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| 0 | 25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chestI'm a dating coach at my first call is free. Dm if interested. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglI've been dating in a lot of cities, Toronto was honestly the toughest I've ever been. Tons of beautiful women, and literally zero validation. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Where the best places to approach in the DMV?I'd say just by the drinking fountain, or by the place where you take a number. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 08:03 PM |
| 19 | How do I let a woman down easy?"Hey, I really like you, but I just don't think we have the type of connection that would make for a good long term relationship" | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?Dude, I'm talking about just pointing out, and calling the hottest girl. Im talking about if I'm talking to her first and trying to make a move on her. I'm not competing against my buddy, hes my wingman. If he has so much game, he can find another girl. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 07:01 AM |
| 0 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?"Hey bro, if I talked to a girl first she's mine. So just tell her you have a girl friend and try to talk me up a but and show lots of respect toward me, thx for being a good wingman, I'll do the same for you" | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How much exposure do you actually need to create real abundance?What's the best way to social proof for an average Guy? | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 10:03 AM |
| 6 | Why are women so fucking entitled these days?The trick is to deal with the bullshit on the dating apps, until you can get them alone and off of the app and they're often completely different | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 07:33 PM |
| 3 | fellas, would you rather keep up the dry spell in hopes of something better or keeping fucking these 4-5s?It all depends what you consider a 4-5 | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Best cities in the US (Or World) to get in cold approach practice?So you think Vegas has a lot of attractive women? Are we talking prostitutes or what? I don't know why any sane woman would move to Vegas. Try switching your hinge or tinter to Vegas and the Miami and see what happens. If you know a guy pulling in vegas please let me know and I'll buy his program. I guess your in luck if you like touristy below average divorcees. | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Best cities in the US (Or World) to get in cold approach practice?Vegas 🤮 the complete opposite of míami as far as the number of available attractive women. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Insane sexual tension during a cold approach, but now I’m being left on requested on IG. What happened?Saw through what? It sounds like he was genuine. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 07:12 PM |
| 113 | Game is keyI'm pretty sure you probably are a bit delusional on who's better looking. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Someone save me and help me take advantage of easy opportunities on dance floorTurn around and say hello, explain how your parents blessed you? Looks money? | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:56 AM |
| 2 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachWomen want to be approached sometimes in a save and natural, respectful way. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 09:58 AM |
| 0 | If more people are meeting on dating apps but you don't make the cut, what should you do?I'm not super good looking. I've had a little bit of success on dating apps, and I can't sleep right now, so here's my long rambling answer. First, You could just be in a shitty dating market so you might wanna consider just Moving your Hinge to different cities, and see if you have better luck. You could be putting off signs of desperation. These women just swipe away instantly, if you look like you're barely getting by and struggling for attention. They want a guy who they think is in demand, … | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”For men who have absolute, no abilities. Talk to women, I agree, strip clubs are a great spot for them to get some attention, and just get comfortable with a woman under their arms. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | You can see women as equals and do wellBut getting laid with a decent women actually is difficult for 90% of men. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Gym baddies…how toThe trick is to make a little small talk when she's away. From working out. Maybe at the drinking counting or something like that. It's gotta look 100% natural. Then if that's small that goes well. You're hoping to run into her again and have a deeper conversation that goes well. You can ask her Out. I heard they ever do this because the natural times never come as far as interrupting a workout, that has never worked for me. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreWill, half of these nines or tens are just filters, and are sevens or eights without making up. Anyway, the body is hard to fake. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpHonestly, fine a strip club and at least get used to getting a little attention while keeping your cool. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually meet women while living in a small town? (30-35k).You've got to switch your hinge to the nearest big city and try to make it work. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 07:13 PM |
| 3 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?Easy to date Somebody random. It's always been hard to get the prize maybe even a little more competitive now | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoOh yeah, everyone's doing good in Russia right now because have the fucking available men or either dead or at war or maimed. I'm not sure you need to worry about one bad event because even the best need to try many days or weeks. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Just feel absolutely shit…If your goal is the score, you're never gonna score Unless maybe you're the top 1% of guys. If your goal is to add value to women's lives and have a good time with them. Then, eventually sexual situations will happen. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 11:41 AM |
