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LogisticsPearcenator/r/seduction28/04/22 01:48 AM
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I just feel like if you have to try hard for a girl, she’ll never be fully invested.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:13 PM
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Am I the only one that’s thinking “red flag” if this girl truly said that about her boyfriend? Like sure, have fun with her. But is that the girl you want to keep around? She’s just gonna do the same shit to you when you’re having a bad day one day.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:29 AM
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I tried PMing you and it seemed it fucked up. So, I'll just paste it here: ​ Hey, man! I appreciate your reply! Actually, nothing is deleted. So, I’m not sure why it shows that way. In a nutshell, we connected like crazy before the date over texts for 3 days. Texted novels. Deep talks. She’d text me 6-8 times in a row before I responded. We’re both weirdos, in a good way, so we seemed to have a special thing going. I was actually a little worried we were texting TOO much and wouldn’t have anythi…
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:35 PM
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If I’m gonna go with the 2 day rule, I think it has to be tomorrow afternoon I text her that. If she doesn’t say anything, then I know I just move on. Then, the weekend passes and there’s likely no chance of seeing her next week and that’s that. If I wait until tomorrow afternoon, then that also gives her the entire morning and day to have texted me first. I originally asked her out this last Sunday and she said she couldn’t but then suggested that next day. Which is why we went out on Monday. S…
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:47 AM
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There’s been things I’ve wanted to text her like that. Funny memes & etc. But, since she hasn’t responded, I haven’t sent her it cause I didn’t want to come off as more interested in her than she is in me. Seems the ball is in her court. But, I definitely do want to talk to her. What about this. Let’s say I don’t hear a word from her tomorrow and I continue to not say anything. Then, on Friday late morning, I text “Hey! I’ve got the kids next week. Date this weekend? 👀” Simple, short, fun. It al…
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:14 AM
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It’s just such a contrast that it’s throwing me off lol. If she had gone slower leading up to stuff, I wouldn’t be thinking much of it. But it’s literally slamming the brakes after goin 100 MPH
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:56 AM
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I think a lot of my problem is I just got out of a marriage. It was a marriage I didn’t want to end. I had imagined my entire life with that person. Now, that I’m out of it, I don’t really wanna fuck around and waste money on dates that don’t go anywhere. I’d rather stay home and work on projects or myself. So, if I do go on a date with someone, I guess I’m still in the mode of wanting something serious.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:30 AM
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I have noticed I’ve taken rejection harder than I used to before my marriage. I gotta keep my mind clear. I guess I just figured after our crazy build up to the date and then the date itself, that she’d be excited to talk to me afterwards. I honestly expected it to intensify. The date gave me a lot of reaffirmation. I just figure she would assume that if she dropped off like that, that I’d likely move on and think she’s not interested. But, I can’t read people’s minds. And she did have a very ab…
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:26 AM
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I wish you the best too dude! Honestly, I wasn’t expecting a response out of this girl when we matched on Tinder. Like…she’s really fucking hot. But, on our date on Monday, she mentioned a couple of different times that she isn’t talking to anybody else. Just me. Which might be quick to say, but it was nice for her to say that. But, it has crossed my mind that she probably has 100 dudes in her inbox right now trying to hit her up and that’s difficult to ignore. Fucking online dating. We’ll see 🤷…
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:17 AM
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I appreciate that. I’m kinda wondering if this might be karma. Cause I did something kinda similar. A couple of months out of my marriage ending, while I was still very hurt, I went out with a girl from Hinge. We had a really good first date. I’d say an 8 out of 10 (in comparison, I’d call the one in my main post a 10 out of 10). We texted quite a bit but not NEARLY as much as this girl and I did. Anyways, we hooked up that first night. She mentioned to me how she was a rehabilitated drug abuse …
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:12 AM
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You are completely right. I needed to hear that. I appreciate that! Things moved fast initially and she “seemed different” (it’s hard to connect with people in the South when you’re more of a left leaning nerd). But you’re right. She’s a lead. She needs to show me more and put more effort into me for me to invest emotionally like I am now. She hasn’t earned it yet
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:45 AM
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You’re right. Honestly, I had previously benched myself so I could hit the gym, read books, get myself in a great place. I’m still in good shape, great career, money, and personality. But I still don’t look like a Chad. So, I was working on that and just leveling myself with the books I have to read. I had a pretty rough end to my marriage that took me a while to heal from. Probably still am. Figure once I’m closer to Chad status, I won’t have any issues with multiple girls knocking on my door. …
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:42 AM
