| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -3 | Gaming College Age GirlsDate the 30 y/o’s would be my solution… you do you though! | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move?There is no advice to give. You grab that hand or you don’t. I think you know where it’s headed if you don’t. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 05:37 PM |
| 45 | How to get a threesomeThis is the answer. There’s no coming back after it. I’ve destroyed a great relationship with a threesome before. Jealousy sometimes doesn’t start screaming loud until you’re in the moment. Threesomes are cool and fun, but they are NOT worth losing a quality woman over. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable….I gotchu | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 12:22 AM |
| 10 | Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable….This could be super corny if you’re not careful about how you deliver it, but your greatest fear is living a life of no consequence. Going to the grave without properly having made your mark on this world only to be forgotten a few years later. Terrifying. And manly. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 4 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)How old are you, if you don’t mind my asking? | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please HelpGet out. Get out. Get out!!!! | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Is 24 too late to change?The baby thinks people can’t change… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 71 | Hookup app Tinder vs Facebook dating?Or like a psycho lol | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Pulling girls at an arcade barExpected a very defensive reaction. Thanks for taking the criticism well. I understand the desire for a challenge, but I’m not sure it’s worth the risk. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 8 | Pulling girls at an arcade barIf you can’t tell if you’re trying to fuck a child there maybe more problems here. I don’t know how old you are, but at my own age (29) the idea of doing this makes me sick. Plenty of attractive 21+ women. No need to prey on teenagers. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 01:41 PM |
| -1 | Has anyone here ever lead someone on in order to get in their pants?I’ve been accused of it. I was seeing two girls in college, was rather explicit about the fact that I wanted to keep things casual and non-exclusive. They found out about each other and I had been having great times with both. I think they thought that since we were getting along well it would lead to a relationship. I was shocked when they were so angry. I guess I didn’t say outright that I was seeing someone else as well, but I did say just casual and did say non-exclusive. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 11:59 AM |
| 10 | What is a good response to "You could be my son" when approaching an older women than me?This is the way. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 4 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?When the dealin’s done | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 01:11 AM |
| 8 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?While you’re sittin at the table | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 09:03 PM |
| 17 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Know when to run | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 08:00 PM |
| 31 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Know when to fold ‘em | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice on age gapI’m not sure I could even do casual sex. You still have to engage in conversation with a person you’re having casual sex with. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Advice on age gapI dunno man. I think women are at their most attractive between 35-45. Younger than 25 look like they could be my high school students. Fuckin yuck. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Advice on age gapI’d say stay away from girls under 21. Legally adults if they’re over 18, but they’re not adults. Yeah, you’ll definitely get some shit from other people, but the real concern is that someone that age is still in a high school mentality while you’re a full grown adult. Maybe you’re very immature, I don’t know, but being 29 myself the idea of dating a girl that can’t get into a bar is nauseating. I want a partner, not a play thing, so I’m interested in women that have matured a bit more. If you’r… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?They’re passive hobbies. If you’re a competitive gamer, I think that changes things a bit. Some people won’t understand the distinction, but you don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t if you’re serious about that hobby. Otherwise, it’s like listing television as a hobby. Fairly passive and non-engaging. I don’t play video games myself very often, but no hate to those that do. It’s a fun pastime, but as I say, in most cases doesn’t meet a lot of the other expectations of an engaging hobby. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today.Yeah, but you’re proving my point. They are able to be more selective. If you’re a high value man there are hot girls single and interested everywhere. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today.I don’t think that’s true. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 26 | Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today.Maybe I’m in the minority in this sub, but getting a girl to cheat on her boyfriend is not an accomplishment. There are plenty of women out there. We don’t have to go around blowing up other dudes lives. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?We were in a musical together. If you wanna meet women (particularly freaky women) get involved in music or theatre. Fuckin easy breezy. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:50 PM |
