit and you are allowing it.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:00 PM
1

Do you live in a small town or something? Maybe just bad luck. I would just proceed as usual. What's wrong with dating multiple people? Note, though, that you likely will struggle to maintain a relationship (plate or otherwise) with both simultaneously.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:58 PM
9

Stop asking them to hang out, lol. Don't forget, you can also be too needy with friends, not just women. If they don't want to hang out, they don't want to hang out. Find new friends. I usually give them the 3 strike rule. If they flake (i.e. make some lame excuse) 3 times, I stop trying to initiate any hangouts. Then it is up to them to ask me.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:54 PM
2

i have 5 years LTR, not interested in cheating Yet you pretty much were... make up your mind. Maybe your dick made up your mind for you.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:36 PM
3

You clearly have oneitis, no matter how much you deny it. Also, you are already, admittedly, orbiting her. She is keeping you in orbit with those texts. The best thing to do is stop contacting her like a thirsty beta and do your own thing. She is not what you think. How do you know she checks all the boxes for you if you haven't been in a relationship with her? I know one box she doesn't check - she isn't attracted to you. So stop letting her drag you along. You're giving her free validation whi…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:32 PM
5

Advice: don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 11:40 PM
1

How long has she been an LTR?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:02 PM
4

Shitting where you eat and sleep.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:55 PM
11

Come on, man... A common theme around here is too much verbalization. The proper response was "Cool, see you Saturday". Instead you acted all butthurt and "manly" by verbalizing (which just sounded whiny, actually). I'm guessing you didn't read the side bar.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:04 PM
2

Yeah man, that's what will set you apart. Try not to overthink and just assume they are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:48 PM
12

99% of girls are insecure. If you think they are attractive, then approach. Don't wait for them to approach you.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:34 PM
2

I hear ya bro, it is tempting. Just realize that plating an ex-exclusive-LTR is a mental challenge for you (and her). You (and her) have to reframe your relationship in your head and keep it that way. However, she likely will not be able to reframe the relationship in her mind. The whole time she will be pushing for exclusivity and likely trying to make you jealous and playing games (not contacting you, talking about other dudes she is seeing, switching between sweet and bitchy in an instant). T…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:12 PM
2

What are you hoping to get out of this? A plate? It will be emotionally difficult without rock solid frame. What's wrong with your current situation that would make you want to text her? It's rough because you already had a connection with her, but I would advise not re-connecting. Block her on Match.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:31 PM
17

Just ignore. If you escalate this, then you will show it bothered you and you already lost. Who cares what some random AFC says about you?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:57 AM
3

Avoid LTR, but... If hot, then bang. Just don't catch feelings
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:52 AM
4

I just wanted to know if it’s the right move. Are you not secure with the decision, then?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:44 PM
2

Lol ok bro. What are you worried about if you are so secure in the relationship?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:33 PM
3

My LTR has shown interest in my male friend and I believe she was just using my birthday as an excuse to get his contact. I don't know, man, that sounds like insecurity to me.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:24 PM
11

I ask her what he is buying "us" for dinner.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:20 PM
17

If the fact that she tried to coordinate something nice for you with your friends bothered you, then you need to do some serious introspection. Good luck having a nice relationship with anybody if they can't ever talk to any of your friends. I can't believe you made her stay in a separate room while you hung out with your friends. How fucking insecure are you?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:18 PM
20

Guys fuck up by getting married or getting into an LTR and thinking that it’s over, and they’ve “won.” This is why I hate when guys talk about "settling down". It is fucking stupid to think you can "settle down" with anyone. And why would you want to ever stop improving?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:47 PM
5

Get another girl that is cross-eyed inward and they will cancel each other out.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:03 PM
1

Harry Dunne from Dumb and Dumber. He DGAF.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:26 PM
13

The level of butthurt you showed her is astronomical. Stop verbalizing so much.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:39 PM
9

Sounds like male hamstering.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:35 AM
2

Early signs you're onto a BPD girl... tread carefully. She will be a nightmare if she's sending a bunch of validation seeking pics.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:37 PM
5

TRP is about doing what you want to do. So if you want to hang out with them as platonic friends, then do it. Sometimes that can lead to social circle lays. However, don't just be telling yourself you want to just be friends with them if deep down you're really just trying to get with them.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:32 PM
5

I don't think he means humble bragging. Humble bragging still = bragging.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:59 PM
25

Lol, just chill bro. You don't need to stare everybody down. Autistic stares may get you in trouble.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:47 PM
36

Come on, I can't be the only one who thought all approaches in the nordics are "cold", right?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:46 PM
3

I had a girl cry about me "not liking her" on a first date. Ran from that shit. Heard she got "accidentally" knocked up by the next guy.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:10 AM
1