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It’s possible. I was surprised. I thought a kiss was guaranteed. I was actually almost considering pumping the breaks on hooking up if that presented itself after the restaurant. Definitely didn’t expect to not get a kiss. I was surprised. I have been trying to learn and recalibrate fast since my marriage ended. I’ve stumbled over myself a few times with a few girls and have adjusted my game based on my mistakes. A lot of it I think is just me being previously in a marriage that I was convinced …
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:38 AM
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Hey, that’s why I’m here. It’s been a long time I’ve been in this realm. I’d really like to not screw this up. So, I needed some voices to tell me to not text her. I didn’t text her that message I mentioned I might. I came here first. Figure I’ll wait till Friday morning to text it. Cause this weekend I can hang. Next time will be a week and a half from now that I can. Cause of my kids, they come first. It’s lame cause now I feel like if I start Gaming her, I won’t feel like I’m being honest. I’…
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:29 AM
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Hey, that’s why I’m here. It’s been a long time I’ve been in this realm. I’d really like to not screw this up. So, I needed some voices to tell me to not text her. It’s lame cause now I feel like if I start Gaming her, I won’t feel like I’m being honest. I’m just confused cause she was literally saying all kinds of shit before our date. Joking about making me breakfast in the morning with wink emojis. Wanting to cuddle and me watch movies with her. Various other subtle sexual innuendo with wink …
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:27 AM
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I said this to another reply so I’ll just copy it so you’re tagged: The only thing missing from that date was a kiss. I didn’t think too much about that as I thought it was cute & respectful that she wanted to wait. She did just file for her divorce and has a restraining order put on her ex. So, I figured maybe she just didn’t want to rush. And she kept rubbing my hand and was rubbing her hands over my back during our long hug preceding my attempt to kiss her. But…yeah, maybe it was a red flag n…
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:23 AM
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I tried slowing it down a little on Monday and told her I had some meetings. She still texted me a handful of times during those times anyways. But, I could have done a better job of putting more time into texting her back and controlling the pace more. I’ve a honestly worried we talked too much before the date and then the date would fall flat because of it. But, felt like I could have talked to her in person until 6AM regardless. The only thing missing from that date was a kiss. I didn’t think…
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:22 AM
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Sorry, I’m a writer and don’t want to leave any stones unturned when I tell a story. So I don’t have to keep correcting people before they go off on a tangent. My game plan, if she texts back, is to slow the pace down and try to stay off of texts. Only use it as communication for us to meet up.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:14 AM
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This has crossed my mind. I mean, if that’s the case. It’s at least nice to know that I AM capable of feeling something like this again. I had a black heart after my marriage ended and wrote off the idea of dating for a while. This girl just kinda happened. Worst case, I need to become a Chad 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:13 AM
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Don’t text her at all until she texts me back? Even if a week goes by?
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:10 AM
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It’s just annoying. I didn’t have to worry about a text game before the date. Her & I broke all the rules equally lol. I am being needy. I’m just annoyed cause the chicks around here are hot but boring as fuck and I finally felt like myself around this one. I’m also extremely rusty. I haven’t been single in over 4 years. And I didn’t have to try for that relationship. She just wanted to be around me every day until she grew 4 years older and started riding a broom.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:08 AM
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I’m just confused. I’ve been on a shit ton of dates in my time, but this is the first first one to really make me turn my head. And it might be too soon after my marriage ended. So, maybe there’s some underlying insecurities there I need to take care of. To be accountable. So, just don’t say anything? I can’t hang out with her next week cause I have my kids. So I was thinking about maybe waiting till Friday morning if I just don’t hear from her.
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:56 AM
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Gotcha, that does sound like an interesting strategy and smart for a young student. I’m a recently divorced 30+ year old. So, can’t really be hanging around universities looking for master program girls without raising eyebrows or dating way younger than I intend to 😂. That makes sense, though. And I’m definitely targeting girls with at LEAST a bachelors. I just got out of a marriage with a girl who was all over the place mentally. Probably a narcissist. Struggled with school, so I wouldn’t be s…
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:42 PM
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You like to look at girls in masters programs…how do you meet them? Sign up for endless masters programs? lol
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:03 PM
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If you think somebody could drink too much in their 20’s. You haven’t seen anything of someone older who’s entire life centers around it because their body got dependent on it. Then, you get a degree in psychology and then lose your mind trying to make sense of that older person with substance issues. Because they might as well be bipolar now.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:56 PM
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