| 24 | What's your personal go-to frame building exercise?Positive affirmations! before a date I convinced myself. I'm very successful and deserving and I have $9 million in the bank and I have more attractive women than I could even deal with! | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 08:37 PM |
| 0 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Fibs here and there, dress nice smell rich (Some calone that spells hi end) talk about how you drive wealthy clents and get huge tips. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 09:11 PM |
| 2 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Well, I had to break it to you, but most women will have sex with a guy if they want a relationship with him or if they think he's much higher status. I'm not saying you can't have sex with them, but most women aren't dying to sleep with a taxi driver after two dates, unless you are incredibly good looking or something. You definitely can have sex, but your experience is pretty normal! You need to just try to make the dates fun, and then date three or four ask your place and hopefully it's nice … | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Getting fatigued at this shitYep, if you have done everything you can and still aren't succeeding, it's time for a new market. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s possible to turn around and have success within 24 hours. By tomorrow you CAN have success even after weeks or months or potentially years of a drought. (Motivation from recent experience).Ya, lower your standards than work your way up! | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?The part where you said he is athletic is a pretty important one, Probably the most. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 10:53 PM |
| 35 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Honestly, I have realized that all women are sluts and have really slutty, tendency and love to be fucked. With that being said, they can get that from anywhere, but it's the love that they are loyal to and. Many are loyal, if they're treated well. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:58 PM |
| 8 | This Needs To Be Said!!!!Of course she isn't highly interested. I want women that don't have the interested The. Highly interested. Women are below my league. I'm trying to get above my league, so that means that she might have a little bit of interest, and I'm trying to get her on a date to create a lot of interest. This is 100% Not true. If she didn't have interest in you at all, She wouldn't have set up the original date to flake on. Obviously she doesn't love you, but she at least likes you enough to where she thoug… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:36 AM |
| 0 | How do I give up?I offer free dating advice as I'm working on becoming a coach. I can't help everybody. I need people that are open to change and putting in the effort. If this is you, DM me. My Services are free at this time. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 11:38 AM |
| 2 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?Not really. I think it all depends on how much she likes you. I've known Girls to literally be so hard to get. But if they find a guy they like, and they will just sleep with them that night. Pretty much all girls are sluts. Some just take a higher caliber guy. Should I respect a woman because she only sleeps with professional athletes or guys, or should I respect her more because she actually sleeps with average men as well. Once a slut always a slut. This is why you just can't really slut sham… | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 7 | one minute manThere's nothing wrong with a man who finished as fast. If it's been a long time, as long as he takes a rest and goes again and less longer than the next time. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 08:19 AM |
| 58 | Why it’s important to go on dates with women you aren’t that attracted to when you are first starting out. “My opinion”Practice | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Top 5 cities for one night stands?Vegas haha if you want to buy it! | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How do friends or people that are becoming friends usually hook up if they’re not on a date?Slow step by step escalation where you two are alone and conversating or having fun. "Hey, do you want to go on a bike ride" "Hey let's stop at my place for a drink after" "Hey let's get on the couch and watch some music videos" "Can I lay on your lap, I'm tired" See how this escalates real quick.. if She stops you she's not interested if you have sex you just say im not looking for anything serious right now is that ok The other option is to just ask if she wants to fuck but that usually doesn'… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:02 AM |
| 5 | How to game Russian girls?Sad that there's all these single Russian women running around now while their male counter parts are just getting blown up by Ukrainians. Not sure why I have a hard time dating them, but it feels like I'm taking advantage of someone's hardship. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 2 | 3 girls flaked this weekDo you wanna make sure you're staying in contact with him, but not too much, so talk about the date and get them to be excited about it. So you might say something like. Hey I'm gonna be about 15 minutes late tomorrow. Is that OK and get a yes from them. Would you prefer this restaurant or this restaurant? So what you're doing is just getting some buyin from them, and they're less likely to flake . When I have a date for the hot Girl, for the first time I try to get at least two pieces of buyin.… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 12:00 AM |
| 3 | fastest way to get a gf or just a fling?This ⬆️... get what you can and work you way up | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Performance anxietyViagra | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Lost Weight Again and Dating Instantly ImprovedWhat city are you in out of curiosity? Yes, being in shape makes you way better in bed as well and have better erections. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 10:26 AM |