| 7 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?Negging is bad advice. You can be playful without being outright insulting. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating a Model - TipsSounds fucking exhausting to me. Hope you have fun though bud. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Why am I rejected by lower SMV women than myself?You’ve gotta go after the girls YOU find attractive. I’m dating a girl that’s a little chubby and a bit older than me. I’m 6’ 2” and 200 pounds of lean muscle. I have a solid career with incredible benefits. I turn heads everywhere I go. Could I get the bleach blonde everybody else drops their jaws for? Yeah probably. Do I want that? No. I want the woman I have now because I find her insanely attractive and we match on a fundamental level through our personalities. Don’t worry about what other p… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanFair point | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 08:22 PM |
| 9 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanSame. Dated women significantly younger and a few older. Currently dating a woman 10 years older than me and it’s the best I’ve ever had. Age is whatever, but I do find guys over 40 dating girls under 25 to be a bit creepy… | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 8 | how do you respond to a girl saying "I like my men black"Sure. If you find yourself in that specific scenario, go nuts. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 21 | how do you respond to a girl saying "I like my men black"Different strokes I guess. I wouldn’t want someone that flirts that way. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 56 | how do you respond to a girl saying "I like my men black"Well, are you black? If not, don’t chase women that aren’t attracted to you. Waste of time. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl rejected me at party because she said I wasn't big enough for herWell yeah, I understand that, but that’s not really up to you. Don’t ruin your chances with someone else for the night by pushing the issue with her. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Girl rejected me at party because she said I wasn't big enough for herNothing. You’re not changing her mind, so it’s not worth risking looking like an ass in front of the rest of the party. Be cool, say “suit yourself” and walk away. Don’t waste energy on girls that aren’t interested. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?You just need to be okay with failure and (this is the most important bit) take it gracefully and leave her alone if she rejects you. It sucks to get rejected, but if you do you leave with the same amount of numbers you had before. If she accepts, then yeehaw! | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Making out with a girl on a clubOf course they don’t all do that. It’s possible she was just feeling daring, but who knows? She might want to meet for another night out? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Making out with a girl on a clubShoot your shot! If she says she’s uninterested you haven’t lost anything. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hate is a strong word… she may just be trying to keep things professional after what she thought was harmless flirting | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Getting stares at the gymSecond girl- wait until you catch her staring, then find a way to get to her vicinity organically and strike up conversation. Third girl- leave her the fuck alone. She’s not interested in meeting guys at the gym and is just there to workout. You are only going to make yourself look like an asshole if you approach her. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Am I overthinking?Yep, that’s the move. “Hey, I forgot to touch base with you yesterday. Still on for coffee and study tomorrow or am I hitting these books alone?” | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Am I overthinking?Play it cool, try not to stress, and get to class on time tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Get involved in an activity. Maybe a community theatre play or musical. Maybe an art class. Maybe a community basketball or volleyball league. You’ll get the opportunity to meet new people and gain experience in a skill worth having at the same time. Flirt, but don’t lay it on too thick. You definitely don’t want to become the creepy guy in these settings. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | First ever date. Help!Whoops. That’s my Midwest coming out. If it’s reasonable to go to the door then do. I still think if she lives with her folks it’d be in good taste to greet her at the door. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | First ever date. Help!Sorry, got busy. Dreameater has it right. Just be respectful and warm. A smile is good. If dad tries to give you some “cleaning his shotgun” bullshit, let it slide off. Just be relaxed and pleasant. They may invite you in if she’s not ready to go or just because they want to get a better sense of you. Make the small talk, compliment the house, pet any animals that try to engage with you, etc. ya know, just normal human behavior. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | First ever date. Help!I would put both arms out for full frontal hug, but if she tries to make it a side hug be ready to adapt. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | First ever date. Help!You’re picking her up and dropping her off? I would say that she is expecting it to be a date based on that alone. Definitely tell her she looks nice, but don’t over do it. A general, you look great! Followed by a more specific I like your shoes or earrings or something about her outfit. Flowers aren’t a bad thing necessarily, but the reception to them really depends on the woman. If you’re not confident that would be something she would like I’d skip it. I would go for a hug when you pick her u… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Need some tips..The following thing seems creepy to me... | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Been seeing single mother for language exchange, lots of IOIs but hitting a barrier... Not sure what to do nextNo advice to give just came to say, “ahh... dating an older woman. It’s life changing.” | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 04:14 PM |
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