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Dude just go out by yourself....I live in Chicago. It's literally summer right now. There's fuck tons of girls all over every single weekend. Unlimited amounts of options and places to go both day and night. You don't need reddit strangers to hold your hand like a baby while you go talk to girls. You're going to have to approach them on your own regardless. It's not like both of you are going to go up to a single girl at the same time like butt buddies. You'll also learn way faster and you'll gr…
/r/seduction22/08/24 07:28 PM
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Yea the chances of someone meeting a woman going about her day who's going to just allow some total stranger to come back to her house to fuck her after minimal conversation when you don't even live there is absurdly rare. You're generally going to have at least take her on a date first. And it's going to be hard to get a woman to meet up on a date when you're only there for 3 days. Especially if you're there on a weekend where she likely already has plans for the next couple of days. If you're …
/r/seduction07/08/24 08:15 PM
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Just take her on an actual date...holy shit. While your sitting around messaging her all day long and playing these dumb phone games like a child she's out fucking other dudes and going on dates with guys that are willing to take her out. You don't need to facetime her just meet in person.
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:53 PM
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I personally prefer phone numbers but I'm also probably older than you and also don't really have an optimized instagram. If you have a good profile then instagram can be fine but if your photos kind of suck and don't really show you with a cool lifestyle there isn't much of a benefit to it. I like what SnooHesitations said below. You need to make it clear that your goal is to go out with her soon and set up a date soon. Not just follow her on socials. And then you should be trying to set that u…
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:08 PM
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Yea it's crazy as fuck here during the summer.....there's shit tons of people out and so much shit going on every single day of the week. Just unlimited options. It's honestly overwhelming at times.
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:51 PM
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I live in Chicago....which definitely makes a huge difference. It's the 3rd largest city in the US. During the summer it's ridiculous here and probably easily one of the top 3-5 cities in the country to meet women. There's like thousands of bars, festivals/concerts/events every weekend, best restaurants in the country, a massive beach, sporting events, huge downtown area, it's extremely walkable. The dating apps are also a goldmine because there's like 4 million women in a 30-40 mile radius. Obv…
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:55 PM
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I'm in my mid 30's and nightgame has been significantly easier, especially living in a massive city. I have way more confidence, way better game, way more experience than in my 20's. There's also this crazy dynamic that happens when you enter your mid 30's where pretty much all younger women love older guys and tons of older women love younger guys so there's just a ridiculous pool of options compared to my early to mid 20's when women above the age of 25 basically want nothing to do with younge…
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:50 PM
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Definitely helps on dating apps...pictures with puppies are a goldmine
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:22 PM
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This server should be like 25 plus honestly because 98% of the posts from anyone younger are retarded and have nothing to do with seduction. It's just posts like this one.
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:21 PM
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Bro this is a random girl you met at a party and briefly talked to. You then waited weeks to message her after getting her socials and then you said you guys barely chatted before you decided to unfollow her. You're a complete stranger to her that showed zero interest. She's most likely not even thinking about you at all or cares about you at all. She's probably talking to 50 other dudes that are actually giving her attention. She's not sitting there caring about whether or not you unfollowed he…
/r/seduction25/07/24 12:03 AM
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But that's my point...if you actually liked and were attracted to this girl at the party then why did you wait weeks to even hit her up. And then not really talk to her at all. And then remove her from social media. Like what did you expect to happen? What was your goal? I just don't understand what you're doing. This whole thing is completely on you. You showed zero interest whatsoever, ghosted her and now you're wondering why she's not interested anymore.... I'm just not even sure the point of…
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:57 PM
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I literally get brain damage from reading all of the posts in this subreddit from young children who constantly just message girls on 18 different social media platforms all day long and try to decipher meaning from their interactions and overanalyze every single post, message, like, dm, snap, follow/unfollow, etc. Just fucking ask these girls on actual dates and you'll know right then and there if she's actually into you or not. Jesus Christ
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:42 PM
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Well first off, stop spending weeks talking to random women online that aren't even in your city. Go meet women that you can actually take out. Because that's the problem. When all you do is message all day you just kill all of the attraction, women get bored and don't care anymore. She's probably out dating tons of other guys in person in her city. She doesn't care that much about some stranger she's never met that lives super far away.