Pro tip: make better decisions. Consider this a lesson. You probably would have failed out of engineering anyway, so it is probably good to get it done with before you accumulated any serious debt.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:22 PM
2

She called a crisis hotline for being reprimanded at work? Holy crap. I hope you aren't living together. Get ready for a shitshow of a breakup...
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:20 PM
1

When you develop confidence and a DGAF attitude, you won't have to worry about "holding frame" anymore. Just worry about doing what you want to do and not letting anyone cross your boundaries. Simple explanation is to do what makes you happy and don't let people walk on you.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:46 PM
3

Another troll post?
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:36 AM
8

Is this a troll post? Yes, get your diet in order and hit the gym.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:35 AM
4

When I was spinning plates, I kept detailed notes on my phone. The struggle is real.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:51 PM
3

Right call. Women have a way of making us feel guilty if things don't go their way. It's something programmed into them. Every guy gets duped by it sometimes, but use your logic to conquer it.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:50 PM
3

I think people confuse not giving a fuck with treating people badly. You can still still treat people well (I prefer that) and not give a fuck about any particular outcome. The key is to not be needy.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:15 PM
12

Ok, we'll just go with my first sentence then.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:27 PM
18

You sound like a dick. I doubt it is your looks that people dislike.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:19 PM
21

Sounds like she is using girl logic to keep you on the hook. During "the talk" you should just escalate to find out if she is still into you. Escalation shows interest. You can tell her you like her, but it has to be from a non-needy frame, which I don't think you have. If she shuts you down on the escalation, you have your answer.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:16 PM
3

It won't matter if she is attracted to you. If she brings it up say you just got a haircut.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:03 PM
3

You don't want help, you just want to whine.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:16 PM
4

Sucks bro, but this is not an uncommon story 'round these parts. She was checked out of that relationship for a while and then some guy gave her excitement. Women don't think rationally, they don't care what you did for them in the past. It is all about how they "feel" in the moment. Don't try to understand their reasoning because there isn't any. Seriously, don't. It will be tough, but the best advice is to go no contact and forget about her. Delete all things that remind you of her. Think of i…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:56 PM
2

Tell them you want to watch a movie. Then put on "Wild Things" and stare at them suggestively during the threesome scene. Guaranteed to work.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:45 PM
17

That feeling of "can I do better?" likely won't ever go away. And to be honest, it keeps you from getting oneitis. That being said, you should be with someone you want to be with (chemistry), not just because she checks some arbitrary boxes. The checked boxes won't make you happy.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:38 PM
4

Playfully slap her ass. Something to diffuse the situation with humor. Or just be totally stoic. It's tough without knowing her.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:05 PM
10

Pro tip: Don't argue (really with anyone). It never makes things better. Especially with women, since they are irrational. Since it is too late for the first argument, just don't continue it. Act unphased about it, be your normal happy self. Don't be butthurt or give her the silent treatment, but also don't be overly loving with her. Don't act like you are punishing her because that normally comes across as butthurt. It is tough to do, but that is the best course. If she screams at you, don't sc…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:47 PM
4

This. Incongruence will turn girls off. Don't act or tryhard, just generally improve yourself and DGAF.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:11 PM
3

The point is that it shouldn't bother you. It clearly bothered you because you "laughed it off" and then bitched to her "not to do it again" which negates the "laughing it off". Incongruence. It bothered you and it shouldn't have. Who gives a fuck about her stupid dream?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:20 PM
14

Why are you so butthurt? Just laugh it off. Why care so much?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:20 PM
2

Yeah, this is all fine. Don't overthink things.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:46 AM
1

I think the best thing for you is to just start focusing on positive things in general, regardless of any TRP stuff. You seem to have a pessimistic/woe-is-me attitude and that shit will bring you down in all aspects of life. Too many fucks are given. This results in a negative cycle that will kill your self-confidence, as well. Life is awesome, focus on the positives. Read some Stoic stuff (best introductory book is either "A Guide to the Good Life" by Robert Irvine or "The Subtle Art of Not Giv…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:06 AM
3

Yup, then she just starts complaining about other things... like having kids. Ugh
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:54 AM
3

I would recommend some serious counseling. You seem to have some major codependence / neediness issues. Nobody is worth killing yourself over. Life is too great.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:52 AM
3

Women love to talk about themselves. Ask questions to engage her, touch her, and she will be having fun. Really listen and engage her, but you don't have to talk a lot. Charisma doesn't require verbalization.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:58 PM
4

Congrats on your exclusive girlfriend.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:55 PM
11

Read her palm. Look at her nails. Comment on a ring she has. Yeah, don't just put your hand on her hand like a dog or something.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:08 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:21 AM
1

