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Coming from a woman, he won't respect your opinion about because you aren't a full person to him anymore. You're a walking stereotype. Does he have any man that he looks up to that might talk him out of this stuff? Other than that, if you aren't holding your ground/making a stink every time he makes a joke, spouts fake shit, or calls you a name, you're enabling the behavior. Either start in engaging in direct conflict with him about it, or leave him with a clear explanation as to why he is no lo…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 09:55 PM
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Nice, If my Dad was the only one to raise me I would've never left the house as he didn't think to socialize us. He certainly didn't teach me things, but if he did, it was through a barrage of insults. As soon as he got home from work everyday like clockwork, he would microwave us dinner and then head out to the bar for a few hours leaving my brother to terrorize me unless I locked myself in my bedroom to escape him. But, staying with my Dad certainly gave me a 'strong sense' of the discomforts …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:28 PM
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There are always going to be small things in the course of a relationship that give minor icks. Clothes your partner wears, ways he reacts to things, choices he makes with his career. It's how you receive the criticism that matters and if the yucks don't outweigh the yums or not. Also, referring people as broken is not helpful. No one is ever really broken. They are just sick and need to get better.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 04:49 PM
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Yeeeaaaaahhhhh, that's a huge red flag you shouldn't ignore. You've only been together a few months, I would cut your losses before it become too hard to leave. A lot of these guys are just playing nice while waiting for you to be more invested before they show that side of themselves to you without shame. I also wouldn't believe his story about the ex, personally. Making an ex out to be an unhinged crazy person is like the first step in the manipulation handbook and it makes him look like a dow…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 08:46 PM
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Lol, I didn't make it past showering. That's exactly what my middle school bully said. Are you her child? She did have a kid in high school.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 10:09 PM
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Yeah, typical shame filled dude. I hurt your ego and you go off the handle. I can totally see why women are dumping you. It didn't take much to flip that switch to shame filled hatred.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 09:53 PM
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This is a very naïve 19 year old moment for you then. Kinda reminds me of guys I would date in college who would make "jokes" about me and what I cared about, despite wanting to be in a relationship with me. It was clear they didn't actually like me or take me seriously, but they always seemed so pikachu faced & hurt when they got dumped... Good luck on your fake persona though.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 09:14 PM
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Also, you are still using them in both of these scenarios. You should be appreciating and loving them too for who *they are*. If you are attracting someone to a fake person you don't like, aren't you going to end up with a partner you don't like?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:53 PM
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But, if you are creating a fake person with hobbies you don't like, then that person isn't caring about you....they are caring about the fake person you created that *you don't even like yourself*
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:52 PM
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Because they use people as props to gain the feeling of self worth...sound familiar?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:48 PM
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You've never been in a long term relationship, so you wouldn't know. You're still too focused on achieving that novelty of the first high. Why do you think so many red pill men encourage cheating? Why do you think they hate their wives so much?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:46 PM
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You know you can give that feeling to yourself right? Starting a new business. Completing school. Climbing a mountain. All of that gives you the short term high infatuation gives you. Long term love and relationships aren't like that all the time. Once the novelty fades, people WHO DO NOT HAVE SELF LOVE AND A RICH INNER LIFE, start to get restless and cheat because they base their happiness around their relationship and need that short term novelty to feel alive. It's an addiction like meth.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:39 PM
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Let me say it louder for since you seem to have trouble listening: WOMEN AND SEX DO NOT EQUAL WORTH BUSTING A NUT IN OTHER PEOPLE CAN'T GIVE YOU WORTH BECAUSE THAT IS NOT HOW WORTH WORKS. SELF WORTH (READ IT AS LOVE) IS A LEARNED SKILL THERAPY CAN TEACH YOU. IT IS SOMETHING YOU NEED TO LEARN TO DO ON YOUR OWN. If you are doing things with the intent to get something from other's in order to prove you're worthy of love, then you're going about everything all wrong man. You will always fail becaus…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:28 PM
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Because, if you don't like yourself, why do you expect other people to like you? Selling yourself as a good partner when you're miserable is like a used car salesman pawning off a lemon. It seems fine until you get a little further down the road and then all the stuff the salesman tried to hide starts coming out. Fixing up the car means being authentically good (I.e. learning to develop self worth and empathy for others. Being kind and of service to others Authentically enjoying hobbies you actu…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:21 PM