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:47 PM
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Stop texting her and take her on a fucking date....dating apps are not meant for messaging and becoming pen pals. Women hate this. They want to go out on dates. The point of dating apps is to arrange dates. You send a couple messages back and forth, if you guys are getting along then you take her out and see if you vibe in person. Anything more than a few days to a week is way too long to talk to girls online. They just get bored, you can't build attraction and then they just go meet hundreds of…
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:41 PM
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She literally told you she didn't like you as anything more than friends so you decided to essentially kidnap her, drive her to an abandoned parking lot and force the answer out of her. And when she as beating around the bush and not answering yes or no you decided to force yourself onto her and try to kiss her. And you think this is a normal way to behave. You should feel lucky this girl actually seems to like you and also that you're leaving you job soon or the outcome of this could have been …
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:53 PM
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It's ok to have a couple photos where you look serious but girls100% want to see you smiling in some of your photos. It's actually one of the biggest complaints from women on dating apps is that men aren't smiling or look like they aren't having fun at all. Smiling is literally a universal sign that makes others comfortable and makes people look way more attractive especially when it's geniune Women just want to have fun and good vibes.
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:54 PM
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He's wishing you luck but you're essentially throwing a hail mary with this girl. But who knows anything is possible. But generally speaking, a "sick" excuse combined with "I'll let you know" means I don't like you that much and don't want to hang out with you
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:45 PM
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Headshots aren't even the best photos to use on the apps...you only need one max if you have a really attractive face. Girls care more about photos of you smiling and having a good time, photos with animals, photos in cool places, photos with friends that show you have an active social life, photos playing musical instruments, photos showing you being active and playing sports, full body photos (especially if you have a good physique), photos showing that you're well dressed, etc. I literally sw…
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:36 PM
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There are many good apps as long as you're willing to put in effort taking good photos, creating prompts, work on your message game and pay for the premium versions so you have unlimited swipes and so the algorithms give you advantages. And if you use many apps at once and figure out which one works for you Being good on the dating apps is a skill you have to learn. It can take some time. But 95% of men are unwilling to put in any effort whatsoever nowadays. They just ONLY download Tinder, pick …
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:22 PM
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Seems very low interest
/r/seduction10/07/24 10:58 PM
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This isn't rocket science...she literally texted you saying she had a good time immediately after the date and wants to hang out again. That means she's interested. You then asked when she's free and she gave you a day. So just plan a date for that day. Don't play weird games, don't send vague cliffhanger messages, stop using weird emojis you're a man not a child. So let's say she said she's free on Thursday...just say "Thursday is good for me. I know the best spot for X and I'd love to take you…
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:49 PM
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A huge factor is what city you live in...dating apps are a goldmine in large metropolitan areas. There is literally an unlimited pool of people. I live in Chicago and don't know a single person that doesn't have success on the apps regardless of height, age, job, race, looks etc. Many people I know have met their wives, girlfriends, fuck buddies, etc on them. Another huge factor is guys unwillingness to pay for the apps. You get so many more swipes and advantages and the apps literally have algo…
/r/seduction10/07/24 04:25 PM
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First, start removing words like "Rizzgods" from your vocabulary...you sound like a 12 year old child
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:52 PM
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Can guarantee there's numerous issues with your photos if you were to share your profile
/r/seduction28/06/24 04:10 PM
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Yea especially if she's super hot and immediately interested in anything you say...he even said she was laughing at his cheesy lines. Trust me I've been to Vegas a million times...it's not because he had awesome game
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:51 PM
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Have you ever been to vegas and have you ever gotten a hooker before or have you ever gotten a hooker in vegas?
/r/seduction27/06/24 08:51 PM
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I've just spent shit tons of time in Vegas on some of the craziest trips possible
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:34 PM
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Oh yea I'm sure the hot girl sitting alone at a bar by herself in Vegas, who's immediately flirting with you laughing at all of your cheesy lines, then pays for herself and immediately wants to go to your room to do drugs is definitely not a hooker. There's no way lol. You clearly haven't been to Vegas too many times
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:52 PM
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It's Vegas....she could have easily been an escort too
/r/seduction27/06/24 05:51 PM
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You also need to give them a reason for why you're approaching someone. Just throwing out random compliments isn't enough. It's just a nice thing to say, they say thanks and go about their day. You also need to tell them that you wanted to meet them/talk to them.