| 2 | 9M feeling paranoid about STDs and relationshipsWhat do you want to do is go through each individual, STD and determine your risk and the consequence. So to give you an example hepatitis, now, Has vaccines, so get those HPV has vaccines HIV is really not circulating amongst the heterosexual population. According to my Doctor. Herpes, really you can get with her without condoms, and you just want to take a good look before you do some fucking Clamidia and gonorrhea are going around, but are usually not a big deal with antibiotic The biggest co… | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Well, if she's a slut, that's one thing, but there are a women who are just waiting for a boyfriend friend who aren't sleeping with anyone, and sometimes if you just buy a time you will get to the next level | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:17 PM |
| 0 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Oh yeah, I agree with you, but you're a real dream Guy. Then she will below what you can get. From what I've seen. There is plenty of times. You can get in a relationship with a girl. Who's kind of wishy-washy. As long as you can. Spend time with her and often overtime. Attraction. Builds. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?Because social status isn't just tied to job is tired to social ability and confidence conveys that. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 02:58 AM |
| 4 | How do I get over my fear of women? 28MStart with a strip club where they will talk to you because they want your money. Than date a very unattractive woman and work your way up. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 01:53 AM |
| 8 | How to Approach at the club//how to get girls to dance on uI like all this advice, but sometimes it's good to ask Girl if she wants to dance as well. Especially if it's not as crowded. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:12 PM |
| 2 | 32M, Can i still succeed in seduction after mental health sickness?Absolutely and succeeding also helps your mental health. The goal is small wins and some success without being picky and building on that. Plus you're young and the game never ends. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:03 PM |
| 8 | 18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girlWhat city are you in? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys learn game?Unapologetic man podcast | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 07:00 AM |
| 38 | I have zero self-esteem. Like nothingStart with unattractive women and move up. Just get accepted by anyone. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | be honest with me....is it over?Download and app call Badoo and try to date foreign women | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?Unfortunately, what you're saying is often true and fucks up the dating/sex ratios quite a bit. Girls just getting dick like guys that are fucking other girls because it shows preselection and experience/skill and they don't need to worry about you getting hurt or wanting to GF them up and they feel like less of a slut only sleeping with one guy even though he's sleeping with others. To me that makes them a slut but who is to judge. The trick is to hint at abundance by joking about sex or talkin… | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it.I have talked about my hot ex and how she left me in the right way, and it has been very polarizing, but some women have definitely tried to one up her. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:40 PM |
| 8 | What miss ratio would you guys say is normal to expect even if you’re attractive and charismatic?90 | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Losing weight before dating againGood Energy-Casey Means and it will melt off you. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 09:06 PM |
| 2 | What the next step after knowing a girlFind an activity you think they would like and ask them to do it with you. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I (28m) have never had a girlfriend, nor had sex in 3 years. Where do I even begin?Being with literally anyone that will give you the time of day. | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 08:47 PM |
| 8 | date multiple womenI disagree. The only time I've ever got a girlfriend is when I only dated one woman, and I made sure that every interaction and every single word I said, was timed perfectly, and spoken perfectly. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 07:39 AM |
| 3 | How does it feel to win?I beg to differ! | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 11:06 AM |
| 33 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?U.S. girls are pretty slutty if ya know what your doing | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 09:33 AM |
| 45 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?I don't think the average guy even wants this insta girls. Find the 9/10 hidden among everyone else. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 11 | The thing women want the mostSo girls want to have fun, and they want to fuck guys that are popular. noted | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 05:21 AM |
| -4 | is asking her std history even worth it?90% of people who are sexually active are gonna blood test positive for herpes | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible its just my area is bad?Yes, could be your area for sure. Also where you live has a big impact. Location, status, how open your floorplan and how nice the house is. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | am I at the advanced stage of burnout? Am I the only one that feels this way?Can you level up your job or living situation? | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice on life changes for datingGood Energy - Casey means | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)?Grab a pillow, squeeze and fuck! | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How can I increase my libido and overall desire?Viagra | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | 21 and still a virgin.I would go to strip clubs and get used to talking to women. Then you need to just start at the bottom of the barrel to get confidence. If you really need to hit some puss, Nevada has brothels. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Those that have same day laid in day game what is your escalation strategy?Talk to girl Ask her to dance Ask if you can get a drink with her at the bar Dance again and get touchy and hopefully she's feeling it. Get her to go to another bar with you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Would going to a strip club help with building confidence and sexual confidence ?Yes, it gives you practice talking to hot girls, even if they just want your $$$ | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 10:00 AM |