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The whole issue here is that getting a girlfriend isn't something to "get done". Women don't want to feel like they are a box to be checked on a list. " I’m so sick of enjoying literally nothing about my life doing everything on the hope that maybe one day it will pay off and somehow someone will make this 19 years of misery worth it." You think women can't pick up that you're miserable and only do things to get laid? This sort of misery is like the worst bo you've ever imagined to healthy peopl…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 01:42 PM
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He's spinning plates with three AI Gfs right now. They never hit the wall. Their code just become unserviceable lol
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:53 PM
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Yep. They are externalizing their self worth and happiness to another person which always ends badly. That's because, if they think happiness is provided by a person, they tend to blame that person/relationship whenever they are unhappy.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 06:30 PM
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Since you feel comfortable making large judgements about the women who comment here, I will make a large judgement about you in return. If you are popular socially, but women aren't interested in dating you, it's most likely because you are sending out red flags and you don't know it. I've had plenty of friends in my life I would invite to a party or like spending time with, but I would never date, even if I find them sexually attractive. This is because they exhibit red flags in other ways that…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 02:40 PM
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"Like if a woman was online posting about how every guy she meets pumps and dumps her or some other issue of pursing men who end up rejecting her and I was like, "Well maybe you need to lower your standards and pursue a man who's less attractive" I would be seen as a misogynistic incel." I don't see how you got from point A (complaining about poor treatment/behavior) to point B (saying it's because of the looks they are going after they are being treated poorly). I've had less attractive dudes s…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 11:12 PM
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Lol Maybe if you talked to them about your views on women, they would see the same bitterness I see, but something tells me you will only talk about this stuff anonymously. Ted Bundy was a gifted and practiced liar, a con man, so the perfect red pill role model. Abusive partners are also liars and bad people. You are mad that women fell for their lies and not yours? If your goal is to lie to women and trap them so you can abuse them, then man, I hope you do stay single, for the woman's sake. Yea…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 03:06 PM
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I'm sorry, every person I know who complains about other groups of people so far as to make it a central part of their outlook on life I assume are unfilled within themselves in some way and I'm usually not wrong about that. I can feel your bitterness through the screen and the only person that can stop that internal shame is you, not others. Your personality and looks are not immutable, it's just hard work to maintain or change and red pill guys want to take the easy way out and demand other pe…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 05:53 AM
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None of that discounts my point. Romance is one thing that can make you happy, but not the only thing. Friends, nature, physical activity, supportive parents, self-growth, communal support and emotional regulation are all other factors that bring about that same stability and happiness. You will also have better romantic relationships if you have/cultivate these other things. It's like giving me a bunch of studies about why apples keep you healthy, so you only buy apples and spend all your time …
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:56 PM
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Black Pill means life isn't worth living without sex. This person means finding other ways to love yourself and others without framing your entire personality on sex. It's recognizing that sex is only a small part to the positive human experience. But, you're right, one less self hating man in this world would make women happier.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 09:51 PM
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Looks like OP has posted this in copy pasta. Pretty sure just trolling.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 01:03 PM
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Lol Who wrote this, the Prince of Persuasia?
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 12:56 PM
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Why get a personality when you can bring a "pleasant aura?"
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 04:38 AM
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You're obviously a smart woman. Why put yourself through this? He needs to find communities that aren't filled with conservative edgelords so he can exit his echo chamber. I'd also be open to the idea that these discussions you have with him that you think are successful, might just be him placating you. If he "hides away a whole persona" from you then you don't really know who you're dating.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 01:58 PM
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Ahhh, yes AWALT. Spoken like a guy who only interacts with women via apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:04 PM
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Depends on how long they've been living together. I'd say after 5 year, you're pretty much married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:33 PM
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You: US culture fucks up women. Also you: women are hostile to men for some reason. Just an FYi, most women can pick up on the fact that you think less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:25 PM
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If your culture is reading Russian literature and wondering about 'the horrors' then thank jesus it's dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:21 PM
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Maybe try talking to Western girls outside of an app in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:16 PM
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