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:21 PM
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The way you do long distance is by not doing long distance. You need to be meeting other women because she's going to be meeting tons of guys too. Don't put too much effort into this girl and all of your eggs in one basket. Waiting 6 months to see her again is ridiculous and it's really hard to maintain attraction until then. The fact that you're already thinking about marrying a girl that you've met for a few days on vacation is insane. Have you even had sex with her yet? You know nothing about…
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:08 PM
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The whole playing hard to get and playing games is an outdated concept that doesn't really exist anymore. Because dating apps now exist and women have tons of options and can meet new guys really easily whenever they want. It worked more back before like 2015 before social media and dating apps when people primarily met through going out to bars, social circle, coworkers, activities etc. Like if you go on a date and have a good time and she's into you, then you need to be contacting her ASAP. Yo…
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:00 PM
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Men tend to read signals the wrong way and fuck things up in most cases like this...it sounds like you're very inexperienced and unsure how to read attraction so I'd be careful
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:56 PM
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99.99% of guys aren't Brad Pitt though and don't have yachts. And not everyone has an instagram and many that do, don't have super great instagrams. And when you're meeting people online you don't always exchange instagrams right away so the women can't even see your stories. Most people in this sub and in general are just normal, decently attractive dudes with a solid career. And I know that becoming more attractive and building social media presence is a separate issue and everyone should be w…
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:53 PM
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Movie dates aren't bad dates, they're just bad first dates, especially with dating apps. You're literally complete strangers. You need to talk to women first and see if you vibe, flirt a little, escalate, warm her up. And you just can't do that in a movie. Movies are very awkward. You can't just start randomly touching her and making out with her without building somewhat of a connection. And you also have no idea how many people will show up or how boring the movie will be. Yea it is a very tee…
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:40 PM
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This applies mostly to online but once you've started vibing with a girl it's better to ask her "what's your schedule like this week" or "any fun plans this weekend?" instead of proposing a specific date and time right away. People are super busy (especially during the summer) when you live in a big city and most people have tons of different plans each weekend (other dates with guys, weddings, concerts, bday parties, dinners, hanging out with family, etc). So when you propose a very specific ti…
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:36 PM
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How long have you been friends with this girl for? Has she ever shown any interest in you other than being friends? Any IOI's? Any sexual tension between you two? Have you flirted with her in the past or expressed desire for her and it just didn't work out? Have you guys hung out on your own before or just mostly with other friends? Have you guys dated other people in your friend group? How did this hangout come about and how was it phrased? Or have you just been completely platonic with this pe…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:27 PM
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Never open with that
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:28 PM
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Dating apps you have to move fast as shit nowadays
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:23 PM
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I mean generally yes, that's how it works at bars in 99% of cases
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:23 PM
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Are you talking about dating apps or in person interactions?
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:15 PM
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What's an example of things you're saying?
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:12 PM
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That's not true at all even on the apps....yea you definitely need a baseline level of attractiveness and need to have certain physical characteristics that make you someone's type. for them to go out with you But I've literally gotten girls on dates recently because they said that I was way more fun and had way better banter than anyone else they were talking to. Lots of guys have looks but a lot of those guys also don't have other qualities women are attracted to as much if not more.
/r/seduction19/06/24 12:00 AM
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Dating apps like Hinge are always a great option when you have niche preferences...because you can literally set your filters to women over a certain age and also women with kids so you can just be shown a nonstop feed of older women with kids. and nothing else. It's really hard to meet women like this naturally at normal daygame and nightgame spots since older women and women with kids tend to not go out as much since they're so busy.
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:08 PM
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Bro you live in fucking London...there's unlimited women in your city. Traveling that far away to meet a random girl online is insane. And she seems to agree. Because it is insane. If you had more options you wouldn't even think twice
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:05 PM
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You need serious help
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:51 PM
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Do you live under a rock in the desert....just go to places where people go to hang out. It's not hard in the summer. Bars, parks, beaches, concerts, festivals, farmers market, sporting events, museums, malls What are you talking about?
