| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 102 | [FR] Asked out a lesbian at the gym | Peachesandteacup | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 12:54 AM |
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| 1 | Why would women not appear on first dates instead of simply telling they are not interested?Ive had a couple of girls ghost me for a few days after texting and then randomly start talking again and want to set up a date. Sometimes they just have personal issues theyre dealing with Atm. But i will say that if a girl does this then 90% of the time she's not worth bothering with. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Getting fit changed everything.Bro, the most ive weighed was 270 @ 6'1 and since then Ive lost 70 pounds. Its the best feeling in the world and im no longer self conscious about my body and i do get attention from many girls. Im now working on developing my abs and getting that beach body and the girls will come in droves. Awesome job | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 01:36 PM |
| 3 | I'm losing weight, but it's going to be awhile. Any tips for feeling like a badass and upping my self esteem while I'm still fat?Bro once your body looks good you'll get so much more attention and it only grows over time. While you're improving your body try also reading and improving your mind and skills. Awesome btw working out makes you feel so much better | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How to be desirable (have multiple girls pursuing you)?You need to be independent and live your own live. Do exciting things and dont care about anyones opinions. Confidence also in yourself | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 01:21 AM |
| 3 | asking girls on a date right away?you're gonna have to choose your battles, i cant give advice for every situation. If you feel like its a good time to talk to a girl then do it and if its not then dont think too much about it | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How to put yourself out there/ask somebody out and not shit your pants?This might not be good advice, but It doesnt actually matter in the long run what you do or say. You might be vulnerable and say stupid shit when you talk to the girl, but chances are you will never see them again. All of these ideas are in your head and have no basis in reality. You can go and talk to ten girls every day and most likely you will get some good response. | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 03:44 AM |
| 11 | asking girls on a date right away?Its only creepy if you think its creepy. I can get away with making observational comments about what the girl is doing/wearing ( is she reading a book, is she wearing nice clothes) talk to her. I can say "that book looks interesting, what is it about?" "That dress looks good on you, where did you get it" even if the girl is talking near me i can make a comment about what she say and see how she responds then continue. Its not weird, it just takes practice | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 01:24 AM |
| 28 | asking girls on a date right away?You should at least make some casual conversation first and just gauge her interest. Telling her you want to take her on a date is not a bad idea but you should establish some kind of connection imo | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Picking up girls at the gymJust try to be regular and make yourself noticed. If you make eye contact be sure to smile. If you make small talk about gym equipment ex( hey can i borrow this weight) eventually you can just have casual conversations. I got a few girls numbers this way | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:09 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Asked out a lesbian at the gymYea you're probably right. I try to make many friends at the gym and i see her all the time, so im not ignoring her. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 01:19 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Asked out a lesbian at the gymIll keep that in mind haha | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Went out to start daygame for the first time. Hardly any girls by themselves. Where should I be day gaming?If you play pokemon go you can always go to a populated area and start a conversation with any random girl who is too. You can usually find young women at coffee shops too, panera starbuck etc. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What is Your Primary Fear?I fear feeling alone. I crave social interactions even with friends family any random strangers. Rejection doesnt bother me, nor does approaching women, but ill spend most of my time focused on social aspects of life, doing things with friends or finding new people to talk to. Edit: If i dont then ill get needlessly depressed | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I try to be non-needy and I think I'm succeeding at doing so, but the perception people have of me worries me that I'm not doing it for me. Do you think this is a problem others face? Details and my thought process provided.Im working on this problem too. Im getting good at developing a "i dont give a shit" attitude. It also help to think that people are more worried about themselves than they are about you | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Overthinking causing anxiety and bad decisionsTry to get into a sexual conversation with her and see how she responds, If she responds well then try to escalate by touching and looking into her eyes. Show your interest and dont chicken out. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I've put white women on a pedestal and it's absolutely ruining my dating life.This post is stupid as hell, grow a pair and talk to women you are attracted to, it doesn't matter what race they are. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Set up a tinder date, now we barely chat after setting the date up? Is that normal? It's on wednessdayPre date texting is not recommended imo. She already decided to go on the date, you just dont want to seem needy. Usually the day of the date Ill text "We still on for today/tonight?" like the other guys said | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Are indirect approaches okay to start off with?I would give the example of swimming in cold water. Do you want to dip your toes in the water or jump straight in and feel the cold embrace. If you muster up your willpower and approach so many girls like a man, you will end up being completely comfortable with it very fast. If you are hesitant it will take longer for you to be comfortable with that | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 03:22 AM |
| 1 | FEAR: the only thing stopping me from doing everythinggood luck :) | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 02:23 AM |
| 1 | FEAR: the only thing stopping me from doing everythingPractice and experience eliminates fear. This can be with a woman, job, public speaking anything really. If you fear rejection then go out and speak to as many people as possible. Do what you fear and you will conquer it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How to go on after short conversations in the gymIm a little confused, is this highschool gym or regular gym? Anyway, I have had a little success trying to find something in common with the girls i talk to. If i see her doing a difficult type of exercise ill say "that looks really hard, im not sure i could do that". Or you could ask them questions on different uses of equipment or correct form/posture. Ive gotten a few good numbers by just having small talk and then saying "By the way, you're too cute not to say hi to" I managed to get a reall… | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 11:04 PM |
| 4 | I can only think of questions when in conversationThis might sound cliche but listening helps a lot and going off of what she says with your own opinion. You don't have to agree with her but give your own thoughts that compliment what she just said. For example if the girl says what she likes doing for fun, type of music she listens to, what she studies in school, what her job is you can say "Ive never heard of that band before, you'll have to show me one of their songs" or "that's so boring, I could never do that job" Then if she responds well… | /r/seduction | 01/08/16 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Disappointing 'date'competence creates confidence. Try to find the mistakes from this date and improve upon them. Also try to learn what the girl might like to do or what you have in common with her and make a friendly and fun environment. Dont forget to smile and show interest in what the girl says instead of just trying to touch her... IDK just my thoughts from what i've read. Good luck | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 11:18 PM |
| 5 | How to make a conversation sexual??If she says something that could be considered sexual turn it against her. For example i was with a girl and she casually pointed out a small guy walking by(height). I told her "thats not something you should tell a guy in bed" of course i was being sarcastic and she was laughing and then got curious and started asking me how big i was wink. I asked her if she wanted to find out and eventually we got into a really sexual conversation. You just have to think on your feet and don't try to consider… | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 11:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the most important thing you've learned about game?I agree, also don't be afraid to call girls out on their bullshit, it shows confidence | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 03:38 PM |
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