Another shit test.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:30 AM
1

Sounds like you know what your issue is (overreaction / reading too much into things). I would say start cultivating more abundance so that you give fewer fucks about any one interaction. This will reduce the odds of you overreacting to any given situation and you won't "read into" stuff as much because you won't really care. Also, if you feel emotions making a decision for you, stop and take control. Focus on having fun and doing what you want (without putposely hurting others) and the rest sho…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:24 AM
5

Username checks out. First text back looked like she was playing along. Should have taken it in a different direction - more playful.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:36 AM
47

Whatever gives you the most confidence.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:21 PM
2

It sounds like you need to develop some self confidence. Do you lift? Do you have hobbies? What makes you get up in the morning? Depending on others for your own self-worth (validation) will lead to unhappiness and a feeling of emptiness when you don't get said validation. Work on yourself and get validation internally through self-respect and confidence. Lifting and developing skills / hobbies will help you with this. Also, try not to bang women just because you can or you think you have to (es…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:04 PM
2

Sounds like external validation seeking. That will always make you feel empty. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:44 PM
3

It falls under "ignore what they say, watch what they do"
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:09 AM
3

The reason most people on here say to text for logistics only is because most noobs are super needy and it comes across in texts. Text when / how you feel like it, just don't stop other things you're doing to text a chick. In this situation, you probably want some fun ping texts every so often.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 09:15 PM
18

Probably was with some other dude. Forget about her.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:22 PM
1

Hey
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:19 PM
1

She had burritos for lunch
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:56 PM
5

Is it still Autism day?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:48 PM
3

This is some hard to follow shit. But I read it as "I got oneitis for a chick that is making me wait for sex". Solution = bang more chicks
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:37 PM
7

Date more women. Don't focus on just this one. You're compromising what you want for sex with this one girl - bad idea.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:29 PM
32

Solution = bang more women
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:01 PM
5

Plenty of girls out there who don't live with you, man. Be careful with her friends, too. They could spell drama for you (if they are good friends that hang out a lot). Females get catty, haha.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:59 PM
9

This is literally shitting where you eat (and sleep).
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:32 PM
1

Harry Dunne - Dumb and dumber.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:10 AM
7

I think you stumbled into the wrong reddit...
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:00 AM
1

Kill the ego. Also, you still give way too many fucks. Unless you plan on banging virgins your whole life, someone else has fucked the girls you want to fuck. Get over it and have fun.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:27 PM
13

Just think of what the worst that could happen is and then accept that it WILL happen. You'll be prepared for it and it usually won't happen. Takes some practice though.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:30 PM
4

This is why my first dates are short (1 drink each). That way you don't look like a broke douche, but also you're not putting out a huge provider vibe - more like a DGAF over a couple bucks vibe. Usually what happens is they say "I'll get the drinks next time" which indicates they want to see me again and they don't expect handouts. Also, frequently they offer to cook for me on the 2nd date which is a big bonus and worth 5 bucks for a drink. Don't get into your head too much.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:27 PM
4

Dating single moms is fine... it's not like you're marrying them (right??). If she is hot and not crazy, then bang.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:06 AM
1

She sounds super jealous. This will lead to lots of drama for you if you are high SMV and attract female attention. Recommend considering a new role for her that does not involve the letters L T or R.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:54 PM
1

I think OP might have caught it, too.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:51 PM
27

Quick answer = he's a "cocky" celebrity. It is usually short term until they realize he is a whiny pussy bitch.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:22 PM
1

This made me lol
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:04 PM
9

If the girl is above average SMV, she will have lots of orbiters. The point is not to care because you are confident in yourself. If she wants to leave you to be with one of those goons she added, do you want to be with her anyway? If you can't handle that, how are you going to handle your girl being hit on in person? It will be tough to have an LTR with a higher SMV girl without this happening. Be confident. DGAF. In the words of many ECs, "you are the prize".
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:00 PM
1

Yup, you lost frame. Classic DEER after she called you out - it happens. Too late to worry about it at this point. Don't bring it up with her again, as it can only make things neutral or worse (not better). Key point is to not let girly crap bother you and if you can't display that over text (when she can't see a reaction), then you probably do a much worse job in person. Try not to react verbally (whine); show indifference, as if you are so confident, you don't care if other guys hit on her. An…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 10:47 PM
14

Been there, done that. She may go along for a little bit (until she finds a new guy), but it will be full of drama. She will know when you are with other girls (because you are not with her) and she will alternate being super sweet with throwing shit at you, while also trying to get you to re-commit (exclusively) to her. The sex will be great because she is now competing and it can be hard to not re-commit to her. Also, when you don't hear from her for a couple days your mind will go haywire. I …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:07 PM
1

I used to think things are better when you are with someone you care about. Then I realized that when I think back to a show I enjoyed or a trip that was fun, I couldn't remember if I did that with my ex-wife or with my current girlfriend or someone else. That put things in perspective. If you can't remember who you were with when you had a good time, does it matter who it was?
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:52 PM
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