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:49 PM
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How what?
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:20 PM
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Bro it's literally the beginning of summer....get the fuck out of your house and go meet people. While also working out during the week and getting in shape. Once you start to see even some small gains in the gym that will give you way more confidence in yourself which will in turn help your game with women. You don't need to be in ridiculous shape to start talking to girls.
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:17 PM
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Yea bangs the occasional average slut who's also banging tons of other dudes while ruining his chances with shits tons of other higher quality women.
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:49 PM
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I agree. These kids don't fucking understand nowadays. They get their info from Tik Tok. Especially when it comes to actually dating high quality, good looking women with options in large cities. I actually fucked this up the other day on the apps...idk what I was thinking. I'm in my mid 30's, 6'4", white, work in finance/accounting, in shape, etc. and was hitting it off with this super hot, smart, black, 26 year old girl with a great job in tech. We talked enough where she was showing tons of i…
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:27 PM
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Asking to split on a first date with high quality, good looking women isn't going to work well most of the time when they can literally go out with tons of guys more attractive, richer, taller, better than you who aren't splitting the bill
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:58 PM
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I'm telling you man, as you get older and if you live in bigger cities and start to meet the highest quality women possible you will begin to understand. There's so much competition and these women have so many options nowadays and they can take care of themselves. Yes, there are chads taking women on dinner dates before sex. Women can go get ice cream on their own or go to a bar with their friends and have a guy buy them a free drink. They don't need to waste an hour on a date with some Tinder …
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:48 PM
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This is true in some sense and there are women that want to get a free meal and leave. But it's not always the case. If you live in a larger city and as you're getting older things begin to change a little. When you're dealing with very attractive, very high quality women with good jobs and great lives, you need to begin to put forth more effort on first dates. Especially when you're looking for more than just hookups and when the women are truly looking to find a long term partner. Women have t…
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:42 PM
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You did escalate....you just had to go for the kiss. It's not that hard when she's literally already dancing with you and your faces are like 3 inches from each other
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:10 PM
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Good luck with OP, the 60 year old 350lb dude....you can't really be that dumb, gullible and desperate can you?
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:05 PM
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I'm just confused as to how it's possible that you literally had her in your bedroom, tipsy off wine, dancing with you in a sexual manner but didn't go for the kiss
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:03 PM
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You don't have to directly ask her out in the first 5 minutes of meeting her. But you can still go say hello to her and get to know her a little bit first instead of weirdly staring at her from across the gym and then finding her instagram and messaging her online.
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:02 PM
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I'm 35 so I'm at this weird age where I can match with women on dating apps anywhere from ages 25-45 and even possibly go higher or lower. My biggest issue is that I live in one of the biggest cities in the US, I'm white, I'm 6'4 and I'm in my 30's. So there is just a ridiculous range of people I can meet from every age, race, height, political preference, job levels, women looking for marriage, women looking for fun, women with kids, etc. It's just hard to figure out what I truly want since the…
/r/seduction10/06/24 09:35 PM
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30 is basically the start of when men enter their dating prime nowadays especially with lifespans getting longer and longer and with so many men in their 20's nowadays living at home, figuring out life, still very early in their careers and not making tons of money, lacking social skills, scared shitless to approach women in public etc. 30-35 is basically the new 25 as long as you're constantly improving yourself, staying in shape, growing in your career and making money, improving your looks, s…
/r/seduction10/06/24 09:30 PM
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I'm in Chicago and Hinge/Bumble are significantly better than Match.com. Match mainly has women looking for serious long term relationships and like 95% of the women look like mountain trolls. The only reason it may attract super older women (age 45+) is because it was the first online dating site so people have been familiar with it since the 90's-2000's. But nowadays there are way better sites and most women below the age of 45 don't use it too much.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:47 PM
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With hinge you need the paid version too for it to work better. They only give you like 8 free likes a day so you just don't have enough volume the free version for it to work well since it's all just a numbers game. The paid version also allows you to filter out tons of different things to only be shown what you're looking for which makes it easier.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:08 PM
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What is your actual age and age you're looking for? People use the term mature older women here a lot and for some that means late 20's to early 30's and for some that means late 30's to 40's and even 50's
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:04 PM
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Hinge is probably the best for older women in the US right now. Hinge also has a unique feature over Bumble and Tinder in that you can message any person on the app before you even match with them and they can see the messages. I'm not sure how young you are or what you consider to be older and mature, but women in general do not want younger guys and so many of them won't even set their age filters that low on most apps so you won't even have a chance to match with them on Tinder and Bumble. Hi…
/r/seduction10/06/24 07:57 PM
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Idk man you basically have zero chance with this girl....you've developed zero rapport and haven't flirted with her at all or talked to her at all. I get it you think she's cute but you're just one of hundreds of customers to her that she sees on a daily basis. You've literally done nothing. You're essentially a complete and total stranger. I would try to go there when it's less busy and you can actually chat for a second then ask her. Or find a way to give her your number and let her decide. Ei…
/r/seduction07/06/24 08:14 PM
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This is idiotic advice...this dude has had nothing but 2 second interactions with this girl where he's just said hi, ordered a coffee and made zero moves whatsoever. Completely avoiding her for a few weeks then randomly coming back to ask her out isn't going to make her like him more. She's just going to completely forget about him and/or move onto other guys that are actually willing to ask her out.
