Peanut_Hamper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce in California with two kids If she's fussing over things like wedding gift money then she's going to play hardball in general I assume. Don't try to go above and beyond and be the good guy, everything 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 09:11 PM
2	Anybody here regret not staying for the kids? Not at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 07:22 PM
8	As soon as the ring came off…. Same thing happened to me as soon as I took off the ring. Go have some fun, don't get into a serious relationship any time soon though.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 05:07 PM
1	Wife is verbally abusive but might not realize it? Hey, don't forget narcissist.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 04:41 PM
20	33m - 32f: Divorce is now final. Here is my howl into the void. It could've been worse, you could have a kid with her. Stay away from single mothers in future, you're too young to be raising another man's kids. Go have your own.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 04:28 PM
2	Constant custody violations Listen to your lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 04:53 PM
1	Cohabiting during and after the divorce If anyone else mentions the word birdnesting to her I'm going to lose my mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 06:42 AM
8	Cohabiting during and after the divorce This whole album got a lot of listening from me while I was stuck in your shoes for a while: https://open.spotify.com/track/6MYIZO0yWnzq4yJkJawQ29?si=8206f9fab8c14495	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 01:48 AM
2	Physically assaulted … went to police … what now. You are both jointly and severally liable for the mortgage payments. It doesn't matter if she lives there or not, you are both liable for ensuring the payments are made (assuming both names are on the mortgage). Definitely see a lawyer immediately on Tuesday, though. You'll also need to be working full time ASAP. It sounds like you have good experience and the new year is usually a good time for hiring. Also, you paid for her whole education and most of the house. If she wants to play it fully 5…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/23 05:46 AM