| -1 | How to be chased and valued moreGo to med school... I don't know.. Nothing is interesting or stands out about you. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce/attract men?Number. One is be in good shape. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:12 AM |
| 3 | How to you guys “re-attract”?Everybody says it's not worth it, but some women are worth it! | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Being a 22m virgin is making me suicidalGive I'm a minute.. you might be in the wrong spot.. maybe it's time you go off to the right college if ya know what I mean. | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Short men success stories?I have noticed a lot of men in distinguished careers are shorter. Just saying ways to make up for it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Do l need to ask a wüman about her body count or l find out on my own?😁What's up with the spelling? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 04:38 PM |
| 3 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”Lake Tahoe Black Jack Table, was drunk and said, "if this hits you take me back to your room" She looked at me like I was crazy almost in shock. It ended up hittin and so did I. Was a decent shaped lady in her mid 40s and I was in my mid 30s. This wasn't totally out of the blue, she was showing signs of interest and we were flirting a bit. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Pickup with depression. Is it possible?Can confirmed not being with a woman for a long time can make you depressed, and finding a good one, will suddenly make you unrepressed. Everyone is different, but I was able to pinpoint my depression and anxiety to being lonely. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 08:10 AM |
| 6 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?Women want to feel like there's a chance with somebody, even if they know deep down. You're just casually having sex. They don't wanna feel like they're being used or there just a slut and they feel like if they like you. They might be able to get you to commit, even though you say you just want something casual. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 07:56 AM |
| 2 | I don't have women to meet in my city.Move to a better city for dating | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I have success with women?Do you have any kind of social status? | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 10:54 AM |
| -2 | I feel terrible when I see my friends or men leaving the club with a girl?Dm me - I'm dating coach. First call free. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to hate not talking to girlsGotta start with some ugly girls, and just work your way up my Guy | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 08:59 PM |
| -1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startWell.. you asked where to start and my answer is anywhere you can. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 05:14 PM |
| -3 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startStart with dating unattractive girls and work your way up. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:15 AM |
| 5 | How much of a difference does money actually make?Because she can subtly tell you have money without bragging about it. Oh your a lawyer and you live in a hi end neighborhood and you have style and you been to France and bunch of other cool places, but your also humble and down to earth and not using your money to play women and attract the wrong types. That's one way of looking at it but IMO opinion there are some gold diggers but those are the ones you don't want anyway. Women just don't want to date broke losers so it's most important to jus… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 10:04 PM |
| -4 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Start with 3s and 4s and work your way up. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does this always happen to me?Why don't you just try to be her friend, and get to know her first. Step one is to just exist as a none creeper. Hey, I'm your neighbor I just thought I would say hello. Then get to know her and like her for her personality not looks. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 05:25 AM |
| -12 | You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficultIt's not bad for women's bank accounts and it's not bad for men who need sexual attention without being forced into a relationship. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach?It's not how many nuts a squirrel doesn't get it's how many he does. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Tinder is easy as a man - You just dont know how to use itSo easy, that's why I get zero matches. | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 08:24 AM |
| 2 | I don’t approach anymore & it’s gotten me laid more times than i can count..I bet you're 50 bucks he's some kind of Lawyer of High status, Good looking Guy, and he just drives women crazy but just not showing a lot of interest. This has definitely been worked for me a couple times when I go out with friends, and just literally not even care. And then I would be in a group of friends. and one of the friends would finally try to get me to open up and I would just hardly care. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?I'd rather one number from a girl I talked with for an hour at the bar than ten I only talked with for a few minutes. Just having a number might have met something before women had endless online options, now you need to make a connection and stand out. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfBecause he's focusing his time on his girlfriend and not bros.Hey doesn't care about partying anymore or just wasting time. He hasn't changed who he is. He's changed his decisions. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 06:30 PM |
