Pecyouilar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If there's any problem with the "assume rapport" idea, this may be it	Inner Game	Pecyouilar	/r/seduction	25/01/26 05:46 PM
1	Putting them on the Pedestal is part of the fun! No, wait for it	Conversation	Pecyouilar	/r/seduction	13/03/26 08:42 PM

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1	Putting them on the Pedestal is part of the fun! No, wait for it Thanks for your well expressed reply. I can't disagree with anything there. In that case maybe I don't put women on the pedestal, because I don't do those thing in their company. However, aren't they still kind of on the pedestal in the sense that they are valued by me? And to a small degree I am seeking their approval, in the sense that if they choose me, it will make me happy. It's not like my ego won't feel anything. In any case I'll be sure not that they won't know it if they give me butterf…	/r/seduction	14/03/26 02:23 PM
1	Putting them on the Pedestal is part of the fun! No, wait for it Did you not read beyond the title? You just explained the basic concept of what putting a woman on the pedestal means (albeit in different words) as if I heard it for the first time from you... as if every second post in this subreddit isn't about that very thing! I get why you'd say that to somebody who knows absolutely nothing, but there's a little more finesse to it than that when you've been at it a while. What I'm trying to discuss here is how it can feel unauthentic to pretend you're not a…	/r/seduction	14/03/26 12:52 PM
1	Putting them on the Pedestal is part of the fun! No, wait for it I'd have thought the opposite... that the higher the caliber a woman is the more likely she'll know you're pretending (as you are) you're not attracted to her. I'm of the opinion that an intelligent girl will know if you're playing too hard to get. So you feel you have to hide it? Won't most girls already already know? I mean, how can you pretend that you don't think she's hot when she knows you chose to approach her, instead of any other girl in the area. I'm not saying I make a point of always…	/r/seduction	14/03/26 12:39 PM
2	Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say) What's in it for the OP to copy and paste AI?	/r/seduction	13/03/26 08:44 PM
0	So I did my first my first cold approach! You should have asked her if her bf was taller than her!! She must have been 6'2?	/r/seduction	07/03/26 02:31 PM
2	If there's any problem with the "assume rapport" idea, this may be it You're a keyboard jockey too! You're in no position to claim that every chode out there is deluded to think he can't get with the girl he wants. Whether some of them use that as an excuse to make no effort would be beside the point. You say that guy's analogy is rubbish, but fail to back it up. You're rubbish!	/r/seduction	26/01/26 11:53 PM
1	If there's any problem with the "assume rapport" idea, this may be it It's a wild assumption that any lack of confidence in the moment is as a result of thinking about past experiences. Of course one of the options you've presented is more ridiculous, but it's not always a choice. Take the extreme example of fighting a lion. Could you just simply assume to yourself that you'd be capable of fighting a lion? Your mind literally won't be able to 'assume'. The outcome of a rejection from a woman is inconsequential in comparison to fighting a lion, but I've never been …	/r/seduction	26/01/26 11:48 PM
2	If there's any problem with the "assume rapport" idea, this may be it It's the best for you. I never said my method was the best for others. Assuming rapport is realistic for a beginner. Assuming attraction isn't quite so!	/r/seduction	25/01/26 11:31 PM