/r/seduction07/06/24 08:04 PM
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This is great
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:19 PM
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You may not be American but you definitely are retarded
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:44 PM
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Nobody likes looking at random dudes dicks.....men or women lol Especially tiny Asian dicks
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:40 PM
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30-32 is literally when you're just entering your prime for dating. It's the beginning. The problem is so many dudes are married or in long term relationships at this point and aren't able to realize the possible potential. Like I'm 35 and it's just ridiculous because all of the younger girls want older guys and all of the older girls want younger guys. So you literally have like a 20 year age span you can date (25-45). And you can even go higher or lower if you want. One of my biggest issues is…
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:27 PM
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Yea I agree with all of that for sure. I forgot if he mentioned why they couldn't just go out this weekend.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:41 AM
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See he edited his post and deleted a lot of stuff....he originally mentioned that he already had a great first date with this girl, they made out and she seemed really into him. And then they tried to meet last weekend but she couldn't and now this is her trying to reschedule and set up another date for next week. So there's clear interest here. But everything your saying is correct in a sense. But that context definitely matters for everyone here saying NO don't set up a date that early.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:27 AM
1

The friendzone is not a myth at all. Just because you happened to turn a friendship with certain specific girls a couple times before does not mean it doesn't matter and exist. It's 100% a real thing. Those girls were likely just already physically attracted to you when you became friends or you were just more casual friends. Every girl is different and every situation is different.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:17 PM
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Women love attention. They crave it. They feed off of it. They are professional flirters. Many just do it for fun with no intention of ever cheating. Wow she liked your stories and you guys had a couple fun friendly conversations at a gym. That doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:09 PM
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The more you wait asking her out and just talking to her nonstop the more you just go into the friendzone. Just ask her out and see what she says. It's pretty fucking simple. You're guessing she might have had a boyfriend 4 months ago. She could easily be done with him at this point. Every second you wait you're digging yourself into a bigger hole with her and you're also wasting your own time. You don't even know if she's into you at all. She could just be a nice friendly girl that loves attent…
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:07 PM
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Yea if you're able to hang out with her early next week like Mon-Wed it's completely fine to schedule it now. If you aren't available until next weekend I'd just tell her "Weekdays are super busy for me next week but I will most likely have availability on the weekend. I'll text you this weekend/early next week to set something up" But honestly even if you want to set something up today for a date next fri/sat that's fine as well. You're kind of overthinking this. She's into you, you had a good …
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:42 PM
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Yes, you can easily just block a number with the click of a button
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:25 PM
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This is super confusing to understand...so basically she asked you today (which is Thursday) if you're free next week? And you are free next weekend?
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:03 PM
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Women say a lot of shit on their profiles but they don't actually mean it. 99% of women won't care that much if you have different hobbies or if you disagree on certain things here or there if they are truly attracted to you. Especially trivial things like music taste. Everybody is different. You're overthinking that way too much. I've never in my life met or heard of a woman be like "this guy is so attractive and meets so many different criteria I'm looking for but he likes rap music and I only…
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:49 PM
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Race definitely does matter in certain countries....acting like everyone is on the same level playing field no matter where you go in the world is ridiculous
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:02 PM
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You say in class....how old are you? High school?