| -2 | I need advice about EDIt's the condom homie | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 09:09 AM |
| 115 | How often do bar hookups happens?If your good looking, have a good personality and story/plan of success or something interesting; and have decent game and a clean, private, convenient spot and your in a city with alot of singles or a college town, I would say you can hookup every couple months if your going out 5-10 so times a month. If you're super good looking this could go way up and if you're not all that good looking, you might struggle to find some table scraps. Really the name of the game is just to find a reason to get… | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What people actually mean when they say ‘you shouldn’t focus on girls until you have built your self up’Absolutely date while building yourself up! | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Frustrated with no hookups while in my mind there are things happening, people are getting laid.I'm a pretty good looking guy, and frankly, I've had one girl in my entire life that wanted to just hook up. Every time I got late I was dating, and it was a relationship short like you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 10:17 PM |
| 251 | How to seduce a girl at a convention to have sex?Talk to girl Plan an activity with girl Flirt with girl Find an excuse to be alone with girl When alone with girl make her feel comfortable and touch her and see how she reacts. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | They bring me expectations and then disappearSince when do women initiate breakups more than men? They do end dating more often due to disinterest or other options but once they are in a relationship, them breaking up is rare unless your a crappy BF or it was super quick and thoughtless to jump into one. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 06:10 AM |
| 5 | How to overcome feeling you're too good for approaching?Good for you but that doesn't make you better than everybody else. There are lots of reasons women like men and success and money is only one of them. The best thing you can do is think about yourself outside of your career and then play it off like it's not a big deal. There are a few men who can get women without approaching them, if that's you then awesome! If that's not you then you're obviously not too good to approach them. Besides I don't understand why successful man are so worried about… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How to understand women's attraction?maybe you're not taking good pictures of yourself! | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 09:29 AM |
| 5 | How to understand women's attraction?You might lack status. | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"Ask her why.. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:07 AM |
| 11 | Guys… you can be a caveman you knowWas at a blackjack table in tahoe and just told girl I wanted to bang her. Ended up doing it that night! | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 10:33 AM |
| -3 | Seeing many stories where a girl cheats on her boyfriend with her EX, what qualities/traits could the EX have? What kind of emotion does he invoke in the girl?Or sometimes it's done because they like lots of sex. There's not always some complicated reason. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a girl at a holiday resort? Help pleaseSee girl, talk to girl, if girl talks back ask girl to do activity with you, then find a reason to be alone and ask if she wants a massage.. Anything is possible and if she's interested she will let the above happen. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 10:48 AM |
| -1 | No Job and Broke—Should I still date?Yes | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?I promise it's lack of confidence and not your Gucci bag that makes them not want to socialize with you! | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?I have no clue what you guys are talking about but I've spent a ton of time in vegas and ever had a chance with an attractive girl! | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | In the dating stage - 1 girl is none, 2 is 1, 3 is perfectI disagree.. The only time i've successfully secured a girlfriend is when I was only talking to her making sure every convo is perfect. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?This is why I generally only approach women in bars where you are basically supposed to approach. I don't approach in public but I will chat if given the opportunity. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | When was the last time you got laid? Asking just to see were the average lies.15 mins ago | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachWhat is insta dating? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once?For me, it only works when I'm talking to one. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Date an unattractive girl to get your confidence back! | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Getting laid with a blonde goth chick from Tinder - Full texting analysisSo many men dont understand that women are emotional creatures and need to be sold. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 3 | feel lost3 more girls then about half of guys slept with! Calm down bro. It's actually very hard to get laid and if it wasn't not too many guys would be married. Very few women just want to sleep around. Every girl i've ever slept with wanted a relationship. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 10:11 AM |
