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Nah if a man really likes you he makes sure there is no doubt about that
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 03:05 PM
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I don’t think he likes you tbh so I don’t know if a second date would be worth your time
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 02:47 PM
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He is a redflag
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/25 11:59 PM
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How did he even become your boyfriend? Did he at least took you on dates during the dating phase or nothing at all?
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 09:46 AM
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Men scare me and marriage even more
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 07:55 AM
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Ask yourself why you want it? Because for women it’s often a risk, not only pregnancy but other diseases as well. It’s also mentally not the best especially if the guy you give it away to (sorry to phrase it that way) is not the one- in my opinion. It’s short term pleasure and it doesn’t give you anything else. In my opinion it would be better to wait until marriage but I know everyone has different views around it
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 07:00 PM
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Perhaps it’s your pictures? Get them checked first. While talking try to avoid talking about postgrad and work as much as you can 😅
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 06:45 AM
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He is 4 years older than you, of course he is supposed to be doing better! If not I would be worried about it. So nothing for you to worry about, you are still at the start of your career
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 03:10 PM
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If he doesn’t text you “did you safely arrived home?” Then you don’t want this guy anyways. It’s just manners.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 09:49 AM
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Why do you want to fake it? Just listen more and say less instead. Besides that, your #1 issue to solve is money. Don’t think of getting a car if you don’t have money. Even making friends right now when you don’t even have money to go out together, isn’t very wise. Same with getting into a relationship when you aren’t stable yet. Focus on doing better. What job do you have now? Cause normally that would be already taking up a big chunk of your daily life. How can you maximise your income? Change…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 11:40 AM
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Your age now is a good time to start dating because if you were younger you also run the risk to waste your time with someone immature or who doesn’t have the same values as you. You are still figuring out yourself. The older you get obviously the smaller your dating pool becomes cause most get into relationships. And obviously the older you get, treatments are different. But also expectations change. For example, if you are young and a guy has a driving license and a car and picks you up, you m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 11:16 AM
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I feel this is more than normal.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 10:14 AM
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Girl he is not worth it and he ended it already. Take some time to focus on yourself and figure out what you want and need
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 08:45 PM
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Stop initiating dates. If he wanted to he would
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 06:41 PM
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It’s a nice gesture of him! Of course you should be able to be independent eg if worst case you break up you are FINE but this is just a very kind and sweet gesture of him which you are allowed to take and you can show a kind and sweet gesture in another way to give back eg cook him a meal or get tickets to some events depending on your situation
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 08:24 PM
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Well at least he got you a MacBook and is paying for all your dates. Some men cannot even do that. So I would just take it slow and see how it goes and if he continues these gestures
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 12:19 PM
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Your ex is 4 years older than the other guy so I understand why he is less certain about his future which is alright. Only the remark about not having told his family about you and also that he has some problems with them makes me wonder what this is about. It depends on you how much you value your partners family. Regarding your ex, I personally find it strange his sister contacted you instead of your ex? Let’s see what they have to say I guess? Also I assume there is a reason why you two broke…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 03:17 PM
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Don’t think you can change a stingy man. If he is generous with you then I would say it’s still alright. If he is not, then it will be a very depressing life together.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 11:22 AM
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I’m sorry but if he doesn’t make it official and ask you to be his girlfriend then it doesn’t seem like he likes you enough and is just stringing you along until someone better comes along. His reaction to what you said also confirms it. You really need to have the talk otherwise you are just wasting your time with this person during which you may already have met your real soulmate
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/23 08:49 PM
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LDR only start it after you have met each other in real life. You don’t know if in person you have the same chemistry. My back then LDR bf we only made it official after we met up and he travelled to my city after few months of talking online. So he needs to put effort and initiate to meet up and travel to you, and you of course can pick him up in public and eg drive him to his hotel and make sure he feels welcome/safe etc, and this way he can take you then out on some dates so you can see if th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 10:09 PM
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Always meet up in public at a safe place eg restaurant or cafe. Don’t go into car during first meeting. Absolutely do not go to his place or let him know where you live. Just say you live in X city or closeby X city if it’s a small town or village. He should either go towards your city or find a middle location for you two to meet. Let others know where you are. If sharing location helps this can even be an option. Know more about him before meeting eg socials help like LinkedIn to see if he is …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 05:00 PM
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First of all, agree with the others: let this be a separate manner eg virginity and the trip. Only proceed if you are ready for it and don’t let yourself be rushed by any men. Then regarding the trip, it is a turn off for me when he would come up with the trip and ask to split 50-50. I can go with a friend instead if I plan to split 50-50. I would personally not go on the trip if he wants to split everything. It’s not as if you are roommates. If he wants to split this how does he wants to split …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 11:26 AM
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Then I would say, he should pay and she can treat him in different ways eg buy gift, get the tickets for some event or show beforehand, etc
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 09:53 AM
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Also for some things like our job (I also work in corp) we indeed need to manage and control a lot so we are basically stepping into our masculine energy. Try to split personal and work life and step back into your feminine energy outside of corporate life
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 01:00 PM
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Hey I learned that stress is part of life nowadays and we cannot escape it. However it’s important to also charge yourself and recover from time to time to be able to be resilient and continue with what you do. See yourself as a battery and make sure to never get it too empty somehow by saying no, delegating tasks (here your man could help as well), and make time for activities that recharge you (this differs per person). I know it’s easier said than done. Do an audit of your life/week/day and t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 12:59 PM
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Thank you for your reply and also wording everything very respectfully! It’s very helpful and I will definitely have a look to see it from the other perspective as well!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 08:36 PM
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Exactly! It’s as if they feel too intimidated by it or at least very surprised by it when I bring it up since it’s not seen as a job for women (it’s still largely dominated by men)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 08:08 PM
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If he cannot pay because of financial issues I do think that he is not ready to date yet or he needs to come up with more affordable dates like taking a walk and get some ice cream or do a picknick etc
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 04:31 PM
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If I don’t really have interest in him and don’t think there will be a second date, I offer to split it. If he agrees to it I won’t say yes to an invite for a second date. If he insists on paying it will depend on how he treats me afterwards in terms of texting and I will re-think whether I would like to see him again or not. If the man says at start of the date that he splits everything (also happened once), I tell him it was nice meeting him but I need to go home early and end our date. Obviou…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 04:29 PM
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Same here. It woud def have helped if I was aware of this earlier but I only focussed on study and then career :>
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 04:19 PM
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It’s because of the sexual revolution. I noticed with some of my friends that they were ashamed to still being virgin in their 20s and wanted it to be over with as quickly as possible. Whereas for me, my mum raised me up very traditional so no sex before marriage. Since I grew up and heard different perspectives for me it was also hard to figure out what it is that I wanted. Only during my relationships I noticed that I do indeed feel pressured by some men as they mention that they need to check…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 04:13 PM
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