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:58 PM
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Yea I also just live in Chicago so the dating apps are amazing here since there's so many people in such a dense radius. Every single guy I know does well on them regardless of race, height, income, etc. and many have met wives and girlfriends on the apps. It's honestly really easy and there are lots of quality options. And as I've gotten into my early 30's everything has gotten way easier as well since there's this crazy dynamic where most of the young girls ages 25-33 want older guys and a lot…
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:43 PM
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Learning cold approach is a great skill to have and a worthwhile one to learn, but to say "it's the only way for you" is ridiculous. Literally every single male I've known in my entire life has met women, had awesome girlfriends, got married, etc and 95% of them have basically hardly ever done cold approach. There are a million different ways to meet women whether it's dating apps, social circle, coworkers, people with similar hobbies, being set up by friends, meeting people at parties, etc. But…
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:16 PM
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I know plenty of guys that aren't chads that kill it on the dating apps. You just have to put forth effort, know exactly what you're looking for and build a profile that shows that, use multiple apps to figure out which one works best for you, and be willing to pay for premium versions because they give you an advantage when you pay. And it also is very helpful if you live in a larger metropolitan area with tons of women. But most people don't do those things.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:10 PM
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Yea to elaborate off my top post too it's also way harder to talk, way harder to physically escalate, you have to wear clothes that are comfortable and don't make you look as physically attractive as possible (for both the guy and the girl), you get really sweaty and feel gross which makes the woman more uncomfortable. If the woman isn't a hiker/not super athletic you also have to be really cautious of safety and getting hurt. It's not a romantic environment at all. You don't build attraction an…
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:28 PM
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Hike dates are one of the worst first date/early dates possible for a variety of reasons. I would consider doing something else. Even if you love hiking it's still really bad If I had to rank the top 4, least romantic first date ideas it would be in no particular order: Hikes Lunch Movies Concerts
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:12 PM
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Robert downy jr and david duchovny are very attractive men who are also normally in very good shape though....they both have had six packs at various points of their careers. Neither is overweight whatsoever
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:10 PM
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Right but we live in a world now where like 60% of men are pudgy dad bods so it does help you stand out a lot
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:01 PM
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You are being rejected though...there are shit tons of girls on the apps that are swiping left on you on daily basis. You just don't see them. The apps are designed to only show matches so you get a dopamine rush. That's why cold approach is important because you get to feel rejection and it makes you a much stronger man
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:43 PM
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You're not lying about anything. Just say, well it was nice to meet you and i'll see you around or I'm going to go to the bathroom or I'm going to go get another drink or I'm going to go check out another part of the bar or I'm going to go dance or I'm going to go outside and get some fresh air. It doesn't matter if you have friends there or not. Not sure what you're talking about here either. There are unlimited ways to exit a conversation with someone in a public place other than saying "i'm g…
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:50 PM
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For real you can say literally anything....not really sure the point of this post.
/r/seduction31/05/24 05:57 PM
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WTF has this subreddit become....no wonder the mods hate everyone so much
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:58 PM
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You're fine...stop overthinking
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:10 PM
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Yes no shit some guys get laid more than others that's not the discussion here.