| 4 | Women says I’m attractive, but I just don’t turn them on. Any tips on how fix this?She's trying to be nice but there is something glaring she doesn't like about you. Might be your personality or how you present yourself. Might be something physical like bad teeth or out of shape. Might be coming off as unintelligent or immature. You need to find out what it is a try to improve it. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I primed my space for sex?What's RBG? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Stop letting them know you want to sleep with them. Just try to make friends with them and do friend things then it will lead to more sometimes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone have experience with women having extremely high expectations of them?Why do you think they expect so much of you? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | College girlfind a reason to talk to her just see how long you can keep it going | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do i struggle to find women to date/sleep withYou need to learn how to sale women on you and coming back instead or just asking. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | I need advice on what I can doOr kiss under her ears. Or you could just talk to her about sex. Or just start with oral or handjobs. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 4 | First time solo nightclub - Field ReportThis is what I did when I running game. See a girl and ask her if she wants to dance in a chill fun way. Your looking for opportunities where here body language opens up a bit and you can set in and just right away ask dance. Dance with here in a chill fun casual way and try to make small talk. Don't get all grabby and creepy right now. Ask her if you can buy her a drink if the conversation is going good. (this is ok because she has shown interest in you) Grab her hand and take to the bar. This … | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 08:18 AM |
| 5 | How to seduce in my 40sIt's the same! | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 06:53 PM |
| -1 | If you go to bars solo, should you lie about why you're there alone?My friend ditched me to go with a girl | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:35 PM |
| 8 | College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day GameDo they know your age? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend, how to turn my life around?download a dating app called badoo and try other countries. South America is great. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 10:06 PM |
| 4 | What do you guys do when you feel hopeless and giving up?Take a trip to Tijuana | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 11:14 PM |
| -1 | My (22m) girlfriend (23f) girlfriend forgot to text me last night. Advice?Just talk with her and ask her about her night was. Sometimes we get drunk and forget. If she's cheating you will figure it out. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date?I would always try to escalate as far as I could on the first date to show confidence. Then if she shut me down I wouldn't push it anymore unless she gave me the green light. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:48 AM |
| 19 | Is age a limiting factor as a man?I see this all the time.... Yes, age is a limiting factor.. So is: baldness, fatness, shortness, poor looking face, brokenness, lack of style, poor teeth and hygiene, lack of sense of humor. etc, etc. You can usually get away with one or two limiting factors and still have a chance. I'd rather be 40 and fit than 20 and very fat! I'd rather be 38 with money than 28 and broke. I'm about to turn 40 and it's hard to date the hot girls (I don't care about age a lot but the hottest ones are usually yo… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 08:39 AM |
| 10 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37It must be easy in Ukraine when half the men are at war. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 09:13 AM |
| 57 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-3739 yr old bro with 23 yr old GF. If they think you're hot and successful many will look past age. Roll with it! | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 12:32 AM |
| 19 | Why do you think girls hate dating broke men ?Because money solves a lot of problems and more importantly, not having money can cause a lot of problems. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:39 AM |
| 109 | Lots of female friends, no play.Guys, these comments are not good at all. There is nothing wrong with coming off as friendly and un intimidating starting out just to get a girl comfortable with you as over half the battle is just getting them to give you the time of day. What OP is struggling with is transitioning to something more. He's either coming off as social awkward or a loser, or they simply don't think he's attractive. "Showing them your dick" right away isn't going to suddenly change that. They know he likes them and… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 09:58 PM |
| 19 | Observations from a woman’s tinder profile and experienceThis has a lot more to do with the living in Puerto Rico part than the photos. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Freshmen at college, I am an idiot who needs helpJust talk to them and ask them to do an activity with you. Then get them alone and make a small move and see how they respond. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?Easiest way to answer this is being chubby/fat a dealbreaker for you when your deciding who your interested in? | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 05:17 AM |
| 4 | How to show interest in a guy?Just spend time around him | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsI don't need a club to give me status. I'll just take a girl back to my nice house in my nice car and let all the other bros who make 100k and have nothing to show for it, enjoy the "bottle service." | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:59 AM |
| 9 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsMaybe I'm a loser but everyone I know who spends money on bottles and tables is a broke, low credit alcoholic who spends all their money in the club. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?A lot for them don't even open until your 40. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 08:25 AM |
| -7 | Fastest Bar LayDid you wrap it? Do you think others heard you in the bathroom? How long did it take you to cum and where did you cum? Did you ever see her again? | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowgo to a bar and roll with it! | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with late bloomer tax?Ya, when I was young I thought the same thing, "why won't these girls just sleep with me without all the hassle." The reality of it is that most girls are taught you keep their sexually for someone special. They don't just go sleeping around with anyone. You need to know they work and what gets them turned on, that's why we have this reddit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 10:10 AM |
| 1 | The problem some of you have is you “over-complicate” the entire ordeal..Well, are you eating clean and staying active? Are you the best version of yourself yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 10:06 AM |
| 37 | Does cold approach just not work for an ethnic guy?Stop trying cold approaches and start trying warm approaches. Women might find it creepy when you approach them out of the blue but if your playing a sport with them, at a book club, in a church group etc, they will have time to get to see your not a creep. Then you can build value in yourself by showing your characteristics over time. Just friend them and ask them to do an activity one day with you and try to spark a long conversation. I know several shorter brown skin men married to white wome… | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 09:55 AM |
| 11 | Is seduction cruel?Too many friends are married with terrible sex lives because the never test drove before buying. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls?can I get an OJ on the rocks, Or a jin and coke hold the gin. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 11:37 PM |
| 40 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriendStop asking if they have a Boyfriend, the answer is always yes. Also, if everyone you talk to has a BF try a dating app. Being a Pharmacist should get you a plenty of looks but work on your style and don't be afraid to buy a decent car and have a decent place to live. It's just the basics, hygiene, fitness, charming, funny etc. Maybe your pushing to hard. Just find a group of friends you can hangout with and get to know some people. Learn how to take good pictures of yourself. Play a sport and b… | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 10:07 AM |
| -2 | Any guys here have a 10/10 girl in a 5+ relationship and recover when she is living the rich life?Had the same felling about an ex for many years. You will meet someone and move on! | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?Let them slowly get to know you | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.Explain to her that your going to be rich. I find it hilarious when young women want to marry rich then just look toward older men. It's like I'm clearly going to make partner one day or I'm clearly a top sales rep so when I invest right we will be rich. Plus you have a career so we will be more then fine. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 08:57 PM |
| 78 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Most guys make it sound easier and that they are getting more ladies then they do. Honestly, your lucky to get any dates/attention from women as close to half of men don't. I've learned to not compare myself to others because it's a waste of time and often times I'm much better in other areas or will be and they have their own problems and insecurities. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Honestly, you need to book a trip to TJ and just get a couple nuts off to relive the pressure. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?were you saying rape or creap. Creep maybe, rape is pretty cut and dry. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?Alpha makes made the church so they could suppress women's desires towards other men and direct it toward their holy self. Most church founders were polygamist. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONIf a girl gives you 3-4 dates she's interested. She just ghosted you because she'd no longer interested after the 3-4 dates helped her get to know you better. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | All you men need to stop putting pussy on a pedestalSo are you having these women get blood tested for herpes and have you also been blood tested? Very common to have antibodies in your blood and they may or may not mean an infection is there in a particular part of the body. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | I heard my friend say "women want men who other women want". Do you guys feel the same?It just saves time for women. They can either waste the mental energy to decide if a guy is worth their value, but if they see them with another beautiful girl, they just assume she's already done the work for her. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Honestly, it's kind of dumb how much value girls give to guys who put a lot into social media. I know for sure I could get a ton of friends and post great photos but I'm too busy for that shit. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Decent car for getting girls?well, I would rather a girl date for my vehicle then not date me at all, but at the end of the day she just thought I wasn't a broke scrub so she gave me a chance and then she liked me for me, and that's what kept her around. I think we're all superficial and superficial things do spark interest but at the end of the day it's real personality and connection that keeps someone around. I think you guys are a little bit confused she doesn't care if I drive a super car or a $400,000 car, but there a… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:04 AM |