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:33 PM
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Every guy gets way too hung up on things like "what do I say to start a conversation?", "what's the best opener on the dating apps". This shit doesn't matter at all. Women aren't judging you on the words coming out of your mouth. They are judging you on your physical attractiveness and if you're their type, your confidence, body language, vocal tonality, how anxious you seem, whatever their current mood is, etc. So just say whatever you want that makes sense to you and that you can deliver confi…
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:23 PM
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Guys that bring a lot of girls home too are also just usually banging some of the lowest quality whores possible. Trust me I've hooked up with tons of drunk sluts. It gets boring and tiresome after a while and you know you're just one of 50 other dudes that she's done the same thing to. High quality women with tons of options aren't just going out, getting blacked out and banging random dudes every night they go out. I have tons of female friends that basically never have one night stands becaus…
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:18 PM
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WAAAAAAY to early to discuss exclusivity especially if you haven't even had sex. Also 3 dates is absolutely nothing. How do you even know enough about this guy yet to even want to be exclusive. You sound desperate
/r/seduction24/05/24 04:03 PM
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It also just saves you time as well.....like if you've talked for a day or 2 and things are going well and she says no to the date then it likely means she's just not that interested, not serious about dating, or just fucking around on the apps and getting attention from dudes. And then you can move on to other girls and not waste time. And women on dating apps have so many options that they're forced to be picky and swipe left on like 95% of dudes. And they don't even have time to message with …
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:38 PM
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Well for girls on dating apps you need to be getting the date set up as soon as possible. You're a complete stranger until you actually meet and girls are talking to like 50 other dudes at the same time. Girls want to be taken on dates not just message 50 random dudes all day long about nothing. It's boring and tiresome. Like if the conversation is going great like you said and you've built some rapport you can just ask them on the date. You don't need to message them for a week it's just wastin…
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:27 PM
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Are these people that you've actually met in person or just all online or dating apps?
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:24 PM
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You'll get better advice in a dating advice forum and not this one... this forum is for autistic 25 year old and under children that can't get laid and are scared shitless to leave their houses and talk to people in the real world. This is not a forum for women seeking relationship advice.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:23 PM
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You clearly have zero experience with hookers based on your posts....trust me you don't have "sauce"
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:21 PM
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I swear this subreddit no longer has anything to do with seduction....it's just children with autism telling the world stories from their lives (either made up or not made up who actually knows)
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:02 PM
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Only reddit incels think height matters that much....people that actually leave their houses and aren't scared to go into the real word understand it's different
/r/seduction23/05/24 08:31 PM
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Yea no shit they are bad places to make conversations. People go to clubs to drink and dance and have fun not to have long conversations with people. But this doesn't make them a bad place to meet women. It's just a different type of game. Also people here always lump nightgame into only going to clubs for some idiotic reason. When there are millions of types of bars and nightlife spots that aren't clubs where it is way easier to talk to people. It's pretty simple...if you don't like dancing, dj…
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:41 PM
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If you want to practice just go to a fucking bar like a normal human
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:17 PM
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Put some miracle gro in your shoes
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:54 PM
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This is the problem with going for the instagram...most girls are just giving it to you because they aren't interested and just want more followers. But when you ask a girl for her number and she gives it to you then you know she's way more interested. And if she says "no, but you can have my insta" you basically know she doesn't like you that much and just wants online attention instead of an actual real life interaction.
/r/seduction22/05/24 09:36 PM
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Nobody in human history has ever said "You know what this party/bar is missing? Way more random drunk dudes." Especially given the fact that nowadays about 95% of men below the age of 25 are extremely socially awkward, weird dudes with zero game whatsoever.
/r/seduction22/05/24 09:28 PM
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Bro you're 6'3.....I don't know where you live, but if you live in a large city,put forth a decent effort towards improving your profile, use more than just Tinder and are willing to shell out $20 a month for premium versions of the apps they are a goldmine. I live in Chicago and there is just an unlimited flow of women on the apps. Literally every single guy I know has had success regardless of height, race, age etc. Most people just have shit profiles, live in bumblefuck Alabama, only use Tind…
/r/seduction22/05/24 07:23 PM
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Can literally guarantee either your pics aren't as great as you think and you have weird things in your dating app profiles that are turning off women. There's a huge difference between being good looking and having good dating app pics. You probably are giving away too much as well. Women on dating apps are actively looking for reasons to swipe left so the more random shit you say the more likely they are to find something that makes them unattracted
/r/seduction22/05/24 04:02 PM
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I would do the exact opposite of whatever this guy is doing...his results are abysmal
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:54 PM
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Seems to be a you problem
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:46 PM
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You can get significantly better results just going to bars at night (and you're also having way more fun doing it) or even just improving your dating app profile. This post is fucking insane. Spending 2 years and approaching over 1,000 girls just to get 2 lays. JESUS FUCKING CHRIST. This is a great post for why nobody should even be wasting time doing daygame spam approaches. It's ridiculous. Just fly to fucking vegas....meet a drunk girl at the club one night and pay for a hooker the next nigh…
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:20 PM
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