| 10 | Decent car for getting girls?People can say what ever they want but I know a nice car has helped me dating. There are some guys with really nice game or in a college/walkable situation where a car doesn't matter but I would argue everything matters. When I was 19 I bought a late model mustang convertible and was dating the baddest 5'10" blue eyed blonde in town that I still wish I would have married. At 36 I bought a Tesla Model Y and have clearly stepped up a bit in dating. I recommend one of those two or one of those retr… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada.Your looks are fine, start winning at life! | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Approached and got told to F offThere is no reason to tell her she is cute. You're not in second grade. The best thing to do is just make natural small talk with a girl if she likes you she will keep talking to you then maybe at the very end you can say I think you're cute cute can I grab your number? | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?90% of guys blowing money in the club are broke. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:16 AM |
| 8 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?Most girls look right past dudes blowing money in the club. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Always losing from other menTrip to Tijuana in the works! | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terriblemight be a good time to go get a couple Handies from massuse just to take the pressure off. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:38 PM |
| 4 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)It's as simple as talking with him after class and spending extra time in his office. Then changing the subject away from usual business and seeing how long you can keep the conversation going. Then invade his personal space a bit and give him a few sexy looks or show off yourself at a sexy angle. From there get his number and text him like any other guy. If he don't get the hint after a few times of doing this or it's super awkward, he's not interested or wants to keep the relationship professi… | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here in their 30s or 40s?Sound nice, can you share some insight on how to live that type of life where quality women just show up. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 07:33 AM |
| 0 | How can I turn my dating life around by 30?might need to go to tijuana or something and just get a couple nuts off | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?DM me if you want some 1 on 1 coaching. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Today I'm 1 more rejection closer to becoming the person I want to be.That's like knocking on a door as a salesmen and saying, "Hey, I'm wondering if you want to buy solar panels" The answer is always no. Your goal is to just establish non creepy conversation. Then ask her to do something fun together when the time is right. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Did my first 100 approachesYour best bet is to try to friend them someway and get her number that way. Oh you sell X for a living or you like X, what's your number maybe we can play X together. Then keep the convo going. Try to be in her life anyway you can before asking her out. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | ApproachingLevel up the best you can as a person and adjust you expectations to realistic. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?When I was 23M I hooked up with a 48 yr old women and It was dang good. She loved some young dick. Now that I'm older I know some younger girls are looking for the same experience. If you ask most sexually active girls in their 20s if they have hooked up with a guy who's late 30s or early 40s, most would say yes but only a few times. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Is approaching women on the street weird?Some women really don't fell safe talking to strangers on the street but it all depends on the situation, how safe the area is, time or day and if lots of other people are around. | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Places to meet girls that are actually open to talkingYou need to find a half full bar with space to move and maybe some arcade games or something to play with them. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless?Get a great career! Go for the hardest and most prestigious jobs and work your way down starting with med school. Then tell girls your plans and they will give you credit if your on the path. Being 5'9" means get tall shoes and still put 6ft on dating profiles. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?If a women has a better job then you just play of off like no big deal and don't count myself out. Let her decide but don't put her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:32 AM |
| 9 | Going to girls home vs yoursMost of the time, my place but here place is definitely more sexy so I would pick hers! | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Advice for hookups during Spring BreakBreak away from the wall to wall crowd and try to talk with a girl one on one or in a small group. Watch out for girls too drunk! If they don't know what they are doing it's sexual assault. I don't know what game you guys are pulling but one of my 5 friends got laid once on spring break and we called it a win. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 04:25 AM |
| 17 | what made you give up on dating & women?There are plenty of women just looking for a "normal guy" Now what that is often unrealistic. Don't quit just take a break and maybe hangout with some less attractive women before you can improve your game! | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 10:06 AM |
| 13 | Having Less Success than my Friends, why?Sounds like a classic case of "I think I'm better than I am" You need to improve in a lot of ways. Simple as that but I guess that's why you here! | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 09:47 AM |
| 51 | How do I attract the girls I want?Learn confidence, get out of your comfort zone, workout, excel in your career, get a hobby or skill, get money and have a nice place you can take girls to be alone with them, even better if you can own it. Have excellent hygiene, learn to communicate, be where the women you want are and interact with them even if it's not about dating. Make sure you're in a city with lots of girls or at least close enough to date them or go off to a college with a lot of girls. Have something interesting to tell… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:55 AM |
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